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Lynxxx gets Spiritual about Premarital Sex “Please be very careful about who you are intimate with”



LynxxxMusician Lynxxx has been known in the past for his sexually suggestive songs and videos, but it seems he has “changed his parade” and received a spiritual awakening.

He wrote about the spiritual consequences of sex this afternoon on his Instagram page – the post has over 750 comments so far!

Here’s his take – people ignore the spiritual side of sex, and also sell sex just to stunt on the ‘gram, but the consequences catch up to you.

Read below.

Now this topic I’ve spent alot of time studying, especially from a Spiritual angle… Premarital sex to be exact and there are so many layers of blatant truth and implications to this act of satisfying the desires of the flesh we all need to be enlightened by…. (This is def one topic our generation doesnt want to hear about n no im no saint either so dnt think im pointing fingers at anyone or judging… Like always, im sharing my truth n thoughts ?) Im gonna go straight to the key issues so i dont end up writing a book.

Please be very careful about who you are intimate with and who u share your body with. We tend to see only the physical side of sex and ignore the existence of the Spiritual (which is the MOST important). In this generation, sex is as common as a handshake, no sentiments to it, no love attached to it, its now a commodity for trade (cash and benefits alike) people sell their dignity for cash, cars, houses, bags, shoes and Luxurious Holidays like its nothing and come on the gram stunting. Living for today but i promise you it would eventually catch up to you in time cos we may not see the act but never forget GOD DOES!

Sex was invented by God for communion between Husband and Wife, to create a greater bonding experience and he knew the power of it hence the commandments restricting us from Premarital sex.

Everytime we have sex, theres an exchange of spiritual energy between both people, be careful what u invite into ur temple cos there are consequences that may not manifest in the Physical.

Sex plays a major role in so many Life issues and marriage problems today, from
Heartbreaks, cheating, abortions, adultery, pregnancies, Stds, Guilt / betrayals and the list goes on! Most important of all It distances us from God. Now being distant from God, how do we expect the relationship to be blessed by him?

The harsh truth is, a relationship with two sexually active individuals is definitely not one that Glorifies God so whatever fruits that relationships bears is up to them.

A Relationship that has God as the foundation and center would bear fruits and eventually lead to multiplication.

The choice is Ours & so are the consequences ??? #Lynxxxdom

Photo Credit: Big H Studios


  1. Sheaintreal

    April 4, 2016 at 11:00 pm


    • Anabelle

      April 5, 2016 at 3:56 pm

      Ope o. Someone popular has come out to explain how deadly pre-marital sex is and for people who are talking about his past,that is why you should not do follow follow. Some of you knew it was wrong all along but kept on because everyone is doing it. Better repent before nature forces repentance on you. This may be your last chance. Don’t waste it.

  2. Bey

    April 4, 2016 at 11:11 pm

    So lynxxx ur celibate ? Ok
    Nice write up BTW

  3. Adaeze Writes

    April 4, 2016 at 11:13 pm

    Very true…I am all for Lynxxx and his new image. God bless you dear.

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  4. Yemi

    April 4, 2016 at 11:18 pm

    Very true Lynxxx. God bless you for sharing.

  5. Fola Coco

    April 4, 2016 at 11:30 pm

    Words of truth and light…I hope the men are reading also,because it goes both ways. I am glad jesus has a new recruit in Lynxx,God bless you.

  6. Nene

    April 4, 2016 at 11:33 pm

    I’m happy for him if he has truly changed. I hope he teaches nedu the same thing. Lynxx is team husband material now

    • virgin

      April 5, 2016 at 12:42 am

      Nedu is born again now. Follow him on insta. He says he wants a virgin girlfriend

    • Anon

      April 5, 2016 at 6:13 am

      Not only virgin girlfriend, virgin oil nko! He should take back his ex, make her accept Christ then she becomes a virgin cos old things are passed away and have become new!

    • nwakaego

      April 5, 2016 at 6:24 am

      He wants a virgin girlfriend after loosing his virginity errrrr…..BOY BYE!!!

  7. concerned

    April 4, 2016 at 11:37 pm

    He probably caught something. Lol, sorry, couldn’t help myself #okbye

  8. Tgirl

    April 4, 2016 at 11:38 pm

    God bless you! Here is a little something about me Whenever I indulge in any sexual activity I always see that huge distance between me and God. One of the reasons I asked God to take me away from my toxic relationship … Because I wanted closure with him and not with man … After he took me away I was crying I missed the sex and I wanted to be back but instead any time I’m horny I read my bible and I remember his promises for me. It really draws you away! Pastor Lynx lets hook up

    • Mr. Egghead

      April 5, 2016 at 9:00 am

      | anytime I’m horny I read my bible

      Seriously though, sex is some spiritual stuff. Many people will probably ignore his message but the amount of perversion in this world makes me scared for my unborn child and the kind of world he/she will live in.

  9. Seun

    April 4, 2016 at 11:40 pm

    That’s the lie social media likes to tell. Not everyone is jumping bed to bed. Not everyone is laying on their back. Women and Men alike. Nigerian culture likes to depict this one rule stick. Been young and successful doesn’t mean you have to follow what everyone is doing. Hopefully this will be a good discussion point for more people. No be by force to have sex before marriage And not having sex before marriage doesn’t make you hOlli er than thou…..its just a choice

    • californiabawlar

      April 5, 2016 at 12:06 am

      He has spoken as a christian…how many other christian principles do we label as choices? lies? envy? greed? speak God’s name in vain? Why single out lust/fornication?
      See, when the concept of sex and celibacy was presented to me…it wasn’t separate from any of the other principles that I had been taught earlier…there wasn’t going to be an extra hot place for me in hell if I ‘did it’…neither was there a special crown or cookie if I waited to get married.
      Now is anyone perfect? NO. At least I know I’m not. But without being hard on myself, I allow the Holy Spirit convict me of ALL sins…from lies, to anger, to lust…no part should be left out if you have or seek intimacy with God.

      Now if we’re talking choices, one may choose to abstain not because it’s a ‘ personal choice’ but because they are choosing to stay obedient to God in that (and hopefully in every) area.

      My apologies if you’re not christian though.

    • peyton

      April 5, 2016 at 12:14 pm

      Well said. Lying, envy jealousy all of it. Sex isnt the only thing that is spiritual. envy greed is. The bible calls all of them as they are. These days I try to check my attitude speech, conduct my heart and motives.

  10. beard gang

    April 4, 2016 at 11:46 pm

    Thank you very much Lynxxx for this. God bless you. Even Buddhist know the importance of sex and are very sacred about it. Please fall in love and not in lust . Lynxxxx you sure say you no wan delve enter gospel? lol

  11. californiabawlar

    April 4, 2016 at 11:49 pm

    “…but it seems he has “changed his parade” and received a spiritual awakening….” lmao!! choi… BN can use style style throw shade!!

    I can’t quite say I understand or agree with the over-spiritualization of sex and all these ‘exchange of energies’ and soul-tie ideologies that don’t have any scriptural backing that one can point to….howeves, obeying the scriptures by not fornicating and/or committing adultery as a child of God? that I’m fully on board with.

    p.s. This message is for Christians…if you’re not one, then skip on along…these principles do not apply to you. If you’re christian and you gbensh outside marriage on the reg…it’s between you and God. Abeg don’t come here and start singing orin oro/dirge about how no one can judge you biko, no one is judging you o! Bros don put disclaimer that he is not perfect!

    • Bible is the TRUTH!!!

      April 5, 2016 at 9:39 am

      Sweetheart, there’s a spiritual backing if you search for it. You might want to start from 1 Cor 6: 13-16. Bless your heart.

    • Mara

      April 5, 2016 at 10:01 am

      The Bible spiritualizes sex especially when it talks about ‘one flesh’ resulting from the sexual act… as Esther mentioned, take a look at 1st Corinthians 6:16. So there’s a Biblical basis for it.

  12. Dee dee

    April 4, 2016 at 11:49 pm

    Wonderful …?Real talk ….sex b4 marriage gives an illusion that is not love but more of lust + confusion……..The commandment are actually for us 2 stay in peace and not to be distant and be filled with heartache…

  13. Cathy taiwo

    April 5, 2016 at 12:00 am

    lynxx set up a good eg by going back to d xgf u used n dump

    • Lynxx

      April 5, 2016 at 12:08 am

      But your spirit husband said I should leave you alone….

    • tgirl

      April 5, 2016 at 12:25 am

      is this really lynx lol

  14. random

    April 5, 2016 at 12:22 am

    Impressive and profound…..first step towards progress is acknowledging the truth. Welldone Lynxx.

  15. esta

    April 5, 2016 at 12:30 am

    my own is if you are celibate and still get sexual thoughts or get horny according to the bible u are still guilty of the same sin.well I have been celibate for a year now but mehn some days I get extra horny and nothing I do makes it stop.and this brings about some sexual thoughts i am avoiding what do I do ?

    • Tgirl

      April 5, 2016 at 12:49 am

      Read your bible,pray take a walk, listen to olamide, shakiti bobo the kanji ,pick your phone and call your friend ! lol do anything that would distract you at that moment. Remember the reason you chose to be celibate and if you can’t hold it at allll at allllll say you weak watch porn ? God always understand..

    • Mr. Egghead

      April 5, 2016 at 9:15 am

      @Tgirl . . porn is a bigger wahala than promisuity. It is the worst thing to happen to mankind.
      Once you start watching porn, you will keep on going down the rabbit hole until you look back and wonder how you fell so low. Trust me I know about porn, from personal experience. It is a terrible way to join TeamNoSex.
      Once you experience the pleasure of sex, going back to celibacy is fecking difficult, particularly if the sex was good and particularly if you are now alone.
      There will be temptations but God will not allow us to be tempted more than what we can bear.

      Keep the faith

    • Grace

      April 5, 2016 at 1:02 am

      I think the first thing is to realise that you cannot do it on your own. You need the Holy Spirit to help you. You need to constantly ask for grace. Other things I think you can do:
      1. When you feel horny you can change position. If you are lying down or something please stand up and maybe walk around and pray loudly.
      2. Please be careful what you watch, read and even listen to. You should try to be very concious.
      3. Fill your hear things that are profitable and also try to be busy, Don’t stay idle……

    • Rrrrrrr

      April 5, 2016 at 1:42 am

      think of money, it always gives me perspective

    • Somtoo

      April 5, 2016 at 9:48 am

      Go to sleep! Simple.
      Nowadays when i come home after work to no fuel nor light, the enemy comes to tempt me. I pray and ask God to give His beloved (Me) sleep and i sleep like a baby till morning. Since i cant even use my phone as battery might drain or even laptop. I sleep o rather than shinning eye upandan looking for what will cure idleness or loneliness

      Just watch, there will be baby boom in Nigeria in this period. Idle minds and the rest

    • Mr. Egghead

      April 5, 2016 at 10:29 am

      Go to sleep when you are horny??

      Nne, if serious “conji” don hold you before then you will know that “”pesin wey get pepper for mouth no fit talk small small””

    • Somtoo

      April 5, 2016 at 12:10 pm

      @Egghead aka isi nkwocha i am human and Konji has held me before. That dont mean i will start climbing trees and looking for who or what to hump na. Since the body is giving signals i cant control, i ask the one who created the body to put it under control, hence the reason why i ask for sleep.
      He might put it under control now and i will be awake and then boredom will make me start pressing phone. Then one yeye ex or toaster will see me online and start saying i am making him yearn (ndi ara) and i will reply and it will enter another talk. Body is notfirewood

      So this girl goes to sleep!


      April 5, 2016 at 9:50 am

      Hello dear, “feeling horny” is definitely not a sin, it’s a natural human feeling that is supposed go be felt, what matters is what you do when you feel horny.
      The direction in which you channel your horny feeling to, you can start by filtering your minds, from things that will get you aroused. E.g music videos, movies songs etc. That will reduce the likeness of you getting horny.
      Secondly you can channel your sexual energy into doing things that make you happy e.g freative things, it’s not ok for you to stay and enjoy the thought because this can lead to sex or masturbation.
      Lastly you could say a prayer, there is nothing God cannot help us through.
      His grace is sufficient to take us through every thing hornyness included.

  16. Marlvina

    April 5, 2016 at 12:38 am

    VERY TRUE! Nice one. Even the bible says “For old things shall pass away, and behold all things shall become NEW”. May God bless you Lynxx. You will have a turn around in your life for the bold step you have taken. Apart from the spiritual aspect of sex, God Himself frowns at pre-marital sex.

  17. hhhh

    April 5, 2016 at 12:40 am

    e be like say dis guy don experience marine things.who nor go nor know.bless God

  18. virgin

    April 5, 2016 at 12:40 am

    I’m a virgin and proud

  19. bridget

    April 5, 2016 at 2:04 am

    Keep praying about it, God sees your heart and knows your struggle. It will pass eventually.

  20. Cnn

    April 5, 2016 at 2:07 am

    So cause lynxx did one post and it went biral and got noticed so now he wants to come and form “good” boy oshi!! Abegi pls he should start by claiming his girlfried touju first before we can even take him serious!!!! Celibate kor God nibl

  21. *curious*

    April 5, 2016 at 2:39 am

    “Everytime we have sex, theres an exchange of spiritual energy between both people, be careful what u invite into ur temple cos there are consequences”….ain’t that the truth.

    I’m becoming more and more attracted to igbo men like play like play.

  22. Nahum

    April 5, 2016 at 3:19 am

    They ain’t ready Lynxxx!!! They ain’t ready to hear the truth. Sleeping around opens the door to a lot of negative spiritual consequences. Now I know, in this day and age, it is not fashionable or hip to believe in God but this is the truth.

  23. Anon

    April 5, 2016 at 5:53 am

    Hahaha @ think about money! Try yoga!

  24. Anon

    April 5, 2016 at 6:09 am

    Hope Lynxx didn’t experience an evil outcome with someone to result to Christ but if he did, then good for him. He is better off a devoted Christian than a Sunday Sunday Christian. May God use him to reach out to others. I remember an incident that occurred in my neighborhood when I was growing up.
    A returnee from the states was always bringing call girls home every other night till one day he came back with one that disappeared after love making, with doors locked, he went searching but no luck until he checked under his bed and found a coffin, that’s how he turned a new leaf! The incident everyone up, even the securities then were making fun of him. Some claimed that they saw him in the car with an old woman not a girl, one of the security men claimed that when he was opening the main gate, the girl beside him gave him a stare that made him cold, there then he knew the lady must be a bad person or a ghost. Someone among the crowd asked if the man smokes, suggesting that spirits don’t like smoke but this guy is chimney which most people knew because if he gives you a handshake,your hand, clothes, hair will be smelling of Benson and hedges!

    • CelibateTillMarriage

      April 6, 2016 at 2:02 am

      🙂 🙂 🙂 is this a nollywood movie script or are you telling the truth.
      I laughed so hard

  25. Esther

    April 5, 2016 at 6:44 am

    This ideology comes from the scripture in 1st Corinthians 6:16 “Or do you not know and realize that when a man joins himself to a prostitute, he becomes one body with her? The two, it is written, shall become one flesh”. Basically saying whoever you have a sexual relationship with will be joined together

  26. Blueberry

    April 5, 2016 at 7:25 am


  27. hamisu abu

    April 5, 2016 at 9:29 am

    Big ups lynxxx.tru story.this advice i’m gonna take seriously.

  28. Mara

    April 5, 2016 at 9:59 am

    “The choice is Ours & so are the consequences.” Gbam!! Well said, Lynxxx.

  29. Uyai

    April 5, 2016 at 10:01 am

    Jeez, WHy does everything in this blog has to be “men vs women”

  30. maamek

    April 5, 2016 at 10:34 am

    nice write up Lynnx…i was introduced to a guy in my church by a friend we exchanged numbers and we got talking,,,,during one of our conversations this “church friend” whom i thought was a saint asked me to come over to spend the weekend at his place,,,i asked him why? and he said we wanted to have a serious bond with me,,,i asked him what was his reason and he said “do you know sex will keep us glued to each other”i said really?he said yes and this is nothing new so i should stop behaving like a kid….i quietly turned down his request and deleted his contact…church boy stop talking to me after oooooooo and will by-pass me anytime he sees me in church…Your relationship with God matters most,,it is not easy to stay celibate for years but i believe when you ask the Holy Spirit to help you…He surely will….

  31. Ify

    April 5, 2016 at 10:37 am

    Carry on Lynxxx! God bless you for speaking the truth. A word is enough for the wise!

  32. Tosin

    April 5, 2016 at 11:01 am

    lol, thirst trap: he just became an even more eligible bachelor. I hope it won’t cause fight o.

  33. jhennique

    April 5, 2016 at 11:27 am


  34. Geegee

    April 5, 2016 at 11:58 am

    Lynxxx Call me… *wink*

  35. dark6ix

    April 5, 2016 at 2:11 pm

    mehn dats really inspiring …..i pray God help us oo kos its nt really eazy .

  36. shakitibobo

    April 5, 2016 at 3:21 pm

    Empty head lol.

  37. melenie

    April 5, 2016 at 3:43 pm

    It takes the grace of God and strong determination to stay away from sex. I dated a guy for 7years but we never had sex. We promised God and ourselves that we wouldn’t have sex until we get married.My bae that year was acting all cool with it but I never knew he was riding another woman’s horse and the day I found out about it, my boyfriend only told me that he couldn’t make me break my vow to God hence his decision to have sex with someone else. I just broke up with him and continued with my celibate mode. Today, I’m happy with the decision I took. I still haven’t had sex but I’m scared my husband may not enjoy me because I know absolutely nothing about the different sex styles and what it means to climax(I hope that’s what it’s called). It’s not easy though because most times I’m tempted to watch porn movies to satisfy my horny self or call on my current bae to help me out. If you can stay celibate, good for you, if you can’t and you’ve had sex already; my dear let no man judge you, you can still go back to God and he’s gonna make you a new being. God bless us all.

    • Pat

      April 5, 2016 at 4:39 pm

      Read ‘The Good Girl’s Guide to Sex’ (and other similar books) before you get married. Educate yourself.

    • Pat

      April 5, 2016 at 4:40 pm

      ‘The Good Girl’s Guide to *Great* Sex’.

  38. Esther

    April 5, 2016 at 4:18 pm

    Temptation is not the sin, choosing to yield to the temptation is the sin. And stop feeding the flesh. That is where bringing the body under subjection comes in. for years, I was addicted to masturbation. I started feeling dirty and so far away from God. But the day I decided to stop trying to overcome with my own power and let God take control, everything changed. Don’t get me wrong, the urges still come. Temptations abound everywhere, from music videos to movies, to books sef. But it takes God’s grace to switch off the TV, or shut down the laptop, close the books or walk out of that room. Even jumping out of bed when the urge comes in the night. And each victory gives me strength for the next battle. Once u know what the devil uses against u, it’s easier.

  39. CelibateTillMarriage

    April 6, 2016 at 1:58 am

    Dear God
    Thank you that you made me Unique and Your grace abounds and thus why i have been celibate fo 15yrs – obeying your word. No i am not a virgin – i had 2 sexual partners and quit at 21. No i dont get tempted, No i dont masturbate and No i dont get horny. Sex is not air i breath or water i drink

    Call me wierd, call me all the names in the book, I have been called worse. All i can say is its by the grace of almighty GOd i have sustained my self this long. Sex is not air you breath. I am still single cos they guys come – i lay it down and tell them wuzzup, they stick around for a month then bounce. If i never marry – its okay – i will know i did it for God- If His son JESUS died for me, keeping my legs closed till marriage is a small sacrifice. And for those of you who say “Well i have to test drive before blah blah blah,. Good luck. Shebi you invented sex – and test driving guarantees happy ever after. You can argue all you want your confused mind is not smarter than God Period!!! – there is not and ifs and but about it. Read the bible and obey the instruction – its not rocket science. If you cant do it ask for Grace as i did,

    ps: i choose to obey God, cos i dont want the marital curse with all the many issues.
    I choose to obey God and wait, so dont judge me and i wont judge you neither.

  40. Sarah

    April 6, 2016 at 7:42 pm

    Word!!! God bless you for sharing this!


    April 8, 2016 at 6:00 am

    @CelibateTillMarriage – you said my thoughts so permit me to paraphrase, yes?

    No I don’t get tempted, No I don’t masturbate and No I don’t get horny. Sex is not air I breathe or water I drink…

    All I can say is that it’s by the grace of the Almighty God that I have sustained my self this long. I am still single cause the guys come – and I lay it down and tell them “wuzzup, they stick around for a year then bounce AND RETURN.

    If I never marry – God, please I want to experience the thrill of giving myself and letting go completely in a wholesome relationship built on the word of God.

    Ps: That’s my real name too so let’s all own it, no more hiding under pseudonyms on @BellaNaija. Say it if you are waiting, say it if you are not waiting. Just own your reality and tell it- it’s fact, go print it!

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