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Tyrese Gibson Has a Message for “Frustrated Single Ladies” this Valentine’s – Watch!



Tyrese - March 2014 - BellaNaija

“There are a lot of wolves out there”

You may know Tyrese Gibson as one of the main characters in the Fast & Furious franchise and his hit 90s songs, but you can now add relationship guru.

The actor/musician recently released a video for “frustrated single ladies” this Valentine’s.

Just Watch!


  1. Nneks

    February 13, 2014 at 12:21 pm

    Bella Naija weldone o, yoou are on a roll..LOOOOL…..anyways single but not frustrated, doing vals with the family…what is this one saying? when he cant hold a relationship? you people, no one rule fits all

  2. nene

    February 13, 2014 at 12:34 pm

    isn’t he frustrated too? dude looks so depressed though.

  3. nene

    February 13, 2014 at 12:37 pm

    isn’t he frustrated too? dude looks so depressed though. but i like his message

  4. Hurperyearmie

    February 13, 2014 at 12:40 pm

    biko we haff hear

  5. Iyke

    February 13, 2014 at 12:42 pm

    Nice one Tyrese, nice one.I ain’t mad at you bro.
    Now as a man, what I look for in a woman is simple….Is she God fearing? Is she confident? Is she trustworthy? Is she independent and driven? I don’t mean hustling from politicians, militants et al…I mean honest drive? The sexiest thing a woman can have is love of God, drive, passion and the ambition to go for what she really wants. A smart woman with goals, integrity and a bit of attitude turns me on big time. There has to be passion in our lives because love without passion is not my kind of love. I want to be excited everyday about what we are building together…..I want people to look at us and say ‘wow’ it does exist. Will there be tough times, of course, but tough times will not break us. Our empire will be built on the foundation of respect, appreciation and communication.
    Don’t tell me this doesn’t exist, because it does. I have seen it and I won’t settle until I find it.
    So ladies, if you are one of those that posses these qualities and more, and are still alone, DON’T STRESS HUN! It’s better to be alone and build your empire than to share it with someone who doesn’t deserve to sit on your throne next to you.

    • Nneks

      February 13, 2014 at 1:05 pm

      ‘The sexiest thing a woman can have is love of God, drive, passion and the ambition to go for what she really wants. A smart woman with goals, integrity and a bit of attitude turns me on big time.’….Iyke I love your message …But going by your previous comments are you sure your Ego wont be hurt?….seeing as you believe women should have/know their place what if your wife begins to challenge you?…would you communicate or feel threatened?

    • Ewa

      February 13, 2014 at 3:14 pm

      BOOOM!!!! Iyke, you will marry the bone of your bones. God bless you

    • Her

      February 13, 2014 at 3:22 pm

      I am everything u just wrote about and more, n i am right here waiting for you. LOL

    • nwanyi na aga aga

      February 14, 2014 at 12:39 pm

      Iyke thank you for making your comment easy for me to read. looool! God will bless you with ur desires.

  6. Nneks

    February 13, 2014 at 12:55 pm

    ‘The sexiest thing a woman can have is love of God, drive, passion and the ambition to go for what she really wants. A smart woman with goals, integrity and a bit of attitude turns me on big time.’….Iyke I love your message …But going by your previous comments are you sure your Ego wont be hurt?….seeing as you believe women should have/know their place what if your wife begins to challenge you?…would you communicate or feel threatened/

    • Iyke

      February 13, 2014 at 1:16 pm

      @Nneks….When you have the fear of God, the notion, ‘You disagree to agree’ becomes very meaningful to you. Trust me, intelligence is SEXY!
      Per relationships and life generally, the more I evolve and align my inner voice with my sense of universal consciousness… develop my insight…intuitive perspective…personal conviction beyond self absorbed preoccupation…imposed complacence. The more aware I am of myself…my intentions…character and value…appreciation and respect for humanity and spiritual gifts given… The better I see…accept and become my whole and organic self…feed a pronounced and profound desire to engage and embrace the fullness of life in the realness of undeniable truth… This is the defining moment when one become the reality of oneself…authentically reborn…creating heaven on earth.
      So my dear, It’s that simple ….I ain’t asking for perfection……just match my effort and grind with me, and we will chase our dreams together everyday!

    • hiss

      February 13, 2014 at 3:48 pm

      what’s your real name?are you rich?all these unrealistic expectations hope you’ll be able to meet hers.why do i feel like you’re my ex sef?

    • eva

      February 13, 2014 at 4:48 pm


  7. Light Angel

    February 13, 2014 at 1:04 pm

    “The sexiest thing a woman can have is love of God” – “It’s better to be alone and build your empire than to share it with someone who doesn’t deserve to sit on your throne next to you” @Iyke – Couldn’t have said it better

  8. lucy tracy

    February 13, 2014 at 1:05 pm

    Iyke, you said it all……

  9. Adewunmi

    February 13, 2014 at 1:37 pm

    where is there no like button so i can “triple like” iyke’s comment?

  10. Chic

    February 13, 2014 at 1:42 pm

    No BN i do not know Tyrese from “Fast and Furious” I know him from his Coca Cola ad, the movie “Baby Boy” and his twitter relationship sessions #manology

  11. nancy

    February 13, 2014 at 1:54 pm

    Iyke, maryyyyyyy me nowwwwwwww

  12. Frustrated younger sis...

    February 13, 2014 at 2:19 pm

    @Iyke any chance I can get you to come n speak to my big sis and get her OFF MY BACK!?!?!?!?
    Honestly, I am the woman you just described, but my sis no gree leave me alone. She is the exact opposite of me. She gets 100% of her financial or material needs taken care of by her hubby. 100% of mine are taken care of by moi! I think I am doing a pretty good job, if I do say so myself. But of course big sis likes to feel like she is older than me and married so she knows more than me and therefore, must advise me. ***rollseyes***.

    • Alero

      February 13, 2014 at 3:44 pm

      Go direct jor! Include ur email add. Big sis ko, advance sis ni lol.

    • Posh

      February 14, 2014 at 4:15 am

      Hhahaha… Alero. Dont mind her. She come dey use scope.

  13. Bliss

    February 13, 2014 at 2:29 pm

    Iyke,hmmm r u sure ur nt my bro.U sound jst lyk him.u cudnt hv said it beta,a lot of ladies nids 2learn a tin or 2.nd I totally agree wt fola daniel’s article on fyndn a purpose b4 fyndn a spouse.Ur 1st luv shud b 4 God 1st.I measure my sexyness by my ability 2trust my intuitions and being confident.Above all my Luv 4God takes center stage.Shoutout 2all single ladies,wev gat our peace of mynd dz val,nothing compares 2dt.Reach me @ [email protected]

  14. Felinda1

    February 13, 2014 at 2:39 pm

    That british babymama is frustrating the hell out of him with shared custody of their daughter. Lol. Thanks for advice Jody, but while we at it, fix ya own life first, so you become an inspiration lol 🙂

  15. Felinda1

    February 13, 2014 at 3:05 pm

    Ladies stop “looking”, for a man, if you are worth it, you should and would be found. I have been celibate for year’s and years and all my friends make fun of me call me wierd said to me in this day and age if I choose not to give it up I will be single forever and since I have hit 30 I should not be picky or have choices and especially celibacy shoukd not be an option at all at all . But thats okay, he who laughs lsugh last, I am not a follower of trend, Sex is not air I breath. I know exactly what I want and by Gods grace he will find me. God will not disgrace me for keeping this temple clean. I shall be rewarded in due time for honoring his word. All men are not bad as some bitter women have concluded. There are some good ones out there and God will send me one soon. On this valentine I got myself a beautiful gift and I am taking myself to the movies. Love ya self first.

    • Chika

      February 13, 2014 at 4:00 pm

      My dear, good for you but honestly this celibacy thing is not as big a deal as you make it sound. I’ve been celibate for years and don’t see what the fuss is about.

    • Tomi

      February 13, 2014 at 5:13 pm

      I love you Felinda1…You have spoken well.I am only 26 and I stress..think the boo left me too because I stated no more immoral things before marriage..oh well, I know God won’t disgrace me either for deciding to honor his word and also forgive me for ever indulging in it in the first place.


      February 14, 2014 at 2:27 am

      God will not disgrace you, there is a reward in waiting!

  16. Retta

    February 13, 2014 at 4:27 pm

    Wow! Tyrese… i used to like you buh now i love you. I thought u were just musically inclined and you do my kind of songs (conscious music)… Buh i see more clearly now. You’ve just Amazed me. Lovely speech, straight from the heart i see. Thank you BN. You may not know but this video or vlog is a blessing.
    Thank you.

  17. eva

    February 13, 2014 at 4:52 pm

    @iyke wonderfully written, i like this message. reminds me that being single shldnt stop one from being happy

  18. tola

    February 13, 2014 at 5:02 pm

    @ felinda1 million likes for your comment,defiantely God will not disgrace us if we abide by His words.I am motivated

  19. o y

    February 13, 2014 at 5:22 pm

    @ IYKE for the first time i actually enjoyed reading your comment, no poetry , very normal. i think you are smart though.

  20. jojo.

    February 13, 2014 at 5:26 pm

    Why do i feel this Tyresse just got dumped cos maybe he wasnt good enough for some lady? I think people should just do what makes them happy. I have seen responsible ladies who waited untill they thought they had found the right guy who actually deserved them ,then the unexpected happens and the guy turns out to be just like every other jerks out there. Relationship isnt as simple as black and white. You can remain a virgin till you get married. It doesnt guarantee anything. Its all about luck. Which is why some bad girls get hooked by responsible guys and are still treated with respect.

    • Sheila

      February 14, 2014 at 12:38 am

      sent agent
      get thee behind u satan

      Celibate sisters dont listen to his bullshyt by jojo esp in his last sentence. LET GOD BE TRUE AND EVERY MAN A LIAR/ absolute nonsense .


  21. Missy

    February 13, 2014 at 5:30 pm

    @Felinda, Word!!! Got me there at God will not disgrace you for keeping his temple clean. He is not unjust! love yourself first, everything else will happen naturally.

  22. Mama Mia!!!

    February 13, 2014 at 8:08 pm

    Men sha, They can so make you feel comfortable being yourself before the relationship. After you enter, erething he’s made you think is perfect for him becomes BS! Is it not how an ex of mine sat me and his sisters down drilling us on how we should never have sex with a man unless we are ready and we must stand by using protection. Went home, dude was singing a different tune, said he was directing his sermon to his sisters as they were too naive, Imagine the guts?! I thought hard and realized me too I have brothers who love me and think I am beyond naive o, and would def not fall for his you do not love me that’s why you wanna wait or need protection. Men! go back to the drawing board, you most def do not know what you want yet. Women! just do right by you and forget all these “nounsense” talk about how men think you should or shouldn’t act!!!

  23. Adorable

    February 14, 2014 at 8:06 am

    Well said, Felicia. Please, ladies, let your standard be the word of God. God is not mocked o. His Word is true. If He says no sex before marriage, please why do we sometimes think we know better? Some bring up excuses of “what if he is not good in bed or has premature ejaculation?, what if she is frigid? How will we find out if we don’t test before marriage?”
    When we ask these type of questions, it speaks volumes about our stand with God. Trust in the Lord with all your might, lean not on your on own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path. When you trust that God’s thoughts and plans for you are of good and not evil, and that they are to give you a hope, a future and an expected end, you don’t ask, ‘what if the sex isn’t good?’ you believe that the steps of the righteous are ordered by the Lord and that He will lead you to a partner that He approves. Trust Him to make that choice for you because He knows best.

    I speak from experience. I dated men who just couldn’t imagine no sex before marriage. I compromised because I wanted companionship and began to think that Christian men don’t really follow all that the bible says concerning premarital sex. Still I was convicted each time I did the act, I knew I wanted to deepen my relationship with God but it was like taking one step forward and three steps back each time. One day, I made up my mind, I wanted a serious man because all the man I had dated were not, sex was so important to thm that they lacked self control, but most strikingly, they were all shallow with God. I was in my mid twenties and I told God I wanted Him to choose a partner for me, because I didn’t trust my own judgement. I had chosen so many wrong men in the past and I knew how big the decision to marry one man would be. I told God I would be celibate if He would choose for me because I was tired of the ‘wrong’ brothers. Well less thn a year later, I met a man and he agreed no sex involved, a few weeks down the line, he just couldnt take it anymore. I remembered the vow so I broke up with him. The day we broke up was the day I met my husband by a miraculous turn of events. Story for another day. But I made a decision to stick with God and He honored me. My husband didn’t believe in sex before marriage. I was stunned, so there are men like him?? He had self control and a year later we got married and had sex for the first time on the wedding night.
    He is more than I asked God for. I thank God everyday for favoring me.

    Sorry for the long epistle, short summary…honor God and He will honor you. Any man who will make you disobey God and adversely affect your relationship with Him…. RUN farrrrr away from such. Celibacy is veryyyyyy possible and they are Godly men who believe in it. God bless you.

    • Mz Socially Awkward...

      February 14, 2014 at 10:40 am

      I like your long epistle, it’s giving hope to some of us who’re trying to remain hopeful 🙂

      Happy Valentines day, everyone, however you spend it!

    • Eve82

      February 15, 2014 at 5:52 pm

      You spoke of a lot of things I have struggled with. Thanks for your words of wisdom.

  24. fola

    February 14, 2014 at 1:59 pm

    well said Gibson..Adorable, your epistle is apt..pls could u contact me on 07088643749..tnx

    • Adorable

      February 14, 2014 at 5:25 pm

      Hello, Fola, please kindly send me a mail. Email add ([email protected]) In India ATM. Thanks.

      Mz Socially Awkward, I am glad. We all need encouragement. Lol

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