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“Abegggggii please come correct” Toke Makinwa wants that Barack & Michelle Obama Type of Marriage

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United-States-State-Dinner-Michelle-Obama-barack-October-2016-BellaNaija-001 (2)Toke Makinwa posted a photo of President Barack Obama and Michelle Obama at their last state dinner during their presidency on her Instagram page – click here to see the fabulous photos, and used them as a ‘point of contact’ (as Nigerians say) to pray about her future partner.

She’s also ready to go to war for her future husband! Here’s what she has to say –

FLOTUS X POTUS #Yunmy #Goals ???. Dear future Husband,
I am working hard on me. Building an empire, growing spiritually and emotionally, pushing thru the odds and striving to be the best partner you’ve ever dreamed of. I will go to war with you, (by your side of course). I will support and pray you to success. Abegggggii please come correct ??? #partnerincrime #partnership #power

Photo Credit: Getty Images/Mark Wilson

79 Comments

  1. madman

    October 19, 2016 at 9:44 pm

    Lmao ~ funny girl. Gotta give it to her though. Madam, OBAMA IS NOT a Nigerian man. Get it?!

    • Ife

      October 19, 2016 at 11:25 pm

      Does anyone else feel like Bellanaija is changing their business model to accommodate some ratchetness ?? from at all there’s any word like that . What kind of title is this ??? ??

    • Ife

      October 19, 2016 at 11:27 pm

      I meant to say is at all there’s any word such as ratchetness ??

    • tunmi

      October 20, 2016 at 12:50 am

      Oh please it’s all business. Besides, she makes a good point. FLOTUS is my role model and the two of them are truly partner goals.

      Besides, ever since that Nate Parker rapist promo, BN has gone to the place of no return. At this point, I don’t think I can ever be surprised.

    • TheOriginalFirstlady

      October 21, 2016 at 10:13 am

      I wish i can like ur comment 100 times!!!! lol OBAMA IS NOT A NIGERIAN MAN!!!!

  2. De Duchess

    October 19, 2016 at 9:57 pm

    I want Toke to find her perfect guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    I just love her personality—- take the excessive makeup away and we are fine!!

  3. Wale

    October 19, 2016 at 10:05 pm

    Too late-she is already used and stained for life. This type of marriage comes with standards,purity, focus and authenticity. Lets not forget good education, selflessness and appreciation of the meaning of the word privacy. None of the attributes ms. Makinwa has or is capable of understanding.

    • cheek

      October 19, 2016 at 10:24 pm

      wale you be God? Ask for forgiveness and a good life if not……

    • Ife

      October 19, 2016 at 11:07 pm

      Help me ask the guys oh ?? Are you God ???

    • Caly

      October 19, 2016 at 10:28 pm

      Really??
      I am so baffled at your thought process.
      Actually nvm, I’ll just assume your brain was not engaged as you typed.

    • Caly

      October 19, 2016 at 10:30 pm

      “Used and stained for life”
      Huh?

    • Marlvina

      October 19, 2016 at 10:35 pm

      Meaning what? Firstly, I’m not one of those Toke fanatics who follow her vlogs every week. I’m responding purely because of your comment. secondly, How can you say she’s been used and stained for life? Are you implying there’s no more hope for her in marriage? That’s totally wrong; yeah she may have made some mistakes or probably lacked the role of a wife or whatever happened between them, I can’t really tell where it all went wrong before Maje cheated on her which was totally humiliating for her. Nevertheless, you have no right condemning her and pinpointing her flaws, saying she’s not capable of becoming a better person. She may be favored and meet a guy who would treasure & build her up to imbibe some of those attributes she lacks as you put it. Never say never! No one is a cast away!

    • Zeb

      October 19, 2016 at 10:40 pm

      An oldman like you spewing nonsense from that thing u call a mouth. Nobody is used and stained for life in d sight of God,. Your statement reeks of ignorance and stupidity my dear, talking a young hardworking lady down because she earns her living from “publicity”. you obviously hate d idea of a woman being independent I honestly can’t find the right word to describe you. Anyways thank God say man no be God… the BLOOD of JAH washes away every “STAIN”???

    • Seriously

      October 20, 2016 at 12:42 am

      Hush it. . Majority of men(don’t get me started on nigerian men) are heavily stained then be looking for a perfect woman end of staining her for life. I hate men who feel entitled and be the first to judge a woman. Toke is a human being with flaws and life experienced like everybody else.

    • Corolla

      October 20, 2016 at 1:04 am

      You have some nerve! Are you God? How dare you utter such nonsense. “Stained for life” indeed! I am sure if we opened your closet, skeletons will come tumbling out. Do you think God is man? Or you think his grace is not enough for us all? Also, what has she done wrong in her life? Her hubby cheated on her, and she left. How is it a stain? Stop playing God and making such dark authoritative statement over peoples lives. We are all in this rat race called life, and we are all striving to do right! No need to be proclaiming doom over someone’s life. She is here praying to God for something, and you are saying it’s impossible…Sigh!

    • Ese V

      October 20, 2016 at 1:09 am

      She is stained and ruined for life? because an idiot cheated on her?
      Thank God you are not God. you need a different perspective on this thing called life

    • Idomagirl

      October 20, 2016 at 6:18 am

      What do you mean by “used and stained for life”? Backward cretin.

    • Feefee

      October 20, 2016 at 6:57 am

      Wale I’m convinced you were dropped on your head as a child. Maje did the cheating not Toke, and for you to insinuate she is past her prime is ridiculous. Marriage is not some unattainable goal reserved only for those of a certain age. People have, and will find love again and again despite what enemies of progress like you may say. So why not shut up, take a moment to ponder your own sad existence in the boys quarter you are writing this from, and live a little.

    • Nayourloss

      October 20, 2016 at 10:17 am

      People need to get it…Yes she is stained for Life.. Cos no nigerian man in their right senses who knows Toke’s background…especially all her moves during her uni years should be the one to put her type at home.

    • Tayo

      October 20, 2016 at 7:51 am

      Stained for life, kwa? Oga, man nor be God o. Calm down sir.

    • Mbeke feeling funky

      October 20, 2016 at 9:09 am

      I can’t with some peoples mentality soooo Toke’s husband cheats on her and she’s the one stained. Please @Wale educate yourself.

    • that-i-may-fly

      October 20, 2016 at 10:08 am

      Who’s this goat talking about purity? What’s that got to do with anything? And what does ‘used and stained for life’ mean? I cant stand most Naija men and their totally backward way of thinking.

    • Run Mouth

      October 20, 2016 at 10:10 am

      You said it all Wale. When ladies get stained, messes up and then wishes to have a well packaged gift in a gold plate.

    • Bimbo

      October 20, 2016 at 11:39 am

      People like you make the feminism struggle extremely urgent. You always seek to denigrate and defile women at every opportunity cause uv been raised to view women as less than human. I hope you find a good , strong rope if toke finds happiness and marries again.

    • Salama Afro Ladies Salon Dubai

      October 20, 2016 at 6:06 pm

      Some people need to buy a brain before bundles!

  4. Iyke

    October 19, 2016 at 10:05 pm

    Settle your heart beautiful Toke…your time will come!
    We all need that partner who can steady us even when our whole lives is in an upheaval or ruins.
    I know that one of these days,you will meet eyes with that someone who makes you feel so at home in the world you will think to yourself,Ahhh,there you are!
    #behopeful

    • Dee

      October 20, 2016 at 9:06 am

      @Iyke, you be better person. You always see good in people and not quick to condem.

    • Maguim

      October 20, 2016 at 9:42 am

      As in!!!!! I like Iykes comments

  5. nnenne

    October 19, 2016 at 10:19 pm

    You deserve all that you wish for , let no one tell you otherwise!
    Good Luck.

  6. Lizzzi

    October 19, 2016 at 10:23 pm

    Presently oohing and awwwing at this statement “……. am working hard on me. Building an empire, growing spiritually and emotionally, pushing thru the odds and striving to be the best partner you’ve ever dreamed of. ”

    As a single lady believing God for my life partner can I truly say this of myself? If Mr. Right were to adopt my very long checklist of qualities I’d love him to have, how many will he find in me?

    Just musing out loud.

  7. Austin

    October 19, 2016 at 10:31 pm

    Toke makinwa your very greedy
    That’s why you’ve not found a man that loves
    Why … because your not worth what you desire
    Ok

    • Ife

      October 19, 2016 at 11:09 pm

      She’s not worth what she desires ???? That’s where grace and mercy comes in we are all not worth it but grace has saved us ?

    • Mz Titilitious

      October 20, 2016 at 9:32 am

      😀 😀

    • Rahila

      October 20, 2016 at 1:08 pm

      Hallelujah Sister!

    • Laura

      October 22, 2016 at 6:53 am

      Ladies!!! We need to make sure our future husbands dont have these kind of backward and useless thinking oo! God forbid! Someone will marry this guys now? Lol and yes grace has saved us!!!

  8. o

    October 19, 2016 at 10:41 pm

    Didn’t someone tiny here that she’s with Debola? Dude is already correct. Let’s hope it works out fine

  9. sika

    October 19, 2016 at 11:36 pm

    My dear, a michelle like woman is not a toke makinwa type woman, so therefore, you cannot attract a barrack obama. why? because ‘barracks’ usually attract ‘michelles’ – what i mean is, people attract who they are. These type of men look for certain qualities- you cant be wishing for what you are not..

    • Me

      October 20, 2016 at 5:21 am

      It will shock you. I know an under 40 CEO who has been having an affair for 4 years. His wife is a Mitchell and his mistress is a Toke. Maybe you hv a point though cos he buys his wife LVs while the mistress is excited abt knock offs and 20k monthly allowee.

    • adelegirl

      October 20, 2016 at 11:27 am

      That is why the mistress will never become a wife (at least not to the man who is cheating on his wife with her and buying madam wife designers whilst giving mistress cheap knock offs)

  10. May

    October 20, 2016 at 12:02 am

    Yes. we all want that almost perfect guy but don’t look at it from this picture right here but how they started. Obama was an intern where Mitchell worked. He was a civil rights lawyer, a lecturer, professor, a jacket boy for Clinton, a Senator…..before this picture came up. You have to work with him if he’s not correct to make him correct. You can’t just look at a picture and say you want your guy to come “correct.”. Obama wasn’t this correct when Mitchell married him. I pray we all met the one our heart desires.

    • Teju TJ

      October 20, 2016 at 6:36 am

      Obama came correct!! He was a first year hire at Michelle’s law firm who graduated Harvard. Not a low life who just wont do anything from himself and expect you to jump at his beck and call. The man handled his business. Moreover, while he was a U.S senator, his wife stayed back in Chicago while he commuted weekly from Washington. Did that make him impregnate another woman because Michele was not in Washington to cook for him?
      Please read and increase your knowledge before uttering such nonsense.

    • May

      October 20, 2016 at 3:51 pm

      You should read to understand and not in a hurry to respond. Obviously, you don’t understand what Toke meant by “come correct” . We are both saying the same thing. I mentioned all you said and never said he was a low life but, He wasn’t the US president the day he met Mitchell. This perfect picture and correct guy takes time. Maje and Obama, two different worlds. Different backgrounds, goals and different circles. And because Obama is all this things and the picture looks perfect doesn’t not mean correct. We don’t know what goes behind closed doors. I don’t have to say much before you know I’m very informed, still increasing in knowledge and not uttering nonsense…..

    • Its Michelle...May.

      October 21, 2016 at 12:11 am

      They’ve been in office for 8 solid years and you’re here writing ‘Mitchell’. I couldn’t even read what you had to say because with all the media in the world you’re still writing ‘Mitchell’, not once, not twice, but several times. You even came back to respond to another’s comment and you still wrote ‘Mitchell’. Umph!

  11. Tess

    October 20, 2016 at 12:26 am

    Now you see Michelle and Barack and admire them and want what they have. However, are you ready to make the sacrifices Michelle made over the years for Barack to come correct.? when she started dating him, he was driving a jalopy and had only 2 shirts and 2 trousers with one undersize shoe. BUt she loved him as he was and worked with him and now you see this lovely picture. How many ladies would have agreed if Barack had toasted them with his jalopy lol?for several years until Barack became a presidential candidate, Michelle was the major breadwinner. how many ladies are ready to do the hard work to make their man the ‘man of their dreams’?

    • mz_danielz

      October 20, 2016 at 8:26 am

      If a guy is a harvard graduate working with a reputable law firm, has a good head on his shoulders, is well mannered and has lived the street life a bit (not those ones waiting for money to get hot girl), girls will kill for him cos he screams PROSPECTS. The same way guys see a girl in her late teens/early twenties and marry her because she comes from a good family and they can see the woman she will blossom into. Don’t twist the story abeg. Mitchelle wasn’t a major bread winner, she was just his superior ( maybe she even had access to his appraisals and noticed theHR report marked him as a top talent).

    • LemmeRant

      October 20, 2016 at 8:47 am

      Just sit down there and be deceiving yourself.

      All the girls that have been marrying have been marrying for prospects abi? Abi the rampant no. of runs girls we have in Nigeria are all looking for Prospects. I always pity the guys that listen to women like these.

    • Lala

      October 20, 2016 at 12:45 pm

      @mz Danielz, Obama interned at the law firm Michelle worked. He did not work at a law firm. He went on to lecture at the university of Chicago. You need to put in some years before you become a professor, so yes, Michelle was the major bread winner for many years. If you read Barrack’s book, ‘The Audacity of Hope’ he stated it clearly. When he asked her out, she was wearing suits of about $5,000 whilst his suit was crap. There’s no HR report to look at, he was an intern, period.
      I think what tripped Michelle was Barracks’s prospects but also, his upfront openness and honesty to her. When I met my husband, what tripped most was not just his prospects but his honesty and how he came out plain and straight forward. He laid his life bare, everything that he was, his dreams, his job, his faith down to his pay check. Mind I had my own money. I left a guy who was earning twice as much with even better prospects and 6ft tall to marry my husband and I have peace of mind and I am well respected in my marriage.
      Work takes my husband to other cities for days and yet like Barrack, here are no baby mama issues. Plus I have the password to my husband’s phones, mind you I did not ask, he said, dear you should have these passwords because these safe guards are necessary for us not to allow temptations. Same with me, my husband has my passwords, both phone and emails.

      There are decent and easy going men who are Nigerians but if a lady’s values are warped and all about money, their own Barrack will walk past them and they won’t even recognise him how much more consider him. Same goes for men. It’s always about the curves and the sexiness of the lady and how good she is in bed. I know someone, a supposed leader in church who had no job, he lived on repairing phones. When God opened a way for him and he got a government appointment and did some contracts, he made some millions. The next thing, he abandoned the girl who was with him throughout his suffer head era and moved to one oshelenge yellow pawpaw babe. Married her and in one year, marriage was over. Babe said she could not live in a bungalow, it had to be a duplex. She does not cook, they always buy food. Not sometimes but buying food all the time. As money finished, she left and her family supported her.

      All in all, directly or indirectly, we all attract our type in the end. You attract a spouse based on your innate value system. If you cheat in exams or in life generally, some how, you will attract someone with a lopsided attitude to life. He/she may not cheat in exams but may use his pen to rob his employers.
      If you ate a person who is dishonest, if you meet a dishonest person, you wouldn’t care so long as they pay the bills, mean while an honest person will not be able to stand such individual. Even if you force things, it will lead to divorce in the end.

      Permit my typos, pls.

    • Tosin

      October 24, 2016 at 9:00 am

      Spiritual truth by @Lala
      Wonderful

    • Mz Titilitious

      October 20, 2016 at 9:34 am

      help me ask the wishers???

  12. Excel.

    October 20, 2016 at 1:07 am

    Stop envying and wanting what you do not know and only see from the outside. Ask FOR YOUR OWN. Ask for THE VERY BEST GOD HAS FOR YOU. Ask for God’s PERFECT WILL FOR YOU.

    All that glitters is not gold. I have been speaking generally not about Barack and Michelle but about everything and anything. As for Barack and Michelle, whatever they have now, as one or two commenters have mentioned, they BOTH had to work at it and work on themselves individually even within the marriage. Also, there was a period in their marriage when it seemed divorce was going to happen (I’ve heard Michelle say so in an interview, she seriously thought of leaving). Furthermore, she also had to determine and face that he would not always be there like she wanted, and could not or would not always give her everything she needed, so she had to sit down with herself and work out what were the things she needed and who from, and how, she could get them She had to list, sort out, arrange, work out her life, herself, her needs, her resources, her happiness, with herself. (And, yes, I heard her say that in an interview too.)

    Speaking generally again, you don’t know what’s underneath the clothes, what’s behind the closed doors, what’s away from the cameras. No matter how truly wonderful, good, great, glorious, sweet, beautiful anything or anyone is, ALWAYS ask God first, FOR YOUR OWN from Him, and second, FOR THE VERY BEST HE HAS FOR YOU/HIS PERFECT WILL FOR YOU, and third, FOR INFINITELY BETTER THAN THAT (i.e. the ‘ideal’ you’re looking at, no matter how fantabulous it is, ask God for better, greater) because no matter if it is so awesome on a scale the world has never ever seen, God can always do, create, and give you, muuuuuuuuuuch better. Because He’s GOD like that.

    • Maguim

      October 20, 2016 at 9:53 am

      The thing is, we (africans) like to “tap into other people blessings”, use people as a point of contact….. I will never get it…
      Who said that Michelle’s blessing is meant to be my blessings????
      Cant we just learn to celebrate people and move to other things????
      No, we have to wish it for ourselves????
      I met a nigerian woman, and she prayed for me (since i am lokking for a job) and also prayed that i would get married….. And she”used me as a point of contact for her own daughter to get married”…… But, does she know if it will take 10 or 15 years for me to get married!?
      My friends are happily married, and i celebrate “their” marriages…. Because thats “their” story, point

  13. [email protected]

    October 20, 2016 at 5:56 am

    “The picture” that is how i like to call what am seeing. These picture perfect marriage take s time to build. Alot of sacrifice and effort. People are interested in the result not the process. If u want this type of marriage u have to work it

    • Idomagirl

      October 20, 2016 at 6:19 am

      We know.

    • Teju TJ

      October 20, 2016 at 6:38 am

      Did the girl not say she was working on being the best she could be? It’s like you people’s braubs assimilate what it chooses to assimilate

  14. bbb

    October 20, 2016 at 6:51 am

    you guys meant Obama the smoker; both indian hemp and tobacco.oga ooo

  15. Millie

    October 20, 2016 at 7:21 am

    Stained for life? Nigerian men and entitlement mentality. Toke, keep shinning you will get your heart desires if you believe, thank God we all see you working to build an empire. My question is do men go to a different heaven?

  16. Lisa

    October 20, 2016 at 8:19 am

    When Obama started to ask Michelle out and court her, he had holes in the soles of his shoes, NOW I ASK YOU TOKE WILL A SELF ABSORBED VAI BXXXXH LIKE YOU HAVE GIVEN HIM A CHANCE, and don’t tell me you would have cos he had potential, cos there are many potentials here in Nigeria with PhD but due to bad economy don’t have jobs today.

    Abegi shut up and do what you do best, VAIN SHYT make up hair designer shoes and watching ratchet shows. Is there anything else interesting about you . Do damn vain

    • Mz Titilitious

      October 20, 2016 at 9:33 am

      hehehehe

    • Nor vex

      October 20, 2016 at 11:50 am

      Haba na wetin Toke do you? See as you take dey vex untop another woman matter. Toke has prophesied into her life, I advise that you do the same.

  17. I love my husband

    October 20, 2016 at 9:07 am

    This Toke gehl is funny, be wishing for Obama kind of man, are you a michelle kind of lady and for you to even be wishing merely because of a picture that looks puts together shows you are very shallow, couples can fight themselves finish and come outside and pose for the cameras, what you see on social media or in pictures do not always appear as they are, we both don’t know what happens in their marriage. Secondly, michelle started with Obama when he had nothing, they worked and hustled together but Toke has stated categorically she cant marry a man that is hustling, she wants ready made, are u ready to help a man achieve his vision, are you ready to delay gratification and suffer/hustle for a while. so its not just about wishing my dear Toke, if wishes were horses…..

  18. that-i-may-fly

    October 20, 2016 at 10:12 am

    Now let’s get’s serious, beyond the glitz, glamour, fame and power that comes with being the president of the free world, no one can really knows what goes on behind closed doors in this marriage. Whoever watches Toke’s vlogs does so at their own peril. This girl doesn’t have much by way of sense. The fact that her boyfriend of 10 years was sleeping with his ex of 7 years under her nose without her knowing a thing or choosing to ignore it in the hope that he will choose her in the end tells you all you need to know about how she views relationships. I can see she still has lots to learn.

  19. Turban Girl

    October 20, 2016 at 10:36 am

    Bad Belle!!! Why are people always jumping down this girl’s throat, she would say “A” and people would run to “Z” with it, na wa oo. Small time now, all this commenters that have comprehension problems, would start making noise of how they are intellectuals and are living “abroad.” All those making noise about how Michelle hustled, and how she married Obama when he was nothing. Excuse me, with the constant light on Toke, one thing I have observed is her consistency, she works damn hard, even with all the negativity directed at her. In her caption, she talks of developing herself to be the best for her partner and how she would pray him to success and support him, Nitori Olorun, what more do you people want. After the Maje episode, I also pray her next Husband comes correct

    • Lmao

      October 20, 2016 at 11:41 am

      I’ve seen literally every Toke post on BN and I’ve never seen any insult from people living abroad that claim to be intellectuals or whatever. If living abroad or being an Intellectual is paining you, apply to a school abroad or buy some books. That’s a personal grouse or some inferiority complex seeping through lool

    • Hmm

      October 20, 2016 at 11:53 am

      Omo I tire oh, is it bad for someone to want better thing.

    • Big Tee

      October 20, 2016 at 1:13 pm

      Auntie…wetin people living abroad do you? how you take know say the comments are from “the abroad”?

  20. Big Tee

    October 20, 2016 at 10:59 am

    Awon aye….people of the world…..no chill at all…….. Toke, may the stars and the heavens align to bring your wishes to pass….stay blessed baby babes.

  21. Lmao

    October 20, 2016 at 11:41 am

    I’ve seen literally every Toke post on BN and I’ve never seen any insult from people living abroad that claim to be intellectuals or whatever. If living abroad or being an Intellectual is paining you, apply to a school abroad or buy some books. That’s a personal grouse or some inferiority complex seeping through lool

  22. whatever

    October 20, 2016 at 12:27 pm

    Bella naija just like to use Toke matter to bring traffic,views or comments to this blog. Any news about Toke here or anywhere the response ehnnn. This chic must really have tough skin sha

  23. john

    October 20, 2016 at 1:16 pm

    for every Michelle type there is a Barack and for every toke type there is a maje..the day women understands thay u attract who you are, 50%of their problem will be solved and thrre will be complaining and nagging..agree 100%with wale

  24. Lisa

    October 20, 2016 at 2:28 pm

    When Obama started to ask Michelle out and court her, he had holes in the soles of his shoes, NOW I ASK YOU TOKE WILL A SELF ABSORBED VAIN BXXXXH LIKE YOU HAVE GIVEN HIM A CHANCE, and don’t tell me you would have cos he had potential, cos there are many potentials here in Nigeria with PhD but due to bad economy don’t have jobs today.

    Abegi shut up and do what you do best, VAIN SHYT make up hair designer shoes and watching ratchet shows. Is there anything else interesting about you . So damn vain

    • Fashionista

      October 20, 2016 at 3:15 pm

      HIAN!!!

  25. Fentan

    October 20, 2016 at 2:48 pm

    I love Toke immensely but truth be told, u can’t be d girl who believes a one night stand, kiss a stranger, and all those what not sure will attract an Obama..nah cos such girls don’t do law in Havard . A Trump is more like it 4 u my darling, he wants eye candy, and all those razzmatazz . Still love u.

    • O_o

      October 23, 2016 at 6:33 am

      Lol. Sure there are many Harvard Law students who believe and engage in those…and they obviously end up quite successful so I don’t see your point.

  26. Wasiu

    October 20, 2016 at 3:56 pm

    Toke, Toke, Toke, Toke; I want to marry you, give me your love, give me your love

  27. rain

    October 20, 2016 at 4:59 pm

    toke should ask for his own …….not michelle s

  28. T1

    October 20, 2016 at 5:28 pm

    I don’t support cheating of abuse of any kind. But has anyone ever considered if Toke pushed him into such with her actions? Was Toke the “perfect” wife to Maje? We shouldn’t be to quick to believe everything seen or heard via social media. I personally believe the two caused their problems and should have fixed it.

    You’re what you attract! If she wants an Obama, a Prince Charming, a gentleman or a correct man? She should start acting like a Michelle, a queen, a lady and a correct babe.

  29. Tosin

    October 23, 2016 at 7:42 pm

    “Dear future Husband” again?

  30. Xoxo

    October 27, 2016 at 5:44 pm

    All those saying you are what you attract and what not, last time I checked just because you’re good doesn’t mean bad people don’t come to you or does it? I know good people, I mean very good people who have ended up with bad people and vice versa. So please it’s not every time you attract the type of person you are. Sometimes life just happens. Some fall prey while Gods grace and mercy delivers others. Enough with judging this woman. I don’t understand why there’s so much hate for a fellow human being that has done absolutely nothing to you. Toke feeds off attention, she’s said it herself. That’s the type of person she is and God doesn’t love her less because she wears make up and posts every single thing on snapchat.

    • Taijieh Moses

      October 30, 2016 at 3:59 am

      Thank you, oh! Xoxo, you just hit the nail on the head. I know a number of people that have walked out of bad marriages, and after going through a healing process ended up having good 2nd marriages with decent people. From Stephanie Okereke the actress who used to be married to Chikelue Iloanusi the Nigerian ex-footballer to Abike Dabiri-Erewa, Senator Daisy Danjuma who used to be married to Omenai, and so many others.

      Stephanie is now married to Linus idahosa and her second marriage is devoid of the drama of the first one, and seems to be working out well. There are many other successful Nigerian women who have exited bad first marriages, and are now doing well in their second marriages.

      So the likes of Wale, who claim a woman is ‘used and stained for life’ simply because she has had one failed marriage need to get their heads checked.

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