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Watch Toke Makinwa’s Vlog – Party Etiquette



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Toke Makinwa‘s weekly vlog is back.

On an all new episode of Toke Moments, the Nigerian media personality dishes on Party Etiquette.

Check it out!


  1. itsme

    April 16, 2014 at 7:49 pm

    to add: people should calm down with the amount of meats they like to pile on their plate…its important you eat before you attend events…you don’t know whether the food will be there on time, food all done, food has gone off or the food tastes nasty…never step out of your yard on an empty stomach.

  2. Temi

    April 16, 2014 at 7:49 pm

    Guilty of two things here. I don’t know how to go to parties alone, one friend or sister must follow me. My friends are not cheapskates so for sure know u are getting another gift. Two, i don’t know what the celebrant is wearing but know i will always, lol, try my best for your celebration. I am not crazy enough to wear white or a weeding dress to a wedding though, i mean you have to draw the line somewhere.

    • Temi

      April 16, 2014 at 7:53 pm


  3. Mimi

    April 16, 2014 at 8:31 pm

    Back in the day generally people who invite people also bring food/ drinks to the event. Think it is done now.

  4. Mimi

    April 16, 2014 at 8:33 pm

    Some people do not try to upstage the celebrant, but when you invite then please dress your best to avoid oppression.

  5. Mrs A

    April 16, 2014 at 8:46 pm

    Gosh, so some people buy aso abi without being invited to the event. Crazy!

    As for rest of the party etiquette sins, I blame lack of home training.

  6. onye

    April 16, 2014 at 9:32 pm

    Auntie Toke, you are talking from experience shey. Oya confess which one have you done before? Buy the aso-ebi or want to upstage the bride? Tell the truth o. lol

  7. tope makinwa

    April 16, 2014 at 9:49 pm

    please all0w

  8. tope makinwa

    April 16, 2014 at 9:50 pm

    The way she talks though, I hope she is a good example herself.

  9. Fabulicious

    April 16, 2014 at 11:58 pm

    May God bless and keep my mum.I can remember her saying things like this as a growing girl and we’ll be like “Mumsy can overdo ehhh” but growing up and seeing professional men and women lacking some party etiquette really makes me cringe.

  10. SOLO ACT

    April 17, 2014 at 2:55 am

    i HATE people that ask for takeaway when the party is not even over. its like relax! i hate those women soo hard

  11. Kiki

    April 17, 2014 at 11:25 am

    Good points, but can you please relax and also talk like a LADY???

  12. Motun

    April 17, 2014 at 2:53 pm

    Most people are guilty of these poor habits at events one way or the other. Repent! *in Toke’s voice* my major turn off are people especially ladies who drop their humility at the entrance of the venue and be unnecessarily rude to vendors at parties.nWho is your father biko?

  13. Noble (

    April 17, 2014 at 3:10 pm

    Hallmark of most Lagos parties. Agege, Oshodi and Mushin are you there?

  14. hello

    April 17, 2014 at 8:58 pm

    toke thank u for this post o. its much needed. there are these girls on IG i can swear that they are part of the people who would buy aso ebi even when they are not invited as that is where they meet their sugar daddies. every big party in lagos they must post their own aso ebi bella pic with them wearing the aso ebi. u would now come and be wondering how they know d couple. one of them once posted something saying dont fuck for free or something and i was shocked at how people were commending her like as if its ok to sleep around for money. God dey.

  15. J

    April 17, 2014 at 10:11 pm

    dress code @ weddings haba!!


    June 3, 2014 at 5:16 pm


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