Toke Makinwa: “Be Totally Dependent on Him”! Nigerian Media Personality speaks on “How to Take Special Care of Your Man”

Posted on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013 at 6:12 PM

By BellaNaija.com

Toke Makinwa & Maje Ayida - October 2013 - BellaNaija

How does a lady take special care of her man? Toke Makinwa has the tips.

The Nigerian personality and her beau Maje Ayida are one couple going strong for 11 years.

So she is sharing what has kept them strong with this edition of her Toke Moments vlog – How to Take Special Care of Your Man.

Check it out!

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    • Onyeka October 2, 2013 at 6:23 PM

      Oh my word! Loooool Toke . I wan die of laughter

    • That African Chic October 2, 2013 at 6:29 PM

      As usual I am not going to watch the video. Waiting for the comments.

      • Bolanle October 3, 2013 at 6:58 AM

        Don’t worry. You didn’t miss much. I could only watch the 1st 60secs of the video. Its utter crap! All I see is a skeletal copycat of the vlog of the beautiful Aristo girl in London.
        Rubbish. This doesn’t make sense.

    • blackisfab October 2, 2013 at 6:37 PM

      11 years sha………………

    • Mamo October 2, 2013 at 6:37 PM

      So the M-word will pop when you take “special care” of your
      man? Abeg where is your own M-word after 11 years? And why does the
      woman have to “hide” her success just to feed the man’s ego???? Why
      do you have to let the man determine what you do, who you talk to??
      WTH!!! Nonsense. This speech is upside down. I’m sure this will
      make women’s rights activists like Chimamanda Adichie
      furious!

      • D.A October 2, 2013 at 6:49 PM

        So mamo you dont know the meaning of sarcasm?

        • Mamo October 2, 2013 at 8:03 PM

          Huh?

      • bnigerian October 2, 2013 at 6:53 PM

        Please check the dictionary meaning of the word “SARCASM”. You’re welcome dear :)

        • bnigerian October 2, 2013 at 7:26 PM

          Oops…I meant “please check the dictionary **for the** meaning of…

        • bnigerian October 2, 2013 at 7:26 PM

          Oops…I meant “please check the dictionary **for the** meaning of…”

      • me October 2, 2013 at 7:49 PM

        google sarcasm madam and familiarize yourself with the
        concept

      • Idak October 2, 2013 at 8:41 PM

        For your mind you don make sense,abi?

      • Lauren October 2, 2013 at 9:52 PM

        I am fully and totally in support of what you have said……..Regardless of the fact that men want us to play to their ego, we as women need to show them that they have to work for it, know our worth and respect us too…..TOKE, YOU NEED A RE-THINK

    • Tess October 2, 2013 at 6:57 PM

      I hope no one really takes her message to heart, and I also hope she is joking. Please each relationship is unique composed of unique individuals. Do not become dishonest or insincere just because you want to keep your man. What most men want more than anything is a woman who is true to herself, not one who is a chameleon. Remember if a man loves you, he will want to stay with you. If he doesn’t, no matter how hard you try to keep him, when he is tired he will leave.
      I am shocked she said ladies should threaten to slit their wrists if their man wants to walk out of the relationship!!! Na wa o! Is a man the ticket to heaven? Please ladies you are priceless gems, don’t lose your self worth because of a man. If a man wants to leave, please let him go, a better man worthy of you will find you in due time. Don’t let desperation ruin your life and self esteem.

      • Ijbaby October 2, 2013 at 9:08 PM

        Well said!

    • AA October 2, 2013 at 6:59 PM

      Naija girls, please stop this dependency madness and be a
      strong woman. No matter how docile you are, marriage is a very
      different ballgame and trust me, the man will still cheat and stray
      , no matter how “dependent” you are. Be happy and be you no matter
      what, and the right man will stay. Don’t listen to Toke.

    • Gistyinka Blog October 2, 2013 at 7:02 PM

      Hmmm OAP toke, you and this your theory no go killed person.. Nice share.

      • OK October 2, 2013 at 7:45 PM

        The only thing being “killed” sir, is your grammar

        • Anon+1 October 3, 2013 at 6:05 AM

          lol LOL lmao @ OK!!

        • royalty October 3, 2013 at 6:07 AM

          lmfaoo!

    • Bliss October 2, 2013 at 7:04 PM

      Hahahahahaahhahha. Good one

    • truth October 2, 2013 at 7:04 PM

      Bellanaija people, pls! be putting SARCASM or PARODY or COMEDY at the top of each Toke Makinwa post, these people can’t distinguish comedy from reality abeg.

      Toke, you will not kill me, lol. Love your vlogs

      • a_calli October 3, 2013 at 10:01 AM

        Thank you Truth! How can people be SOO clueless as to take her seriously? Her talks are so obviously tongue-in-cheek. LOL!! Toke Makinwa is hilarious :)

    • Wannabe October 2, 2013 at 7:06 PM

      This babe and her BS yarns again.
      All I see are her Varicose veins….
      NEXT!!!

      • kind anon October 2, 2013 at 10:31 PM

        COPY! ALL OF THE ABOVE. THEM VEINS HAD ME SCARED

      • Tim'tim October 2, 2013 at 10:41 PM

        Dont take all the tips she’s given u into action o so u can stop spending all your life savings on your hungry, cheap, gold digging bf o, be there looking at her veins….Mchewww!

        • Huh October 3, 2013 at 7:06 PM

          Ewooo Tim Tim…it is sarcasm. Toke was not being serious.
          She was mocking people with your mentality. See how Naija women
          think ba

    • Madam Dearest October 2, 2013 at 7:14 PM

      Biko Toke i support you most times on what you say but in this case, it is a NO NO, what happens when she decide to speak for herself and end the bullying called pamper……..cause it usually turns to bullying when you act like you can hardly make a decision and one day you voice one he wont take you serious, take kordell and porsha #RHOA…” he likes to dress me am his baby” today their divorce story is just a terrible hot mess. what you won’t take in marriage refuse in relationship before his hands build room & parlor for your face.

    • YEMI October 2, 2013 at 7:14 PM

      hahahahaha@ when the guy from last night says hello…u reply God bless U #Dead…..her posts her for the fun hearted …people are taking it way personal.

    • Oriade October 2, 2013 at 7:16 PM

      When will you WOMEN. Yes I said WOMEN stop falling for Toke’s ploy. You hate her, you diss her yet your itchy fingers develop the speed that will shame Usain Bolt and quickly comment under her posts. You are giving this girl the EXACT attention that she is seeking. She is becoming our very own Kim Kardashian and you people are the one’s that are leading her to the way there. She posts all this vlogs to stir up controversy. It is intentional. Get it. You want her to go away right? Stop falling for her not even carefully thought out ploy. One used a Sex Tape, the other is digging at the root of the average Nigerian Woman’s problem and gaining popularity. If we didn’t carry the issue of men and marriage on our heads, she will have no material to vlog about. See her for who she is, and see through her ploy and you take power from her. All her BN posts should be ignored and she will go away. But noooooo, you sha must type till it will reach 100 comments. Next week you are back again. Please I beg of you, don’t give this girl anymore attention. She has nothing to offer, she has no talent whatsoever. Even if BN wants to build an altar to Toke, ignore her and she will GO AWAY. When BN posts serious brain challenging topics, you will see 10 comments. Toke Makinwa that has zilch to contribute to your life or is not even funny you will see 150 comments. Ask yourself, are you contributing to her fame? If so, step away from the keyboard, even if it is not to diss her or give “advice” to 9ja girls this not to listen to her. Y’all must think we are stupid if anyone takes Toke’s vlogs as the Gospel.

      • Atoke October 2, 2013 at 7:45 PM

        :)

      • AshANi October 2, 2013 at 7:47 PM

        **grabs apoti**..so what are you doing here typing this epistle? >>adding to the ‘fame of toke’
        abeg..dress back…>

        • jcsgrl October 2, 2013 at 8:06 PM

          Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha abi Ashani! See pot calling kettle
          black

      • Shuku October 2, 2013 at 8:14 PM

        Wo you just said the truth. Even though they will jump on you and call you hater but you have just caused some of us to pause and think. Sarcasm or not Toke knows which buttons to press to get popular. If regular people stop taking her seriously no one will come and call them hater for disproving what she says. Take five jare

      • Lamlam October 2, 2013 at 8:44 PM

        Take my Likes! TAKE IT! TAKE IT!

      • olori Tari October 2, 2013 at 9:03 PM

        This ur comment is long AF tho..but u don’t care ? Lol ok sister, we are getting you. #Iranu

      • I love My Mum October 4, 2013 at 8:51 AM

        So much hatred from you! . . . .and please note that by commenting, you are still making her a star which I like by the way.

      • Mogar October 4, 2013 at 10:07 PM

        Witch alert here! Aunty OriDe, you are a witch. Be
        delivered in Jesun name, amen.

      • Jamce October 5, 2013 at 8:56 PM

        @Oriade, 100 Gbosas to you. Said it all. Its all rubbish to gain cheap popularity and a lot of people are falling for it. Am sorry to say that most of our women are more interested in topics of men and woman relationships, music, fashion etc, and not serious topics of personal and national development. Its a shame.

    • Madam Dearest October 2, 2013 at 7:19 PM

      on a lighter note your facial expressions are to die for hahahahahaha and avoid the no opinion for the ladies gist,can’t wait till next week o.

    • ada October 2, 2013 at 7:33 PM

      wow Oriade, for someone who doesn’t care na your comment long pass. Why the beef? She has no talent yet you feel the need to comment? You did exactly what you preached against. Some of us like the Vlog, she makes light of issues that people take to heart and we love it. If you don’t, please dont bother preaching the sermon you just did. LET HER BE.

    • ada October 2, 2013 at 7:35 PM

      LOL @ Fake cry. I died at that, so many people comment without watching the video. O ga o

    • z October 2, 2013 at 7:45 PM

      “You have to dim your brain, throw away the education”
      Like seriously? This is coming from a supposedly educated woman. I worked hard to get to where I am today and you want me to “dim my brain” for someone with an outsized ego!? If the “smart woman” is already dating the said man, doesn’t it mean that her brain is one of the things that attracted him in the first place? So she should “dim” what he likes so that she turns herself into a needy, clingy, irritating, ego-massaging, sex-object?

      I don’t understand what is Nigerian women’s obsession with “capturing” a man by any means possible. Haba! What happened to self worth? If he loves you, there’s no need to embark on a self-loathing, self-deprecating spree to be accepted by him.

      And all these attention-seeking-celebrities-now-turned-relationship-experts from Stella Damasus to this chic, what’s their problem? Last time I checked, none of them has any degree or even a certificate in psychology.

      Abegggg!!!

      • mims October 2, 2013 at 8:06 PM

        It’s called Sarcasm Darling. It baffles me how many people
        do not realize this. What sane person would go online and give this
        sort of advice? BN please be giving hints in bold prints that this
        is no advice to be taken seriously so people don’t go crazy in
        their homes. lol

      • Idak October 2, 2013 at 8:38 PM

        You obviously did not watch the video.

      • Moi October 2, 2013 at 9:40 PM

        See who is challenging someone’s certificate oh! Please join the league of people who need to google, study, understand, digest and embrace the word SARCASM!!!!!!! Her vlog is supposed to be sarcastic and humorous….So amazing how any ‘educated’ person like u claim to be wouldn’t get that! Like seriously???

      • Moi October 2, 2013 at 9:53 PM

        See who is challenging someone’s certificate oh! Please join the league of people who need to google, study, understand, digest and embrace the word SARCASM!!!!!!! Her vlog is supposed to be sarcastic and humorous….So amazing how any ‘educated’ person like you claim to be wouldn’t get that! Like seriously???

    • doll October 2, 2013 at 7:54 PM

      @mamo, tess, madame dearest & Z google the word
      Sarcasm and familiarize yourself with the concept…inhale and
      exhale! jeez where is your sense of humor?

    • doll October 2, 2013 at 7:55 PM

      @oriade, na wa o! the thing pain you, pepper your body you
      come type dis kain long epistle na wa o u don chop today inhale,
      exhale siddon for one corner make breeze blow you before you choke
      on haterade…mscheewww

    • nahmeoh October 2, 2013 at 8:00 PM

      opon toke

    • nolla October 2, 2013 at 8:03 PM

      Uhm Toke if u r so special then y d 11 yr
      engagement

      • Idak October 2, 2013 at 8:39 PM

        They are waiting on the Lord. God’s time is the best :-)

    • eby October 2, 2013 at 8:20 PM

      short of words….. Toke is a real nutcase

    • That African Chic October 2, 2013 at 8:25 PM

      Ok I didn’t watch the video but could smell sarcasm just from the title. Really how people could get by in life without recognizing sarcasm baffles me. We shouldn’t take life too seriously

    • http://legonaija.blogspot.co.uk October 2, 2013 at 8:33 PM

      11 years ? are you kidding me ? like seriously .
      legonaija.blogspot.co.uk

    • Mz Socially Awkward... October 2, 2013 at 10:03 PM

      What made me laugh out loud was that message obviously meant for Maje – “why are you watching this? It’s not for you, if you take my tears for granted I will strip naked on the streets of Lagos & show you that I’m a craze woman”. Or words to similar effect.

      LOL for days! Toke is not alright…

    • Browngyrl October 2, 2013 at 10:15 PM

      Even after weeks of Toke making these videos. Some women still do not understand Sarcasm. Please BN…put that in the title or have the definition of sarcasm below the video and it would greatly help half of the commentators here. This is getting ridiculous!

    • underdog October 2, 2013 at 10:16 PM

      As a very successful man who happens to be married to a woman who is even more successful, I would have to agree with her on most of the approaches she has has suggested. I have no reason for my ego to be fragile because I’d give my wife a good run in terms of looks and money but still she lets me be the man and head of the house. Stuff she can afford without blinking but she waits for a birthday or any other special occasion to get it from me. Heck I even change her closet periodically. she however still buys stuff for herself. She makes my dinner and do laundry too. Go figure, i’d do anything for her…

      • Bliss October 3, 2013 at 3:32 AM

        Why would you choose a name like underdog? How about Alphamale?

      • Atilade October 3, 2013 at 4:16 PM

        Correct Man you be!

    • Audrey October 2, 2013 at 10:24 PM

      Sarcasm and orgasm, two things that most people don’t get. Smh!

    • Tim'tim October 2, 2013 at 10:51 PM

      *obvious * and please kindly excuse any other typo. Thanks!

    • cheks October 2, 2013 at 10:58 PM

      this chick is so wack to me.

    • Toma October 3, 2013 at 1:06 AM

      This Toke is so funny. Made a couple of points though.

    • Spectator October 3, 2013 at 1:33 AM

      Oga o! Madam Oriade..abi na u Maje diss before Toke, or you wan try but Toke’s tactics worked better than yours..so much hatred steaming out of you…my dear, off clothes, enter River Nijer and wash your body off the steam…kilode! Oriade ko ni ti ti e..dis own na oriburuku and only CAC fit wash you off. What are you doing here?
      As a married woman, making money, i earn more than my husband, I must say that Toke has some valid points…you still have to appear needy otherwise you run the risk of stepping on the man’s ego…and this does not only happen to Naija men…why do you think a lot of the celebrity marriages collapse…because two people are wearing the pants!! so my dear..like she said men are babies…Oriade ask your mama..your papa is probably still being spoon fed by your mother…and still getting his butt cleaned and diapers changed by her….

    • Komatter -It doesn't matter October 3, 2013 at 1:59 AM

      Toke, I haven’t always been your fan and you won me over with your past series but dear, I think it is about time we move away from this “man” talk. All your series are about man,men, gay and more men. I would like to think that my brain is capable of understanding other types of conversations, please let’s leave this man series. It is more than enough

    • zsa zsa October 3, 2013 at 2:15 AM

      I didn’t watch the video but the caption alone tells me Toke was being sarcastic. Why some people fail to realize this is way beyond me. Take it easy ladies, na joke!

    • tolu October 3, 2013 at 3:54 AM

      Its very apparent she was just being sarcastic with this video. i wonder why people dont get it

    • Precious October 3, 2013 at 4:15 AM

      This babe is just being sarcastic and funny.its not like as if she ain’t doing anything with her education..she z one of the biggest OAPs and not hiding her success to make any man happy.some of you should get a brain,good SKINCARE and hair stylist mayb you’d stop beefing her.

    • L.A Chick October 3, 2013 at 6:08 AM

      Soooooooooooooo funny!!! Love Toks humor :)

    • Ade October 3, 2013 at 6:15 AM

      pls go back to school

    • Tuu October 3, 2013 at 7:16 AM

      She’s just been sarcastic o!some of u shld take a chill-pill jo!d funny part in this is that some of u talking r actually totally dependent on a man,cnt u open ur eyes 2see dt Toke dt’s talking is making her own moni,tk it easy abg,its not dt srz,she’s soo funny and I’m beginning to love her,she doesn’t send dem haters nd she’s living her life.

    • Wale October 3, 2013 at 8:03 AM

      Actually it is not all sarcasm, there are some truth to what she said. She mixes sensibility with mockery sometimes. And yes, even if it is all in jest, I think 11yrs is a longtime to hold on to a man’s ankle and let him drag you along. Princess Kate didn’t wait that long and she had more at stake.

      • roundpeginasquarehole October 3, 2013 at 1:13 PM

        “Waity Katy” you mean. Pray what more did she have at stake? little do you know she most likely was the ‘approved candidate’ for William as the royal family don’t want another Diana on their hands.

        On the subject of marriage, all you marriage nazis should take several seats jare. So what if she has been in a relationship for 11 years and she’s not married? Over here 11 years is considered a life time to have been married and they hail you for still being married for that long talk less of being in a relationship for 11 years. In the so called Nigeria that claims to value marriage, most marriages are all but dead in name in 5 years and only hyprocrisy and “what will people say” that cause people to remain in them.

        So please give this “11 years and not married” issue a rest and find something else to make you feel better.

    • temmie October 3, 2013 at 10:10 AM

      @Z ur brain is obviously dim if u didn’t get wat the post is about, shiooooor. Toke well done jare.

    • She-Hummer October 3, 2013 at 11:03 AM

      I love Toke. She’s one helluva funny babe. Guys pls take a chill pill (or chill pills, as the case may be)….This is supposed to be sarcastic, of course we know she cant mean all these things she just said. Its only meant to be laughed over…..Even though I agree with her on the wisdom part cos realy we ladies have to apply wisdom in our rlshps. Thumbs up Toke, it was worth the time.

    • FirstLady October 3, 2013 at 11:34 AM

      Well, sad as it is, it is true ooo ladies. There’s no need to shout and deny.Trust me, I didn’t really understand this until I married o. Men are totally babies for real and you need to massage that ego girl. Like it or not. Most of what she said is sadly true…whether she’s married or not, like her or not. Not that you should be a total dopemu o. Its a very delicate and tiring balancing act.

    • Oluwaseun October 3, 2013 at 12:03 PM

      Like it or not, she is saying the truth. Men love to be needed…be there let pant be wearing you o.

    • dma October 3, 2013 at 12:43 PM

      “men don’t like strong independent women” Toke are you for real? does this statement only applies to men in Nigeria or all over the world?????

    • lee October 3, 2013 at 2:55 PM

      roflol for hours… *dim ur brain* lwmasrh
      People tho…
      so, Oriade comes here and begs us not to give anoda woman attention when she (Toke, who by the way is not my fav) is easing my tension in the office kwa???
      If u do not like somebody, that is fine, but to cajole oda pipo (That u do not even know) to join u in hating, is the height of jealousy and envy known to man…
      na wa, this haterade wen u dey sip and peppering body wen u dey chop no b small tin… jeeeeeez…

      • Ada Ada October 4, 2013 at 9:42 AM

        As in ehhnn..Toke made my day yesterday..I laughed so hard!!

    • dami October 3, 2013 at 3:44 PM

      Huh? Toke. Alumn ke. Lwkmd!

    • hannah October 3, 2013 at 3:57 PM

      actually like toke and enjoy her videos, but sorry this is the worst video ever, pls i hope she was joking when she made this one because it should be called “how dumb girls should keep their men”. toke this is nonsense. by the way, why is she always saying she is “a single girl” in most of her speech and she has been going out with this guy for 11yrs!!!!! , 11years hmmmm bella are u sure. if true then TOKE SHAME on YOU. dating a guy for eleven years , sleeping with u for free and no ring. damm he is so sleeping with someone else. seems am not a fan of Toke anymore.

    • Alero October 3, 2013 at 4:39 PM

      You are crazieeeee , and I am sure u know.LOL. Peppering tinz… :D :P

    • FJD October 3, 2013 at 5:33 PM

      This is actually happening right now between I and this single mum , I am single and never married oh and it’s not like this chic is fyne oh.The only thing that got me attracted to her was that she’s hardworking and she’s neat,I can be patient and be humble doesn’t also make me stupid and foolish . She’s just too bossy and she’s telling me in any relationship she is always the dominant one and she’s not ready to leave that life…Imagine, who knows why her husband left her? Lord have mercy on me….

    • Angela Omagie October 3, 2013 at 8:16 PM

      I see how you have Made Maje put a ring on it for 11 yrs. how dumb can you be? The last was “how to find out if your man is gay” . On that, I think you are dumb and you have given people the info that you are finding a better way to get over the fact that ur 11 yrs old boo is a dark chocolate skin who is into some strong caramel brown hot HIM! Now with this, u have totally lost it. What kills me the most is the TACKY accent. Mouth expression(very moo alata style). Can you just rest and hide yourself Toke. Babes you ain’t gettin any younger and you are still lookin for celeb status. Get over all these, being a star isn’t by force. Work hard genuinely, people will recognize your good works and gradually you will become popular. How will you all of a sudden at 28 begin to search utterly for celeb status? Kiddin me! Since beginning of this year, you haven’t worn anything that belongs to you… All we see is Toke is wearing this ,Toke is wearing that… I hope a designer will feel sorry for you and dash you one. Take a clue from Agbani, over a decade since she won miss word,chic still has a game tight..!its called EFFORTLESS darling! Do not mislead young girls and unsure girls with this tacky thing you call vlog . This is not trying to insult you. It’s an advice just that I’m being rash… Darling you are being too forceful with the whole “I must be popular”. You see all these 5 tips you gave, if u did at least 2 or 3 ( not the hidng salary part and not alum,and not faking cry- ur dumbness just became very SOUND with thos tips)to Maje, by now you should have been carrying your second child.

      • tinkerbell October 8, 2013 at 6:06 PM

        ahaan, auntie angela why this strong hatred? bitterness makes you ugly. abeg face your own hustle and leave toke alone.

    • I love My Mum October 4, 2013 at 10:25 AM

      She is a single mum, and not that she is fine oh (crime against humanity abi?), and *You are single and never married oh* so what??????????? Now because u no get pikin and never been married you were sent from above ni? Abeg park far!!!!

    • jennietobbie October 4, 2013 at 11:19 PM

      Never judge a book by its cover. Finally, decided to watch
      a tokstarr vlog and I was SOLD!!! This girl is hilarious, I
      lol!!!!

    • Mamo? Wakeup October 5, 2013 at 8:50 AM

      “So the M-word will pop when you take “special care” of your
      man? Abeg where is your own M-word after 11 years? And why does the
      woman have to “hide” her success just to feed the man’s ego???? Why
      do you have to let the man determine what you do, who you talk to??
      WTH!!! Nonsense. This speech is upside down. I’m sure this will
      make women’s rights activists like Chimamanda Adichie
      furious!” PLEASE ADD THE WORD SARCASM TO YOUR VOCABULARY ! This was so funny, she made me laugh soooooo much! And that’s because I understand sarcasm…*sigh*

    • ThisiswhyNaijaisbackwards October 5, 2013 at 8:59 AM

      I cannot believe that people would watch this vlog and actually beleive she beleives in what she is saying? Wow! Basic sarcasm you protestors do not understand? Fact you can not have above a D in secondary school certificate English or English literature. I am not saying you are stupid, or not MBA or PHD holders oooo, im just saying that a basic understanding of the the workings of english language are not your strength! Sarcasm! Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm!Sarcasm! Please, hopefully you will never forget the word ‘Sarcasm’ again.

    • ThisiswhyNaijaisbackwards October 5, 2013 at 9:09 AM

      It’s an advice just that I’m being rash… This is very poor english, no wonder you are incapable of understanding sarcasm. #ThatIsAll
      P.s Toke I don’t know who this Angela Omagie is, but boy does she hate and jealous you much. LMFAO I have been following you on twitter since your last vlog, you are hilarious!

    • Sue October 5, 2013 at 3:17 PM

      I don’t think there is anytin to learn from this…so is she saying that being a total liability on ur partner gets u married.Do I really need to tell my man how much I earn if I work in shell,exonmobil or chevron,or am I suppose to lie to him that I fry akara..shallow

    • Deep Soul October 5, 2013 at 6:17 PM

      Jesu. Even with more than 1million people shouting sarcasm, some goats still do not get it. Some people need TB Joshua!
      Toke, you make me lmao ALWAYS!
      More alum to your elbow :D

    • sade A October 5, 2013 at 9:31 PM

      she’s joking abi??? she has to be joking

    • hope October 10, 2013 at 10:28 PM

      Anyway there are some truths to what she said. If you earn
      more as a woman you don’t need to lie.All you need to do is be more
      feminine and not aggressive.Men thrive on respect and when you
      maintain feminine qualities they are more attracted to you.As
      foolish as it may sound ,crying is part of it. What toke said is
      hilarious but there are some truths in her vlog

    • Yep i said it, bite me October 11, 2013 at 1:49 PM

      @ Oriade, God bless you, if you want sheer humor no problem, but if u are gonna take Toke’s blog serious u shd be examined. still thinking 11years of dating hmmmm…. It is well.

    • Jirla October 20, 2013 at 11:37 PM

      Sarcasm or not ….the bitter truth is that most of what
      Toke said is true….men want to feel needed, tears work magic, men
      are not comfortable with women who earn much more than they do and
      you dare not let on youve been with too many guys! Great video…I
      enjoyed it

    • C nayas chika October 29, 2013 at 6:35 PM

      Toke has bn engaged 4 d past 11yrs,,,, na key holder u dey wear???