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Tonto Dikeh’s Note to Self: “Forgive yourself for accepting less than you deserve”



Forgive yourself for accepting less than you deserve... - Tonto Dikeh

In a mini “self chat”, Nollywood star Tonto Dikeh shared this message and promised to never accept less than she deserves in life again.

She shared the photo above and wrote:


Earlier this year Tonto confirmed that she and her estranged husband Olakunle Churchill are living separately.

See her Instagram post below:


  1. Lliki

    June 21, 2017 at 2:01 pm

    Drama queen

    • Kokoe

      June 21, 2017 at 10:32 pm

      Are you God to tell somebody that more is coming for her, heeeeeeee and you pass is better than for her??? Only God have the final say in her life

  2. Jade

    June 21, 2017 at 2:54 pm

    I understand, there are bad men out there but a lot of women play victim too much like they are innocent but they are the main instigator, drama queen and Verbally/mentally abusive. Very difficult to deal with. This is not to judge Tonto bcos everyone is a working progress. But be real with yourself and stop being in denial. She needs to work on herself, stay off weed, drugs and go pour out her anger/frustration to a therapist. She has anger problems. Some Women have high expectation of men but they don’t work on themselves at all.
    If the man cheats, beats you leave and go live your life. And if you choose to stay, it’s your choice.

    @real nigerian you too need help. No sane person behaves the way you do. Respond to every person that’s not falling for Tonto’s antics.

    • Jide

      June 21, 2017 at 3:08 pm

      Were you there to witness her anger problems?

    • King Bae

      June 21, 2017 at 3:09 pm

      Other than that, after a while.. all these self empowerment speech gets tiring. Like we get the point, smh #my2cents.

  3. nene

    June 21, 2017 at 2:57 pm

    madam tonto dikeh keep deceiving yourself. you got exactly what you deserved and more is coming if you don’t change your ways and ask for forgiveness for your past sins. attention seeker.

    • Jayn

      June 21, 2017 at 3:09 pm

      You are the one that more is coming to. Better watch your back you stupid cow.

  4. King Bae

    June 21, 2017 at 3:08 pm

    Does it mean that only heartbreak “wakes up” this self love in us? #ThinkOutLoud

  5. annon

    June 21, 2017 at 4:12 pm

    You don’t have to post it to prove it. Toto, or whatever your name is .. nobody cares, everyone is fed up with your bullshit! Seek respect, not attention. It lasts longer!

  6. Cocolette

    June 21, 2017 at 4:40 pm

    Tonto give this an effing rest! BN u sef allow her and her IG page to rest! Don’t we have shrinks in Nigeria that she can talk to instead of IG?

  7. keke driver

    June 21, 2017 at 4:43 pm


  8. Spunky

    June 21, 2017 at 5:13 pm

    (In Nedu’s voie) It’s Tontoh here again. Ladies and gentlemen,get in hia…


    June 21, 2017 at 5:51 pm

    tonto dike is Bae

  10. FindOut

    June 21, 2017 at 6:22 pm

    People been commenting like they are family members of tonto and Churchill….Let me drink my garri with epa o jare, this summer too sunny for man.

  11. curious

    June 21, 2017 at 6:50 pm

    Why is a letter to self, being sent via social media. Was “self” not right there with you when you were typing….. You coud have just hand self the letter to read or spoke self in the quietness of your apartment

  12. Letty

    June 21, 2017 at 8:02 pm

    Women and men have very lofty ideas and ideals regarding marriage. Marriage is extremely hard work and if you don’t have the tenacity, you have not worked on yourself and you get married to a selfish aloof person and you are a selfish, angry aloof person, Your life will be a living hell and you will be way more miserable than even in your single state. Even xtians are getting divorced faster than regular non professing xtians. Marriage is very tiring and requires a lot of very hardwork and selflessness.

    • Ashipala S

      June 27, 2017 at 11:23 pm

      Hard working indeed. Well said.

  13. Hawt Talk With Tosan

    June 21, 2017 at 9:52 pm

    I am so tired of rolling eyes at celebrities and their “philosophical” posts. Just post pishur and leave oracular utterances to people who actually have the depth to do so.

  14. Kokoe

    June 21, 2017 at 10:35 pm

    Are you God to tell somebody that more is coming for her ???? Heeeeeeeeee sweep your home , be for you will sweep for another, and your pass is better than for her ?? I no think so

  15. lolo

    June 22, 2017 at 1:42 am

    Tonto, please spend more energy on your new status and forgive the past

  16. Jerry Ken

    June 23, 2017 at 1:46 pm

    I pity the next man that will risk marrying this girl

  17. yummymummycumchick

    June 23, 2017 at 3:31 pm

    tonto is Churchhill is karma

  18. Ashipala S

    June 27, 2017 at 11:23 pm

    Well said.

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