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Aunty Bella: Mr. Why Did She Kiss Me If She’s Not Attracted To Me?

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Aunty Bella is our  agony aunt column on BellaNaija. We launched this column in the early days of BN and periodically feature issues sent in by BN readers.

This one was sent in as a comment to one of our posts. We hope the BN family can offer insightful advice.


Hi Aunty Bella.

I don’t know where to post this story, so please pardon me for posting here.

I was on a first date with a babe. It was a lovely night. We had a great time and laughed a lot. We kissed at the end of the night. Beautiful kiss. She kissed me herself when leaving, too.

Next day, I called to check up to her. I thot I’d found a wife. To my shock, she told me we can’t have a relationship. When I asked why, she complained that I wasn’t gentleman enough, saying I could have called Uber for her to get home, rather than followed her to a train station. Also, she claimed she likes someone else. And that the kiss doesn’t feel right, as expected.

As a lady, help me understand the Uber part and why you’ll kiss a guy you’re not attracted to?