Must Watch Video! Nigerian Media Personality Toke Makinwa speaks on “Just the Tip”

Toke Makinwa in Beatrice Black - August 2013 - BellaNaija

Toke Makinwa is back with another interesting vlog.

She speaks on “Just the Tip”. You don’t know what it means? Check it out!

78 Comments on Must Watch Video! Nigerian Media Personality Toke Makinwa speaks on “Just the Tip”
  • laide August 8, 2013 at 1:17 pm

    lmao….am in stitches!…toke has finally killed me!

    • dare August 8, 2013 at 2:03 pm

      hummm i watched because of this comment and it was DRY as hell…. what exactly was funny . She did make one or two point but funny . NO , accent was irrating as hell

      • laide August 8, 2013 at 4:10 pm

        probably because you cant relate! or you dealing with so
        many issues at the moment.

  • laide August 8, 2013 at 1:19 pm

    hehe even bella no fit transribe this one..them say he check it out!

  • DUPE August 8, 2013 at 1:29 pm

    “Just the tip” was my first sexually experience, i though i was just having fun did that with my first boyfriend who was crazy in love with me and still is, like 10 times before i eventually lost my virginity. it was so painless that i didn’t even notice that i lost it till a long time after moving to boyfriend no 2. In hindsight i was really very foolish because i could have contacted something or worse still gotten pregnant

    • jinkelele August 8, 2013 at 3:43 pm

      It really is foolish, its a good reason why lots of girls get pregnant when they are young.

  • TrueTalkCritique August 8, 2013 at 1:31 pm

    Omotoke, u don mara finish! This is such a true but crazy topic. and for the Toke haters…move on and get a life cos like it or not she’s doing her own thing which seems to be working well for her.

  • Somebody.. August 8, 2013 at 1:31 pm hilarious… This babe ehn!!!!!!!! Lwtmb…

  • Annyaya August 8, 2013 at 1:38 pm

    Hahaha! Just the tip! Agro na bastard…lmao

  • Emmz August 8, 2013 at 1:47 pm

    Lmaoooooo. I’ve just died.

  • Purpleicious Babe August 8, 2013 at 1:48 pm

    lool… Toke the expert…. ahahha…. am sure some pple are learning.

  • Belle Dame August 8, 2013 at 2:31 pm

    buhahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *rolling* Muhahahahahahahahahaha LWKM!!!! Mytommy ooo…..

  • Hiss August 8, 2013 at 2:41 pm

    I love this babe…Toke you are made fine…i have fainted

  • ONAKACHI August 8, 2013 at 2:46 pm

    This cracked me up.

  • ib August 8, 2013 at 2:56 pm

    Don’t mind dem with just d tip.. Toke hilarious..90% of women has fallen for just d tip talk plus me.

  • azineh! August 8, 2013 at 3:09 pm

    OMG! am soo loving tokestarr 4ds! i lafd 4real bt den it made sooo much sense…as in all u haters; put ur hate aside and learn o; accumulate some sensibility and courage; truth is most ladies v fallen shaaa; chai! tym 2wise up noni

  • queen August 8, 2013 at 3:14 pm

    LWKMD!!!!!!!!!!!!!! TOO FUNNY!

  • Anonymous August 8, 2013 at 3:14 pm

    Toke, Toke, are you awake? Are you awake?

  • T Baba aka Baba T August 8, 2013 at 3:29 pm

    Why does she sound like a South African.. O_o Her accent got lost in transit or something… O_O

    • Idak August 9, 2013 at 12:16 pm

      Maybe she grew up in Mpumalanga. 😉

  • jinkelele August 8, 2013 at 3:41 pm

    Okay ‘covers face’ this is was funny. Kai the begging part got to me sooo true and the ‘oh you take the bed part’ tho in my case i deliberately opted for the floor. That didn’t make a difference tho cos like she said dat kain 2.30am hand just appear up my shirt then the begging. Jokes apart its not just bf things oh just being stranded can land girls into rape matter especially when you’re young and naive. Sigh

  • Yeyen August 8, 2013 at 3:48 pm

    This is sooooooooo true!

  • didi August 8, 2013 at 3:53 pm

    Nice topic..very nyce.. But dis toke girl. In my own opinion,Her accent is jess too fake and ts turning my tummy.. She shld take it izy biko! Unilag gal. On hw d accent came about I’m stl asking.mchewwwwwww.noone shld attack I said “in my own opinion” so shhh!!

    • Person August 8, 2013 at 4:33 pm

      Stop asking foolish questions. Toke lived abroad for a
      while- whether 6 months or 1 year is irrelevant. Have a few \_s
      biko. And don’t attack me o! It is just my opinion that you are
      asking stupid questions.

      • Idak August 9, 2013 at 8:18 am

        I have long stopped commenting on this Toke accent issue as i think every possible point has been made and rehashing it is worthless.
        However, you comment needs a response.
        Are you truly saying that a six months or 1 year holiday can yield an accent? And same accent remains almost a decade after?
        You sure,do not believe that or expect any rational sane person to believe same?
        She can speak whatever accent she chooses to,it is her choice but for me i struggle to take persons who grew up in naija and then suddenly hold unto an accent for decades after a few years or months abroad,serious. That one is my own choice and it is not hating as you may term it.
        This accent thing is not like the Holy Spirit whose workings are mysterious and happens to fall on people as He chooses.

      • daare August 9, 2013 at 10:30 am

        Toke only spent a few weeks in london , she actually never lived there not to talk of 6months or 1 years. Please know your fact . That accent is brought by spending hours watching TV

  • Anonymous August 8, 2013 at 3:54 pm

    Mehn Toke who gave you my line, lol,

  • AO August 8, 2013 at 4:03 pm

    This is dry now?c’mon guys wats funny here.i couldn’t
    toture myself till d end so I stopped.wonder who these pple are dat
    are saying its funny die.unneccesary hype.abeegi.

  • xoxo August 8, 2013 at 4:04 pm

    Hilarious but true! She’s totally saying the truth. Many
    girls have fallen victim. Even me, she painted the whole scenario
    well. Pls women be wise!!

  • Bobo August 8, 2013 at 4:24 pm

    Infact wat guys do now….They play cool sleeping ova and
    acting like sex is not the issue just to build trust den wen dey r
    ready for u ehnnn I swear dey will take u unawares . Read one gals
    shocking story of how she slept ova at this guys place, he left the
    room for her acting all nice saying he didn’t want sex he even
    sleeps ova at her place sometimes tilllll one fateful day he
    invited her to a private resort where he nd his friends slept with
    her only for her to wake up with taxi fare by her side nd she Neva
    heard from him again…..

  • Person August 8, 2013 at 4:31 pm

    Omotoke of life!!! LOOOL. You are so right! If you don’t
    want to do, don’t follow a brother home! Walahi, that happened to
    me o, which seemed very naive in hindsight.

  • Anonymous August 8, 2013 at 4:45 pm

    i sha dont like this Toke girl, she go jezzz dey form one mumu foone with that her four-corner head and her big opo! mtsheeewww….and it’s not even funny, why are you lots laughing? hian….fine she made some valid points but it wasnt funny plus the mumu accent made it all disgusting.

    • NAIJA 4 LIFE August 8, 2013 at 6:08 pm


      • teargas August 9, 2013 at 1:23 am

        you just killed me, lol.

    • Awaiting Moderation August 10, 2013 at 12:41 am

      On top all your abuse, you still watched it..;-)

  • Miriam August 8, 2013 at 4:55 pm

    Gurl your good,you got me laughing so hard…..keep it up

  • EBA and FUFU August 8, 2013 at 6:47 pm

    what kind of girls spends the night in a nigerian mans HOUSE? plz out of 10 nigerian men at least 7 to 8 of them have raped a girl. that is, have forced her to have sex with him. rape is not always violent oo! just think about it.

    • Philo August 8, 2013 at 7:29 pm

      I have been waiting for someone to mention this. What kind of girl sleeps over in a 9ja guy’s house for that matter. Especially when he lives alone. Even the 1004 incident where the girl jumped off a balcony, it was in his parent’s flat and his mum was home. Not to talk of a guy who lives alone. Which kind serious case of Odensin is that? When I hear the stories some of my friends tell me, one of them had to have sex with him because she didn’t want it to turn violent. She just laid there while he did the do. Billy goat didn’t even mind that she was not a participant. That is rape in my opinion, just as you said it. She said, she knew she was in a precarious position, so she agreed to and hated every second of it. Worst of all, the next morning the guy felt since she agreed, it was mutual, so there was nothing for her to vex about. Biko, werin carry your leg go there before? Gate for your papa house don close? If not for jaiye, jaiye. He took you out, and you agreed to stay out till 1.30am it turned to let’s go to my place. I laugh in French

      • Idak August 9, 2013 at 9:05 am

        your friend’s story reminds me of a funny story i listened to on one of my favourite radio podcasts months back.
        A lady had started an NGO and was about to start a speaking tour where she would be talking about rape as a survivor. What made her story interesting was that she claimed to have been raped by her ex boyfriend and both were going to be sharing the stage as speakers. So they were invited on the radio show to talk about their experiences and share their journey just before the NGO launched.
        Na so yawa take gas o!
        Right there on air they started arguing over what happened on the night in question was rape or not. The girl claimed it was, that he held her hand down and she repeatedly said no before he penetrated her.
        He claimed it was not cause the restrained on her hand was very minimal and they had a history of mild bondage sex and that the girl loved rough sex. In addition,he said she did enjoy it, she denied and he reminded her how intense an orgasm she had. It was only in the morning that she complained of it not being consensual.
        The radio host was flabbergasted and right there on air, the NGO was disbanded.
        I wish i could share a link of the podcast.

    • Idak August 9, 2013 at 8:49 am

      7 to 8? That sounds too alarming. I refuse to believe it. If this is common ratio for women on this blog,then we have a huge tasks in raising our sons. How do you even enjoy a sexual act that is not consensual? Even in the form of a paid transaction, there should be some form of consensus. Where is the fun in such? Psychiatric evaluation is needed o!

      • EBA and FUFU August 11, 2013 at 8:00 pm

        @philo @idak plz its true oo!! i DINT WANT TO SAY IT AT FRIST BECAUSE I DINT WANT BELLA TO BLOCK MY COMMENT but various stories you hear about these rangrover boys in nigeria forcing girls to have sex with them. you have to be very sharp in nigeria. i dont play with nigerian men oo! because you cant flirt with them. they might very well RAPE you. JUST THE TIP WOULD TURN INTO FORCED SEX WHICH IS RAPE. and you just laying there cuz you dont want him to beat u to death.

      • EBA and FUFU August 11, 2013 at 8:02 pm


  • Beauty August 8, 2013 at 7:01 pm

    lol ooo just the tip lol guys di nno egwu!

  • aunty August 8, 2013 at 7:11 pm

    lmao! ok, i’m beginning to like toke

  • lily August 8, 2013 at 7:58 pm

    this lady in Tanzania..can relate with..”just the tip” sooooooooooooo true

  • iba August 8, 2013 at 8:20 pm

    funny stuff

  • @chinny_5 August 8, 2013 at 8:26 pm

    Lol toke u don madt! Really just the tip then tip toe into 9 months ahA!

  • nnennia ifepe August 8, 2013 at 8:29 pm

    I love you toke makinwa,This is blunt dear ladies please dont follow a guy to his place when you dont have intention of sleeping with him.close your legs and go to your house.hold your vex money as you dey waka daily so that you can pay your fare back home.I will say it again Toke you are real

    • Cee August 8, 2013 at 9:05 pm

      Hahahaha Vex money #dead
      Ladies shine your eye.

      • Philo August 8, 2013 at 9:17 pm

        My dear, are you a learner? You don’t know what vex money means? Lol just teasing, I’m sure you do. That thing has saved me so many times ehn. Vex money should have it’s own entry in the dictionary. A girl should have vex money plus a trusted vex friend who will come pick you up so you don’t want to fall into the hands of kidnappers or ritualist’s taking a cab that late. I have 2 vex friends and vice versa who always know my moves. If one fails the other is backup. Ngwanu once it is reaching that kind 11.30 or midnight. Wetin your leg still dey do there if he is not confirmed confirmed boyfriend. Omo a gal has to be sharp especially as just the tip guys the majority if not all the time don’t wear condoms. That is how girls get pregnant or catch STD’s. That my friend confirmed the guy did not wear jack. Thank goodness she didn’t catch anything or get belle. Who knows if she did sef. She many not have told me.

    • Idak August 9, 2013 at 8:41 am

      Every modern mother should raise their daughters to understand the concept of vex money and such daughters should never leave home without vex money and a pack of condoms in her purse. Even when you are raising your daughters to be celibate and virgins until marriage. I do not believe that the two principles are mutually exclusive.Carrying condoms is not an invitation to promiscuity any more than Putting up fences and burglary proofs in homes is an invitation to robbers. Like the wise one said, ‘Wisdom is profitable to direct’. STDs thrive in the arena of hypocrisy and cultural prejudices.
      On a related note, if a lady is not keen on sleeping with a guy, what are you doing in his house after dark? That is no license for any man to violate any woman but why play with potential fire? Most excuses given for such entrapment never make sense. It pays to err on the side of caution. I’ll rather my daughter upsets a date by refusing to take a drink opened in her absence and said date appears to be a decent gentleman afterwards,than find her drink spiked and something larger than the tip penetrating her afterwards.
      *sorry for the long essay*

      • Okechukwu Ofili August 9, 2013 at 12:00 pm

        Very well written and said Idak. Also nice analogy.

      • Lin August 9, 2013 at 5:59 pm


      • Awaiting Moderation August 10, 2013 at 12:47 am

        Great point Idak…But I dont get why people put emphasis on “What are you doing in a man’s house after dark”.A guy can take advantage of a girl at any time of the day.Most rape stories I have heard happened during day time visits.

  • Lawlah August 8, 2013 at 8:56 pm

    Toke, this particular v.log makes lots of sense. A lot of gjrls can relate to the “Just d Tip” syndrome. The terminology has indeed been overused. God bless Toke for reminding single gals on the need take care of themselves and guard their hearts and v****** jealously.
    Girls, If u are not ready to go all the way, why do the tip or head? Make una dey always remember sey the thing no get shoulder, if the head don enter, d body don enter!! Make una dey avoid stories that touch. Thumbs up, Toke!

    • Idak August 9, 2013 at 12:27 pm

      You have killed me………
      But most of them have turtlenecks that serve as emergency shoulders, abi?

  • ronke August 8, 2013 at 8:58 pm

    I love this babe.she’s so on point

  • Ndidi August 9, 2013 at 1:33 am

    I concur! a lot of naija men are rapist!
    Rape is sex without consent
    Whether force or no force was involved
    Be wise my ladies !

  • Ndidi August 9, 2013 at 1:36 am

    Some boyfriends will play mindgames with you to convince you to have sex with them even though you explained to them in the beginning that you will never be doing that with them. Sex is not bad of course but why can’t some Nigerian men just respect your opinion!

  • Nok10 August 9, 2013 at 10:22 am

    I’m not a huge Toke fan, however I think the message in this video is very important for young girls. Even the vex money, and vex friend concepts – please young girls guard your heart and your vijays. A man who trully loves you will respect you, and wait. I’ve been in situations with guys where we were dry humping, and they wanna take it to the next level – as in real penetration. I said stop, and they respected me and stopped. They weren’t happy but they stopped. I even had to breakup with guys over this sex issue. Some said they can’t be in a relationship without sex, and I was like “bye, see yah”. I eventually got married, and had kids. Point is don’t compromise your values!

    • Idak August 9, 2013 at 11:53 am

      Is dry humping not playing with fire?
      Secondly, some girls refuse to accept the blurry line drawn at dry humping. It is nor just a male thing. Konji knows no gender. Abi you wan make I tell you from experience?

  • Anon August 9, 2013 at 11:39 am

    OK people hate it or love it Toke is right on this one. And please the people that have any issue with Toke accent my advice to y’all either stop watching her videos cos the accent is not going anywhere or better still shut up and keep your opinion to yourself because I am sure you have said the same for every video she has made and that hasn’t stopped so save us the space.

    • Idak August 9, 2013 at 12:03 pm

      If she has the right to the accent,I’ll guest bloggers retain the right to comment on it. If bloggers a’re expected to skip her article,if they find it unacceptable, the same advice should be applied to those who find their comments on the accents distasteful;they cam scan skip such comments. Applying censorship via some subtle bullying will not work.
      After all, nothing stops Gordon repeatedly commending and praising the accent.

  • Okechukwu Ofili August 9, 2013 at 11:56 am

    too funny…just the tip…

  • Idak August 9, 2013 at 12:21 pm

    Only the tip, the rest will come later 😉
    It would have been very funny if it was not rape and gross violation.

  • dami August 9, 2013 at 1:17 pm

    Toke…ok u just earned it..I like you small sha…I can totally relate to this. Me I no dey gree o. Just the tip ko, just the bottom ni…and mbok dry humping is playing with fire.

  • xty August 9, 2013 at 8:02 pm


  • TRUTH August 10, 2013 at 1:12 am

    Toke u r hilarious! Your expressions, topic and all! I have always liked you and I think its really good how u stay connected to ur fans on relatable topics through your vlogs. People claim they dont like u on here because they are just haters to be honest, they dont want to admit they truly love you and all your banter! I hope u never let it get to u and have compassion for them, because if u were in some of these womens shoes u would hate you too! U r blessed and beautiful so keep it up! I dont mean to interfere but I think u are even better than maje! You have a good head on your shoulders, mehn if u truly want a family and he is dulling too much just move on because plenty would want a vivacious character like u! However if u r happy with the pace of relationship, be doing it for YOU honey not him or others. I know my opinion is irrelevant but since u give us some advice lets give u too now heehee! love ya girl!

  • Pd August 10, 2013 at 4:33 pm

    Just a tip… uni days i hear that 1 last……chai! The guy use him tip rub jeans tire oh! I sleep like winch no be today! Nearly offered me his mama head! Even whispered atm card …..say make i clear him account for morning! ……na me n him female cousin sleep for room oh! Yeye ! Tip ko tipper ni!

  • bleach August 11, 2013 at 1:54 am

    she copied some african american woman ! have seen the video.. nice try

  • Lily August 11, 2013 at 2:35 am

    This is really funny, never heard abt stuff like tip but it was really educating ESP to girls of our generation.thnks

  • John August 11, 2013 at 3:28 pm

    Its funny…if the dude decides to b a gentleman and says to himself no tip today let it slide…D gal goes home thinking WHAT A SLACKER….??or So he dint find me attractive or wat??

  • Posh August 11, 2013 at 6:58 pm

    You have made a well said point…..:-D

  • Efeee August 12, 2013 at 2:00 pm

    someone should tell Toke to slow down on whatever cream she is using. haba she reminds me of Micheal Jackson. nothing about her looks real

  • T-gurl August 13, 2013 at 2:10 pm

    Walahi! this Toke don mara finally. I was in stitches thru out the video ” This one is world war zizili” Toke weldone jare. May God bless you.

    I dont know why Toke’s accent is a topic for delibration. Did she come and tell you that she is from another country? She is a media personality. The change in voice, accent etc is to add effect to the message she is putting out. Abeg make una let this matter rest.

    If you dont think she’s funny abeg, unplug the stick blocking your a$$ and fart a little and have a good laff. Or you could just decide to stop watching her videos. No spoil the good vibe here.

  • t.u September 19, 2013 at 4:25 am

    T.gurl nice 1 … I absolutely concur… Dis is ent. Dis is media.. D msg as to b diliverd with special… Had a grt laff $ its a worthy reminder 4 ladies. Som hilarios comments tho’…Tnx toks.

  • stbbabe December 13, 2013 at 10:48 pm

    So true. I don laff taya! This is not a comment on her
    accent, please-voltrons- but I couldn’t stop it grating on my ears
    each time she said “just the TEAP” instead of “just the
    TIP”….apart from that, yup one of your more relatable vlogs,
    Toke. Keep em coming!

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