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#BBNaija’s TBoss’ Brother Christopher Accused of Beating his Ex Girlfriend After he Said Karma Awaits Those who Joke about Rape



Christopher Idowu

Christopher Idowu, a brother to former Big Brother Naija housemate, Tokunbo Idowu (popularly known as TBoss) has been accused of beating one Dammy, who the accusers claimed was his former girlfriend when he was in Delta State University.

The accusations came as comments under one of his posts. Christopher had condemned joking about rape in the post, adding that “karma is a dish best served cold”. He said:

Trying to make an assault look normal and acceptable, ignoring the hurt the victim felt and still feels every time she remembers the incident. All I have to say is that karma is a dish best served cold and it multiplies, in the future when all your daughters get assaulted, raped and abused remember how u joked about another person’s misfortune and made cash out of it. And when the whole country is laughing at your daughter’s misfortune remember that it has only just begun.

See the comments:

Photo Credit: Instablog9ja

The handles where the comments were made from have now been taken down.


  1. Udegbunam Chukwudi

    April 18, 2017 at 5:57 pm

    Hmmmmmm ☕️☕️☕️

    • Ma

      April 18, 2017 at 8:43 pm

      What is the relationship between him condemning rape and someone accusing him? BN you posted this for real though?

  2. Temmy

    April 18, 2017 at 6:07 pm

    Shit is about to get real

  3. Odufa

    April 18, 2017 at 6:10 pm

    Tboss family is not the only family that showed support for their siblings, why is the media so particular about them?? Before it was, see beautiful photos of Tboss sister, but we didn’t see and pictures of Debbie, bisola, Marvis, even and the rests siblings, yet dey campaigned extensively for their siblings. The media should leave the Idowus alone. I’m very sure Efe’s brother appreciated everyone who voted for his brother on his social media handle yet we didn’t see it on any blog or website, but we saw everything the Tboss family is doing, making them exposed to harsh criticism from readers.

    I’m very sure that this criticism is what affected Tboss relationships with people, she feels attacked at the slighted offense. I wonder what other mulatos like her are facing.

    • Cocolette

      April 18, 2017 at 9:56 pm

      Her family should leave the media alone too. They are the ones that are milking this Big brother thing even more than the contestants themselves. And please you people should leave this ‘biracial’ story alone, not Nigerian has esteem issues or is intimidated by ‘mulatto’

    • Odufa

      April 19, 2017 at 6:02 am

      Her family simply post on their social media page, blogs and news sites write about it. Watch out, if Wendy, Tboss sister post any new photos, you must see it in the news.

  4. john

    April 18, 2017 at 6:11 pm

    lol..I have always said that if you open the yansh of all the hypocritical online keyboard warriors criticising kemen ..the kind smell wey go come out will even be worse than kemen

    • Odufa

      April 18, 2017 at 7:10 pm

      Why do you believe this story easily? Lies can easily be cookware up against someone.

    • Sai

      April 18, 2017 at 10:07 pm

      But you easily believe Tboss easily that she wasnt saving face and that Kemen was not pulling out the blanket.

      Dammy is a victim of domestic voilence! We need to speak up for her too and get justice. I easily believe Dammys story too.

    • Odufa

      April 19, 2017 at 6:04 am

      [email protected] let Dammy come out and speak for herself.

  5. BlackandProud

    April 18, 2017 at 6:17 pm

    Sips tea ☕️

  6. john

    April 18, 2017 at 6:19 pm

    karma one of the most overused words apart from God and the devil by hypocritical Nigerians

  7. kenechukwu

    April 18, 2017 at 6:34 pm

    this ones wan turn kArdashians overnight….abegggi take several seats

  8. blah

    April 18, 2017 at 6:40 pm

    Bellanaija really???? Did you care to search if the so-called user names exist before posting this..with all due respect they are non existent on is obviously a set up to give him a bad name and to take attention away from Ay and Kemen..

    • tunmi

      April 18, 2017 at 7:42 pm

      The way I miss instablog9ja ehn. The receipts they had, the time and effort they put into investigating claims. Oya BN, you’ve brought us this…where is the due diligence?

    • tunmi

      April 18, 2017 at 8:03 pm

      meant naijagistlive.

  9. Tolu

    April 18, 2017 at 6:43 pm

    I don’t know if it’s over exposure or not but I find every single one of them super annoying & ridiculously thirsty. The need they have to respond to EVERY little thing is so off-putting. I’m 5000% sure when the whole TTT thing happened that Bisola’s page was & is still filled with hate comments but her sister didn’t feel the need to respond. Why is TBoss’ family different? Then her older sister really sang the national anthem, why? For what? Just so annoying.

    • Odufa

      April 18, 2017 at 7:11 pm

      Stop that hate dear, it’s not healthy. There is absolutely no reason to hate these people.

    • Bad gang

      April 18, 2017 at 8:45 pm

      Must any suggestion/advice/recommendation/comment be termed hate?
      Stop this foolishness abeg…

    • survivor

      April 18, 2017 at 11:44 pm

      She sang the national anthem cos they are desperate to win the money n SUV

  10. AceOfSpades

    April 18, 2017 at 6:44 pm

    If I can manage Tboss…..give me a year, that girl will be worth 100s of millions. There is an untapped way of turning hate to money and Tboss is in such a place right now if only she knows how to tap it.

    This attention the family is getting is all she needs right now

    • esther truth

      April 18, 2017 at 7:11 pm

      Big big talk, bobo juice.

    • tunmi

      April 18, 2017 at 7:43 pm

      truth!!! She has composure toh bad that helps all of this.

    • AceOfSpades

      April 18, 2017 at 9:51 pm

      Someone cannot bobo in peace again. Na wa ooo

  11. survivor

    April 18, 2017 at 7:28 pm

    First,what kemen did was wrong
    Secondly,this family are pained that their sis didnt win the money…
    I won’t doubt people that acuse this one of allways beating the girlfriend

  12. tunmi

    April 18, 2017 at 7:44 pm

    But on a serious note, can we stop including that “until your daughter/mother/brother gets [insert criminal and horrifying act]”. Like seriously, let’s stop dashing people’s relatives ill will. Let’s stop dashing ill will as though THAT is when they will understand. Because if they don’t understand it as someone being a human being, it’s not when their family member suffers through it that they will understand. And it goes back to the point of seeing women as extension of men.

  13. tunmi

    April 18, 2017 at 8:00 pm

    I have some time before class starts.

    …so these people don’t exist on instagram. Or they deleted their accounts…
    @kay_mivwefe, @kimkyofficial, @lalababyyy07

    • Grace

      April 19, 2017 at 7:35 am

      Some SDK commenters have been saying this for a while. The fact that university students can to beat their babes normally probably due to immaturity and insecurity also makes this story almost believable but then innocent until proven guilty right?

  14. concerned9ja

    April 18, 2017 at 8:37 pm

    Didn’t watch a single run of BBN…and in as much as I initially didn’t agree with Funmi Ayanda…could well be Tboss being attractive…somewhat sophisticated could have rubbed people the wrong way…
    Efe won because he had the template…the sob story…the downtrodden…this applies to all reality shows around the world..
    Kemen was very wrong but apologized however AY stroked the flames again…that was ignorant and not funny at all….
    The Cynthia (Daughter of the Army General)rape and murder still resonates…sure that’s how those boys started until they got more sinister…

  15. Gem

    April 18, 2017 at 8:41 pm

    Tu quoque (You are Another).
    Fallacy of logic.
    Makes lil sense that because someone is guilty of a similar crime to the one he’s attacking, the crime he’s on about is inconsequential.
    So? Whether or not he beat his girlfriend does not take away the fact that Nigeria has a deeprooted rape culture and that instead of lending voices and hands to curb this menace, our comedians; celebrities with the right platforms to do just that, are making jokes about rape and sexual assault, trivializing the offence and treating it dissmissively as some normalcy that should go without consequences.
    Oh well….

  16. john

    April 18, 2017 at 8:58 pm

    @engos calm ur titties down before you broke the glass screen in ur phone in the name of race and stupidity , they dont even knew the history of the ideologies they follow and copy..every tom , dick and harry knew that white women started feminism ..infact to be precise white rich suffragettes who want the same voting rights as white man, they hated and look down on black women and refused their entry into the organization..they only knew how to use them as maids and cleaners, it wasn’t untill they saw the success of the civil rights movement that decide to destroy the black community through a trojan horse with the help of the CIA ….whiye women got the right to vote even before black women and men( which they got through the civil Itights movements) I don’t need to get into that detail about a hateful organisation..u can google it..feminism only to an extent benifits the founders “white women” ..white women earn more than black women and men combined in usa..if there is any quota system in a company,they are going to hire a white woman not ur black ass..white women only use black idiotic women as a stepping stone to just as they are using chimamda adichie as a puppet, a typical house nigger to insult africans ..look at the way she apologized after her stupid statement about trangenders ..they cut her down to size immediately,infact if she dares talks out of turn again apart from the normal script they gave her..they will bundle her ass fast back to nsukka…feminism ingrained as african culture..dont make me laugh..u guys are a confused bunch and I thought u guys said African culture is feminism a yoruba name or an igbo name or hausa name …this will be my last time commenting on this topic bcos aguing with dumb blackwomen gives me headache especially online, armchair feminists ..I mean these are the women that claim to be the fictional queens of Egypt

  17. Indigo

    April 18, 2017 at 9:02 pm

    Bella Naija really??
    Is this what you have become?
    Cheap gossip blog??
    Those comments where obviously made to discredit the young man and you are helping them spread their untruths?

  18. Bee

    April 18, 2017 at 9:17 pm

    So cos its TBOSS brother those comments are made up to discredit him hum mm. For every fake there is a real I don’t think this accusations are made up maybe a lil bit exaggerated ,but I kinda feel it’s true.

    • Emmanuel

      April 18, 2017 at 9:46 pm

      the person who posted it has her brother living up my flat. that account aint fake. she had to delete her account cos of the hatred and bile from you guys. the gist doesnt end at what she typed. the things this guy did was

    • survivor

      April 18, 2017 at 10:46 pm

      No its cos he’s half romanian and half Nigerian

  19. john

    April 18, 2017 at 9:30 pm

    @bee the only fault kemen has is that he is black and ugly ..if he was a mixed dude , they will find it cute..look at the way they are making excuses for the dude…the sisterhood solidarity has disappeared someone said on nairaland ..Women sha ..So you dey support physical assault on yourfellow woman because you want kemen’s head?The day women treats their fellow women as friends, that’s the day everybody becomes enlightened..

    • Sai

      April 19, 2017 at 11:47 am

      If only Kemen knew how much he was hated before his “crime” he would have left BB voluntarily. I kept imagining if it was Efe or John or someone Nigerians didnt think was ugly with big lips. We definitely wont be here!!!

  20. Blackky

    April 18, 2017 at 9:46 pm

    Am curious as to the nature of offence Kemen committed. Rape? Sexual assault? Or maybe sexual molestation? If suggestions lead to any of these 3, you guys must be kidding me. Kemen flouted the rules of the BBN game but didn’t break any law. So to all of you thinking T-boss has a cause of action against Kemen, take a chill pill. Kemen has apologised and he has been named and shamed. What other punishment do you guys want metted on him? He should leave the public space and live his life in misery? For Pete’s sake, you guys should stop this already. If you know you’ve never done anything wrong in your life, feel free to castigate Kemen. But if you’ve done wrong and people still forgave you, biko extend the same courtesy to Kemen.

    And can someone tell T-boss wretched-wanna-be brother to remove the log of wood from his own eyes before removing the speck of dust in another person’s eyes. And NOPE, T-boss wasn’t raped! The elements of rape is that the victim should have been taken advantage of and there was sexual intercourse (the thing must be in the thing). Did Kemen penetrate??? Nope! So that wasn’t rape abeg

  21. IOU

    April 18, 2017 at 9:59 pm

    someone at Bellanaija needs to be fired for posting such a story that could destroy a person’s brand with no verification ( but of course you wouldn’t post would you?)

  22. john

    April 18, 2017 at 10:16 pm

    @bee the only fault kemen has is that he is black and ugly ..if he was a mixed dude , they will find it cute..look at the way they are making excuses for the dude…thesisterhood solidarity has disappeared someone said on nairaland ..Women sha..So you dey support physical assault on yourfellow woman because you want kemen’s head?The day women treats their fellow women as friends, that’s the day everybody becomes enlightened..

  23. concerned9a

    April 19, 2017 at 12:12 am

    If not for the cameras and environment she could have been raped…
    And by the way she was violated…in a fully functional society she would have taken the Sponsors to the cleaners!!
    What you on about Mr Blackky??

  24. bi

    April 19, 2017 at 12:42 am

    I am so diissapointed at tboss family,dis just shows no class,no groomin,no home training,and also I feel dey are just packagin with their skin and ve no iota of class @ all.d fact dat u are a halfacst doesn’t give u class @ all.4 crying out loud I am not a fan of kemen,but I am a lawyer dere was no element of rape in why are dey causin other ppls children cos kemem got a spotlight @ ay show.kemen messed up big time,i 4 one dint see him as a rapist but saw him as a guy who was not refined,he tried to touch tboss while asleep and looked out 4 d cameras and in his Thot he felt tboss will reciprocate,myb he even Thot since she had exposed her breast while he bathed her she was into him 2. It is only an assumption ppl.but I know dis he assaulted her since she dint invite it in logical terms,but also in d d same logical. Reasonin he dint rape her or have d intention to rape her,4 cryin out loud how can u try 2 forcefully take advantage of sum1 while cameras are on u and other housemates are even. Sleepin in d same room without u bben stopped.kemen violated many rules in d house,he gossiped,he conspired,he tried 2 overanalyse many situated.i 4 one felt he was not a refined guy or even exposed 2 dat setting b4 but he didn’t rape.and bigbrother naija did d rightfull thing they culd do by havin him disqualified,he had no eviction party,he was never in d far as big brother is concerned,he was never there,but he has apologised publicly 2 tboss,and has been punished, but does dat mean dat since bigbrother disqualified’s shouldn’t endorse him if they like him,or ppls shouldn’t ve him on their shows if they like him,it won’t b fair @ all.wat more does tboss famil want from evey 1.housemated even apologised,a talk on assault was discussed in d house d day after,viewers sympathised with tboss and she even got more votes regards 2 dat.since kemen had apologised why can’t dey move past it.even God forgives so why are they still acting like tboss life was damaged or sumtin worse happened Dan dat,why are they stll playin victim. Dis guy is even worse Dan kemen 2 me,sum1 dat can cause other ppls daughters 2 b raped in d nearest future wen his sister wasn’t even raped is not gentlemanly,not refined and if possible similar to a rapist.

    • Grace

      April 19, 2017 at 7:40 am

      They didn’t win the money and so they’re trying to stay relevant.
      I see where Tboss challenges started from, her family has issues relating with people.

  25. Munachimso

    April 19, 2017 at 12:44 am

    Lolol.. Bellanaija wait, really?? This boy finally succeeded in making his way to the blog??

    The Idowu’s are a bunch of attention seeking individuals.. They are really really trying to stay relevant, they have cashed the situation so bad..

    She was raped, she was raped, what do you want the Nigerian government to do for a show that was held in South Africa?? Please..

    I really want to feel sorry for Tboss, but I think this is no longer about the hurt, it’s now for publicity and that’s very low..

    You see this guy, someone confirmed this, they aren’t lies..

    • wayo

      April 19, 2017 at 4:50 am

      I am dissapointed that people can’t read between d lines.
      This is Ay’s handwork. He is trying to bring down Tboss’ brother bcos he defended her against AY. Who does not know Ay fights dirty when he has an issue with you. I still remember what he did to blogger, SdK when she reported that he beats his wife n dat 1 initially ran 4 her dear life. Her report made him patch things with her 2 save face.

      U all insulting d Idowus, I admire them 4 deir obvious luv 4 each other. U come 4 1 n d whole pack rips u apart.
      u all talking bout 4giving Kemen, was his apology real ? N u all shud stop this victim blaming culture.

      if u like BN swallow my comment……we knw AY is ur friend.

    • tee

      April 19, 2017 at 3:03 pm

      In your mind now, you have spoken. please shut up

  26. bi

    April 19, 2017 at 12:47 am

    Pls all dis cursing and karma thing shuld stop,and let us move on from dis issue.

  27. Gigi

    April 19, 2017 at 2:09 am

    Bella naija is becoming Linda ikeji

  28. Fast cars

    April 19, 2017 at 3:20 am

    See the way BN put up this guy for crucifixion. Is it because he has no one to call so that y’all can delete the comments. If it is someone in your clique now comments for don disappear

  29. annon

    April 20, 2017 at 8:36 am

    This is the so called apology:
    “Firstly, I hereby tender my sincere apologies to TBoss and ask for her forgiveness as well as all the women in Africa who PERCEIVED my action as violation or a sexual offence……… I must emphasise that reality is different from perception”

    you term that statement excusing his trashy actions an apology? People seriously? He apologizes for an act that was perceived to be wrong but never owned up to his shameful behaviour. Did u watch the interview with Media Room Hub where he denied touching tboss inappropriately, still stating he hoped tboss would tell the truth when 25mil wasnt at stake? Does that sound like an apology?. I am not advocating his crucifixion, but he was lying through his teeth and was in no way remorseful. Pulling the blanket indeed! he needed the cameras to be off focus before skulking like a criminal to do that right? Baldadash.

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