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Double Double! Dami and Toju are Back with Their Vlog – 2 Years Into Marriage & 2 Big Surprises



Toju & Dami | Yoruba & Itsekiri Nigerian Wedding | BellaNaija 2014 | Quakes & Pixels - Demilade Roberts Photography | 0IMG_9069 Inspirational BN Weddings couple Pastor Dami Oluwatoyinbo and Toju are back with another anniversary vlog, and this time it’s here to stay!

We previously featured the wedding of the Pastor and his stunning princess two years ago – Click here if you missed it! After a year of marriage, they shared some vlogs about their courtship and lessons from their marriage so far – Here’s Part 1, Part 2 and Part 3!

To catch up with other BellaNaija Weddings couples after a few years of marriage, click here!

And now with the blessings of God, the couple have two big surprises in store for all of you BellaNaijarians. It is amazing how the timing of all things are perfect in His eyes, it is also a gracious thing to celebrate the blessings of others as we await our own, because it gives us an unlimited supply of hope creating room for the unimaginable to come into existence.

BellaNaija Weddings are thrilled to celebrate Dami and Toju, and hope you are inspired by their positivity.

But come oh, we still don’t know what LL means 😉

~ Watch the cute couple here and find out their BIG news – Enjoy!

Diabanjo is a member of the BellaNaija Weddings Team. She obtained a Bachelors degree in English from Coventry University and is an unpublished short story writer, distinctly known for her unique metaphors with a drop of self-indulgence. She is a passionate minimalist and particularly loves to read romance genre, with a mesmerizing interest in 21st century bridals. Visit to view her write-ups & feel free to send an email to [email protected] for weddings/bridal related inquiries. Be You!


  1. Psychic

    May 5, 2016 at 11:22 am

    oh ok,saw u guys at daystar the other day,good to have you back,pleasant guys as usual and congrats on the baby news

  2. Deedara

    May 5, 2016 at 11:44 am

    I love this couple. God bless you Dami and Toju, may you continue to celebrate lots of happy moments and good news.

  3. kemi

    May 5, 2016 at 12:08 pm

    Couples now announce pregnancies in Nigeria? Interesting!

    • Toju Oluwatoyinbo

      May 5, 2016 at 3:05 pm

      Hello Kemi, I don’t know if couples ‘now announce pregnancies in Nigeria,’ but for the purpose of the Vlog and people who’d been watching/following, we thought it’d be nice to keep people updated about certain things happening with us. We thought this was nice to share.

    • NaijaPikin

      May 5, 2016 at 4:51 pm

      And what is wrong with saying you are pregnant? Is pregnancy a disease? a shameful act? a taboo?

    • Chioma

      May 5, 2016 at 10:46 pm

      Here comes the unnecessary secretive, hiding Nigerians love to live in. I’m not saying dress nude to show baby bump or give every details of your life but What’s wrong with a woman sharing good news of, I’m pregnant”? So, the witches won’t come and steal the baby or what. It’s so annoying to see the fear and bondage nigerian women live in. If you are a Christian, why give the devil, enemies so much power over your life by living in constant fear. When I was pregnant, my mother in law, my family advised me not to share the news for whatever reason.
      I told them, look I’m going to share the news, it’s me declaring God’s faithfulness and I’m happy to start this new journey of my life. Why hide my happiness and gratitude. They later came on board. I gave birth to a healthy baby.

  4. Rose

    May 5, 2016 at 12:34 pm

    Awww….you guys are sooo cheesy and cute…best part is I Love that combo…officially addicted… You both appear to be genuinely inlove and in sync with one another… Am single and trusting God to do it for me…seeing fellow Christian couples is definitely motivating to hang in there and trust in the Lord….am officially glued….congrats on ur baby… Am going to guess boy…that’s because toju looks super gorgeous and they say when ur having a boy u have a glow to u….

    • Toju Oluwatoyinbo

      May 5, 2016 at 3:01 pm

      Llloolll! Tell me about cheesy. I know ooo, but it’s part of the love sometimes. Thanks for your generous and encouraging comments. Trust God to do even more for you. Look forward to hearing the good news.

      Hhhmmm, I’ve heard the same about baby boys. We’ll just have to wait and see. Stick around.

  5. pinkie

    May 5, 2016 at 12:40 pm

    *yawns* not as interesting as previous. congrats Toju and Dami. God bless you always

    • Toju Oluwatoyinbo

      May 5, 2016 at 2:49 pm

      Thanks a lot Pinkie. God bless you too.

  6. Noms

    May 5, 2016 at 12:47 pm

    Pastor Dami and his lovely wife. Good to know this will be on a regular(vlog).
    Congrats on your good news and expect more to come.

  7. Celia

    May 5, 2016 at 12:50 pm

    Pastor Dami,how far with HOTR? This comes as a huge surprise to me.
    All the best and congrats on your latest addition coming soon.

  8. A-nony

    May 5, 2016 at 12:57 pm

    Congratulations Dami and Toju. It’s pretty obvious you are expecting though. Lol.
    Good to have you back in Nigeria. Looking forward to more of your seminars and conferences, Dami.

    • Toju Oluwatoyinbo

      May 5, 2016 at 2:47 pm

      Thanks a lot A-nony. Lol, my top and the camera did not help at all. Lol, it’s all good though. Hope to see you around somewhere, sometime.

    • Dami Oluwatoyinbo

      May 6, 2016 at 1:04 pm

      Great to be back too. You’d definitely be able to attend more of our seminars and conferences. We had a fantastic time at #UPGRADE and #UPWORD last weekend. Stay tuned for more.

  9. kay

    May 5, 2016 at 1:26 pm

    Shes cute. I like.

    • Toju Oluwatoyinbo

      May 5, 2016 at 2:45 pm

      Thanks a lot Kay.

  10. "changing moniker"

    May 5, 2016 at 1:47 pm

    my internet has refused to play videos…please what are the two surprises?
    i knopw one of them is a baby (pregnancy)…. the other has me confused…has Pst Dami left HOTR for Daystar?
    i got these from people’s comments….pls reply me

  11. ATL's finest

    May 5, 2016 at 2:19 pm

    Whao Congrats to them. I recall watching their wedding video on YouTube . Before they announced it, I could tell she was pregos ;).. Her boobs are bigger of course, she got a lil’ bit darker & of course she added lil weight. Congrats to all the mommies & theie Vlogs.

  12. Icey

    May 5, 2016 at 3:34 pm

    It’s good to have you “back back” plus the “addition to the family”. We are counting on you to continue the vlogs o as we have very very few sources of inspiration nowadays, people like you still give us hope. Peace and love.

  13. Morolake

    May 5, 2016 at 3:41 pm

    Awww God bless you both. Enjoyed watching.

    I think you are having a girl… PINK

  14. Jules

    May 5, 2016 at 4:10 pm

    Am happy you are back. Have been looking forward to these all this while. The shows that marriage still work….

  15. Gladys

    May 5, 2016 at 4:17 pm

    I hope you guys are spiritually on point,because all these announcements you are making are really not needed. Remember this is Naija you have to apply wisdom when announcing some things. The love still dey shack una abi…. just take it easy and be prayerful. Announce less and pray more. The marriage institution has come under heavy attack so apply wisdom. LEARN FROM OLDER COUPLES. THIS IS NOT UK!!!!!!

    • A-nony

      May 5, 2016 at 7:12 pm

      Ese. Thank you. Eku ife.

    • Toju Oluwatoyinbo

      May 5, 2016 at 10:25 pm

      Hello Gladys, thanks for taking time and data out to watch the video or at least look through BN.

      Thanks for ‘looking out.’ I believe I get your angle. Nevertheless, my husband and I believe that whatever part of the world we are in, God’s got us, so except in explicit situations, we don’t need to ‘cover something that is already obvious anyway.’ We’ve built relationships through this Vlog and because of the nature of it over time, sharing the good news wasn’t a bad idea.

      We already mentioned the Vlog won’t be all about us, we’ll have other and older couples come in from time to time. Our ‘learning from older couples’ continues.

      Thanks again.

  16. Oma N.

    May 5, 2016 at 5:13 pm

    Its a girl!! Toju looks really pretty.
    There is this misconception that women look prettier when they are giving birth to girls and the reverse is the case when its a boy child.

    • Just my 1 Cents

      May 5, 2016 at 6:24 pm

      LOL never heard of that oooo

    • Toju Oluwatoyinbo

      May 5, 2016 at 10:16 pm

      Thank you so much Oma. I’ve heard all sorts of stories myself…I’m just glad I’m having a good time being pregnant. Trusting God that whether I’m having a boy or girl, it’ll be the same story. A big AMEN to that. Thanks again.

  17. olajumoke

    May 5, 2016 at 5:15 pm

    Hi pastor dami, you interjected your wife a lot…let her talk… Congrats on the biggest achievement!

    • A-nony

      May 5, 2016 at 7:14 pm

      lol. Yeah i noticed that too. Probably because he has a strong personality. But he does need to stop interjecting.

  18. olajumoke

    May 5, 2016 at 5:18 pm

    And i think its PINK…

  19. Beckie

    May 5, 2016 at 5:57 pm

    I LOVE u guys!
    Wishing u a safe delivery. God bless ur home!
    Much love 4rm calabar.

  20. Just my 1 Cents

    May 5, 2016 at 6:20 pm

    I’m very happy for you, and I pray that God continues to strengthen your marriage!

    But a word of caution, be VERY careful what you post out here on social media and on YouTube. There are devils in human flesh out there. After all the drama that has happened this year alone in Nigeria, one has to be very cautious as to what one shares on social media.

  21. oony

    May 5, 2016 at 7:13 pm

    Love u guys,good to see young christain couples. By the way it’s only in Nigeria that pregnancy is hidden,after birth they start sharing baby bump pics,smh. I hope it’s twins ?

  22. Olusola

    May 5, 2016 at 9:42 pm

    Congratulations!!!its a boy!

  23. D

    May 5, 2016 at 9:48 pm

    I randomly stumbled on this during my midnight ‘study’ session LOL!
    TVO, my pesin, you know I love you

    Okay so when my baby BOY comes along, shey you’ll give me whats due!! Na me don guess correct since since

    Love the vlog. You both are a breath of fresh air.


  24. Toju Oluwatoyinbo

    May 5, 2016 at 10:13 pm

    Thank you for looking out. We appreciate it.

  25. Toju Oluwatoyinbo

    May 5, 2016 at 10:27 pm

    Oh by the way, YES, the love is still shacking us and it will be on for a very very long time. *wink*

  26. Tolulope

    May 5, 2016 at 11:32 pm

    Pink most definitely.
    A big congratulations!
    You guys are such a delight to watch and listen to.
    Keep the videos/vlog coming. I’ll sure be watching!

  27. Toju Oluwatoyinbo

    May 6, 2016 at 12:18 am

    Lllooll! Dem of Life! Covenant sister! Number 1 aunty. Thanks a lot for the love, prayers and support over the years. You’re my sister.

    You’ll sha have to wait like everyone else for the ‘gender revelation.’ *smiles* See you soon love

  28. Curious

    May 6, 2016 at 8:00 am

    Since y’all are big on sharing personal stuff, why did you leave HOTR after ‘PP sent you to the UK branch and everything he did for you (Dami)??

    • Toju Oluwatoyinbo

      May 6, 2016 at 9:44 am

      Good morning Curious, thank you for watching the video or at least checking a bit of it all out. We appreciate the time taken. We’re not big on sharing personal stuff, just what we think is appropriate, necessary or helpful. We prayerfully and wisely consider.

      Pastor Dami actually has a very exhaustive post on his Facebook page about our return to Nigeria and God’s plans. Before you maybe get a chance to speak with him, that could help answer some or most of your questions.

      Again, thanks for watching.

  29. Tammy Rhys

    May 6, 2016 at 8:12 am

    Awwww Congratulaions Pastor and Mrs Dami Oluwatoyinbo!!! This such great news and loving the Vlog. May God continue to increase your territory and make provision to accommodate your increase. Love you guys?

    • Toju Oluwatoyinbo

      May 6, 2016 at 9:45 am

      Taammmyyy! I totally need to get in touch with you. I will. Forgive me. Thank you ssoo much for the constant love and support. It means a great deal to us. We love you too. Amen to your prayers!!!

  30. Gladys

    May 6, 2016 at 9:57 am

    Hello Toju,sure” God”s got” every believer but you guys should be smarter than to announce some very sensitive things to faceless people in this part of the world.

    You dont put your ” vital cards” on the table and when the devil comes stealing, you blame him?. Like i said the marriage institution is under heavy attack, you guys are still very young in marriage but should be smarter, if you truly have the spirit of God.

    Since you knew it was obvious wisdom requires that you do not mention. JUST BE WISE .

  31. Sholzie

    May 6, 2016 at 10:27 am

    OMG!!! Congratulations darling!
    Toju I’m so happy for you and your husband.
    You look beautiful as usual.

    • Toju Oluwatoyinbo

      May 6, 2016 at 11:30 am

      Ttthhaannkkss! I’m happy to hear. *blushes* Hope you are doing well.

  32. Dami Oluwatoyinbo

    May 6, 2016 at 1:14 pm

    We hear your heart and understand some of your concerns. Thankfully, we are both spiritually sound as we are increasing daily in the knowledge of God. As you get to know us better, you will find out that prayer is a critical part of all we do and our decisions are birthed from it. More importantly, as the Bible says, we believe “perfect love casts out all fear” regardless of location or age. And there have been many who have “fallen prey” to the things you are concerned about even without “making any announcements.” As per learning from other couples, we are all for that and we are constantly learning from those generous enough to share their own experiences. Thanks for your observations and caution though

    Meanwhile, I recommend you mind your language and let your words be seasoned with salt always as Apostle Paul kindly admonishes.. When you use expressions like “you guys should be smarter IF you really have the Spirit of God.”, it makes me wonder if you are the ” God appointed inspector of other people’s spirits” or a just a self-appointed monitor.” Or “Soul- supervisor”

    Whichever one it is. We stand strong in faith and love and if you can, keep us in your prayers.

    God bless you Gladys!

  33. Omolara

    May 6, 2016 at 3:38 pm

    I admire you both a lot.. A combination of God’s blessings in marriage.
    May your union get better and sweeter in Jesus mighty name, and congratulations on the good news.

  34. Lola

    May 6, 2016 at 5:44 pm

    Hm. To be honest, I cringed when I heard the ”preggy news” but pictures don’t lie… From my point of view, if the news was announced or not, the baby will come after nine months anyway! So why did I cringe? I think its good ol’ culture mentality….na God go help us. I think Damilola and Toju are simply amazing people. Yeah, young couple , yet mature! I am glad meeting them in this lifetime!xxx

  35. Remi

    May 6, 2016 at 6:53 pm

    Hey Gladys, I do understand that you mean well as you are clearly older and have “seen life” But you sound extremely judge-y and controlling almost. The devils does come to steal whether or not we announce or not but two will chase what? 10,000 right? Of course they have considered everything before they made the announcement. Have any idea what they have been through in their marriage whether young or not? You make it seem as if marriage is hell on earth and they are still in the phase of heaven and you can’t wait for them to experience hell…Again i understand your premise of caution and wisdom but I almost heard you screaming judgment at them and that was so unsettling and rather brash of you. Dami and Toju i do think you know better in what you let us know. w only pray for you as a couple that it gets better. In hell and high waters may God always be your standard. Safe delivery.

  36. Sisi R

    May 7, 2016 at 12:23 am

    Hi Toju, I’ve always wondered where you’re originally from as you tied george on your wedding day. Curious, due to the fact that you have a yoruba name (I assume) but your family was decked out in george. I love cultures; especially Nigerian cultures… Please share if you don’t mind.

    • Sisi R

      May 7, 2016 at 12:24 am

      Congrats also!!

  37. Eyitemi

    May 7, 2016 at 3:05 am

    She’s itsekiri – a tribe in Delta State Nigeria. “Toju” is an itsekiri name.

    • Sisi R

      May 9, 2016 at 5:33 am

      Oh wow, thank you! I have a friend named Toju. I’ve been thinking all these while that he is yoruba lol. I’m familiar with Itsekiri; I am Bayelsan.

  38. Toju Oluwatoyinbo

    May 9, 2016 at 3:14 pm

    Hello Sisi R! Hope you are well. Eyitemi is correct, I am from Delta state, Warri. I am Itsekiri. Thanks Eyitemi.

  39. dami

    May 11, 2016 at 2:30 pm

    I love toju and dami and I think they are a great inspiration to younger folks out there.

  40. Agape

    May 13, 2016 at 11:16 pm

    You guys are so awesome!!! Congratulations and I am going with pink. ?

  41. Av

    May 17, 2016 at 12:19 pm

    “God got us”. I know right. I tap into your blessing of a pretty pregnancy. I’d say it’s PINK.

  42. Just my thot

    October 27, 2016 at 3:21 pm

    About announcing pregnancy, I remember having those concerns at the time I was carrying my princess and a lot of people reminding me of the need to be discreet about a rather obviously big stomach. When I put up my pre-baby shoots, someone actually asked me to take it down. Then the Spirit of God witnessed to me: ‘What is the motive for hiding your pregnancy? Is it fear or caution?’ ‘you go to work, you go to the market, you go shopping, you have been to the movies and thousands of people who could have harmed you have seen you yet you have remained unharmed. So what is your real motive?’

    My two-kobo – A child is a gift and every person who is expecting a child needs to deal decisively with fear. You put up your proposal pictures, pre-wedding pictures and more pictures right up to the moment they ask you to turn off your phone in church for the wedding ceremony but you have no fear that your day will be stolen. Please enjoy your pregnancy and let grace pull you through.

    Congrats again to the lovely couple. E pe fun ara yin o….

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