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BN TV: Vlogger Adenike shares her Thought on Toke Makinwa’s ‘On Becoming’ on a New Episode of #AdenikeUncut




In this video, vlogger Adenike Adebayo shares her thoughts on Toke Makinwa‘s recent must read book, ‘On Becoming‘ on a new episode of her vlog, #AdenikeUncut. She said;

So I read Toke Makinwa’s book “On Becoming” and I was a bit disappointed. But I learned a few things though. Have you read it? What do you think?

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  1. Anoy

    December 1, 2016 at 11:12 pm

    So, I downloaded a copy of Toke’s book and read it yesterday.
    I noticed one hot fabu as I read.
    Here goes:
    On page 48, Toke writes;
    “It was Christmas of 2007, five years after we met, and I was fed up….”
    (FYI, they started dating almost immediately they met)

    Flipping back to page 43, She wrote;

    “Our relationship was less than six months old”(so, meaning this is somewhere in 2002).
    “At home, my family was beginning to notice how serious things were getting with Maje. My cousin had told me to stop seeing Maje but I refused….
    The next week, there were photos on FACEBOOK of Maje with Hauwa in Abuja…”

    Now, here’s the thing, Facebook was not in existence in 2002.
    No wonder the story was so sweet, it was padded with fabu ???

    • zella

      December 2, 2016 at 5:15 pm

      hahahaha! I saw that too. There goes Maje’s cause for a defamation suit….unless Maje and anita have agreed to chop from sales proceeds.


      December 2, 2016 at 5:17 pm

      BITCH PLS. You have posted this comment on BN, ON SDK EVERYWHERE. WHAT IS YOUR BEEF GAAAN?
      If you have read the book like you said, you will notice that the story is not sequential. Pls. get out. You need to have brain to comprehend the sequence. Obviously you don’t.

    • Dee

      December 2, 2016 at 8:04 pm

      maybe she meant to say HI5….

    • Anoy

      December 3, 2016 at 4:21 am

      hi5 was founded end of 2004 and was noticed after 2005

  2. kadiegeorge

    December 1, 2016 at 11:14 pm

    I have not read the book yet,next week when im done with my exams i will thanks 4 your thought on the book but 4 sure toke is a strong lady cos all d hate on social media she us still moving on im not a nigerian im a sierra leonean living in d u.s.a but d way i’m seeing they her crucifying her that is what attracted me to her. God bless you toke ??

    • Toese

      December 2, 2016 at 10:01 am

      Thanks for this comment. That’s the only reason why l think Toke is strong… getting all the hate and still rising. I bet another book is in the works already despite the hate gotten for this book and she will be cashing her money while some faceless person will be vomiting bile in the comment section of BN, LIB, SKB, etc.
      I also dont blame for for staying with her ex-husband for so long, some ladies are just built like that, an example is Kourtney Kardashian (I wont be surprised if she births a 4th child for that guy). And that’s why l believe this book is for, for ladies to shine their eyes.

      I wish her well

  3. tgirl

    December 1, 2016 at 11:52 pm

    enough of all this are lets move on!!!!!

    • Thatgidigirl

      December 2, 2016 at 12:04 am

      Tgirl they haven’t even started o, brace yourself.
      Meanwhile disappointed doesn’t even begin to describe how I felt. Thank God I didn’t spend money on it! 32 years of existence and a successful career spanning over 8years and all you could write about was maje this and maje that. I was sooo irritated! Toke dedicated like how many chapters to the he goat, she didn’t even dwell on her own parents or talk abou her rise in media.
      The book is vindictive and I believe she isn’t over maje yet…. Not even slightly.

    • Fifi

      December 2, 2016 at 1:20 am

      Very vindictive, the whole book was just about her low self esteem. The man had 2 children under your nose, told you you r not good enough for him, yet you stayed? Then now u wrote a book for validation from society, Toke you need help. See a psychologist asap

    • Corolla

      December 2, 2016 at 2:24 am

      @ Gidigirlz but the book was about her relationship, so what else expect her to write about?

    • Baymax

      December 2, 2016 at 7:14 am

      You are a liar. You did not read her book as three (3) chapters were based on her childhood, how she lost her parents and her reaction to the tragedy. People like you just go to social media to spread wicked lies about something they know nothing about.

      I’m one of those who dislike Toke although I will never write anything nasty about her, however i’m glad I did not let my initial perception of what the book might contain stop me from reading her book.

      Toke’s book was not about seeking validation from society. She blamed herself for what happened, admitted her self esteem issues, admitted the lies she had portrayed to the world, even admitted that she stopped cooking for her husband while she concentrated in building her career. She admitted that she never showed an interest in his work whereas Anita was even creating business proposals for him.

      These are some quotes from her book;

      “I had stopped working on our relationship a long time ago. I became too comfortable and didn’t feel the need to impress Maje anymore or to do things for him. I didn’t cook him a meal or nurture him. I didn’t speak to the king in him in the year we were married. I didn’t think he deserved it.”

      “I hadn’t lost my marriage to another woman. I had given my marriage to her. She had been more of a partner to Maje than I had been for a while. I’d stopped asking him about his work and never showed enthusiasm about his projects. He’d needed a partner but got a housemate.”

      Go and READ her book before passing judgments

      It’s a pity. Men usually support their own even when they behaved badly. Remember TeeBliz’s incident? Remember the comments from the men in the industry. Did any of them condemn TeeBliz or make any nasty comment about him? They were either making excuses for him or asking people to pray for the family.

      However, women delight in crucifying another woman. Women can testify that it is the female members of their husband’s family that give them stress. God help you if you’re successful in any way, they will look for something to insult you with. Even when she’s innocent, they must find something.

      Women, men are not our problem. Our problem are our fellow women.

    • FasholasLover

      December 2, 2016 at 6:33 pm

      @Baymax, I can tell you have read the book. Leave the Liars who have not read it to be deceiving themselves. If you have not read the book but base your argument on hearsay and you come here to tell lies, A Maje and an Anita are both in your destiny somewhere.

  4. emmy

    December 2, 2016 at 1:08 am

    If she isn’t over maje yet, okay, what do you want us to do?

  5. Fleur

    December 2, 2016 at 1:26 am

    It is actually a captivating read. The story is the reality of many young girls. You missed the focus of her book dearie. What Toke sees as The Toke is the Toke that has found God. Maje was the path to that destination……..a major experience that put her in touch with her self. You want the Toke she embraces now to be some hot shot executive. But no, she sees that all that is vanity now. Never liked Toke but her book showed me she is human, beautifully flawed. Human. About taking Maje’s shit, it is love. You must not have ever been in love. If you have, you will know that Romeo and Juliet is a true story. Real love is deadly.

  6. Fatima

    December 2, 2016 at 1:41 am

    Before you all start criticising and been disappointed, let us understand the difference between a memoir and an autobiography. A memoir is an aspect of a person’s life and an autobiography is the story of someone’s life and that is where you write everything about your life from your childhood to your career and so on. Toke wrote a MEMOIR.

  7. vashti

    December 2, 2016 at 2:10 am

    What I don’t get about this whole thing is why Maje didn’t marry Anita to begin with. Was he forced to marry Toke for some reason?

    • Bobby

      December 2, 2016 at 3:56 am

      He doesn’t have too! He’s sucking and fucking for Free!!!

  8. Toke fake all around

    December 2, 2016 at 2:23 am

    i learnt from the book that Toke was always the other side chick. …only God knows what she did to try tie him down but THANKFULLY it never worked …….. so she had to write an expose

    • Ngozi

      December 2, 2016 at 2:48 am

      Lol, you’re a clown. A middle aged man was forced to marry abi? And you even had guts to bring in God to make malicious unfounded accusations.! You’re thankful someone marriage didn’t work? What kind of person are you! Please what is stopping Maje from marrying Anita now o? He’s never even claimed the babe publicly up till now! Frankly the guy is never going to marry Anita and he never wanted to. Anita will remain his side chick that he knows will always oblige him no matter who he’s with. Her self esteem is obviously lower than even Toke’s own. The guy did a number on both of them . I suspect he doesn’t feel Anita fits his public profile so he would rather keep her on the side. Anita needs to get some self esteem and let that immature man go and stop letting herself be used as a sex toy. She’s not good enough for marriage as far as he is concerned and if she doesn’t give her self a brain she’ll be permanently a side chick and mama baby by the time he goes ahead to still marry someone else. Anita stop letting people deceive you, a man who loves you will not go and marry another woman . Both women need to dump that loser and pick up their lives , there is nothing like winning him because Maje is no Prize.

    • Curious

      December 2, 2016 at 3:08 am

      That’s Nigerian Christianity for you; consistently contrdicting themselves since 19 kiridim. Rejoicing at someone else’s pain under the guise of religion, and they keep wondering why more and more people are turning away from religion.

      No oh, Anita should not leave; she should keep dragging Majestic Maje; she don find handwork be that. You know Nigerians love an underdog and Anita represents that to them right now so they will keep egging her on….These are the same people that keep dogging Stella Damasus out (without any concrete evidence oh) but here they are stanning for Anita, Na wa oh! Nigerians, please declare a hustle! Are you for adulterers or nah?

    • bimbin

      December 2, 2016 at 3:28 am

      not everyone seeks public validation. …… usually the people who do reeks of very low self esteem. he doesnt have to publicly claim her. the one he publicly claimed blc Toke is an attention seeker , privately see the mess they were and how he treated her…..public validation doesnt mean anything

      you claimed he hasnt married her …..u dont leave with them so how certain are u . even Toke registry was kept quiet for some days . …. so its is possible they might have married but dont need the public display or announcements

    • I know her

      December 2, 2016 at 9:21 am

      A lot of you must think Anita is interested in marrying Maje lol. I laugh!

    • Curious

      December 2, 2016 at 2:57 am

      You guys are so delusional and silly, it’s bordering on ridiculous. She tied him down like a goat abi? Also, na she be side chick and it didn’t work yadda yadda yadda, yet the prize bull Maje has still not married the Anita; pray tell why? Why do you people insist on making some men appear witless?

      The fact is Maje and that chick Anita deserve each other to be honest; they are totally a pair. Any man that leaves you to marry another has no regard for you but yet you still went and birthed a baby for and by him. Well done oh! Anita! On top of that, the man was still begging the wife for money to support you and your baby, yet by the warped logic being presented by some of the folk on here the WIFE is the side chick…hian! Double twale Anita, you have totally won! Please hurry up and claim your prize!

    • Eni

      December 2, 2016 at 5:33 pm

      I guess they can’t marry because he’s yet to get divorced or is the divorce finalised?

    • kaybee

      December 2, 2016 at 4:37 pm

      Hello Anita!

  9. Nigeria Hello!!!

    December 2, 2016 at 3:35 am

    Does anyone else realize that Toke is an obsessed, stalking, psychopath. This isn’t becoming of NOTHING. Whoever advised her to write this book the way she did just ruined her. She looks desperate and fucked up in the head. Not taking away from Maje being the fuckboy of the century but Toke no get sense! She’s a fame seeker and willing to destroy her dignity for the sake of it. She learned nothing from her 70 days of fasting and praying but only to envy Anita more and more. The only reason she left Maje is because Anita the babe she envied this whole time was having a baby boy. She knew she lost because he loved her more and if he married her….she would be solidified as his wife bc of that baby boy! If it was a girl she wouldn’t CARE!!! She’s messed up in the heaaaaad! This book is just her side of events and for sure it’s not the full story. Stop all this Toke praising bc she still is a shitty ass woman!

    • Titi o

      December 2, 2016 at 8:17 am

      Hello Anita….i c u!

    • nana

      December 2, 2016 at 12:17 pm

      lool crystal had a boy. #justsaying

    • Fifi

      December 2, 2016 at 1:29 pm

      Thank you, then some silly person Baymax is claiming how she had 3 chapters that didnt involve Maje and his harem of women and to you that was good how? She claimed she called Maje to apologise so why write a book dragging him through the mud. Its the other guys u date i feel sorry for Toke because if they dont validate your existence it is another round of dragging them through the mud,the Anita is living her life not bothered about you, you are there having mini strokes about her existence, move on. If only people knew the real Toke then you would understand why i am totally against this book. Maje is no saint and he was wrong but dont come out feeling like your shit dont smell

  10. Confused bunch

    December 2, 2016 at 4:39 am

    Lool I keep saying that you guys don’t know what abuse is. He kept going back to Toke who was in love and she has now left but you guys are saying shit while still in your adulterous marriages and even relationships sef. Meanwhile Hilary is a star for staying with Bill and you castigate Toke that has ALREADY left the man while you egg on Sandra Okagbue to stay and “win” by marrying Flavour that has 3 daughters (Sandra is #2 babymama btw). Anyway sha, all your future husbands have exes now. Better not stand in the way of your husband’s happiness in finding love with his exgirlfriend o. Na una carry self esteem pass but Nigerian men stay publicly cheating on their wives with her knowledge From students to mechanics to young tellers in the bank to rich politicians, yet all of you are insulting Toke? The same BN commenters like Marlvina that insult feminists because they advocate women on Dear BN to leave their cheating husbands???MEANWHILE you people are also bashing Lillian Esoro for leaving a man that is a panel beater.

    • Fifi

      December 2, 2016 at 1:36 pm

      Do u know how many times Toke cheated as well and he kept taking her back? Do you know if the prayers of his mother showed how diabolical she was? Please dont start assuming based on what Toke said

  11. nnenne

    December 2, 2016 at 4:51 am

    My take is that Toke, had low self esteem. Her difficult childhood may have something to do with it. We can’t really judge her but her readers can learn that:
    It pays to love yourself first or no one would.
    If a man / woman don’t appreciate you move on.Everyone deserves respect
    Do not leave your heart in someone’s hands.

  12. .....just saying

    December 2, 2016 at 6:25 am

    The name Maje was mentioned 378 times in a 14 chapter book. SMH!!!!

    • Fisayo

      December 2, 2016 at 10:26 am

      Ewooo! You counted?!

      It’s your type that somebody must not submit dissertation to, before you say “I gave you a fail because it’s meant to be a 20,000 word dissertation, 17 words are missing.”

  13. Ella

    December 2, 2016 at 6:30 am

    @ Ngozi, best comment. Toke’s book might just be her own way of starting her journey of healing and self discovery. I wish her the best. As for the other woman (anita) you did not win anything and also, needs to help herself out of all this mess.Toke’s ex-husband is “the typical Nigerian entitled pampered son” from a supposedly privileged background. still searching for the One, probably thinks both of the women involved are not up to his socio-economic background. I believe all three are victims and pray they are all get the counselling, therapy and healing to move on. Best Wishes.

    • Sultana

      December 2, 2016 at 10:04 am

      Which socio-economic what?? The guy is a broke ass nigga. Probably why he hasn’t married Anita, the hunger that wee finish both of them nor get part two!! Congrats Anita! You have won the prize – enjoy!

  14. nunulicious

    December 2, 2016 at 6:50 am

    If you love yourself, you won’t allow ANYONE treat you like that. No one should go through what these women are going through.

  15. Maybe

    December 2, 2016 at 7:33 am

    From what Toke wrote in her book, I think Maje might end up marrying Anita. Toke admitted that Anita was more of a partner to Maje than she was. Perhaps they are holding on until the divorce is finalized.

    As far as i’m concerned, the only villian in the story is Maje, an older man who should know better who played two women against another for years, Toke and Anita were very stupid victims and I’m willing to bet there are new women presently in Maje’s life that we don’t know of.

    Maje, change your ways at least for your children.

    I pray they all learn from the experience and heal.

    Maje and Anita, if you marry, please do the right things. You have a son now.

    Toke, allow yourself to heal so that you don’t bring emotional baggage to your future relationship. Also, forgive Maje and Anita from your heart and let it go. Saying a prayer of blessing for them will help the healing process.

    I wish them all well.

    There are many women who are in the same situation as Toke, either at the beginning stage (boyfriend playing around with other girls) or final stage (husband still sleeping with ex and others).

    May you all learn from Toke’s example and run away sharply. You don’t want to be 14 years a slave to a man.

    If only Toke had listened to the voice of others, by now, she might have had a family with a man who genuinely loves her. So instead of bashing Toke, learn from Toke so that what happened to her may not happen to you.

  16. EC

    December 2, 2016 at 8:24 am

    Thank God you said its your opinion. Toke shared her story.
    You wanted clicks and you got it

  17. EC

    December 2, 2016 at 8:28 am

    and how do you want to see less of Maje and more on her life. 12 years of her life, she is in her 30’s, except she started dating him at age 10 and had other life experiences. Do the math.

  18. Sheke

    December 2, 2016 at 8:39 am

    Lol! Toke has found God now abi? And healed? You poor lots. If only you knew the half of what she still gets up to. Bella wouldn’t approve my comments so I’ll just hush it here. I’ve got to admit though, she’s got the best Ghost writer i the game.

    • Fifi

      December 2, 2016 at 1:32 pm

      Leave them to be chopping hot dodo, Nigerians and their sheep mentality, its who speaks first they believe, jungle justice people

  19. Rain

    December 2, 2016 at 9:54 am

    I feel for Toke even though I don’t like her fake life. Make messed up big time. I wish Toke healing. Considering all she has gone through especially her parents. Maje and Anita needs to come and say their own side of the story. Toke may not be entirely the victim.

  20. Toese

    December 2, 2016 at 10:08 am

    In other news, do check out Adenike’s youtube channel. She is a nigerian movie critic and l agree 100% to her breakdowns. I normally watch her videos to know about a movies b4 watching them.

    (She no send me message o, lol, just thought y’all should check out some good works and make sure you subscribe)

  21. toyin

    December 2, 2016 at 11:02 am

    @ngozi wish i could hug you right now… cyber hug love .. true that

  22. That-I-May-Fly

    December 2, 2016 at 11:29 am

    Well…I can understand that Toke had an impressionable mind when she met Maje and yes might have let him walk all over her for a long time. But she stayed waaaay too long with him and therefore in my opinion lost my sympathy. Her mumu was too much but eh, she’s a beautiful and talented woman and will find a better man. I just don’t understand why she thought she was the main chick just cos she was daft enough to marry him in the first place. He was riding on her fame. It’s the only reason he married her. He never intended to be a better man for her. And for those who still watche Toke’s vlogs for relationship advice, let’s just say it’s a case of the blind leading the blind. I wish una well.

    • Anonymous

      December 2, 2016 at 11:46 am

      That’s how abuse works…. Do you people only see it in white people or Only in physical abuse

  23. Angola

    December 2, 2016 at 12:31 pm

    It so easy to judge people when you dont even know half of their story. I believe that a lot of People are fighting internal demons we have no idea of because these people always portray cheerful/happy lives to the world.
    I was molested several times in primary school by different men. I couldn’t discuss this with anybody cos I was a very quiet and a shy kid. My parents were involved with work/career that the maid became my mum.
    I grew up seeing myself as damaged. I had low self-esteem. Attracted to guys that always wanted to use and disrespect me. Did unimaginable things to such guys love me.My relationship were pathetic.
    It took me a while to realize i had a deep problem and I needed to purge myself of all the guilt and hate i was feeling cos I always blamed myself for being reserved and shy as a child. I also blamed my parents for not paying attention to me and making me feel miserable……… my journey to recovery has been a very long road but i am thankful for where i am now.

    I am happy for TOKE cos i know its not easy to walk away from such a life and I pray God continues to help her.

  24. Jennifer

    December 2, 2016 at 12:51 pm

    I have read the book, and also read all your comments. To be honest, I really am not a Toke fan, I have never understood why, but now I get, she is just a lost child and I really do feel sorry for her now, she really hasn’t grown mindwise, the death of her parents as far as I am concerned played a major role to most of what we have read now, bits it’s a wonder we the readers have failed to see that but judge her, she ascribed too much to Maje, she felt all she had lost over the years she could get from her relationship with Maje, there is always 2 sides to a story but what is glaring here is Maje was manipulative esp of Tole’s feelings and Toke wasn’t in love , she was obsessed. But writing about may have done her some good, my only advice is she works seriously on her self, she has to face the past and deal with those issues, that is her formative years, she gave to Maje, so she has to deal with the consequences, but till she deals with those issues, the same cycle may repeat with another man, so My dear , Jesus overall and therapy would help, so you don’t add the scar of Maje to the scars you already have, she’s a strong lady, she will come out fine,. As regards the name of her book, the title contradicted the contents, lovely title though. I wish her all the best.

  25. naijababe

    December 2, 2016 at 1:07 pm

    Arese Ugwu asked Maje what are our options? who are the best doctors? Arese wanted Anita to procure an abortion, isn’t that wicked? all in the name of “my friend is hurt @Toke”. All shades of wrong. @ poster I thought so too at the Facebook ish etc. Tokstar hasn’t gotten over Maje the guy with the bedmatics skills, Toke wrote “when I saw the sex video of Maje and Anita, I couldn’t stand watching him pleasuring another woman”. ?Maybe we should expect a sequel☺

  26. Fifi

    December 2, 2016 at 1:31 pm

    Toke also claims she found Hauwas picture on facebook in 2002,please what year did facebook start? Was it not 2004 abi she is now a psychic

    • funmi

      December 2, 2016 at 1:53 pm

      @Fifi even at 2004 when facebook started it was only open to america student with college email address. It was not until Sept 2006 Facebook was opened to all with an email and most Nigerian started joining by 2007 /2008 ……… Toke tell too many stories . …

  27. Hahaha

    December 2, 2016 at 4:05 pm

    Hahaha…Maybe Toke meant Hi5 in 2002 and not Facebook

    • Moddy

      December 2, 2016 at 8:42 pm

      Nice try but Hi5 was not founded until late 2004 and didnt even get to nigeria till later

  28. Observer

    December 2, 2016 at 4:53 pm

    Whoever Toke’s PR person is, that person needs a pay rise! The book is trending everywhere and is climbing up the charts on Amazon! Well done Tokstar!

  29. Tiwa

    December 2, 2016 at 8:02 pm

    Everyone keep saying she’s mumu, maybe she is. So she is 32 and was with him for 12 years, it is possible!! I met my first boyfriend when I was 12 years old, I was in ss1. There are so many things that are possible just because it didn’t happen to you doesn’t it make it impossible to happen to other. I was molested when I was 8 years old by my friends brothers(they molested both of us, myself and their sister) and it didn’t happen once, it went on for 2 years and I couldn’t tell my mom because she wouldn’t believe me and she would kill me, and the boys threatened to kill us if we told anyone, they always had a knife with them when they came for us. You know why I couldn’t tell my mom? Because her marriage to my dad wasn’t working, he cheated openly and beat her everytime and somehow it was my fault because I was the first born and she didn’t want to have an abortion so she married my dad. My dad said the same thing to me too, said I was a mistake. So 12 year old me wanted to feel wanted by someone, so I had a boyfriend. We didn’t do anything until I was 16 and out of secondary school, then we did and there was no blood after the first time we had sex, meanwhile I told him I was a virgin. I thought I was because 8 years old molested me didn’t know anything about hymen and I don’t remember seeing blood. I couldn’t tell my boyfriend what happened because he knows those guys and he might confront them so I sticked to the lie and he treated me bad, gross from then. He always said I was cheating and he was also cheating. We dated on and off for 7 seven years and when he finally broke up with me, he said he couldn’t marry me because I lied about my virginity so I was going to give me bastard kids. All through the time we were together he treated me bad, he did have Sex with me like I was a dog and say terrible things to me, but I stayed and I always took him back everytime. Having sex with him was always a struggle because of what happened when I was 8, I thought it was normal to struggle to him before we have sex. So ya’ll jugding her, unless you’ve walked in someone’s shoes don’t pretend you know where it hurts or how much it hurts.

  30. Letty

    December 2, 2016 at 10:35 pm

    U guys have to give it up for toke..its amazing that she was going through all this and still able to put on her make up and put up a brave face in front of the cameras…i cringed at the sexually transmitted disease part…i thot nija men liked hardworking women to help them build a good life….she has the looks and everything…but was she a pleasant partner to be with? Regardless if he didn’t want her he shld have just made a clean break….i don’t even understand the part of giving the woman money for her baby….i don’t know i hope he doesn’t sue her

  31. Letty

    December 2, 2016 at 10:38 pm

    A lot of women have soul ties with their partners and cannot let go…once there has been intimacy for that long…its hard to recover and how much more it was played out in front of the world…its probably her own way of fetting even with him…

  32. Fashy me

    December 3, 2016 at 2:43 am

    There is always 3 sides to every story in dis case 4 ..tokes story, make’s, Anita’s and mother [email protected]# Truth……. One day one day on this very blog we will hear the truth…. The actual truth
    I am not against toke writing a book Infact I applaud her, for who she is ,what she has achieved for herself creating a niche for herself..
    Toke is just 32 she has so many years ahead of her, time to grow, acquire more knowledge, learn, experience life and other things that comes with it… On becoming writing every single details, remembering,months and dates, like it was yesterday …. Proves to me something is wrong somewhere but who I am to say when aunties like mo abudu and other women we look up to came for her book signing…. Cos I believe as Nigerians we sometimes seek advice b4 we do certain things … So for them to support her writing the book that means it’s ok……
    Not to write too much but… day, one day we will hear the truth of this story
    Just to remind us that Maje, Anita is someone’s son, daughter, brother, sister, a father, a mother, a member of a community.

    Let’s us be careful of who we want to become we still have our Root

  33. Janine

    December 3, 2016 at 12:00 pm

    I know these 2 people. Toke has low self esteem issues hence the bleaching and obsession with a guy she thought would give her entry into the Nigerian elite society. She stalked him, all that mad talk of getting in to his emails, on his fb page, going through his iPad and phone…… shows an unbalanced mind and unhealthy obsession with maje.

    Maje is a narcissist . Text book one. Toke was a good ‘supply’ for his ego. Contrary to what Toke wrote, they were NOT together for 12 years. She made that shit up. She never went on any of the family vacations., never went to important family events, he never went to any of her important events. Anita on the other hand was one of his actual girlfriends. Maje is only concerned with one person, himself. He is a conceited twat who thinks nothing of using women to satisfy his every desire.

    Toke’s book is just her bitterness pouring out. If the baby gist hadn’t been made public, Toke would still have continued in the by ire by force relationship with Maje. Even now, we know that if Maje clicks his finger, she will go running back to his bed. All the people calling Toke strong? Strong what? Strong olodo? She has made a career for herself and should focus on that instead of selling a fake version of herself. She needs to own her shit completely. She bleaches because she thinks light girls have more fun. Toke is no saint and she may just have given some angry women cause to come after her with their own revelations.

    Anita just played a long game. Maje has been there for her through all the important times in her life and she has a baby for him. I doubt she is so stupid that she would want to marry him.

  34. Me

    December 5, 2016 at 5:53 am

    My question is: names mentioned. She can be sued!!! And things can get really nasty…Perhaps she should not have used real names..

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