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“When all you have is a hammer, everything is a nail” – Ali Baba on People With One Thing to Offer in a Relationship

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Ace comedian Ali Baba took to his Instagram page to share his thoughts on people who enter realtionships for the wrong reasons. He also talked about people who have only sex, money or power to offer.

He wrote:

People who have only sex to offer are the ones who get jealous, suspicious and quarrelsome. You know why? Because they know that you might go out one day and find someone who has more than sex to offer. So what does that leave them? So they start to put their spouse in the defensive. Go take a critical look at most of those relationships where the guy or babe has only one thing to offer, they will keep talking of security. They want reassurances always. Tell me you love. Promise you will not leave me. Are you sure you are not playing with me? Am I the only one in your life? Do you really love me? Are you tired of this relationship? Do you still love me? …. blah blah blah!

When all you have is a hammer everything is a nail. That is what sums up these kind of people. That explains why they get so angry when you are away from them for so long. Their only stake in the relationships needs to be activated regularly to remain relevant in the scheme of things and in their spouses thoughts. That also explains why many who marry because the sex is good, find out later that good sex doesn’t pay bills. Neither does it cook, run the home, guarantee respect, make your spouse a person you can rub minds with and not skin.

You see you may not know it, but I will tell you, you may be extremely beautiful. That is good. But like sex, if that beauty is all there is to you, in the relationship, the day that beauty is discounted by someone else who has brain and beauty body and cooking skills, with a good dose of home management, last last na modeling agency go need you. So you are a guy, and all you have in your value proposition brief case is muscles. Hiaaaaam. No common sense. Nothing else. So Iet’s look at the sex sef… after a while, its bargaining value in the relationships could diminish.

When that happens what will be your new bargaining chip? Same goes for cash. I know a top society lady who married a big time Lagos big boy, when she knew he was in bad times, she vamoosed! And went to kids for another man. How could she? She could, and she did. Some people too, if the marry you because of your Dad’s political office, when the term of office is running out, they run out too

6 Comments

  1. Jadesola sometimes Jaylaw

    May 15, 2017 at 5:37 pm

    Haven’t read this in a long time.. This is so Dope.. He who has ears let him hear. ???

  2. Mawi

    May 15, 2017 at 6:48 pm

    k

  3. Anne

    May 15, 2017 at 7:47 pm

    May we and our children not meet evil people. They jump from person to person. There is always something wrong with another but they are perfect. Beauty is vain but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. May we continue to matter to those that are relevant to our destiny.

  4. nonye inspired

    May 16, 2017 at 12:08 pm

    When I heard this from Ali Baba then i knew that there is hope after all…Premarital sex is so overrated..Imagine some one saying he or she is a christian but he gives blowjob to satisfy themselves am wondering who is fooling who really..

  5. Tosin

    May 16, 2017 at 3:44 pm

    But why not discuss boys who have only sex to offer, or only money, or only body? Who asked these boys to be giving girls advice alllllll the time? Ali Baba, go and call the boys around you and share all your tales with them abeg.

  6. Tosin

    May 16, 2017 at 3:45 pm

    Lol, he actually did.
    Ooopsie.

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