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“The book is still here and I’m still promoting” – Toke Makinwa talks Maje Ayida, Possibly Writing other Books, the Difficulties of Dating Again & More | Watch

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Toke Makinwa was recently in Ghana to promote her book “On Becoming” and she had a chat with MyJoyOnline TV’s presenter as she talked about the need to write a book, helping other vulnerable women with her book, the fact that she was still promoting the book even with a pending lawsuit and more.

The media personality also talked about possibly writing other books, the difficulties of dating again and much more.

Watch below.

126 Comments

  1. Bleed Blue

    February 4, 2017 at 4:54 pm

    The subtitles are fire on the eyes and on the brain!!!

    Is it me? Or is anyone else unable to get past the first minute?

    • Zara

      February 4, 2017 at 6:34 pm

      Why did this camera man zoom in on her earring? To show us whether or not it was legit or fake bling?

      He zoomed on her faint moustache too? To prove what?? Na wa! Not cool at all

    • Onye

      February 4, 2017 at 9:42 pm

      I noticed that. Why do that to her?

    • Fleur

      February 5, 2017 at 2:46 am

      That is ridiculous. The camera man was stupid

    • Nneka

      February 4, 2017 at 6:44 pm

      People should really stop dredging up this Anita girl into her face! You can see that beyond all the smile and show of strength, this girl is hurting and hurting badly when ever Anita is mentioned and her experience while married to Maje.

      Stop with the Anita questions and relationship with Maje. Focus on her book and present life!

    • Anonymous

      February 4, 2017 at 7:00 pm

      But the book was largely about them

    • Tokstarr the Fakestarr

      February 4, 2017 at 7:49 pm

      You must be having a laugh.

      Someone dedicates 99pcnt of a vile pile of dog poo book to tearing down a man whom from day 1 showed her his true colors,yet because of her hopeless and chronic wannabe disease,low self esteem,social climbing demons amongst other things,she clung to him for dear life.

      She doesn’t stop there,this idiot then goes ahead to drag a woman like her caught in the same narrative of being foolishly stuck to a player.

      You now suggest her not being asked questions about the two mere beings she gave so much power to in her life?

      Omotoke,there was,is,and can NEVER be any difference between yourself and Anita.
      All you did was use your self styled celebrity status to manipulate the dumb crowd in your favor.
      You are nothing but a deranged bully.

      Now the veneers are wearing off,simple question,you are acting like someone pulled your weave too tight.

      People like you are evil and have studied their environment to know that if you pepper your antics with sob stories and dashings of God And Jesus,the brainwashed,cannot think on their own if their life depended on it social media cretins would lap it up.

      You are NO strong woman, let genuine strong women tell you their stories and you would crumble.
      You are just a vermin who capitalised on a situation.

      Actually,you Toke should be used as the yardstick as to why people of certain pedigree never date or marry down,you just couldn’t help but expose the gutter stench in you.
      Not even the Akinyelure’s help could wash you clean.
      Omo ilenle ni e!

      You have created this bubble,imagining in your head that you are some Kim k or Bonang M!
      Child if you don’t shift from here!
      Who are you feeling.

      You are about as real as a made in China 2nd grade Louis vuitton imitation bag!
      You stink of plastic..you are fake!

      Nothing new happened to you,Toke you forced your way to remain a permanent fixture in the life of a man who never gave a toss about you.

      If you had a child for Maje and things broke down,would you have written that hot shit book?

      The God most of us worship would never allow you taint the conception of an innocent child.
      Your hatred for Anita so blinded you that you felt you needed to go one up on her.
      It would amaze you that God does not think like you pea sized brain!

      The irritating thing is that so many of us know this fake being but are just watching.
      We know who you really are.
      You lie like a damn rug,notorious runs girl,fake,manipulative,damaged,gossip,materialistic,pretender,liar etc!

      You assumed that washing yourself with the soap of “celebrity” would absolve you of what you really are.

      Toke you are so dense that you would assume anybody supporting Maje is because they support his player ways etc.
      NO

      It is because some have seen through the smokescreen!
      It is because some know the true story but are not cut out for this charade you live for.

      Oju ori olari ti oun da obe si aya.
      Playing catch up at almost fourty.
      Things people have done and moved on from,you are just getting excited over.

      I feel for the man that would end up with you.

      All the time spent on writing your trashy book,could have been spent in a therapists chair working out your still evident deeply rooted issues.

      See you squirming in your interview seat while trying to form voltron.
      Hopeless fake thing.
      Oh!! The heat you cannot handle ba?

      I wish I could spill all I know about you confirmed.
      Gboko Gboko oshi!
      You think Karma resides in Mars abi?

      Anybody who takes you seriously is even more hopeless than you are.

      Toke I would love to see you in your fourties…
      Your life is just too obvious..
      Just ask those that have gone before you in this “chasing the bright lights at the cost of anything ” kind of people.

      I guess nobody taught you that jejelaiye!

      Makeup can only cover so much.
      Continue to pretend
      If only pillows could talk!

      I hope to God Anita joins in the law suit against you!

      Anybody that says i’m Anita,then I pray a thousand Tokes into the lives of your brothers,sons or even husbands!

      Finally Toke,no matter how far you run,you can never,ever outrun your true self!

      Hopeless wannabe!

    • Mine

      February 4, 2017 at 7:59 pm

      Are you kidding? The book is solely about them so why does she get on the defensive when asked. She needs to own this 100 percent. Lol she dey vex for the interviewer though haha.

    • Seriously

      February 4, 2017 at 8:18 pm

      @Anonymous.
      True, people will always ask about them because they are part of the book but it doesn’t mean you have to talk about them. Toke handled it well. No need to go into more details about her ex husband or the mistress, she wrote what you need to know about them in the book.

    • the real ibinabo

      February 5, 2017 at 12:39 am

      @tokstarr the fakestarr, so you wrote thesis because of Toke. She clearly is very important to you.

    • @ Tokstarr the fakester

      February 5, 2017 at 1:29 am

      Anita tainted the conception of her own child by intentionally having unprotected sex with a married man.

    • PD Young Billionaire

      February 5, 2017 at 5:12 am

      @TokeStarr the fakestarr……you have time sha!And you are so bitter… ….you honestly need some honey in ur life.

    • Anne

      February 4, 2017 at 7:53 pm

      Continue to be a Jesus girl and get to know Him more. Many women would have broken down long ago but God has been your strength. It is easy to criticize Toke she has gone through a lot. Lost parents etc. Toke did not hide her own weaknesses also. She clearly makes it known that she is not perfect, made mistakes also.

    • Critique

      February 4, 2017 at 8:24 pm

      Please when you say “etc” , what else? And what weakness did she expose? That she is insecure and needs to work on self love? I don’t remember her admitting to that. And that would have been empowering.

    • Tam

      February 5, 2017 at 7:10 am

      Hehehe can’t swallow ur own medicine Toke……u write a book about Anita and Maje yet see your face when their names were called

      How does anyone take Toke seriously…..she a joke

  2. Kanyinsola

    February 4, 2017 at 5:10 pm

    I like the way she shut the interviewer up at the end! ?? cleared her straight!
    “I wouldn’t be here if I listened to what people say” #Deep
    Sadly these days, everyone has an opinion about how you should act, how you should behave, how private you should be, how some pictures should not be on Your wall. And I begin to wonder… you that is poknosing into another person’s business, why are you carrying another person’s wahala on your head? Why do you think your opinions count?
    That’s how I was crossing the road this morning with my sister and we were holding hands, one woman said its wrong to hold hands whilst crossing. And I’m like shuooo… ? Because we cross the same road now, you think you can share your road-crossing knowledge with me for free? Did I ask you? What’s your own?
    Some of you are just downright nasty! Some comments I read about this lady make me really sad and almost depressed. I’m like how does she do it.? What has just 1 person done to you to deserve so much bile?
    Most of you are just bullies! Call her “classless”, “wannabe”… and in real life, when they put two of you side by side… you will be no where to be found in the scheme of success and pedigree.
    She keeps rising still.
    Tokstarr! I don’t know you but I actually admire your strength… and I hope and pray that God directs and leads you. Go girl!!!!?

    • Sultana

      February 4, 2017 at 5:28 pm

      Ose! I knew of Toke thru Bella Naija and especially the vile comments. Most of those wannabes commenting are talking from a place of envy. Instead of them to pray to whatsoever diety they serve for success, they’ll just be beefing another person’s hustle.

    • Seriously

      February 4, 2017 at 8:02 pm

      It makes me sad too. People transfer their miserable lives on others. I love me some Toke, not bcos she’s perfect but her resilience is quite admirable. Majority of these commenters have worst lives behind closed doors. At least, Toke is willing to be vulnerable to the whole world and still show her face.
      Every Toke’s post is full of harsh criticism, cyber bullying, and judgment. I’m like what exactly has this lady done? What crime? Oh she likes attention. All of you guys posting on instragram/facebook and even the ones not on social media want attention what way or the other.
      I don’t even care about her personal life, I just want to see Toke succeed.
      Maje’s lawsuit is a joke. What does he do? Those lawyers will eventually pull out bcos dude was borrowing money just to take care of his other girls and kids. Or is he going to pull a bank loan like Tiwa’s husband.

    • FasholasLover

      February 4, 2017 at 8:23 pm

      @Kanyinsola, BN will not allow me like your comment more than once. Toke is an enigma – a phoenix. I just laugh when l see nasty comments here about her. The girl is doing her thing and going places and some nonentities here call her classless, wannabe etc as if they have a life worth talking about. I think she handled the interview very well. Talk is cheap TokSTARR, eyes on the prize. When your husband/future husband dish you the kind of dirt Maje dished this girl, pls. cook ukodo for him and his mistress. Plus, do not forget to nurse and change diaper for their baby while they eat the Ukodo you cooked with your money o. Oshisco people.

    • Cee

      February 4, 2017 at 10:18 pm

      Gosh your reply was epic! Can’t get over the ukodo and diaper????

    • Hawtspott

      February 4, 2017 at 11:07 pm

      Babe u r damn ignorant! Read International Road Transport regulation, you don’t hold hands crossing the road. People perish for lack of knowledge! while you shouldn’t allow people to run your life…wisdom is a principle thing; therefore, get wisdom!!!

    • Kanyinsola

      February 5, 2017 at 12:11 am

      Is it your hand that I’m holding? And if you must correct me, must you be so rude about it?!!! Did I ask for your advice? Why must you be so nasty about it! If you can’t be civil, stuff you advice and carry your knowledgeable self away from here!
      Point is MIND YOUR BUSINESS!!!

    • Mohammad

      February 5, 2017 at 1:47 am

      When you get pickin and una two wan cross road, if you like no hol hin hand. Siddon dia dey quote international transport regulation, you hear? Na ya hand she hold?

    • Dee

      February 9, 2017 at 8:21 am

      Finally someone with sense. ❤️, don’t know why @Tokstarr the Fakestarr is that pressed. How can someone be that bitter? Ontop another person matter. You need Jesus. You pray to be everything she is.

  3. Anonymous

    February 4, 2017 at 5:16 pm

    She got really defensive at the end ?

  4. concerned stranger

    February 4, 2017 at 5:20 pm

    that interview went sideways FAST! LOOOOL! I almost choked on my salad. Toke how wont you talk about anita and maje, they are lit the point of your book. Saying you wont answer questions on them is just off abeg.,

  5. Sayo

    February 4, 2017 at 5:20 pm

    Hmmmm,
    Aunty Toke gave off nasty vibes oh!!!
    What is “you just answered that”?you didn’t answer if your intent was ro damage Maje
    You wrote about Anita so why won’t you talk about her?
    I know she is not daft enough not to have covered the legal end but she seemed uneasy about the questions the innocent ghanian was asking
    Rada rada

    • Mine

      February 4, 2017 at 8:01 pm

      Totally agree. Why is she’s so defensive? It’s all part of the book and promotions. If you right a book as telling as this you need to be prepared for the tough questions.

    • Mine

      February 4, 2017 at 8:03 pm

      Write*

  6. Sultana

    February 4, 2017 at 5:27 pm

    Ose! I knew of Toke thru Bella Naija and especially the vile comments. Most of those wannabes commenting are talking from a place of envy. Instead of them to pray to whatsoever diety they serve for success, they’ll just be beefing another person’s hustle.

  7. Anon-m

    February 4, 2017 at 5:40 pm

    Toke is not all saint, and the book is not 100% accurate, but the cheating part is true. Maje dated my cousin who is based in Abuja and we all used to laugh at Toke when she made videos on relationship. Maje told her, he didn’t love Toke. One time him and my cousin had a blowout bcos she was upset when she found out he was still with Toke after reassuring we that he broke up with Toke. Then he said, Toke is really nice to him and doesn’t want to hurt her.
    A section in the book Toke mentioned not seeing Maje for a long time, he won’t answer his phone and saw a girl’s clothing at his place. That was the period he dated my cousin. They eventually broke up because she was tired of games. He dated so many girls at the same time. He’s a nice guy but a notorious playboy.
    When she started with the book, a lot of people didn’t take her serious especially Maje. When so much publicity surrounded the book, Maje became furious bcos he felt like his image was ruined. And his business is not picking up fast enough. He’s broke, not sure how he will come up with the money for the lawyers. He’s already owing so many people money.

    • Hawtspott

      February 4, 2017 at 11:12 pm

      and who called for this confession? Get a life anonymous!

    • Kanyinsola

      February 5, 2017 at 12:13 am

      Epp us to greet your cousin ma. How market?

    • TEE

      February 5, 2017 at 7:48 pm

      Get a life…. Tokes’ sin was falling in love with your silly Maje. If you find it in you kindly forgive her and may the good Lord spare you anyone to love you despite your flaws. Classless silly troll

    • TEE

      February 5, 2017 at 7:51 pm

      My apologies Kanyinsola, that msg was for the silly high class rag with the ID tokestarr the fakestarr

    • Joke

      February 5, 2017 at 2:34 am

      Good for your cousin that she dodged the bullet called Maje, the aging playboy… I have interacted with him and he is a nice person, if one accepts that he’s not relationship or marriage material. I wonder if his father is/was also a playboy. And about Toke “being a nice to him,” I think he just wanted to latch on to her because he knew she was going somewhere in life and then stayed because of her soaring popularity to get some shine to gain ground in his field, but unfortunately, it didn’t work. Thank God for your cousin!

  8. ladytrixx

    February 4, 2017 at 5:43 pm

    I guarantee you, despite all the defamation, Maje will still always find a woman willing to give him a chance…
    Stay chasing money and fame Miss Makinwa.. but money can never fix a bitter heart.

    • linda

      February 4, 2017 at 7:22 pm

      you really hate Toke o. Don’t say the one that karma will use and show you pepper. Have you ever been married? Do you know if Toke will remarry before you? Or if your husband will not get another woman elsewhere pregnant. You seem as bitter as Toke, only that while her being cheated on is a good enough excuse, you’re bitter over someone you don’t even know. Nigerians are so mean. See how people wish this woman bad when they themselves would hurt if their husbands did the same to them. Unlike many of you, Toke rejected the culture of silence and didnt stay because she has money. We can all come here and comment, insult Toke as harshly as we want, but when we log off, if you’re poor, you’ll still be poor, if your boyfriend or husband is cheating on you, he’ll still cheat on you and it will still pain you.

    • ladytrixx

      February 4, 2017 at 10:09 pm

      Thank God you are not God, where in my comment did I insult or curse Toke? please be careful what you also say to others whilst trying to defend “celebrities” you don’t know, nobody holy pass… whatever negative words you spew out in Toke’s defence will bounce back on you.

    • Ify

      February 4, 2017 at 9:16 pm

      You darn right. Lots of suckers out there willing to give baby daddy of different mama a chance, let’s keep the body count growing.

  9. Milly

    February 4, 2017 at 5:51 pm

    I love me some toke

  10. Teju TJ

    February 4, 2017 at 5:55 pm

    LMAO. They definitely caught her on a bad day. Toke ti mean wan

  11. ladytrixx

    February 4, 2017 at 5:58 pm

    Two things Toke really desires;
    1. Attention.
    2. A man to call her own (to be called ‘Mrs Somebody’.
    Hence why said her next book might be “on becoming a wife or mother”.
    But unfortunately a lot of feminists misunderstand her message of being a ‘strong woman’..
    …. Some women need to stop deceiving themselves.. without LOVE, money, cars, designer clothes, shoes etc.. will still leave you feeling empty..

    • anon

      February 4, 2017 at 7:26 pm

      you type like someone that doesn’t have love or attention. And unlike Toke, it seems you don’t have these designer clothes either. Please next time you kneel down to pray to God, let this thing you typed reflect in your mind. So what if she desires a man to call her own? That has nothing to do with feminism (gender equality) that has to do with HUMANITY. Toke is a HUMAN BEING which you guys have no qualms insulting and murdering with your keyboards, because you’re anonymous and you can bear your pain privately. So pained about Toke that you commented twice. Sorry o.

    • Dee

      February 9, 2017 at 8:35 am

      What’s your deal? Did toke offend you? Women should support women! Your ideology is what is wrong with Nigerian women today. God help us all.

  12. Missappleberry

    February 4, 2017 at 6:44 pm

    Toke looks stressed I won’t lie. I really think she needs a break from everything

    • FasholasLover

      February 4, 2017 at 8:28 pm

      Stressed? What is that? Strike when the iron is hot. There will be plenty time to rest.

  13. Critique

    February 4, 2017 at 7:46 pm

    Here’s my thing:

    1 – stop complaining about her being criticized. She chose to be a public figure and put her business out there. That entitles everyone to opine. If you don’t want to hear anything harsh about your most intimate details, don’t publicize to strangers. (As an aside, goes for couples putting their weddings on Bella naija for consumption by random strangers)

    2 – she claims that the goal of this book was two fold; to grow and to empower. Given her reaction to topics in the book, she clearly still needs to become healed. She isn’t over it. Secondly, I read the book end-to-end. Nothing empowering. Any feminist would be shocked at the fact that she stayed for so long in such a toxic situation. I didn’t feel empowered, I felt pity for her.

    If you ask me, she just wanted to serve tea and make money from it. So be ready for all the consequences of your actions.

    • FasholasLover

      February 4, 2017 at 11:39 pm

      @Critique, I agree with you to an extent. On social media, nobody can police anybody. However, I am sure you know that there is a whole world of difference between criticism and outright nastiness. Some comments are just ridiculous. Those of us defending Toke have reasons for defending her. It is not because we think she is a saint. But what Maje did was downright ghetto. Why shouldn’t Toke make money out of her pain? Maje threw her under the bus knowing fully well that one of Toke’s sources of income is relationship vlogging. In her divorce petition, she said soon after news broke that Maje had a child out of their marriage, her followership dropped. If that is not taking food from Toke’s mouth then what is? Even, if it is only one person that stops going to that his crappy gym based on this matter, l say bravo to them. Let us be objective when criticising people. It could be anybody’s turn to be messed up. Some choose to crawl into a hole and heal, some die, some are able to put a bold face on things while only a few can do what Toke is doing. KMT

    • Critique

      February 5, 2017 at 3:03 am

      Hmm. Interesting perspective, but I might need a better example to back up that defense.

      Toke made money from relationship vlogging, but she clearly was not qualified to give relationship advice as we have now learnt. I don’t know that maje (who apparently filed for separation 6 months into their marriage) was responsible for keeping her career afloat by faking it and remaining in the relationship.

    • Ify

      February 5, 2017 at 9:06 am

      I’m surprised that people take Maje’s claims in his warning letter as the holy grail. Why apologize to your wife publicly, if you were separated? Also, back then, she claimed she lost out on a mega endorsement. I imagine she has evidence to back up that claim. There are lots of holes in Maje’s warning letter. This case has summary dismissal all over it if it ends up in court.

    • Idomagirl

      February 6, 2017 at 12:57 am

      The book might not empower you, but it might give others some courage to walk away.
      Cos trust me there are many women in situations like she was, some even far worse.

  14. Mz_Danielz

    February 4, 2017 at 8:13 pm

    She kept sounding defensive like she had pain in her heart when Maje and Anita were mentioned.

    Toke, God heal you completely. Most of the people who talk and call you insecure, depressed etc are not haters (even though I agree some are) but people who have walked the road you’re on and know that this path is only increasing the pain. Own up to go and ask him to heal you one day at a time.

  15. Mz_Danielz

    February 4, 2017 at 8:14 pm

    God not go

  16. CHIBABY

    February 4, 2017 at 8:44 pm

    How do you conduct an interview on a book you haven’t even been bothered to read? LOL

    • Stella

      February 5, 2017 at 2:12 pm

      Thank you. My thoughts exactly. The bit about ‘Bella Naija’ saying this and that was so irritating. Interviewer was a mess…

  17. Bowl

    February 4, 2017 at 8:45 pm

    The interview is actually inspiring!

  18. Ifymcqueens

    February 4, 2017 at 8:58 pm

    I just see her as not real….from watching her vlogs since 012…dishing out advice….God help u miss toke….

    • Truth

      February 7, 2017 at 3:47 am

      You see her as ‘not real’ but have been watching her vlogs since 2012? Lolll thats the thing with obsession, a thin line between love and hate. I think its u in need of the prayers honey

  19. Ife

    February 4, 2017 at 9:08 pm

    I was really put off by this journalist, does she even know her job ? First of all you don’t interview someone based on their book if you haven’t read the book !!! How do you grill someone accurately if you haven’t read the book ? To my dismay she gladly shined her teeth and said I’ve not read the book ?? Ghana pls step up ! I know Peace Hyde is pretty good so this is not a country thing it’s about the individual ,

    • Truth

      February 7, 2017 at 3:53 am

      Exactly, her lack of unpreparedness was unprofessional and that already set the tone of the interview. How are you meant to ask intellegent and relevant questions when you dont have the facts to hand. Even if she hadn’t read the book you dont admit that to the author!! Toke was irritated because this interviewer is asking questions based on hearsay- it frustrates even me when ppl comment on the book without reading it talkless of the author, its a joke of an interview from that point on. Well done Toke for holding it together, you are smart and skilled at press interviews and I think it was fair for you to express your annoyance by the end-u are real

    • Truth

      February 7, 2017 at 3:54 am

      Sorry meant her lack of preparedness ;-)!!

  20. josdaily

    February 4, 2017 at 9:19 pm

    One of the 2 major characters is Pinnochio, The court case reveal the facts. …is this the beginig of on becoming turning to inveiling of Toke.
    Lady time will tell with revelations to come

  21. me

    February 4, 2017 at 10:12 pm

    madam chance giver, I’m sure that woman is u. May u see way more than toke saw; moreover who gave u d right to call her bitter

  22. Amazon

    February 4, 2017 at 10:46 pm

    The interviewer was complete shit.

  23. Victor Adegoke

    February 4, 2017 at 11:17 pm

    It is not easy to have a failed Marriage. If not handled carefully and spiritually guided,it can lead to a total break-down and the affected person may be depressed totally. I won’t condemn Toke or her estranged hubby,bcos the facts is known truly by them and God. But I give it to Toke for soaring high,despite her pain.

  24. Booboo

    February 4, 2017 at 11:19 pm

    @Bellanaija army I give you people *Beyonce hand!* Oya take I hail una. Kai u people can source, dissect, investigate, sift and launch jist more than Amanpour on CNN. Hian! !! Another Beyonce hand for you people o! Toke has your bullet proof vest on. Mehn! No matter the hate she’s mastered it all and she keeps rising to the top. Bellanaija aka Jist Interpole.

    • Boohoo

      February 5, 2017 at 10:07 pm

      Apparently she hasn’t! Judging from her response from this interview. It’s obvious Nigerians didn’t ask the hard questions during her ‘national book tour’

    • Truth

      February 7, 2017 at 3:59 am

      There is a difference between hard questions and misinformed questions- This journalist should have read the book before opening her mouth. Her lack of preparedness, repetitive questioning and long winded sentences put Toke off and rightly so, not that they were ‘hard questions’

  25. Mavi

    February 4, 2017 at 11:43 pm

    You’ve got to hand it to this girl. She’s got poise, she’s articulate, a true pro. I admire her chutzpah, she’s owning her vulnerabilities and doing it with grace and courage. You Go Girl! Your hard work will pay / is paying off. I can’t wat to witness the fairy tale ending that you so richly deserve. It will come, just keep on steppin’

    • AmericanWonder

      February 5, 2017 at 1:56 am

      Articulate? She doesn’t know her sheep from her ship!

  26. Wunmi

    February 4, 2017 at 11:57 pm

    My own is she looks so much like Bobrisky I swear

  27. Camera Man MOPOL

    February 5, 2017 at 12:32 am

    This camera man has me stressed! Why all the unecessary zooming and detailed shots LOL

  28. Wow

    February 5, 2017 at 12:40 am

    @Tokstar the fakestar

    You are one bitter and pathetic human being. I can’t believe how much venom was in that dissertation you typed. Even Toke’s book wasn’t that long.

    You are a sorry excuse for a human being, how your heart can be full of so much hatred and bitterness is alarming and ridiculous. I hope you took breaths while typing all that rubbish

    BN, the way you use Toke to get more people to visit and comment on your blog is disgraceful. You are actually wicked human beings pretending to have class. Trash.

    • Tokstarr the Fakestarr

      February 5, 2017 at 1:25 am

      Truth hurts doesn’t it.

      Me?
      Bitter?
      Do i look like Toke Makinwa the walking poster child for the word bitter.

      Sit on a damn ? cactus and please do not lubricate your asshole!
      Awon oponu rada rada.
      If you know Toke since you are here forming her personal mopol,you had better sit her down and tell her the bitter truth.

      She opened up her life to the public and wether she loves it or not,she MUST swallow the bitter truth that comes her way!

      Oh and while you are at it,tell her to let go of all the anger in her and bitterness eating her up.
      Wether she jumps into the skies and never lands,nothing can erase her level of desperation and lack of self esteem she wears like her favorite perfume.

      Cannot wait for all the facts that would expose her for what she is when her lies catch up with her in court.

    • PD Young Billionaire

      February 5, 2017 at 5:49 am

      @Tokstarr the Fakestarr…….why don’t you right your own book to expose Toke since you know her more than we do????I repeat,…….you have time sha.

    • PD Young Billionaire

      February 5, 2017 at 5:49 am

      *write

    • Fifi

      February 5, 2017 at 8:17 am

      Dont mind these people ooo when the truth about Toke and waka waka is revealed then i hope their eyes will clear, even Toke admitted in her book she was always in a communal relationship with Maje why now cry? Anyway Maje should drag her, wafi no dey carry last. If she had children with Maje would she sink this low?Maje wasnt a saint even when news broke out abt his baby with Anita, i abused him, I was team Toke because no womN deserves such humiliation. But this book if it was how she overcame a bad relationship i would still be team toke, but instead she wrote a book of lies like shes a saint, like she was the faithful dutiful wife, like she was an angel, naaaa drag her Maje, let the public hear and see who this girl is

    • Ify

      February 5, 2017 at 8:33 am

      Some of our people need help. What fact are you talking about? You must be living under the cave when the child was born, and when he publicly apologized to his wife.(Same person he allegedly separated from) Even a ghogbuo knows he has no case. And, do you think someone like Toke will not have receipts before writing the book? Abeg go jump inside otamiri river.

    • Truth

      February 7, 2017 at 4:02 am

      Couldn’t be arsed to read through your spew. Its clear to everyone that you are a crazy obsesssed Toke fan

    • Dee

      February 9, 2017 at 8:48 am

      Suck a dick! You are too bitter! From your typing I can tell you are suffering from a severe case of JEALOUSY. That green eyed monster they call jealousy is a terrible thing. You can deny all you want but it’s the truth! And you know it, don’t you? Sheesh ???

    • Dee

      February 9, 2017 at 8:50 am

      Btw that’s for @Tokstarr the Fakestarr

  29. Mary

    February 5, 2017 at 4:35 am

    Body Language – She’s really bothered by the law suit, and a lot is going through her mind, hence why she’s being so defensive.

    I laugh when people think Maje just cos he is a gym instructor he’s poor, then that means u don’t know about his family. You think he’s stupid to go for such a prestigious law firm and he can’t afford it. Personally I love the fact that he never uttered a word and went straight legal that was smart Maje. Way overdue.

    If all women or men in this world wrote books to tarnish their ex image where will the world be.

    Toke go to Mo Abudu to ask her to pay your legal fees. Let all your fake American reality show star wanna be friends pay for your legal fees

    Toke u dont have real true friends cos a real friend would have advised you never to write this insulting book tarnishing a. Sm

    Next time you go through bad relationships don’t go writing a book like you were a fcking Saint. Foolish girl. This should serve as a warning

    As for Arese what’s her face who suggested Anita aborts her baby yours will die first

    • Observer

      February 5, 2017 at 8:25 am

      The past 3 to 4 comments are all Maje”s people. Pele o. May the Almighty Father heal u lot of your bitterness. You don’t have to like her but you need to chill out of ur comments.. so much rage for another pelzon”s headache.
      PS: your comments are only making her more interestingthereby increasing her book sales. Pele!

    • Ify

      February 5, 2017 at 8:46 am

      Prestigious law firms are in business of chopping maga money. We rainmakers know how to chop that money. Mr. Casanova is REALLY setting himself up for a beating!!!

    • Adunnie

      February 5, 2017 at 12:59 pm

      Thank God you used the word “suggested”..You are quite wicked you know. How can you say another person child will die first are you serious??? And you’re a woman.

    • Adunnie

      February 5, 2017 at 1:01 pm

      *persons

    • Mimi

      February 6, 2017 at 12:04 am

      You too Why did Arese tell Maje to tell Anita to kill her unborn child just so her bff Toke will not be embarrassed by scandal . Nonsense

    • Stella

      February 5, 2017 at 2:17 pm

      Pls tell us about Maje’s family. Also, please tell us where the family was when he was living off a woman? KMT

    • Nationalsquirrel

      February 7, 2017 at 7:31 am

      The ayidas are has-beens.
      My father had to help Maje’s broke ass former money self by buying his rusty old rubber factory in ologbo.
      The ayidas ain’t shut any longer
      Take that from me
      And I don’t know Toke or give a f**k about her

    • Nationalsquirrel

      February 7, 2017 at 7:32 am

      Maje’s father

    • Tokstarr the Fakestarr

      February 7, 2017 at 5:31 pm

      well done

      omo buruku jati jati

      now we know who your daddy is

      don’t go and work for your own money u hear.

      animal!!

  30. Ronke

    February 5, 2017 at 5:15 am

    Oohhhh Toke see your life so u thought this was the end after tarnishing someone reputation huh? You need serious psychological help

    And please stop talking about God because we all know premarital sex is your food. You did it for ten years and started again. If I want inspiration I’ll read my Bible or watch vlogs my Heather Lindsey’s definitely not yours

    • Truth

      February 7, 2017 at 4:06 am

      Lol u are so sad and a bloody hypocrite, so its premarital sex alone that determines ones salvation or faith abi? U that u have come here to negatively troll nko? U think u r exempt from hell fire? E go bun your yansh well well if u dont repent from your judgemental and hypocritical ways. Be gone you pharisee spirit!!

    • Nationalsquirrel

      February 7, 2017 at 7:28 am

      Shut up idiot
      She said the truth.
      If the truth tarnishes your image, it means you screwed up
      Make and whore-nita need to be held accountable for their actiona

    • Nationalsquirrel

      February 7, 2017 at 7:32 am

      Maje’s father*

  31. dhoney

    February 5, 2017 at 7:13 am

    Toke, Toke, Toke…how many times did I call you ?….TURA is failing you…!

  32. adanne

    February 5, 2017 at 10:49 am

    I still can’t believe that people actually sat down and read that book. I’m amazed.

    • Boohoo

      February 5, 2017 at 10:11 pm

      It was sweet gist I kennot lie. Finished in like 1 hour.

  33. Ajayi Oluwabukola

    February 5, 2017 at 10:51 am

    Is high time we move beyond and above the stereotypes, and realise that is a changing world. Watched the interview and believe me she was perfect, obviously anyone will get uncomfortable when discussing an ex hubby you once loved who cheated on you, but bravery is shown when you can actually write about it, promote it and sit through tons of interviews with class. You go girl @tokemakinwa to me you wrote what I can write. Its the story of my life and its left to you which character you become the protagonist or the antagonist, you choose.

  34. Lol

    February 5, 2017 at 11:54 am

    Omg my bn family I can’t stop laffing. Wow ,I think make should just forget about it count his looses and move on

  35. I_I

    February 5, 2017 at 1:21 pm

    Wow. Towards the end when she near lost her cool, I just noticed that this Babe is aging. She needs time away from all this mess..

  36. Sika

    February 5, 2017 at 2:03 pm

    Toke, you are aging really fast. Maybe you need a real break from all types of media- you need detox. You look like you are carrying a lot inside. I think you need therapy. You are not healed. You are just faking it and each time you write or repeat words of inspiration it’s like you are actually speaking to yourself – you don’t even look like you believe what you are selling. You are human- you need to give it a rest.

    • Sisi

      February 5, 2017 at 6:39 pm

      This is it.

    • Katy

      February 5, 2017 at 10:16 pm

      So true @Sika. I don’t know if Toke actually took time to heal. Honestly. She doesn’t look like she’s actually healed. Especially the way she answered the interviewer when asked about Maje and Anita. But what do I know, maybe it’s the wig, the makeup, or the bleaching that has her looking tired.
      OAN I know it’s not my concern, but how can she afford these expensive designer bags n shoes? I’m just curious, is it from proceeds from the book or her job as an OAP. P.s I’m not hating, just curious.

    • Tokstarr the Fakestarr

      February 6, 2017 at 1:36 pm

      La Runs…La Aristocratic

    • Truth

      February 7, 2017 at 4:10 am

      Lmao ok I see, its the designers paining u….the heels on those loubs will continue to chook your bum bum. Jealousy

  37. Stephanie

    February 5, 2017 at 2:36 pm

    Hmm like this is where all the bitter women in Nigeria come to ‘discuss’. Toke is this Maje is that…defending one’s own does not mean we should support stupidity I beg of you. Yes it hurt, he cheated lied etc…but the man TOLD YOU!! Are we all going to pretend that he did not tell her he was not into her?? After that, I’m sorry. She should own up to creating this world for herself. Look at her at it again…someone says they’ll sue you for defamation and it looks like they have evidence… You say you’re ‘Jesus girl’ and you’re just going to keep doing what you’re doing… SENSE O!! The man said I dont want, you said you won’t hear now you’re forming woman scorned. The man said I will sue, you said you won’t hear… What is the next book going to be about I wonder

    • TEE

      February 5, 2017 at 11:11 pm

      All you these Majes voltron should move to the left …..

      The man told her … Told he what ? That he is a womanizer , that he is a liar , that he can’t manage to keep it in his pants ? You are all FOOLS , big ones at that …. They were in a relationship, they were attracted to themselves despite their sometimes toxic situation … Some relationships see worse and they end up married and are happy .

      They tried to work it out obviously but he would not stop cheating…yes his mother noticed but she was in love …you may not understand that good by your stupid messages ….eyin opo nu yi

      It Toke was in front of me ,I will bitchslap her and hug her immediately after , she is too vulnerable and some men would kill for women like that ,not someone like me who goes into a relationship with an exit strategy…I will not be surprised if you idiots are currently begging your men for attention but still find it in you to castigate someone else ,yeye dey smell

    • NotTEE

      February 6, 2017 at 2:42 am

      Did you read the book? I believe she found out she was a side chick to Maje numerous times. No one needs to spell it out. Yet she wanted to die there. All these naija women with low esteem. Even if a guy tells you upfront I don’t want, you will still beg relationship and marriage on top. Women need to value themselves, it’s simply not worth it!

  38. Star

    February 5, 2017 at 6:25 pm

    I am a fan of Toke for overcoming so many things in her life. I am a fan of her style and her work ethic. However, I would like to criticize her on this interview. Aside from the fact that the interviewer was worse than the lady who interviewed Tiwa Savage , Toke your responses towards the end were very rude .

    Your facial expressions and tone gave off very bad vibes. You’re in a industry fueled by controversy, your book is controversial , so what were you expecting ? For upcoming gigs I pray the interviewer has read the book and hopefully you watch and learn from this for future reference.

  39. Mimi

    February 6, 2017 at 12:02 am

    How old is Toke?, 49?

    • Tokstarr the Fakestarr

      February 6, 2017 at 1:35 pm

      62

  40. Tokstarr the Fakestarr

    February 6, 2017 at 6:06 am

    Toke
    If you ever get to read this,i truly apologise for my absolutely disgusting comments towards you.
    Having a rethink,i realised that i had absolutely no right to be that way.
    I let myself down and feel quite ashamed of myself.

    I can only imagine how hurt and betrayed you must have felt by Maje,even if the writings were on the wall.
    You are still human at the end of the day.
    Like most of us,you only want true,lasting love.

    Please forgive me.

    I wish you all the best and i hope sincerely that your future is sweeter and brighter than you could ever imagine.

    God bless you and stay strong.

    Hugs

    • Tokstarr the Fakestarr

      February 6, 2017 at 1:34 pm

      hahahaha PSYCH!!!

      apology ko
      apology ni

      thunda faya you dia

    • Truth

      February 7, 2017 at 4:13 am

      Damn dude u have problem…now hold on now, dont hurt yourself…

    • Nationalsquirrel

      February 7, 2017 at 7:24 am

      Anita go and breastfeed your future failure child

  41. Ifeyinwa Atuanya

    February 6, 2017 at 10:55 am

    i like Toke i like Maje i like Anita

    i like many people

    even the one that has my unreturned glasses yet

    the bible says, “love your enemies. pray for them that hate you. bless them that persecute you. do not curse them.”

    • Nationalsquirrel

      February 7, 2017 at 7:23 am

      The hell will illogical ‘Christians’. Like yourself and your turn the other cheek mentality.
      People need to be dealt with so that they learn lessons and stop hurting others
      Enablers like you spoil this earth

  42. ree

    February 6, 2017 at 12:43 pm

    Why is she acting like she is d only who’s gone through heartbreak? like her life was tied to maje? you saw the pointers that this guy never loved you but you remained there. Toke, I will advise you to stop making publicity about your private life. You really need to work on yourself.

  43. Dammie

    February 6, 2017 at 3:53 pm

    People are too hard on this toke woman. But I love how she’s living her life regardless. What people think of her and what she’s doing will continue to be irrelevant.

  44. LMAO

    February 6, 2017 at 7:57 pm

    I’m just here for the comments LOL.. *Grabs popcorn*

  45. Nationalsquirrel

    February 7, 2017 at 7:20 am

    God will punish Anita Solomon, for the rest of her life.
    Slut. And her child will forever manifest destruction

    • Mawi

      February 7, 2017 at 12:38 pm

      Which God are you referring to? The devil u serve abi? Because God cannot curse a child for the actions of his/her parents. You are demonic & evil. People like you end up with very bad life experiences because your hearts are dark. So when those times come for you(as they have started already), remember you are only reaping what you sowed.
      Witch.

  46. Ifeyinwa Atuanya

    February 7, 2017 at 11:39 am

    @Nationalsquirrel, what a name

    am i an enabler have i enabled you going to hell have you been to hell before

    “do you want an eye for an eye. a tooth for a tooth……….”

    illogical Christians are you an illogical Christian

    wow you are going to teach others lessons You are God you know

  47. kkay

    February 8, 2017 at 12:00 am

    I bet most of those pouring out such venom on this babe, Toke cannot bear just a sting of what they dish out.
    Can you let her be!!! All she did or didn’t do were choices she made and lives with. Her book, her ex, her complexion, her accent, her style and accessories are her personal choices.
    By the way, I listened to her on air for the first time last 2 months and liked her voice without knowing it was the voice of the “much-persecuted Toke”.

    She wrote the book about herself and her relationship NOT YOURS.
    The only people that can criticize her book or call her out are her ex and his mistress because she wrote about them.

    Low self’esteem or not, she was bold enough to write HER story. Feel free to tell YOURS!
    I think the law suit her ex threatened her with would only boost the sales of her book.

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