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Ariyike Akinbobola Shares the Real-Life Story of a Sexually Abusive Father on this Week’s Vlog | Watch

Adesola Ade-Unuigbe

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Ariyike Akinbobola is out with her vlog of the week and the topic up for discussion is ‘The Sexually Abusive Father’.

In it the media personality shares a story sent to her about a father who got his own daughter pregnant.

She states that ‘The father – daughter relationship is one of the most important relationships in a girl’s life. A father’s role in his daughter’s life plays a unique part in the development of a girl’s self-esteem, social life and general behaviour.

She ends by asking what should be done to such a man.

Watch her vlog of the week below.

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5 Comments

  1. Marilyn

    September 11, 2015 at 12:00 pm

    The video does not portray the outrage which such a heinous crime should generate. Would have made a lot more sense, if she said what the victim should do and what authorities the criminals should be reported to. Kudos, for throwing the spot light on the issue but…it is a lot more important than recounting the stories she did and telling us story sha! We don hear story taya, Give us victim support organisations, etc. Do some research before a v-log which deals with such an important topic and give us RELEVANT info. Well done!

    • eyantoperson

      September 11, 2015 at 3:00 pm

      but she said people can reach out to her na. she left her email address. she offered to link them up with people. she asked them to go online for help. allow the babe!!! Welldone ariyike ojare.

    • Tbuzz

      September 12, 2015 at 9:37 pm

      o please…go and sleep, very easy for you to say.

  2. Tbuzz

    September 12, 2015 at 9:36 pm

    Ariyike, this is a dumb video and I expected so much more from an intelligent woman. Where is the insight on the issue? sounds like just ‘gist’ to me. What are you telling us that we don’t know?? Any insight on the true mental state of a man who does this? i.e peadophilia, sexual deviances etc (this is not just a bad person, its a mentally unstable person), any insight on statistics of cases like this both globally and in Nigerian? Any examples of organisations that can protect victims? (you mention you can ‘find online’, how about you share some examples! I doubt any victim will write to you after such a flippant video), any insight on signs parents should look out for? DO SOME RESEARCH BEFORE YOU VLOG. Sounds like you are simply trying to get views-“share stories of men who you know have done this before” and what happens after that?? Whats the point? who doesn’t know this happens? Take it up a notch, try to understand why it happens, how people can prevent this from happening and where help can be found. I’m saying take some time to understand the issue before vlogging about anything that comes to your head and catches headlines. Incest is a serious issue and nothing you’ve said here highlights that.

  3. Tbuzz

    September 12, 2015 at 9:39 pm

    It should also have been highlighted that sexual abuse from mothers also exist not just fathers.

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