I really don’t know where to post on aunty Bella but I need advice.
I am a 33 year old woman, I met a guy about 2 years ago, due to need for marriage and companionship, I started dating this guy.
He is nice to me, never abused me but I am not happy with him. My friends advised me to stay with him cos he is nice and love will grow so I stayed with him keeping him as ‘mr right now’ till I find ‘mr right’ but it has backfired because now I am 4 months pregnant for him.
Ever since I learned of the pregnancy, I have been very sad and depressed.
I am in a dilemma, its been 2 years and I still don’t love this man, I care about him but I just cant make myself love him no matter how hard I try, when he travels I don’t miss him, when I dream of my wedding I don’t picture him. I am very confused and sad, should I marry him for the baby and be unhappy or should I leave and hope I will find someone who I will love and who will love me even though I have a child?
I need serious advice please help me.
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