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Are you Guilty? Gbemi Olateru-Olagbegi & Toolz take on Party Crashers | Socialites Dk & Joro Olumofin’s HARSH Response

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Gbemi-Olateru AsoEbiBe honest…are you guilty? We know it can be pretty boring during the weekend and when your friend’s cousin’s boyfriend’s sister is getting married, is it such a big deal if you tag along? How else will you get on #asoebibella every weekend!

Well, Gbemi Olateru-Olagbegi does not think it is a good idea.

Here is what the media personality/entrepreneur tweeted

Update
Gbemi did not mention any names in her tweets.

Dokun & Joro Olumofin

Dokun & Joro Olumofin

However, Dokun “Dk” Olumofin, brother of the popular Joro “Dokta Mofin” Olumofin has responded with several profanity-filled Instagram posts.

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Joro has also started Instagramming regarding the issues

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@gbemioo Part 1 Frog Princess, female gorilla

A video posted by Adejoro Olumofin (@joroolumofin) on

@gbemioo part 2 Frog princess from ondo state. Female Chimp

A video posted by Adejoro Olumofin (@joroolumofin) on

@gbemioo PART 3 Frog princess , female gorilla

A video posted by Adejoro Olumofin (@joroolumofin) on

@gbemioo part 4 Frog Princess and Ondo Gorilla

A video posted by Adejoro Olumofin (@joroolumofin) on

@gbemioo another one for you I lost count of the parts

A video posted by Adejoro Olumofin (@joroolumofin) on

370 Comments

  1. Marie Antoinette

    January 26, 2016 at 7:14 am

    Lol! I just started reading this book titled The Doktor and his brother….?????

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    • Bae

      January 26, 2016 at 7:29 am

      Gurrl #saynotoshadr2016

    • kadara

      January 26, 2016 at 11:19 am

      How much do you earn, what do you drive, who is your boyfriend blah blah blah….very pathetic men. That one calls himself a Relationship Expert, Dude you just killed your career, no woman in her right senses will come and meet a dog like you for advice. Shameless goats, talking about rape…obviously they have no respect for women. Rape is one of those things you don’t talk about casually and a so called physiologist should know that. I’ve never heard of more despicable men in my life. The social Climbers even tagged Linda Ikeji so they can finally enter News lol Sad lot, you have zero pedigree from your actions and your parents would be ashamed of you.

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    • .....

      January 26, 2016 at 11:36 am

      Toolz… Be careful of ya friends ohhh… If I am ya boo.. I would be quite upset.. Gossip is cool but broadcasting the gossip….. No girl u don’t do that

    • Bleed Blue

      January 26, 2016 at 4:30 pm

      This just reminds me of my Uncle who’s a Pastor.
      He’ doubles as the marriage counselor of his church and therefore frequently advises the menfolk on behaving well to their wives.

      However, when his wife offends him (last I recall being that she attended a wedding of a family member with whom he was keeping some crazy malice), he beats her almost to a coma!
      Why can’t he counsel himself the same way he does to other men?
      If he must react (which is perfectly human after all), why can’t it be commensurate to the offense?

      The point is this: By virtue of being a doctor, pastor, priest, human psychologist, you are in a place of significant influence to the people (however few) who look to you for counsel.
      By all means react when someone offends you (how we for do na?), but at the very least, be aware of your position and let it reflect in your response. Abi?

    • adelegirl

      January 26, 2016 at 7:44 am

      They are the two that came to my mind as well too. I think it was here in the BN comments section that I first heard someone make reference to their mogbo moya ways. How embarrassing!

    • Thatgidigirl

      January 26, 2016 at 8:06 am

      Very tough book o! its a page flipper, couldn’t put it down.

    • Olanna&Odenigbo

      January 26, 2016 at 11:38 am

      Gurlllllll……….Page turner!!!!

      The Shrek and cobweb vajayjay bits though…damn!!! boys aint smiling! ….But who sent Gbemi though??… Lesson – you’re never too old for dragging! This is what i tell my sister, if only we can always adequately predict people’s reactions, we would be more mindful of our actions….. I mean, did they crash her personal event??? Next please! I have to say i like the boldness to be direct rather than throw shade in return, Gbemi should be direct too…..shading is just weak!

    • Mide

      January 26, 2016 at 1:10 pm

      the book writing must have gone down like this:

      *phone rings*

      Gist carrier- Egbon how now?…. whatchu up to, have you been on twitter lately, omo gbemi yen tun tun bere, e lo wo na….

      Dokun: *rushes to twitter* and a few seconds later…”…what??????…. who the helll does she think she is,…yeeee ko le lo scot free mehn!

      Joko chimes in: and that dwarf Tolu even replied…..mi o blame e!…..wedding ti eyan fe lo, lo fa gbogbo oro radarada…. oloshi ara e….

      Dokun: but bruh we cant pick on her o, if not awon Tunde ma ri nkan ti won ma fi ti wa sita, a de si need won mennn…cos a le ma da IV pada!!… ngba yen, je ka face elede yen, elenu fife! …

      and so the writing began…..

    • Wale

      January 26, 2016 at 9:30 am

      She deserves what she got. If the people whose events they are crashing do not complain what is her own business. She has demonstrated she herself is a “gbe borun”.The brother’s reaction is way overboard and uncommon for men of esteemed background as they claim…but I can understand their reaction. This lady is indeed unpleasant to look at; if you are going to be a social commentor and gossip about others or throw shades at them, then you yourself must be on point and fleek as they call it these days. Hope she has learnt a simple lesson a hard way. Because you have a micro phone in front of you does not mean you have the right to get into other people’s business. If they show up uninvited at your event-throw them out!

    • FasholasLover

      January 26, 2016 at 12:57 pm

      @Wale, abi o. If you have the nerve to call out anyone be bold. Why sub? You expect the other person to keep quiet? Naaah. All is fair in love nd war.

    • Concerned

      January 28, 2016 at 5:42 am

      Shame on you Wale. Your values must be really warped. Only a sick person will read a thing like this and say anyone deserves it……this is emotional and verbal abuse and there should be ZERO tolerance for this type of behavior…..she deserved to be insulted with references to child rape????

      So disturbing you even got over 400 likes…..I could weep for our society. Zero filters zero decorum ….and you call her unpleasant looking because you have created how many pleasant looking people again??

      He went over and above offensive in his over reaction. In more civilized societies he would lose his job and suffer social repercussions….

    • Marie Antoinette

      January 26, 2016 at 9:36 am

      I’m done reading…phew!!! Lost interest where the author likened The Doktor and his brother to market women…so I ask, ARE THEY REALLY MEN??? Because REAL MEN don’t join issues with women no matter what!

    • Jez

      January 26, 2016 at 10:56 am

      They are Yoruba “men”…nuff said.

    • Eky

      January 26, 2016 at 9:13 pm

      i wish i can like this a zillion times..
      are these real men…NO WAY!!!

    • lola

      January 26, 2016 at 10:06 am

      This 2016 na year of beef,from Davido-Sophia to Olamide-Don Jay to Black face-Tu Face now to Joro&Dokun-Gbemi.All of una no just get job I swear.

    • lagos is my home

      January 26, 2016 at 10:46 am

      Where you raped as a child

      I couldnt read further. The guy is a bloody idiot and a waste of space

    • Wendy

      January 26, 2016 at 11:48 am

      You’re surprised?! This is the same guy that a girl told us right here in the BN comment section that he attempted to rape her! We all forgot so easily, some even said she was exaggerating….is she not vindicated?!
      He has displayed all the classic traits of a misogynistic rapist…see how he’s just throwing the word around….you can tell that he’s seen women finish with his foul uncultured language.
      You guys are a disgrace to your father! He obviously did a piss poor job raising lowlifes.

    • Anon

      January 26, 2016 at 6:38 pm

      Talking about rape was just too harsh! he’s lucky that he is in najia. you can’t type such here or you hear it, walahai! too sensitive a word to use! what happened to using kind words to shame someone? you don’t use a gun to kill a mosquito !

    • jhennique

      January 26, 2016 at 11:53 am

      Gbemi, people like you deserve to be dragged! What is your own? How is it doing you? Toolz wan take and put sand sand inside her marriage before the tin start. I hate folks like this!
      However Mofin could have handled this better.
      To each their own! If you like to party crash, fine! as long as you can face the consequences and if you dont like to party crash, fine as well!
      Dont go throwing spine-less shade around like an immature someborry. If you aint afraid to talk please call names out loud. #OSHI

    • Yeyeperry

      January 26, 2016 at 12:34 pm

      But wait o… Let us use our church minds to look at this thing, how many times have you followed friends/fam to events of people you don’t even know? At least they know the groom, (even if they had to request for an invite which we aren’t sure about). I would blame Toolz for discussing the matter with her loose mouthed friend, and the Gbemi that decided to call them out. It really isn’t her business! We al have our lows. And the brother’s reaction is simply what the average person will do when taunted. They could have applied some sense tho.

    • Hawt Talk With Tosan

      January 26, 2016 at 1:46 pm

      These brothers are petty and seriously garrulous! They are so empty that all they can do is talk about her vagina, her marital status and her looks. Very unintelligent lot. And the desperate attempt to prove they get invited to parties is pitiful. Losers.

      Please watch my videos on Nigerian trending issues and more here youtube.com/watch?v=YHx2UpXsips

    • bk

      January 26, 2016 at 6:53 pm

      She asked for it

    • tammy

      January 26, 2016 at 11:41 pm

      Truth is these boys are just like their father even worse sef, that man would do anything to get into the good graces of any Oga at the top. He used to be a consultant at my former office, u will confide in him and he will quickly run to give oga ur gist verbatim. Abeg he trained his children well, like father like sons.

    • BlueEyed

      January 26, 2016 at 3:18 pm

      After all this foolish rant, this same shameless two brothers will still carry themselves and go to the wedding and be forcing to take photos with the couple.

    • Lee

      January 26, 2016 at 5:26 pm

      These boys are so sad and ridiculously immature, it’s embarrassing. If I was related to them, I’ll be thoroughly ashamed. How many responsible and reasonable guys spend that amount of time, writing epistles on social media to diss a woman? And even making pitiful videos? Pathetic losers. To think one of them is a Dad. Please y’all should shut up already and get jobs. I have no idea who these losers are but I know people online and in reality, (even your “friends”) that diss you two for attending weddings and events you’re uninvited to. Because Gbemi isn’t a chicken and has no filter and has said it openly? Please. Even Toolz stylishly threw shade at you guys if you don’t know. And the fake Psychologist’s brother, instead of you to focus on your daughter and get married to your fiancé, you screen grab shots of people’s pre-wedding photos, send it to random girls and say “Us soon”, smh! It’s BN that gives you guys attention and gives you mofos the impression that you’re celebrities. Broke lame losers, that’s what you guys are. I for one can’t stand Gbemi, but I was astonished to see grown ass men post illogical epistles and make several videos to diss a girl. It’s sickening to know guys in their 30s can act like 10 year olds. Age clearly doesn’t guarantee wisdom and maturity. Such immature airheads!

    • Jo

      January 30, 2016 at 4:16 pm

      Finally some one makes sense in the comment section. Those ‘boys’ sorry girls are just so immature. They actually have time to type those gritty ‘comebacks’ Well it is good to know they are defending their party crashing ways. Toddlers!

    • Fyfi Salty

      January 26, 2016 at 8:09 pm

      …..Sadly, they’ve both described the reflection of what they both see when they both look in the mirror…Smh!!!??

      You’re such a sad story – Their live style is nothing to write home about.
      Dirty gorilla mouth & frog from ondo – It takes one to know one.
      Lousy tongue – ??Definitely one
      Single to Manchester and back to lagos – ?? – If you were in Manchester London – you will be put behind the bars by now. Fools!,,
      Shrek – ??
      A big time gossip (since a friend told you she has halitosis & can’t kiss) – ?? – Men gossip more than women ds days….Geex
      Lady Jane Grey Sons -??
      Beast!!! – ?? Trust me beast are not very shy & calm you ugly piece of shit.
      Sex starved syndrome- ??
      Classless & uneducated fools – ??
      Take Christianity very serious – ?? Likely seriously?? You both insulted her from Earth to Hell & take Christianity very serious? What happened to “Whoever hits you on the cheek, offer him the other also??

      Just imagine a man insults your sister, daughter or future wife over a mere matter,how would you feel?…Your sins will catch up with you both shameless she goats sooner or later.

    • Fyfi Salty

      January 26, 2016 at 8:11 pm

      **Life style

    • Jade

      January 26, 2016 at 8:12 pm

      When you will rather deal with Davido’s drama and he was even more mature, that’s when you know these so called brothers have hit the lowest low.

      But Gbemi also got what she asked for. People have no chill these days when responding to a shade or attack. They go in. Gbemi is one conceited lady, thinking she’s all that. And now she got the truth in the worst shape and form. Honestly, people crash naija weddings all the time. Most of the weddings I’ve been to, I went with a friend of the friend or fifth cousin of the couple. I usually get there during reception, dance and mingle away. Or just watch cinema of different chaos happening at the same time.

      Kini big deal about party crashers.

    • green eys

      January 26, 2016 at 10:29 pm

      EFCC please open case for you he made $500k doing contract with NNPC
      Please check. that is all that concerns me
      #bring backourmoney

    • Dior

      January 30, 2016 at 3:32 am

      What is a “Phd in view”, you have a phd or you don’t.

  2. Ghen Ghen

    January 26, 2016 at 7:38 am

    Joro&Dokun Olumofin!
    Stop famzing & respect yourselves.
    it’s not by force!

    • Niyoola

      January 26, 2016 at 10:16 am

      They obviously were not invited; see how they stylishly cropped the message.
      Let us see the previous message, where you were begging for the invite.

      I behaviour; how can you be ranting like a mad person like this. 1 may even have support them, but overkill……. disgusting.
      All the while you were typing, none of your friends could take your phone away from you?
      Mr psychologist, I really doubt your intelligence and degrees. Jeeez
      Omo alata behaviour

    • shady

      January 26, 2016 at 11:05 am

      @jorolumofin am asking politely now. Next timè I see u gatecrashing anoda parry u don’t mind me asking u to show me ur invite. In fact on ur wedding day u must show an invitation don’t jst bring urself ok. Small boy

    • NaijaBoyAshamed

      January 26, 2016 at 6:36 pm

      i wont lie all the back & forth was funny but thinking about it, the olumofin boys over reacted and validated GbemiO’s statements. LOL!!!

      There are many duo brothers in Lagos that crash weddings and they are even more popular than Olumofin brothers. Not sure why they reacted soo harshly, i mean….maybe they love their title of being social climbers or party crashers. no tea no shade, but GbemiO wasnt referring to only them. i know a duo of brothers (he married a BN fav author)….yes, i am serving tea,

      Is gbemiO a likeable person? not really, something about her that can easily make you hate on her but doesnt make her ugly. some people have a resting Biiiii face and its not their fault

    • cos I say so

      January 27, 2016 at 11:06 am

      They specifically said they were replying because Alakija bro asked if one of them is a fake psychologist to which Gbemi laughed and the person said “Say No More”
      Babes if you have ever been internet bullied,you go know how far
      They woke up to 100s of messages,dms etc and you really think they should have not reacted??? If they hadnt, it would have been much more embarrassing
      Gbemi got what she deserved
      My advice to them now is not to go to the wedding at all because Toolz obviously doesnt want them there, from all indication 50k is nothing to them, so fashi the asoebi money, give your apologies to Tunde and dont go for the wedding
      I like how they respected Tunde and didnt talk about Toolz at all but she sef get blame for the matter
      This Gbemi is garrulous though, she as she carry the matter for head like say na she dey do wedding

  3. Miss_Flygerian

    January 26, 2016 at 7:46 am

    Omo…people are just throwing shade left, right and center this 2016. Eez no longer a joking sturvs,

  4. Tgirl

    January 26, 2016 at 7:51 am

    2016 is going to be great!! With that their over sized agabada and ugly shoes ??

  5. Smh

    January 26, 2016 at 7:52 am

    So wait, where they famzing tools… Aunty gbenro, they can’t gossip with you oo

  6. Smh

    January 26, 2016 at 7:54 am

    I sell pop corn oo.. Uncle dokun iyaf vex oo! He just posted his invitation on Instagram? Back to studying jare

  7. Ghen Ghen

    January 26, 2016 at 8:11 am

    instagram.com/p/BA_jQkfsRJe/?taken-by=dokunolumofin
    Dokun Olumofin!
    You are a GOAT!
    A PIG!
    A RETARD!
    How dare you insult her? did she call your name?
    You & your useless brother fake psychologist are guilty of mogbo moya!
    Don’t ever insult a woman!
    Idiot!

    • xag

      January 26, 2016 at 9:24 am

      Na so. Because women have a monopoly on insulting people.

    • emeka

      January 26, 2016 at 9:38 am

      Mumu, it is men like you that make women feel important, put a woman in her place, which is what they have done, oya if you want to beat the brothers, for calling gbemi names, come and face them one on one, not on bellanaiaja

    • Zee

      January 26, 2016 at 9:44 am

      So you respond in kind? Taking you down a few notches to his level. Animals belong in the zoo. Call him out but pls respect yourself. I don’t care if you are the OAP’s sibling or parent. Your rant (like his) is totally uncalled for.

    • jude

      January 26, 2016 at 10:00 am

      women if u dont wanna be insulted then behave like the women u r ment to be. stop stepping out of ur boundries and expect men to be quite, i think she got what she asked for obo rin ru oshi

    • patty

      January 26, 2016 at 11:00 am

      simple………….. pls tell them o. because na woman, dem no fit tell her something make she keep quiet. ahhhhhhhhhh aunty Gbemi..

    • bae23

      January 28, 2016 at 8:26 am

      Aunty Gbemi e calm down. As a lady e suppose to stay in lane yin and respect your self. What happened to all the lessons on dignity and being ladylike? Sorry u got served

  8. D

    January 26, 2016 at 8:14 am

    This Joro person, na wa for him o. What’s all this he wrote? Spewing bile all over the place, looking tacky and childish in the process. Seriously over the top and attention-seeking.

    • Zee

      January 26, 2016 at 9:46 am

      Unfortunately we are feeding into the nonsense. Lagos has become a cesspool of attention seeking hooligans all claiming to be sophisticated. Why take a slightly rude statement so personal. A freaking adult man acting like a child. It’s so embarrassing.

    • Tee

      January 26, 2016 at 1:58 pm

      Slightly rude?did u say slightly rude?My dear rude is rude.I am a woman and Gbeni deserves all the bullshit she got today.Lets assume she’s pretty and sophisticated now we can just pardon her small but she’s not so she deserves to be dragged in d mud

    • Ladybird

      January 26, 2016 at 10:30 am

      I can’t believe what I am seeing.. to say I am horrified is an understatement. brothers went way overboard and even seem like potential abusers..smh.. I feel bad for Toolz and her Fiance..being put in the middle of this..

    • R.Banks

      January 27, 2016 at 2:42 pm

      Why should you feel bad for Toolz…???? No be start am?

  9. andtherewasone

    January 26, 2016 at 8:15 am

    20shadesteen

    • hian

      January 26, 2016 at 8:23 am

      wa gabyii…. but Common now,… they’ve finished aunty Gbenro…. i think he is disrespectful

  10. Donald Trump

    January 26, 2016 at 8:28 am

    Oh Boy, eleyi gidi ghan oooooooooooooooooo. I think say i get bad mouth, this one bad pass me oh……..

    • Californiabawlar

      January 26, 2016 at 9:48 am

      Na lie…he hasn’t said anything novel! I bet there’s none of this Gbemi has not heard before. In fact I’ve been on the receiving end of most of these childish rants everytime I have a squabble with a boy since ss3….
      Summary of all a Nigerian guy can say to you in a fight is:
      1. You’re ugly
      2. You’re single/nobody wants you/go and find a husband
      3. You’re fat

      Then if you’re none of the above:
      4. You’re an aristo/runs girl.

      Irrespective of physical appearances
      5. random shouts of Ashewoo!! No evidence needed…every girl in an argument with a man is one.
      6. You like me and I didn’t gree for you.
      7. I will beat you up.

      8. You didn’t shut up, you’re out of luck, his intelligence has reached it’s maximum capacity, He actually beats you up! Hehehe.

      Fellow Nigerian women, if any of these basic agberos have ever said anything that is any way more intellectually sophisticated than this to you during a trade of words I challenge you to challenge me! Lols.

      This guy always rubbed everyone off the wrong way…we were right! Very uncouth and just plain ol cringeworthy. He even decided to refer to her state of origin, who are you? My mum’s carpenter from the 80s? You call yourself a professional and speak casually about rape, female genitalia and just all sorts of dirty stuff? Way to be stuck in 200l Ogun State University…No way in hell you graduated, much less have any sort of advanced degree to qualify you as anything but a psychologist’s driver.

      If I would say anything on behalf of Gbemi who I don’t even fancy, I’d respond…”Never mind my small clit, it’s obviously bigger than your brain given the quality of the writeups you base your career on….at least I can still orgasm if you rub it hard enuff…you just have uncontrollable brain farts if yours is asked to deliver”.

    • shady

      January 26, 2016 at 10:29 am

      Girl u have spoken well.

    • Oche

      January 26, 2016 at 10:29 am

      I’m offended by your statement…
      That says this 200L University behaviour. No, its actually JS 2 behaviour, these guys should be ashamed of themselves.

    • Sisi

      January 26, 2016 at 10:47 am

      My thoughts exactly. As I was went through the brother’s instagram page and watched those horrible videos, I just kept thinking “This guy is a psychologist??” Casually throwing around allegations of child abuse and sexual problems, battering at her self esteem like he wants this Gbemi girl to become suicidal all because she mentioned something that actually happens to be true.

      I actually do not like this Gbemi girl and her tweets were forward and uncalled for. A lot of people enjoy stirring up trouble on Twitter for the RTs and a bit of notoriety. That being said, what Gbemi posted should never have led to a reaction like this except from extremely mal-adjusted young men . These 2 brothers are the dictionary definition of money miss road, and seem like they might actually benefit from some counselling/therapy sessions of their own. Regardless of how “esteemed” they claim their grandfather was. People who are brought up in respectable homes by families who have an image and proud history to protect do not behave this way. This is disgusting and appalling.

    • lagos is my home

      January 26, 2016 at 12:33 pm

      @California well said
      Appalling and disgusting behavior ……… And to think these are future or present somebody husbands . PUKE PUKE PUKE
      Its Bella naija and Bloggers i blame Shame shame shame . This kind of trash does not deserve a post or write up (MY POOR BEAUTIFUL EYES SUBJECTED TO SUCH ) . It belongs in the ZOO with this guys .
      The irony that they think they have class ….. their parents and grandparents will be ashamed of this write up .

    • Asgrl

      January 26, 2016 at 3:07 pm

      I just peed my pants!

    • Armistad

      January 26, 2016 at 4:05 pm

      Lool! I owe you a pint. Well said

    • Hadassah

      January 26, 2016 at 7:46 pm

      Californiabawlar *Exactly*
      Bella Naija Commenters(esp the pioneer set) are probably the most sensible people on the social media world.
      Well thought out comments
      I dnt care about who was right or wrong… But the comments about Rape and female genitals… A HUGE NO

    • Sensy

      January 26, 2016 at 9:52 pm

      damn it!…you nailed it..can we not screen grab this one and post it everywhere..
      o gosh

  11. Olufunke

    January 26, 2016 at 8:30 am

    lol…. Gbemi has entered one chance.

  12. o

    January 26, 2016 at 8:32 am

    Choi!!! See as they enter Gbemi like evil spirit. 2016 has got to be the year! Jan isn’t even over and every day social media drama….na here we dey, dey look. Na data e go chop, nothing else! Lol

  13. cd

    January 26, 2016 at 8:32 am

    the mumu guys just want to be noticed? imagine tagging LIB? all these jobless lagos boys self!!! I TIRE FOR UNA BIKO>><<

    • Babycakes

      January 26, 2016 at 9:35 am

      Abeg rest. Person buy aso ebi 50k, u say na jobless. So a jobless person can buy 50k asoebi? if you want to insult, do so constructively.

    • Lee

      January 26, 2016 at 5:30 pm

      Wow, you are “smart”. So you think everyone who buys things and aso-ebis have jobs? You’re a newcomer in Lagos.

  14. Truth hurts

    January 26, 2016 at 8:35 am

    She didn’t mention any names but the guilty caught their sub. The 2 brothers are ugly so I don’t see why you should be calling Gbemi names. It’s her opinion and she’s entitled to it. This is the tackiest, most unattractive thing I’ve ever seen from 2 grown men but then again, you’re not men, you are boys.’ Social climbers. You can never ever buy class regardless of how many agbada you buy for 50k’. Everybody knows your story Joro and co. I was tolerant of these guys before and would normally look away when I see them at functions they were clearly not invited to, but now after this stupid dead rant and screen munching of private messages just to prove what? That for once you were actually invited LMAO please you guys should just respect yourselves Biko.

  15. Chi

    January 26, 2016 at 8:36 am

    It still doesn’t change the fact that Olumofin is a FAKE psychologist

    And they are STILL wedding party gate crashers!!!! Two snapshots of invites proves nada

  16. Ese

    January 26, 2016 at 8:39 am

    Wow!! Maturity is really not by age o..even Davido’s rants were more mature than this. This is the height. Any woman that marries this guy is doomed. See how he just insulted a woman. God forbid. Just because of one small tweet. He better apologise,this is unacceptable.

    • Chi

      January 26, 2016 at 9:01 am

      And later he will call himself a relationship consultant that wants to start a matchmaking company.

      Young ladies PLEASE stay clear of this FAKE old boys. They are out to exploit vulnerable single women with all the pressure that society puts on them.

      He has NEVER exhibited any decorum or maturity in any of his posts about women. No wonder them that his fighting point is the fact that Gbemi is single……..such a Nast piece of work.

      If I was EDemuren, I would UNINVITE his sorry ass.

    • Nma

      January 26, 2016 at 8:00 pm

      I mean, he clearly shouldn’t be taken seriously. I’ll be surprised if people actually consider him a real psychologist. What a psychopath. See his friends, Mariam – and co, if you can’t clean your house you can’t clean your neighbor’s house. Please ladies, better don’t think of consulting this cretin.

    • Ladybird

      January 26, 2016 at 10:33 am

      exactly o!!!! I said it before and will say it again. they seem like potential abusers…

  17. o

    January 26, 2016 at 8:39 am

    And 2016 seems to be the year of Mr A not calling anyone’s name when throwing shade (eg Olamide n Gbemi) and Mr B accepting their shade and calling names when reciprocating (eg Don Jazzy n the Olumofin brothers). Personally, I think Gbemi should have left out the part about “shout out to the 2 brothers…Awon social climbers”. Now Toolz wey gist you, dem no yab her cos she’s their friend’s wife to be. I hope Gbemi doesn’t feel bad abt their reply cos she shouldn’t give it, if she can’t take it.

    • AWHOTU

      January 26, 2016 at 11:49 am

      BEST COMMENT SO FAR

    • Saint Lucia

      January 26, 2016 at 11:57 am

      Thank you! I have never responded on such issues, but I think the GBEMI gal was looking for trouble and just did not expect that the bros will diss her back this big, although a bit of an overkill if you ask me. Its not her buz what parties they attend. She had no reason to say that and I am sure this would have caused a bit of a rift BTW the men and Toolz. Then again, y again would Toolz say that to Gbemi and even comment of Twitter to show she did say it. It’s high time women sought caution with social media liberties.

  18. Tolu

    January 26, 2016 at 8:41 am

    Just knowing these guys sha…..I think they’re more stupid and assholish than Gbemi has even written. Most of the terms and abuse being used on her are the usual lines silly guys use to harass and intimidate single hardworking ladies every where. In addition, the guy sounds really like an illiterate.

    • D

      January 26, 2016 at 9:00 am

      That is ehn… I’m so disgusted by their rants… can you imagine having a disagreement with someone that responds in such a shameful, ridiculous, cheap, shallow, tacky, attention-seeking manner. Nothing mature or manly about this whatsoever. Beyond childish!

    • Jide

      January 26, 2016 at 8:44 pm

      Single hardworking ladies ke? More like gbeboruns who won’t mind their business. Abeg shift!

  19. stay positive

    January 26, 2016 at 8:41 am

    For Toolz to have tweeted her to Gbemi, then the gist is true. In all they wrote, nothing sensible came out of it.

  20. TayJay

    January 26, 2016 at 8:41 am

    This Gbemi don chop abuse sha. The guy haf vex oh. But I think people should learn to stay out of other people’s business …really their attending ” every and all” the parties in town no stop you from attending nah and ino block your way . Abi wetin vex Aunty Gbemi…#shadesofallsizes…we are ffg sha.

    • Destiny

      January 26, 2016 at 9:06 am

      Thank you oooo!! People can be so one-sided. It’s okay for her to run her mouth and sub guys because she’s a woman but once she’s read, the guy is classless and disrespectful. Don’t dish it if you can’t take it. Twitter fingers is all people have nowadays. Smh

      Both parties are trash honestly. But Gbemi really should have shut her ass up if she didn’t want them coming for her.

    • Californiabawlar

      January 26, 2016 at 10:02 am

      I agree with both of you! I read the initial post and thought, na wah for this Gbemi girl sha…she’s very somehow. An appropriate response to such shade might just be to call her out and ask her to say something to their face!
      Yes, you can never predict how someone would react to your insults, direct or indirect (hence why I always stay in my lane)…but if you, the insulted, now decides to act like the lowlife you were insuated to be then you’ve lost both ways.
      This guy is the type of guy that will tell his friends that he is banging the bossiness out of a female superior at work, a mo iru won! I grew up with useless Yoruba boys like these!
      To put this is context for you, lets just say if they’re both trash, Gbemi is recyclable bottles and cans…these idiots are rotten beans that you forgot to throw out of your lunch bag…effers gon stink up the whole building you gotta throw then out with the container sef!

    • Iris

      January 26, 2016 at 10:34 am

      Omo I fear o! If I see these boys in public I will pick up my skirt and run the other way. I can’t lie, I’m already afraid of them. What she said was truly unnecessary, even if she didn’t mention names. However the level they descended to to make their point was way too low. Ah ah! It could have been a quick two-lined comeback but they wrote epistles about her anatomy, both seen and unseen, her perceived financial status…the mere fact that they spent volumes of time on this and were so defensive is worrying and a huge turn-off.

    • nwanyi na aga aga

      January 26, 2016 at 10:55 am

      @ Californiabawlar “To put this is context for you, lets just say if they’re both trash, Gbemi is recyclable bottles and cans…these idiots are rotten beans that you forgot to throw out of your lunch bag…effers gon stink up the whole building you gotta throw then out with the container sef!” These lines are epic! Choi! the comparison is to die for ..you haff killed me o hahahahahahaha!

    • nwanyi na aga aga

      January 26, 2016 at 10:32 am

      My only question of staying out of people’s business is “How did the Mofin brothers know the sub was directed at them? Are they the only two brothers in Lagos that have ever been in invited to functions together?” Meaning deep in their hearts they know their hustle.hahhahahahaha

    • Uju

      January 26, 2016 at 11:19 am

      Someone referenced Joro. Someone asked if she was referring to a ‘certain’ quack psychologist and her response seemed to suggest so. That’s all the naming needed. BN, you should look for that tweet as well.

      To be honest, whether or not names were mentioned is irrelevant. If you give sufficient descriptions about a person (be it true or not but as long as it makes them identifiable) you may have as well named names. For some reason, here in Nigeria we believe it’s ok to talk about people as long as you don’t mention their names but sufficiently describe their seeming attributes, enough that they become ascertainable. That’s pretty dumb.

      People in the public eye should mind the way they discuss other people lives, personal affairs and livelihood. That’s just it. This wouldn’t have garnered any attention had it been Gbemi isn’t a radio personality.

      I would be seriously offended if the same happened to me, simply because you are forcing down your personal opinions about me(personally) on your large followers from radio. It wouldn’t matter so much if she was a ‘nobody’ per say.

    • sifonde

      January 26, 2016 at 1:55 pm

      Gbemi called out their names in her tweet,,,,,,,,,

  21. stay positive

    January 26, 2016 at 8:42 am

    *** to Gbemi i meant***

    The gist was too sweet

  22. Odine

    January 26, 2016 at 8:45 am

    Nothing interesting about grown men & women attacking each other all over social media. And what the devil gets into people to think it’s entertaining to sit behind mobile devices & participate as though it were a public poker game. If it’s not music artistes fighting, it’s socialites in the making mudslinging. Y’all should quit social media if you don’t understand it’s not a tool for airing dirty laundry! Grown folks behaving badly I call this (Gbemi & the Olumofin brothers)

    • Tinko

      January 26, 2016 at 9:06 am

      Taaa!!!! There is everything interesting about grown pple fighting on social media. How else will u catch a comic break on that boring job. Ok u want bella naija to be blogging those granny posts e. g events this week, find a man boring ass article, sleep inducing vlogs. Off with the hypocrisy abeg.

    • Thatgidigirl

      January 26, 2016 at 5:44 pm

      LMAO!!!! BEST COMMENT EVER!!!

    • Tosin

      January 26, 2016 at 4:51 pm

      Hmmm, I’m guilty. Never thought about it that way, too busy enjoying, but now will actually consider rejecting sweeeet entertainment thrown at we the internet gawkers.
      oooo.

  23. Ewa

    January 26, 2016 at 8:51 am

    Chai!!!!! See as dem finish Gbemi????? Was all that bile necessary?

    • Ewa

      January 26, 2016 at 9:52 am

      On a serious note, Joro and his brother are not real men. Their responses just show how immature, foul mouthed and insecure they are. No sense of self worth. They are the kind of men that use a woman’s single status to mock as if it’s a disease. They are the kind of men that body shame women. How dare you say God was sleeping when angels were making her? Who are you to make such assertions? Why mock her career and business? Really, sometimes maturity does not come with age. I pity the women that will end up with such men. Their responses show they are intimidated by Gbemi. When men are intimidated by women, their first instinct is to bring her down. This is serious abuse and I’m disgusted. Your responses just reinforces people’s perception about you guys. Small boys. Immature men. E pele. Her tweets stung you guys abi??? Eyaah. Don’t cry again. Take lollipop and eat biscuit.

    • Krasavitsa

      January 26, 2016 at 10:21 am

      Yes it was! How else will I have gone through the boring day? This is a perfect example of money doesn’t buy class. Anyhoo, their classlessness is keeping me entertained.

    • whocares

      January 26, 2016 at 11:32 am

      @Krasa- You know it!!! Is this what I miss when I go to bed before 10:00pm? From now on no more kiddie bed time for me. What is this? If my kids ever behaved this way I will take pankere to their bombom. clearly they still think they are young so I will treat them like the kids that they are. such sexist, uncouth comments- and yet they have “style acumen, class and pedigree?” LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Omo onigbese alarifin pele . Ah gosh. Maybe Gbemi should have paddled her own canoe to be honest. private gist is just that – private but this response is SOOOOOOOOOOO unnecessary and such sexist statement from the guy with the PHD? He even put it in bold after all that BS he typed? Honey, people who know, know that a degree that isn’t from a Russell group university in the UK, or similar in the US (please help me out here u.s breadren) is NOTHING so look at that certificate well before you start flaunting your “phdness”. lool. people like this make you tired of academia. See how they just reduced their husband price. Ta le fe gbe iru awon eleyi si ile tori olorun?

  24. kristin

    January 26, 2016 at 8:52 am

    Oga Joro you sound like a market woman. Scratch that, you are a market woman. I have a mental image of you taking off your scarf and tying around your waist and clapping your hands in readiness for a show down. Learn a thing or 2 from Jega. Men like this just irritate the hell out of me.

    • Armistad

      January 26, 2016 at 4:24 pm

      Learn a thing or 2 from Jega

  25. beema

    January 26, 2016 at 8:53 am

    i cant even understand why the Gister-Toolz isnt being called out after the outright admission that she is the one who let the cat out of the bag about the soliciting of invitation cards. IS she untouchable as they also wish to attend her wedding and dot wan to offend her???

    #just saying

    • word

      January 26, 2016 at 9:40 am

      U want the invite they got recalled?

    • o

      January 26, 2016 at 9:59 am

      Of course they won’t call out Toolz on Twitter. They know Tunde so I suspect they’ll deal with her own privately. At least for Tunde’s sake….

    • Kehinde

      January 26, 2016 at 4:39 pm

      Those boys are real climbers, met them in person very annoying lot. Gbemi said what was on everyone’s mind and they couldn’t call toolz nd cynthia out cause it would end their social climbing career.

  26. L

    January 26, 2016 at 8:58 am

    OMG!!!! ???????????????????????????????? I really can’t believe this guy is going in like this! WOW!

    • ATL's finest

      January 26, 2016 at 1:24 pm

      Lmao! Even guys these days are becoming worse than women.. All these lagos messy boots ( social media tackiness/ćlicks etc) smh.. I can’t deal for I, love a drama free Life.

  27. tito

    January 26, 2016 at 9:02 am

    chai. Gbemi sorry o!!!!!!! this abuse is too much now. The Ollumofins brother, I dare say this is very tacky of you! afterall she didn’t mention your name

  28. newbie

    January 26, 2016 at 9:05 am

    Hands up if you read AAAAAALLLLLLL THAT! Jeez! I don’t know any of these people- plus the gbemi plus the brothers plus the wedding couple, but one thing is for sure- e really pain the boys. To the marrow fa. You Internet people sef, fanning the embers! Oya sorry guys, epele, ndo, nor vex. You were truly invited. No need to bring out evidence, you are not in a court of law. Ngwa here’s your dummy….there! Peace to all.

  29. Chic

    January 26, 2016 at 9:08 am

    Did they crash Gbemi’s party? She should have left her nose on her face and not drop it in other people’s businesses. The defender of all brides and grooms indeed. LOL.. people should learn to stay in their lane.

  30. CY

    January 26, 2016 at 9:09 am

    the first time I saw one of these guys referred to on BN as a “socialite” i called one of my friends in Lagos (i am not Nigerian) to ask who this guy was since we share an inside joke about “male Socialites” and in his words ” it’s just some dude and his brother who crash all events and are trying to climb the social ladder by using their grandfather’s political past. They attend all weddings and events in Lagos, invited or not. So they are the definition of a male “socialite’ This was like 2 years ago and reading this now just confirmed it!

    • Tosin

      January 26, 2016 at 4:55 pm

      classic. i enjoyed this comment.

  31. xag

    January 26, 2016 at 9:14 am

    They had a name for this move in Mortal Kombat back in the day, FATALITY they called it. Kai, the guy went over the top with the insults sha, no comeback from this one.

    • Honeycrown

      January 26, 2016 at 6:06 pm

      @xag, your comment about Mortal Kombat got me rolling ???
      Let me add in Mortal Kombat announcer’s voice, “Ultra Combooooo!!! Finish Her” ?

  32. DAME

    January 26, 2016 at 9:18 am

    Errrm..I really like Gbemi..she is one OAP i can stand along with Tools..But really she shouldn’t have…especially with the leaked DM which showed she was talking about the Olumofins
    Toolz sef should have gotten clarity from her boo if he invited them or not before gisting Gbemi.
    Back to the Olumofins..han han handsome boys someone cannot even play with you people again…i expected all that bile from the doctor but not from DK haba na….so all ur fine boy na for gutter
    Uncles please take it easy..its not so serious …make una try also sit for una house
    But 2016 wud b lit sha…a\lots of interesting tins to read abt all d “Celebs”

    My own is like DK said…when/who made OAPs celebs kwa???na wetin i wan know…and who made them more superior and more visible than ladies in professional industries…

    More gist o Bella Naija

    • ferrari

      January 26, 2016 at 9:40 am

      it sounds like these boys begged for the invite from looks of things

    • RIFF RAFF

      January 26, 2016 at 10:26 am

      My take on this:
      1) WHY DIDN’T THEY CALL OUT TOOLZ?IT’S EVIDENT GBEMI IS REVEALING TO ALL THAT TOOLZ DON’T WANT THEM!!!
      2)MAYBE TUNDE GISTED TOOLZ ABOUT HOW HE REALLY FEELS ABOUT THESE CRASHERS, BUT HAD TO INVITE THEM BECAUSE HE KNEW THEM FROM CHILDHOOD,
      3) AND TOOLZ IN TURN GISTED GBEMI.

      Yes Gbemi should learn to face her stuff but she said/typed out loud what many whisper.
      PEOPLE ARE TIRED OF THESE TWO; THEY DON’T WANT THEM AT THEIR EVENTS ANYMORE.
      But of course, it’s way easier to yab Gbemi. THEY WON’T TRY DAT WITH TOOLZ COS THEY”RE SCARED OF TUNDE and that they might lose their social climbing hustle. Too late!!!

      GUYS, TUNDE’S WIFE TO-BE DOESN’T LIKE U AND DOESN”T WANT TO SEE YOU AT HER WEDDING. U JUST THERE COS HER FIANCE INVITED U IN THE NAME OF BEING CHILDHOOD FRIENDS.

      To Toolzie:
      Madam, next time watch your mouth when your husband confides in u. And choose wisely those to whom u confide stuff.

    • onlooker

      January 26, 2016 at 11:16 am

      You have sense!

    • Olanna&Odenigbo

      January 26, 2016 at 12:02 pm

      Even Toolz lacks wisdom, to have gone on twitter to reply Gbemi…. like she wanted Gbemi to put it out there…. she for just carry tea cup dey sip jeje…

      Now if only all these attacks would strengthen the naira….!

    • AWHOTU

      January 26, 2016 at 11:54 am

      I fear the curse ohh.choii this boys girlfriends go suffer ohh.Them get bad mouth pass woman shisosssss

  33. xag

    January 26, 2016 at 9:18 am

    After all this cursing Aunty Gbemi will be seeing 50 Shades of Red. Jesu.

    • ese

      January 26, 2016 at 10:45 am

      No need for her to.. These arent even insults in my opinion..single and searching? that means they are also insulting all the single ladies in the world..talking about her private parts- vagina and clitoris? that means they have been there nw..talking about how she uses dildos?- c’mon..these are things not even secondary school kids will insult you with. Too too childish!! If I were Gbemi, I would be laughing. One small tweet brought about this? Naa..they have nothing on her

    • Mz Socially Awkward...

      January 26, 2016 at 2:36 pm

      I tell you. Not even insults she needs to get ruffled about… Will admit that I read up to the whole “ugly”/”single and searching” part and felt a red mist rise in my mind, filling it with anger but… that mist has lifted now as I now realize their responses have simply broadcasted far more about everything they lack in character than we could ever have remotely suspected.

      Also stopped reading after the 2nd response (whether na post 2 abi episode II) because there’s clearly nothing more to see there except the regurgitated bile.

      Gbemi should dust off and move on, biko. And learn a crucial lesson about not jumping in the mud if you don’t want to muck about with swine. The most interesting thing remains how they refuse to call Toolz out for her own participation in all of this… Very interesting show of cowardice, to my mind.

    • hadassah

      January 27, 2016 at 9:21 am

      Mz Socially Awkward…
      For this response… I owe you lunch whenever you are in Naija or I am in the obodos!
      Too apt!

    • kaytee

      January 31, 2016 at 2:55 pm

      Exactly. All they said are not insults. Just completely ridiculous stuff. I’d be laughing my head off, cos dis one no be abuse. At all. searching for husband? How is that a character flaw. They should have come up with more intelligent stuff

  34. Madam Yewie

    January 26, 2016 at 9:18 am

    Joro and Doro…well done oo.

    Like seriously. I woke up to 2 ‘grown’ men being hella disrespectful on my time line…

    You guys feel big abi…because a few retards are giggling at your sheer stupidness. I guess your nerves have been touched. Someones ego is bruised.

    The both of you are pathetic Gbemi didn’t even call your name. But if the inuendo fits…I guess you must answer to it.

    Joblessness is apparent. See epistle of life and movie….in response to 135 characters on twitter. You woke to 100 missed calls, texts etc. Yawn….who are you guys? You guys are feeling like fifty cent abi….go on social media and trash talk people and tagging peeps for attention. Kmt…use your free time to sit down with your tailor and talk about how your going to alter your trousers so they fit you well.

    Mr Relationship guru as you so lovingly call yourself. Do you think this was smart or do you think you’ll be taken seriously again? Askinh if she was raped as a child??? Hmmm…this is how you treat and disrespect women? Fantastic! All this nonsense you preach is definitely copy and paste rants…

    Why don’t ppl ever hear? Be gracefull always, but I get it…you’ve been sussed out and you need to use it as platform to gain attention? It is well.

    You guys have always kinda irritated me anyway and this irrelevant f**k boy rant has sealed the deal…

    #originalf-boysof2016
    #f-boyssince1900…

  35. ada

    January 26, 2016 at 9:19 am

    Lmao! This guy is a true mo gbo mo ya. See how he is going in on Gbemi but is too scared to mention toolz who is the gist originator because he sha still wants to attend her wedding. As in he can’t miss it

  36. Tracy

    January 26, 2016 at 9:22 am

    These two men are clearly mentally ill. The vitriol and the misogyny, Jesus! And to think one of them is actually a psychologist and dispensing advice to other people?!!! Clearly what Gbemi said touched a nerve. Both of you have deep-seated self-esteem issues otherwise 1) you would not go where you are not invited 2) you would not react so violently. I did not even know it was you that Gbemi was talking about until all this. Brothers, borderline personality disorder comorbid with narcissistic personality disorder. And the misogyny, you are the kind of men that would be serial killers, killing women because of your unresolved mummy issues. Get help!!!!

  37. o

    January 26, 2016 at 9:23 am

    How many ppl in naija today have never done mogbo moya in their life? Maybe to a wedding, birthday or anything? I feel the guys went in too hard on Gbemi, but you sef Gbemi, next time mind your own business. If party crashing is what works for them, abeg how does that affect you? Is it your money they used in sewing agbada ni? Haba? Enough of people not facing their front. Even if you think it, must you tweet it? Now they have left Cynthia and Toolz to face only you. Toolz sef is silly. Ppl that know you husband one way or the other, you are shading them in public? What happened to you doing oju aiye and keeping quiet?

    Dokun and Joro, it haff do. You went in too hard on her. Yoruba’s say if a woman is behaving behaving like a woman, then a man too should act like a man. Not everytime clap back. And if you wan clap back, just a little bit abeg. This is 2016 guys, let’s make love and not war!!!

    • nene

      January 26, 2016 at 1:38 pm

      exactly, toolz shouldn’t have said anything to gbemi, knowing she is confrontational, and even is she doesnt like the olomofin brothers at least her husband knows/knew them, so they should be allowed into the wedding if her husband has agreed. toolz looks like a gossip, she needs to be careful while going into marriage because her mouth can put her into trouble. old women and men acting like secondary school pupils.

    • Secondhandembarrassment

      January 26, 2016 at 6:23 pm

      IF I were her, I would have already been offended at them not having the decorum to resist their market woman urges to drag my friend. Simples. They will not be invited to the wedding.

  38. voice of reason

    January 26, 2016 at 9:25 am

    well kids, don’t start what you can’t finish.

  39. Nne

    January 26, 2016 at 9:26 am

    To be honest I was about to agree to the fact that Gbemi did not mention any names BUT if she replied to a tweet that specifically mentioned the brothers names then that was uncalled for.

    As much as I am all for men respecting women please do not dish out what you cannot take. Simple. Not everyone is about to keep quiet when they are being called out indirectly.

    All this sub, shade etc… is just cowardly…

    Withstanding shame to the brothers for the reply

    • Zee

      January 26, 2016 at 9:51 am

      I don’t disagree with you but the response is over the top. And let’s put it in perspective, it’s a freaking social media slight. As a man, I’m embarrassed for the dude (unfortunately I’m from that part of the country too so it’s a double whammy ?)

  40. A.A.A

    January 26, 2016 at 9:26 am

    Actually its a mental case of a man that will talk this much. He sounds so pained. Its a shame he’s from ondo state . All this talk when she didn’t even mention his name. Maybe he wanted to date her at one time and she turned him down cos there is no way a man should be this upset. Good God.?

  41. Dami

    January 26, 2016 at 9:28 am

    Lawdd!!! Where is the chill ? 2016 nobody is playing lol. Everybody going from zero to one billion in milliseconds

  42. Beegal

    January 26, 2016 at 9:29 am

    BN seems you have beef with the brothers too, calling them party crashers. Bet why all this social media drama in 2016. I think people are just lookin for cheap popularity at this point. Very soon they will release collabo.

  43. Zahradeen

    January 26, 2016 at 9:31 am

    Na wa ooo. I would be so ashamed if i was dating or married To any of these two. Nothing attractive about a guy who drags a woman like this, nothing attractive about a woman that does this talk more of a man.
    This kinda behaviour even shouts woman beater sef.
    All this in my opinion is Bella Naija’s fault, ever since they put these brothers on asoebi bella, that’s When all these rubbish started to enter their head with Joro claiming psychologist. TUEH!!!
    Awon social climbers gidi gan le leyi!!!!!!!!!!!

  44. kay

    January 26, 2016 at 9:32 am

    and someone will say she is dating this classless immature man?someone will actually call them husbands? how would u cope wen u have a disgreement? he would just shout the house down from morning till night na. My God! you are so petty and disgusting. who rants like this ffs?
    gbemi didnt lie obviously,you cheap social climbers. are u even a man? how many posts ontop one sub? you must be really pained tho
    i am so disgusted.

  45. Babycakes

    January 26, 2016 at 9:32 am

    Please y’all should borrow brain while commenting on this matter. I’m nt a fan of these brothers but i stand wt them on this matter. What is gbemi’s problem, why is she going on the matter like it’s a national issue? what’s her business?,Honestly, i dislike girls that can’t gossip in peace nd face other serious matters. Carrying their matter for head like Hulk. She brought everything she’s hearing on herself. Foolish geh.

  46. Wale

    January 26, 2016 at 9:34 am

    …….Let every one knows it all started with Olamide n Donjazy…..Drama everywhere. In my mind, what did Toolz tell Gbemi? What did Tool’s finance (Tunde) discuss with Tool about these brothers? Gbemi, you shouldn’t have called them out on social media and Olumofin’s brother, that’ s too much brother!

  47. Zizi

    January 26, 2016 at 9:37 am

    Sheeeeeeeeet! These guys went in hard. Epic clapback. I’ll repeat what lots of people have been saying “Don’t dish if you can’t take it”. I don’t live in Lagos but clearly, any social butterfly in Lagos would’ve decoded IMMEDIATELY who she was talking about the minute she dropped the “two brothers” line. I mean, we sharp sharp decode SDK’s “rumor has it on a daily”?…that said, guys, this is so so wrong. Body shaming, knocking down a legit business and dancing on a single woman’s relationship status is so *yawn*. . . I’ll come back to read more comments. I see my no nonsense boss coming. *flees*

    • the other Ebere

      January 26, 2016 at 12:12 pm

      Is that what you regard as epic? Please find another word I don’t think epic cuts it. Two grown men throwing tantrums like a 3 years old is now considered epic okw’ ya? I am even embarrassed for them. Gbemi hit a nerve on this one and their desperation to hit back has humiliated them and shown them for who they really are. Like they say, ” a hit dog will holler” the hit dogs just hollered. Seriously her clitoris??? Her bank account ??? What kind of retarded human beings are these brothers?? Where is their mother bikonu?

  48. bammy

    January 26, 2016 at 9:38 am

    Murder case le leyi o, ‘dem don kill Gbemi o!’. Frog princess, gorilla princess, remove the oap u have a butt ugly gorilla, cobweb va jayjay, findgbemiabae2016, ……………………………… mo gbe!. Ehn!, aunty Gbemi ki lo kan yi?, what is ya business?, but lagbayi doro ati DK make una cease fire. E jo!, ero pese!. Still on still aunty Gbemi ni oloshi!, aunty be starving that manly pussy with cobweb, muscles, and stretch mark but me I don’t send nah lawma I come do for lagos I will pop that manly pussy given 0.001% opportunity. Finally, never let no one bully u, never let a hater take ur joy, never let people be the reason u’re sad, do what makes you happy regardless of whatever it is, if owambe parties makes them happy it is their choice and I support them (owambe fan), seen people die of depression, seen people lost focus and follow their dreams out of depression, to evry human on earth kick some ass and have some fun, that is what life is all about, always stay happy. Aunty olobo eran!(goat)

  49. simi

    January 26, 2016 at 9:38 am

    And what if she wasn’t referring to them but to friends who are as close as brothers?…. To think their ‘friends’ wife-to-be is a friend of the person they are insulting, then He calls OAP’s wannabe celebrities and their friends wife-to-be is an OAP… Even in anger, confirm, be silent and sort it out behind closed doors it makes one the bigger person.
    The brothers just made a mockery of their upbringing, to think one is a psychologist.

  50. Felicity

    January 26, 2016 at 9:39 am

    The manner “the accused” responded is so uncouth and immature. How do you sit down and type such vulgar and profane-filled words in response? You really do sound as accused; like a vagabond. Tone it down.

  51. Ruby

    January 26, 2016 at 9:39 am

    This Gbemi sha! She had it coming. Everytime I go on internet I see her comments about one person thing or the other. Why someone should tell you something and you go in Twitter to broadcast it is beyond me. Na you enter one chance This one worse pass Aunty Janet Hubert wey yap Will Smith and Jada. Calling people social climber…. What is your business? Next time dont sub the wrong people or else you will get submarined back,,, big time!

    • The real Ibinabo

      January 26, 2016 at 11:20 am

      May God forgive me but I am happy they put her in her place. She is always giving coded subs on twitter. I am glad someone had the balls to call her out. The insults were too much though.

  52. Wale

    January 26, 2016 at 9:40 am

    Personally, I think the guys have said a lot but Gbemi deserves it. This is my problem with radical babes. They always want to leverage on people’s image to build a live. i advise that Tools build a better bond with people associated with her husband because someday, they will be her saving grace. #gbemi get a job you can be proud of on jobberman, careers24, ngcareers.

    • anonymous

      January 26, 2016 at 12:08 pm

      “…saving grace” from what? why do women always need to put up with people they do not want in their lives because of some future issues they will need to be saved from and men are never asked to do same? oh, I just realised you are a yoruba man….

    • nene

      January 26, 2016 at 1:41 pm

      why can’t she put up with people? these ppl were in her husbands life before her, so she better put up with whoever it is. she should be mature enough to handle things like this, she’s not a baby.

  53. RUTH

    January 26, 2016 at 9:41 am

    describing the dudes in one word…. classless fools

    • Armistad

      January 26, 2016 at 4:33 pm

      Two words, darling. Two words

  54. Flow

    January 26, 2016 at 9:42 am

    this is really shameful abeg! was all that rant necessary? I pity the women dating these boys, @toolz and gbemi e dey una body too, y’all gave them relevance with them tweets so deal with it, matter wey una go just gossip and forget, una carry am come tweeter, now na you “busy body” Gbemi carry the matter for head like gala, fear no gree dem mention Toolz “the gbeborun” ntooiiiiii! just stay mute after this, wetin be my own sef?

  55. Chi

    January 26, 2016 at 9:43 am

    Hahaha?…………..just like a mother to a baby! You can always tell a proper mother by her soothing words

  56. bola

    January 26, 2016 at 9:44 am

    me I love how these guys came all out! simple! the girl is an idiot! and am sure someone mentioned it to her, she stupidly decided to be the one to tweet it .olodo!

  57. Nitemi

    January 26, 2016 at 9:47 am

    We had a name for guys like this when I was in secondary school: Bubblers By Force

    • Tosin

      January 26, 2016 at 5:11 pm

      You are a philosopher and a historian, my friend.

  58. Zee

    January 26, 2016 at 9:48 am

    LoL. What does the guy’s silly rant have to do with Lagos boys. You too sef, must everyone be lumped together. All these Naija babes, i taya for una mouth Biko (see how silly that is)

  59. dee

    January 26, 2016 at 9:50 am

    Gbemi please shut up. is Toke your friend not doing the exact same thing you accuse these guys of doing. Who invited her to the MUD babe’s wedding Maybe you gossip about her on a low and not bring it on twitter because freneme! but Joro brothers are your enemies. kmt says a lot about you. Bella naija post my comment please

  60. Atarodo

    January 26, 2016 at 9:50 am

    It is always so great to see people tested like this, you really get to see their true colours. All this abuse over simple mo gbo mo ya comment. Don’t get me started on all the sexism in those comments. I understand that decent people too have bad days, but the length of the comments, and from both brothers? It does tell a lot about their character. Abeg Lagos women, if you know what is good for you, please flea if one these brothers should toast you. These are the kind of dudes that will call you honey to get your attention then call you ugly cause you no give them number. They are just showing their insecurities. Hissss

    • Iris

      January 26, 2016 at 10:38 am

      Like! The way apparently sophisticated and grown men speedily descended to her marital status and sex life…how old are they sef? I’ve never seen such a thing before. It’s like a mask fell off or something. I’m truly amazed.
      This girl had better not carry someone else’s gist to Twitter again. Bet Toolz is like ‘shet mehn I should have kept my mouth shut.’

  61. Sade

    January 26, 2016 at 9:52 am

    Oh please Dokun and that his brother are the most irritating type of men in Nigeria. Jobless social climbing gigolos. They have the ‘I gas to be big’ syndrome and will do anything to get there. So Dokun sef has mouth to be insulting people has he forgotten where he came from? Has he forgotten people know his story, his hustle for invites, bribing bouncers all to be in the parties. Shioooor. He is a scammer of life him and that quack brother. Dokun!!!!!! I feel sorry for that poor girl that got entangled with him. Ask him about his history and how many heads he had to step on to get there. He is just upset that gbemi voiced out what everyone knows and has been thinking it’s not like she lied. Now the bouncers will be on guard. And so you went to same secondary school with Tunde…doesn’t mean he wanted to invite you at first….why didn’t you screenshot the msg where you asked for your invite. Nonsense

  62. Cindy

    January 26, 2016 at 9:52 am

    E pain them ????

  63. o

    January 26, 2016 at 9:53 am

    Btw, I see BN has a staff on standby approving comments. See the speed at which comments are increasing. Carry go oooo

  64. Oloye

    January 26, 2016 at 9:55 am

    This Gbemi girl don enter wahala. Who would have invited Gbemi to any great gathering if not for BeatsFM?

    Afterall, these guys have IVs! Don’t just judge pple and think they dont have IVs bcos you never had..

    I think they should treat Toolz fnck up too…:)

    • Californiabawlar

      January 26, 2016 at 10:10 am

      Gbemi has been working since forever! After them Jumobi (AIT) on lunch break finished their reign in the early 200s…she was one of the first set of people who were popular just because she worked on radio….her name has been popping since the days of Dan Foster! You’re either a kiddo or just moved from the village or outside the country sha…but either ways learn before you speak.

      Aunty Gbemi all this arifin you came and collected online is way worse than the dribble that numbskull wrote up there…just try and stop being an internet warrior…some people don rub shit for body already and they are looking for people to join their clique.

    • Mz Socially Awkward...

      January 26, 2016 at 2:44 pm

      That your last line… I tell you. Lesson for everyone (not only Gbemi) to learn from.

  65. Oreos

    January 26, 2016 at 9:57 am

    This is ridiculous!!!!!! Over what again??? That she may have (which i don’t see) called you out on your mogbo mo ya behavior and then you go in on her like that!!! Yeah, no boo boo, that the behavior of a toddler, because a boy with half a brain wouldn’t act like this. Oh and Btw, dear men, please you need to come up with better and new material when you want to insult us women, because immediately going to the fact that we are not married, or are not getting laid or are “ugly” is quickly quickly becoming old. It is beginning to loose it sting, I promise!
    #dockitorandbrodagetyourlife

  66. O~Intuition!

    January 26, 2016 at 10:01 am

    I felt something tacky about the Joro Olumofin guy right from the beginning.
    Relationship Psychologist Propagandist! … The real MVP at compulsion social climbing.
    #Thatsall
    #unrefined
    #unprofessional

  67. Zee

    January 26, 2016 at 10:01 am

    The next thing na Gbemi and this one will marry. Lol

    • Asgrl

      January 26, 2016 at 3:20 pm

      I reject that on her behalf in Jesus name!

  68. T. Baby

    January 26, 2016 at 10:04 am

    I can’t get over how well the Joro guy speaks and he’s even smiling. Lol. I think Tunde like every other groom didn’t bother with the whole invite ish. (wife’s job), one of the brothers must have mentioned it to Tunde that shey we no go get invite ni *jokingly or not*. It hits on Tunde that he has to send invite. Tunde tells Tolu he has to invite them too, Tolu “gists” Aunty OAP, she carried it on her head and tweeted about it. Now, she got more than she deserved. And it’s not even the first time I am hearing she’s plain rude and has superiority complex. Seems someone has had enough of her behaviour. Back to reading purplelabalaba.com ‘s blog as I cannot kill myself and my gele/brow game must be on fleek this year… Drama Upandan since January 1st.

  69. Bella

    January 26, 2016 at 10:05 am

    This is what happens when you decide NOT to stay in your lane, in simple basic English, when you decide to stop mind your own business. How does their attending any events affect the price of bread or your life, does it take away from your salary. Now with all these humiliation that they have rendered unto you, they have dragged you down to their level and beaten you with experience! I feel pity for you my dear, as a woman to be rained with insults is degrading, you shouldn’t have touched the hornets next! The guilty are always afraid and have no shame in their works! Was it all worth it? Abeg jor, let them attend whatever they want, it is their lives and not yours, what do you care what they do, does it take away from you nne? Now for all this wahala on top your head, how will you commot for house? This is a classic case of, don’t come for me, if i didn’t call for you! May we learn to face our work and stay in our lane ! To the boys, what will your mother say if she read this and heard the filth that came out of the same mouth you show affection to her with? This is too much na! Give the girl a break and please no need to go under the belt with such degrading and deep insults! May this be a warning to all people who think first before they act! If you cant say something to somebody’s face, then abeg don’t try it on social media o.

  70. Nana Abena

    January 26, 2016 at 10:17 am

    Dear Toolz, Please stop discussing everything with everyone now that you are getting married.

  71. Postulates

    January 26, 2016 at 10:19 am

    This behavior by these guys is beyond foolish, dropping primary school yabs like retards. Babe didn’t mention anybody’s name. Again, DK is flipping childish. Why list your entire lineage over such a trivial issue. Abi did you also buy asoebi for them? Dude, you need to go find out the definition of legitimate, as there is nothing legitimate about getting a $500000 NNPC contract at the age of 23. Surely, your contract did not follow due process. EFCC will visit you and your benefactor really soon!
    Every name dropped was a hit, back to back from Fani-Power to Alfred Rewane , Awon Climbers ti take over.

    • Internet warrior

      January 26, 2016 at 8:13 pm

      your last line killed me!!! LMAOOO

  72. Duni

    January 26, 2016 at 10:19 am

    There is NOTHING, NOTHING, NOTHING as nauseating as a man who behaves like a woman – and an uncouth woman for that matter.

  73. mimi

    January 26, 2016 at 10:20 am

    Its not about manhood abeg. No Human being should think, much less speak or write the sorts of things these ppl wrote. Don’t care what was done to them. They’ve just shown the world who they really are. Even a ghetto sewer is pristine compared to their minds. And they did this in response to a tweet? Tueh!!!

  74. kay

    January 26, 2016 at 10:21 am

    Watch Joro and Gbemi end up as Husband and wife. Hahaha.
    The stories they’ll tell their children.
    Never do a video of you insulting a person, shey you want to spoil your political ambition ni?
    Oya take it down.

  75. nini

    January 26, 2016 at 10:23 am

    No matter what she did or said..No one deserves this. Please guys just grow up.

  76. nwanyi na aga aga

    January 26, 2016 at 10:23 am

    Yawns….. The only problem Joro and his bro has with Gbemi is that she is ugly and has no man. Such irony, seeing that both of them are ugly too. At least they agreed that she is an Owo princess, no be by force royalty, she be royalty albeit in their own eyes ugly. Well from their rants, I just found out plenty things about Gbemi..She must be a very good girl with pure ways and hardworking, because walahi if she had any strange story the bile and venom with which the brothers abused her, they would have amplified and told exaggerated stories about her.
    Joro and brother, wedding attendee and relationship expert of life..where is your own wedding? where is your own wife? Shebi it is in this bellanaija comment section that someone accused you of a near rape incident? As a relationship expert why you never marry?since you are asking Gbemi a question tell us media whore?
    Secondly Gbemi did not call you people’s name, I didn’t even think of you two until I saw your rants. There are so many Lagos socialites that attend weddings with their brothers so why did you guys receive 100 missed calls? Loool! meaning all your friends know that you people are invite beggars and party crashers..loooool! You should abuse all your friends. They deserve your anger more than Gbemi, so they knew you were a party hustler and yet they didn’t tell you how people were mocking you guys. All those people that gave you 100 missed calls are very wicked people. In fact they are your enemies.
    Thirdly, from the comments it was Toolz that told her girl una tory, say una beg abi harass im husband for card. So why abuse Gbemi who was providing entertainment for her fans from a real life story and leave Toolz the original originator of the tory? Abi una no wan make Tunde disinvite you people if you dare abuse im wife? hahahahahhaha. E good to get levels in this life.

    Nna men! Joro and Brother try siddon for house. If una get sense boycott Tunde’s wedding shaa, that is if una get shame. Collect back your 50k ashebi money and buy something for the motherless babies home. If not siddon for house and play all those ps5 abi 6 guys play. Shame no dey catch una. Or better still fix your own society wedding that same day. hahahahahhahahaha Nonsense chewing gum boys…shaming a woman because she is single. All these useless Lagos fake boys…….awon by force celebrity.

    • Rolly

      January 26, 2016 at 12:49 pm

      HAHAHAHAHAHAAAA I LOVE YOU FOR THIS COMMENT!!!!!!!
      Imagine an ugly single idiot calling someone else ugly and single. Oh the irony. Nigerian men like these two make my skin crawl. What an embarrassment. I pray to God no one marries your insecure a$$es. Awon were meji. At your age you’re party hopping and social climbing. SHIOR

  77. bijouxthisbijouthat

    January 26, 2016 at 10:28 am

    WOW! WOW! How can a man spew such sexist profanity and 1900’s useless talk like this? She is not married so? she is ugly so?
    I am appalled people actually liked this trash!!! That Doro idiot has shown what he actually thinks of women and its not good!!! This is what is in his inner heart.
    I am literally shaking here… This is disgusting!
    And why did he tag all the website and gossip blogs?He is a classless tout!!!

    • sheri

      January 26, 2016 at 11:06 am

      Very classless! His true colours really shone through and the next minute he will want to start lecturing women on how to get a man! Very disgusting man.

  78. Truth is Bitter

    January 26, 2016 at 10:29 am

    You guys, (Gbemi, Joro and Dokun) need to see beyond now. Small minds discuss people while great minds discuss ideas. Gbemi you need to learn to respect everyone that comes your way. Respect is reciprocal! You don’t need to say some nasty words about who is/are gate crashing any wedding or party. There is always a reason behind every action. Everyone has a life to live if the Olumofins decide to live their lives like that, that is their cup of tea. Be positive about life and see how you can move your business to global/international level.

    Never waste your precious time discussing people. The world is moving fast and all those that love to discuss what this one or that one is doing are left behind. Remember you are getting older and time waits for no man. To me Toolz that started this is surely wiser than you. She has moved on to another thing/project after she gisted you but you went ahead to Tweet your gossip! Think before you do anything gurl. and ask yourself questions like ‘Is it worth my time and energy if I share on socialmedia?

    This is my #2cents!

  79. Hehehehehe

    January 26, 2016 at 10:34 am

    Hahahaha… Very good for Aunty Gbemi. And please nobody should come and call them petty. She started the pettiness na, we are in a world of equal standards! Clapback of the Century!

  80. Postulates

    January 26, 2016 at 10:36 am

    This behavior by these guys is beyond foolish, dropping primary school yabs like retards. Babe didn’t mention anybody’s name.

    Again, DK is flipping childish. Why list your entire lineage over such a trivial issue. Abi did you also buy asoebi for them? Dude, you need to go find out the definition of legitimate, as there is nothing legitimate about getting a $500000 NNPC contract at the age of 23. Surely, your contract did not follow due process. EFCC will visit you and your benefactor really soon!

    Two men were jejely climbing the social ladder and this babe just shook the ladder. This is the reaction you get for shaking someone’s ladder. Do you know how long they have been climbing the social ladder? Do you know how many steps that is left for them to climb, till they get to the top of the social ladder?

    Every name dropped was a hit, back to back from Fani-Power to Alfred Rewane , Awon Climbers ti take over.

    • Olanna&Odenigbo

      January 26, 2016 at 11:44 am

      LMAOOOO @ your closing line….hit back to back for real!!!

  81. Ms.b

    January 26, 2016 at 10:42 am

    Are u really in California? If yes, do u sleep at all?? Commenting On bella naija by 1am California time

  82. Jollof rice

    January 26, 2016 at 10:47 am

    Dokun & Joro look like He-goats with their ugly beards!
    They are ugly beyond words!
    Typing with their syphilitic fingers!
    Imbeciles!
    ugly imps!
    calling someone ugly when you are ugly is soooooooo ridiculous!
    Capt demuren kindly give them their 50k back abeg!

  83. Mz Titilitious

    January 26, 2016 at 10:48 am

    mouth wide opened* please someone should close it for me! chai!

  84. RIFF RAFF

    January 26, 2016 at 10:49 am

    I tire oooo. Asking this woman if she was raped and describing her private parts. Only because of a wedding…..see grown, mallam-bearded men throwing tantrum because of a wedding. I pity their fiancées.
    These guys have really picked sand by themselves and poured inside their own garri…..
    Will u die if don’t attend ? In a month’s time it will be soon be forgotten and another one will hit frontpage.

  85. Eyitayo

    January 26, 2016 at 10:50 am

    Next time Aunty Gbemi learn to mind your own business #ToolzSpokesperson

  86. Segi

    January 26, 2016 at 10:56 am

    I won’t acknowledge the Oshodi Agbero brothers ‘Cos I can’t speak in their language. Gbemi, you don’t deserve the insults but you shouldn’t be on social media throwing shades. You’re what now 33 – 35? (I know you and kunbi are both older than Tope F’n’R, who openly declares her age and will be 33). What I intend to say with reference to your age is you doing better, you are not 18 or 25 why go to social media to be throwing shades and tatafo? Peep this, I’m a party crasher with a purpose, which is to expand my social circle. I moved back to Nigeria a year ago and have been finding it real difficult making friends. If an invite comes from my colleague to attend her boyfriend’s brother father-in-law memorial I will go. Toolz shares no fault in this drama, girls talk but I doubt if she asked you to go online and publish your gist. Let’s be a lady through and through. As for the Joro brothers, you know better than to acknowledge their response – do NOT throw another sub! End of Epistle!

    • Xtophar

      January 26, 2016 at 12:52 pm

      Gbemi is 32 this July…

    • Kindle

      January 27, 2016 at 7:15 am

      Gbemi is actually 39 years old

    • Susan

      January 27, 2016 at 10:21 am

      Kindle, Gbemi is not 39. Wow! Ah ah, I can’t understand people who say things they’re unsure of with so much certainty. Gbemi’s Parents and close friends celebrated her 30th birthday in 2014 at Otres Restaurant so do the Maths.

  87. Grace

    January 26, 2016 at 10:56 am

    The truth after reading the tweet from Gbemi, those brothers(didnt even know they are blood sef)who i just randomly see on IG didnt come to mind. (Sorry i dont give a F**k about them)as they are only popular in some parts of Lagos. Now to say i am disappointed in them is an understatement. Where all those names calling necessary? Jeez he is such a “woman wrapper”i made my first $$$ at 23 so who your money don help?SMH
    I hate shits like this sha. They be forming big boys and girls in Lagos when no soul know them other than their pictures some few see on IG.

    • Jezebel

      January 26, 2016 at 12:23 pm

      I bet they get man orgasms from seeing their photos on BN. *Girly scream “look there I am on BN again, I gbadun that my pose. Oh I just came!” Lol

  88. 345Cash

    January 26, 2016 at 10:57 am

    They are already dealing with her privately that’s why Joro responded. You know how guys would have called their friends babe to scold her, but Gbemi will still be forming OAP with MSc. She does talk like she has the final say in everything. And Tolu has done nothing wrong cos she only gave gist to a friend. Aunty strong opinion had to tweet it. Cos she has nothing better to do with her time. Gbemi can like to look for trouble, she always has an opinion about anybody she does not like and has to give it on air or social media.
    No respect to the Olumofin brothers, but Gbemi, face your work.

  89. Oloye

    January 26, 2016 at 11:00 am

    Eyin Oloshi gbogbo! If you get subbed and you are acting ‘afterall she didnt mention names’, you are dindinrin! Yoruba will say ‘ti olowe o’ba mo’we e, eru ija lon’ba’ (if you get subbed and you didnt respond, you are a coward).

    Everyone that knows these boiz would know that she was referring to them. All shade na shade, they are LagosBigBoys in their own right and they have got personalities to defend. Nothing like childish or smallPikin in socail yabz…If you yab, I go yab you. Ema lo wa oo..Leave trash for LAWMA.

    Meanwhile, GbemiOO mouth dey smell (1), She no fine (2), she be like that old area father (I no mention name) (3), and she dey sell fake shoes (4) and she dey use rubber rob totoo…Plenty wahala..

  90. Bulwe

    January 26, 2016 at 11:01 am

    Anyone associated with these brothers should be embarassed and even sides with them. A so called psychologist that tries to rape girls and hunts for desperate girls online. A so called politician who is into so much runs its not even funny. They are social climbers and notice me by force. You think people will side your childish rants. Whether she is ugly o. Or media whore or unmarried. Your narccistic behavior has no place in this society. Go and learn from the great people of this world how they succeed. Stupid brothers. I am embarassed for anyone with that surname sef

  91. O~Intuition!

    January 26, 2016 at 11:03 am

    The Hustle to ‘remain famous’ and not just ‘reclusive’, is real in 2016!

  92. sheri

    January 26, 2016 at 11:03 am

    What I can deduce from all of this is that these Olumofin Brothers are desperate and pathetic! Ok, so Gbemi said what she said (which is very true, ask any Lagosian), but these boys have descended so low to be calling her such nasty things. Do they have sisters? Do they have a mother? These guys sound pained and thats why they are using the fact that she is single (which they probably think is her Achillies heel) to insult her. Alakija was right, Joro you are a quack psychologist and your brother isnt any better. Jobless wannabees!

  93. Chinny

    January 26, 2016 at 11:07 am

    Gbemi didn’t mention names but clearly they knew she was referring to them. That notwithstanding, their response is totally shocking and immature. Such vulgarity! My God! Maybe she was wrong to pick on them but i don’t think she deserves what they dished out.

    • Olanna&Odenigbo

      January 26, 2016 at 11:40 am

      immature, yes…. shocking, no…. Dont throw stones if you live in a glass house.

  94. bn lover

    January 26, 2016 at 11:17 am

    Oya Gbemi u got wat u deserved and even more. Kpele. Bia,@toolz u see why it’s good to stfu? When ur husband confines in u….pls let it end wit u! U r the genesis of this problem. Na so marriage d take end ohhh,cause ur husband fit carry him family matter tell u,and u tell ur friend. Yawa go just gass. Joro and Dk God bless una. Not everytime gurls going after guys and feeling untouchable….sometimes it’s good 4 men to get in the dirt wit them and even get dirtier sef. But then,make una no go this wedding. Make una rest. Toolz noo want make una come,else this no 4 be matter 2 gist about. Now,hope u guy know there’s no loyalty on the streets of lagos. See as una guy sell una give him wife….see as Toolz don quite as una d finish gbemi. Okay ohhhhh bye

  95. yemmy

    January 26, 2016 at 11:22 am

    Even your psychologist @joroolumofin needs a psychiatrist….lebu lebu…..gosh, have you seen this guys ig posts recently. A man cross dressing in the name of been funny or been famous on ig, o ga o. He is not even handsome yet he describes a fellow human like that…..

  96. dee

    January 26, 2016 at 11:24 am

    This whole drama is ridiculous,granted the OAP threw some shade their way but she in no way hurled/rained curse filled expletives in their direction needless to say i’m embarrassed for the uncouth fellow who claims to be a socialite classy psychologist from an upstanding family and blah blah dude all that went down the drain the minute you decided to have a “brain fart”episode with your response.

  97. tish

    January 26, 2016 at 11:29 am

    Gbemi isn’t the nicest of people so it’s hard to feel sorry for her. She needs to chill with this I don’t send attitude, I can say whatever I want to say bla bla. But these guys sha, abi na boys, haba! Did she kill anybody? This is way too much.

  98. Somtoo

    January 26, 2016 at 11:29 am

    Now whenever i see this joro dude, all ill think is this fake mogbo mo ya guy..hohohohohoho. The picture of him and his bro in their white agbada is now so hilarious. Lokking like they about to gatecrash another wedding..lmao. Gbemi oooo. Your mouth is bad lmao @ awon social climbers. Please at the end Gbemi won jare. I cant even recall what the 2 dudes were on about. They sounded like kids.

  99. Anonymous

    January 26, 2016 at 11:30 am

    Thank God Gbemi spoke out!!!!This boys always attend wedding’s that they were never invited for..I remember I told my husband jokingly that he should not be surprised if Joro attends our wedding. We shook our heads when we saw him at the wedding.

    • Anti-Crasher

      January 26, 2016 at 11:48 am

      You have literally typed what I was thinking, I was vehemently arguing with people and lo and behold they were there. Taking pictures and tagging stuff like they were friends! Na, that girl ain’t lie

  100. adisa

    January 26, 2016 at 11:35 am

    One thing is sure Toolz set the babe up mehn. But for the respect the guys have for demerun I’m sure they left her out of the insult, but gbemioo used her head, shoulder, knees and toes to catch the sub. Sometimes girls need this kind of reality check. Call the olumofin brothers any name but I’m sure the rant was needed.

  101. Olori Tari

    January 26, 2016 at 11:42 am

    My eye saw FILIBUSTER and I’m still rolling on the floor. Lmaoo the ‘politician’ himself…Kmt.

    The problem = blogs/sites in all of these. Because if you guys have not made every crass Harry and Tom a ‘writer’ and a ‘socialite’, this will not be happening. That being said, I don’t care about Gbemi, Toolz because they have their own or those characters but I’m more concerned about two things. I cannot read everything they posted but I’m almost certain I saw a rape insult about her being raped as a child or am I not seeing well? 1) WHY IS A RAPE REFERENCE ACCEPTABLE? BEING RAPED AS A CHILD IS NOW AN INSULT? IS THIS SANE TO ANY HUMAN BEING? WHAT KIND OF FRUSTRATION THAT A BRIDE AND HER FRIEND SAID THEY DID NOT INVITE YOU, WILL MAKE YOU STOOP SO LOW? Lmaooo na so agbada and society wedding dey do una reach? God forbid, a bride says they did not invite you and they don’t like you, yet you are raving like a mad man. And they will still go oo, na WA. 2) If she was indeed referring to you, you’ve just made her stance clear that you are quack. I guess the ones that have sense can see through your madness now that you have nothing but you state the obvious (albeit wrong) a lot of times, just to appear sensible. Even little smart kids know better. WHY IS BEING NOT MARRIED AN INSULT? SO BECAUSE SOME WOMEN DECIDED TO STICK TO YOUR IMMATURE DUMB SELVES, YOU THINK EVERY WOMAN IS THAT DESPERATE?. BEING UGLY IS NO INSULT EITHER. Awon Olofo

  102. fortune

    January 26, 2016 at 11:47 am

    seriously wedding crashing or wateva isn’t a big deal as long as d people doing d wedding don’t throw u out, me love weddings too. there is no serious matter here, at least she didn’t call their names, its guilty conscience. unless something else has happened in their closed places that no one knows bout.

  103. from here

    January 26, 2016 at 11:48 am

    Gbemi, you brought all these upon yourself.

    1. there was clearly an invite there Tunde asking if they got the aso.ebis

    2. problem i.have with girls is that they abuse and expect not to be abused back. When the guy returns his, they say he isnt matured. Maturity my foot. Dont come for me if you dont want my trouble. Let everyone be on his lane.

    3. this is a typical example of what these so called modern girls do at home to their husband. insult his generation and expect him to be looking.
    it is gender equality age abi? you talk i talk God no go vex

    4. i have no value or regard for all of these oap whatsoever. gbemi or toolz or.whatever. they are mannerless valueless and what have you

    5. many of you should show your bfs and husbands, they cant even stand beside these guys and you know it.

    Women listen, you dont have the monopoly of insult, thrash talking or manner less behaviour. just no jam your type.

  104. jhennique

    January 26, 2016 at 11:52 am

    Gbemi, people like you deserve to be dragged! What is your own? How is it doing you? Toolz wan take and put sand sand inside her marriage before the tin start. I hate folks like this!
    However Mofin could have handled this better.
    To each their own! If you like to party crash, fine! as long as you can face the consequences and if you dont like to party crash, fine as well!
    Dont go throwing spine-less shade around like an immature someborry. If you aint afraid to talk please call names out loud. #OSHI

  105. koins

    January 26, 2016 at 11:54 am

    So classless, tacky, uncouth, vile and totally uncalled for. And one of them is married, to such a smart woman. Such a pity! I’m actually so irritated that I feel sick. So immature and unbelievable. My God, don’t they have parents, like no home training at all. None! Zilch!

  106. cybernd

    January 26, 2016 at 11:55 am

    Please i’m curious! will they still attend the wedding? have they paid for the aso ebi? otherwise security must be beefed up maka a di a ma ama O gwalu O

    • sheri

      January 26, 2016 at 12:06 pm

      Knowing how shameless and desperate these boys are, they might just turn up. No shame in their by force social climbing game. Tunde should ban them as they will bring bad vibes and blood to the event and its obvious Toolz does not want them.

  107. Manana

    January 26, 2016 at 12:01 pm

    It’s so sad to see what social media has turned to, a means of cyber bulling.. I saw these tweets yesterday and the first people that came to mind were these brothers
    If we have to weigh in though it was not in Gbemis constituency to add mouth to the matter ?? she said the truth and the truth hurts ? Thus the outrage. The so called psychogist insulting a woman over wedding invites, calling her entire family into play, bringing up scenarios of rape and molestation.. Ahh uncle it’s not that serious
    We see your Instagram posts of you forming doctor now we know the truth, the accents and dripping supposed swag can’t buy you elegance, class, intelligence and an appropriate sense of thinking
    Never judge a book by his cover.. And err an OAP’s job is to deliver gist.. Are we not entertained..
    Please not only Toolz and Ebukas babe we want to see you at more weddings
    Preach on ✊✊

  108. nwa nna

    January 26, 2016 at 12:04 pm

    WEDDING CRASHERS movie Naija edition in the works… Olumofin Bros production & distributed by OAP Gbemi coming to a social media location platform near you soon 😀

  109. Moyo

    January 26, 2016 at 12:09 pm

    Please put up your hand if you will consult Joro Olumofin for relationship advice? You can be sure that your secret discussions will be on Facebook and Instagram.

  110. kaya

    January 26, 2016 at 12:09 pm

    Gbemi you were read for FILTH and I dare say you deserved it this time. Lol

  111. to men

    January 26, 2016 at 12:10 pm

    Women are known to be blabber blabbily dah, sounds like men who pays much attention to this f-ery def have a lot of time in their hands, even more so to respond to it. Does sounds like Pinky, yall should get a vaseline and jerk off to it, it’s way more healthier than all of the time spend replying to two line text in 365part, guy grow. People are inventing, you all here including me riding on that as well. Gaddamit, for f- sake. My kids do better than this. Enough of this bull shit.

  112. to men

    January 26, 2016 at 12:12 pm

    enough with belittling female, you will become a father soon if you already haven’t. and imagine a Naija boy using those text on her. My two scent. Did you DIE?

  113. O~Intuition!

    January 26, 2016 at 12:13 pm

    When a supposed psychologist needs to visit the PSYCHIATRIST.

    • onye

      January 27, 2016 at 5:51 am

      ….or needs to be committed at Aro Abeokuta for life!!

  114. Miss Anoni Moss

    January 26, 2016 at 12:15 pm

    WOW like seriously all these from grown ass men mmnnn….. all I can say is plenty are mad but few are roaming.

  115. 'liya

    January 26, 2016 at 12:20 pm

    “Butt ugly Owo Princess from Akoko, Ondo State who sells China shoes, OAP Personality who cannot keep her mouth shut”

    OUCH! Even I felt the hurt. Gbemi sorry

  116. Fiyin

    January 26, 2016 at 12:29 pm

    Na so Dammy Krane & Wizkid fight and made up that same night. I am waiting for there make up kiss.
    Wat social media will cause in this generation ehn #unthinkable#unimaginable

  117. Jezebel

    January 26, 2016 at 12:30 pm

    My grandfather was this and that!!! Really? How old are these dudes? 5? Sad.

    As for Great grand aunty Gbemi, you sef! How is it your business ma? If you get married, you can tell your bouncers to ensure they don’t attend, until then – shut your halitosis infused breath!

  118. Luqman

    January 26, 2016 at 12:36 pm

    January 2016 nah special month that justifies that street ti take over. Comfirm ni!

  119. Bruno fierce Two

    January 26, 2016 at 12:42 pm

    Gbemi sometimes keep quiet, I listen to you and Toolz weekdays and you guys show a tint of fake superiority which i cant understand. That being said this Olomofin boys are kids, social climbers and all what not. How immature to mention names tied to you, Insult a grown ass woman as if you guys are in secondary school. Jobless Lagos boys I am so appalled that these are the kind of men they would want to associate us with. I cringe!!!

  120. truth

    January 26, 2016 at 12:51 pm

    First of all joro, how dare you make jest of rape. Second build your own legacy and stop standing in the shadow of your grandfather. For your info gbemi doesnt go around telling people her father is a king, blah blah blah, as you use your grandfathers name to give you worth. I understand to be a good psychologist that one has to be a little crazy and delusional to a certain extent, so ill let you pass on this. Joro my dear, you are not even cute or hot, and omg, your dress sense is questionable.You fight like a envious sensitive guy or man wanting to be a woman. Please since you value your grandfather’s first republic legacy, my dear respect your family and apologize. Live and Let Live!!!

  121. Adah

    January 26, 2016 at 12:53 pm

    Please come of this the Olumofin brothers.

  122. Wynyfred

    January 26, 2016 at 12:53 pm

    These men abi boys have just shown what stuff they are made of! Talk about using a sledge hammer to kill an ant!! Bella Naija, please stop carrying Doc Mofin’s articles. If this response is an indication of the type of person he is, he shouldn’t be dignified by having his articles published on this platform.

  123. Mercy

    January 26, 2016 at 12:54 pm

    What these brothers did is so unfair, childish and irrational. Two wrongs don’t make a right, so much bragging all because of what a woman said without mentioning your name. Been married, pretty, rich, and famous doesn’t make one happy and its not fair to hit on being single, fat, ugly, without talking a look at yourself . I am not a fan of gbemi because she’s usually too direct and careless about people’s emotions when she’s on air. In fact she pride’s herself as been very straight, say it the way at this no minding the effect on the people concerned. Toolz is always careful, subtle and rational in talking when on Air, Gbemi just goes on and on and so what?? i have said it, if they don’t like they should go to hell and that is not a good thing. As an OAP there should be some level of decorum, you compliment people in public, rebuke and correct in private. Gbemi should be please calm down a bit, think before talking, be a lady and stay off being too directional and confrontational.

  124. Sass

    January 26, 2016 at 1:03 pm

    1. if a woman hits a man he should know he is stronger, he should walk away and not hit her back.

    2. when a woman insults a man he should know he is I don’t even have a word for that but he shouldn’t insult her back.

    the thing that carried Gbemi’s fingers to type has finally gotten her insults.

    women if you cannot stand the heat don’t stay in the kitchen. Are men not human beings too with feelings? they should just roll over everytime for us because they are men.

    We should equality bla bla bla but yet when we are to be ”equally insulted” or ”equally beaten” we complain.

    Gbemi was very wrong for this one and next time she will learn.

    as a lady to be treated with class you also need to behave with class.

  125. Ruby

    January 26, 2016 at 1:06 pm

    For starters according to GbemiOO’s tweet Dokun actually saw Tunde and harrased him for an invite hence the email that was sent to him and the follow up bbm chat lets not deviate from the main gist. Secondly Toolz started this gist, Cynthia was on it and Jide Alakija if na true them papa born them well why didn’t they dare talk to Toolz or even try shading her a lil if their ass wont be uninvited. They actually feel they are better than GbemiOO hence this rubbish, can they even look Jide Alakija in the face? Picking on the weakest link for them mind. Issorai. I have and will never take Joro serious with all his sly weed smoking ways. Its Dokun that dissppointed me! Chai am pained. And someone will be dating this boys like this? Even want to marry them? if Joro was so smart why isn’t he married? This boiz no be children oh. What a sad day for Nigerian men. Someone should pls call this men in children body to order!

  126. FinchleysFinest

    January 26, 2016 at 1:16 pm

    As for Gbemi-0-0 : i think its only God that can help her survive this response … I feel very sAd for her already.. i SAY THIS : SHE CAN NEVER have a good response for all the bashing …. its just too much.. Im sure she’s crying deep inside…

    For the dude Olumofin: Silence they say is golden… would have made sense for him to be a MAN (Obviously he’s not) and juts keep quiet..at the end of the day Gbemi didn’t mention or @ him at all …

    • Eseosagie

      January 26, 2016 at 2:32 pm

      leave being a man… there is a time and place for everything. you pick your battles. Gbemi CLEARLY has a lot of growing up to do.

  127. Your Ex

    January 26, 2016 at 1:16 pm

    I have no objections with what she said, isn’t it true? I know these guys personally and all I can say is they are trash. Dokun claims to have made his first $500,000 at 23, lmao, In all your miserable 33 years on earth, you haven’t made $50,000. You’ve not officially married to your baby mama Caus you can’t afford it. What car do you drive please? Borrow pose. What contracts please? Supplying tshirts n caps to pdp, lmao. Take a sit. As for joro, you’re a dead case, trying to build a career off Instagram at 30, pathetic. Better keep dressing like a woman and posting insta videos, that’s all you’re good at. YOU’RE BOTH TRASH, BETTER LIVE A QUIET LIFE LIKE DEJI AND CO.

    • hadassah

      January 27, 2016 at 9:47 am

      supplying T-shirts and caps to PDP…. rolls on the floor
      Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
      Too funny!

  128. ibi

    January 26, 2016 at 1:18 pm

    I’m just here for the comments …..saving the page

  129. Damnit!

    January 26, 2016 at 1:20 pm

    I recently learned that every one has a right to be angry and express their anger the way they deem fit.. So I won’t bash the brothers for getting angry at being called “social climbers” and quack doc. online. But I take umbrage at the way they insulted her, referencing rape and some other not so good stuff, as an only son with sisters I will not accept it. Gbemi on her own was “daft” taking shots, Toolz would have learned a very valuable lesson, not to gossip with what happens in the home, you never know where it gets to. If u were the brothers, I won’t go even though I’ve spent 50 large on asoebi. There are ways to be petty and come out the winner.. This isn’t one. Ladies, stop taking shots at men and hoping he stays the “bigger man”, you sef be the “bigger man” and respect yourself. Life ain’t hard, we bring these in ourselves.

  130. prince

    January 26, 2016 at 1:21 pm

    Nigerians and bad news. see comments. meanwhile, there were articles before this that has less than 10comments.
    Why are our lives like this in this country. Some peoples comments are enough to make a book. Why do we spend most of our time on things that are definitely NOT IMPORTANT. Those guys don’t know you exist.

  131. Hawt Talk With Tosan

    January 26, 2016 at 1:44 pm

    These brothers are petty and seriously garrulous! They are so empty that all they can do is talk about her vagina, her marital status and her looks. Very unintelligent lot. And the desperate attempt to prove they get invited to parties is pitiful. Losers.

    Please watch my videos on Nigerian trending issues and more here youtube.com/watch?v=YHx2UpXsips

  132. Elle

    January 26, 2016 at 1:47 pm

    Actually, I have never and I know a lot of friends who don’t go to parties they are not invited to. If you’re bored pick up a book, go to rhapsody’s or call your boo. Weddings cost a lot of money and should not be used as weekend fillers f you’re not invited. Show some self respect.
    As for Gbemi, what do you expect when you try to mess with swines, of course you will get dragged through mud. And while they are low and classless, I think you deserved to be dragged maybe you would pick some sense for when it really matters. Pele

  133. mabel

    January 26, 2016 at 1:47 pm

    You know how your hubby and his bro or friends will be gisting and you come in to join them only for them to change the topic of discussion? Be ready to be that woman Tolu. Your hubby can’t tell you things privately without you announcing it? This is way beyond these Olumofin entities. They are non issue as far as I’m concerned. Toolz I like very much and she’s the one I’m concerned about in all this. You will soon leave your home to make a home with your captain. Never ever gist your friend about what you and your hubby discus privately. I’m not married fyi. I hope you learn from this. Gbemi girls like her are just amazing seriously. They make you regret knowing them.

    • Ada

      January 26, 2016 at 2:53 pm

      So glad that someone else caught the main issue here! Damn girl! You cannot discuss with your man without telling your friends? Not the best way to start

  134. jay

    January 26, 2016 at 1:52 pm

    (Singing ) She had it coming, she had it coming, she only has herself to blame…….

  135. sifonde

    January 26, 2016 at 1:56 pm

    As is my usual saying, who first do no dey pain……lol….2016 with so muc drama ehhhh…..

  136. Ikeoluwa

    January 26, 2016 at 1:56 pm

    Gbemi got served. Respect is reciprocal,this is a very big lesson for everyone, never start what you can’t finish and to those claiming that she didn’t mention names please remember that they are all yorubas, olowe mo owe e. Besides her insults were too direct.

  137. ola

    January 26, 2016 at 1:59 pm

    Toolz is the one to blame here….so many people have friends but dont really know them

    • ola

      January 26, 2016 at 3:44 pm

      I learnt from my parents,they both gossip, but btw themselves…..learn to gossip with someone you can trust

    • Bess

      January 26, 2016 at 7:13 pm

      Toolz is an immature woman!.. clearly!.. show me your friends and i will tell you who you are!(Toolz, Gbemi, Toke).. Walahi, all these beatFm OAP’s sef… first Osi Suave and Avariberry, now Toolz and Gbemi..Kiddos in grown bodies!! Yes i said so!

  138. Mobola

    January 26, 2016 at 2:05 pm

    Doro is clearly a misogynist and a fraud. What sort of psychologist trivializes the trauma of rape. His Lagos big girl series where he dressed up like a woman was uninspired sexist garbage. This guy is pulling the ultimate scam. He feeds Nigerian women the same woman blaming advice society heaps on us in the name of marriage; yet Nigerians buy into the obvious fraud. He wraps it up in big words and tada! psychology! They tagged all the celebrity blogs because negroes thirstier than the Sahara. Self promoting, vapid wanna bes.

  139. Chioma

    January 26, 2016 at 2:21 pm

    Gbemi that crashed a popular female entrepreneur’s 50th birthday at Eko hotel, now has the right to insult other people. Info has it that Gbemi was not invited but Toolz was and all eyes was on her, babe crashed the party o! i’m suprised she’s throwing shades…SMH

    • o

      January 26, 2016 at 11:34 pm

      aunty Mo’s???

  140. KOKO

    January 26, 2016 at 2:22 pm

    Na guilty conscience dey worry da Mofin brodas. Gbemi didnt mention names, wetin be their own sef. Abeg make them pack well jare.

  141. Eseosagie

    January 26, 2016 at 2:26 pm

    I am so sure it’s mostly Gbemi’s fellow social climbing friends commenting here. I am happy she has been put in her place and only prays she learns. Although the bashing was TOOO MUCH she needed to learn the hard way. Toolz is also a disappointment. i pity you, you never enter husband house you don dey cause trouble up and down. If Toolz had intended it to be “”innocent gossip between friends”” why did toolz go on twitter to corroborate the stupid shade by Gbemi? Gbemi aka loose cannon.com then carried the matter on her head calling people out… WETIN CONSIGN YOU? NA YOUR PARTIES OR WEDDING THEM DEY CRASH? Instead make you gboriduro do 21 days manna fast make God bring bae your way in 2016 you dey carry evil load for head? i laugh when you refer to people as social climbers you from NTA? I remember how you where gumming my friend the moment you heard she was going to be married to a TOP politicians son. morale of the story ladies no be because you get free data you go just dey misyarn… Gbemi came to a machine gun fight with a pin.

  142. Busie

    January 26, 2016 at 2:27 pm

    Every Lagos couple should BAR these brothers at their weddings. Fear nothing, what can they do to you? They have no real connections, just mouth and crassness.
    Let’s show some respect for the hardworking mother, sister or daughter keeping it real with legitimate work. UNINVITE. the OLUMOFINS!!

  143. jhno

    January 26, 2016 at 2:32 pm

    Haaaaaaa…………..move over netflix……….dis is the real netflix and its so freeeeeee……………….every beef for 2016 was a hit,from olamide to don jazzy,ice prince and aristo daddy,wizkid and blackface,blackface and 2face/psquare !!!!!!!!! …………

  144. Eseosagie

    January 26, 2016 at 2:37 pm

    Toolz hubby gisted toolz
    Toolz was itching to get the gist out and summoned all her trolls
    Toolz settled for Gbemi knowing she’ll spread the word
    Gbemi just found out etisalat dashed her 500gb free data
    Gbemi’s fingers were itching
    Gbemi started to throw shade
    Gbemi has been taken to the cleaners
    Don’t be like GBEMI AND TOOLZ

  145. Bim

    January 26, 2016 at 2:44 pm

    As unattractive as she may be, these guys are ten times as ugly. How two extraterrestrial creature get a pass at talking about someone’s looks is beyond me. I feel like I’m in twilight zone that it’s acceptable for two grown men to join head and say “yeah lets finish her on Instagram”.gross

  146. sheri

    January 26, 2016 at 2:57 pm

    Joro woke up to over 100 missed calls and messages after Gbemi dropped the comments without even mentioning their names. This means that even their so called friends decoded immediately it was the Olumofin brothers. Which begs the question… what kind of friends are these that cannot tell these two losers the truth? You are not wanted in society weddings, you are known for gatecrashing and your only claim to fame is your late grandfather. In short you guys are just two jokers!

  147. Omooba

    January 26, 2016 at 3:03 pm

    This is a case of “cracking a nut with a hammer”. Gbemi was wrong for throwing shade at the brothers, but their response is way to belligerent. The boys would have scored highly and earned themselves a lot of respect if their response had been measured.

  148. Leila

    January 26, 2016 at 3:05 pm

    Their parents must be really proud of the unrefined, uncouth, disgusting and backward way in which they responded to Gbemi. Despite all the name dropping and so called associations they do not show one bit of class that these people and their families exhibit. What exactly do you guys do for a living apart from gate crashing society parties? You don’t have real friends or else they would have told you how pathetic you come across. Bunch of morons!

  149. Omooba

    January 26, 2016 at 3:06 pm

    This is a typical case of “cracking a nut with a hammer”. Gbemi was wrong for throwing shade at the brothers, but their response is way too belligerent. The boys would have scored highly and earned themselves a lot of respect if their response had been measured.

  150. Lolarae

    January 26, 2016 at 3:09 pm

    This is the issue I have with some girls generally
    They insult men
    Look for their trouble and when you clap back I mean through insults
    they turn it to a guy vs girl thing

    Men are also humans
    I remember one babe that was always coming for one guy in office constantly
    always making him the butt of her jokes
    the day the guy came for her she broke down into tears and was quick to turn it to guy vs girl thing

    SO PLEASE LADIES DONT GO LOOKING FOR TROUBLE MIND YOUR BUSINESS
    WHETHER ITS A GIRL TO GIRL, GIRL TO GUY THING
    Gbemi calling a guy a social climber etc is an insult in its own right and whatever sort of response you get you deserve after all you looked for trouble
    My own 2 cents
    Biko Gbemi no be your sisters wedding na

    • Biz

      January 26, 2016 at 6:24 pm

      Seriously that’s your opinion? For staters she mentioned no names. Secondly even if she did you think that response which reveals the minds of two emotionally and mentally immature, badly behaved boys is warranted. People who are clearly incapable of an intelligent response and have to resort to looks and ‘pedigree’. People who think a woman’s validation comes from being married. Sister biko work on your mindset. I feel bad for their parents.

  151. xoxo

    January 26, 2016 at 3:19 pm

    Psychologist that needs to see a psychiatrist ASAP. This is the lowest of levels a guy can descend to. If you need to tell us your family history before we know who you are, then you need to face your work. It means you are not known!

    You lack home training and I pity the lady who would marry you eventually in this state you are. You lack respect, you do not represent the blue blood you are trying to claim. Your ancestors turned in their graves when they saw this.

    At least the girl you are washing has a job, she has made a name and career for herself. Learn from that and get a life. You have a long way to go. You are not on the same level with her abeg.

    • AdeOLA

      January 26, 2016 at 9:27 pm

      ah.. who are you..you are so smart.. i wish i can like this post a zillion times… well said..

      if you need intro..den sit like a grown baby laying claims to one rich grandfather..sorry oo.

  152. Asgrl

    January 26, 2016 at 3:33 pm

    I’m just wondering why these dudes are calling their grandfather’s ghost from 1960? Baba o ni Baba. Poor dude is probably rolling in his grave right now.

    Typical dudes you meet in Lagos, my father is this, my father’s father’s father’s father is that. Ati gbo.

    Joro just confirmed his attempted rapist status.

  153. Anonymous

    January 26, 2016 at 3:38 pm

    omg I cant wait for Akah Bants!

  154. Tosin

    January 26, 2016 at 3:44 pm

    Haaaa, somebothy can not switch off for a few hours, drama!

    Quick response: Deez not the Michigan or oyinboland. Anybody can attend any wedding any time, as long as it’s done in love. Even in obudo oyinbo I crashed events within my community A LOT and this helped me make a lot of friends.

    For those who don’t want random people strolling through their wedding, there are ways. The best way is a destination wedding. Take it to your village if it’s inaccessible. Take it to Greece, provided it’s not some governors and senators that you’re trying to keep away (because they will just carry flight and meet you there lool.) If you have normal friends, abeg share visa support and ticket support before you start crying that na only your own self you meet for the destination 🙂 The kinds of immature people that marry ehn 🙂

    Let me go and read the thing.

    I don’t like people digging up ancestral stories, my father is a that, his father was a king, but hey.

    Keep Calm and Wear Trad.

    • Tosin

      January 26, 2016 at 4:04 pm

      Ennnnn! All this drama over what? (Trying to remember).

      I think it’s just entertainment, like I mean they had to create a multimedia campaign to respond to a tweet about going to their friend’s wedding?
      In Yoruba we’ll say won ti ri’se. They have found work. They are Toke 2.0, won tun fe gboro ju egbon won lo.

      Other comments:
      – I hope Gbemi knows she’s not ugly. Soooo not ugly. These bros are too old to be calling a woman ugly nah. Na wa o.
      – Find Gbemi A Bae was funny. Most of the rest wasn’t. I can’t imagine the nasty stuff that was blotted out.
      – Maybe the boys are lashing out over other things, other people, other gossip, the frustration of Lagos, etc, and she happened to be the one around?

      Everybody hug it out please, before the curtains close on this drama-filled January of 2016. Phew.

  155. whocares

    January 26, 2016 at 3:45 pm

    jesu. how is someone supposed to go through all these comments before the end of lunch break? loool

    • Armi

      January 26, 2016 at 5:35 pm

      Lunch break ni’wo yi? You be banker?

  156. Damseldam1

    January 26, 2016 at 3:57 pm

    Damn!!! The guys went innnnnn!!! Chai! As for that one who calls himself a psychologist why does he think he’s a sex magnet? He thinks everybody fancy him..over confident ain’t he! Them ones with low self esteem smh! As for gbemi am sure she will never shade a guy in her life again. Pele dear.

  157. melinda

    January 26, 2016 at 3:59 pm

    na wa ooo…. 2016 year of social media beefs, we have had enough biko…..

  158. Galivanta

    January 26, 2016 at 4:06 pm

    Where is cynthia and toolz that were instigating this whole brouhaha yesterday? They don throw stones and hide abi? As for the brothers, why arent u guys calling out toolz especially who made it clear that she fed gbemi the said stories about u pple. U will rather go stevey wonder on top those ones abi? Mmkay.

    • AdeOLA

      January 26, 2016 at 9:25 pm

      awwwww. dont you want them to attend the wedding??..after the wedding,,..mouth go roll again. shameless men

  159. Chu

    January 26, 2016 at 4:49 pm

    Yipee, I went through all the articles and comments, Bella kontinu to give us the gist as we watch people make fools on themselves on social media.

  160. MissSilentReader

    January 26, 2016 at 4:53 pm

    Dear Bellanaija,
    I am very very glad you people used your hands to bring us this gist. Now i have one question for you, have you see the so called psychologist you people kept shoving down our throats?? Have you seen him now???? Even when someone accused him of rape and we begged you to stop forcing his ‘ relationship advice’ down our throats, did you hear?? Now, if you people collected money from him to post his articles, it haff do oo. Return the money pls. We don’t want to see again. Thank you.

  161. Koffie

    January 26, 2016 at 4:58 pm

    All this happened today?! Wow!
    While I wouldn’t be a tatafo like Gbemi O, I totally wouldn’t allow these jabs hurt me if I were her. Almost every Nigerian girl has come to expect the cliche verbal attacks from men who have no class.
    You go to Yaba market and the male traders are grabbing your arm:
    Lady: Chairman, abeg no dey touch me/Leave me biko
    Male trader: Why you con dey frank face, you be ‘vagin’ (virgin)! (how do they make that leap sef?)
    You keep walking, no replies to his nonsense
    Male trader: Asawo! See am
    You have a disagreement with an SS3 boy in your class,
    Girl: Bla bla bla bla bla, you had no right to bla bla bla bla
    Boy: (with sagged trousers) See as she be, you no even fine. Ugly girl,shapeless thing. No wonder no one wants to ‘parole’ you. If girls finish sef, I no fit parole you

    In all of this, nothing remotely related will be said of the reason for the fight. And leave royalty for Ake palace sef, what kind of a human being brags about his lineage, wealth and whatnot. O ga oo. I didn’t even read the part about her anatomy but talking about her body hair in a bid to yab her?
    I always stay on my lane cos you can’t have a smart mouth with strangers and predict their craze. Some people really have no chill! Gbemi sef, if you want to call people out, ball up and mention names. Shades throwing really makes no sense whatsoever, well except it does entertain the rest of us when we need a break from work while waiting for payday. Tomorrow can’t come sooner, lol.

  162. Philip

    January 26, 2016 at 5:09 pm

    Psychology? What I have a problem with is ppl name dropping degrees they don’t have. Where did this mofo get this degree from? Europe, the States or FRF (Federal Republic of Fake). You might want to call the school’s finance office and demand a refund, since you have turned out to have learned Jack. Or maybe all you did was just take a few online courses. Assuming this mofo did receive a B.S in Psychology, how do you trade that by now going for a Masters in Male Socialite. As a male who spent years giving it my best to find my niche, I can honestly say that I should be the one name dropping my acheivements. But real men don’t do that. Real men don’t degrade women, no matter the circumstances. Real men take the high road. Believe that.

  163. xyz

    January 26, 2016 at 5:25 pm

    The first step those boys need to take if they want to regain any kind of dignity is to avoid that wedding at all cost!

  164. Precy

    January 26, 2016 at 5:31 pm

    Gbemi didn’t mention anybody’s name. If you aren’t guilty, why react? Co- Agbayas. Mtchhheeewww

  165. Maitamachic

    January 26, 2016 at 5:34 pm

    I once had a yoruba guy who was asking me out, insult me in the most vile of ways. Even if all the craziness he was spewing was untrue, it still hurt to the bone. Just like in this case, his retaliation for something wrong I said to him was beyond astronomical. Thank God I dodged that bullet. I sincerely pity the unfortunate women who are going to end up with these 2 manchildren. smh

    • Quis

      January 26, 2016 at 11:26 pm

      “I once had a Yoruba guy”? Really? MANY girls have had guys from different tribes and nationalities who’ve abused them for rejecting advances, or many reasons, so what’s your point exactly? Your emphasis on the Yoruba is unnecessary and pesky. This BS has got to stop.

  166. Ifeyinwa Mic

    January 26, 2016 at 5:36 pm

    The guy could’ve taken the high road and remained silent, but instead he chose to insult the girl and ended up embarrassing himself. I don’t think this level of insults was warranted.

  167. #bullshit

    January 26, 2016 at 5:39 pm

    this guys ar nt d richest guys in NIgeria so why make so much noise i am a big fan of replying insults but u do it by insult their parents or where u know they ave failed in their lives nt proclaiming ur linage to d world u no even fear make dem come kidnap u,and as for the ugly girl na she f- up sha learn to keep ur mouth shut next time but na toolz start everything with dat tweet

  168. The Bull

    January 26, 2016 at 5:52 pm

    For these guys to react like this
    Shows that it really pained them and she struck a nerve. Na normal thing to be party crasher for Naija though. Maybe that’s why’s some people are supporting them.

  169. coke

    January 26, 2016 at 5:58 pm

    Gbemi de “monitoring spirit” had better shurup and mind her business before they gang slap her! non of these “who run the world GIRLS” here will come to your aid when it happens.
    just my advice cos those boys aint smiln.

  170. Secondhandembarrassment

    January 26, 2016 at 6:03 pm

    SMH wow no words…wait there are a few – I know boys like these and they are the lowest of the lowest of the low. Lowlives ti awon Yoruba npe ni paramole omo oju ori olari. Look how he is abusing her like a proper omo alata. Chai the one that said he has Msc and PhD in view, from where? Toronto?

  171. You know me

    January 26, 2016 at 6:06 pm

    Dokun and Joro,

    I cannot take this anymore.
    You are gate crashers.
    You beg for invites. EVERYONE KNOWS. You have even begged Mrs. Bella Naija herself for an invite. Cammannnn!!
    You beg for filas.
    You LIE about being invited.
    You beg for people to take pictures with you.
    You are desperate social climbers.
    You beg to be featured.
    You crave for fame.
    The so called Captain does NOT send you. His friends think you are so irritating and struggle to feel among.
    See how you insult a woman and in the same vain, talk about pedigree. You are low lives and will remain so if you do not repent. What manner of nonsense is this? You are calling Gbemi ugly…HELLOOOOOO look at yourselves in the mirror? Did you escape from the Ondo zoo?
    If you try me, I will REVEAL all your gist today. Shey you are munching convos, I will spill the TEA!
    What you would have done is to just own it. You are a mogbo maya and no one gave you that title but yourself. Anuofia!!!

    • NaijaBoyAshamed

      January 26, 2016 at 6:40 pm

      BN comment section is all the heat i need for this Kebbi state cold. hate this place sha…

      please tell us more, i am bored and will wait for you to return with more gist dearie. the plot thickens….just negodu

    • Momi

      January 26, 2016 at 7:48 pm

      Please spill. I’ll be waiting, thanks

    • AdeOLA

      January 26, 2016 at 9:22 pm

      why cant we like this a million times..
      shame on them ugly dogs.

  172. Erniesss

    January 26, 2016 at 6:41 pm

    These guys are so vulgar and rude. You can defend yourself in a civilised manner for crying out loud. I really feel for the women in their lives cos it is obvious that don’t have respect for women

    • AdeOLA

      January 26, 2016 at 9:21 pm

      no respect at all.
      and they have a mother. so sad.

  173. Peace

    January 26, 2016 at 6:49 pm

    stylevitae.com/noble-igwes-lagos-wedding-reception/

    Open and read another article on “mogbo moya”

  174. Crimson_Sooner

    January 26, 2016 at 7:02 pm

    what does being a Yoruba man have to do with anything? i’m confused !

  175. Butterfly

    January 26, 2016 at 7:03 pm

    My thoughts exactly. Everyone has a right to be THEMSELVES. Please people learn from this! I have this to say to all parties involved.

    Gbemi; You shouldn’t be mudslinging anyone and then expect them to take it and walk away. Come on girl! This is Lagos and then, we are Yoruba people. If you walk away from an insult, your family will curse you. lol! But seriously, learn to live gracefully.

    Joro & Dokun Olumofin – I grew up with you guys and your brother Deji in Ogba, and though I know you have always had Wild Hearts, you got way too angry right here and it looks like maybe Gbemi hit home. Please tame the beast and kill the venom. Y’all know us girls like to talk-talk abi. Be the noble men, call a truce and bury the hatchet.

    Toolz – You started this thing, but no blames to you. You were just being you. Its allowed but next time, make sure you say the words ‘please don’t tell anyone o! Abeg o!’ because some peeps may not know these things.

  176. Michelle

    January 26, 2016 at 7:11 pm

    i am very disappointed with Doktor Mofin…..really…
    tot u had class?
    why go off on her like that?
    i reside in Ghana so i cant say for gbemi’s character but doktor mofin? joro?
    i had a chat with him and he seemed like a nice guy…..kindof bummed

    • kadara

      January 26, 2016 at 8:48 pm

      He is an alleged rapist, you better stay away

  177. Gbeborun

    January 26, 2016 at 7:12 pm

    BUT HOW COULD TOOLZ DO THIS TO HERSELF? WHY GOSSIP WITH YOUR WEDDING? IF SOMEBODY PESTERS YOU TO SUBMISSION DON’T GO BLAMING THEM BUT YOUR SPINELESS SELF. MUST YOU SAY YES WHEN YOU MEANT NO? MUST YOU YIELD TO THEIR PRESSURE FOR INVITE ONLY TO SPITE THEM?

  178. Tunmi

    January 26, 2016 at 7:28 pm

    Whoooo that was quite a read. Honestly, I’m glad this happened. Groom and bride can now see true colors. Gbemi is a radio personality, so please continue the gist (eats popcorn). Toolz, abegggg carry go. You know your man and your marriage pass any BN commenter. Olumofin brothers, this thing pain you oh. And the real question is “will you be attending the wedding?”

  179. Blueberry

    January 26, 2016 at 7:28 pm

    Lmao… A 1000 shades of S.H.A.D.E.

  180. lala

    January 26, 2016 at 7:40 pm

    Gbemi shouln’t even justify these pigs with a response. Granted she spoke out of turn but….. ahn ahn na bros?!!…. ki lo fa gbo gbo eleyi?
    People need to understand the difference between money, local title (oba) and class. They are VERY different. Class cannot be bought. To expect class from all is quite frankly impossible especially in this developing country…. These guys are local titled champions with nothing to their names but their forefathers. These guys are potential rapists (if not already). It is not their fault, its what they have seen, how they were raised. SOME Yoruba parents have a lot to answer for (I am Yoruba). That’s why they are tagging everyone upandan to come and see them shouting when they should be ashamed. SAD – They really could have used this platform to elevate themselves. Unfortunately, a lot of guys in Nigeria are like this. See men of 2016 biko nu? Laughing stocks. Turned into lil’ chicken heads.
    Ladies, beware o! 2016 goin’ be back to back. Learn how to curve a nigga (politely) from today!
    *Nigga is a term for a terribly behaved black person

    • AdeOLA

      January 26, 2016 at 9:19 pm

      my dear..Class can truly not be bought…you hit the nail there.
      imagine they dint learn this from their rich grandfather..and all the other people they are claiming to be related to.
      shame!

  181. IJS

    January 26, 2016 at 7:41 pm

    If you live in a glass house, don’t throw stone. If Toolz had a history of being a runz girl now and no one know, this is how they would’ve come and scattered relationship she’s been building for many years with their stories. It wasn’t Gbemi’s fight to fight and she has been looking obviously single for many years. sorry.

  182. IJS

    January 26, 2016 at 7:42 pm

    MY tabon sha…”and no one knew..”

  183. Blueberry

    January 26, 2016 at 7:43 pm

    On a more serious not though, these boys are just foolish. Its a shame. Smh

  184. ebyie

    January 26, 2016 at 7:46 pm

    Aunty gbems..be forming posh there and be looking for trouble. You two brothers make una just go sleep biko… all dez so called dirty celebs (OAPs) and agbalagbas…I dnt blame u. i blame the bloggers

  185. Erniesss

    January 26, 2016 at 7:56 pm

    Gbemi should have minded her business but these guys are so vulgar. You can defend yourself in a civilised manner for crying out loud. I really feel for the women in their lives cos it is obvious they don’t have respect for women

  186. bcga

    January 26, 2016 at 8:00 pm

    To think people actually seek life advise from these uncouth, petty, intellectually deficient over-grown babies is pathetic.

    I saw one of them at my friend’s wedding (1st wedding published by Bella this year) just walking up and down the hall, I was so concerned that I thought he probably had boil on his yansh. Geez! Dude couldn’t even sit down for a minute…doing notice me upandan.

    • AdeOLA

      January 26, 2016 at 9:17 pm

      You couldn’t have said it better..
      do decent, well respected and educated people speak like this..
      seriously..this what your rich grandfather and all the people you claimed above taught you??

  187. Internet warrior

    January 26, 2016 at 8:16 pm

    We are waiting for the pictures they will take together… remember Olamide n Don Jazzy and Wiz Kid n Dammy Krane??? the beef doesn’t last long in 9ja. They are just deciding where to take it.

  188. Busarni

    January 26, 2016 at 8:52 pm

    these guys are weak; why not attack Cynthia and toolz Abi una no see their own tweets. Agbaya, that gate crashed my cousin’s wedding last year .
    Truth really hurts….

    • AdeOLA

      January 26, 2016 at 9:15 pm

      weak men…..sound like a baby crying..
      sob sob..my grandfather was this…
      sob sob..he was the richer than his peers…
      sob sob, i am related to xyz..
      sob sob…..who are you? still a gate crasher sha! o boy!

  189. SugaMama

    January 26, 2016 at 9:09 pm

    But, why does everyone assume Toolz was talking about her own wedding? What if she was giving her gist they were begging for Ebuka’s wedding invite? What if it was some other wedding?
    Gbemi threw shade, but then is she the first? Toolz gave her friend gist, again is she the first?
    These brothers are just disgusting attention seekers that went too far. They were clearly pained. So ugly people can’t throw shade again? What does looks even have to do with throwing shade?
    What is ugly is their character. Tueh.

  190. pride

    January 26, 2016 at 9:16 pm

    Dokun is actually married with a child. His wife did not Even correct him. Men of 30 years plus….. Vent through success not words on social Media which is already a trap. Small minds do small things….. wo.. I’m okay with my life feel free to dig your hole. All the best to the Olumofin wives! Such filthy words… NO MATURITY

    • Sensy

      January 26, 2016 at 9:53 pm

      he has a wife at home..
      o wowza
      i hope he dint just use style to describe her here

  191. AdeOLA

    January 26, 2016 at 9:23 pm

    High five..well said..
    they just confirmed that they arent real men.

  192. AdeOLA

    January 26, 2016 at 9:30 pm

    why arent you attacking Toolz and Cythia.. they started all of this.. but of course.. you need to attend their weddings right..???
    how could we forget!

  193. Moremi

    January 26, 2016 at 9:48 pm

    Let’s call a spade a spade guys, GBEMI ASKED FOR THIS!!!! When you take it upon yourself to throw shade and insult people anyhow, this sadly is what happens eventually.

    GBEMI usually sounds like she can insult anyone and situations without thinking anyone’ s ox would be gored. I listen to her hand over with Toolz as often as possible (not her driver one show, cos it is the most stale and unimaginative show on urban Nigerian radio), and honestly she just doesn’t sound like a nice or likable person!

    I would never side with the uncouth brothers, but she gave them the chance to use her for cheap publicity and abused her stupidly! Imagine a foolish boy talking about your vagina! Just cos you didn’t have the decency to choose your battles and word GBEMI!

    Awon f- boys yi kan yeye e anyhow, won doti e stupidly nigboro.

    As someone on Twitter rightly said ‘ GBEMI, you’ve forgotten that on social media, everyone holds the mic’

    Shior!

    • Quis

      January 26, 2016 at 10:56 pm

      Moremi -? You better shut your long mouth all the way up. Ode, because he is your husband’s friend? What Gbemi did was unnecessary, even though a lot of people, even friends of both guys can testify she is 100% right. However, Dokun’s reply, especially Joro = unbelievably shallow and juvenile. They’ve publicly shown how brainless they are. That’s something someone in high school won’t even use for come-backs. They made fools of themselves by their responses. There are ways they could’ve responded that’ll have made Gbemi look stupid, they however responded like the empty vessels that they truly are. Even their friends are disappointed and have shamed them openly for the way they handled it. Do yourself a favor and shut up. How do you bring “rape” and other insignificant matters when you’re trying to abuse someone? Who does that?! And he calls himself a “Psychologist”? Bye Felicia!

    • lp

      January 27, 2016 at 12:46 am

      nawah oh… aunty Quis please go and drink water… shior!! why so passive aggressive!!!

    • lp

      January 27, 2016 at 12:44 am

      i like your comment even though that uncle psychologist is a joke!!

    • lp

      January 27, 2016 at 12:47 am

      @moremi

    • ziariz

      January 27, 2016 at 5:27 am

      Moremi, I totally agree with you, Gbemi is anything but a nice person, she reeks of serious attitude even when she is on air…..and I am like….how unprofessional can you be.

      This serves her right….and I am glad that these “boys” called her out, albeit in a childish way..lool..but hopefully she humbles herself and understands that it’s not everything you hear that you must talk about as an OAP on air.
      And babe knows that you don’t go throwing the first stone because you never know exactly what the other person has in store for you.

      Gbemi…..learn to shut your mouth! and sorry to say but for someone who is so “plain” she has such an entitled attitude…I have to somehow admire that about her! Mschewww!!!

  194. lp

    January 26, 2016 at 10:07 pm

    this is the type of yoruba man/men my mum said i should stay away from cause they have nothing to offer… all what these 2 brother do is packaging nothing more……
    that one that calls himself a psychologist is just playing himself.. ode!!!
    a real psychologist would have used this shade to market himself but just bare listening to his rants i doubt he finished university… whats the point bringing her age, vagina, marriage.. couldn’t you have just addressed the issue which is *going to event your not invited to*
    honestly Gbemi should not even bother herself at all… his not someone that one needs to worry their head over… his a BIG ODE!!!!
    I’m sure his Pen** has no erection since he opened that his dirty mouth to talk about Gebmi vagina… he shouldnt be bothered about Gbemis Vajina, I’m sure even with the cobwebs she still getting some but uncle psychologist has no future direction!!! m

    • Belema

      January 26, 2016 at 10:47 pm

      What they did = totally despicable. But, please this has nothing to do with Yoruba. Like it’s no longer a joke, it has become annoying. I don’t know who started this bs. Boys in different tribes in Nigeria, Ibo, Hausa, Ishan, Tiv, Urobo, Itshekiri, Ikwerre, Benin, Kalabari, etc can be douchebags. Attributing it solely to Yoruba guys is very irrational, it’s actually not reasonable. This is 2016, you guys should be tired of doing that.

    • lp

      January 27, 2016 at 12:42 am

      Abeegi…. the boys not men in question are yoruba therefore we are addressing this *yoruba men issue* goodbye!!!

    • jide

      January 27, 2016 at 3:43 am

      Dear Belema,

      Yoruba men are a unique breed of demons.

      Signed,
      Ayomijide
      Yoruba Girl.

    • been there

      January 27, 2016 at 9:58 am

      @belema: but yoruba boys take the trophy. i’m an igbo girl who has dated a few yoruba boys in the past, and there are far too many similarities in the way they act. i had to tell myself the truth and marry from my tribe, to avoid dying young.

      even my sister went thru d same motion in the most horrible way last year with a yoruba boy in london, and u know those ones are on anoda level. i’m no tribalist, but we all concluded, yoruba girls are best suited to youruba guys, PERIOD! i was not raised yoruba so i don’t know how best to handle your men.

    • Susan

      January 27, 2016 at 10:34 am

      Been there, Yoruba guys are best suited to Yoruba girls, really? Perhaps that’s why so many Igbo girls are married to Yoruba guys? Get real please. I don’t get how you people reason. That you and your sister had Yoruba guys who didn’t treat you right, that means majority of Yoruba guys are like that? I’m sorry, that shows you’re unintelligent. I have Igbo friends who complain a lot about Igbo guys, and even will never agree dating them, also I have other ethnicities who complain of guys in their ethnic groups, and I get pissed and tell them that guys are guys, regardless of ethnicity. So please.

    • Olanma

      January 27, 2016 at 10:37 am

      “was not raised yoruba so i don’t know how best to handle your men.” This is the dumbest comment I have ever read. You have to be raised Ibo to marry an Ibo Man, you have to be raised Ishan to marry an Ishan man? People in intertribal marriages had to be raised in the tribe of their husbands to marry them? Girl, you are very daft. Wow!

    • Mayy

      January 27, 2016 at 4:31 pm

      Dear Jide, the Yoruba guy who broke your heart is a unique breed of a demon, not all Yoruba guys. I have Yoruba brothers, cousins, uncles and My Dad who aren’t demons.

      Signed.

  195. Felinda

    January 26, 2016 at 10:25 pm

    You ppl are wicked sha so this tuesday you people are drinking hot tea and failed to call a sister

    Anyway sha, what am i missing, you mean to tell me these two brothers rained all this insult on the girl for what she said,. Ah ah, that is harsh now, NO this one i feel there is more to the story, cos they seem hella pained by just a simple jovial statement – that statement must have hit them real hard for them to come back like that,. So what is the story behind, They went real low and harsh with their comeback,

    did she deserve it, ?????

    well my policy is DONT WANT NUTHING DONT START NOTHING – but cmon they were a lil harsh with their statements,

    And i feel they have put themselves (the guys) to shame with their comeback, They sound like gays who are fighting on a car park throwing arms as i witness here in Atlanta midtown all the time . Future ozzbands of someborris.

    From here on i wonder if they can gate crush again. That gbemi has spoiled market for them.

  196. JustWondering

    January 26, 2016 at 11:04 pm

    So my question this

    DID THEY ATTEND THE OKOYES TRAD MARRIAGE, AND TUFACE AND ANNES, WHAT ABOUT UBI AND LILLIAN AND OSAS AND GBENGRO, AND ARE THEY ATTENDING TOOLZ OWN, WHAT ABOUT EBUKAS OWN .

    Am just asking of their gate crashing resume/cv 🙂 – dont be mad ohh, am just asking which parties they have crashed in the past since its their full time job

  197. Marvel

    January 27, 2016 at 12:47 am

    Thank goodness I offer anger management and the so called psychologist might want to attend my course. It really sounded off. They are trolls and nothing more. From what I read, these chaps can’t control their rage. I wouldn’t put murder past them in such a state. Evil!!

  198. essieluckett

    January 27, 2016 at 2:22 am

    can somebody sayJesus with me………Amen.

  199. jide

    January 27, 2016 at 3:41 am

    God deliver us from these Yoruba Demons disguised as men.

  200. Oma

    January 27, 2016 at 4:47 am

    Bella, to maintain the integrity of your brand please ensure no articles from the so called psychologist are featured on this site again.

    He clearly does not have the mental stability and capacity to contribute to this learned and highly educated group of readers.

    Someone who is going to descend so low and resort to such vile language should be training dogs..

    • Ayoka

      January 27, 2016 at 6:27 pm

      I love dogs! No, he should not be training dogs biko. Maybe snakes. Bella Naija, you have heard oh, please don’t ever feature this irresponsible guy on your site.

    • Idomagirl

      January 27, 2016 at 9:13 pm

      Gbam!

  201. coke

    January 27, 2016 at 7:50 am

    Rather than enjoying your outing, be there at the gate counting and looking for who attended and couldn’t smh.

    you be insulting the woman wrapa dudes the amebo girl nko?

  202. Omo

    January 27, 2016 at 8:54 am

    The lady isn’t wise. When you play with pigs you get covered in mud. Those who lay with (uncatered to) dogs come up with fleas. Foolish Gbemi, Swine brothers

  203. DAME

    January 27, 2016 at 9:56 am

    LOL…came to check my bella people and its stiill LIVEEEEEEEEEEE !
    This is why i do not like the lagos social scene…as long as u r light skinned or serious beard gang, v a car, live on the island, have a few celeb friends , a forced UK or American Accent…you begin to see yourself as superior, too much too handle, hot stuff, Miss/Mr I Dont roll with Mainland people ..LMAO….oh lord..
    Unlike my Abuja…my dears no one gives a hoot…just have sense
    we dont care if ur grandfather was the one that cut the ribbon wen dey signed the amalgamation, or ur grandmother was the first woman to tie iro and buba…we dont simply give a hoot…no time for smelling yeye…
    This year all ye Lagos “”SOCIALITES”” be very careful..2016 wud b lit with your gist…

  204. sunnyside

    January 27, 2016 at 10:43 am

    Wow!!!!!….She kinda got what she deserved but the guys went a lil overboard

  205. Professional Idiot tamers

    January 27, 2016 at 12:08 pm

    Toolz is that you? Lol

  206. eky

    January 27, 2016 at 1:29 pm

    Hugs.. you are such a darling for this.

  207. eky

    January 27, 2016 at 1:30 pm

    psychohustler not psychologist..who needs mental evaluation…

    like seriously.

  208. ene

    January 27, 2016 at 10:56 pm

    Well, I think tools and gbemi are confirmed gbeborons. Like seriously why will you be so jobless. Nd poor gbemi wasn’t smart, toolz is smart, be like toolz. “Someone can’t even just gbemi” tools buried gbemi with this comment.

    Gbemi because you are privy to a mic does not make you a celeb. I am sick of wannabes, everyone is now popular as a result of social media. And you feel you have a voice, who do you think you are to even consider bringing someone down. Except unless you are pathetic. Don’t do it. Don’t toil with anyone’s ego. See only the good in people. Use your voice for a cause. There is so much good you can do in 2016. All the best.

    The brothers, 2016 is a beautiful year. It started with controversies from olamide to David now you boys. I have no respect for you. You insulted a woman like you weren’t born of a women. All the jagajaga you said with your mouth was appalling but I commend you for lashing back at her only you did it so very childish. Enough is enough with sub shades.If you want to talk be direct. Call me out and let’s chicken it out.

    Capt Demuren if I were you I will uninvited the duo. I believe every one knows better than to consult doctor mofin “quack”.

    I do not get why people Diss themselves on the comment section. Comon guys, R u that jobless? Do you like each other? Say it…Lolzzz

  209. Sols

    January 28, 2016 at 12:18 am

    Nigeria needs help!!! See what the ecomomy is bringing in, people are getting frustrated anyhow….

  210. Dru

    January 28, 2016 at 2:22 pm

    All of una no get sense, period

  211. Debbie Ade

    January 29, 2016 at 1:53 am

    Where is Bruno? I haven’t seen his comments on this matter. Or maybe I missed it? Lol. These guys are simply uncouth. Vajay all in the name of wedding gate crashing? Gbemi was wrong but reading these guys’ comments just makes me think they are two vile brothers!!!!!!

  212. O~Intuition!

    January 29, 2016 at 2:38 pm

    This is an informative age. we need to know what sort of psychology training this guy has got. Is it just a psychology training that focuses on literally objectifying women and literally critiqueing them for desiring the best in life. I had to literally search for all his articles on Bella Naija. They are largely not mentally challenging, not intellectual, very saddening approach to educate people on certain issues.

    Please Bella Naija can an adequate academic and professional profile of authors of published sensitive articles be placed at the end of each article.
    Psychology is an academic discipline and an applied science. A psychologist is a professional practitioner or researcher.
    Can we have a weblink to Joro olumofins online Publications. Does he belong to any Academy of Psychologists…example Nigerian Psychological Association?

  213. bummy

    January 30, 2016 at 8:18 pm

    LWKMD, honestly just read the full jist now. but is so pathetic. two wrongs dont make a right.

  214. Star

    January 30, 2016 at 10:43 pm

    These are stupid, ill mannered men. so what, she called you a gate crasher or whatever. Did she mention your name? smh…I feel sorry for the women in your lives. Clearly your money cannot buy you class.
    please take your nastiness and arrogance somewhere else. No one gives a shit about ur royalty, ur character refutes all royalty stands for.

  215. Kemmie

    January 31, 2016 at 4:50 pm

    Gbemi is obviously a bully , sadist and a gossip. She tried it with the wrong people and got more than she bargained for. That said I think the brothers too overreacted and their response was definitely out of proportion. I could not read the whole response, as it was too lengthy.
    I think this Gbemi of a girl will think twice before shading people in future.

  216. Kenny

    January 31, 2016 at 9:28 pm

    Gbemi not everything u hear or see u must talk. Olumifin’s know who u are or rather know what u should be. Commenters on bn, kudos to ya’all

  217. Lola

    February 1, 2016 at 11:13 am

    PETTY AF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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