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“I love both men. They have different strengths” – Says Zimbabwean Woman with 2 Husbands

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Jack Chako and her husbands, Michael Hwita (L) and Liford Chimoto (R)

Jack Chako and her husbands, Michael Hwita (L) and Liford Chimoto (R)

In Zimbabwe, a woman, Jack Chako, who sleeps and have sex with two husbands in the same room and same house is trending on the internet.

Her story  is not a script for a Nollywood film, but reality, according to a report by Zimbabwe Daily, which said polyandry is gaining acceptance  in the country.

There is no statistical basis for it, the newspaper reported as there are more women in Zimbabwe than men, 52 to 48 per cent.

Here is an excerpt from the report:

For more than a decade, Jack Chako (38) of Bolon Farm in Raffingora has been living happily with her two husbands, Michael Hwita and Liford Chimoto, with whom she shares one bed.

Chako is the head of the family and always eats from the same plate with her two husbands, and during meals, she picks up meat first as the head, followed by the senior husband Chimoto then the junior husband Hwita, in that chronological order.

“We are a happy family, I live with my two husbands and we love one another. My two husbands are best friends and they are always together,” boasted Chako.

She says the two men have different roles and between the two is a senior husband and his junior. And according to her, Chimoto is the elder husband hence the senior while Hwita is the junior.

Chako brazenly claims that she “married” the second husband Hwita because Chimoto “is elderly and increasingly becoming weak in bed”.

“I love both men. They have different strengths. Chimoto fetches a lot of firewood and cleans up the house well but he is weak in bed and weak when it comes to fending for the family. The reason why I married a second husband is that Chimoto was starving me sexually.

“Hwita is also technically minded. He repairs a lot of broken goods, including cell phones and cobbles shoes too, making him bring some cash home. His biggest strength is he is excellent and strong in bed.”

“To be honest, in terms of conjugal rights I favour Hwita. He gets me there. I only do it with Chimoto as a token. At times, I feel pity for Chimoto and give him token conjugal rights and he appreciates that. The rule is no one gets out of the room, because he is not on duty. Whoever is not on duty, just watches us at it,” narrated Chako.

She maintains that she was in charge and his two husbands are now used to sleeping side by side in one bed.

“They don’t mind and they both appreciate each other for the different roles each play to the family,” she said

Chako — a mother of five, three children from a previous marriage and two from this polyandrous affair — says all the two children she has in this set up are from Hwita.

She claims she used some concoction to pacify his two men.

“It is not a secret that I used a concoction to cow them down. I also sell this concoction to other women to cow down their errant husbands and make them compliant.

“None of my two husbands wishes to leave me. Initially I only had Chimoto but I ran away from him and went to my parents’ home because he was not satisfying me sexually and I was tired of stealing sex from neighbouring boys and men. But he followed and pleaded until my parents ordered me to take him back.

I then gave him a condition that I should get another man to help him in bed and he agreed. This is how I got the second one.

Since then, we live happily and enjoy our life, although we know that the generality of people around us do not like it,” says Chako.

Both Hwita and Chimoto said they don’t have problems taking Chako says their joint wife.

“I see no problem. She loves both of us and we understand our situation. I respect Chimoto as the elder husband because I found him here. I know my failings and I appreciate the decision which was taken, we have various duties and life goes on,” Chimoto said.

But Chako is not the only woman in polyandry. In sprawling Epworth, on the outskirts of Harare, is one such super woman, Ellen Svova, who cohabits with two husbands, Kefas Takawira, 40 and Tambudziko Svova, 60.

The polyandry family has set tongues wagging in the neighbourhood but unlike in Chako’s situation, Elen claims she did not use concoction to cow her two husbands. Theirs is a bizarre love situation.

“I don’t use concoction. My first husband Svova is ageing so he was no longer satisfying me in bed so he gave me the green light to have a second husband,” she claims.

Photo Credit: Zimbabwe Daily

70 Comments

  1. Mr. Egghead

    December 4, 2016 at 9:02 pm

    “At times, I feel pity for Chimoto and give him token conjugal rights and he appreciates that.”
    Pity sex? What kind of abomination is going on? This kind of cuckoldry can’t be removed with ordinary prayers, you need to add fasting

    “. . .I was tired of stealing sex from neighbouring boys and men.”
    ? ? ?

    • A Real Nigerian

      December 4, 2016 at 9:38 pm

      +1 for “cuckoldry”

    • Anne

      December 4, 2016 at 9:53 pm

      Pathetic. God made them to fulfill destiny. A woman has tied them down. Extremely Pathetic. Be sober and vigilant because your adversary prowess around seeking whom to devour.

    • FasholasLover

      December 5, 2016 at 12:53 am

      Why can’t I just stop laughing????
      Both men are happy……
      No one leaves the room if they are NOT ON DUTY…

    • Tosin

      December 5, 2016 at 4:34 pm

  2. wale

    December 4, 2016 at 9:06 pm

    Woman, wants to do wrong and don’t want to be corrected….woman will want a husband for every need, that is if we men allow them…as for these two idiot who call themselves senior husband…shame on them

  3. m

    December 4, 2016 at 9:33 pm

    ei lol

  4. Zenabou

    December 4, 2016 at 9:35 pm

    Oya!!! I am moving to Zinbabwe.

  5. Zenabou

    December 4, 2016 at 9:35 pm

    Zimbabwe

  6. Darius

    December 4, 2016 at 9:40 pm

    I never knew women care so much about sex. This is scary mehn! The one thing they seem to care about is sex. Put Nigerian men and Zimbabwean women in one country, what you have is: Sodom and Gomorrah

    • Nahum

      December 5, 2016 at 1:00 am

      Dey there o! Be deceiving yourself that women don’t like sex. Now you know

  7. Kemi

    December 4, 2016 at 9:45 pm

    Im moving to Zimbabwe….

  8. Bowl

    December 4, 2016 at 9:48 pm

    Nawa o!

  9. Mj

    December 4, 2016 at 9:49 pm

    Kikikikikiki Mrs wat will b called #badass

  10. Iyke

    December 4, 2016 at 9:56 pm

    If polygamy is acceptable,why not polyandry?This is feminism in reverse…Her reasons are valid….fair play to her.

    • ghost

      December 4, 2016 at 11:46 pm

      True?

  11. Oge.A

    December 4, 2016 at 10:04 pm

    I’m a voracious reader and believe me when I say there is nothing I haven’t read about but this story is got to be one of the weirdest and most twisted. Usually this sort of thing – cuckoldry, polyandry,fem-dom, excluding the voodoo part – is associated with white people. The most remarkable thing about this is that it’s real and happening in Africa where supposedly puritanism reigns supreme. #outrageous

    • Woman

      December 5, 2016 at 10:30 am

      English is also associated with white people but look at us using it to communicate, who’s complaining? No one. This story isn’t weird, just switch the gender roles, do you find yourself more comfortable with the narrative now? Exactly. Free yourself from the shackles of patriarchy. If it’s weird seeing women do this to men, you should find it weird when men do this to women. But you don’t.

  12. Dr. N

    December 4, 2016 at 10:15 pm

    I laughed so much I started crying
    “They both know their duties…whoever is not on duty must watch”
    Haba!

    • Marlvina

      December 5, 2016 at 12:22 am

      Lol. As in, Isn’t that live porn? Smh! Goodluck watching o!

  13. Spunky

    December 4, 2016 at 10:28 pm

    “Boss bitch”.I like her already…lol.

  14. UNCLE GWE GWE GWE

    December 4, 2016 at 10:39 pm

    Women should be given power to marry multiple partners til. They are human #Feminism #womanpower #queening

  15. UNCLE GWE GWE GWE

    December 4, 2016 at 10:40 pm

    *too

  16. truthie

    December 4, 2016 at 10:47 pm

    Waste of magic. You have all this power and you use it on these men?
    When Will Smith and Brad Pitt still alive?
    Come on girl, what you doing?

    • Indeed

      December 5, 2016 at 5:07 am

      Not every one thinks Will and Brad are #goals. Foggerit!

  17. Calvin

    December 4, 2016 at 11:21 pm

    Ha. Her thing must be strong

  18. Loki

    December 4, 2016 at 11:30 pm

    Well….as long as they’re both cool with it I guess…
    Nothing specifically odd here. The notion that women are pure and servile and want to be with one man all their life in a subservient position, is generally a result of socialization. We’re basically raised to think that way; not cos we’re wired NOT to think of what Dwayne Johnson looks like naked and what it would be like to keep him as a willing slave… Perverted behaviour isnt a sole male preserve….

  19. vikky

    December 4, 2016 at 11:40 pm

    A serious case of what is good for the goose is good for the ganda.. I’am awaiting a documentary regarding the rise of polyandry in some areas of Africa in the near future… lol This story reminds me of the U.K comedy show on you tube by little mrs Jocelyn counseling (mwokpopopo), anyone remember? she had two husbands. One was good in bed, while the other was not.

  20. the real ibinabo

    December 5, 2016 at 12:09 am

    My major problem with this is that it is not consensual, she claims to have used juju aka African magic on these men. She should be arrested for even admitting such. As for these men, don’t they have family members? I can’t imagine my brother in this sort of arrangement and I will just fold my hands and watch. I will match him straight to MFM for some deliverance. She will know that power pass power, lol

    • Corolla

      December 5, 2016 at 2:09 pm

      Exactly! She should be arrested and charged!

  21. Fifi

    December 5, 2016 at 12:18 am

    Chako for president ?????? for all we know Grace Mugabe may have two husbands sef

  22. Ello Bae

    December 5, 2016 at 12:26 am

    I almost fell out of my chair reading this. If my eyes could reach my forehead, they would have…WTH?!! “He gets me there” LMAO!

    • Californiabawlar

      December 5, 2016 at 2:55 am

      ? i was like, where?

      Dirty people, all of them.

  23. Anon

    December 5, 2016 at 12:50 am

    There’s no way this story hasn’t been embellished, though it does make for hilarious reading.

  24. John

    December 5, 2016 at 6:49 am

    so a woman admits she uses a form of juju to trap two men and you hypocritical woman are here calling her a strong woman and women empowerment and Go girl..no one seriously condemned her …one idiot evne declare her for president.. every woman here is happy for her and wishes they were in her shoes..okay oo ..all your sons and brothers will fall victim to this kind of “strong” woman ..they will all watch as thier strong feminist wives sleeps with another man and will do nothing about it..and you will all say go girl

    • Hotdoctor

      December 5, 2016 at 7:42 am

      Calm down John. This Zimbabwean woman simply admitted to doing something African men have done openly and shamelessly for generations. Yes, men may not use juju to tie down their multiple women, but they use wealth, power and influnce. How many times do men come out to tell us that they are wired to cheat, polygamy is natural, men were created to have sex with multiple women and similar nonsense that men have convinced themselves is the truth?
      But a woman comes out and declares the same thing and you’re all about to have seizures?? Calm down!

    • LemmeRant

      December 5, 2016 at 10:29 am

      I never insult people on BN, but you ma’am are one dumb bimbo.

      If men use wealth to tie you down, it is because you’re a gold digger.
      If men use power or influence to tie you down. It’s because you’re power hungry and have self esteem issues. since you have to be with a powerful/influential person to feel relevant.

      You see why I called you a dumb bimbo

    • Loki

      December 5, 2016 at 10:23 am

      Hi John, will you like to join my harem? I have an opening (pun intended)

    • Woman

      December 5, 2016 at 10:33 am

      Sorry oh John. It’s like this thing is paining you, sorry.

    • Ima

      December 5, 2016 at 11:00 am

      who is calling her A STRONG WOMAN? show me which women here called her a strong woman. its just in your demented mind. off with you! ignorant feminist hater

  25. John

    December 5, 2016 at 9:33 am

    Then don’t complain or criticise when men do as they pleases or treat women like shit bcos they deserve it bcos if given the chance ,women will do it too …that is my point and the bottom line. .I don’t give a damn if the woman marries 10 husband with juju.. .just dont complain when men do it or start behaving like women are the victim bcos this men are the victims..just take it as it is bcos what is good for the goose is also good for the gander or whatever the hell that means..to me ..this justifies everything men does to women

  26. John

    December 5, 2016 at 9:33 am

    Then don’t complain or criticise when men do as they pleases or treat women like s**** bcos they deserve it bcos if given the chance ,women will do it too …that is my point and the bottom line. .I don’t give a damn if the woman marries 10 husband with juju.. .just dont complain when men do it or start behaving like the victim bcos this men are the victims..just take it as it is bcos what is good for the goose is also good for the gander or whatever the hell that means..to me ..this justifies everything men does to women

    • Woman

      December 5, 2016 at 10:38 am

      Lmao this thing is seriously paining you oh. Calm down and stop crying. Tell me which part is making you angry. The fact that she’s doing the exact same thing men do in the name of polygamy? the fact that people aren’t bashing her like you expected? that women are realising men are scum? Or that men are scum? What hurt you this morning?

    • Loki

      December 5, 2016 at 1:08 pm

      John, be quiet and for once apply a modicum of intelligence in your rants. Nobody has said ALL men hate women and do nothing to help them. That’s just a few-like you. A lot of powerful women are the way they are because of the influence of their fathers and other male and female role models. But you cannot deny the fact that a lot of men cover up and defend men in their negative treatment of women…abi have ever seen a guy admonish his friend for cheating on his wife? I know more men than women. The bro code is a very real and tangible thing.
      I dont believe in male vs female battles. There are only two genders. Everyone should just treat each other with fairness. Shikena.

    • Ngobeke

      December 5, 2016 at 3:24 pm

      Chai!! Biko when did Linda’s people start commenting on BN?

  27. LemmeRant

    December 5, 2016 at 10:24 am

    @HotDoctor
    That is an appalling justification. What BS are you yarning?

    Immediately this article was published, I was ready to unleash venom on the comment section, not because of the polyandry or cuckoldry, but because of the juju part. But then a part of me said wait. See how the BN women would react to this article. See whose side they’d be on.
    Well once again I’m not

    You people have just justified what @Paul Adeyemo and @John (people you like to label as misogynists) have been saying: “If women are given the same opportunity just as the men, they’ll do far worse”

    So let me understand: You will blame Maje that did not jazz anybody, You blame Ubi/Late Mrs. Shonde’s husband for violence against women. but this one gets a pass (cause she’s a woman), Bobrisky gets a pass (cause you like him).

    You see this your irrational and biased way of thinking is the reason I find it difficult to take y’all seriously. You women are not like this when it comes to politics, business or science but anything on relationships or anything that has to do with men: Its like you throw objectivity and rationale out the window. and go full throttle with sentiments.

    Now imagine if this was a 30-something yr old male notherner saying all these and jazzing women upandan, would you be as relaxed about the issue?

    On the flip side: Who knows, maybe this is what women standing up for other women means: Never mind the voodoo, never mind the manipulation. As long as its a woman I support her.

    • Hotdoctor

      December 5, 2016 at 10:53 am

      You see why I said you are all having seizures? Funny how visceral the reaction to this woman’s lifestyle choice is from empty minded and chauvinistic simpletons like yourself. I will not attempt to re-justify or explain what I’ve written, because the calibre of men who come on bella naija to air their ill-informed views are not worth debating with. Your perspective is narrow and your rebuttal to my comment suggests that you’re probably still in the bloom of youth. Of course you have a smart phone so you can anonymously disagree with opinions that don’t massage your non-existent ego.
      Monumental asshole.

    • Loki

      December 5, 2016 at 10:56 am

      @Lemmerant, I think you’re going a bit too far, particularly with the insults.
      Yes, many women on the internet appear to have a bias when it comes to women issues in which case they takes sides with the woman regardless of what she has done. However, you should be honest to admit that women have always been the greatest critics of other women. This is only beginning to change because history has always shown that men never take a woman’s side against another man. Regardless of what he has done. Bros before h*es and all that crap. The way you see this blind loyalty of women to women’s causes as ridiculous and sickening is what women have had to deal with for a long time when they hear “he’s a man; that’s how men are”. That is Hotdoctor’s point.
      Regardless, do not generalise. More women bashed Toke Makinwa than they insulted Maje. Women almost killed Anita Solomon. Women don’t like each other very much. Evolutionary competition and all that.
      For this post, most of the women commenting basically see it more as comic relief than a serious politically charged gender issue. Feminism will not advance because three people somewhere in Zimbabwe have an unusual set up.

    • john

      December 5, 2016 at 12:37 pm

      nonsense..in fact men disagree with one another all the time..if all men are on the same page ..then women will never received their so called freedom or the right to vote etc. .men fought for women rights than women themselves. .even white men disagree with one another ..that is why slavery was abolished or do you really think black americans would have done anything different rather than protest…men disagree with one another more than women ..the difference is that we do it logically and sensibly
      ..all the divorce laws and child support were set up by men themselves even to thier own detriment or do you think women had a say in that as well. .women has no power in this planet called earth ..the so called power u have were handed to you by MEN..i f a man rapes you ..it will be another men that will arrest the man not women ..if a woman needs help ..who do they call …MEN..everything thing in your house including you cheap phones and data you use to form strong feminist was manufactured and discovered by men even your bRAs..so dont even go that side..women runs the world only in your dreams and music ..it is like an olympic medal for the disabled where everbody smiles and congratulates them and called them strong for paticipating but no one wants to be them if given the chance

    • Ima

      December 5, 2016 at 11:09 am

      i really hate when you guys generalize one person’s response and call it “BN Women” its not cool. I’m a woman and i’d never hold anybody (male or female) against their will. Stop always making a mockery of feminism. Alot of women have been suffering for way too long because men see us as inferior beings. Feminism is helping many find themselves. so stop making feminism a joke! no real feminist is trying to undermine the role of men in family but outside family, every one is the same – male or female.

    • Loki

      December 5, 2016 at 11:30 am

      I like you Ima so I’m going to ask you not to waste your time. Feminism will always be mocked because many people (including women) don’t understand what it is. Some men will mock it because they believe that women’s empowerment diminishes their strength as men, and some women will mock it because they need to pander to the partriarchy, or their religion /upbringing has taught them there is no such thing as gender equality.
      Just try to manage your own space with some fairness and wisdom.

    • Loki

      December 5, 2016 at 1:50 pm

      @ John, be quiet and for once apply a modicum of intelligence in your rants. Nobody has said ALL men hate women and do not help them or see them succeed-that’s just you. Most powerful women today are the way they are because of the positive influence and aid of both the men and women in their lives. However, you cannot deny that most men cover up for and defend men when it comes to their negative treatment of women. Abi have you ever seen a man admonish his friend for cheating on and disrespecting his wife? No they laugh and give each other high fives. I know more men than women- the bro code is a very real and tangible thing.
      Unlike you, I do not believe in male vs female battles. There are only two true genders on the earth- it’s not like there is a third one to go to for back up. Everyone should just treat everyone else with fairness, regardless of the shape of their genitals. That’s all.

    • Ngbabe

      December 5, 2016 at 9:08 pm

      I know a lot of men who scold their fellow men when they maltreat women. After all Donald Trump’s VP and his other suppoters walked out on him during campaign after his women groping scandal came up. So don’t generalize.

    • Whocares

      December 5, 2016 at 9:26 pm

      The women who would do the same (concoction ie) and this woman are a part of the problem also and that is acknowledged. Feminism is a fight against sexism and an inherent patriarchal society. Anyone can be sexist, both female and male. When a woman takes on the sexist actions that attempt to subjugate someone, she is also playing into and enabling continuous sexism in the society and that is wrong. She eats meat first, the hierarchy etc she has bought into the idea of what makes the head of the household and is enacting that role. In as much as I applaud this woman for living her life as she sees fit, I will condemn how she has gone about it (le concoction) and the current domestic arrangement leaves much to be desired also for the reasons stated above. the other woman however who has achieved hers willingly I cannot condemn.

  28. Tolu

    December 5, 2016 at 10:30 am

    Guess this is the true definition of feminism those Bella naija singers have been trying to define…
    I think you should all implement this o so that we can rest

    • Whocares

      December 5, 2016 at 9:17 pm

      Surely you cannot be this ignorant?

  29. #MadeInNaija

    December 5, 2016 at 10:43 am

    Just negodu the way Jack Chan (sorry Chako) is playing ‘awantilo’ with these two men…. lol. Welcome to sex and voodoo. Dishing out ‘token sex’ to Chimoko and receiving ‘quality sex’ from Hwita like providing&receiving help on peer-to-peer donation set-up. I can’t help but ROTFL…..

  30. Oluwadunsin

    December 5, 2016 at 10:48 am

    I just feel pity while reading this , don’t even know why. This is all shades of wrong, what’s she playing at? Wat does she stand to gain? How can you enjoy living with people knowing fully well that they’re being tied down by your evil powers? This is a wretched way to live. What a ‘happy’ home. sigh

  31. Oluwadunsin

    December 5, 2016 at 10:49 am

    felt*

  32. Oluwadunsin

    December 5, 2016 at 10:50 am

    felt* what*

  33. Loki

    December 5, 2016 at 11:28 am

    I like you Ima so I’m going to ask you not to waste your time. Feminism will always be mocked because many people (including women) don’t understand what it is. Some men will mock it because they believe that women’s empowerment diminishes their strength as men, and some women will mock it because they need to pander to the partriarchy, or their religion /upbringing has taught them there is no such thing as gender equality.
    Just try to manage your own space with some fairness and wisdom.

    • Ima

      December 5, 2016 at 11:37 am

      okay. I’ve heard, I guess I’ll just keep fighting my own silent battles as a woman.

  34. adebimpe

    December 5, 2016 at 3:44 pm

    jesus christ oooooh

  35. LOL

    December 5, 2016 at 4:22 pm

    This is people realize the notion women dont like sex is soo wrong. there are 2 stories here:
    Story 1: whether thru jaz or not, the lady was not sexually satisfied. that was the real issue.
    Story 2: still same sexual satisfaction hehehehehhehe

    I think our African men need to wax the game. if your woman hates sex, check yourself biko. Learn what and how to turn your woman on and GET OFF THE PORN ehhehehhehehehe

    i no dey oooo

    • LOL

      December 5, 2016 at 4:24 pm

      This is when people realize the notion women dont like sex is soo wrong. there are 2 stories here:
      Story 1: whether thru jaz or not, the lady was not sexually satisfied. that was the real issue.
      Story 2: still same sexual satisfaction hehehehehhehe

      I think our African men need to wax the game. if your woman hates sex, check yourself biko. Learn what and how to turn your woman on and GET OFF THE PORN ehhehehhehehehe

      African women dan dey vex claim thier right to sex ooooo hehehehe my fellow men

      i no dey oooo

  36. john

    December 5, 2016 at 4:43 pm

    Hi loki, I would like u to be one of my slave girl to be rape and abuse ? I have an opening (pun intended )

    • Loki

      December 5, 2016 at 4:51 pm

      I’m sorry John, but your syntax and diction tells me you are poorly educated and thus my intellectual inferior. I can’t subject myself to you.
      Come back after you’ve had some schooling. I might consider.

    • john

      December 6, 2016 at 7:43 am

      so u will consider being my slave after I come back from school? no problem ..but I will advise we both should goto school bcos ur English is nothing to write home about as well with errors all over

    • Manny

      December 5, 2016 at 10:21 pm

      I really don’t see a difference between John and Loki’s “syntax and diction”

  37. Yonce

    December 5, 2016 at 8:30 pm

    Wawu….???

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