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“Teach your sons to cook” – Omoni Oboli advises moms with a Photo of her son in the Kitchen

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"Teach your sons to cook" - Omoni Oboli shares Photo of her son in the KitchenNollywood actress Omoni Oboli has charged mothers to teach their sons to cook.

She posted a photo of her son mixing dough and wrote:

“Mothers of boys, teach your sons to cook! Make dem nor go turn another person pikin to perpetual cook ?or make person nor go use food catch them.”

Photo Credit: Instagram – omonioboli

70 Comments

  1. Ej

    July 5, 2017 at 7:26 am

    Good work omoni.

  2. Spunky

    July 5, 2017 at 7:46 am

    Yes Ooo. Cooking is a hobby for me( thanks to my mama.) A lot of dudes have great cullinery skills. Slay queens, this applies to you. Not every time royco and curry stew or noodles and boiled egg. To pound yam na problem. Oya, do poundo, wahala….

    • Rubynnia

      July 5, 2017 at 8:20 am

      No need to pound yam. Food processor, electric mixer, blender to the rescue.

    • IB

      July 5, 2017 at 9:34 am

      Spunky are you single?

  3. chinny

    July 5, 2017 at 7:47 am

    This stuff about men not knowing how to cook is a pure lie. They just don’t like cooking if their wife is around. I never thought my dad can cook until my mom travelled .This man turn the kitchen upside down,they were even extra meat for us.I even prefer his cooking to my mom but immediately my mom came back , he return to hybernation mode. Left for him , he would be buying the food outside,it is just that he has calculated the expenses involved in buying food outside for himself and his 4 children.Nowadays,My selfish brother can cook like a chef, if u managed to catch him alone ( without his girlfriend) and his food always seem to have all the ingredients and assorted meat.

    • Spunky

      July 5, 2017 at 1:08 pm

      @IB, yes!

    • Sul

      July 5, 2017 at 3:00 pm

      ??this cracked me up!

    • gia

      July 5, 2017 at 4:28 pm

      he return to hybernation mode

      LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  4. Rubynnia

    July 5, 2017 at 8:25 am

    I love seeing guys cook.
    KUDOS to Omoni and all the moms who taught their sons how to cook.

    It’s one thing to teach them how to cook and another if they are willing to be taught. Some, no matter how you try to teach them won’t bulge. The believe cooking is a female thing.

    Remember the nursery rhyme (abi na childhood song):

    “Mommy in the kitchen cooking rice;
    Daddy in the parlour watching film;
    Children in the garden playing games…”

    That’s the mentality of some men – women in the kitchen, men in the parlour.

    I say again, kudos to the mums and double kudos to the guys who imbibed the kitchen in training.

  5. Chief

    July 5, 2017 at 9:08 am

    I’m so disappointed with this and the language in it…inflamed honestly.I’m saddened to read this nonsense.I completely disagree.I know that It’s natural for a mother to nurture her son but there is a fine line between feminizing your son and being a helicopter mom.Women of nowadays are raising wussies, pansies and weenies.Omoni Oboli you are doing a terrible job by exposing your son to femininity.This is unAfrican. You see the reason why boys today softer and more effeminate than in previous generations.You see how these new generation of moms reek havoc and sow the seeds of discord in the lives of their sons.

    You see how these mothers do their sons a disservice by not encouraging them to be masculine.Why are women teaching their sons this?What is the new generation of mothers thinking by allowing their sons to enter kitchen?This is disgusting.This is not visionary.You see why a woman cannot train a boy to be a man like how we men have limits when it comes to raising and training girls.There are certain that these young boys need psychologically,spiritually,mentally and emotionally that you mothers are taking away from them(Masculinity,testosterone,the male ego)Please women should leave the manhood training to men.You modern mothers are ruining your sons by emasculating them,depriving them of their masculinity,weakening them,as soon as they reach adulthood ,these harmful traits make them soft.You new generation mothers are raising a generation of wimps,.

    We now face a future dominated by boys who never grow up to be men smh…It’s becoming more and more apparent of the influence that these strong feminists are having on boys.We men have to start to realize that these women are feminizing our sons.Women should stop involving their sons in feminine activities like cooking.Western culture has contaminated the traditional values of Africa.Shame!!Modernity is taking away our African cultures smh.

    • Oye

      July 5, 2017 at 9:13 am

      Your masculinity must be so fragile
      Someone come and collect this so called man who is obviously suffering from insecurities about his masculinity

    • Tolu

      July 5, 2017 at 9:17 am

      Shut up!!

    • Lotanna

      July 5, 2017 at 9:19 am

      Why BN keeps posting your insensitive and irrelevant comments is beyond me,to get traffic maybe.
      I pity your sons or grandsons as the case may be.

    • peter

      July 5, 2017 at 9:34 am

      who is the big fool??? I can’t believe I just read that foolish thing u wrote up there..God!!

    • JF

      July 5, 2017 at 9:47 am

      There is everything wrong in what you have written. You are the one wrecking (that is the correct spelling) havoc with this your thwarted ideology. Your thinking is so shallow. Ah!

    • Empty barrels make the most noise

      July 5, 2017 at 10:19 am

      modernity is taking away our african culture. aaaaaaaw, come get a hug you simpering fool. But modernity gave you internet and a tech device to spew your crap. left to African culture, you should still be living in mud huts and sending messages across by burning bushes. You are the biggest hypocrite because you can use western culture like their technology, their medicine, their planes, their cars, their education – is english african? but you will still be insisting on african culture

      i have asked you this question before. What has African culture done that it must be preserved? African culutre used to kill twins, african culture makes a woman drink the water used to bath her husband, african culture sold its people to the white man. they sold slaves, so tell me. what exactly has african culture done if not to make men like you pompous prats who are empty vessels. Have you used african culture to benefit the lives of millions like westerners have? African culutre has only served small minded men like you and made you important. what has you as a “man” done for your fellow africans that you feel you deserve respect. have you cured cancer, have you eradicated poverty, have you given us stable electricity, have you built solar panels, wind turbines????

      You say African men are losing respect. Yes they DESERVE TO LOSE RESPECT!!!! They have been ruling since time immemorial and our continent is largely under developed because of the MEN in power. So, you empty vessel, what is there to respect you for??? You men have ruined our lives, still ruining our lives, i mean take a look at Nigeria largely ruled by men since 1960 and 19 gbogboro. you can’t get your act together and give your citizens a decent life. Yet you want to be respected. Men sold slaves to white people. Men, Men, men.

      Societies where they have respect for women and treat them as equals gave you the mobile phone or computer and internet to type this rubbish. What have your fellow African men done? The day you men give us 24 hour electricity, world class hospitals so our children stop dying, world class schools, we’ll respect you. Until then, sit your ass down and stop being a noisemaker and let us hear word. Anuofia. Oniranu jati jati.

    • tell em

      July 5, 2017 at 10:25 am

      you guys know that chief is a troll right??..he be laughing as he’s typing for gullible first responders……..ignore him

    • Kila

      July 5, 2017 at 10:27 am

      You my friend is an idiot

    • Joke

      July 5, 2017 at 10:30 am

      Can’t believe you spent a lot of time typing rubbish.

    • B J

      July 5, 2017 at 10:42 am

      I think it would be wise to ask your wife if she enjoys the way you are because you are simply nothing but a slave master that consider women slaves and nothing better. What you call ”culture” is nothing but a slavery culture. Is there anything wrong in a man cooking? Then what do you have to say about women that are the bread winners of their homes these days? Is the man meant to be just the chief commander of the home with no emotions for his family members? I think what a relationship is about is a mutual benefit to both parties and not a parasitic one. I’m just so shocked that there could be someone thinking this way in this age and time?
      B.O

    • Nsisco

      July 5, 2017 at 10:56 am

      Mmmmmm tight English… Reason and listen to your speech mr chief…… I want to make it known to you that u r capitally wrong…. I am in support of teaching a male child how to cook and other domestic work because no 1 live is inevitable, things can change at anytime i have seen series of examples…..if an actress dat wud hav aswell employed a cook to do everything for de son how about me? Abeg I can’t wait for my son to grow so dat i can start showing him things one after de other including cooking oooooo

    • Katrina

      July 5, 2017 at 11:04 am

      Biko, what is this Chief saying? Its now a crime to teach our sons basic cooking skills? Jesus! You can just imagine what your home is like…master- slave relationship. Tufia!

    • Concerned

      July 5, 2017 at 11:40 am

      Wow chief you don’t seem intelligent at all. Cooking is a survival skill and an ADL ( activity of daily living). It is not gender specific….except for those with backward cultures.
      Before you marry who will feed you as a bachelor? If your wife is ill who will feed you? Who feeds the widower? So you’re saying without a woman in your life you will starve?
      And who or what is your reference point for such an long and unwise comment? Who trained you?

    • Rose

      July 5, 2017 at 12:14 pm

      Oga masculinity, so cooking is now a female job and eating that of a male, I pity your constituency, obviously your not married so keep quiet and watch life humble you, when your wife gives birth and is still recovering oga slave master no sabi cook na Jedi Jedi go open ya eye

    • Deb

      July 5, 2017 at 12:16 pm

      U must be chief of -. Men must know to cook and I hope you know that even food causes divorce more than adultery. I will stop here. MEN MUST KNOW HOW TO COOK.

    • Las

      July 5, 2017 at 12:35 pm

      You can’t be serious! Even Jesus in the Bible cooked, where do you think he learnt how to do it? What is true manhood? You think it’s shouting that ‘you are a man?’ True masculinity is all about service, giving energy and quiet strength, not all this noise you are making. Free your mind!

    • Tri.

      July 5, 2017 at 1:23 pm

      Dude! Why do you sound so frightened of feminity?Why is the thought of being in touch with your feminine side- which every man posses by the way make you want to scream in terror?

      What are you really scared of ? What secret abyss resides in your very core that you are frightened will break out and make shame of the fragile thin veneer of masculinity you’re masquerading in.

      Dude, you need help. Talk to a shrink.

    • Mohammad

      July 5, 2017 at 1:45 pm

      @JF It is actually “wreak” havoc, but I get your drift.

    • Udegbunam Chukwudi

      July 5, 2017 at 2:31 pm

      So this retard and his nonsensical comments lives on?! SMH

    • Finchleysfinest

      July 5, 2017 at 3:09 pm

      Chief… I DIDNT bother to read all your epistle… Did you miss your meds today? Wake Up..this is 2017.. Boys should learn how to cook… I am a guy… I watch youtube videos for new recipes… Its romantic to surprise your wife or gf with some nice food & “Sturvs” lols…
      un-African? abeg go and sit down.

    • Mark

      July 5, 2017 at 3:59 pm

      LMAO @ “Feminizing your son”. This is why to myth logically-encrypted mindsets of Nigerian men needs fervent prayers!. Cooking should never be based on gender – especially not in 2017! You saying “unAfrican” is the very reason Africa is a backward continent. We unconsciously raise boys to be fools and domesticate the raising of girls in the worst ways! Sit down there and wait for your wife to cook for you always in 2017. You will starve until cooking becomes synonymous with your way of life!

    • Uzo

      July 5, 2017 at 4:07 pm

      Mumu so u think say this yo epistle make sense abi…u seem to have a n issue with your own masculinity cos I always say men that are always conscious of their masculinity and sexuality are the biggest pussies!!!…kudos omoni ?????

    • Debbie

      July 5, 2017 at 6:13 pm

      Chief- You are an utter troll!!! Chauvinistic much!!

  6. C

    July 5, 2017 at 9:09 am

    We need more mothers like this!

    • Chief

      July 5, 2017 at 2:02 pm

      @Empty barrels make the most noise……..

      Your comment screams misandry.Listen!!.I’m a very traditional and old fashioned African man.You can not intimidate me,not at all…You want to feminized us,weaken us and turn us into beta males and effeminate men???Ehnnn??? You attacked me because i said that we Africans are throwing our culture in the name of modernity???? Can’t you see that Omoni is feminizing and emasculating the young boy??? Can’t you see that she’s abusing the young boy and wussifying him to be a wimp?? Can’t you see that this is the main reason why there are high rise of wimps and simps in today’s society???Just look at the young poor boy in the kitchen???You see why i hate your theory.Your theory perpetuates the idea that men are bad.

      Anyway,your comment is partly why some misguided Africans like you view western culture with awe and respect where as you despise and reject your own African culture as inferior..It’s obvious that modernity as you mentioned above is having a disastrous effects on African cultural views.The impact of Christianity you slightly mentioned is the important single factor in the process of westernization in Africa.Christianity imposed monogamy on us and is still challenging our traditional belief system.You women have introduced feminism thereby attacking our masculinity,emasculating and feminizing men.It’s a huge shame that most simps have embraced this nonsense.It’s clearly evident from your comment that you main focus is the destruction of patriarchy and enslavement of male gender.

      Bottom line,forceful imposition of western cultural lifestyle on us is strongly discouraged in the light of cultural relativism.

    • Chief

      July 5, 2017 at 4:36 pm

      Finchleysfinest……I’m very sorry.I don’t respond to simps and wimps.

  7. nihi

    July 5, 2017 at 9:24 am

    @chief, is the boy your son or which one is your son. we know your type. I can judge the kind of husband you are by all the things you wrote up there. nawa o. it is now a sin for a man to cook.
    WE KNOW YOUR TYPE.
    God bless all mamas taking time out to teach their boys on how to become better persons. it is only a sensitive and compassionate husband that has been taught how to cook that would help his woman in the kitchen should the need arise.

    • Chief

      July 5, 2017 at 11:15 am

      @tell em…Troll????? I’m not that jobless rather i speak on important issues like this.I don’t have time to argue with you women here.You see the rise of Global culture in which western life is being adopted as the normal way of life smh although it has positive impact but the negative impact is destroying our African culture.Sooner or later our African culture will soon run into extinction.The problem with today’s women is continued imposition of western culture on us African men as if we have no district characteristics.Our culture is neither respected nor even acknowledge anymore.

      Why would a mother encourage this nonsense????Why would a mother emasculate and feminize her son??? Rubbish!!.I have come to believe that main focus of modern women is make young boys weak and attack their masculinity.What’s cool about this feminine act??I don’t want to hear that the boy is not my son..

  8. Miss Fine

    July 5, 2017 at 9:26 am

    Chief do us all a favour and go and pack urself somewhere.

  9. Na so!

    July 5, 2017 at 9:31 am

  10. peter

    July 5, 2017 at 9:35 am

    who is the big fool??? I can’t believe I just read that foolish thing u wrote up there..God!!

  11. tola

    July 5, 2017 at 9:39 am

    cute boy, kudos to your mama

  12. Bowl

    July 5, 2017 at 10:09 am

    Stylishly advertising for Nunu

    • Jo

      July 5, 2017 at 2:28 pm

      That might have been the main essence of the photo op.

  13. LOVE

    July 5, 2017 at 10:27 am

    PLS DON’T START A FIGHT HERE. OMONI IS DOING A GREAT JOB. IT IS ONLY A HUBBY AND NOT A CAREER. MY HUBBY ENJOYS MAKING TOASTED BREAD FOR THE KIDS AND ALSO MAKING OKRA SOUP FOR THEM. THAT HAS NT CHANGED HIM FROM BEING THE MAN HE IS AND THE HEAD OF HOUSE. ANY TIME HE WANTS TO DO THE COOKING HE ORDERS ALL FEMALE OUT INCLUDING ME AND WELCOMES HIS BOYS IN THE KITCHEN. LOLL SEE FREEDOM TO WATCH MOVIES FOR THE BABES. THEY DO D COOKING , SERVING AND THE BOYS TIDY UP THE KITCHEN AND DISHES. HE DOES THAT ONCE IN A WHILE. THAT IS ENCOURAGING AS MY SONS ARE BEGINNING O UNDERSTAND THAT A MAN CAN DO DOMESTIC CHORES TOO AND HELP IN THE KITCHEN.

    BESIDES OMONI AND HIS SON ARE ADVERTISING FOR NUNU . JUST LIKE OMOTOLA NAD HER DAUGHTER.

  14. Me

    July 5, 2017 at 10:37 am

    It is good when boys learn to cook, they become men with great cooking skills – Some fathers act like they can’t cook when they know they can fit a hot plate in no time.

    Kudos to parents encouraging their boys to develop the art of cooking.

  15. chique

    July 5, 2017 at 10:38 am

    hahahaha! chief must be having the best times of His life enjoying himself after posting these sarcastic comments and seeing you guys rupturing your veins. he’s got y’all especially first tmers. read through his posts slowly this time and you ll see he’s being sarcastical, ironical, etc. he enjoys the responses. lol

  16. Anon

    July 5, 2017 at 10:42 am

    I have noticed a lot of Nigerian mothers with sons as first child or without daughters tend to teach and encourage their sons to be domesticated. If they have a daughter first or two daughters first before they have sons, they might teach the sons to do house chores but they spoil them and tell the girls to be cooking for them even when the boys are grown. So you will hardly see mothers with sons only or first born sons saying boys shouldn’t do chores or cook. If they don’t do it who will help them? This is even more rampant in the diaspora. They make the boys cook, babysit and etc which are things they normally do to girls. But since they have no choice because they need assistance or someone to teach, they then have to teach the boys. So you see these mums bragging about how heir sons can cook, clean and etc.

    I would like to see more mum with daughters as first born or first set of kids before boys advocate and practise what they preach about equal duties and upbringing amongst girls and boys at home.

    • Sisi

      July 5, 2017 at 1:31 pm

      I have definitely noticed this. Once you have a daughter as a first born she becomes small mummy.

    • Sheri

      July 5, 2017 at 1:52 pm

      God bless you. I like people with sense o.

    • tell em

      July 5, 2017 at 2:57 pm

      im guilty of this i need to change this asap

  17. that uptown girl

    July 5, 2017 at 10:44 am

    People still read chief’s comments? The moment I saw his name I quickly swiped past it. His madness has defied medicine, unorthodox medicine too.

    • Anonymous

      July 5, 2017 at 12:12 pm

      Hahahahahahaha

  18. Nsisco

    July 5, 2017 at 11:03 am

    Mmmmmm tight English… Reason and listen to your speech mr chief…… I want to mak it known to you that u r capitally wrong…. I am in support of teaching a male child how to cook and other domestic work because no 1 live is inevitable, things can change at anytime i have seen series of examples…..if an actress dat wud hav aswell employed a cook to do everything for de son cud advise dis how about me? Abeg I can’t wait for my son to grow so dat i can start showing him things one after de other including cooking oooo

  19. Tanonymous

    July 5, 2017 at 11:15 am

    Why is everything in naija about marriage? I believe that it is important for any gender to acquire one of the most important skills for survival – learning to nurture/feed yourself/cook. Apart fromnit being an added advantage in mareiage, it just makes sense that a human being shouldnt have to be totally handicapped when it comes to taking care of their own selves that they have to depend on outside help totally to feed.

  20. Tanonymous

    July 5, 2017 at 11:18 am

    Several advantages to knowin how to cook:
    1. Cost effective
    2. Creative and almost unlimited food options
    3. Can be fun actually
    4. You dont have to wait for anybody if you are hungry
    5. It just makes sense; its your own body afterall

  21. zzzzzzzzzzz

    July 5, 2017 at 11:57 am

    During my university days I used to visit some of the guys in the Male hostel and boy you need to see the concoction some people make and call it a meal. There is nothing wrong in teaching a boy/man to cook because he would not always have a female around

    • Anon

      July 5, 2017 at 12:58 pm

      Even if he does. A woman didn’t come to this world to cook. Daughters and wives don’t exist for cooking because girls also wash cars, put on the generator and contribute financially to the home. Let men pull their weight. If they didn’t have so much free time on their hands maybe they’d stop cheating as a hobby

  22. john

    July 5, 2017 at 1:55 pm

    @concerned ..let me answer ur online stupid questions for u with real life answers

    1)Before you marry who will feed you as a bachelor?
    ans- mother or sister or current girlfriend

    2) If your wife is ill who will feed you? Who feeds the widower?
    ans- probably a mistress or mama put or outside eatery…etc many alternatives

    3) So you’re saying without a woman in your life you will starve?
    ans -NO , they are many real life alternatives like the ones I mentioned above

    And who or what is your reference point for such an long and unwise comment?Who trained you?

    ans- the anwser is above too and nature made it that way ..it is a mans world , everything always work to our advantage..if u dont like it go to 3rd mainland brige and jump

    • Bidemi

      July 5, 2017 at 3:27 pm

      here comes another village idiot. Like someone asked above. Biko the man’s world that is nigeria when are you men going to give us 24 hour electricity and good hospitals, good road, everything the west enjoys. We are waiting oooooooo. Germany is one of the most technologically advanced country and their leader is female. Nigerian men want to assert authority but have nothing to show for it but inside their trousers. You want respect? Create a man’s world that deserves to be respected. Be a leader that defines the word and provides and cares for its people. African man only knows ego when it comes to manliness. Empty barrels truly makes the most noise.

  23. Stella

    July 5, 2017 at 2:13 pm

    Nice one Omoni pof pof very important who doesn’t love a guy that can make pof pof. Good publicity for NuNu milk too.

  24. sammyTheSilentBellaReader

    July 5, 2017 at 4:05 pm

    am a guy and i know how to cook, i,ll be going back to school soon,and peeps at home are sad already telling me hw muchh dey will miss me esp my food, i learnt by always staying in d kitchen while my sister is cooking,so der is notin wrong abt it,chief is suffering frm insecurity

  25. chinny

    July 5, 2017 at 4:10 pm

    Personally, I hate this John more than Chief

  26. john

    July 5, 2017 at 6:57 pm

    @bidemi Germany is one of the mosttechnologically advanced country and their leader is female……………..and so…she won an election to become the first female german president since the history of germany and if her tenure finishes she will get down ( even though I doubt it with all the bad dicisions she has been making lately)….germany is great bcos of the men over there..it has nothing to do with merkel..if clinton had won the US president , would u have said america is great bcos of her…it is a man world ..men make it happen in this world whether in the western or eastern continent even in the animal kingdom..it is still men runing the show. What ever power women think they have was handed to them by men for politcal correctness and that novelty is wearing off…seriously, I dont like arguing with women..the reason like children with nothing logical( fish brains)….do u honestly think that black women politicians would do a nice job in Nigeria if power is magically handed to them..they would be worse than their male counterparts.

    • Bidemi

      July 5, 2017 at 9:09 pm

      At least the men in America and Germany have done many things that deserve respect and them touting “it’s a mans world”. You haven’t answered. What have Nigerian men done to benefit the populace that they deserve respect. You know, examples like electricity for all. The same electricity in Buckingham palace is the same electricity in Peckham. Whether rich or poor you have electrcity. Men made that happen. What have Nigerian men done that they deserve respect or to be deferred to. You say women have fish brain. You with the elephant brain what have you done with it. Have you created solar panels for all? Have you solved child mortality? Your elephant brain is only on Bella naija ????. Men are talking you too are talking. Your mates are building space ships. Common electricity men haven’t solved in nigeria ???. At least if you want to deride the female folk, counter it with superior intelligence that can be proven. In the words of Tywin Lannister to Geoffrey. Any man that has to say I am the King, is no King at all.

  27. john

    July 6, 2017 at 11:29 am

    Any man that has to say I am the King, is no King at all……last I checked it is the black female monkeys that always shout they are queen or queens of egypt( whatever that means if not fish brain)
    2)I saw what u did ..u just bypassed the points I raised and continue yaning nonsense ….but atleast u now limit it to Only Nigerian men not all men( bcos u just lose very badly with that argument)..that is progress

    3)Now coming to Nigeria men..the mistake u always made is that u think we care about ur respect..

    now let us think logically not as women..okay
    1)since men run the show..tbey discover and invent everything for u ungrateful women.and we know tge men specie in any ecosystem are more superior and more intelligent than their female counterpart…they are stronger but mentally and physically..They can innovate and invent unlike the female gender( forget all that political correctness and feminism nonsense u guys use to deceive yourselves)..so lets do the maths
    a)white men are better and more innovative than white women( fact)
    b)asian men are more intelligent and more innovative than asian women(fact)
    c) black men are more intlligent and more innovative than black women so
    according to u ..nigerian men are the lowest of the low with nothing to show for …and since we know men are better than their female counterpart in every ramifications …I now wonder the state of confusion and ignorance and stupidity black women are in and funny they get to raise children …and people wonder why I say the worst place a child can be is in the womb of a black woman

    • riza

      July 7, 2017 at 12:52 am

      You seem like the exact prototype of an idiot

  28. Annie

    July 6, 2017 at 2:00 pm

    @chief Sincerely I cant believe you are still trying to defend urself even after the numerous comment and people trying to enlighten u. Being an excellent cook has nothing to do with gender, all ur comment only shows u are the type of man that takes women for granted. We are not ur slaves rather we are ur helper…….. just sit down and ask ur wife if she truly respect u or she fears u, ur way of thinking is not only shallow but its so outdated. Anyway men like u are the ones that enslave a woman even in her own home making her feel marriage is awful and all, men put there should reason and also God himself stated that Women are created to be an helper to man not to be enslaved…. Hope u can pick one or two lessons from all the comments

  29. Dame

    July 6, 2017 at 7:09 pm

    My sister’s father in law brought up his kids differently. They all cook and are domestic to the core. He and his wife had 5 children, 3 boys and 2 girls.

    All the kids are in charge of the kitchen for a week one by one from Sunday to Saturday. They are to plan the meals, go to the market for shopping and cook. I mean breakfast, lunch and dinner. They all learnt how to bake and every other cooking skill necessary.

    They are all very domestic and take care of their present homes. Their dad ensured this to the letter.

    Earlier in their marriage, he made his wife to go for her masters in another state while he took care of their 6 month old baby till the semester was over. She left for months while crying but he assured that everything would be good.

    The man is over 70 now and all his kids are married. Last of all they are igbos that grew up in the East, Anambra state precisely. When he visits his kids he doesn’t mind doing the dishes or sweeping even while they struggle with him. He is a retired professor.

    Cooking is a life skill not dependent on the shape or size of your genitals.

  30. Chinenye

    July 7, 2017 at 11:46 am

    Omoni is talking rubbish,its the duty of a woman to cook and take care. Of her hubby not the other way round,if my son cooks ,what will the wife be doing?apply pancake ?you pppl should stop these arrant write upp.I’m married with four sons and I cook and take good care of my boys and hubby,it gives me great joy seeing them enjoy my meal.none of them has turned me into any perpetual cook.

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