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Is Khloe Kardashian Advising Herself on “Letting Go” of Marriage to Lamar Odom? Read

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These past years must have taken a huge toll on Khloe Kadashian as it seems she is throwing in the towel in her relationship with Lamar Odom, realizing she cannot save someone who does not want to be helped.

Khloe posted an emotional, thoughtful manifesto on Instagram about her failed efforts to help a person mired in problems.

She wrote,

“We have to learn to stop taking on peoples problems as if they are our own. Loving people does not mean we have to carry their burdens and confusions on our back.”

Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself. Letting go with love takes great strength. We have to learn to stop taking on peoples problems as if they are our own. Loving people does not mean we have to carry their burdens and confusions on our back.

Sadly, You can only express your opinion on a situation. You can’t want their life more than they do. This is in fact their life to figure out on their own and in their own time. I do believe in timing. I do believe timing is everything. You forcing your beliefs and dreams down ones throat is only going to cause resentment and possibly manifest deeper issues. Possibly to the point of no return.

People say time heals all wounds… I say time heals wounds but scars are left to remind you what you have been through and what you survived. Stop shattering your own heart by trying to make a relationship (friend, family, partner) work that clearly isn’t meant to work. We have to stop trying to repaint people’s colors. We have to learn to believe the love we AREN’T given. You can’t love someone into loving you. (God I wish it were that easy) You can’t force someone to be loyal, kind, understanding. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. Even if it’s for their own good!! Sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. ?? You have to understand… some things ARE supposed to happen in your life, but they just are NOT meant to be. Damn… It took me so many years to understand that.

Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what’s meant to stay broken. God always has a plan even if we can’t understand it (or don’t want to understand it) Even in the darkest of places… Our Lord sees His vision.
We might not understand it at the moment but I promise you, your future will always bring understanding and clarity of why things didn’t work out. Don’t put your happiness on hold for someone (family, friend, partner) who isn’t holding on to you.

A Girl once told me… Be careful when trying to fix a broken person. For you may cut yourself on their shattered pieces.

As we reported earlier, Khloe dropped her divorce after Lamar nearly died at a Nevada brothel, after overdosing on drugs but it looks like Lamar hasn’t changed  after all. He was caught drinking recently in a San Fernando Valley bar.

She seems to think Lamar may be a hopeless case, writing, “Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what’s meant to stay broken.”

7 Comments

  1. Hmmmm

    April 11, 2016 at 4:03 pm

    One day, somebody you sacrificed so much for will turn around and say they never asked for it, and it will hurt because they will be right.#summaryofitall

    • Seriously

      April 11, 2016 at 8:28 pm

      Khloe should have several seats with her blown up fake butt. Her show is cancelled, now back to Lamar as her only storyline. She’s trying to distract folks again and get the pity party. I don’t understand why she has to post personal things btw her ex, oh for attention.

  2. Queen Bee

    April 11, 2016 at 4:38 pm

    awww her love for Lamar is super real, she didnt give up even when he did. I really wish they got back but like she said “the person you want the most are the person you are best without”
    This write up is meant for me, some people are just not worth it

  3. BukaSauce

    April 11, 2016 at 4:54 pm

    I can soooo relate with this! My ex whom i sacrificed so much for and pretty much carried his health issues on my head like a personal business turned around to be the most ungrateful piece of shit ever. Trying to get him to take better care of his deteriorating health turned out to brew resentment in his heart towards me. Its true that u cant help someone who does not want to be helped or else they will turn out resenting u and hurting u in the process. Its such a painful something when u decide to dedicate ur time and all taking care of someone and all ur effort and intentions are looked upon with disdain and ungratefulness. Onafu ncha!

  4. keke driver

    April 11, 2016 at 4:56 pm

    She really loves this guy o, but sadly Lamar is the ONLY one that can fix himself.

  5. Dee one

    April 11, 2016 at 5:58 pm

    At least she can close the curtain knowing that she gave her all and did her best for him cos she really did try. Wish them both the best.
    Ps BN there’s an error in the first line of this article.

  6. babygiwa

    April 11, 2016 at 7:05 pm

    Hmmm. I used to be a huge fan of KUWTK because of Khloe and Lamar’s love. She really really dedicated herself to that marriage, but see how it turned out.
    I even used to wish for a relationship like theirs… Lol. It is well.

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