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Pastor Chris & Anita Oyakhilome are Divorced



Pastor Chris and Anita Oyakhilome

Pastor Anita has confirmed that she is now officially divorced from her now ex-husband, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome of Christ Embassy.

In August, Anita talked about how she “tolerated abuse” for so long. In December 2015, right before the New Year, she declared she now “has a happy life free from abuse” on her official website –

Anita Oyakhilome would like to confirm that she is no longer involved in or part of Christ Embassy AKA Believers Loveworld inc.


  1. FasholasLover

    February 18, 2016 at 7:03 pm

    Better a divorce than “we are going together today….”

    • madman

      February 18, 2016 at 7:25 pm


    • Eve82

      February 18, 2016 at 9:12 pm

      I have missed you. HappY New Year Madman! ?

  2. Wendy

    February 18, 2016 at 7:16 pm

    Pastor Anita, I salute your courage to actually go through with the divorce. Many would have chosen to stay to save face. Life is too short.. I wish you good luck in your future endeavours.

  3. bruno

    February 18, 2016 at 7:31 pm

    MALACHI 2:16

    no be me talk am, na ur bible talk am.

    • Sidney

      February 18, 2016 at 8:18 pm

      I hate divorce( the act) not the divorced( the person) and yes! its in The Holy Bible said by THE LORD GOD OF ISRAEL HIMSELF but excuse me sir/ma could you read vs 15 of that same Malachi ch2 where it says that ‘let none deal treacherously with the wife of his youth’.

    • Ebere

      February 18, 2016 at 9:17 pm

      Sidney, you are my new bestie.

    • sugaplum

      February 18, 2016 at 10:20 pm

      Does that change, ‘I hate divorce’ ? The word of God can never be changed. You either go through with it, or you don’t, there’s no sitting on the fence with it.

    • OD

      February 19, 2016 at 8:24 am

      @Sidney. You are the bomb.

  4. Mr. Egghead

    February 18, 2016 at 7:34 pm

    Please, which “abuse” did she tolerate? We need examples. You can’t smear allegations and then keep quiet halfway. Even false rape accusers have the creativity to cook up a scenario
    It is better not to judge based on “he-said-she-said.” I don’t hold brief for Chris Oyakhilome but she has not shown us any evidence of adultery or abuse – only flowery pity-provoking language that is space-filler.

    Congratulations to them on their divorce. She had better return the Oyakhilome name and maybe even the “pastor” tag too

    • Ewa

      February 18, 2016 at 7:38 pm

      Hey Egghead, She doesn’t need to give any freaking evidence. You know why? Because it’s not your business. Why don’t you mind your own egghead and leave matter for Mathias.

    • Mr. Egghead

      February 18, 2016 at 8:21 pm

      Ah . . . but it is my business because I want it to be my business. What makes you qualified to judge me? Who knows whether her rantings are the illusions of a jealous mind? Pastor Chris has said she wanted more authority in the church and he didn’t give it to her. Maybe that is the truth. Who knows?
      This is an argument I won’t win – because many people allow emotions to trump logic

      Just because a woman makes allegations doesn’t mean said allegations are true. Western Courts are incredibly biased towards women. The courts don’t even demand evidence of infidelity, the woman only has to “feel” there is infidelity going on.

    • slice

      February 18, 2016 at 7:49 pm

      And she doesn’t have to show you any evidence

    • Roland

      April 2, 2016 at 8:38 pm

      Pastor Chris has no problem his wife has been tempted

    • Nonamespls

      February 18, 2016 at 8:00 pm

      Pray tell me, how does one prove emotional abuse or neglect? Biko move forward

    • Italian Princess

      February 18, 2016 at 8:03 pm

      See your mouth like you need examples!

      Will you keep quiet?!

      The courts have been given sufficient evidence to issue a decree absolute you’re there saying you need examples.

      She should return the Oyakhilome name… Lol Honestly, not sure if you considered powering your brain cells before you started typing.

      No be only you need examples!

    • Mr. Egghead

      February 18, 2016 at 8:23 pm

      OH DEAR! All your intellect seems to have flown out of the window. So unladylike.

      Then again, it is probably a dude trolling BN under a female moniker

    • Somtoo

      February 19, 2016 at 8:26 am

      Lmao…Will you keep quiet just made an image of patience jonathan pop into my head

    • Honeycrown

      February 18, 2016 at 8:23 pm

      @Mr. Egghead this is not a joking sturvs like those IG matters we read on BN okay? So she doesn’t need to show you receipt, screenshot, video, picture, Invitation etc kapish?

    • Damilola

      February 18, 2016 at 11:40 pm

      @Mr egghead

      Has pastor chris denied any of the allegations or speak out to defend himself? No. Most women will save face, so for a woman to go ahead with this kind of public divorce knowing the insults, everything she will face makes you know the cup is too full, and it’s spilling.

    • FinchleysFinest

      February 19, 2016 at 4:14 pm

      You want Evidence ? Tatafo…Gbeborun… Mind your own business..

    • Na Wa

      February 20, 2016 at 1:19 am

      Try living with a tongue talking, firebrand christian man who keeps malice with you at every opportunity, condemns and judges you all the time but is so very pleasant to outsiders, then you’ll know that abuse is not only physical. It is the most difficult kind of abuse to actually explain because to the rest of the world, you’re a troublesome liar, so you just die daily inside from grief

    • Tinko

      February 20, 2016 at 5:20 am

      Pls read next time. Il is clearly stated that she is no longer a member of Christ Embassy.

    • Kathy

      September 18, 2016 at 1:03 am

      She does not need to provide you with details. Who cares what you want. The bottom line is “It is not your business.” You ought to get a life. Obviously you are in a bad place when you “want to be in other people’s business.” Your words are very ignorant. She does not have HAVE to return anything … unless she chooses to. Obviously she does not want his name. You do not not speak like a Christian. Instead of living in darkness, you need to seek God, and turn your footsteps from Hell.

      Pastor Chris needs prayer. People ought not be judging him one way or the other. People put too much focus on him, and not enough on Jesus Christ.

  5. Edinburgh's finest

    February 18, 2016 at 7:37 pm

    I’m still surprised.

    She must have been through a lot and couldn’t take any more for her to have gone down his route.

    I mean pastor Chris, a “whole” pastor Chris a divorcee. #speechless

    • nene+

      February 18, 2016 at 8:05 pm

      Pastor Chris since you couldn’t stop her, remember the LORD HATE DIVORCE!!! And that a Bishop is a husband of one wife, and that you will have to remain single till forever? Haba aren’t you guys suppose to be pastors? Your husband does not respect you yet you are always on rhapsody? Why didn’t you move to Nigeria with him? No brief for Chris but how did you make work?
      What advise can you both give young people????
      No marriage is a bed of roses??? But as models you both should have tried harder….

      Distant marriage may have caused this but then they had the resources to stay together!!!!

    • Africhic

      February 18, 2016 at 8:25 pm

      As long as you do not live with them dont say what you dont know. God will forgive divorce, I wonder why Nigerians think divorce is not forgivable she should die there to please you all…..don’t get me started.

    • Ewa

      February 19, 2016 at 9:48 am

      This is my issue here. Who is a “Whole Pastor Chris”. Is he GOD? He is flesh and blood like you and me. He is a HUMAN BEING like you and me. He is NOT GOD and can never be and that is why he is prone to fall and make mistakes. Nigerians most time tend to assign a “god like” status to men of God putting them on a high pedestal. They turned them to mini-gods. But these peeps also have feelings like us. Hebrews 12:2 commences with Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith” not Looking unto one MOG or the other. King David fell; He committed the sin of adultery, lusted after Bathsheba and even initiated the death of Uriah so as to marry her. If this can happen to David, then who is Pastor Chris. Please have a direct relationship with Christ and not a relationship through your pastor to Christ. This race is personal one. God is not going to ask your Pastor to account on your behalf because your Pastor will be very busy accounting for his own actions. Can we therefore leave this couple to their personal race. They aren’t immune from committing sin or falling into temptation. Even sef he’s not the first MOG to get divorced Pastor Ighodalo was once divorced. Who remembers that now..

  6. Ada

    February 18, 2016 at 7:56 pm

    She has since changed her last name back to Ebodaghe. I wish her well.

    • newbie

      February 19, 2016 at 2:38 pm

      She probably just wanted to, because she didn’t even need to. In both Nigerian and English laws, a woman is allowed to keep her name even after divorce. A name is an identity and no one can take it away from you. I wish her all the best as she moves on.

  7. Omo jesu

    February 18, 2016 at 8:09 pm

    This is a great lesson that we should all look up to Jesus the Author and finisher of our faith. Enough of giving too much glory to man. We ascribe too much honour to man that is why people and situations are taken advantage of all the time.

  8. Sidney

    February 18, 2016 at 8:10 pm

    Now this is one strong woman, many others would’ve stayed put just to retain the ‘mummy GO’ title and enjoy all the posh and attention that comes with it but she chose happiness rather. I really don’t know what went wrong in this marriage but what I do know is that you my dear Anita deserves all the happiness in the world (AND ONCE YOU GET A HOLD OF IT, YOU KEEP SAYING IT, DON’T STOP SAYING IT. HALLELUYAH SOMEBODY )

  9. Chi

    February 18, 2016 at 8:10 pm

    WHERE are those Voltron church members denying trouble in paradise? I thought una sad she was heading the UK branch and there was no trouble in paradise!
    Na only God go judge all of us!

    • Beht why

      February 18, 2016 at 8:26 pm

      My dear, if you see the way my EX defends this his pastor, It was one of the many reasons I started staying away. Everything Pastor Chris said was yes and amen. One time, he stopped singing a song because their “daddy” had instructed them to not to sing it anymore. I was terribly confused.

  10. onyx

    February 18, 2016 at 8:18 pm

    Who knew pastor Chris’s Esan name was a tongue twister

  11. Beck

    February 18, 2016 at 8:26 pm

    The rate at which comments are coming in eh, I’m sure popcorn wouldn’t go round so please here’s is an opportunity to book on time and have it delivered to you doorsteps. Place you order at

  12. californiabawlar

    February 18, 2016 at 8:29 pm

    Good for them…divorce is NOT a sin!
    Remarrying on the other hand?….that’s debatable…
    Now let’s watch to see who’s going to be the first to declare their ex- an unbelieving partner to justify their remarriage…guess my people! guess!!
    Oshisko international!

  13. Nk

    February 18, 2016 at 10:00 pm

    I personally have lost all respect I had for this man of God who couldn’t try everything possible to make his marriage work! What are you teaching your congregation! I am totally sad at the shame he has brought to the body of Christ!

    • Kunny

      February 18, 2016 at 11:05 pm

      Very hopeless! Now House On The Rock has been suspiciously quiet ever since and one of their pastors and the wife are about to divorce too. They have been seperated for close to four years or more but till now none of the main pastors has stepped in to help them reconcile. Very useless! After they will be celebrating 20 years marriage anniversary. Tufiakwa unu. Tueh.

    • Omoye

      February 20, 2016 at 7:06 am

      Please which pastors in HOTR are about to divorce? Names abeg…?

  14. aurora

    February 18, 2016 at 10:03 pm

    You people sha… so gleefully celebrating the break up of a marriage and as usual exonerating the woman and heaping blame on the man even when we don’t know what happened.

    • Cindy

      February 19, 2016 at 8:44 am

      Blaming the man? Lmao. Check other blogs please and get your sorry ass out of this place. Some people be acting like they are oblivious to what goes on in the society as regards gender matters. Trust me, Pst Chris will be fine?

  15. Ghostmode

    February 18, 2016 at 10:57 pm

    I’m happy she had the strength to move on..wish her all the best. By the way not all marriages are made i heaven. If there is no respect and love in a marriage then its not a marriage.

  16. jwezee

    February 18, 2016 at 11:13 pm

    See most Nigerian pastors are fu**ing fake heads.. Including pastor Chris… Abeg i have had enough of this rubbish going on in churches and every body is pretending to be okay with it.. Well me am not!!! I don’t want to be pissed off about our “Fake Pastors” becaus i know they are nothing but mere human beings to me….all this sick Nigeria’s looking for daddy figures in their pastors.. Talking about ” my daddy said this in church, my daddy said that” #gtfohwtbs

  17. jos girl

    February 18, 2016 at 11:44 pm

    A reminder to look upon Jesus not man on earth is infallible, cos if u follow man, heart break n disappointments will follow infact u can miss heaven focusing on “man of God”. U r human , I am human and they are humans .

  18. church of God

    February 18, 2016 at 11:44 pm

    shut up Jo. he couldn’t prevent the divorce? didn’t you read that the woman wanted it at all cost. Didnt Benny Hinn’s wife seperate too at a time?

    he has lost your respect? does he know you exist before? your faith is a personal thing, if you go to hell bcos of one pastor, you got no excuse cos the true ones are available and you could have as well prayed for direction to follow the true called of God.

    shame on you Anita. THe lawyer said and I quote “we have been requested by Anita to confirm…..” this shows you this woman is on a mission.

    if you divorce, can’t you divorce and go your way? why do you have to request the lawyers to proclaim it on the roof tops? make God help person make person no marry one of this daughters of evil.

    her mission is to destroy the man. know what? GOd has established the man and the gates of hell can never prevail.

    Nb I am not a member, neither am I a fan of BLW.

    • Puzzles

      February 19, 2016 at 7:40 am

      ‘Nb I am not a member, neither am I a fan of BLW.’

      Liar Liar, Pants on fire!

    • Abasi mbok

      February 19, 2016 at 7:57 am

      Why people refuse to use their common sense truly amazes me! She requested the lawyers??? Are you frigging kidding me? Do you think legal systems else where work like Nigeria’s? I mean here everything is meant to be a secret! You are getting hitched, don’t tell anybody, are preggie, enemies everywhere, having problems in marriage, why are you making noise, who isn’t having problems? For ….s sake, her divorce is public abroad! Keep trying to push stuff under the rug, it will still come out one day!

    • Rights

      February 19, 2016 at 8:52 am

      See this AkwaIbom/calabar girl who has not crossed her local village talking.

      It is one thing to divorce, It is another thing to ask your lawyers to Publish it in the dailies/media

      Use your brain my friend

  19. church

    February 18, 2016 at 11:58 pm

    Ewa, slice, no name, italian princess and co, why were you requesting for proof from Linda that she bought the genuine bag?

    Your brains are damaged and leaking. if you make an accusation against someone, come out boldly and say it out. what abuse? I’m what form? examples?

    when it comes to a lady playing the victim card you suddenly lose all your sense of reasoning and existence.

    am sure emotional she is talking about would likely be that they don’t spend time together. my question is didn’t she know she married a pastor before?

    all these years she’s been enjoying all the accolades and benefit of the office, y wasn’t it abuse then?

    you ladies are pure evil. make God save person from your kind

  20. Miss Anoni Moss

    February 19, 2016 at 12:54 am

    Some people are so judgemental, it’s as if they were the ones that were crucified on the cross. Jesus just be looking like ?

  21. mabel

    February 19, 2016 at 1:51 am

    That’s true sef, why the need to announce it? God is not an author of confusion. I just don’t understand the need to instruct her lawyers to do this. You’ve been on this walk with God for donkey years, yet you act the way of unbelievers. Yes she’s free but two lovely girls came out of the so called ‘prison marriage’. She’s touched so many lives, so she should feel she just left a very significant part of her life. At least consider your children too. It’s their home that has been broken. Sometimes just do things quietly. It won’t kill you. ‘we’ve been instructed to shout it on the roof tops by Anita’ to prove what exactly? That church members should know he’s divorced and leave okwaya? Odiegwu.

    • Cindy

      February 19, 2016 at 8:56 am

      Did you read the post? It is so that people will not unknowingly approach her for matters relating to BLW. There are scanners everywhere. Think before you type please.

    • Idomagirl

      February 19, 2016 at 2:41 pm

      Some of you are funny.
      Pastor Chris and Anita are public figures affiliated with the entity called Christ Embassy.
      Since they are now divorced and she is no longer a part of the church and it’s affiliated businesses, it is important for the public to know so that no one does business with her on behalf of the church and vice versa.

      It’s just a simple business matter, divorces are announced all the time, especially that of high profile personalities such as these. But because this one involves pastors you’re all being overreligious and emotional as usual.

  22. Fact

    February 19, 2016 at 2:12 am

    Why did She want the divorce at all cost?
    Cant pple think? Ask Questions?
    Thats what wise pple do.
    A woman that sacrificed so much for BLW. Built alot of things CE celebrates today in the ministry.
    Did She not know all She was loosing in walking away?
    But yet She did.
    She knew that the public will voraciously destroy her image.
    But yet She did.

    So its only stupid to demand for details. Its obviously beyond an act of adultery. Its being more of being subjected to a life short of scriptural marriage. WHERE SHE HAS SUFFERED FOR YEARS IN A BID TO SAVE HER “IMAGE”.
    A life where you are practically NOT A WIFE. but you decieve the world by pretending. But the union died a long time ago.

    She tried to make it work!!!

    No doubt BLW is waxing stronger and stronger. And no devil can stop them. Amen!

    But let us not support wickedness in the bid to be loyal!
    God knows our mistakes and he forgives. But he doesnt permitt us to make other people’s lives miserable bcos you were called. you are nt God.
    LET’s not go over the manupulative strategy the MOG employed to humiliate this woman back into the marriage.
    And its funny how many sycophants he has as close aids.
    Indeed man is mortal & his days on earth are numbered!!!
    If you cant love you wife & scripture said you should, BIKO FORGET IT!

  23. El' Joe

    February 19, 2016 at 3:07 am

    Pastor Chris or whatever he is called has failed miserably, am not too surprise cuz even bible talk am dat in d last days impostor will advance from bad to worse. Who knows how girls the idiot sleeps with b4 d wife got to know, God is watching u.

  24. Joy

    February 19, 2016 at 3:39 am

    Why did She want the divorce at all cost?
    Cant pple think? Ask Questions?
    Thats what wise pple do.
    A woman that sacrificed so much for BLW. Built alot of things CE celebrates today in the ministry.
    Did She not know all She was loosing in walking away?
    But yet She did.
    She knew that the public will voraciously destroy her image.
    But yet She did.

    So its only stupid to demand for details. Its obviously beyond an act of adultery. From sources close to her, Its more of being subjected to a life short of scriptural marriage. WHERE SHE HAS SUFFERED FOR YEARS IN A BID TO SAVE HER “IMAGE” .
    A life where you are practically NOT A WIFE. but you decieve the world by pretending. But the union died a long time ago.
    No time spent together for years. no relationship. just abandoned.

    She tried to make it work!!!

    No doubt BLW is waxing stronger and stronger. And no devil can stop them. Amen!

    But let us not support wickedness in the bid to be loyal!
    God knows our mistakes and he forgives. But he doesnt permitt us to make other people’s lives miserable bcos you were called. you are nt God.
    LET’s not go over the manupulative strategy the MOG employed to humiliate this woman back into the marriage.
    And its funny how many sycophants he has as close aids.
    Indeed man is mortal & his days on earth are numbered!!!
    If you cant love you wife as scripture said you should, BIKO FORGET IT!

    • Wendy

      February 19, 2016 at 6:03 am

      Joy, thanks for your comment. It is sad to see any marriage break up but what you said confirms what I heard from relatives and friends who are CE members. I heard she tried her best to make it work but Pastor Chris just wasn’t interested. Some Pastors I know personally left CE after Pastor Anita left because of the treatment meted out to her. I pray God heals her heart after this bruising experience with marriage.

      To Pastor who decided that God’s work must come first before your wife and marriage, please DO NOT MARRY. Don’t subject someone’s daughter to heartache and abandonment in the name of marriage. After all Apostle Paul did not marry because of the work God called him to do and he asked others who had the gift to emulate him, only if you have the gift of celibacy. This woman would have been in a loving and nurturing marriage with another man, now she has been forced in to divorce.

      Now some will say that is what she wanted. No, I am certain that is not want she wants, But sometimes in order to retain ones sanity, integrity and reclaim your true self, you have to close some doors.

  25. PD Young Billionaire

    February 19, 2016 at 3:49 am

    I assume Christ Embassy doesnt have a marriage counseling Dept.

    • Kola S

      February 21, 2016 at 9:19 am

      According to Pastor Chris, marriage is very easy, so I’m sure they don’t need one.

  26. Patrick

    February 19, 2016 at 4:53 am

    fake pastor

  27. Koldaf

    February 19, 2016 at 4:59 am

    is divorce now a thing to celebrate? what a failure they are? *SMH

    • Cindy

      February 19, 2016 at 8:47 am

      You are more of a failure for making this stupid comment. It is not your business whether people choose to divorce or not. What is wrong with Nigerians?

  28. timmy

    February 19, 2016 at 6:17 am

    God does not hate the “fornicator” he hates the the act according to sidney. I just tire

  29. Kola S

    February 19, 2016 at 7:52 am

    I remember sitting in on a message where Pastor Chris was really emphasizing on how easy marriage was.
    Anyway, divorce is quite a traumatic situation for those involved, including the children. I wish them well.

  30. Krasavitsa

    February 19, 2016 at 8:06 am

    Some Nigerians be acting like Christianity originated in the heart of Nigeria. Most christians aren’t humane -rushing to hurl insults at both parties, forgeting that we are HUMANS first, twisting the bible, being overly biased when it comes to men/women of God…………… If we all can practice humanity first, we’ll be better religionists (if there’s such a word). Btw, I strongly believe religion has done way more harm than good.

  31. kate odiri

    February 19, 2016 at 8:19 am

    it is well, may God heal and solve this situation cos there is nothing that is too difficult for him to do.

  32. Mondela

    February 19, 2016 at 8:58 am

    Well..this is just sad,i love this couple,I love pst anita,very humble ,simple and down to earth woman.But what i dont like is the way some myopic people are saying pst chris is a fake pastor bcos of this divorce drama,it just shows they are not really christians or spiritually immature.That a man is a pastor doesnt mean he’s perfect or doesnt go thru struggles like all of us.Pastors are humans.Divorce or no divorce,pst chris is still a MOG,highly annointed that will keep on inspiring and blessing millions around the world.Wish them the best.

  33. africhic

    February 19, 2016 at 9:20 am

    Their decision to divorce doesn’t make either of them a loved less by God. As long as each party is better for it, no need to doubt their christianity because they are divorced.

    • africhic

      February 19, 2016 at 9:20 am

      * ”wither of them loved less”

  34. Awuri Olisah

    February 19, 2016 at 12:43 pm

    as christian we have been given a mandate not to judge but you can air your opinion of course.
    Firstly, marriage is sacred and God holds it as sacred bond and its meant to be a permanent relationship, Matthew 19: 4-9.
    Qualities of a good and godly marriage are in Galatians 5:22, 23, however if these qualities are lacking due to lack of continuity thats the problem.
    Love and sacrifice are inseperable,you cant say you are in love with sm if you are not wlling to mk sacrifices.
    The only reason permitted for a divorce is sexual sin,Matthew 19:8,9.
    i want to believe that dis should be her reason

  35. Carla

    February 19, 2016 at 1:09 pm

    We are too quick to judge, I for one will not cos I read the bible (a little). I once heard a story, that he ate from the dustbin cos his wife out of anger threw the food she served him into it. He’s not God and might have endured just like she has. Before u crucify me I adore both of them and it breaks my heart that they could part ways but what do I know. It is well.

    • Idomagirl

      February 19, 2016 at 2:34 pm

      Lmao. He ate from the dustbin indeed, there was no food elsewhere to eat? The food she allegedly threw in the dustbin was the only food on earth?
      Make una dey blow una vibes jejely biko.

  36. Iya alaje

    February 19, 2016 at 1:30 pm

    God bless you Sidney. Wish this your very simple statemnet with profound truth can be preached to a lot of Pastors that use this to guilt trip people especiallywomen to stay on in abusive relationships. Aiye e dara!

  37. lily

    February 20, 2016 at 6:27 pm

    Even king david fell…same goes with many prophets and kings whom God has anointed. It is of no use pointing fingers as to who /what circumstances ended their marriage, neither will condemning their act make them less human. All this happens so that we can learn to be better off with our relationships with people…owning a big ministry and being called by God to be his anointed one isn’t an easy walk…life itself isn’t easy just being husband and wife. And when you have so much responsibility pressing on your shoulder, it takes wisdom and the grace of God to balance a home, family, ministry and oda things. This doesn’t mean it cant work however only the well disciplined mind knows this and ask for wisdom to continue further on this path. I hold no disdain for both parties and i pray that many that are treading on this path will begin to seek God’s help on all aspect of their life. Pastor Chris and Pastor Anita, The world will criticise you even if you did something right but i believe God has his own way of dealing with our errors.

  38. Ola

    February 20, 2016 at 11:09 pm

    A lot of the comments above are not true. Members of the Christ ministry should have drop some comments. I reside in the UK and my place of work is just a stone throw from the family court. where the divorce is granted. Anita destroy her marriage by herself and by so call friends she is surrounded with.
    In the Uk the country is the home for divorce , While didn’t Anita seek for divorce in Nigeria where they got married every one knows she in these for a mission.
    All these so call Pastors are human being and they are not above temptation ,i espect so call other pastors to have intervene and see if they can help these couples but no single pastors but in Nigeria or the UK did it is a shame on all of them.
    Pastor Chris is a stubborn man so his is the wife. it is going to cause Pastor Chris a lot of money but thank God the children are grown up.
    Pastor Anita will make sure all her expenses are well taking care of including her mortgage if she has on.
    These will be a lesson for all these so call Pentecostal churches who loves to bring their wife in as co -pastor when even their wife are never call. Th

  39. Jegede Shoko

    February 21, 2016 at 3:30 pm

    The energy poured out here to comment on someone’s marital life is enough for some people to pursue their own vision in life and affect lives.
    Y’all should stop drinking panadol for another’s headache. Face your life. If your life matters then followers go plenty otherwise you are just a statistic. Be wise!!!!

  40. Betty

    February 22, 2016 at 5:16 pm

    ….. Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have. Love doesn’t strut, Doesn’t have a swelled head, Doesn’t force itself on others, Isn’t always “me first,” Doesn’t fly off the handle, Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others, Doesn’t revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with anything, Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never looks back, But keeps going to the end.” Love never dies …
    ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭13:3-8MSG‬‬

  41. iffi

    February 25, 2016 at 4:55 am

    how can u stay put in a marriage where she sees her hubby less dan 3 times in a year. she has been clamouring more time with her family, d man resides in SA n leaves her in london. she hears rumours of ladies on mini skirt all over her hubby’s house, she tried talking to her husband, n den she’s seen as “unspiritual”. divorce is ungodly….! as for me,, any Pastor dat can keep his marriage, cannot have d previlege of joining my hand in marriage, ‘ just my opinion ‘.

  42. zii

    March 2, 2016 at 12:01 am

    Ola please keep quiet that your office is close to the family court does not guarantee you heard right OK? How many wives can actually endure a sexless marriage for years unend? May god have mercy on those insulting the woman!

  43. Nigel

    March 6, 2016 at 1:27 pm

    Oh come on. The guy is power mad. His church is all about money and his power. You have to admire him for making so much money from naive and gullible people. Of course he’s been sewing his oats, and she put up with it for years for a slice of his money. He’s an egotistical control freak…. But she’s pretty hot. Most guys would give her one. I certainly would.

  44. Thanks

    March 13, 2016 at 5:49 pm

    I do not really know exactly the cause irrespective of that, i say, hold on to the Word man of God, you inspire the whole world, God be with you.

  45. welomen

    April 28, 2016 at 9:56 pm

    Like i keep saying, when d devil wants to do something, he uses the people around…wetin make Pastor Chris go marry white half cast b4…? Good women full 9ja oh, other Pastors who are in 9ja today are living well with their wife and family, their wife are well brought up…they let go satanic words and keep their home, no matter what the issue is…family members can inter vain and settle the issue once and for all….Pastor Chris go carry oyebo when nor get tradition, why shit nor go sup…..i don shut down jor!

  46. welomen

    April 28, 2016 at 10:02 pm

    When there’s an issue with husband and wife….nah family members dey settle am…wetin come concern court for normal small misunderstanding now…..she dey find 50/50 divorce b4….my kids can’t get married to white kids, who don’t have respect for tradition….just small issue when both family members go sit down drink palm-wine on top…close case, nah court dey handle…this is not good example at all…..and some years ago i think she must have conducted a wedding program in their church way back, and how those pple go dey feel nah…?? when she can’t even handle her own home!

  47. keoni

    May 8, 2016 at 12:22 am

    I am a pastor myself, servant of God, preacher, father to my daughter, husband to my wife, etc. I believe the bible is so clear that the husband loves his wife & wife submit, which is very practical. The word of God is a very powerful Book. Many preachers like to preach, teach, and no actions. we must practice the WORD of GOD behind pulpit, in church, working place, mainly in our families or homes. Otherwise, we are preacher, pastor in the eyes of the public and we just entertainers in the eyes of God (scary). According to the scripture, God will cast us out because we don’t practice what we preach. Anita has done a great job for bringing the truth in the public about this pastor. I don’t care how much anointing he has and knowledge of God he has. ITS NOT FOR HIM, its for the sake of the people of God. If He (any preacher0 doesn’t live right at home, he is a BIG JOKE before God. Be careful who you follow. Otherwise, watch your preachers fruits at church, public, and relationship with his family. I do my homework at home daily and my wife and kid knows it. Love you in Jesus.

  48. Chinedum Godly

    May 13, 2016 at 5:58 am

    Pastor chris has no message if he cannot kp his home…..that is simple truth. It is his responsibility to kp his home n not the responsibility of his wife.

  49. awuri

    May 26, 2016 at 10:40 am

    too bad

  50. mauga

    June 2, 2016 at 9:11 am

    Watch and pray…quick to think slow to speak..its coming at your door…

  51. dazzle

    June 2, 2016 at 3:33 pm

    It is unfortunate that it has come to all of this….. viz a viz the comments posted (mine inclusive) Truth be told. it is always sensational to hear and talk about challenged and failed marriages – especially when it involves public figures . It is even more “exciting” when it involves pastors. I do not have the details of what happened and frankly, I really do not care. What I do care about is this …. ” another one bites the dust ” . It is sad that we live in a female gender repressive society. We were born into it and save for the few who have the strength of character to veer off a different tangent, we tend to be formed by what the society feeds us. For those of you who are 18 years and above, I pray thee process events, see how these events affect you and if the effects are negative, rather than spend time tongue lashing one another over social media, think of constructive ways to ensure you are not one of those who do not learn from the mistakes of others but theirs.
    Marriage was instituted by God Almighty and from the scriptures documented in the bible, I know HE – God intended that it be enjoyed.. No sane person would opt out of an enjoyable state. Now Chris Oyakhilome did not bring down the moon or move the hills to reconcile with his wife, It means that the marriage institution was either no longer enjoyable or he found something more enjoyable. If Anita on the other hand decided to burn all bridges linking her to the man she called husband for 24 years without turning back, it means she either found the union not enjoyable or was on a vendetta against her ex – the question to all scenarios is why? What went wrong? How did it get to this? ……… My point exactly . If you give priority to the less important things in life, the more important ones will ultimately suffer. If you nuture a garden into beauty and spend time playing or sleeping rather than guard it, the one who wants to make a mess of all your efforts will sneak in and sow tares.
    If Chris did not see anything in Anita to bring him to his knees before her (that is all true love is about by the way… after all when Jesus was being mocked and bruised by the very ones HE came to save, HE died for them anyway) then let Chris be!!! and if Anita had nothing to hold onto in Chris (not their children, not their church establishment and obviously not the love ), then let Anita be!!! Thy both deserve to be ” happy”. I leave you with the words of my best friend……….” every soul dead or alive is an example set by God of what to be or of what never to be. Its your responsibility to choose which category you fall into” Have a pleasant life ya”ll!!!


    June 3, 2016 at 4:22 pm

    When pst Chris dominated naija with the gospel that was how the devil came using someone with the name Chris Okotie who cameup on air claiming he was representing Pentecostal Fellowship of Nigeria (PFN) and was painting the image of this wonderfull man of God as a prophet of doom which was not. Little did nigerians knew that God was taking this man to dominate the world with this same gospel. Now God has helped him and he has succeeded in dominating the world with this same gospel, i mean establishing Christ Embassy Churches in over 200 nations around the globe, and that same devil has comeup again, this time using
    a member of his family and a weaker vessel thinking he can pull him down or stop him. Never and not at all. Ladies and gentlemen how are we sure that God is not about to bring the rapture that will usher Pastor Chris Oyakhilome and everyone that is sincere in him and righteous to heaven. There is a wakeup call to prayer ; (1) That God should prepare you for the rapture. (2) That God should not find you wanting when the rapture will take place.

  53. Nina

    August 13, 2016 at 5:10 pm

    I’m not surprised this is coming from Christ embassy aka Believers Love World. In as much as Pastor Chris and Anita are human, that church is known for promoting promiscuity. If Pastor Chris was really serious about his marriage, he should have had her close instead of her living in far away London, overseeing another branch of the church. What sort of nonsense is that? If she had people influencing her negatively, it’s because he was the one that allowed it to happen in the first instance. A woman’s place is by her husband’s side. From all the comments and stories I’ve read so far, I feel Pastor just wanted her out of his life and she being in another continent just made his plans a whole lot easier.

  54. Esther

    August 21, 2016 at 9:39 pm

    Well if there is nothing left in the marriage, there is nothing one can do. God will judge , He knows exactly what went wrong here. My question is..if there were rumours of cheating, was this big enough not to be prevented. God is not good for a man to be alone. God knew why. Why were they leaving in separate countries….i wonder…..i love them both anyway. I am just disappointed and looking at my own marriage, i feel there is no hope. If MOGs cannot make a turn…..i feel i am wasting my time too in thinking my own marriage will ever work out…sad

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