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“Still Single” – Flavour denies Sandra Okagbue Marriage Reports

Adesola Ade-Unuigbe




Flavour has tweeted, denying the marriage rumours as well!


The rumours about mega afro-pop artist Flavour getting married to his baby mama Sandra Okagbue have been circulating for days with everyone asking “Did he”? or “Didn’t he”?

Yesterday popular blog SDK broke the news that Flavour and Sandra actually got married secretly (click here). The news broke a day after LIB put out the speculation of whether or not the traditional wedding was actually going to hold (click here).

The BN team reached out to Flavour’s manager for confirmation and according to Benjamin, “This is what I have to say, there was no wedding for Flavour. I got married”.

Flavour’s manager Benjamin Omesiete had his traditional wedding in Anambra on Monday, 28th of December and the white wedding is scheduled to take place in Enugu on the 4th of January. According to sources, it will certainly be a lavish ceremony, with some of Nigeria’s biggest music acts set to attend.

Flavour's manager, Benjamin Omesiete & Wife Ify at their Traditional Wedding

Flavour’s manager, Benjamin Omesiete & Wife Ify at their Traditional Wedding

Flavour himself had a show in Owerri on Monday, December 28th as he performed at the IMO Countdown event.


As Flavour has been publicly romantically linked with beauty queens Sandra Okagbue and Anna Ebiere who gave birth to a daughter this year, the speculation is still out on who will be his bride when he decides to take the marriage step.

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  1. madman

    December 30, 2015 at 11:24 am

    Sexism, patriarchy, and childishness at its finest. Shit, Who cares?

    • ElessarisElendil

      December 30, 2015 at 12:31 pm

      There’s an obvious irony in your question of “who cares” seeing as you made two comments.

    • madman

      December 30, 2015 at 9:26 pm

      Did you read my comment at all or were you just interested in utilizing a new word you just learned like (i.e. irony)

      honey omo lekki took the words out of my mouth, “At the end of the day, the lady is at the receiving end. After gbenshing two ladies and getting them preggy, they have to fight for who will be Mrs Flavour, and he gets to “decide” who he wants to marry.

      This is why I referred to sexism, and patriarchy. They are entertainers and they are entertaining us with their lives.. kind of like watching a soap opera, watching two light-skinned women fight over a man. What else is there? It’s a man’s world and no one cares.

    • honey omo lekki

      December 30, 2015 at 5:55 pm

      All you ladies out there, can you hear? “….the speculation is still out on who will be his bride when he decides to take the marriage step”

      At the end of the day, the lady is at the receiving end. After gbenshing two ladies and getting them preggy, they have to fight for who will be Mrs Flavour, and he gets to “decide” who he wants to marry.

      Ladies, we can do better than this. Its a man’s world afterall

    • ElessarisElendil

      December 31, 2015 at 12:42 am

      Guy, you asked who cares?, well for starters you obviously. And yes, I’m proud of irony, the latest addition to my vocabulary. Glad you noticed.

      Side note, when Nigeria was truly Patriarchal, you really think Flavour’s baby mama’s Fathers would have have stood for him impregnating and not marrying their daughters? You’re obviously flaunting sexism and patriarchy the latest words you learnt.

  2. madman

    December 30, 2015 at 11:25 am

    Two women fighting over a man…. does this make him any richer or any more responsible?

    • ATL's finest

      December 30, 2015 at 11:38 am

      Lmao! Maybe he’s got a Diamond D-! Don’t forget that he sprinkled the flavor on them & Now, they wanna b wifey by all mean instead of them moving on with their lives.
      Flav & marriage ke? Save the sermon for who cares to listen.

  3. Ulobaby

    December 30, 2015 at 11:35 am

    so no wedding? which one are we going to believe?

    • jide

      December 30, 2015 at 6:44 pm

      Flavor and Sandra are married and that’s facts, not PRINTER!

      Anna, you see your life in the outside? Smh.

  4. Somebody

    December 30, 2015 at 11:37 am

    Aluta continua for both baby mamas. We shall be here.

    • Nonye

      December 30, 2015 at 12:37 pm

      Your comment is hilarious!!! ROTF

    • jide

      December 30, 2015 at 6:45 pm

      Lmao. Victoria ascerta.

  5. me

    December 30, 2015 at 11:40 am

    If this had happened, am sure Anna would have a special room at St Nicholas hospital by now. That awkward moment when you don’t know what to believe any more. Both ladies should just go and empower themselves. He is playing with both of you and a host of others on the queue


      December 30, 2015 at 12:51 pm

      Oh please, NO PITY PARTY HERE FOR ANNA. Anybody who feels sorry for Anna does not love her. URGE HER INSTEAD TO GO BACK TO SCHOOl and put her life back on track!!! marry marry marry!!!! Anna should enter a man’s house for what and to do what?! let her get her life together, she at least has time to make up for her goof!!

      These brainless girls fighting for Flavour abi na Seasoning like he’s some trophy, is he Champions League Cup? !Did Anna and Sandra not have have a life before they met Flavour and his boneless waist?
      Competing for MRS is useless here. None of them will gain anything by marrying this guy. He has nothing to offer. well, except HEARTACHE and money… for the moment.

      10 years from now, these two ladies will look back and be dismayed at their own stupidity and how they spent their best years squabbling for someone like this one, instead of building the lives of their dreams.
      Ask the women of Sunny Ade and Shina Peters. Where are all of them today?

    • Ifeyinwa Mic

      December 30, 2015 at 2:01 pm

      LOL @ belly dancer

    • Shandi

      December 30, 2015 at 4:18 pm

      I agree. No pity party. I particularly have never and will never feel sorry for Anna. Even if she got a sick bed at Lagoon Hospitals, I would’ve cared less. It is understandable (not) to be a first baby mama, so I can let Sandra quite slide with it. But Anna, you know a guy has a child and a baby mama, (who were still together), you went and not only slept with him, but you didn’t use protection. How will anyone pity you? I see her as a stubborn girl who tries too hard to prove a point. You don’t come from a wealthy or reputable home, you managed winning MBGN that you didn’t deserve, you were lucky to make little money and secure an admission in the UAE, rather than focusing on your studies and trying to make a name for yourself, you used your reign as MBGN to gallivant around Nigeria and attend all events; eventually you got pregnant. Even when people were telling you then, you were foolishly playing the boy is mine. Now you’re selling bags on Instagram and trying so hard to prove that you’re a happy single Mother on Instagram. During your child’s dedication, Flavour preferred to be a judge on Psquare’s show. It took long for him to even accept your child. You best go back to school cause you have bills to pay. Sandra comes from a somewhat wealthy family, unlike you. At your age, you shouldn’t be a baby mama and be fighting for a guy’s attention but the deed is done. In the event Flavour decides to marry either of you, I’d rather he marries Sandra; cause clearly you knew exactly what you were doing at the time. No sympathies at all from me. The whole story just annoys me.
      I hope less girls will become baby mamas in 2016 and more will focus on making a better future for themselves.

    • Tina

      July 13, 2016 at 3:59 am

      I am not African and reading your commentsgives me hope in human kind- you are so right only a father or a mother could give that good an advice to these 2 women! Kind regards from the USA

    • jide

      December 30, 2015 at 6:46 pm

      St Nicolas abii yaba left? Hehe. Anna thhe dingbat. Ode omo

  6. Tina

    December 30, 2015 at 11:49 am

    Some women are the cause of their misfortune, later they will turn around and blame the man, calling him irresponsible when the writing was on the wall when they were spreading their legs. Baby mama is the new trend, nobody respects themselves anymore to be in a committed relationship before dropping kids even the most beautiful women in the world. When will people learn that a kid does not keep a man. If you doubt me go and ask Pero. Your kid cannot be the cutest, if you like have 15 of them. He will leave if he wants to cause your child is not Jesus Christ.

  7. aikay

    December 30, 2015 at 11:54 am

    Owwwww see as flavour dey fall these girls hand for public, first he disgraced anna banner by boycotting her child dedication service and now he is denying Sandra when sources close to them disclosed that they have a closed door traditional engagement ceremony. I honestly don’t blame him sha, if only Sandra knew how much people loved and adored her just from that small delta soap advert and billboard she would have known dt she have better and bigger options cos by now she would av gathered enough fan base to mk her a STAR. Instead she chose to settle for the this life of shame and uncertainty about your relationship and putting ur life in the hands of a reckless school drop out who ordinary could not have been able to muster the courage to woo her. Sandra it is not too late to back out cos this guy looks like it’s not worth the fight. LEARNING TO LOVE YOURSELF IS THE GREATEST LOVE OF ALL #Quoting Whitney Houston#

    • Nadine

      December 30, 2015 at 12:51 pm

      Both Anna and Sandra have the same ambition. They want to be like Adaeze Yobo. They want to be married to a RICH CELEB. All they want is FAME AND POPULARITY.

      Besides, that Sandra of a girl after trying her luck with Footballers like M.O, K.O and the rest, she no win, she now jumped into Musicians. Finally e don click

      Even that Anna sef, I don’t pity her at all cos she wasn’t under a spell, she was in her right senses and saw that Flavour already has a baby with Sandra. Instead of her to be wise and tear race, she started imaging that Golibe’s Video to be real and even listened to the advice that Ify Umeokeke(Jude Okoye’s wife) gave her.

      All these una celebs eh! Footballers, Musicians, Actors/Actress, Beauty Queens their body too dey scratch them.

      Make I stop spilling the tea sha.

      P.S BN hope you already know that of Brown Ideye and how he left his Ukraine wife and 2kids?

    • Rafaella

      December 30, 2015 at 1:06 pm

      OMG!!! I know that M.O is Mikel Obi, but who be K.O and the rest? What happened to Brown Ideye?
      Aunty, I don’t like eating Akara alone. Abeg come back and bring Agege bread and chilled 50cl Coca-cola make we take am chop this akara wey you don fry.


      December 30, 2015 at 1:16 pm

      Ify, noooo! Na true???oh my goodness!!! while you’re busy enjoying being Mrs Okoye and P-square sister-in-law, showing happy family pictures, your friend is being abused here on a daily basis. Why? because she allegedly listened to people like you. if this is true, chaiiiii.
      Now we understand why none of you stood up for her. YOU GUYS ACTUALLY CONTRIBUTED TO THE MESS ANNA’S IN TODAY.
      I repeat, if Nadine’s comment is true…
      So heartbreaking……eeeeiiiiii

    • whocares

      December 30, 2015 at 2:07 pm

      @Nadine- Hi bestie 🙂 come into my parlour and let us continue to sip from this lovely tea you have served. It doesnt have to end here 😛

    • Tari

      December 30, 2015 at 2:07 pm

      @Rafaella, Brown Ideye born two children abandon dem for Ukraine.
      Very daft move as you no even need DNA to ascertain. His genes are way too strong.
      The Ukranian lady took to IG to expose him and call him out.
      I am sure while in Athens he might father another set and deny dem after he leaves Greece.

    • Belema

      December 30, 2015 at 4:26 pm

      Nadine, Anna is more fame hungry than Sandra. Like the girl doesn’t have her priorities right. Wasn’t it the same Anna that dated Ice Prince when she was MBGN and one other “celeb”? Please. She used her reign to party and try way too hard to be relevant. I can’t even feel sorry for her even if I tried. She didn’t even end up as baby mama, but number 2! Jeez. People using her age, abeg, they’re younger people who’re more analytical. When I was her age, I wasn’t that naive. Plus. I hear she used that age for MBGN and she’s a little older than that. Flavour is gallivanting around Lagos and beyond, she’s out of school, being a single Mother. I hope girls can actually learn from this.

    • bress

      March 23, 2016 at 1:56 pm

      And whose adaeze yobo pls,is she famous cos d last tym i checked anna banner and sandra okagbue are more popular and well known than her.

    • bress

      March 23, 2016 at 2:03 pm

      And what does she do for a living order than taking pixs and posting all over IG

    • ugochukwu

      March 23, 2016 at 2:20 pm

      Flavour featured anna banner in his gollibe video,so that alone has made her more popular than adaeze yobo and secondly sandra okagbue has appeared in most billboard and TV adverts and that also makes her more popular than adaeze yobo,most people don’t knw who adaeze is cos around d whole part of nigeria anna banner is well knwn 4 that hit video she was featured in and sandra is also well knw 4 her permanent face in delta adverts billboard and TVTV screens,but i heard see someone aroundaround who knws adaeze unless d person in question knws all d past mbgn queens which most people are not interested in unless ur an internet freak u might ran into such names while browsing,i rent my case .

    • ugochukwu

      March 23, 2016 at 2:29 pm

      Flavour featured anna banner in his gollibe video,so that alone has made her more popular than adaeze yobo and secondly sandra okagbue has appeared in most billboard and TV adverts and that also makes her more popular than adaeze yobo,most people don’t knw who adaeze is cos around d whole part of nigeria anna banner is well knwn 4 that hit video she was featured in and sandra is also well knw 4 her permanent face in delta adverts billboard and TV screen,but i heardly seen someone around who knws adaeze unless d person in question knws all d past mbgn queens which most people are not interested in unless ur an internet freak u might ruun into such names while browsing,i rest my case .

  8. Tina

    December 30, 2015 at 12:09 pm

    Nigeria always copying bad western trend..
    Baby mama thing with celebrities is very lucrative in the west, the women get to collect huge sum of money until the child becomes an adult.
    Unlike Nigeria where the rule does not apply, you are lucky if the man accepts the baby as his not to talk of child support. Baby mamas are forced to rely on his/family charity or fend for themselves. Seriously why go through the stress. I bet if there was no child support law in the US, you won’t have as much baby mamas.
    Who wants to suffer!

  9. Jane

    December 30, 2015 at 12:17 pm

    Flavour married Sandra TRADTIONALLY on the 28th December 2015. The public denial is just to get the media off their backs. Anna sorry. We warned you but you were too naive to listen.


      December 30, 2015 at 3:42 pm

      And according to SDK, Jude Okoye was the who who customized the outfit of the groom…kai!!

  10. Nadine

    December 30, 2015 at 12:23 pm

    That was how Olamide denied his girlfriend’s pregnancy news at first but we all know what happened at last.

    Dear Flavour, please fear God and stop lying, if not for anything, at least for this festive period. Say the truth and shame the devil biko.
    Dear BN, He is married and he is keeping it on a low key so that he won’t receive bashing from fans and Anna’s parents cos he is still recovering from the bashing he received which made him to acknowledge Sophia(Anna’s baby) and posting her pics.


  11. zeal

    December 30, 2015 at 12:34 pm

    Bella, please can you stop giving this THING any form of attention, I believe there are bigger,better and more worthy celebs than this THING

    • Tari

      December 30, 2015 at 2:03 pm

      This THING’s thing is doing damage to two beauty queens presently.
      His thing must be something else.

  12. Vicky

    December 30, 2015 at 12:39 pm

  13. Ebuka

    December 30, 2015 at 12:45 pm

    Bella na so we go dey hear, are you sure is not trying to cover something up?

  14. Le coco

    December 30, 2015 at 12:51 pm

    This is the height of disrespect… why are women so determined to die there… this man is denying his marriage nd the woman will be there shining teeth.. I understand wanting to keep this lowkey.. but it is better if he said nothing at al than for him to straight up Deny the woman in public.. shame on him.. Nd even more shame on this woman who doesn’t love herself enough to command respect…

  15. Missy J

    December 30, 2015 at 12:53 pm

    Hmmm.. Story!!
    Guys, I’m feeling shy ??? of getting into 2016. It’s my first time.. Can someone accompany me? .?.

    • She

      December 30, 2015 at 1:51 pm

      I accompany you!!! Enough suspense lets see what 2016 holds

  16. nnenne

    December 30, 2015 at 1:13 pm

    I don’t get how everyone is upset with the baby mamas. The rumor said, flavour l is married. What has that got to do with the ladies?
    They didn’t start the rumor.
    Please let’s leave the ladies alone. Enough already!
    Flavour, don’t marry out of pity because marriage is serious and life long. Marry whoever your soul desires, regardless of when you met/ meet them!

  17. chincobee

    December 30, 2015 at 1:27 pm

    Chai, see straight denial…Correct wash..

    Chincobee’s Blog

  18. robby

    December 30, 2015 at 3:35 pm

    Flavor please grow up already!!!

  19. orh

    December 30, 2015 at 4:38 pm

    BN, I supposed you guys wanted to stay off the gist…so why are you bringing the denial news when you didn’t give us any prior news? or even say its just a rumour from other blogs. you just assumed we’ve heard the gist and you’re now giving us denial gist,,,,for what exactly??? to spite other blogs or just to prove that your blog is original. talking nonsense about contacting his manager, like seriously??? BN expected him to tell when the marriage was done in secret? smh for BN, you guys are becoming irritating with all these your senseless posts like; yay or nay for blah blah. Toke says this in her vlog, blah blah. if you want to throw a shade, do it well. if you want to gist, do it well. orhhh, do weddings, fashion, redcarpet and lifestyle articles. season greetings!

    I still don’t get the reason behind this post.

  20. AdaAda

    December 30, 2015 at 4:43 pm

    Hmmm, I can’t blame these women o; have u seen Flavour up close in flesh and blood? The man is foinnneeee for years! Fine, fresh, flavourful Zeus of a man, damn!!

    • Ashley

      December 30, 2015 at 6:00 pm

      one man’s meat is another man’s poison. I have never found him handsome, sexy or anything attractive. it must be his dxxk and money they are after

    • Idomagirl

      December 31, 2015 at 10:15 am

      Same here. I frankly don’t see the finesness people keep gushing about….

    • Abi

      December 30, 2015 at 6:12 pm

      What do you consider as “fine?” Well my definition of fine has to do with intelligence, respect, and admiration. If a guy knows what’s right, respects, and admires me, then he fits my definition of a fine guy☺. Everyone is fresh, it all depends on how well they care for themselves.

  21. Lala

    December 30, 2015 at 5:11 pm

    OMO see dragging!!!!!! Anna ndo ROFL just came for the comments thanks for not disappointing me BN commenters can finish sombori’s destiny damn

  22. ngozi

    December 30, 2015 at 5:16 pm

    LOL!!!! The comments are hilarious.. what a wonderful way to spend the holiday ;laughing at funny Bella naija commentators. the akara comment had me ROFL FULL OF HUMOUR.. keep em coming.. lol

  23. Nick.

    December 30, 2015 at 5:37 pm

    Anna should av knw dat meddlin wid an igboman vs igbowoman case doesnt end wel 4 other tribes, igbos wil always remain tribal bigots no mata who dey r dis is a lesson to all otha tribes, and as 4 Sandra, i knw u r really cheap but r u really dis cheap to accept this?.

    • Ashley

      December 30, 2015 at 6:02 pm

      tribal bigots ke? die on your haterade. cheap because she turned you down with your five thousand naira. hate filled anumanu.

    • Lee

      December 30, 2015 at 8:31 pm

      Huh? If Sanda is cheap, what will you call Anna? Someone who is bold enough to open her legs to a man with a daughter and baby mama and have unprotected sex with him?! And still shamelessly fight over him on Instagram and publicly declare love to a Man with a child and baby mama who he was dating at the time? You certainly don’t know what you’re saying.

  24. December Wind

    December 30, 2015 at 6:33 pm

    All this shoki and shakitibobo dance on top this annoying flavor and his baby mama saga , by the time he announces that he’s getting married to a different woman entirely , y’all would remember that there was once a dance called ‘alanta’ . But I wonder what woman would have the guts to take that bold step ? trust people to curse the living hell outta her but then again no be nigerian girls again , do they have shame ?

  25. bisisexy

    December 30, 2015 at 7:23 pm

    Y are u guys blaming Anna bcos she didn’t get an abortion like u do every mth?dose saying she didn’t use protection, where u dere do u know if it failed? She didn’t take a pill two reasons bcos she wanted to have a baby or. She didn’t know how to? Wat Anna did is natural, same as u guys do,u meet a guy and like him and u poke him, I have three degrees and I do biz,if Anna didn’t finish school nko?I have looked at marriage and decide I won’t bother being too emotional, haven’t u seen big boys legally married and young say 30 and dey meet Anoda babe marry d new babe and leave d legal wife? Anna am happy for u,now u have a lovely dota,just move on don’t b sad, experience is better Dan age

    • Nma

      December 31, 2015 at 8:55 am

      Please shut up already. Just because someone does something despicable doesn’t mean you should justify it by saying ” don’t you do this and that or who doesn’t do this and that”- it sounds really stupid. And indeed she used protection that’s why she got pregnant, cause you gave Anna the shots and helped Flavour put on the condom. Should she even had had sex with Flavour in the 1st place who was already in a somewhat messy situation? Girls (some) are the cause of their own misfortune.

  26. bisisexy

    December 30, 2015 at 7:36 pm

    Some one said it’s not good to date musicians, yep d only ting I know is a woman Shld go, where she is celebrated,not where she is the next to come on d list, , or take no,like no 2 or 3,but it’s also d same ting with less popular guys, most guys always have a babe when u meet dem,so it depends, most babes too leave their relationships to try new frontiers, dere. Is no law,some babes like me have supported our single boyfriends financially and still dey lied to us,little wonder y pretty older women rarely remarry, example priiscila soyemi best friend to senator daisy danjuma,she did d introduction BTW daisy and d general,now priiscila villa leaves an opulent life single,and happy, if she wants to remarry she would have

  27. The real Ibinabo

    December 30, 2015 at 8:32 pm

    I promised myself to just sit back and watch matters unfold but I can’t it. According to some ‘sources’ Flavour only paid Sandra’s brideprice and didn’t do a proper traditional wedding. So perhaps to him that is only an introduction and he isn’t married yet. BN the next time you contact anyone about this matter ask if Flavour has paid her bride price rather than if he is married (be more specific). As for those condemning Anna, personally I don’t see how Sandra has ‘won’. FLAVOUR WAS NEVER A PRIZE!! A guy that is calling a woman ‘ugegbem’ one day and calling another one ‘gollibe’ the next day simply has no integrity. Even if he eventually marries Sandra, Anna would still be very much in the picture since she has a child for him. Do you think Sandra would be 100% secure when Flavor visits Anna knowing the kind of man he is and knowing that he may still have some feelings for Anna? In summary, THERE IS NO WINNER IN THIS MESSY LOVE TRIANGLE. I advise the ladies to move on, he clearly isn’t 100% committed to any.

    • Nne

      December 30, 2015 at 8:53 pm

      Once you have paid bride price you are married my dear…..

    • The real Ibinabo

      December 30, 2015 at 10:12 pm

      Not everyone feels this way. I remember talking to a church member whose ‘fiance’ had paid her bride price but hadn’t done a proper trad wedding and church wedding and she said she couldn’t sleep with him because they weren’t recognized as man and wife before God. People define ‘marriage’ as different things. Besides in a legal sense, a paid dowry doesn’t count as a marriage

    • nnenne

      December 30, 2015 at 8:53 pm

      The real Ibinabi both nailed it.

    • madman

      December 30, 2015 at 8:54 pm

      See what patriarchy, sexism, and childishness has turned Nigerian women too… all in the name of “I want to be married.”

    • Jen

      December 30, 2015 at 9:12 pm

      No one is saying Sandra or Anna has won. People are just saying they cannot feel sorry for her (Anna) because she knew what she was doing when she had unprotected sex with a Man with a child and baby mama who he was still dating then. What exactly did she expect? Happily ever after? If she was the 1st baby mama, it’ll have been easy to understand. No one is talking about winning or losing, but clearly stating that Anna brought this on herself. Also, if he allegedly paid Sandra’s dowry, doesn’t that mean he has married her traditionally or he’s about to marry her? Anyways, I heard he secretly married her cause Anna has been stalking him and to avoid wahala with her family. Anna’s family shouldn’t even get angry, if they want to get angry they should be angry at their daughter for sleeping with a Man who was in a relationship with a lady who has a child for him. If Sandra was their child, how will they feel? I’m very compassionate but I’ve found no reason to sympathize with Anna or even understand why she did all she did. You can’t open your eyes, stay close to sand and let sand get into your eyes, then be shocked or sad afterwards. Anna, if you’re seeing this. You caused all this for yourself, go back to school, move on with your life and Good luck.

    • The real Ibinabo

      December 30, 2015 at 10:16 pm

      Speak for yourself. A lot of people commenting on other blogs have said Sandra won. I understand your point about Anna but no one really knows the truth. What if Flavour and Sandra were on a break when he impregnated Anna. That being said they should both count their losses and move on before it is too late

    • Jen

      December 30, 2015 at 11:39 pm

      “What if Flavour and Sandra were on a break when he impregnated Anna. ”
      Any reasonable girl should not have done what she did. How do you boldly sleep with a guy that has a baby mama and a daughter? Without a condom or contraceptives. And are you saying it’s okay to have a relationship with a guy/girl on a break from his/her relationship? Where is the wisdom in that? Some girls put their hands in fire and cry when it gets burnt. Please abeg. Sandra was even living in his Chevron house at the time. I’m sorry, Anna caused all this for herself. I can never feel sorry for her, if she was the 1st baby mama it’ll have been a little okay to sympathize with her. Also, we’re not talking about other blogs but BN, and 90% of people here are finding it rigorous to sympathize with her; noting the circumstances. Even so, on other blogs, many people have stressed the fact that Anna shouldn’t have gotten herself involved in this mess when a child and on-off relationship was/were in the picture. If you were Sandra, how will you feel? Anna, as I’ve said you better accept your mistakes and move on with your life.
      Ibinabo, I’m not sure I understand you or the point you’re trying to make. You’re saying he paid her dowry but they’re not married. Who pays a girl’s dowry without the intention of marrying her? If indeed he paid her dowry, the rumors are indeed true. Let it rest abeg. Like I said this isn’t about losing or winning, but about being reasonable, not being foolishly stubborn and about being cautious when making decisions. There are some mistakes in life that certainly can be avoided.

    • nnenne

      December 31, 2015 at 12:43 am

      You must live with them @ Jen.
      Such a sadist.
      What if Flavor married Sandra?
      Is that the end of the world?

      True, mistakes have been made. Let’s stop rubbing it in. Enough!
      Did Anna at any point in time steal/ Kidnap Flavor? Didn’t he go to her willingly? Is Anna older than him? Didn’t he know he was in a relationship?
      Leave the poor lady alone.
      Life still owes her a lot!

    • Nma

      December 31, 2015 at 8:51 am

      Nnenne, you are actually the sadist, coupled with the fact that you’re myopic and psychotic. What’s sad in Jens comment? From the start, you’ve clearly supported Anna in all posts, that’s why you’re blind and cannot reason. You better go get a life. Any girl that did what Anna did will face was she’s facing. You don’t go into a “relationship” with a guy with a baby mama and child who he was dating at the time, and expect a fairytale ending; the heartbreak and stress isn’t worth it. Who doesn’t know Sandra was living with Flavour when she had their child? Abeg. Girls please learn from this and don’t be shallow like Nnenne. I’m not sure how any logical person will support Anna, like what did she expect? Take several seats abeg.

    • Ashley

      December 30, 2015 at 9:15 pm

      What do you think bride price is?

    • Quiss

      December 30, 2015 at 11:23 pm

      Ashley abeg help me ask Ibinabo, cause I do get the bs he/she is saying. Well said, Jen!

    • Idomagirl

      December 31, 2015 at 10:17 am

      In Igbo land if he pays your brideprice you’re his wife.

  28. kk

    December 30, 2015 at 8:53 pm

    You’re sick. Maybe you tell your tribal ladies to be on top of their game and be smart instead of being foolish.

  29. Haba

    December 30, 2015 at 9:07 pm

    Oga ooh. Most comments are just imputing blame on Sandra & Anna only. What about Flavour , who in my opinion played the leadvrole in all this drama/mess. What’s wrong with all these male musicians in particular. Many of them have kids up & down the whole place, setting bad examples .
    Afterall Tuface did worse & still ended up choosing one when he became ready. And that Annie Idibia story now means its okay for some girls to suffer all forms of humilation and emotional heartache for a male celeb. That said, there are so many lessons learnt here, Ladies shine your eyes , some men are willing to say or do anything to get into your pants , at least set some values and principles for yourself and stick to them no matter what.
    Anna, you are still young go back to school and make something out of your life for yourself and your daughter. And all these male musicians should start living more sensible lives, wonder who is next , davido , whizkid, Ice -p, paul okoye, don jazzy broda, d banj’s broda, tuface, kilode! . these are the one’s we know. sighs! God help us

    • madman

      December 30, 2015 at 10:00 pm

      How can you blame the men when the women keep throwing themselves at them. I think it says a lot about the Nigerian culture.

  30. Idomagirl

    December 31, 2015 at 10:20 am

    Messiness everywhere…

    Oh well, keep entertaining us…???

  31. oluchi

    December 31, 2015 at 11:25 am

    and that is how i settled down and read every single comment…
    #bonelesswaist #zeusbody LMAO!

    All this because of one man…o ma ga o!

  32. OJ

    January 1, 2016 at 10:53 am

    You see now? who is loosing at the end of the day? ”my Bf is flavour”, my husband is flavour”,my this my that is a super celeb…see how una dirty nash is been opened everywhere becos you to want to be chopping free oshofi on top celebrity….flavour will neva marry them, infact he is already banging another chic right now and the 15 minutes of fame these women have gotten will end right there

  33. oghenekevwe

    January 4, 2016 at 9:19 am

    This is a big controversial. Flavours should think & act fast to take one of this lady to the alter after all flavours is not the first person to face this issue, it once happened to tuface but that doesn’t mean we should take their step. Be wise.

  34. Ada

    January 6, 2016 at 3:20 am

    I never want to say a word in did matter…. Am a confirm Anambra women also married in anambra ….if its true flavor paid Sandra bride price DAT mean (Sandra )she’s flavour wife now …in our traditional when you paid girl bride price she will called your wife weda traditional marriage or white wed…..and I want you all to know once flavour didn’t married Sandra before she give birth to his child ….flavour has to marry her after if he really want Sandra child to bear his name and be father …..anambra people don’t give child away in d name of boyfriend and girlfriend matter and even if flavour don’t know traditional his parent know it very clearly

  35. thelma

    December 14, 2016 at 4:47 pm

    Forget what u are saying. He wil not marry Sandra if he doesn’t except God says so

  36. thelma

    December 14, 2016 at 4:55 pm

    Nma, so saying rubbish, think u are sick in d brain and don’t blame d innocent Anna cus Sandra is not his wife but just a baby mama and yes flavour lied to Anna so stop being stupid and think wel

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