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#ForeverDuncan is the Proposal turned Wedding All in 1 Day that’s taken the Internet by Storm



Forever Duncan Wedding_Oct320163A fairytale all in a whirlwind day! African-American couple Sherrell, a trainer and Grammy nominated vocalist/MC Alfred Duncan had the most amazing surprise wedding on Sunday October 2 2016.

When she woke up in the morning, she had a boyfriend. By the end of breakfast, he was her fiancé. At 6pm, before she slept, she was saying good night to her husband.


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  1. mde

    October 3, 2016 at 10:04 am


    • Inspired.

      October 3, 2016 at 2:51 pm

      Yeah but why the black dress? Everything Black!?

    • Salama Afro Ladies Salon

      October 4, 2016 at 2:29 pm

      And why not? Those colonialists sure did a good job of associating black with evil! Black is BEAUTIFUL including your skin!

  2. Ani

    October 3, 2016 at 10:09 am

    Aunties and uncles will not let this work in naija….they must have input at ur wedding

    • Abi

      October 3, 2016 at 11:47 am

      And the need to sell aso-ebi for tens/hundreds of thousand of naira.

    • i know

      October 3, 2016 at 12:57 pm

      Just what i thought… Inlaws too.

    • Darius

      October 3, 2016 at 2:52 pm

      Maybe that’s why marriages tend to last longer in Naija becoz aunties and uncles always weigh in to salvage a marriage when things turn sour.

    • jhennique

      October 4, 2016 at 10:07 am

      Salvage what??? My dear dont deceive yasef

    • Marlvina

      October 3, 2016 at 6:36 pm

      Ahhhh! A typical Naija babe wont accept this surprise wedding o! She must have her pre-wed shoots, bridal shower, make-up by BMPro, white wedding gown by Brides & babies.

  3. Suwa

    October 3, 2016 at 10:21 am

    Dear Lord, please pity me and send me a boyfriend. May God bless their new home.

    • Apples

      October 3, 2016 at 6:16 pm

      Lord send me my husband o!!!! I don taya, I don’t need bf sef!

    • Jyothi

      October 20, 2016 at 6:29 pm

      Send you a husband, a very, very good one too. God has answered your prayers.

  4. Sonia Paloma

    October 3, 2016 at 11:03 am

    Noe, this right here is what i am all for. No time for all that long Naija serenren lol. But all these extended family and even mama and papa will not let someone see road chaii
    Beautiful couple!

    • Sonia Paloma

      October 3, 2016 at 11:04 am


  5. meelikey

    October 3, 2016 at 11:30 am

    Possible only in ‘the aboard’ . I loveeeeee this

  6. mee

    October 3, 2016 at 11:35 am

    Beautiful. ..

    • iyke

      October 3, 2016 at 12:30 pm

      Beautiful…Crushingly so. My kinda wedding – I can ACTUALLY DO THIS!..But I am so afraid of surrendering or placing my heart into hands that won’t know how to hold it.
      Where are the good women?

    • Cocolette

      October 3, 2016 at 1:16 pm

      We are here ohhh! I don’t mind this. I won’t disturb you for pre-wedding pics, save-the-date pics, bridal shower pics, night-before-the-wedding pics, asoebi money. I will hold your heart like an egg and treat you like a king. Just gimme this kinda love and romance ?

    • Hotspice_Yimu

      October 3, 2016 at 4:55 pm

      Question is…do you deserve a good woman? There are good women in every location, ask for grace to find one

    • ADAUGO

      October 4, 2016 at 10:08 am

      Like begat like…if you’re good, you’ll equally get a good partner. Wish you luck!

    • akudo

      October 4, 2016 at 11:37 am

      Are you a good MAN?

    • Salama Afro Ladies Salon

      October 4, 2016 at 2:31 pm

      How old are you?

    • Ope

      October 4, 2016 at 9:06 pm

      My reply was for @Darius not @jhennique. @iyle,try ghana girls.

  7. Gorgeous

    October 3, 2016 at 11:41 am

    I am too much of a control freak to appreciate it. I fuss about details. Lol. Leave marriage prep for me jor!

  8. Cocolette

    October 3, 2016 at 11:56 am

    Sweet Jesus! Things like this usually don’t get me but… I don cry taya, since 7am today that i first watched the clip I’ve been crying and wiping tears and crying all over again, I’m still crying at work by 11am…i have a headache already… Chai! Where do they order romantic men like this from biko nu? Lord Jesus do it for your child ???????

    • Darius

      October 3, 2016 at 2:37 pm

      @Cocollete, just as you as think romantic men like this are hard to find, that’s how men also think that decent, god-fearing and responsible ladies are hard to find.

    • jhennique

      October 4, 2016 at 10:10 am

      who talk? you don do deeper life or MFM or aposttolic? Sometimes these men don’t know what they want

    • Ope

      October 4, 2016 at 5:37 pm

      True talk

  9. Stefini

    October 3, 2016 at 12:06 pm

    Av not seen the video but with the lady’s expression of shock n joy and the romantic tale,the comments here at hilarious and very emotional too @suwa I concur God should pity us and give us a good man in our lives who is our soulmate and is our husband,me not thinking boyfriend things anymore…this is what I want o,I want it all in one day..intact for a Nigerian babe this is a testimony, Lord give me this kinda testimony o I sincerely hungrily want it soooo sooooooo bad…God send me my own this way,[email protected] yes o its very emotional

    • Darius

      October 3, 2016 at 3:00 pm

      I seriously don’t understand BN ladies. Whenever an article that is very critical of men is posted, they take turns to hurl insults at men. At other times, they’ll start saying how much they want to have a boyfriend and settle down. I don’t understand!

    • I_I

      October 4, 2016 at 8:21 am

      LOL. That’s why they are always bashing Men . . .too many of them ain’t got no Man!

    • tunmi

      October 4, 2016 at 1:08 pm

      Stop seeing women as a collective, they are individuals. It’s not the same people that comment. You do realize there are various types of people in this world right. BN has many users. We don’t all post on the same topics.

  10. hadiza

    October 3, 2016 at 12:07 pm

    Romantic my ass. Soon, we’ll hear stories of adultery and domestic violence. Rubbish.

    • Cocolette

      October 3, 2016 at 12:28 pm

      Please don’t be sour, there’s actually some good left in this world you know

    • Eegor

      October 3, 2016 at 12:35 pm

      Negativity and bitterness can’t deal!! HML to the new couple God bless your home, unfathomable joy shall dwell in your home forever. @hadiza stop the hate and get a boo?

    • Aisha

      October 3, 2016 at 2:07 pm

      You never can tell sis, it also happens to people that knew eachother for Methuselah years before marriage. It’s grace.

    • Darius

      October 3, 2016 at 2:45 pm

      Somebody is jealous. No problem sha! Bad belle is allowed.


      October 3, 2016 at 5:16 pm

      Bitter i see. God bless the Bitter soul inside of you.

  11. jummy

    October 3, 2016 at 12:11 pm

    Wooooow sooooo lost for words

  12. Lola

    October 3, 2016 at 12:16 pm

    This is so touching and sweet… Lord you know my heart’s desire…. Draw me closer to you Lord….. so I could attract the man you have ordained for me! Amen!

    • Oma

      October 7, 2016 at 9:30 pm

      Same here. I have kept myself and still holding unto God. I believe God has a lot in store for me!

  13. Gemonyi

    October 3, 2016 at 1:36 pm

    Beautiful! I like when a man shed a drop of tears when he proposes, lol….

  14. Lagos Girl

    October 3, 2016 at 2:07 pm

    Waow! Naija shey una dey learn sha? everytiime is not 5 different marriages! Introduction, Court, Traditional, Church, Post Wedding After party. Haba… cant we just keep it simple?! He really know how to keep a secret. if na hear you tell her friend to help her plan, they’d find a way to sha leak it shaaa! either post on IG with some indirect hashtag ‘#weareplanningasuprise #shhhhh #shedoesntknowyet eish!!!

    • Funmi

      October 7, 2016 at 7:27 pm

      You are very funny 🙂

    • mz_titilitious

      October 13, 2016 at 1:19 pm


  15. Mz_Danielz

    October 3, 2016 at 2:37 pm

    Awww, so sweet and romantic,.,,,

    To be honest, all I was thinking was, stop at the engagement, don’t throw me a surprise wedding. I want to pick a gown, sell also-ebi, do all the photoshoot; pre, post, save the date etc while updating counting down everyday on Instagram. Future hubby, don’t deny me this.

    I guess the guy knows his bae though and her vow/speech… Lovely

    • jhennique

      October 4, 2016 at 10:14 am

      Mtchewww. Me that i don’t even want to go through all that stress. I just want to fall in love, wake up one morning and be married. Let all the process have been done while i was asleep. In this part of the world, weddings can be so tedious with all the pressure from parents, in-laws, church, the society……..biko hit me with the #ForeverDuncan Style. I have a headache just thinking about planning my wedding,

  16. Edinam

    October 3, 2016 at 5:23 pm

    WOOOW…they got be tearing..

  17. Uddy

    October 3, 2016 at 5:50 pm

    Wow this is beautiful.. I shed some tears watching this, it’s great to see that love and simplicity still exist today. Sometimes having an intimate wedding/proposal is more special than a big extravagant event. Wishing the couple eternal marital bliss.

  18. Joe-Bliss

    October 3, 2016 at 6:45 pm

    I recognize these people from my church. Zion Church in Landover, MD. The pastor that officiated is the resident pastor; Pastor James Marshall. Senior pastor is Pastor Keith Battle.

    • Chi

      October 3, 2016 at 8:09 pm

      Eehen and sooo? Because you know the pastor has it affected the price od agbalumo, abeg HML people may God be the head always in your union.

  19. Ewa Ali

    October 3, 2016 at 8:41 pm

    God! Thanks giving is next week Monday and you know my heart desires. Please remember me Lord……

  20. hadiza

    October 3, 2016 at 9:54 pm

    @cocolette, what good is left in the world?? Men of these days are nothing but cheating abusive pigs. I have no pity for women who get abused and cheated on, they chose to get involved with men. Men are nothing but problems.

    • Mr Amazing's Wife

      October 4, 2016 at 7:40 am

      Hi Hadiza, that’s not 100% true. I can boldly say that I am married to the most a mazing man ever. He treats me better than royalty, he always puts me first. He has never laid a finger on me and he has never cheated. When my friends complain about their husband’s I just thank God because I can’t even describe the peace,love and joy I have felt over the years. I have never ever had to report him to either his parents or mine.. I found true love, you can and you will too!

    • Ewa

      October 4, 2016 at 8:26 am

      Hi, you seem to be speaking from a place of pain. Wishing you the strength to rise above it.

  21. hadiza

    October 3, 2016 at 9:56 pm

    BN, post my comment.

  22. A

    October 4, 2016 at 12:10 am

    Now that was AMAZING!

  23. #Forever...........

    October 4, 2016 at 10:21 am

    I have loved. Twice! Hard! But they didn’t love me the way I loved them.
    I hope. I wait. I pray. But this heart is tired. No real friends. No one really cares. Once the benefits are gone, so are they. I cant talk to anyone cos im always misunderstood. So much bottled up im always angry. I feel trapped, I want out. but out of what I do not know. My self esteem is hanging by threads. I don’t even feel it in my belly anymore when i smile. Im making plans to leave…….to a place, far away where nobody knows me. Start life over and be finally happy.

    • Janome525S

      October 5, 2016 at 7:07 am

      @forever, I’m sorry to hear you feel this way. Before you up and leave, try to identity the source of your pain. If the source sits outside of you, then yes, you should distance yourself from it. If you are the source of your pain, e.g. you never forgive yourself, then moving to a new place is futile because you’ll carry the same load with you. I do hope you find your way through.

  24. Hanie

    October 4, 2016 at 12:24 pm

    First off, i’m speechless!!!! what!!! I wasnt going to watch the video but something asked me to so i did. Now i’m trying to be a gangster and not cry because thats d most beautiful thing i have seen all day. She was so excited after they declared them hubby and wifey but who wouldnt be. God bless your home guys, may the love never cease its fire

  25. ndii

    October 4, 2016 at 1:26 pm

    @FOREVER, hangin there. Jesus will healyou. please dont give up on love. Keep praying and keep hope alive. Your very own will locate you in Jesus name. AMEN!

  26. Salama Afro Ladies Salon Dubai

    October 4, 2016 at 2:37 pm

    This is just AWESOME! Even the control freak in me would not mind this at all. Bring it on somebody!

  27. Ope

    October 4, 2016 at 9:13 pm

    Someone has hurt @hadiza

  28. Mameyaa

    October 4, 2016 at 10:28 pm

    Waw….this is soo lovely…

  29. Asher

    October 5, 2016 at 1:51 pm

    @Suwa Can I have your number or email address….mine is… I’m in Lagos. I promise I’m not a f**kboy, I don’t think I even know how to f**k sef (never been there before- personal christian standard.) I don’t have all the money in the world, but I have a decent job. I can’t buy you Peruvian or Brazilian weave yet, not in this present economy, if I attempt to, how would I have money to buy airtime to call you every single day just to hear your voice or ask how you doing…I’m just so tired of being single,particularly because I know I have so much care, love, attention and effortless commitment to give….Oh I can make you laugh too….I didn’t know I would be doing this. But fam…This dude needs a good girl in his life. I have my faults, I’m not perfect…but who. I’ll treat you good with everything I have.

  30. Oma

    October 7, 2016 at 9:38 pm

    This is the second time I am watching this. I just know God has a way of blessing those who truly love and serve him. I am 24, a virgin and currently doing my Msc abroad. No boyfriend yet, and I’m being advised to hook up with a white guy which I do not want. I am still trusting God for a matured(all round) man. I am not in a hurry to enter a relationship and later rush out. Watching this video again has ignited something in me and I will keep trusting God!

    • Victor Motivates

      October 8, 2016 at 2:11 pm

      Dear Oma,

      Don’t allow anyone pressurize you into getting entangled with someone because ” they feel you should be hooked up”. I have female friends who are unhappy because they made the mistake of rushing in.

      I perceive you as someone who is focused on her goals, just keep doing what you are doing and most importantly ” continue to develop your relationship with God”. I tell you our GOd is a God of wonders and he makes everything beautiful in his own time.

      God bless you!

  31. Arikair

    October 10, 2016 at 4:22 pm

    Hmnnn, small time now, we’ll see BellaNaija post about about Suwa and Asher ‘ Started from the comments, now at the Altar’.

    • mz_titilitious

      October 13, 2016 at 1:23 pm


  32. mz_titilitious

    October 13, 2016 at 1:24 pm

    Baba God give my boo good job so we can go to the alter IJN (amen) I love my boo, Loving my relatnsp!

  33. mz_titilitious

    October 13, 2016 at 1:30 pm

    Wow! Exams don make me miss Gan oh! I jt watched the video! Wow! I dnt mind this oh, so touching, sweet and emotional! Wow! HML to them.

  34. Talia

    January 6, 2017 at 10:47 am

    Aaaaaaaawwww literally the cutest thing I’ve seen in life

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