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Read Bride-to-Be Adesua Etomi’s Beautiful Letter to her fiancé Banky W



The internet is already “broken” with excitement as 2 of Nigeria’s brightest stars have announced that they are getting married!
Adesua Etomi and Banky W have acted as lovers in a music video and a blockbuster movie, now it is for real!

You’ve read Banky’s letter, now read Adesua’s.


I went to an event in 2015 and I suppose that was the beginning of something amazing because once banky saw me, he decided that he was going to be my biggest fan.
He slid into my DM and sent the funniest message and that was how we became friends. At the time, I wasn’t interested in anything but a friendship and he was very respectful of that and so we stayed just friends for about a year and a half.
Our friendship opened my eyes to a lot of things. Opened my eyes to the type of man Olubankole is and WHAT A MAN. WHAT A MIGHTY GOOD MAN.
Olubankole, Your Heart is pure and good, to the very core. You are proof that God is real, you are proof that what’s on the inside is greater and so much more powerful than what we see on the outside and you are the evidence of what I hoped for. I bless God for entrusting my heart in your hands because I know it’s safe. You are everything i prayed for and so much more.
Thank you for praying with me, fasting with me, always making time for me, laughing with me, and caring more about me than yourself. Thank you for being kind, loving and full of Integrity.
And i’d like to say one more thing. I’m SO SORRY that it took me sooo long to realise that it was you. It has always been you. It couldn’t have been anyone else.
In February 2017, you said you couldn’t be without me and asked me to be your wife and I said YES cause I can’t be without you.
It will be an absolute pleasure and one of the greatest blessings of my life to walk the path of life with you.
Thank you for being who you are.
My goodluck charm, my King, my lover, my bestfriend.
I love you till eternity and beyond.
No, This Is not a movie.
Future Mrs W.


  1. truth

    May 3, 2017 at 11:14 am

    I couldnt have written a better ode to these two. I am so happy for you Adesuwa. Congrats again, you two definitely complete eachother.

    • Hals

      May 3, 2017 at 12:11 pm

      For a Wednesday, I have to say this is a pretty good news.

  2. Lizzie

    May 3, 2017 at 11:16 am

    Issa happy day! I’m so pumped! ?????? Congrats you guys! I wish you a love that lasts for all time!

  3. whocares

    May 3, 2017 at 11:17 am

    BN, IF THIS ENDS UP BEING A JOKE, I WILL FIND YOU, SUE YOU, GET A GUN LICENSE, PRACTISE SHOOTING AND AIM FOR BOTH BANKY AND MISS. ADESUA. No, i wont kill them, (cant deny the world the pleasure of wedding part 2) but i will shoot them in their bumbum; if they have to limp about for a week or so, it will remind them not to mess with people’s emotion because as you see me, i am very fragile right now. That said:

    • Tru

      May 3, 2017 at 3:33 pm

      Nwanne you and me both o! Because if na stunt…hmmmm

    • steff

      May 4, 2017 at 10:04 am

      Yay! i so so so so love this ,i wish them a happy beginning and a 65yrs wedding anniversary in advance. may god bless your marriage,amen.

  4. Missmo

    May 3, 2017 at 11:18 am

    One of the best news all week!!!

  5. Chic

    May 3, 2017 at 11:20 am

    See this way I’m shining my teeth for these two, not like I know them personally oo.. Love them together. God bless your home.
    Dear bae, U better stop playing around and appear here now! *ShinesTeeth*

    • Mz Titilitious

      May 3, 2017 at 2:05 pm

      as in shinning mine too 😀 😀

    • Jade

      May 3, 2017 at 5:57 pm

      Mrs MMM!! Where have you been hiding?

  6. Mrs A

    May 3, 2017 at 11:21 am

    Omg!!! They make such a perfect pair finally banky is off the market Hallelujah ????

  7. Jane(the real Jane)

    May 3, 2017 at 11:21 am

    My chest!!! So my Banky is getting married.

    • Lailatu

      May 3, 2017 at 2:06 pm

      @Jane, oh my goodness, you just made me laugh out real loud, but I do understand.

  8. yummymummycumchick

    May 3, 2017 at 11:22 am

    if this is a publicity stunt,,, dem no try o……………. BUT IF IT IS A FOR REAL !WHAT A WAWUUUUUUUU1 congratulations. u both will make some beautiful babies and sure looks good together

  9. Lilian

    May 3, 2017 at 11:24 am

    Oh,this is sooooooo lovely. Makes me want to fall in love

  10. Fifi

    May 3, 2017 at 11:25 am

    Awwww totally like them together, didnt even know they were dating, i like that they kept it under the radar

  11. viva

    May 3, 2017 at 11:25 am

    like srz wow congrats to ur guys I wish u all the best of luv

  12. Sean

    May 3, 2017 at 11:29 am

    Your marriage will not crash IJN

    • Jewls

      May 3, 2017 at 12:20 pm

      Oga Sean, you is kinda cute ? Let’s not wait o as you can see hollaaa

    • Sean

      May 3, 2017 at 2:51 pm

      ha ha ha ha………….#Winks

    • nsikak

      May 3, 2017 at 7:00 pm

      lmao….easy lady

    • Debbie

      May 3, 2017 at 9:41 pm

      Sliding into his “DM” eh? Lol

    • Idak

      May 3, 2017 at 12:44 pm


    • Zoe

      May 3, 2017 at 12:56 pm

      Amen & Amen.

    • Charlotte

      May 3, 2017 at 2:19 pm


    • vivi

      May 3, 2017 at 5:57 pm

      On lawd! pls stop….. just stop

    • Person pikin

      May 3, 2017 at 6:50 pm

      300th like!
      Amen! Signed! Sealed!! Delivered!!!

  13. bubu

    May 3, 2017 at 11:30 am

    Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, i cried oo! this is so sweet. I dont even want to imagine it is a publicity stunt. Congrats Girl!

  14. king Bey

    May 3, 2017 at 11:32 am


    • Nationalsquirrel

      May 3, 2017 at 11:58 am

      As in!!!

    • Go hug transformer

      May 3, 2017 at 12:32 pm


  15. Lissy

    May 3, 2017 at 11:33 am

    Ooooh my world sooo happy for u both congrats.

  16. Eyitayo

    May 3, 2017 at 11:35 am

    Awww love themail together…congrats Banks and Susu

    • Eyitayo

      May 3, 2017 at 11:36 am


  17. Silvy

    May 3, 2017 at 11:36 am

    Working at GDC made me know banky…..banky is a good guy….can’t bliv my besty is getting married……I wish them all the best …

  18. Og

    May 3, 2017 at 11:43 am

    Awwwww i am so happy. Please i want to attend their wedding ooooo. Somebody help me please

  19. Darius

    May 3, 2017 at 11:43 am

    So the big-head boy has finally decided to settle down. Hmmmmmm…. I just hope this is for real, not some publicity stunt.

    • bea

      May 3, 2017 at 3:49 pm

      That is what happens when you are the only one left in the boys squad.
      It can be as boring as hell.

  20. munachi

    May 3, 2017 at 11:47 am

    you had better think about it very well and dont just go in because you guys acted that part very well together it is beyond home video… happy for you still but….

  21. Pearls

    May 3, 2017 at 11:47 am

    Waaawuuuu…this is def.the best thing av read today! Am so happy for them. Pls keel your relationship off social media. All the best Darling @Adesuwa. Hope the internet wont remind you of all these eulogies one day…

    • Mannie

      May 3, 2017 at 11:53 am

      It’s a serious Wawu! I was going to pass this post by, thinking it was one of Mo Abudu’s marketing schemes, but I’m stunned. Fair play to them

  22. Kelvin

    May 3, 2017 at 11:49 am

    Am so happy for both of you, Am sure Adesuwa would make a good husband out of
    Banky W.. Congrats once again

  23. bimbo

    May 3, 2017 at 11:51 am

    D tears cant stop flowing from my eyes.i have never being this genuinely happy about a magical love story.and am so happy for banky,he who laughs last laughs best,adesua is the best he could ever have wished for .congrats to both of them .lord i use this as a point of contact to myself ,let my love story happen IJN.. and let it be soonest .lord .

    • Snazzy

      May 3, 2017 at 4:43 pm

      From your mouth to God’s ears Bim! May he grant you your heart’s desire. Give you the best of his sons.

    • Yomi

      May 3, 2017 at 6:37 pm

      Are you serious?

    • mauyrnnn

      May 3, 2017 at 7:27 pm


  24. bim

    May 3, 2017 at 11:52 am

    D tears cant stop flowing from my eyes.i have never being this genuinely happy about a magical love story.and am so happy for banky,he who laughs last laughs best,adesua is the best he could ever have wished for .congrats to both of them .lord i use this as a point of contact to myself ,let my love story happen IJN.. and let it be soonest .lord .

  25. iryn

    May 3, 2017 at 11:54 am

    oh how i wished he could actually marry her from when i watched Banky’s “made for you ” music video.Excited to the core for them! Helas! i wish them all the best,make all this celebrity yeye divorce virus no see wuna face oh.

  26. Sexy O

    May 3, 2017 at 11:55 am

    ??. Banky W has been taken. Now am wailing??. All the best to them. They compliment each other. May we not hear super story from your wedding after a year or less in Jesus name

  27. Comfort

    May 3, 2017 at 11:56 am

    I am loving dis. Wowwwwww

  28. T

    May 3, 2017 at 11:56 am

    I am soo sooooo soooooooooo HAPPY!!!!! I actually hoped these two will get together,and they did,dreams come true,Lord,pls bless their home. Amen

  29. Halima

    May 3, 2017 at 11:59 am

    I have never felt such happiness for someone I don’t know. I’m so happens for Adesua. I like her so much. God bless them both. Amen

  30. Bamirike

    May 3, 2017 at 11:59 am

    OMG,I’m just too filled with excitement, you two make a beautiful pair. God bless the union and strengthens your love till eternity. Love you loads for making me this happy.

  31. Nationalsquirrel

    May 3, 2017 at 11:59 am

    You better both pray brangelina predicament does not meet you both.

    • Jade

      May 3, 2017 at 6:00 pm

      Kai. You are so daft! Such a moron!! What a waste.

  32. E

    May 3, 2017 at 11:59 am

    I am really happy for these two. They are beautiful. Congratulations!!!!! May the Blessings of God always be sufficient in your marriage.

    Banky appears to be a gentleman……in the rael sense of it.

  33. Nationalsquirrel

    May 3, 2017 at 11:59 am

    And hope you’re both fertile, cause you both old

    • Mystique

      May 3, 2017 at 12:06 pm

      are you well??? did something terrible happen in your childhood to make you so bitter??? is Banky your ex??? gosh.

    • ann

      May 3, 2017 at 12:09 pm

      Jesus!!! you sound so hurt!!!!!! even if they are both 40 which they are mot they will have as much kids as they want!! goan sit down and weep your sorrows away…. bad belle..

    • Omoté

      May 3, 2017 at 12:13 pm

      Which kind comment be that???? Some people will just hide behind the anonymity of social media n b typing n posting nonsense! If u’v got nothing to say go hide in a hole like squirrels do.

    • Nawa!

      May 3, 2017 at 12:42 pm

      Never have I seen someone with spew so much venom! May the Lord have mercy on you!!!! Gosh!

    • Bola

      May 3, 2017 at 2:03 pm

      National squirrel,
      They aren’t both old. Adesuwa is 28 and Banky is 36. 28 isn’t old to conceive or give birth, far from it. If people who’re in their 30s and 40s are conceiving; how is 28 old? She’s still very young. They’re men and women who don’t start having kids until their late 30s or 40s. Your comment was out of place; permit me to say so.
      Congratulations to them! I wish you two the best and your marriage will not crash in Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    • LOLOL

      May 3, 2017 at 2:22 pm

      so she is 28 looking 40. hian hkwa gi
      even worse

    • A

      May 3, 2017 at 2:36 pm

      She actually is 31,still young.

    • Bola

      May 3, 2017 at 3:48 pm

      Okay. I was looking and Wikipedia and it says 1988 which is 28. If she’s truly 31 as you’ve mentioned, still young.

    • Janee

      May 3, 2017 at 3:59 pm

      Devil in disguise. I bind you in Jesus name! Touch not God’s annointed couple!

    • Chioma

      May 3, 2017 at 4:11 pm

      Yes they are because the Bible says NONE shall be barren in the Land. However, I hope you are NOT an animal because the bible says You are what you THINK you are. This one you called yourself Squirrel!

  34. CHELLE

    May 3, 2017 at 12:04 pm

    Ewoooooooo!!!!!!!!!! my chest o!!!!!! I go love o

  35. Omoté

    May 3, 2017 at 12:07 pm

    Wow! They’ve been engaged since February! Raising Beyonce hands for una! Shuooo! Anyways sooooo happy ehnnnn! I couldn’t evn smell the chemistry in the wedding party, u know how u can always tell if there is also an off-screen romance. Banky we didn’t see this coming! Good luck u 2! There’s a lot to learn in this!

    • Bebe

      May 3, 2017 at 3:01 pm

      Na real Beyonce hands ???

  36. taitai

    May 3, 2017 at 12:18 pm

    awwww……. im so excited , feels like I know banky personally. Congratulations to you both

  37. Tutu

    May 3, 2017 at 12:21 pm

    Please who is left? Ebuka is gone, Banky is gone, who is left for us to crush on eh? Na wah!

    • Indigo

      May 3, 2017 at 12:28 pm

      Blossom Chukwujekwu, Osy Ukeje everyone home..
      Maybe we’ll manage Aki or is it Paw paw?

    • BlueEyed

      May 3, 2017 at 1:34 pm

      But both of them (Aki and paw paw) have been off the market longer than the others you mentioned

    • Lala

      May 3, 2017 at 8:26 pm

      big nose Don jazzy nko. Abi u don’t want him. He’s rich ooo

    • ify

      May 3, 2017 at 1:11 pm


    • Tru

      May 3, 2017 at 3:38 pm

      ????? Oh and let’s not forget Tekno, Flavour, Harrysong…dem still dey sha

    • Hi

      May 3, 2017 at 2:05 pm


    • Iya Gabby

      May 3, 2017 at 10:18 pm

      Alex Ekubo perhaps.

  38. Ghostmode

    May 3, 2017 at 12:23 pm

    Awww so cute! I love the way they kept it off social media!!!! I wish you both many many beautiful years together!

  39. salami Nimota Enitan

    May 3, 2017 at 12:24 pm

    I really wanna bliv it’s true and wish both u all a blissful life 2geda and please keep ya life outta social media bcos it kills faster than meningitis or Ebola. Love u both

  40. usa

    May 3, 2017 at 12:25 pm

    Wow!!! Just so happy for them… I pray we won’t later hear stories Dat touches the heart after oooo

  41. Anon

    May 3, 2017 at 12:35 pm

    Life imitating art. Congrats.

  42. Adeanon

    May 3, 2017 at 12:36 pm

    Now this is breaking the internet!!!
    I pray you will remain true friends for ever and ever! God bless you two x

  43. Corolla

    May 3, 2017 at 12:38 pm

    @Nationalsquirrel, and after typing that, you are going to crawl back into the shit hole you call life. Low lifer oshi! Congrats Tolu Etomi! #QCOG

  44. Zi

    May 3, 2017 at 12:43 pm

    It’s not hard to be happy for these two.
    Congratulations guys.

  45. Madam

    May 3, 2017 at 12:44 pm

    Anyone remember when the wedding planner was ranting about public proposals on twitter a while back…. This is what she heard and was so desperate to copy. Adesuwa continue to remain a leading lady and stay many steps ahead of those who tear down and can’t phantom why you were a leading lady… This relationship will last, you will be blessed, your children will surround your table and your joy will continue to be full… You are always a leading lady, now enjoy being a leading lady along side a leading man. You will never be victims of friends who tear down their own friends while perfecting the best slay face for instagram.after they tear down…

    Mama you got this… Live well and prosper

  46. Mondela

    May 3, 2017 at 1:02 pm

    Looks like a fake relationship… There is word on the street that banky is gay. ?

    • Sasha

      May 3, 2017 at 1:14 pm

      You’re a goat and a joy killer

    • Princess P

      May 3, 2017 at 1:22 pm

      you must be his gay lover…
      bad belle

      So happy for Banky and Adesuwa

  47. Addy

    May 3, 2017 at 1:04 pm

    Aww blushing right now ad if I was the one they just proposed to…so happy for u two cos I sure bet u gonna make a lovely couple….saw it once u both did in d wedding party…wink but this is real now…I pray God should guide u and make u both last longer…. No weapon formed against u shall proper…. Love u both. Enjoy yourself in beautiful harmony.

  48. Neka Lexy

    May 3, 2017 at 1:30 pm

    Congrats Adesua and Banky W. I am happy for you two. i said this after waiting the wedding Party that you two are made for each other. I was right after all cos it has come to pass. Congrats once more again.

  49. Abiza

    May 3, 2017 at 1:39 pm

    Don Jazzy will soon come with his own ooo !! loll jk jk

    Congrats guys ! This is beautiful <3

    • Bebe

      May 3, 2017 at 3:02 pm

      He already…he is looking for who to act with????

  50. Adenikky

    May 3, 2017 at 1:40 pm

    Me just smiling sheepishly during a seminar. Am so excited for these two. Yaaayyyyy am so happy.

  51. Charlotte

    May 3, 2017 at 2:20 pm


  52. Damilola

    May 3, 2017 at 2:24 pm

    This people just know i needed something to make me smile today. Best news all week. I love these two like we’re even related. Gosh! I’ve been hoping this will happen. The wedding better be in a stadium cus we all deserve to be there. May your union stand the test of time, o ti e ti stand. Congrats Bubba and Susu

  53. Bells

    May 3, 2017 at 2:31 pm

    Please what about Banky’s baby mama? Or we should jus keep kwayet?

  54. Mz Titilitious

    May 3, 2017 at 2:41 pm

    awww so cute!

  55. lovelyn

    May 3, 2017 at 2:47 pm

    Am happy for both of you, congratulations.

  56. Bennie

    May 3, 2017 at 2:52 pm


  57. Observer

    May 3, 2017 at 3:12 pm

    Congratulations! This got me all happy and smiling.

  58. Emily

    May 3, 2017 at 3:23 pm

    The way I’ve carried this matter on my head in this my office today you will think Adesua is my sister and Banky is my elder brother #MixedFeelings ??so happy for these two even the devil is happy for them lol ?

    • bea

      May 3, 2017 at 3:50 pm

      To be candid were you that excited when your siblings got engaged or even married???????

    • An Afrikan Butterfly

      May 3, 2017 at 5:30 pm

      lol CHILL. You don’t even know IF she has siblings or if those siblings are engaged or married.

    • Emily

      May 4, 2017 at 9:40 am

      Yes I was genuinely happy for my cousins who are married I have planned and sold my colleagues ASO ebi like it was my wedding, recently I planned a distance cousin who paid me a visit in Abuja a surprise proposal without leaving a single clue for my cousin, and it was well planned she was beyond surprise. I’m a lover of good things I believe in the saying which says when you are happy for others yours will surely come. I love good news so I’m always happy for people it doesn’t matter if I know them personally or not have a nice day. P.S I don’t have a direct sibling I’m an only child and I’m a lady in case you wanna know.

    • Emily

      May 4, 2017 at 10:14 am

      I believe in the saying which says when you are happy for others yours must surely come I don’t have to know them personally to be happy for them. Recently I helped a friend planned a surprised proposal for a distance cousin who visited me in Abuja I was genuinely happy for my cousin you will think it was my surprise proposal. Early this year I sold and handled my colleque’s ASO ebi in our office you will think we are of the same blood with the way I handled everything and I was happy doing it.
      P.S I don’t have sibling(s) I’m an only child ? and I’m a lady in case you are wondering have a nice day

    • JANE

      May 4, 2017 at 10:20 am

      Haba! That question was so unnecessary don’t be a Joy killer if someone can be that happy for a total stranger why can’t he/she be happy for his/her siblings? Stop being a joy killer

  59. Yetty

    May 3, 2017 at 3:33 pm

    Waoh! Hearty Congratulations dearies. God bless and uphold your union – Amen.
    Hope to get an invite though *winks*

  60. Janee

    May 3, 2017 at 4:02 pm

    I am so happy for these two! Congrats banky and adesua!

  61. Trish

    May 3, 2017 at 4:26 pm

    Hi Seun

  62. nasa

    May 3, 2017 at 4:50 pm

    Happy for them oooooo
    But Banky whyyyyy????….cos ayam fat and not facially fine ni#sobs……….bleaching and keto things activated, make I be like Adesua, the babe fine

  63. Kaka

    May 3, 2017 at 5:06 pm

    I join my voice with millions of Nigeria’s to congrats Mr and Mrs W

  64. Jasper

    May 3, 2017 at 7:02 pm

    So cute! Let’s hope “Koko Master” will also get engaged to one of those babylets…

  65. Ezinneamaka

    May 3, 2017 at 7:41 pm

    Woooow!!! U two look good together. God bless u both.

  66. maryjane

    May 3, 2017 at 8:00 pm

    Am feeling as if am the one getting married, This two are muahhm muah muah God bless this union. enemies clear i mean stay CLEARRRRR

  67. Mojisola

    May 3, 2017 at 8:53 pm

    Beautiful words! Congratulations tod couple ?

  68. Cassie

    May 4, 2017 at 12:01 am

    OMG! I’m so happy for you two,I pray your bond never break,This couple Rock’s,Dream come through Bae,I couldn’t have imagined anything better than this,you both Complement each other

  69. odidi

    May 4, 2017 at 6:35 am

    what I need is the invitation card to attend the wedding of Mr/Mrs w

  70. Stephanie ralphael

    May 4, 2017 at 6:58 am

    Am so excited ,dat one of favorite actress is getting married to one of my favorite musician.congrats to u u plenty.perfect match

  71. Boywonder

    May 4, 2017 at 12:54 pm

    a movie come true. Congrats Banky W, over to you single guys, #makeYourMove

  72. Cheeky

    May 4, 2017 at 1:08 pm

    Forget TWP!
    Make a movie of their love story. Their letters to each other are incredibly romantic. I want to see it on screen. I wish them happiness… waiting for the BellaNaija prewedding and wedding pics.

  73. Idomagirl

    May 4, 2017 at 9:35 pm

    This gist has been sweeting my stomach since yesterday.

  74. Felinda

    May 5, 2017 at 3:05 am

    Seems folks are so invested in this wedding talking about what she should wear, her bridal train, her guest etc

    People this is not your wedding ohhhhh – be happy for them and congratulate them but let it stop there abeg.

    The way this is getting too hyped i am now wishing they didnt even say anything but rather surprised eevryone after the fact (after the secret wedding like the former MBGN winner did last month, gosh i forget her name,) . First Nollywoond Royal and Fairty Tail WEdding

    But i trust Adesua she is smart from her many interviews i have watched and will not allow her special day become a circus.

    Though i dont know her personally, or him – I feel this is an excellent match made in heaven- they were made for each other and I pray for happy long life and marriage.

  75. Ozo2

    May 5, 2017 at 8:50 am

    Awwww!!! The is the sweetest thing I’ve heard in a long tym may the Lord always keep the candle burning……….. Kisses

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