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Eldee: A “Runs Girl” aint nothing but a High Priced Prostitute, Stop Celebrating these Hoes & Making them Role Models for Young Girls

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Eldee 1Nigerian rapper, record producer and architect, Eldee, shared his views over the weekend about “Runs girls’ and the role they play as role models to younger girls.

He shared his message on Instagram and Twitter saying ‘A “Runs Girl” Aint Nothing but a High Priced Prostitute, Stop Celebrating These Hoes & Making Them Role Models for Young Girls’

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He then added to his Instagram post, ‘#tellitlikeitis #AshawoNobework Stop encouraging little girls to sell their bodies for electronic gadgets, plane tickets, and designer bags, just to be able to flex on Instagram. Our society now condones prostitution so long as you’re not standing on the road, but a whore is a whore, whether for N500 or a Birkin bag. #SaveTheNextGeneration #StopMakingProstitutionAwayOutForYoungGirls #ThereAreNobleAndLessDestructiveWaysToEarnALiving Anyway sha, I no holy pass anybody, I jus dey observe, and I get loud speaker.’

Some of his followers used his comment section to express their thoughts.

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77 Comments

  1. Teetee

    November 24, 2014 at 6:12 pm

    There’s a market for it – I w’s recently in nigeria And i was hit on and asked out by every effing dick and Harry men in nigeria can’t see a pretty girl they start acting like dogs on heat promising heaven and earth just to get u to sleep with them it’s embarrassing so please he should balance his comments jare

    • Ovadje

      November 25, 2014 at 1:07 am

      And what’s wrong with people asking (or any other single girl) out?

    • Lisse

      November 25, 2014 at 7:33 am

      I can relate… The men r often not single that’s what’s wrong sometimes they’d even be with their wives or girlfriends or kids!! Sending drivers to do their dirty work Or wearing a ring and be in their 40s or more and are definately not single so please stop ok we all know how it goes ..’ Hmmm lemme take care of u baby’ says a man who looks like my grandfather –

    • Nahum

      November 25, 2014 at 10:40 am

      Babe, they were just asking you out na…no be runs

  2. Ephi

    November 24, 2014 at 6:15 pm

    O pari. I’m speechless
    Is that my dakore egbuson (@dakoreea) they are talking to?!
    And who is the 19 year old girl, kai.
    I agree with Eldee’s comment but if he knew his hands weren’t clean, he probably should have thought twice before he wrote it. Thank goodness I am not on Instagram, can’t stomach all the drama, would rather watch jejely on BN.

  3. madman

    November 24, 2014 at 6:17 pm

    There are “runsboys” and “runsmen” don’t be fooled. I know a top naija babe who flies men around the world just to sleep with her…. it’s extremely sexist on Eldee’s part to suggest that this “runs” work is for women only… absolutely NOT.

    • APK

      November 24, 2014 at 6:50 pm

      Being a woman, i absolutely agree with you, but i would also mention in all fairness the percentage of women involved in Nigeria as to men is quite higher and becoming an acceptable norm. Its no longer seen as immorality as long as you get something out of the relationship.

    • amaa

      November 25, 2014 at 7:14 am

      Babe it balanced out a long time ago where have you beeen girl!!!!! at least in Lagos the problem with eelde is that his videos don even dignify or uplift in fact it objectifies women his a hypocrite and that’s why they are coming for him. Lol

    • Ikido

      November 24, 2014 at 11:55 pm

      Can i have her number please?

  4. Christian sister

    November 24, 2014 at 6:18 pm

    I’m quite appalled some people really took their time out to insult him and call him names for standing up for morality. Like I don’t get it. Our generation disgusts me with their new found mentality. Hiw celebrating and applauding women shaking their booty for a living is now a thing is amazing. Lord help us.

    • Surely

      November 24, 2014 at 7:57 pm

      He isn’t standing up for no frickin morality. Eldee is a dog and a ho himself. how dare he call out women? Yes women sleep around and do runs and cheat but you think the percentage of them outweigh the men??? Think again!!! The men are notorious for being whores and are even proud of it but he wants to sit on his ho ass and call women names?

      Eldee, you thought you could get away with this crap? Oshi. Now the world has seen your ass. You’re a ho as well. Join the runs girls in the back seat. You must have fallen and bumped your head on Ifa’s sacrifice.

    • asgrl

      November 24, 2014 at 8:10 pm

      It’s the double standard people are protesting. Are the women forcing them selves on the men? Especially in Lagos where men will not see yansh and let it rest. It goes both ways. Men should keep their wallets inside their pockets and women close their legs too.

      “Tenks” for coming.

    • My Opy

      November 25, 2014 at 2:07 pm

      He is wrong for pointing fingers on just women when men do worst and they initiate it, Justice and fairness is for both gender. let him call out both.

    • deede

      November 25, 2014 at 3:57 pm

      if your generation disgusts you go kill yourself”!!! hahahahahahaa

  5. Ona

    November 24, 2014 at 6:19 pm

    Speak on it Eldee! I noticed one thing very prevalent on social media. Once something is done by certain people….popular people, it is suddenly ok, meanwhile its frowned upon when less popular pple do it. This applies to this so-called “runs” which babes arent even ashamed of any more and will even brag of the caliber of (married) men financing their lives on IG. So because u are in the social scene, have popular/rich friends, many followers, it is cool. Senseless things nowadays are validated when certaiin people do it. Babes will go ham on cossy and maheeda for posing half-naked but will call kim k “bae” and applaud her nude pics. Like really, people of today no longer have a mind of their own. People esp alot of those active on social media just goes with whatever’s popular . Grown ass folks dont think for themselves anymore and the double standards are outrageous.

    • Ovadje

      November 25, 2014 at 1:09 am

      Preach on!

  6. VeryAngryNigerian

    November 24, 2014 at 6:25 pm

    Bur..are these girls sleeping with themselves for bags? No be man dey finance dem? Instead of you to go put your uncles (in some cases fathers) who won’t stop gbenshing anything in skirt (or having orgies) on a leash, u dey twitter dey yarn opaks…
    Men blaming it on Eve and her daughters since 1860…..

    • tunmi

      November 24, 2014 at 7:09 pm

      Thank you. Everything na the woman im fault. No be men dey patronize them. Abeg, comot Joe. The day you can open your mouth and lambasy your fellow men for patronizing them, for creating a demand, supply will fall

    • Nkay

      November 25, 2014 at 4:45 pm

      LOVE THIS!!

  7. Ona

    November 24, 2014 at 6:25 pm

    Why in the world are some babes offended by what he said?! A hit dog will holla! He hit hard and u hollered!One is even accusing him of not being able to afford a big girl?! Wow. Is this far naija has deteriorated?! Totally shameless!

    • nonye

      November 24, 2014 at 6:38 pm

      Ona you “took the exact words from my fingers”… a hit dog will holler!

  8. Olori Tari

    November 24, 2014 at 6:27 pm

    Ahan the comments.lmaoo na Dakore person they wash like this? But A www At his wife’s comment… I agree with her!

  9. Jennifer

    November 24, 2014 at 6:53 pm

    The THOT army came out in full force to defend their own. Who said hos ain’t loyal? He’s right and anyone who disagrees is squirming because they know it. Where did he say it’s only the loose women who are at fault? Who is to say he won’t get round to criticizing the men too? But no, THOTs can’t stand the heat. It’s bad for their bleached skin. BN, ofcourse you wouldn’t post the many comments supporting Eldee and only post the yaps when you too celebrate prostitutes almost every day under the guise of fashionable big girls.

  10. Thatgidigirl

    November 24, 2014 at 7:04 pm

    preach eldee, especially in Lagos and Abuja. And the sugar daddies who patronise these girls need to be called out too. These girls make it seem as if a young lady cannot amount to anything or make money with her hand/head without sleeping around. Steady displaying their ill gotten wealth on social media unashamedly. They’re calling themselves stylists, MUAs, interior designers, upcoming actress and the most recent rampant one “entrepreneur”…..unfortunately tainting the image of those who are really striving to make a name in these industries. Who told you that opening a shop in lekki phase one to sell accessories makes you an entrepreneur??? Is it the profit from the accessories that’s paying the shop rent, sales girl salary, your house rent on the island, bought your brand new car or paying for your vacations? Unfortunately this is what people appreciate and celebrate these days….designer shoes and bags. And the stuuuuuuupid men would rob these girls of their self worth and self esteem, feed on their confidence for filmsy thousands to millions of naira, and carry different diseases to their wives back home. Unfortunately this is the generation we live in.

  11. Idomagirl

    November 24, 2014 at 7:25 pm

    I agree with his post. We should not be glamourising prostitution or runs or whatever fancy name we want to give it. However I find that the Nigerian condemnation of prostitution is very one sided and sexist.

    1) Prostitution is not exclusive to only women. I cannot speak for other cities,but I know for a fact that there are tons of men selling their bodies for contracts and other things in Abuja. There are men sleeping with rich older women, rich older men or even both. There are some who are married with wives and children but still have sugar mummies (usually very powerful women who give them contracts) and in some cases their wives are aware.

    2) In the case of female prostitutes, if you’re going to insult and condemn them, extend the same ‘courtesy’ to the men who patronise them. After all if no one was paying for it they would be out of business long ago.

    • asgrl

      November 24, 2014 at 8:11 pm

      Extremely sexist! Nigerian men are so quick to slut shame yet can’t look at themselves in the mirror, the makers of the supposed whores.

    • madman

      November 24, 2014 at 8:16 pm

      well said, I know many men who are “runsmen.” Don’t be fooled and as usual, try to be fair when criticizing. Prostitution work is not for women alone.

    • Bisi

      November 24, 2014 at 11:32 pm

      Yes, but the men don’t go on Instagram or any other social media to display or flaunt their ill gotten loot from these sugar mummies or daddies, passing it off as an acceptable way of life, which is the message these ladies put out and young girls aspire to.

  12. andrew

    November 24, 2014 at 7:30 pm

    All these so called runs girls are just nothing but shameless animals. You sell your body for worthless things and you even have the guts to accuse him of not affording a big girl. Can someone please define what a big girl is before I loose my mind cos im getting confused

    • Bimbo

      November 25, 2014 at 2:04 pm

      As long as a woman is sexually active her motivations for doing it should be her business. Whether she does it for money or gives it free to her boyfriend or husband. It’s her whatever and she should be able to do whatever she wants with it. After all when men are scheming and lying to increase their body count nobody calls them ” hoes”

    • Idomagirl

      November 25, 2014 at 7:50 pm

      My dear. I don dey find the definition of ‘big girl’ tire….

  13. @edDREAMZ

    November 24, 2014 at 7:47 pm

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said…
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    Lmaooo…. They just do eldee R.I.P… Lmaoooooo….
    .
    .
    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

  14. el patron

    November 24, 2014 at 8:06 pm

    I think its poverty mentality…you want,you want, you want, free free things that you are ready to work for..
    you can blame the girls, but men too we are dogs, why chase everything in skirt up and down, a 70 yr old man that has been having sex since his 20s..has 50yrs experience will be shaking to have sex with a 20yr old girl..
    mehn its appalling, old randy perverts everywhere..
    these needs to stop!
    men should stop enticing and tempting women especially young helpless girls with money for sex.
    And women should respect themselves too..

  15. NagosBigBoi

    November 24, 2014 at 8:27 pm

    It is good to know that there are Nigerians who are appalled by all this nonsense. I was starting to lose hope. Abeg una – we cannot remain silent minority too long oh! Our childrens go enter gutter o! Make we continue to speak up and call all dem people what they are…..

    • Bimbo

      November 25, 2014 at 2:05 pm

      You didn’t lose hope when men were acting like “d***” ! Pls go and sit down.

  16. Anita

    November 24, 2014 at 8:30 pm

    Oh please…if you see better meat..you nor go chop? Yall are making it sound as if d men literally force d chics to do stuff…nowadays a male celebrity states his mind and automatically chics turn it around to be a sexist commen#dramaqueens

    • benny

      November 25, 2014 at 6:04 am

      Such an idiot

    • Nahum

      November 25, 2014 at 11:19 am

      runs girls alert!!!

  17. hudda

    November 24, 2014 at 9:09 pm

    It is a two way street nowadays most guys are into it too. Isn’t jennifer obayuwana with a known male prostitute peter salah

    • Bruh

      November 26, 2014 at 1:38 am

      oh shiiiittttt. How true is this please? Jen and Pete?

  18. taslim

    November 24, 2014 at 9:15 pm

    Eldee presumably speaks from experience, but has eronously generalised by insinuating his views are norm in today’s society. Naturaly we live to witness change. Every microsociety would respond to cues from the broader society. Celebrating glamour is not a trend peculiar to our society. The world over assiciates with flamboyance as a measure of success these days. The conservative socialist states are warming up to capitalism, and we live to witness this. It shouldn’t then come as a suprise that our hitherto simple maidens are gearing as debutante. This is called change. It may challenge our norm, but its no reason to generalize that anyone in favour of this change is depraved.
    Comparing flamboyantly classy girls to prostitutes is rather shallow. Eldee, an entertainer, in as much as he has every right to his opinion, may need revise his views with an open mind.

  19. LotusFlower

    November 24, 2014 at 9:16 pm

    If Eldee was truly concerned about the issue Runs Girls and prostitutes in Nigerian society, then he would have mentioned the ‘Johns’ who help to fuel the industry. Doesn’t he live in America? He doesn’t know that in other societies, the men who patronize prostitutes are arrested, sent to ‘John’ school for reform, and in some cities, their names are published in local news papers! Where is his rant about those paying prostitutes? No where. Typical sexist nonsense.

  20. shannaro

    November 24, 2014 at 9:25 pm

    I stopped at ‘runs girl’ ,same cheap attacks that vilify women every day like men accidentally slip and oops land between leg traps how about getting some conversation going on raising the other half too?role models for kids period?

  21. SASSYCASSIE

    November 24, 2014 at 9:47 pm

    the reason why the runs girls are called out is because they are the ones stupid and shameless enough to brodcast their illicit activities on social media.they are runs guys too but you dont see th posting pic with their aristoz brsgging about their ‘snatching’ skills.

  22. SASSYCASSIE

    November 24, 2014 at 9:48 pm

    *there*

  23. SASSYCASSIE

    November 24, 2014 at 9:48 pm

    Excuse the typos.

  24. lala

    November 24, 2014 at 9:58 pm

    Eldee is right ….., alll this babes be doing rungirl cos of designer bags etc nonsense and rubbish better repent anf leave married men alone and change ur ways….

  25. Ada

    November 24, 2014 at 10:10 pm

    Women should be warned because a man is a man, and they will enticed you with anything.A woman should have dignity, or she will be tossed like a football. This is what is happening now.No respect for womanhood,they now look at women as sex toy.So wake women and take your stand and work for your money and you will be dignify.

  26. brownchocolate

    November 24, 2014 at 10:10 pm

    The movie ‘Pretty Woman’ cleary shows you that not every ‘runs’girl or female prostitute is in it mind, soul and body. For many its a case of use what you have to get what you need. The same goes for the ‘runs’boy and male prostitute. The reason why there’s so much attention on the women is because women are almost always at the receiving end. A woman is raped, people start to ask what she did to make the man rape her without questioning the man. I think I understand where Eldee is coming from but he was rather too harsh. Or was he? Maybe he’s just playing the devil’s advocate. Again how else do you shake people’s sensibilities? When you go on social media sites all you see is girls posing in high heels, fake hair , make up that makes them look western and expensive designer bags they cannot afford with 6 months salary. The boys looking all wierd in their tight fitting pants and stupid expression. What scares the shit out of me is how materialistic our society has become. Young boys and girls are in school living above their means all to what end? A large number of them graduate more disoriented than they got in. No sense of direction whatsoever. Who do you blame? Parents are busy chasing money to care about the most important thing which is to be parents to their children. We’re sitting on a ticking time bomb going tick! tock! tick! tock!. This matter is a serious matter and we don’t understand what we are doing to ourselves. The things we are allowing. We seem to think its someone else’s job to make it stop. To reset the clock. Our young kids soaking in western culture like their lives depend on it. And the wrong kind for that matter. Ok oh. Make we continue to sidon dey look and see where it takes us.

    • Amobi

      November 25, 2014 at 12:08 am

      Pls where do I send your kisses and hugs to for this your lovely comment..I so much like this part “boys and girls are in school living above their means all to what end? A
      large number of them graduate more disoriented than they got in. No sense of direction whatsoever.
      Who do you blame?

    • Bruh

      November 26, 2014 at 1:42 am

      “Our young kids soaking in western culture like their lives depend on it. And the wrong kind for that matter.” this got to me. they emulate the trash culture of western societies.

  27. longisland

    November 24, 2014 at 11:21 pm

    there is no different between lekki big babe and Ajegunle road side prostitute . Ashawo na Ashawo.

  28. mujer

    November 25, 2014 at 12:35 am

    I read this blog and the responses one time too many because I wanted to understand the outrage. Perhaps I did not see all of Eldee’s postings but the one on this site simply refers to a specific category of women. My conclusion is that this blog and Eldee’s social media page has some solid data on something that is usually so intangible it cannot be captured – the shift in societal norms. His posting was a social experiment that was unplanned yet so stark in what the data says, which is that societal norms have changed, and interestingly, that the average Nigerian female social media user believes selling sex is abominable. This is intriguing because given that the age long condemnation of sex selling still has a strong hold in Nigerian society, perhaps in RENAMING it to terms like “Runs girl” and “big girl” we comfort our emotional sides, avoid our demons, and avoid self-condemnation.

    Unless a significant fraction of Nigerian women are now doing runs. I simply cannot fathom the need for the venom he has been dished. If you date someone because of what you can get from them, it does not matter the premise for your actions (acute poverty, death in the family, loss of the breadwinner, need to train oneself, etc), you are exchanging a commodity for cash Its trading. If you had gold and you got cash in return because a loved one was at the brink of death and you needed funds to pay the physician, you just “sold your gold”. If it is sex, you are selling sex; in other words, sleeping with you has a price tag. I think what might be scary for sociologists is what the boundaries are – virtually none. High class prostitution is no different from street side prostitution and that is what Eldee was trying to say. the bottom line is money exchanges hands in what is going on in Nigeria. Blaming the men patronizing the prostitutes is not going to change the name of the game, unless someone was going to work and a man kidnapped her, raped her and handed her a Birkin Bag. All are complicit – the demand and the supply sides. If the girl refused the offer, there will be no transaction. If many girls refused the offers they receive, we won’t have many men who are engaging in the habit. If many men did not approach women, there will be no “market”. I had a friend who had this girl visit his office 2-3 times a week. He said he met her at a friend’s party and she claimed her school apartment was near his office. After about 3 months of stopping by his office 2-3 times a week, the lady returned and this timensaid she had a question for him. Her question was “Wetin dey worry you self? I no fine reach? My [private parts] no dey like other people own? I dey come here everyday and you no wan sleep with me. I no fine reach?” Buddy was taken aback. He begged her not to come back. He said the girl was visibly upset that he had not offered to sleep with her.

    High class prostitutes have the same health exposures as low class prostitutes – exposure to murderers and other types of criminals, high depression rates, high prevalence of STDs and diseases like Hep B, C and HIV. No amount of money can buy self worth. Renaming the act of rolling in sheets with people you would not care for if not for their deep pockets because of a trip to Europe, a Range Rover, a furnished flat or treatment of an ailing parent would not change these risk factors. While we may justify the need to exchange what we have, i.e. sex for what we need to survive or brag (money), we should not struggle so hard to redefine it. If people want to engage in the behavior, accept it and just do it to your heart’s content and forget what people say.

    • Ms Geeky 30

      November 25, 2014 at 2:38 pm

      Well said Mujer! Well said!

  29. Ovadje

    November 25, 2014 at 1:14 am

    So the justification for prostitution these days is that men do it too.? [email protected]

  30. jerry

    November 25, 2014 at 1:36 am

    A whore is a whore very right some here in nigeria thinks they are different forgetting you receive 500 naira or 1 million naira your a whore some pretend to be nigeria super models but in real sense are all full time prostitutes so so sad

  31. just me

    November 25, 2014 at 2:05 am

    This is what we get when our country doesn’t strive to benefit a graduate man or woman. Someone goes to school for years, graduate with flying colors yet cannot find a job. Seriously, what do we expect besides male/female prostitute. Some of these ladies/men are knowledgeable, well read people but circumstances wouldn’t allow them succeed so they succumb to the pressures of the wealthy rich man/woman. We can sit to point fingers all we want, these trend will not fade itself if our leaders do not do their jobs to empower or make provisions for the generation now or ahead.
    There are those who prostitute and then others who strive by all means to leave the country; So is either that or the other.
    However, thi spoint is not a new thing, it has been happening long before eldee decided to use his voice. Nigerian home videos have made countless storylines on things like this in past and present time.
    The bottom line is, what is the way forward, how do we reduce the infiltration of prostitution in our society. There is definitely a cause that has to be addressed.
    Another side to the coin is, some of these folks are just too damn lazy, looking for the easy way to riches.
    Eldee sorry for the backlash but i am guessing you are not innocent too yourself, you should have probably just closed your mouth, drink your tea in peace.
    My 2 cents.

  32. BlueEyed

    November 25, 2014 at 6:23 am

    Eldee gave his opinion, ofcourse we can blame the men who patronize these girls, we can also say there are male prostitutes, we can even insinuate that eldee has a questionable behavior hence he should not point a finger. But the real reality is hidden in the message, that lifestyle is now what some young girls look up to, there’s little role models for the up coming generation and it is sad. We can be sensitive to his comments but let’s be realistic, a young girl/boy who believes in his/her talent,skill, potential, intelligence or even in his or her strong moral views will not allow herself/himself be enticed by whatever the man/woman proposes,it is like the old “blame the devil for your sins” game

  33. Tee

    November 25, 2014 at 8:29 am

    HAHAHAHAHAH but why are people pissed? he has a valid point and maybe he should have made it more gender-balanced but it’s still the truth at the end of the day. Ashawo no be work o. people shouldn’t think calling someone a runs girls / boy changes anything. A hoe is a hoe and never a spade 😛 lol

  34. ty

    November 25, 2014 at 9:14 am

    Eldee is ryt cus ladies of dis days no longer have shame for d so called runs tin,they even publicly display dia immorality n d worst is dat they no longer date d single men dey prefer d married ones no wonder u find some of dem going mad on d street n den u see pple having pity for dem not knowing d real cus of dia madness dis is an advise for all d runs gals go look for a decent job to do, ur hands are complete ur legs are ok WORK n no RUNS lazy prostitutes n for those wey dey support immorality watch it ur doom is around d corner a word is enough for d wise.

  35. Chloe

    November 25, 2014 at 9:21 am

    Dude is subbing Freda cos she just opened her spa…
    #decorder101

    • Nne

      November 26, 2014 at 11:16 am

      Really? Smh

  36. oy

    November 25, 2014 at 9:30 am

    but why are the men not dealt with ehn? reminds me of the story of the woman in the bible who was about to be stoned. where was the man or where were the men she slept with, most of them married men, but the lady was gonna be punished for all their crimes put together. prostitution should be condoned, neither should their patronisers, eish!!!!

  37. lola

    November 25, 2014 at 9:34 am

    to me any lady that takes it personal fall under “RUNS GIRL” WELL SAID ELDEE. but the men should all contribute by not encouraging such girls STOP!!!!paying them.
    babes if you trade sex for money or material things it is prostitution don’t console yourself by giving it a different name #blunt truth#

  38. Bella

    November 25, 2014 at 9:53 am

    I think I agree 100% with Eldee, there is lot of sense in what he said. We seem to have completely forgotten that God created women with beauty for his glorification, what do we see today? high form of prostitution all over the places and no one cares. Bro, you are in the spirit and have spoken the mind of righteousness for young girls to learn from. God richly bless you.

  39. Fre

    November 25, 2014 at 10:37 am

    I loved one response. Decided to check the name and saw dollylabelle. Eldee’s wifey!!
    Bottom line let’s STOP CELEBRATING “ILL-GOTTEN WEALTH”. BN you have a part to play too.
    Where did our values go?
    One min Femi Otedola is to be probed for example, the next min he’s being celebrated on the cover of magazines and blogs. That’s just a mild and probably one of the least examples. But we need to stop being so wealth crazed as a society. Stop clinging to and licking the asses of “rich people”, just because…. they are rich.
    Selling your pride, soul and future.

    • Idomagirl

      November 25, 2014 at 7:54 pm

      EXACTLY!

  40. Nahum

    November 25, 2014 at 10:57 am

    Listen, we need to attack the cheating married men!!! Maybe if they chose to keep their marriage vows and stop sexually harassing single ladies, then we wont have so many “runs” girls in business. Its the married men keeping them in business na, stop cheating and they will go away!!!

  41. ME

    November 25, 2014 at 11:17 am

    I agree with Eldee 100%, you loose a lot of tins selling your body for material tins, forgeting that they are perishable items nd we would not take anytin wen we die, the end result is not alwys good, go and check the lives of older women who did runs ,i have aunties who did runs wen dey were younger,today their lives are so scattered,ull pity dem,i can neva follow in deir footstep,one of them her womb was completely removed,now shes old with no child .Godliness with contentment is great gain,nobody is ready to be contented with wat they have, everybody wants the gud tins of life.There is truly dignity in evry labour, pick gud role models that are gud examples.The wealthiest men in the world live simple lives,real money speaks for itself

  42. nwanyi na aga aga

    November 25, 2014 at 2:47 pm

    Eldee pls I want to correct something you said with your hashtag #Ashawonobework. this is simply not true Ashawo is work. Lets see the definition of work : As a noun it is an activity involving mental or physical effort done in order to achieve a result” Using the premise of this definition The activity involving mental or physical effort is sex and the result achieved is money ( Ego Igwe). loool! Merriam webster dictionary – a job or activity that you do regularly especially in order to earn money, according to dictionary.com ‘exertion or effort directed to produce or accomplish something’. with this few points of mine Eldee nwanne m I hope I have convinced you that Ashawo is work..Loool!

    Now lets move on to the definition of runs – Sadly in Nigerian colloquial runs means having sex with different men for money. ok. Now lets observe this scenario ,if I Nkechi dated John for 2 months wherein I and John had sex regularly and John as my beloved #BooofLife continuously ‘provided’ for me by giving me money, Dubai trips, versace bags etc to maintain myself and look good for him. But alas we broke up and I met Yemi after healing from the heartbreak of John and the cycle continues wherein Yemi takes over the responsibility of my boo of life, with our sexual intimacy intact , adequately providing and all sorts till we break up 3 months later. After recovering from Yemi induced heartbreak I meet Ikenna of whom I am convinced that I will walk down the aisle with and Ikenna being the perfect gentleman picks up the ‘provision baton’ where yemi dropped it and holds forth till next 2months wherein we break up and now I have met Adamu ready to mingle. My BN ppl can this not be categorized as runs, seeing that I, Nkechi in this scenario have slept with different men and received money & gifts from them.. Ajuju ka m na aju? Loool!

    • Ifunanyau

      November 25, 2014 at 4:24 pm

      You eh!!!! I don laugh tire.

    • Nkay

      November 25, 2014 at 5:55 pm

      I di right, nwanne kem. But what a way to live….lol

  43. john bosco

    November 25, 2014 at 3:21 pm

    The thing is, if you spend time with some girls into runs or have them on your bbm/WhatsApp. There are certain things they do that don’t add up or give them away. So even the ones that don’t brag about it. It will only take you to put a couple of things together and you will know she is into something shady. With the age of social media, these actions come to haunt them later maybe when u wan marry. Dem go expose your past for your hubby or something. We live in a very materialistic Society and this is encouraged by politicians, musicians and even the growing number of prosperity pastors. This trend encourages the make money at all cost mindset. We’re people are not concerned about how u made money, as long as u made it. This dangerous mindset applies to more than prostitution, it applies to fraud, robbery, and looting.

  44. Truth Teller

    November 25, 2014 at 4:19 pm

    Eldee is right and there’s nothing to justify runs/prostitution, nothing at all. Let’s stop trying to console ourselves with a known fact that it’s the men that patronize and fund such lifestyles. It’ll only encourage young ladies that there’s a way out – men.

    If women could opt for hardwork, dedication, contentment and patience( sometimes getting results takes time) we could become as successful as the men feeding crumbs under their table. I still don’t understand why a woman wouldn’t aspire to be the one with the money rather than some man funding her lifestyle! We’re all entitled to our opinions but spewing out all this venom? Come on!

    • john bosco

      November 25, 2014 at 5:46 pm

      Men will continue to use material things to get these girls cos, it works. If tomorrow the norm changes to example girls falling or sleeping with only guys with 6 packs you will see that guys will start having six packs cos it works. Some will even draw the six packs on their stomach. So tomorrow if a man offers u iPhone 6 for Sex, tell him no. For a start.

  45. nola

    November 27, 2014 at 2:02 pm

    odikwa serious! lol, eleyi o le mehn…well in as much as eldee’s tweets may appear one sided i am appalled at the ‘there is no shame in my game ‘attitude of Nigerian girls these days. Okay so we know that the sugar daddies are agbayas etc, then why don’t you as a girl try to assist your fellow girl by not dating her granddad, father, husband or uncle biko!!! our morality barometer keeps chipping away as a society and I pray for our children oo…what is bad is bad, runs girl o, asewo, lekki bigz gals, sugar daddy/uncle/granddad etc

  46. Kell

    January 3, 2015 at 6:37 am

    It’s an epidemic in the states.

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