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Socialite and psychologist Joro Olumofin took to social media today to apologize to women over his choice of words following his outburst on Instagram yesterday.

He wrote:

With reference to my recent outburst on instagram, the feedback I got from my readers (largely women) is that my choice of a few words were offensive and very much unlike me. For this I apologize- I am sorry.

I seize this opportunity to thank the numerous people from far and wide who via phone calls, emails and personal visits expressed their sympathy for the unwarranted assault on my person.

Thank you all for your support, encouragement and pledge of allegiance for the future.

God Bless

He has also since deleted all his posts.

201 Comments

  1. Olofofo

    January 27, 2016 at 1:40 pm

    Who is that on his shirt now? Another party crasher or what?

    • Fyfi Salty

      January 27, 2016 at 1:51 pm

      The she goat himself dressed as a woman a while ago….hehehe

    • kadara

      January 27, 2016 at 3:54 pm

      He needs to just shut up. The words he used are a reflection of his lack of respect for women. This half baked “apology” is just as pathetic as he and his brother are. He has used his hands to ruin his business since no woman with a brain will turn to this chauvinistic pig for relationship advice and i would certainly not want my man getting any advice from him . His so called apology is full of arrogance and the Mumu even has the audacity to try and play the victim. Clearly these guys are attention seekers, the thirst is evident. See him looking like a Gorilla and he dared call someone ugly hiss. Abeg crawl back into whatever hole you and your disgusting brother crawled out from.

    • Bola

      January 27, 2016 at 5:52 pm

      I don’t think our women owned businesses are supportive of women enough. Mrs Pedro should have boycotted this misogynistic person should and so should Linda Ikeji. Stop feeding into his manipulative social climbing ways. Any educated Nigerian that still follows him on social media needs to check if their education is worth anything. Most of his followers are miscreants like himself.

    • Lagos is my home

      January 27, 2016 at 2:04 pm

      Halfed backed apology and playing the victim card …have several seats .

      He clearly is not wise to know that u have to be careful what u put out there blc once its on the internet . It stays there for a long time
      Imagine wanting to do business and a quick google search of his name brings up so gutter words . ….hummm wise and uncultured, no hope then

    • Bola

      January 27, 2016 at 4:18 pm

      @Bella Naija, if you guys ever post any articles by this guy we will stage a walk out and i know many women here will join me. This brothers are ratchet pigs and this one that calls himself a Phycologist is annoying. Dude you are so pathetic that in order to insult a woman you had to talk about her vagina, rape , singleness and other such things that men like you that have zero respect for women think its okay to throw at women. For those saying he has a right to defend himself, fine so he should have told us if she’s a party crasher too. How does party crashing get to small clit? Did Gbemi talk about his tiny penis? Why talking about Rape, did Gbemi talk about the fact that one of them has been accused of rape even here on Bella Naija? If he was fighting with a man would he have mentioned singleness? would he be saying where’s your girlfriend? That shows they are clearly very sexist. Someone like him has no business talking about relationships except as the example of men women should avoid. He and his brother are so desperate for attention its said, the goats were even tagging blogs. That’s how proud they were of their rabid attacks and now trying to give a stupid half-assed apology! Very unattractive goats, women

    • jmanager

      January 27, 2016 at 2:20 pm

      Bella i know you will soon take this post down..The bashing on the guy will be plenty blc the apology reeks of arrogance.
      I am still so disgusted by his write up and glorifying rape. Who insults someone with rape : only a classless idiot with no sensitivity to others. The apology doesnt even cut it.

    • Chi

      January 27, 2016 at 3:53 pm

      Yes they have ZERO respect for women. Using rape as a flippant insult on a woman. Rape!!! I ve seen their true colours from afar and no amount of Apology will make me interact with their calibre of people

      The so called politician has a wife and a young daughter. I can bet my Hyundai that he doesn’t treat her well. Let her prove me wrong. I can smell these type of men a mile away.

    • word

      January 27, 2016 at 4:21 pm

      @Joro, come back with this apology after u apologise to Gbemi for those weighty remarks. When u r done with her, then we will hear u. People were calling, visiting with sympathy plus offering condolences becos who died? This guy is concrete proof that not everybody who looks on fleek is ”psychologically” ok. My friend, go and do the needful then u can come and re-apologise. Oh and while he is at it, relatives and friends of Joro should pls keep their teenage and little daughters far from him cos the number of times he referred to Gbemi’s privates yesterday raises a big red flag (after going back to read his outburst, i advise that even ur sons may not be safe in his company).

    • linda not ikeji sha

      January 27, 2016 at 5:39 pm

      They wanted to be famous so BADLY …… that they were tagging all the bloggers like jobless attention seeker and offcourse it was noticed. Now the backlash and heat is too much because they have exposed themselves as lowlifes , now INSTAGRAM IS PRIVATE …..
      shm … Just look at they , SOCIALITES ….
      hahhahahah JOKER JOKERS. , its the wife i sorry for , only God knows what she goes through behind closed doors if they can spew such

    • ATL's finest

      January 28, 2016 at 5:38 am

      Lmao!! Ur name tho smh.

    • Kenechukwu

      January 27, 2016 at 6:30 pm

      This is the problem with apologizing for your actions. They make you look weak. They give your opponents another pedestal to stand on to bash in your head. Whatever has been said has been said. The egg has cracked. Those who hate him will continue to hate and ignore his apology. Those who supported him will be pissed

    • Otony

      January 27, 2016 at 7:00 pm

      LOL…Nigeria my country. So everyone now attacks the dude. I see. He messed up with his comments but we won’t be here if the Gbemi lady learnt to mind her biz. So lets not make the guy the devil and treat Gbemi like an angel. They both messed up

    • Anti Tony

      January 28, 2016 at 12:43 am

      He won’t be here if he had some self-respect!

    • The Mine

      January 27, 2016 at 7:17 pm

      WALAHI TALAHI!
      if Joro & Dokun attend Toolz wedding then they are bastards!
      I am sure they did not have any conversation with any Tunde.
      Pls i volunteer to pay them their 50K back!
      Shame O!
      Shior!

    • DAME

      January 28, 2016 at 9:01 am

      @The Mine walahi i am with you, i am patiently waiting for Sat to come…if they attend the wedding or Ebuka’s own…surely they have no shame, no iota or cup of shame left in their bodies…i wait….PATIENTLY

    • fleur

      January 28, 2016 at 4:13 am

      Weird but when I read his description of gbemi as cobwebby down there, I thought that was an unintended compliment. She is not married and has no boyfriend so it should be cobwebby and that is a rarity in these times. That is a good thing. The opposite is the place is a highway. I can’t feel sorry for him but I am having a hard time feeling sorry for Gbemi. Arrogance and an unusual affinity for social standing, assumed or otherwise, drove both of them to find each other in the gutter.

  2. beauty

    January 27, 2016 at 1:40 pm

    “expressed their sympathy for the unwarranted assault on my person” looooool did someone die that sympathy is being expressed… btw, I still feel that the olumofin brothers have a ruthless attitude to women, apology or not.

  3. FasholasLover

    January 27, 2016 at 1:41 pm

    Next time, think twice before your itchy fingers take over. Although shaa Gbemi came to war with a water gun

  4. Sweetchy

    January 27, 2016 at 1:41 pm

    Good for him.
    Always check your words before spilling cos words can’t be taken back once spilled. Obviously, he regrets every word said during the drama.
    He has shown the world who he truly is.

  5. Nne

    January 27, 2016 at 1:44 pm

    Gerraway

  6. Green

    January 27, 2016 at 1:44 pm

    After spewing obscenities , you are now apologizing. How about just biting your tongue when next you want to talk to avoid needless apologies? Akuko ifo!

  7. Tea

    January 27, 2016 at 1:45 pm

    Too F-ing late, we know what you are truly like

  8. Fyfi Salty

    January 27, 2016 at 1:45 pm

    Arrogant human being, you see your life??….you’ve only just realised the value of a woman? – your career is finished!!!???…Too late dude!!!

  9. KKKK

    January 27, 2016 at 1:46 pm

    Your opinion of the Olumofin brothers really doesn’t matter. He has apologized to those he felt were insulted by his rants. Whether you like him or not is inconsequential. y’all should take several seats. \____________________________

    • Chi

      January 27, 2016 at 3:58 pm

      Gerrrarrahere!!!!!

      Those he felt were insulted? You and your brother should have several seats ???because using rape and other sexual expletives to insult a woman should be something no one should have to tell you to correct. Your brain and your intelligence (if any) should tell you to correct it before decent people point it out to you

    • kuku

      January 27, 2016 at 4:01 pm

      Lol…HIS BRAND will take several seats too! Dude ruined his brand by himself thats the saddest part….JEROME HOW COULD YOU??????

      JEROME YOU NAILED YOUR BRAND YESTERDAY…..How on earth will the brand ever resurrect again? You seriously NEED anger management classes in 1 hr of rage you nailed ALL YOU EVER WORKED FOR!

    • traffic

      January 27, 2016 at 9:17 pm

      Loooool. Jerome, you done mess up big time. You need anger management classes. Better yet, contact Likemynds your mentors in the psychology game to sort your peanut brain out. You don’t kill a fly with a sledgehammer. I really hope he learns a lot from this incident

    • Swish

      January 27, 2016 at 5:44 pm

      Joro, we have seen you. Shior

    • The Bull

      January 27, 2016 at 6:47 pm

      it doesn’t matter because they do nothing anyway, not liked they’ll get fired from a job or run a business. Sadly there are many jobless men like this with all sorts of titles.

  10. hm

    January 27, 2016 at 1:48 pm

    *Singing*. It’s too late to apologise, it’s too late….
    You should know it’s social media, it’s out dere already even if u delete d posts. One day, it would come back to bite u, always control ur tongue and hands in dis case when u r angry, never take actions when angry, u’ll most likely to regret it. Wait! u r d doc rite? Phew! What a joke

  11. Bleh

    January 27, 2016 at 1:49 pm

    Bellanaija honestly i don’t know how this is news. Joro is a nonentity and you stay encouraging his bullshit, I don’t know how he is a socialite. What is that honestly. Despite the fact the he showed his true self, you’ll still post his crappy relationship advices on your blog. I know it’s good to stay relevant, but i totally preferred it when you guys didn’t put up crap like this on the site. Is this a gossip blog or a what.

  12. Grace

    January 27, 2016 at 1:51 pm

    “I seize this opportunity to thank the numerous people from far and wide who via phone calls, emails and personal visits expressed their sympathy for the unwarranted assault on my person.” Excuse me assault on your person? This guy must be a big moron.

    Like i care sef.

  13. shady

    January 27, 2016 at 1:53 pm

    Oh please tell it to d gods. If ur sister or mother rub u off the wrong way would u have spoken to them like that. If u turn up at that wedding without an invitation u will see. U just try show face.

    SIGNED
    Gbemi (owo princess )

  14. freemind

    January 27, 2016 at 1:54 pm

    You did well by apologising after your rants. No one is above mistake . Because you are a socialite, i understand that you and your brother have to defend yourself . And honestly, it is best you be yourself about it , which you’ve done (at least some people will watch their mouth before saying thrash on social media).Your apology is highly accepted.
    iponrimarket.com

    • word

      January 27, 2016 at 3:10 pm

      C’mon kip kwayet!

    • James A

      January 27, 2016 at 3:16 pm

      Because you are a SOCIALITE ……………….Bhahahahahhahaha abeg no kill me with laugh
      what did you say again
      SOCIALITE
      SOCIALITE
      hahahahahah
      Funniest shit I have heard in a long time .

    • Dee

      January 27, 2016 at 3:43 pm

      Your name is freemind abi?

      Meaning your mind is free of sensible thoughts? Receive sense in that free mind of yours.

    • YesIsaidit

      January 27, 2016 at 5:37 pm

      Oh SHUT UP!!! Crawl back hole you slithered out of. What a loser, who has accepted the apology and whose spokeman(woman) are you anyway?

  15. Elizabeth

    January 27, 2016 at 1:57 pm

    Is this guy kidding? Seriously? Right about now, you should be under investigation. You chose to use social media to vehement inhuman words on another human being such as “were you raped as a child? and is your clitorus so tiny you can’t feel a sensation?’ this is clear abuse’

    You need to be assessed for questioning, in case some of the words you narrated you may also have taken part in the past. Additionally you failed to apologise to the lady in question, who you directly made those cannibalistic remarks to . I am also perplexed to the conclusion that they were ‘unlike you’ seeming as you and your brother narrated eight different instagram posts on this issue, Each post full of disgusting words. I notice from the ‘sorry’ apology you have missed out on the reality that your comments were beyond ‘having a bad day’ and very much about the ideology that (some) Men in the Nigerian culture have been raised to think the abuse of Nigerian women is warranted based on ‘she deserved it’. The abuse continues both verbally and physically.
    This abuse is not funny it is reality. It is at the heart of Many(not all) Nigerian men who are fuelling our society. It should also be a wake up call for all parents. We must raise our son’s right, We must educate their minds on how they perceive women. The words uttered by these men are disgusting. In some countries they would have been put in jail and even prisoned. We must raise our men to be better. Why should rape and sexual status be used to make an argument?

    • omotola

      January 27, 2016 at 2:10 pm

      Pls shut up if you don’t know what to say. He apologized that enough. Gbemi started the drama so why on earth you criticism him for standing up for himself. Yes he used strong words anyone can do that when we are upset. I beg pack well to your nonsense talk

    • dss

      January 27, 2016 at 3:03 pm

      @omotola
      Wrong civilised people never speak to anyone like that. Be it a man, woman or enemy.
      SO WHY DONT YOU SHUT UP INSTEAD

    • aaewhy

      January 27, 2016 at 3:35 pm

      @omotola please keep quiet did gbemi call his name which kind of dirty assault and this half hearted apology is not accepted

    • shady

      January 27, 2016 at 3:38 pm

      @omotola shut ur mouth. @Elizabeth has spoken so be quiet. His mother or sister can tell him to stop attending parry without been invited. Would he respond to them like he did to gbemi.

    • Busie

      January 27, 2016 at 8:46 pm

      Omotola, it’s women like you (if you are indeed female though I doubt it) who connive with men to make sure that we’re never considered true human beings; more like property or sub class species. And you will have daughters. What if he’d said all that about Your daughter?
      Go get some exposure and learn .some grammar while you’re at it.

    • Amh

      January 27, 2016 at 2:50 pm

      Get lost with your dumb comments -. You are clearly.a teen. Juvy.

    • Babym

      January 27, 2016 at 2:57 pm

      May ur days be long!! Very well said, u just echoed my thoughts

    • Sandra

      January 27, 2016 at 6:20 pm

      YES YES YES YES This is spot on.

  16. Temi

    January 27, 2016 at 2:00 pm

    I don’t live in Naija so I don’t who these guys are anyways. However, one of them refers to himself as a psychologist. That’s the part that cracked me up. I want to see his degree. Where is his Alma Mata? Sounds like this quack needs to slow down on the chronic.

  17. Ohio

    January 27, 2016 at 2:03 pm

    So he had to get feedback from “women” before he realized that his outburst was vulgar, classless and offensive? He is only remorseful because of “feedback he got” meaning “ah you people want me to say sorry, ok now, sorry”. This sorry excuse of an apology says even more about his person. Rubbish. Keep your dirty apology to yourself.

  18. Koko

    January 27, 2016 at 2:06 pm

    Awon “unwarranted assault on his person”. Sorry oh Mr. Victim.

  19. Dammy

    January 27, 2016 at 2:07 pm

    @Elizabeth Gbam! Rightly said.

  20. Jenwi

    January 27, 2016 at 2:11 pm

    It’s okay. To err is human, and to forgive is divine.
    Wondering why you babes are not scolding Aunty Elenu Razor that went to look for trouble with a torchlight!
    Call a spade a spade and not an agricultural instrument. abeg!

    • aaewhy

      January 27, 2016 at 3:39 pm

      Abeg abeg gbemi didn’t lie and she was throwing shade why did he catch it at least toolz confirmed it .struggle to show up at every celebrity wedding ,socialite my foot

    • Ewa

      January 27, 2016 at 3:51 pm

      But it is an agricultural instrument.

    • Joyce

      January 27, 2016 at 7:55 pm

      Exactly o. What is Gbemi’s business with party crashers? Did anyone crash her party? She and Toolz had an amebo conversation and she was quick to run to twitter to do a shout out. Who behaves like that? Please ladies, if you don’t want insults, don’t look for trouble. It’s SIMPLE. I don’t support some of the words used by the guys but if Gbemi kept their amebo conversation to herself, there would be no need for all these comments. Let’s learn to mind our business. She isn’t the bride neither is she the groom’s sister so I don’t see what her business is.

    • PD Young Billionaire

      January 28, 2016 at 5:37 am

      Hope Toolz has learnt her lesson.She needs to be careful with gbeborun friends like Gbemi.

  21. Iris

    January 27, 2016 at 2:13 pm

    First of all it took feedback from women to know that what he did was wrong? Secondly, ‘my choice of a few words…’ Which kain ‘few’? After that bible of obscenities he and his brother wrote, plus Instagram video on top? Gerrarrahere. This guy has all the makings of an emotional abuser. Sadly he was the one to open his own nyash.

    • Chi

      January 27, 2016 at 4:02 pm

      Bible of obscenities??
      He has indeed exposed the evil in his heart

  22. Noms

    January 27, 2016 at 2:24 pm

    “With reference to my recent outburst on instagram, the feedback I got from my readers (largely women) is that my choice of a few words were offensive and very much unlike me” For this I apologize- I am sorry.
    So personally, you don’t think “a few words of yours”were offensive? The feedback…you were expecting a standing ovation…

    I seize this opportunity to thank the numerous people from far and wide who via phone calls, emails and personal visits expressed their sympathy for the unwarranted assault on my person.(Awon social climbers,indeed)

    Thank you all for your support, encouragement and pledge of allegiance for the future. (Encouragement???future??)Just like you referred to your great grand father being ….. your great grand children will be very proud of you for this outburst and apology of yours.
    Clap for yasef.
    “out of the abundance of the heart,the mouth speaks” ever heard of this quote? Na Bible e dey sha
    BN, I count 1-10 or 15 before posting comments now. lol

  23. Tolu

    January 27, 2016 at 2:25 pm

    Goat

  24. Ewa

    January 27, 2016 at 2:28 pm

    Oh Please!!!!!!

  25. D

    January 27, 2016 at 2:29 pm

    Sadly, Joro, you have already shown yourself for the uncouth, misogynistic, crass, petty and verbally abusive individual you are. It was a lot more than just a ‘choice of a few words’. A lot more.

  26. sonique

    January 27, 2016 at 2:31 pm

    Let”s get real here people… the only offense he did commit was his choice of words especially as he is a self proclaimed psychologist but the fact that she got dragged for indirect statements, which by all means is non of her business is exactly what should have been done… if she had started the beef directly, there would have been some form of justification but throwing shades is just plain childish especially if you are trying to be humorous using defamatory statements…people should learn to chill and mind their business.

    • Iris

      January 27, 2016 at 3:32 pm

      I don’t think anyone is disputing your logic. It was such a big deal because of how offensive his words were, not because he clapped back.

    • Ross

      January 27, 2016 at 7:40 pm

      Thank you oh, please tell Monique. Rubbish. Telling a woman her behaviour is probably due to her being raped as a child. REALLY???? JORO REALLY????

    • Layo

      January 27, 2016 at 3:53 pm

      And people should learn how NOT to use an AK47 to kill a mosquito.

      Choice of words was not his only offence, he was downright over-the-top!!! How many posts directed at this one issue? How many paragraphs? How many otherwise productive man-hours lost? One tweet, okay maybe 2 would have sufficed. But nooooooo, he had to go gung-ho like a roaring lion seeking for whom to devour.
      Too much time on his hands I’m guessing….

  27. M&

    January 27, 2016 at 2:32 pm

    Thank you! I was wondering exactly the same thing the whole time I was reading all that stuff. I would have expected some ‘psychological response’ (I mean more controlled or so’n). Hmm…Doctor, heal thyself!!!

  28. Yvie

    January 27, 2016 at 2:32 pm

    Bellanaija please stop posting his useless relationship advice and 100 ways to win a man sh*t on your blog cos you gonna loose many readers or followers of your blog.
    This man has no respect for womanhood, he seems like a potential woman abuser or rapist from his rant yesterday.
    He lacks manners and I so detest him right now.

  29. jide

    January 27, 2016 at 2:32 pm

    Oshi ati iranu. I’m still waiting for the dumb bell that will publicly claim this arsewipe as his bae or boo.

  30. opeyemi

    January 27, 2016 at 2:34 pm

    whatever it z ur name z we don’t need ur apology or are we d lady u abused and let me put this to u I thought u re a psychologist BT u re a disgrace in ur field of work upon ur bsc and MSC mtchewwwwww

    • Flipping heck!

      January 27, 2016 at 3:56 pm

      Opeyemi, are you 7 years old?
      Because that’s the only excuse you can have for typing in this nonsense text-speak.

    • Chi

      January 27, 2016 at 4:05 pm

      I don’t believe that BSc or MSc either. Probably fake or stolen.

    • o

      January 27, 2016 at 8:55 pm

      buhahahahahahahaha….una no go kill person for here!!!

  31. AAA

    January 27, 2016 at 2:35 pm

    This guy is delusional! Assault on your person??? Really???
    Your professionalism as a pyscologist should be questioned.
    How would you cos someone referred to you on social media as a party crasher say all those deep stuff. ‘ was she raped as a child’ OMG! Is that supposed to be funny?
    May God forgive your sins and may he lead you on a right path. And hope all these go away very soon. Your words cut deep through the soul.
    With your profession you should know better. It is well with you Mr Joro.

    • otis

      January 27, 2016 at 4:10 pm

      How on earth would we take your future posts on abuse and relationships serious? Or would i send you my story and ask for advice. Hell Nay! Your response should have been wiser. You really messed up.

  32. GTFOTH

    January 27, 2016 at 2:36 pm

    Nigga GTFOTH….is that even an apology?the apology should say.
    I oJoro was a – and i do not know how to bridle my tongue,
    i apologise for spewing trash and acting like a*******(insert your own word) demon would.
    i apologies to Gbemi (who needs to apologize to “the two brothers”).
    apologize to us bella Nigerians for actually giving you attention in the first place.

    the above is an apology to yourself, what is the unwarranted assault on your person? lol please you need to chill on your person sho gbo and stop saying you are a psychologist please.

  33. RIFF RAFF

    January 27, 2016 at 2:36 pm

    APOLOGY OUTRIGHTLY REJECTED!
    SEE UNPRECEDENTED RIDICULE!!!
    Because of a party, guys?A party? Lagos has a party/wedding every week-end naah.
    Lasting shame unto you!!!!

    Yes,Gbemi may have brought it upon herself…… Depends on how u see it.

    Or maybe… TUNDE DIDN’T WANT U BUT U HARASSED HIM SO MUCH. TOOLZ WAS AFRAID TO SPEAK UP BUT GAVE GBEMI (who was indirectly backed by Cynthia) THE GREEN LIGHT… who knows?
    One question, though : Did Gbemi lie???
    Admit it: You came for Gbemi cos she was the weaker vessel. Toolz and Cynthia were backed by their men, that’s why u couldn’t dare it with them
    BEGGING AND HARRASSING FOR AN INVITE!!!! See disgrace!!!

    Abeg return that aso-ebi and sit in your house!!!! YOUR DISGRACEFUL SELVES ARE NOT WANTED IN THAT WEDDING!!!

    OUR SMALL BUT SMART IGBO SISTEH ADAEZE IKEOBODOZIE turned a N100,000 Business into a Multi million Naira Business, DENCIA dey hustle (i do not support bleashing abeg, it’s the fearless business acumen i admire),
    BUT THESE BEARDED 30 SOMETHING GUYS BE THROWING A FIT BECAUSE OF WHAT? A PARTY!

    Oga royalty, my father this, my grandfather that, FFK left, Rewane right. At least your ancestors did not make a name for themselves by crashing people’s parties….
    SEE YOURSELVES NOW!!!

    At least ,frog princess Gbemi has a job and hustles by the side selling clothes and shoes; she doesn’t go around shouting her ancestors’ accomplishments.
    Boys, you may have blasted the crap out of Gbemi but u equally shot yourselves in the foot

    Bella Naija whatever contract you have with Joro psycho, TERMINATE IT!!!!

    • RIFF RAFF

      January 27, 2016 at 3:05 pm

      NOISY GOATS!!!! MUFFINS, DO SOMETHING MORE PRODUCTIVE WITH YOUR LIVES. PARTY- CRASHING IS A NOT A WAY TO LIVE.
      Teacher: What does your dad do for a living?
      Olumofin Jnr: Mogbo Moya (then starts listing all his ancestors and their accomplishments)
      THAT IS YOUR OWN LEGACY, abi?
      Royalty, indeed.

    • kilipot

      January 27, 2016 at 11:34 pm

      It’s so obvious Tools doesn’t want them at her wedding. Tunde was just being diplomatic to give him aso-ebi so that he can rest lol. Thirst to be on BellaNaija weddings is real. Sha! We ll be here. If we see any picture of either of them kperen. Ati Dokun o ati Joro oh. We will drag you through the gutters and back.
      Just use the aso-ebi for bedsheet and forget about it.
      Sit in your house. Or throw a party for your ancestor so that people can come and eat your rice too. Oshisko.

    • Blackcoffee

      January 27, 2016 at 4:18 pm

      Triple Gbam… ???

    • mrs chidukane

      January 27, 2016 at 4:40 pm

      As in eh BN, whatever contract you have with them please terminate it. You have to shield your brand from people like this.

  34. Nwakaego

    January 27, 2016 at 2:38 pm

    hehehe……….. sympathizers far and near, personal visits, numerous phone calls………..say wetin happen se ofo se e ni, oloshiousfellow, reminds me of one idiot called Tokunbo, Yoruba boys feeling important since 19………, a mo iru yin, ebinna, una no dey get money,
    must logba lagidi
    must fagidid j’aiye,
    must gbadun lagidi,
    alakori oshi

    Abeg BN moderator post my comment, ti e o ni baje!!!

    • nwanyi na aga aga

      January 27, 2016 at 3:09 pm

      hahahahahahaha! Nne when I read that line I literary burst into laughter in my office..Chai! this is pure case of Grandiose delusion…. O di egwu…

    • mo

      January 27, 2016 at 3:24 pm

      Nwakaego.lol @ ti e o ni baje o

  35. californiabawlar

    January 27, 2016 at 2:39 pm

    So if ugly sexually frustrated molested Gbemi found a 83 year old man to wife her, will you attend the ceremony? take your time before you answer.
    #mogbomoyaismycareer

    Issuing apology…who cares? A butterfly that thinks itself a bird…

    • nwanyi na aga aga

      January 27, 2016 at 3:11 pm

      You need to qualify the old man…Remember if I beg to attend parties it must be the party of someone whose name ring an alarm….So what kind of old man are we talking about here?..looool!

  36. Fabulicious

    January 27, 2016 at 2:44 pm

    This is just like a case of someone who threw out feathers to the wind and later tries to catch them. Mr.Psychologist,have several seats.The deed has already been done. Its the women that will still fall for you that I have immense pity on.

  37. Tracy

    January 27, 2016 at 2:46 pm

    Three words: NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER

    From Mayo Clinic:
    “Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental disorder in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for admiration and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of ultra-confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that’s vulnerable to the slightest criticism.

    A narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school or financial affairs. You may be generally unhappy and disappointed when you’re not given the special favors or admiration you believe you deserve. Others may not enjoy being around you, and you may find your relationships unfulfilling.”

  38. Heeba

    January 27, 2016 at 2:47 pm

    Socialite ????please the way Bellanaija uses this word is becoming something else. Please go to the dictionary and find out what it means? Who dash this boys socialite.
    Abeg….let me hear word….. Seems they need a dose of psychology

  39. Hesey

    January 27, 2016 at 2:47 pm

    Elizabeth for President!!!!! You made too much sense!!!! We need more people like you. You hit the nail on the head

  40. kelechi

    January 27, 2016 at 2:51 pm

    Psychologist ko psych niiiii. Abeg gerout! I don’t even know who you are sef!

  41. O~Intuition!

    January 27, 2016 at 2:52 pm

    “… seize this opportunity to thank the numerous people from far and wide who via phone calls, emails and personal visits expressed their sympathy for the unwarranted assault on my person…”
    Working Diagnosis: Grandiose Delusion
    Follow-up: See Your Psychologist …More still, Psychiatrist.

  42. Fifi

    January 27, 2016 at 2:54 pm

    Im so sure they would still attend the wedding on Saturday shameless men, their mates are building empires these ones are struggling to be social climbers drinking free champagne and eating free food, as one proudly wrote” i dont go clubbing”

    • Chi

      January 27, 2016 at 4:10 pm

      Wedding is free food and drink

      Clubbing is hunger that will deal with you if no money to pop something

  43. Duffy

    January 27, 2016 at 2:59 pm

    Apology unaccepted. That statement you call “an apology” needs to be addressed to Gbemi whom you disrespected in such uncouth manner. Attack on your person? Pathetic much. Shame on your disrespectful ass. A so-called psychologist who psychologically abuses a woman
    …smdh

  44. Becca

    January 27, 2016 at 3:01 pm

    Bella,
    Let this be last post of his you ever put up on your site. He isn’t worthy of your platform or any platform after shown himself to be fraud and misogynist. Had he been in the UK and indeed practicing he would have been struck off for such derogatory remarks.

  45. Babym

    January 27, 2016 at 3:06 pm

    NO! APOLOGY NOT ACCEPTED!

  46. Ready

    January 27, 2016 at 3:08 pm

    “the unwarranted assault on my person”. What a f u c kboy.

    assault
    əˈsɔːlt,əˈsɒlt/
    make a physical attack on.
    synonyms: hit, strike, physically attack, aim blows at, slap, smack, beat, thrash, spank, thump, thwack, punch, cuff, swat, knock, rap; pummel, pound, batter, pelt, welt; cane, lash, whip, club, cudgel, box someone’s ears;
    rape, sexually assault, molest, interfere with

    Calling you a social climber is not an assault, Joro. You’re too old to cry victim, and your claim to being a psychologist deprives you of the ability to claim ignorance of the word. Aint nobody pledge future allegiance to your a s s. Fall off a cliff.

  47. Omotolani

    January 27, 2016 at 3:12 pm

    That he came out to apologize to other women who might have being offended by his actions should be enough for you all to see that it wasn’t in his true character to be that way .GBEMI tried to play Tingod because she was GBEMI of BEATFM and took jabs at his hustle and got roasted like a cockroach that strayed into a microwave.FINISH!!!

    The man defended his business the same way Gbemi came at him only he let her know he has a gallon of venom enough to poison her life forever . She is verified on twitter and should know her tweets shouldn’t be directed at tarnishing anyone business excerpt hers is threatened by the person ,besides…social media has a ruthless dick and anyone can get fucked.

    Most OAP’s hide behind the mic in a radio station and just say anything that comes of their tiny brain that lacks anything but what inspires them within the walls of the studio and the gossips read on the internet . You should know you have millions of intelligent people listening and just can do noting about it because you can talk back to your radio.

    So if anyone wants to bask in their ignorance and continue to be assholes just so you can read the reflection of your own shallow brains …knock yourself out .I’m sure there will be comments that will try to answer me in one way or the other…but that wont be a problem because only them will read it to themselves either as they type it or when they come back to check if it has posted…Same goes for them,knock yourself out. Just remember the guy still don’t give a rats shit about Gbemi…SHOUT OUT TO ALL OTHER ONDO BABES ALL OVER THE WORLD WITH BEAUTY AND BRAINS.

    • mo

      January 27, 2016 at 3:28 pm

      Omotolani isJoro’s boo.
      Joro is a he- goat
      Omotolani is a she – goat
      Omotolani is dumb
      Don’t be like both of them

    • Nwakaego

      January 27, 2016 at 3:38 pm

      Doktor “Alebere iku” Mofin……e kaa bo si ori eto yi #Sirweyrey

    • Asgrl

      January 27, 2016 at 6:13 pm

      dr alabere ???

    • aaewhy

      January 27, 2016 at 3:52 pm

      Joro its you abi or its your girlfriend I can see your brain is under your foot , yes gbemi threw unnecessary shade but that didn’t warrant your lover lashing out his destiny and he should take the crappy apology elsewhere maybe to gbemi shaaa

    • Flipping heck!

      January 27, 2016 at 4:00 pm

      Okay Joro (disguised as the gestapo Omotolani), we have heard you, to be honest we have heard you a bit too much over the last few days.

      Consider shutting it. Thank you Joro.

    • janet

      January 27, 2016 at 5:32 pm

      hahahhahaha at flipping heck
      no word spoken more wisely
      shut it guys. we seen your true colours
      hopefully we never see or hear from him again

    • kuku

      January 27, 2016 at 4:09 pm

      Nice to meet you Jerome aka Omotolani

    • Busie

      January 27, 2016 at 9:21 pm

      Wanna bet how this is really Quack Doc MO Gbo Mo Branch masquerading as Omotolani? I see his language patterns here – BUSTED!! LOL.

  48. Spaces

    January 27, 2016 at 3:28 pm

    Joro Olomofin that will be faking stories in his advice column so that he can dish out useless advices. Anyone that takes your advice is an idiot. He apologized so that he can still gate crash weddings in 2016 and beyond. We must be relevant by force.They want to keep sewing Agbada and doing mgbo mo branch till infinity. The idiot saying he is apologizing because of women. Sorry for urself no one needs ur apology. You are clearly a damaged person it’s you and your brother that needs help. Successful people are out there like zukerberg making waves and u are fighting because of party. Your issues run deep. The Jide alakija that called u a quack psychologist u didn’t go after its a gbemi u tried to drag. If it was not social media am sure you would have beat her and raped her as they said u always do.You truly are a quack. And to dokun riding on his fathers money and political cape. Sorry for u and ur wife. I know she is embarrassment to your family. You are an embarrassment Shows how u treat her at home and how u really feel about the people u claim to fend for in ur so called political campaign, borrow fathers recognition.

    • Chi

      January 27, 2016 at 4:59 pm

      You will live long.

  49. Funms

    January 27, 2016 at 3:31 pm

    Hmmm…….

    Its so easy for us all to comment on this situation because it didn’t happen to any of us directly on a bad day.

    Mr. Psychologist whats going on with you? I know the hustle is real in Lagos and you’re clearly looking for how to “hit” but you should find a different way to deal with your frustrations. Your responses to Gbemi reeked of FRUSTRATION and for that reason, I will accept your apology and suggest that you seek some counselling ASAP. I think you need it.

    Keep struggling to be a better person.

  50. Ready

    January 27, 2016 at 3:34 pm

    The editorial team at Bella Naija and Uche Pedro, you guys need to decide if you’re going to be socially responsible or if you want to be a vapid blog that must remain relevant. Yes, you guys have posts that allow people contribute to society, but as a blog owned by a woman that also pushes the messages of women like Glory Edozien, Wana Udobang and has a majority female followership, you can’t deny/shirk your responsibility to advance the perception of womanhood in Nigeria.
    By all means, post both sides of a story…no, I’m not asking you to tow the feminist line (whatever that means to anybody), but people like Joro and his brother Dokun who resort to asinine, juvenile, cliche ‘insults’ that depict absolute misogyny should be banned from this blog, in my humble opinion.
    Really? Cobwebs in vagina, singleness, part frog part gorilla? That’s what these men who are approaching mid-life crisis decided on as insults. People like these are the problem with Nigeria. Asking if she was raped as a child…would he ask a man that question? Telling her she hadn’t had D in a while…really? Talking about how much does she make…like that defines a person.
    Psychologist and socialite, my a s s. Please stop devoting space to terrible human beings like the Olumofin brothers. Yes, we don’t have to click on posts about them but you don’t need to post about them either. They have IG pages and the likes…shebi one of them said he’s here to stay. Let’s see how long it lasts without help from women.

    • shady

      January 27, 2016 at 4:41 pm

      @ ready he can’t take d heat. He’s gone into hiding now. His instagram page is private. I agree with u not everything is post worthy bella naija

    • TA

      January 28, 2016 at 10:03 pm

      @Ready,
      God bless you for this comment. The disdain for women is so obvious…
      BN, Uche please do not post any thing from this rude and abusive duo. We the readers of BN are pleading…we can at the very least suggest content we want to see here. Men who have barely concealed disdain for women should not be allowed to air their opinions on this forum. Shebi, one of them boasted about hustling and making $500,000. Oya run along and start your own blog, don’t use BN or LIB ,blogging sites owned by women,yes that gender you consider beneath you. Rubbish!

  51. Mz Titilitious

    January 27, 2016 at 3:37 pm

    passin by*

  52. Eyin daa!

    January 27, 2016 at 3:39 pm

    Mr Man you are only sorry because of the Avalanche of backlash against your disgusting comments not because you are truly sorry. And where is that silly brother of yours apology? Abi he thinks he is too big to apologise?

    We have seen you for what you truly are. We must not see either of you at the Demurens on Saturday o! If you dare step there with your silly agbadas and fake Aba made shoes, you will be escorted out! Awon alainitiju!

    Women against Violent Men Association (WAVMA)

  53. Mscheww

    January 27, 2016 at 3:42 pm

    i didnt even read his apology #YorubaManTinz

  54. Ebere

    January 27, 2016 at 3:59 pm

    So much arrogance in his apology which was not exactly directed to the person he insulted in the first place!!!!!!!!!!JOLLOF RICE or whatever you call yourself, GERAREHIA FOR REAL!!!!!!!!!!!!

  55. aaewhy

    January 27, 2016 at 4:02 pm

    Joro is a frustrated soul the bitter truth pained his soul lmao psychologist my foot ,he has privatised his Instagram am sure people finished him yesterday .why didn’t you blast toolz , Cynthia and the alakija dude who indirectly confirmed the gist no you won’t before tunde uninvites you and ebukas white wedding February you won’t want to miss , mogbo no branch is my career .sorry excuse of a man

  56. Annie

    January 27, 2016 at 4:08 pm

    Yes Gbemi started this but there are 1000 ways they could have responded without referring to rape and obscenities. You can insult a person without coming down to their level and this Doro or Moro of a person showed he has no respect for women or for himself. It truly confirms what people say about him whether you support him or not. Females dealing with them in the future should beware.

  57. Toriola

    January 27, 2016 at 4:09 pm

    “Thank you all for your support, encouragement and PLEDGE OF ALLEGIANCE for the future.”

    BUHAHAHAA! I can’t. I simply cannot. I refuse to. Somebody please tell home boy he is not a Lannister.

    • whocares

      January 27, 2016 at 6:18 pm

      @Toriola- lmaooooooooooooooooo. Joro you are not a lannister. loool
      Pls take seats with this apology. The wind has blown, we have seen the chicken’s buttocks.
      @Ready- I don’t think they should be banned. Freedom of speech and all that. How else will we know people for who they truly are and then get to teach them a thing or two about themselves?
      Now to the apology. Words are important o. He is apologizing because he got “feedback” not because he sat down, had a moment of introspection and thought “oh, maybe I f-ed up here”. This is not an apology. And thanking this “fans” for their “pledge of allegiance in the future?” LMAOO. Rice, Stew, Still Very Plenty abi Mr. Muffin? Fear cash you small? Gbemi has not spoiled market completely? He is telling us that market never spoil o that you will still be seeing him on the regular marking register in his “aso ebi” at every wedding with his agbada, his phd and that half loafers shoe men like to wear now.

    • ASGRL

      January 27, 2016 at 8:13 pm

      Not a Lannister…….I’m dead!

  58. Lizzy

    January 27, 2016 at 4:11 pm

    joro the fake ass psychologist. You can delete all the lewd instagram videos and messages however, the screen grabs will forever remain on the internet. Dokun, who is married with a daughter didn’t even consider them before spewing shit all over the place. Your daughter will have questions for you one day and you had better be ready to explain yourself. You guys couldn’t dare go after Toolz or Cynthia because it would have ruined your social climbing game. Your existence on this earth is dependent on you going for that wedding which is why you had to release this half arsed apology. The only ASSET you guys have going for you is your agbada. Nothing more.

  59. Chi

    January 27, 2016 at 4:15 pm

    That was NO apology

    And Bella Naija I urge you, DO NOT promote articles of people that endorse rape or the SEXUAL ABUSE OF WOMEN OR CHILDREN!!!!!!!

    Please let this be the last post of these Olumofin people.

  60. Omo omole

    January 27, 2016 at 4:17 pm

    Wen ur eyes roams aimlessly around u will no doubt see Wat u aren’t supposed to see and wen u speak of Wat concerns u nt,u get to hear Wat u aren’t meant to hear! am a lady, so sentiments apart. his use of Lang was hurtful to d ears but Mehn she sure deserves it! if he goes to countless mogbo moya parties wat business is it of hers? why s she doing gboran mi deleru? why s she trying to remove d stick in someone’s eyes wen there’s log of wood in hers? alara ni ara o ro oun, ewo ni ti gbeborun to n paruwo oku riro oku airo…nonsense! I wnt bcos she’s a female like me and support Wat she did. she started it, then am sure she s very ready to heat dat comes out of it!

    • aj

      January 28, 2016 at 3:59 am

      gbenu e soun jare…jeka gboroun!

  61. Rebecca

    January 27, 2016 at 4:18 pm

    Total rubbish Joro. Please shut up!

  62. Ebere

    January 27, 2016 at 4:19 pm

    Omotola, from what Bellanaija posted earlier, Gbemi never mentioned names, it was only guilty conscience that prompted this “untamed animals” to respond rudely. And if a woman insults a man in any way, directly or indirectly, it takes a wise man to address the issue with caution and wisdom or simply walk away………………I pity the women that will end up marrying these boys…..

  63. Blackcoffee

    January 27, 2016 at 4:19 pm

    Triple Gbam ???

  64. @edDREAMZ

    January 27, 2016 at 4:25 pm

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said…
    .
    – anyone who insults him.. That lady is so damn stupid for what she said and i find no fault in what the nigga said… Unsincere – up in here though…. Ride on dude yu just gat a new fan abeg..
    .
    .
    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

    • The Bull

      January 27, 2016 at 6:52 pm

      lmaoo fan? fan of what? gatecrashing weddings? na una dey like encourage stupidity.

  65. Freeborn

    January 27, 2016 at 4:27 pm

    If I was a violent person, I would smack you for your choice of words on your apology. If I was your mum, I will bend you over the knees and whack your bottom for your gutter language. Your apology reeks with arrogance. Try again.

  66. Opsy

    January 27, 2016 at 4:29 pm

    Socialite? Psycologist? And this an apology? Come on BN!!!

  67. Numero uno

    January 27, 2016 at 4:34 pm

    Even before I opened the link, I was sure the apology would look like this. Razz set of people. Psychologist? Imagine a doctor Phill or Iyanla doing this kind of thing and the backlash it would get from fans. But some peeps are still sending agony mails to him, imagine.
    And Its one desperado that will still marry this one. Nyama.

    • jide

      January 27, 2016 at 8:14 pm

      GBAM. I am already sad for the woman who will have to live with this animal. I will take a chance with a sperm bank before going on a date with this aso-ebi beggar of a miscreant

  68. Nahum

    January 27, 2016 at 4:35 pm

    Ever since this drama started, I have been trying to figure out how I feel about this. First of all, let me address all ladies: this feminism ideology goes both ways. You can not go ahead and insult a man and not expect him to fight you back because you are a woman. Freedom goes both ways. Second, in reference to his filthy insults on her private parts and rape, it just goes to show you the mindset of most Nigerian men and exactly what feminists are up against. I truly believe he is ashamed of himself. He faced his inner demon and he did not like what he saw. He is ashamed of his misogynist view of women. I truly think he meant this apology and I hope women like Gbemi realize that with freedom of speech comes responsibility.

    • Chi

      January 27, 2016 at 5:03 pm

      How’s the shade from under there Joro?
      Your apology is worthless and we see right through you

    • Nahum

      January 27, 2016 at 7:24 pm

      Lol! You are funny. I choose to believe and accept his apology because I believe he is truly sorry but you are under no obligation to agree with me because I did not ask you to. I don’t agree that a woman has the right to play the “sex” card when she has gone after a man. True equality has its ups and downs. You don’t have the right to hide under the cover of “I am a woman” when you have attacked another human being man or woman. That is not equality. So it’s either women want full equality or half equality. This is my opinion and I am entitled to it so please save the childish insults.

    • Dee

      January 28, 2016 at 8:46 am

      Nahum, you used to make sense before oh….what happened to you?

    • ElessarisElendil

      January 28, 2016 at 1:44 am

      Bravo Nahum. Most people have forgotten forgiveness because its not a woman who got cheated on.

    • Dayo

      January 28, 2016 at 5:44 pm

      @Nahum, abeg quit with your stereotypical generalizations about “most Nigerian men”. That sort half-arsed lazy thinking is rather obtuse….thanks in advance.

  69. Bey

    January 27, 2016 at 4:37 pm

    Thanks to bellanaija this guyz page is now private. Checked it earlier, went back dere to do amebo. And now its private………. I believe there’s really nothing like ‘bad news’ when ur thirsty. All na news.

  70. Madam Yewie

    January 27, 2016 at 4:38 pm

    This was more like a press statement and not an apology…

    ‘I seize this opportunity to thank the numerous people from far and wide who via phone calls, emails and personal visits expressed their sympathy for the unwarranted assault on my person’

    ……Like seriously who is this guy? Narcissistic much?? Who do you guys think you are. People left their homes to pay you jackasses visits…. I laughed I shed tears….

    You and your brother are still f*ckboys…

    #officialf-ckbysof2016
    #f-ckboysforever
    #getoveryourselves
    #Mofo.coms

  71. tv girl

    January 27, 2016 at 4:51 pm

    Dear Gbemi, I’m still laughing and I don’t really care what anyone says. I just screen grabbed a convo between ‘3 chics’ and they are laughing. unlike me, they only laughed behind u. while I beamed a wide grin (today) at u without saying hello. I had stopped acknowledging you after I observed u found it hard to respond to greetings. aunty agbaya! humility pays aunty. aunty hypocrite. aunty amebo. aunty chief judge of Lagos blogobrities. need I talk about some snotty remarks you’ve made against Toolz behind her back. or is it toke makinwa. well, toke is achieving so much but u keep hating. finally gbemi aunty, change for your good.

    • Omotolani

      January 28, 2016 at 9:23 am

      GOD BLESS THIS TV BABE …anyone who know the Gorilla-babe will understand why this kind of disgrace came upon her…pretends to be something that she is not and using OAP status to hide her narrow mindedness and inferiority complex , All other fake ass media people abusing the privilege to the detriment of others should beware.

  72. Lil

    January 27, 2016 at 4:56 pm

    These social media gangsters always forget that they can’t ‘unsay’ what they’ve said.

  73. Bubu

    January 27, 2016 at 4:58 pm

    I will try to be objective on this issue because the two parties are both guilty.

    1. I will tackle Gbemi first. Madam OAP. I will refer you to the book of proverbs, you need to read up certain things there. A wise woman is an asset. What you did was so unreasonable, women always gist, we are all guilty, we gossip but some things are better kept private especially wen you know the kind of attention u can garner from a single post. Social media is a sensitive platform and this Social media bullying should stop bcos not until wen pple start attacking themselves physically and sm1 gets hurt before this cyberbulling in Nigeria will stop. You have obviously been looking for an opportunity to come for the brothers and in your very arrogant nature of feeling like you are the bluntest of all, u outrightly referred to them and even insulted them by calling them social climbers BUT WHY? If they feel like attending all the weddings its nobody’s business, there is no rule that said , Tunde mist invite them by force. Please be courteous of your attitude because i msure u never expected the response you got. Please you have no right to be rude to people in the name of being blunt or being the defender of the universe. No go carry wet in no be your own for head.I m sure you have learnt from this.

  74. zainab o

    January 27, 2016 at 5:02 pm

    then he is more stupid than i thought.
    Daft set of guys. they better not reproduce

    • Chi

      January 27, 2016 at 7:46 pm

      Too late. One has a daughter already

  75. Olapeju

    January 27, 2016 at 5:04 pm

    Keep your apology you uncouth thing!!! I hope you’re healed of your infirmity. jeez! kilagbe kileju!

  76. Sheri

    January 27, 2016 at 5:05 pm

    He is only sorry because he did not expect this amount of backlash. But the fact remains there are some foolish women who still will stick up and suck up to him and who just do not get the implication of some of the things he said. They see him through their blinkered lashes and still look up to him as some kind of ‘Gods gift to women’. All those silly women defending him, would you like it if he responded to your or any of your female relatives in kind due to a silly little dig?

    Did Gbemi insult him that much that he had to descend to that level of abuse and Beastiality? Did she refer to his genitalia when she had a dig at him? Did she go that personal? The way the guys erupted, shows there are some deep woman hating issues there. I would hate to be anywhere within their sphere of contact.

    He has apologised but the apology does not go far enough….

  77. Bubu

    January 27, 2016 at 5:16 pm

    2. Uncle Joro and Dokun Mega Super star. I m not too sure who is the psychologist but ask yourself this questions.

    1. WHO IS A REAL MAN
    2. WHAT MAKES A REAL MAN
    3. HOW SHOULD A REAL MAN REACT TO ISSUES
    4. HOW SHOULD A REAL MAN REACT TO A WOMAN EVEN WHEN SHE BEING FOOLISH.

    Your sincere answers to this questions will sum up who you really are! The strength of any human being lies in how well we handle issues be it Emotional, Physical, Financial, Social, Marital and that’s the simpliest definition of Maturity.

    Past Matthew Ashimolowo said something once and it stayed with ALWAYS THINK BEFORE YOUR REACT. Its the most difficult thing to do but most times it saves u a lot. I had to learn that myself being a Choleric, you flair up at the slightest tip and begin to use hurtful words but guess what even the bible says. Words fitly spoken are like apples of gold in pictures. And a soft word calms fire.

    Just imagine if your response to her was something like “Madam its not your wedding, if you see us there u can bounce us” *tongue out”. She would have been the scape goat because people will definitely support you, but your choice of words ruined it. Please this is unacceptable, Let’s build a society were we can all respect each other and settle our differences without leaving a scar. GOD BLESS US ALL.

  78. Concerned Female

    January 27, 2016 at 5:22 pm

    Bella Naija, although everyone is treating this issue lightly, I am of the opinion that your support for someone who has displayed traits of emotional abuse towards women with the use of such derogatory and profane words should cease. The mere posting of his articles on your site is a dis-regard for women rights and equality but rather promotes the image of women as mere sexual and subordinate beings. This I assume is against the ethics of your organization.

    I do note see how you can continue to support such a reckless “relationship expert”. Based on his previous advise columns/comedy skits, it is obvious that he is a chauvinist. If this happened in a developed country, he would have answered for his reckless behaviour despite it being on a social media platform. I call for a petition to take down all current post and prevent future articles from being posted on respectable blogs and websites. Joro specifically given his use of the profession as a guise to belittle women..

    • Oma

      January 27, 2016 at 8:09 pm

      1000 likes for this comment

  79. Pissed

    January 27, 2016 at 5:25 pm

    What on earth is a “socialite”??? Can we all just stop creating all these stupid titles! Is that a job title? What qualifies one to be a socialite?

  80. Niyoola

    January 27, 2016 at 5:34 pm

    From one Market seller to another

  81. zzzzzzzzzzzzz

    January 27, 2016 at 5:35 pm

    I understand that the lady Gbemi started the whole drama but the guy could have been classy in his response. I mean he really didn’t do himself any favour and the apology seems half hearted

  82. Bola

    January 27, 2016 at 5:37 pm

    Bella Naija, where is my comment?

  83. bijouxthisbijouthat

    January 27, 2016 at 5:38 pm

    KWASIA BOY!!!! GYIMIIIII BANYIN!!!!! ABOA NIPA!!!! the nerve of an apology!! can you imagine? he is actually playing the victim?
    Shove your apology in your ugly face! You are a still – boy!!! a misogynist who is an arrogant idiot!
    And Uche Pedro if you really are an advocate for abuse of any kind,please let your conscience guide you and stop posting articles from this spineless wimp!!
    Please do it on principle. Pompous ass!!!
    His sorry excuse of an apology has annoyed me greatly

  84. maitmachic

    January 27, 2016 at 5:48 pm

    Don’t mess with Bellanaija’s band of sisters mehn. We go straight for the jugular. No mercy. If it were legal to go and gatherbeat these turds, we would have taken sick days at our jobs to honor that just cause. lol
    These manchildren should just go away for a while. #Banthemfromeveryweddingforthenext10years.
    That will give them plenty of time to mature and receive sense!

  85. YesIsaidit

    January 27, 2016 at 5:49 pm

    What an arrant fool. After tearing pant and bra in a an unwarranted market brawl you are now here issuing half baked fake apologies. BellaNaija you annoyed me by still referring to him as a psychologist (I don’t even care if you call him a socialite!). First of all he needs to apologize to all his grandfather in the grave for that display and further who even knows if he is not of the lineage of the bastard child of the family, you know the ones who always feel the need to claim. True omo oko doesn’t have to make so much noise. Empty vessel oshi. Now as for the stupid apology he can take it and shove it where the sun don’t shine. Until he apologizes unreservedly, with no qualifications whatsoever and to the lady in question directly, via posts on his useless instagram account, we don’t want to hear his mouth. Olodo rapata. Your mates are building empires you are taking your dirty stinking bitch ass beard to crash wedding of your omo inu. Alailojuti! No shame in your game. Kontinu. Meanwhile BN I don’t know what contract you have with this loser, but please stop shoving him down our throats. If I see another article from him on here I will come to the comments and drag you for filth, You don’t need his money. Pay back every cent and send him on his merry way. BN should not be associated with such filth.

  86. zay zay

    January 27, 2016 at 5:58 pm

    Delusions Of Grandeur

  87. Nonamespls

    January 27, 2016 at 6:17 pm

    This guy must be high on coughsyrup! Is this an apology? I have never taken him
    Seriously and this his behaviour goes to show the kind of person he is, so sad

  88. Xoxo

    January 27, 2016 at 6:42 pm

    #theinternetneverforgets

  89. Deele

    January 27, 2016 at 6:49 pm

    To be honest Bellanaija if in future you decide to post articles from someone who sides with rape because someone hinted that He might go to parties uninvited, then I will know for sure, you are just looking for comments on a slow day. One thing to make a horbile “mistake”. Another not to understand the gravity of that mistake and apologise accordingly. Enough said.

  90. Raphael

    January 27, 2016 at 6:50 pm

    I WANT TO CALL ON WOMEN TO SUE THIS GUY FOR HUMILIATING WOMEN THAT ARE RAPE VICTIMS AND ALSO THE MINISTER FOR WOMEN AFFAIR AND MRS ABIKE DABIRI TO MAKE SURE THIS GUY IS TAUGHT A LESSON. YOU ARE A LESSER MAN JORO, it’s only a lesser man that will act irresponsibly and come to apologize because some of his fake and ghost readers told him his choice of words disrespect women, you’re a disgrace to manhood.

  91. Made

    January 27, 2016 at 6:50 pm

    for all the “ladies” who supported Joro’s rants and even said Gbemi deserved it…SHAME ON YOU!! if this man could react like this because of “Social Climber”, only the Good Lord knows what will happen his mother is insulted…say to to anger/rage.. They all need JESUS.

  92. Ujkkij

    January 27, 2016 at 7:05 pm

    BN you’re an idiot putting up this apology.

  93. Sansarai

    January 27, 2016 at 7:11 pm

    “I seize this opportunity to thank the numerous people from far and wide who via phone calls, emails and personal visits expressed their sympathy for the unwarranted assault on my person. Thank you all for your support, encouragement and pledge of allegiance for the future.” THIS. I am just dead. Does this one think he is the long lost progeny of Queen Elizabeth II? Who in the hell is he that people will come from distant lands to pay him homage, condole with him over this great “tragedy” and pledge their allegiance? Just imagine the audacity! It would be comical if it weren’t so annoying.

    The fact that Gbemi’s comment (that didn’t even mention he and his brother’s names) pained him soooo much indicates that we’re dealing with a highly emotionally unbalanced individual – the fragile-as-an-egg-shell-self-esteem that resorts to violence (physical or verbal) when threatened, the need to preen like a peacock, be seen and validated, the delusions of grandeur. It’s kind of sad really. Is this how he’ll be going after everyone that insults his person online?

    Joro, if you like yourself ehn, just pick up your crushed ego and go nurse it under a rock somewhere – stay faaarrr, faaarrr away from social media for a veerrryyy long time. It’ll do your soul good. If you do “taurin kai” and insist on remaining in the public eye, get ready to develop a very thick skin and IGNORE. Are you a man or a child? This is extremely juvenile. You’ve just shown the whole Nigeria who you are and it doesn’t look good. I pity the woman who will set her sights on this one. Best buckle your seat belt…

  94. Shina

    January 27, 2016 at 7:20 pm

    I also would very much like to see the evidence of this Psych degree. Does he hold a Bachelors or both Bachelors and a Masters? Where did he go to school at? Does he have a license to practice? If he lived in the UK or the US, that license would be stripped from him with those decrepit comments. Having a Psych degree means nothing. Base salary of a Psych degree holder is about $45,000 per yr. Just a little above the poverty line for a single person. He acts like this degree is the stuff. Mr. Psychology needs to retake Psych 101 or visit a Psychiatrist.

  95. Marvel

    January 27, 2016 at 7:35 pm

    This is not an apology! I had never heard of the brothers until yesterday. Before a reader commented about his cross dressing stint, the first thought that crossed my mind as I read through the evil attacks was if the writer had issues with his sexuality. The woman hatred stems from a place that has zilch to do with Gbemi. The chap has issues and you all will hear about it one day, Mark my words!!

  96. Emem

    January 27, 2016 at 7:39 pm

    Joro open your instagram oh, let us rape it for you!!! Did you really think we would clap hands for you after such distasteful words? Lmao

  97. Baby Dee

    January 27, 2016 at 8:18 pm

    At this point i think it’s suffice to say the following:
    1. Joro is no Psychologist
    2. No sane person would go to him for counseling.
    3. No everyone decently dressed, or has an advanced degree, or part of the beard gang, or a renowed party crasher, own perfectly starched agbada is sane.
    4. If you still think Joro is an elegible bachelor & you would actually marry him there is clearly something wrong with you.
    5. When are Joro’s ex-girlfriends coming out anonymously to tell us of how abusive he was to them? Well, has he actually ever had a woman? All that mention of clit/sex got me thinking he ain’t ever had none. Hummmm… Just thinking out loud.
    6. I doubt anyone can convince us that he is not physically abusive (i still cringe at the “i dare you gbemi to say these things to my face”. I can’t stop wondering what he would actually do to her when he sees her. Strip her naked?)
    7. Clearly he’s a thug & not worth taking home to mama or even bingo.
    8. Why is anyone still following him on IG?
    9. Some publicity stunts will bury you…. And I hope in this case it does to this quack career that was in the ICU before.
    10. 3 weeks of none stop drama in the Naija social scenes. Anyone want to vote on who’s next?

    -Baby Dee

  98. el patron

    January 27, 2016 at 8:20 pm

    women of now a days self….and this rubbish social media thing, you cannot say your mind again without some people coming to castigate you and your personality..
    I don’t know any of them, and I don’t care about them, but seeing this objectively without any sentiment, this guy and his brother were on their own jejenjeje ooo, and this aunty started throwing shades anyhow..
    But the mistake they did was type what they felt in their hearts, so much venom..in this case you type your response three times delete and write it again but you post it, if not this is what you get!
    modern day women with respect for nobody or themselves, wanting everybody to respect them.. respect yourself first before asking for respect from anybody! nonsense! see brutality! fi owo keke gan ilan.
    saying his brand is dead! are you God! people self! smh #oluwanisola

    • Dee

      January 28, 2016 at 9:01 am

      @el patron SHUT UUUUUUP!!!!

      I could maybe have lived with him calling her ugly and his jibes at her single status but what have Joro’s comments on childhood rape and vagina size have to do with Gbemi’s comment about crashing weddings?
      If in your small mind, you think they equate, then you and Joro and your like should not produce children before your faulty DNA extends in the human race.

  99. Lmbo!!

    January 27, 2016 at 8:28 pm

    He can take his apology and save it for his family members. Mr so called psychologist if you and your brother are not real party crashers and social climbers then why were you so pained!!!! Resulting to you displaying how foolish, ignorant you guys really are. You have exposed yourself to the world.thank God how shallow you really are, please do not go back to giving fake advice to anymore even animals because you are nothing but a joke!!!
    All that display because of going to wedding… Joro you need Jesus
    Lagosians need to ban you from their weddings this year only God knows who you guys will curse and abuse.

  100. Rolly

    January 27, 2016 at 8:29 pm

    Dodoyo ni bobo joro yi, you didn’t know already? The guy is a total waste of space. What a complete cretin.
    A grown as$ mannerless man that has no respect for women…I’m amazed the other stupid dog is married with a DAUGHTER. Only God will help the two females in his home.
    Bella Naija (x50)… How many times did I call you?? If I see any post from that quack psychologist on your site, I am boycotting it. I triple dare you to try me. These foolish men must learn a bitter lesson. And I’d like to believe you’re against abuse- physical, emotional or mental.

  101. damie

    January 27, 2016 at 9:07 pm

    But Gbemi didnt even say his name..

    guilty conscience.

    he is such a sorry excuse for a man. I cannot believe a woman raised him. he probably hits women.

  102. o

    January 27, 2016 at 9:23 pm

    1, Ppl really need to stop saying Gbemi didn’t call any names. Haba?? Even a day old baby could decipher what she said. That not calling any body’s name is a lame excuse. Again, her response to the Alakija guy is proof of who she was referring to.

    2. I guess every one involved has learnt their lesson one way or the other. Gbemi: know that you dont have monopoly of razor mouth. Some ppl’s mouths are sharper than yours. Plus if you dont want to be insulted and dragged, stay in your lane. Joro; you overreacted and said some very unnecessary and insensitive words. Pls next time, don’t talk (tweet/gram) when angry. Overkill e no good. Toolz: keep your private matter private, or know the kind of friends you share with.

    3. As for me, apology accepted. To err is human, to forgive is divine.
    Nobody should fault Joro and Dokun’s hustle abeg. If it works for them and isn’t affecting you personally then look the other way. We are all hustling one way or the other. Every one of them (Toolz, Gbemi, Tunde, Cynthia, Dokun, Joro etc) are all trying to be socially relevant one way or the other so no one should feel like they are better than the other abeg!!!

  103. Busie

    January 27, 2016 at 9:35 pm

    Kolomental Cross-dresser! Is this an apology? No, try again..
    This time I want to see it expressly addressed to Gbemi and all her ‘parts that you mentioned as well. And make it at least 1 page long with one Instagram post. Eh hen, then we will reconsider. Oloshi! Agbaya with beard and all.

  104. Loginoureyes

    January 27, 2016 at 9:46 pm

    Dearest BN Voltron squad, Abeg how can we describe the insults we have thrown at this individual and his brother in the past 48hrs? Are we not guilty of the same thing we so viciously accuse them of? Let us pursue wisdom and seek understanding.

    • Layo

      January 28, 2016 at 12:05 am

      Hi Joro,
      Welcome on board. Please shut up.

    • Funms

      January 28, 2016 at 8:16 am

      How typical of some people. Smh. So you have a right to voice your opinion and others who see things different should not? You need to grow up and think while you’re at it.

      Everyone coming back here to curse these people is frankly no different from them in my opinion. They started it so we should join them in the mud to show we can mud sling too? Or is it to show our true nature too? Which is it please?

  105. Voltronsquad

    January 27, 2016 at 10:58 pm

    In this case the punishment MORE THAN fits the crime as it were for lack of a better term. IN his case he didn’t have to go there where he went. What a waste of space he is. WE should see evil in society and abhor it.

  106. ao

    January 27, 2016 at 11:05 pm

    This is an apology? I think not. I read what Joro and his brother wrote and I am thoroughly disgusted and shocked that two individuals that purport to be Christian men would publish such filth; filled with bile and references to rape! (And yes, Joro stated in his tirade that he was Christian.). If something so small as a reference to two unnamed brothers that crash weddings can illicit such an over-the-top reaction, then there are clearly deficits in Joro’s (and his brother’s) personality that need to be addressed. Both need an evaluation to make sure that they are not suffering from narcissistic personality disorder and/or mood disorders. I am actually being serious. The young woman needs to take steps to secure her physical safety because Joro and his brother seem emotionally unstable. Finally, Bella Naija, stay classy and disassociate your brand from these two brothers especially the so-called psychologist. He seems crazy. “Bad company corrupts good character” (1 Corinthians 15:33).

  107. Idomagirl

    January 27, 2016 at 11:11 pm

    This fellow and his brother kept calling Gbemi ugly, saying she was “half-gorilla, half-frog”, but I’m looking at this his picture and he actually looks like a gorilla, the absolute irony!

    Gbemi shouldn’t have brought whatever Toolz told her privately to Twitter, but please, there’s no way to justify the vile attacks these two classless, untamed fellows hurled at her. Wasn’t there a better way to respond to her?
    I’m not even going to mention all the talk about her vagina & her looks and all that, but that “you must have been raped as a child” is one of the worst things I’ve ever read on social media and I’ve read plenty.

    In what world is it okay or justifiable to use rape as an insult? Is it because Nigeria generally shows disdain to rape victims? And to think this uncouth human claims to be a psychologist, what school did you get your degree from?

    I honestly feel sorry for any foolish woman who turns to this quack for advice…

    And BN like many of your readers have said, stop giving this person relevance, his comments clearly show how deeply disturbed and twisted he is. Abeg. Let him remain hidden somewhere on Instagram, e don do.

    • ao

      January 27, 2016 at 11:18 pm

      @Idomagirl. If he were a licensed psychologist in any of the states in the USA, this tirade would have earned him a referral to the licensing board to have his license disciplined. Seriously. This behavior is very unbecoming of a professional psychologist and I urge the school that he is attending to address this with him and to review whether he is fit to continue in the PhD program.

  108. Uber bella

    January 27, 2016 at 11:26 pm

    All those for BN banning Doro and his articles on BN, hands up.☝

    • ElessarisElendil

      January 28, 2016 at 1:47 am

      Hold up!

      Censorship…………really?????????????????

      Is anybody forcing you to click?

      Your message would be stronger if there was a boycott of his articles. But I’m willing to bet you people will still click, just to bash him and BellaNaija for posting. SMH!

      The Rohirrim did not win for censorship damn it!

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?gl=NG&hl=en-GB&v=EmTz7EAYLrs

  109. Opinion

    January 28, 2016 at 3:28 am

    So proud of the women out there who have refused to tolerate this highly disturbing level of emotional and verbal abuse.

    His response reflects who he really is and can become in the event of being aggravated and his appalling conflict management skills. I hope he is not a reflection the caliber of bachelors we have in Lagos.

    There should be ZERO tolerance for this. He should direct his apology to her and not for his social damage control……I can’t get over the child rape line….so disturbing. I am encouraged by the outrage that our society still has values

  110. john

    January 28, 2016 at 8:30 am

    its alrite

  111. Chinny

    January 28, 2016 at 11:57 am

    This guy is totally unbelievable. He is so unrepentant. Assault on his person? Like seriously? Didn’t he assault Gbemi as well? A verbal onslaught that might have become physical if she was within striking range. She didn’t do well.. She should have minded her business but running her down like that paints a clear picture of someone who needs psychiatric help ASAP!
    The siblings are making noise about their grandfather. If he spent all his time partying, will he be noteworthy? Coming from a privileged background does not guarantee you’ll be successful as a person. What’s all the noise for? How much do they have? Our immediate past president trekked to school bare feet yet he achieved greatness from a background of extreme poverty.
    Justifying the unforgivable filth they both spewed from their mouths is wrong. Gbemi looked for trouble but they both totally lost it. I hope they recover from the damage they did themselves, family, friends, etc.
    Abeg dem no try at all!

  112. Tkum

    January 28, 2016 at 2:05 pm

    Co-ask oo.. No be we ladies again!!.. well Joro followed big brother footsteps to lash.. turns out wen u dont v a mind of ur own u do crazy shits, Dokun is the embarrassment i see… A family man!… well the duo deserve all the insults leashed on them.. will follow the crowd on dat. Weak Men!!..

    Aunty Gbemi u too.. weak woman!!.. ‘Live and lets live’ IS A GOLDEN RULE…not everyone must attain heights or greatness d way u did. why is dat? i clearly dont know. it is just life in play.. Grow up Madam! Great people aint small minded!!…

    Gbemi find out the real gist before u come out n flaunt ur ignorance!!

    Aunty Toolz be a real woman for once!! U dont like someone let that person know… Pretend all you want.. u can never be loved by all… You are human too.. U ARE A FAKE ASS-HOLE!!!.. U PLAYED ON UR FRIEND’s (Gbemi) weakness.. U didnt want to be viewed negatively, u resorted to gossips.. clearly gbemi has a weakness for gossips and strength of been blunt which she cant manage both well…

    Unfortunately Toolz.. enjoy ur wedding.. the matter hasnt ended…you dearie will be called out soon!

  113. Rynyx

    January 28, 2016 at 2:15 pm

    When pressure is put on a car, it leaks out water, fuel and engine oil. when pressure is put on a man/woman, the true content of their character is revealed. I didn’t even know Gbemi was referring to them until they responded.
    how a psychologist can have the much bile in them beats me. what do you tell people? like u actually have clients book session and take advice from you? how can a man spit such things about a woman? rape, lesbian, small clit, gorilla, frog…… your wives/ girlfriends should be worried. can a psychologist be referred to a shrink? dude sure could use some evaluation.
    amazing how majority of women are happy Gbemi deserved all of it. doesn’t justify her making public what she was told in private but to say any body deserves this, God help us women. dragging each other down since forever. Just Sad!!!!

  114. Tkum

    January 28, 2016 at 2:50 pm

    she even went ahead to show the height of her ignorance and manipulation by tweeting …’so someone cannot tell Gbemi something in peace’. Shut up Ma’am when you were disclosing it to her did you mention to her it is a private matter n shud stay btw u two?..You already know the kind of friend you have. i presume your friendship has been ongoing for years now!.. Weak Women forming class but Small minded!

  115. Bobosteke & Lara Bian

    January 28, 2016 at 5:06 pm

    Dear BN,

    Thank you for simply existing. For the hard working staff that are always on their toes, having to get creative to satisfy the wide and varied interests of its audience.

    We thank you for the honor and respect which we are encouraged to show each other on this platform. But we are mostly because you taught us by showing it to us first. You led by example.

    We have a lot of faith in you and are assured that even as you expand and become more creative in growing your business, you would always carry on this fashion.

    Kind regards,
    Bella Bobosteke

    • TA

      January 28, 2016 at 10:20 pm

      Co-sign.

  116. X-Factor

    January 28, 2016 at 7:06 pm

    Idiat!!!

  117. Omo omole

    January 28, 2016 at 8:16 pm

    atleast he had d decency to apologise. I am nt gonna side Gbemi, Wat she did in Yoruba land is called ‘gbeborun’, ‘tojubole’, aahan, Wats her business?if joro is busy party crashing, Wats her wahala naa. ‘alara ni ara oro oun ewo ni tie ton ke okuriro oku airo’. haba, they are nt using her money to buy d aso ebi naa, neither are they using her mouth to beg for party invites! oro Tio ba ti kan eyan, dnt put mouth into it. bros joro all ur adjectives were way too much, u hear? ‘dnt doritagin next time’. And to all agboroduns Biko, u all just committed d same crime for which u are crucifying joro. U called him all manners of names. I guess everyone has gone bad mouths too. dnt go insult him again bcos u just did Wat he did too!

  118. jojo

    January 31, 2016 at 8:52 am

    From the numerous coments here, it reflects how our society judge so badly for too much sentimental reasons. TI o ba le eku si won, ti won ba le ejo si e, oremi iyen o buru. Meaning if you send a rat to dem and they send u back a snake, My friend there is nothing wrong wIth it.
    what Gbemi did should be massively condemned more dan dat of the brothers, by not condemning her you embolden her to do worse. its really unfair the way some ladies jugde, as though when ever there an issue btw the two genders women are never wrong…SHE STARTED THE ATTACK and most of you refused to acknowlede it…haba, even if vou all were going to attack d guys dis much at least hit her too for not minding her biz.

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