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#HusbandGoals? Man Put Boundaries Between his Wife & an Aunty Without Saying a Word

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A Twitter user witnessed an exchange in a wedding that she won’t forget in a while.

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30 Comments

  1. awkward

    October 29, 2016 at 7:37 pm

    hahaahaha!
    mindyourbusiness2016!

  2. Jo!

    October 29, 2016 at 7:43 pm

    Love it!
    Need me a man like that, not all this “Aunty I don’t like what you’re doing o” types

  3. Totally got me

    October 29, 2016 at 7:51 pm

    That’s a Good man, and equally bold.

  4. Bubu

    October 29, 2016 at 7:59 pm

    Well I have an exception to this!! What is #HusbandGoals in this, if her clevage was all over the place to the extent that the Aunty had to help her out, then he shld cover his face as her husband for allowing her leave the house dressed like that to a family gathering or wherever!! Not my kind of husband goals kankan.

    • Oga o

      October 29, 2016 at 8:16 pm

      She’s a grown ass woman who can wear whatever the hell she wants. And clearly her husband loves her like that. Some men actually love their women flaunting it. Not everyone is a prude like you.

    • Iris

      October 30, 2016 at 8:58 am

      Yep, but it isn’t even just that. He may have secretly agreed with the ‘aunty’ but it was not her place to decide that the woman needed a scarf. Truly husband goals. Many men are yet to understand the concept of leaving family and cleaving to wife.

    • tolu

      October 30, 2016 at 4:25 pm

      Thank u. I like my wife to look sexy. She is my wife and people should know that. U cant decide for me pls. I do tell her to dress sexy bcos thats what i like. When i see other sexy ladies i wont bother myself bcos my wife is sexy too shikena

    • IDONTCARE

      October 31, 2016 at 9:20 am

      @Oga o. You nailed it. God bless you. Naija people we can pretend?

    • Babym

      October 29, 2016 at 8:18 pm

      Allow?? Seriously??? ?

    • EC

      October 30, 2016 at 9:46 am

      yes allow. Your typing like your from yankee. If a husband does not think his wife is dressed appropriately then he will not ALLOW her present herself that way in public.
      you are looking at that word as some type of bondage. Its not like that.
      Clearly your not married.

    • Lucinda

      October 30, 2016 at 1:00 am

      Maybe he told her in private about it, you don’t know. Key word is “private”.

    • Lora

      October 30, 2016 at 2:48 am

      Aunty Bubu you wey get morals I hope your own husband can EVER stand up for you, even to his great grand niece. All these so called “moral police” but yet ??

    • Dee one

      October 30, 2016 at 3:39 am

      It may not be husband goals for you but it may be for someone else. It’s relative not definite that’s why there’s a question mark after and not a full stop.

    • abi

      October 30, 2016 at 9:49 am

      @ bubu, you’re obviously single. That aunty is another woman meddling in their marriage. Until you’ve been in an over sabi aunty, sister, mil situation who won’t understand the husband goals we can all see.

    • abi

      October 30, 2016 at 9:51 am

      You not who

  5. Queen Of Sheba

    October 29, 2016 at 8:06 pm

    Ermmmm
    I think to each man his own, some people go with the “if you’ve got it, you flaunt it syndrome” & I’m sure Oga is happy with the flaunting afterall it’s his property.
    In all honesty and in everything decency represents, that must have been an inappropriate dressing and Aunty was just being a “nosy” Aunty. Maybe Oga should have given her handkerchief or tissue to blow her “nose”…

  6. Californiabawlar

    October 29, 2016 at 8:29 pm

    E lo shogba yin ??? lmao! Yoruba and sarcasm sha ?
    Anyways for those going on about the cleavage, that’s not the point. It’s about boundaries. Y’all don’t know how huge of a statement that man made and how much trouble he just saved himself and his wife in future. Yoruba aunties be doing the most. I know one in my family that went to give my cousin’s wife fertility pills after six months of being married. As in?! ?? can you imagine?? Unsolicited. No prior discussion. Just gbam like that. She wasn’t even close to her husband like that o….and neither is she a doctor. Not like it would matter if she was. Can you imagine the effrontery?!
    Abeg good for the guy na your mouth person dey take talk say you no chop. Na small small…cleavage watching will turn to womb watching and bank account watching. So yes, let everyone watch their stall.

  7. Marlvina

    October 30, 2016 at 2:19 am

    And how bout the men that flaunt their bare chest and 12 packs?

    • LemmeRant

      October 30, 2016 at 7:58 am

      …………………While dancing at an owambe party?

    • Marlvina

      October 30, 2016 at 1:08 pm

      No! Generally speaking…Cus in our society people always view ladies that flaunt their boobs as just wayward. So how do people view men that flaunt too?

  8. ANon

    October 30, 2016 at 10:27 am

    Nigerians can miss the point for Africa. This isn’t about whether the cleavage was right or not, this was about a man standing up for his wife. He doesn’t stop her from dressing as she pleases, and she’s allowed to also dance as she pleases to. Many of you even here are already talking about “allow allow” which is what already distinguishes her husband from yours. It’s something many Nigerian men of many tribes refuse to practice, irrespective of the “cleave to his wife” bible verse. Eg the ones that allow their in laws meddle and insult or even beat their wives etc. Don’t know how the man is at home, but for him to do that, it’s a MAJOR good move. I’d be happy if my husband was that type of man, because my dad was, and that’s what stopped his family from insulting and replacing my mum when she didn’t have male children

  9. Betty

    October 30, 2016 at 11:37 am

    Definitely Husband goals! Definitely! She showing cleavage is not the point, not the point at all, but what he did was just pure respect to his wife and putting his aunt in her place, cause she will most def tell the rest of the family and no one will try such again, and if he hadn’t done that, she and others will continue to do worse, i know this, cause my father never had the backbone to defend my mother and his family, it’s not a nice experience at all, when the man you married can’t defend you to his family, instead will join them or just be mute when they insult you his wife, nahhhhh. This man right here is the kind i want to marry, cause there’s nothing like having the man you married be on your team, whether you f up or not, cleavage or not, he’s on your team, nothing like it at all!

  10. chibaz

    October 30, 2016 at 2:42 pm

    What this man did is very difficult for many African men to do and lack of it, the major cause of most problems in marriages. Don’t know why it’s ok to keep quiet or its just the fear of offending your family is the problem. What about the woman you have married and her feelings too. Men are actually weaker than they claim to be psychologically, cos i don’t know/understand the fear of standing up/drawing the line in their marriage.

  11. FinchleysFinest

    October 30, 2016 at 3:08 pm

    I will do the same for my wife…

    Biko… my wife should show all them flesh off abeg…. If she’s cool with it..im happy.

  12. Aisha

    October 30, 2016 at 8:55 pm

    Now that’s a MAN. People need to start understanding and respecting marriage boundaries.
    The boobs are his whether it was packaged appropriately or not!

  13. Mo'Diva

    October 31, 2016 at 8:48 am

    Gawwddd dis is the kind of Man I want to marrrryyyy

  14. Tru

    October 31, 2016 at 10:45 am

    Serious ela for the Aunty!

  15. EbonyFre

    October 31, 2016 at 12:24 pm

    In love with the man! <3
    Ugh. Like stand up for your woman guys!
    While I'm not here for cleavages hanging around, don't disrespect other people's privacy.
    Love him!

  16. OBO By fire by force

    October 31, 2016 at 3:27 pm

    It is very important that the man stood up for his woman. Today “aunty” is just covering cleavage, tomorrow, “aunty” will put salt in her pot of stew.
    Dear aunty,
    This cleavage isn’t yours;
    It didn’t call your name;
    It didn’t talk to you.
    #FreeTheCleavage
    #MindYourBusiness
    #MCM

  17. Ndidi

    November 1, 2016 at 9:59 am

    I’m in two minds about this whole thing.
    On one hand I find myself applauding the man for having his wife’s back
    But on the other, I wonder if this is not how other societies got decayed.
    It used to be that Africans had this communal thing of everyone being his brother’s keeper. Which was why when one played truant at school, you had to go to a far place, Where no one in your neighbourhood would see you, while u were “at it”. Bcos they were all your mums and dads.
    Now this new approach of “everyone mind your tent only”. Looks like something that would come back to bite in later years.

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