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Shocking Trend: Some Women “Dry” Their Privates with Bleach to Increase Pleasure for Men

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Some women in Central Africa, South Africa, and Indonesia go through harmful practices to “dry” their vaginas because of a cultural belief that doing so increases the sexual pleasure of men they sleep with.

According to Daily Mail, these women insert materials like sand, chalk, pulverized rock, herbs, sponges, or paper before sexual intercourse. In addition, they douse their privates in bleach, alcohol, detergents, antiseptics. Women in Java, Indonesia are said to “smoke out” their privates, by standing over burning herbs.

In addition to the belief that the practice will give men pleasure, it is also believed that the dryness will make the vagina firmer, as men are thought to reject women whose privates have been “stretched out” due to sex.

However, drying makes intercourse extremely painful for the females, and can lead to cuts, sores and inflammation in the vagina, and increases the likelihood of condoms breaking. This in turn puts the women at a higher risk for contracting HIV.
Speaking on the practice, a South African doctor named Marlene Wa​sserman, says:

“It’s definitely a class issue. Basically, a woman’s reputation depends on the size of her vagina. Among women who are less informed and less educated, there’s an unbelievable ignorance around the idea the vagina adapts to the penis.

There is also an incorrect cultural belief that if a woman has a partner with a large penis, her vagina will remain permanently ‘stretched’ – and future partners will think she is promiscuous.”

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48 Comments

  1. marlee

    December 8, 2014 at 6:06 pm

    Stupid stupid stupid. I love myself too much to focus only on pleasing a man. He must please me and make me feel good without the pain. The wet pussy is the best. Woman should know that oh

  2. Shalewa

    December 8, 2014 at 6:11 pm

    I was born & raised in South Africa, I have never had of this practice in the 24 years of my life.

    Anyway, this is sad, don’t this women care about their health?

    • mona

      December 8, 2014 at 7:25 pm

      I am also from SA, I am 38 years and have never heard of such rubbish…..

    • BN lover

      December 8, 2014 at 9:25 pm

      Shey na d wahala wey we d face be dis…….doing everything to please the men folk….even risking ur own life. God abeg help us oh!

    • Dante

      December 9, 2014 at 5:36 am

      God will, though it’s foolishness…

  3. zara

    December 8, 2014 at 6:12 pm

    WHAT?

  4. Drknite

    December 8, 2014 at 6:14 pm

    I’m amazed by the crazy things people do to pleases others. By the way, I like it wet and without sand please.

  5. bruno

    December 8, 2014 at 6:17 pm

    my god, what the hell did I just read. how do I get these images (sand and chalk inside a woman’s privates) out of my head.

    why do women do extreme things all in the name of pleasing men? its pathetic.

    • The K

      December 9, 2014 at 3:31 pm

      You have a “god” afterall…..#JustThinkingAloud

  6. ecneica

    December 8, 2014 at 6:18 pm

    This is insane,short of words

  7. Tunde J

    December 8, 2014 at 6:25 pm

    THERE IS OFFICIALLY NOTHING I WOULDN’T HEAR/READ

  8. Fols

    December 8, 2014 at 6:26 pm

    Lies of the devil to make women suffer more and hurt themselves. I can’t understand it any other way.

  9. Disguised

    December 8, 2014 at 6:37 pm

    Story!!!

  10. addy

    December 8, 2014 at 6:48 pm

    Jamicans do this too it a worldwide issue!!! Sad that ppl go to extreme for this sort of things,it harmful and can cause disease amongst other issue’s. Their are other medthods that are more safe .

    • IRA

      December 9, 2014 at 10:44 am

      other methods such as?

  11. girlie

    December 8, 2014 at 6:52 pm

    ewwwwwww

  12. Nkay

    December 8, 2014 at 7:09 pm

    Bizarre….i have heard of women putting alum in their vaginas tighten it post partum….not sure if this is an archaic practice or more common, tho

    • Jennifer

      December 8, 2014 at 11:55 pm

      I’ve heard that too. But for people that have given birth. I know I’ve heard that in high school.

    • oj

      December 9, 2014 at 5:15 pm

      I heard they put alum in their vaginas to tighten it to deceive a man that they are still virgins.

  13. omoibo

    December 8, 2014 at 7:15 pm

    Hia! This na serious otu ocha matters, see wetin ignorance dey cause… The sad thing is when the otu is too tight sef it’s not even pleasurable..

  14. Olu

    December 8, 2014 at 7:17 pm

    Are ‘we’ still going to find a way to blame the guys for this?

    • Carliforniabawlar

      December 9, 2014 at 12:46 am

      Nah mehn! Shebi i remember reading somewhere back in the day, that some guys have sex with cows for longer penises or even drink all sorts of concoction (including cow urine) to enhance performance….my dear…as una no blame us, we sef no blame you…stupid is just as stupid does nooni….

  15. zee

    December 8, 2014 at 7:20 pm

    Cancer things loading……….

  16. ade

    December 8, 2014 at 7:41 pm

    obo wey no dey commot water no dey sweet na….oga ooooo

  17. Adeola

    December 8, 2014 at 7:50 pm

    This is ridiculous! It is a sign of low self esteem,.

  18. Cocobutter

    December 8, 2014 at 8:43 pm

    I am in shock, why do we women put themselves through all kinds of torture, just to please men? There is God o!!

  19. Lara

    December 8, 2014 at 8:47 pm

    Everyday you get to hear strange things, bleach were jeez, God help us

  20. Mystique

    December 8, 2014 at 9:19 pm

    How is that even possible……… my goodness. e neva reach like dat na

  21. AtL's finest

    December 8, 2014 at 9:22 pm

    WHF???????? There’s nothing I wouldn’t hear.. I heard lime, Aloum(which ever way it’s spelt) now it’s bleach???? Ok ooooo that man u are doing all of this for must have a golden manhood with bill signs on them.. RIDIC… Let me know when y’all start having complications. I’do be of help giving advice.

  22. xtsy

    December 8, 2014 at 9:22 pm

    when will females begin to realise that using their brains will onthe long run be more beneficial to using their vj’s? let’s see what the future holds wrt vulval/vaginal cancer rates in these countries.

  23. Lamlam

    December 8, 2014 at 10:19 pm

    EWOOOO!!! Bet y na this is just wrong gaskiya!

  24. confused

    December 8, 2014 at 10:55 pm

    1) Is that a man in the pic?
    Personally I like it wet…jusayin

  25. Sweetloisy

    December 8, 2014 at 11:26 pm

    Seriously!!!!!! Why will women go through these pains for men? God have mercy. Such ignorance.

  26. Wabbit

    December 8, 2014 at 11:38 pm

    Some women are just so stupid. Cancer and other diseases await women who practices such primitive beliefs.

  27. www.africanstorytellers.blogspot.com

    December 9, 2014 at 1:19 am

    Sand, sand for inside garri wey i wan chop? Hhhhm…things are ;happun’ o

  28. Wifey

    December 9, 2014 at 2:40 am

    Kegel is a woman’s friend

  29. chichi

    December 9, 2014 at 3:07 am

    Chukwuna!!! Odiegwu o. I have heard it all!!

  30. Halia

    December 9, 2014 at 4:23 am

    And that’s how you get a manmade yeast infection or disease folks…literally #yuck!

  31. jummai

    December 9, 2014 at 7:20 am

    God forbid, to what end?

  32. SOLO ACT

    December 9, 2014 at 7:47 am

    if you dry out your vaj u deserve to get BURNS and SCAPES! lol

  33. Gertrude

    December 9, 2014 at 8:18 am

    No waaaay…outta my head!

  34. Duru John de Beloved

    December 9, 2014 at 10:14 am

    hahahahahahahahahahaha Now this is sick..

  35. Vixen

    December 9, 2014 at 10:23 am

    THE WRITER OF THIS ARTICLE MADE A MISTAKE, IT SAID SOUTHERN AFRICA (SADAC) IN THE DAILY MAIL NOT SPECIFICALLY South Africa like you mentioned because we don’t even know anything of this. Please read well next time and stop this thing of always thriving in the bad you think South African women we are. Like Tayo BB Said: Africa we not united.

  36. Yehni Djidji

    December 9, 2014 at 10:57 am

    Incredible ! How can women stoop so low and put there own health at risk in the name of another one pleasure ? This World we are living in is just crazy !

  37. Ify

    December 9, 2014 at 11:00 am

    You can ‘dry” your vagina all you want, cook it and add spices too,if a man wants to leave you,nothing is gonna stop him.

    • realshhhh

      July 31, 2015 at 2:53 pm

      Abi oooo….that’s the real truth!

  38. Yinka

    December 9, 2014 at 6:47 pm

    Women please love yourselves. Teach our girls to love themselves, no man is worth this nonsense. OMG

  39. Funmi

    December 12, 2014 at 2:23 pm

    This is damn awkward! Well there are some good soaps made for washing vagina. These soaps were made to clean and tighten the vagina.

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