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#PostandDelete: AY Makun’s Wife Mabel has a Message for Freda Francis



On Sunday, CEO of Oasis Med Spa Freda Francis held her push party with close friends and family in attendance. Photos from the event were on social media and also in attendance was actor and comedian AY Makun.

AY’s wife, Mabel Makun, reposted one of the photos from the push party which had both AY and Freda in the shot and she captioned:

The post has since been deleted from her Instagram page.

Mabel also shared screenshots of a chat between two people who appear to be Freda and AY.

These too have also been deleted.


  1. Missappleberry

    June 12, 2017 at 8:52 am

    This comment section would erupt today. AY’s wife shouldn’t have posted this on social media. How did we use to settle such marital issues before social media came up back in the days? Social media seems to be more of a curse than a blessing for those without sense! What’s wrong in calling your husband to order at home or even calling family meeting if need be? Hopefully social media helps sort out her marriage. As for Freda, no words for your shameless self. How does she sleep peacefully at night knowing she wrecks homes for a living? Sad!

    • abi

      June 12, 2017 at 9:53 am

      missappleberry, dat’s y people used to age before their time in the days without social media, cos you never wanted to share your problems with family or friends cos they will give this your advice. Is it horseband that needs “PONYOR” you want to settle amicably with? doesn’t he have sense to respect himself as a public figure? do u know how many times Mabel might have cried and pleaded with her “PONYOR” loving horseband to stop this his ways, so think well and let her deal with the oloriburuku side chick on social media, atleast that worked for them the last time they almost separated.
      Men ehn, God na wa.

    • SoniaPaloma

      June 12, 2017 at 9:54 am

      Please, don’t come and be pouring san san in somebody’s garri o lol. They should bring it to social media so we can sit down with popcorn and 7up and watch all unfold since small pikin dey worry all of them

    • Wake Vintage

      June 13, 2017 at 12:01 am

      Of all the wa ha la and social injustices happening in Nigeria at the moment it is who is f**king whose husband that BNers will latch on to….as always. A comedian that has made his money and a runs girls that is probably carrying a baby that belongs to multiple men. I don’t get it.

    • Nana

      June 13, 2017 at 10:58 am

      I understand the old school way of doing things by our mothers and aunties, but let me ask you? Did he see the need to call a family meeting when he was posting up a picture on Instagram? It’s high time women start to shame these men in public and apologize after loool. Adopt their M.O and use it against them.

  2. mama zee

    June 12, 2017 at 8:53 am

    na wa o, what happened to picking your phone and putting a call across to people? must you put it up and take it down after the damage has been done? sometimes i feel these celebs do these things to let us know what paparazzi didnt get.

  3. Danielle

    June 12, 2017 at 8:53 am

    Every family dispute just has to come on social media. Wash ur dirty linen inside d house biko kwa!

    • anon

      June 12, 2017 at 2:57 pm

      Bia, biko, if dem wash am for inside, wey tin go entertain us. Mabel oo abeg, keep the tea boiling sha. What won’t son of Man hear on a monday morning. My seat is ready and my pop corn is just fresh from the microwave coated with salty butter.

  4. Mystique

    June 12, 2017 at 8:54 am

    i’ll be back for the juicy comments………..

  5. ec

    June 12, 2017 at 8:58 am

    Silly woman!!!
    I guess she closed her eyes when her husband was writing about another woman’s phonyo.

    Bella show the full thread. Mabel is delusional, you know your husband’s eyes wonder yet you focus only on Freda.

    • afi delusional na

      June 12, 2017 at 10:48 am

      Hi Freda, how is your beanie in the pod?
      Quick question ?????????
      Isn’t it against the tradition where you come from that another man shouldn’t have sex with during pregnancy except the father of the child?
      Babes this days have guts ooo
      Please leave the “horseband” and his delusional wife alone biko nu
      They just got out of one wahala don’t goan add kerosene to the fire again
      Focus on the new life that’s about to look up to you for everything
      Don’t let that child think it’s right to go about giving “Ponyor” to other peoples’ spouses and calling the other one “delusional ” when you are called out . E ku igbera ooo , aso kale ayo ma

    • sista

      June 12, 2017 at 10:56 am

      Please, what’s ponyor???

    • stella

      June 12, 2017 at 12:13 pm

      Madam are you joking right now!!!!!!! so now Freda should be exempted out of this because?????? God what is this generation turning into. Her friends husband? what was she thinking having such convo with her friends husband, whatever happened to decency or friendship code?? or women supporting women. If her husband has refuse to listen to her because the freda woman is still giving him face nko. What do you want her to do. She has every right to put the both on check however she wants. All the celebrity nonsense clique going around sleeping with themselves forming friends, God will surly judge all of you.

  6. Cynical

    June 12, 2017 at 9:03 am

    Ghen ghen…….lol. What a way to start the day. Where is my popcorn??
    But on a serious note Mabel,this was unnecessary. Letting us in on things that shouldnt concern us. Also next time,you should be telling AY to leave Freda alone. #justsaying

    • Eliot

      June 12, 2017 at 12:20 pm

      Rightly said.

  7. lolarae

    June 12, 2017 at 9:05 am

    warming my cup for Tea

  8. DrCeeCk

    June 12, 2017 at 9:05 am

    Ngwa nu, since Mabel wants us to talk, BNers over to you! :))))

  9. Rubby

    June 12, 2017 at 9:09 am

    I cannot for d life of me, understand how this wife can disgrace her husband so publicly by putting out those messages,this isn’t fighting for your man, this is dissin him big time and hurting his reputation big time….unbelievable…. Uneffin believable….

    • Random

      June 12, 2017 at 9:24 am

      Its easy for you to play judge when you’re not the victim. She may have done it with the intention of exposing Freda and not with the intention of dissing her man. You didn’t even express any compassion for what she must be feeling. Here lies the problem in our society. Someone has been wronged and your first instinct is to pounce on them. Not even a word of acknowledgement for Fredas unacceptable behavior….sad.

    • Summer

      June 12, 2017 at 9:35 am

      When the husband decided to disgrace himself nko? I think she read the messages and posted them in fury. Or she posted them to wreck Frieda’s friendships (especially with married women) and business because Nigerians don’t play with “home wreckers”. Just go to Stella Damasus or Roseline’s IG and read comments.

      Eleyi gidi gan*. Pregnant and referencing your ex while flirting with your friend’s husband?.

      *This one is tough/serious

    • lilo

      June 12, 2017 at 10:14 am

      In typical naija mentality – the man’s bad behavior should be protected. It’ s always the woman’s fault. Have you for once thought maybe Mabel is just tired of keep up appearances? At the end of the day, a woman needs more than shoes and G-wagon to stay sane in a marriage

    • Screw Patriachy

      June 12, 2017 at 12:36 pm

      And why exactly should she protect his reputation when he isn’t exactly trying to do that himself?

    • DoroAnon

      June 12, 2017 at 3:44 pm

      Rubby go for a brain check! Shei the husband is shameless.they should do it on the street open my nyash I open it nyash.

  10. Random

    June 12, 2017 at 9:17 am

    You can’t please the world….she obviously did it at a point of uncontrollable heightened emotion.
    Whilst I agree that this isn’t the best way, maybe this new way of exposing bad behavior might curb others from shameless and disrespectful ways.
    I feel bad for victims of infidelity. It’s sad that the society always wants to silence and victim blame them

  11. Amaka

    June 12, 2017 at 9:21 am

    Boiling water for my cup of tea…

  12. Tolulope

    June 12, 2017 at 9:24 am

    Open disgrace is the only language that can put common sense in some cheaters brain most especially the snaky ones.
    Good you called them out.

    • ec

      June 12, 2017 at 9:55 am

      Tolulope She didnt call “them” out she called Freda out. Big difference.

      Freda is heavily pregnant and does not need this stress.

    • Cocolette

      June 12, 2017 at 1:37 pm

      She called both AY and Freda out…we can all see AY’s picture in the background of that phone and we know that AY, a ‘public figure’ wants to slack someone’s ponyor or wants his to be slacked. Serves both of em right, I think Mabel is tired of the marriage

    • ij

      June 13, 2017 at 11:51 am

      Exactly , she probably has sought this as a last resort ,a final course of action, when all else has failed,.
      This has probably been going on for some time maybe not only with this freda chick and the babe has had it up to here with trying to resolve this issue in an amicable manner.
      Amicable doesn’t work with everyone

  13. Sunshine

    June 12, 2017 at 9:29 am

    Choiiiii AY see disgrace!!!

  14. Uloma

    June 12, 2017 at 9:32 am

    I thought they were both friends. Sad. When you are so angry and upset and you don’t know which way to turn, go into the bathroom switch off the light and talk to God seriously. This washing of dirty linen is not the best especially if you are going to go back. If you are done and truly fed up then its fine. Also remember you have kids that read social media. Why can we not give consideration to our kids when we do these things. My prayers are will all the parties involved. All marriages involve work, serious work! My mum told me that marriage is a Pandora Box, you never know the entire contents until you open it. It is well Mabel, this too will pass.

    • lilo

      June 12, 2017 at 10:10 am

      Go to bathroom and pray? Mabel posted this cos she has probably had it up to here with that nasty cheating AY. She is probbaly just tired of putting up a front for the unrepentant serial cheat. Cheating can leave indelible scars on anyone.

    • In addition

      June 12, 2017 at 10:48 am

      Very easy, Can you walk a mile in another’s shoes.
      I know your comment is from a good place, Prayer is the master key. In addition to that its not easy sometimes, Mabel may be going thru a lot.
      I guess there is a lot more to this. not just a text nsg.
      I commend her for speaking out, gboko gboko .com.
      I will not step foot in that spa!

    • uloma

      June 12, 2017 at 12:13 pm

      ‘Lilo and In addition, I see your point. I know she must have gone through hell and back. It is intense pain that causes one to do these things. I cannot judge her at all. Let us continue to hold her up in prayer. It is well.

  15. Summer

    June 12, 2017 at 9:36 am

    Question: would you cut ties with Freda if you were a mutual friend? Why? Why not?

    • Josephine

      June 13, 2017 at 12:58 pm

      I wouldn’t be friends with Freda in the first case

  16. I'mJustSayn'

    June 12, 2017 at 9:36 am

    All of you attacking her for posting this. E be like say dem never cheat on una before. IT HURTS! She humiliated him ke? Is his behavior not also disrespectful? This is why most Nigerian men feel entitled to cheat mtsewwww God bless you @Random for speaking my mind. Please guys stop blaming the victim

  17. MadamYe...

    June 12, 2017 at 9:48 am

    I’m here for dirty linen washing…I live for drama…lol

    At least the ‘who’s the baby daddy?’ question has been answered.

    Will be back for more comments…Monday morning just got juicy…

  18. Chapter29

    June 12, 2017 at 9:51 am

    what is wrong with you people saying she did wrong by bringing this to social media? this is why y’all will continue to get cheated on and will keep curing STDS till you run mental because you want to settle it behind closed doors. some men are unrepentant . the woman has clearly has enough like she stated. the screenshot is calling both of them out just one person so y’all leave her be and better start disgracing your hoeing husbands and wives before they kill you. some people need this kind of disgrace 🙂 to think they are familiar with each other smh

  19. Spunky

    June 12, 2017 at 9:52 am

    AY I hail Ooo…baddest guy! Seriously though, this na epic disgrace gan.

  20. Wendy

    June 12, 2017 at 9:53 am

    Lmao! ??? Yasss! Sis, yasss! shame both of them and yourself join! Let everybody’s yansh be outside, we will epp you fan it.
    AY the shameless nasty cheat.
    Freda the shameless home wrecker.
    Mabel the shameless frustrated wife.
    Out of everybody na Mabel own small pass so I say it’s worth the risk.

    I’m all for this type of dirty laundry o. Let everyone know what we’re cooking that the house burned down fa? No more silence! All of you advising her to pray or solve it in secret. Abeg who secret epp?

  21. Temi

    June 12, 2017 at 9:54 am

    Where are the people shouting Freda’s baby daddy no concern anyone? Shebi you all thought her “is your boyfriend ‘s sperm clap back” was funny? I hope this is still funny. Shameless girls. Someone shows up knocked up without naming him baby daddy and y’all think it’s cool . I guess ish is all cool until ish hits the fan in your living room.

  22. missappleberry

    June 12, 2017 at 9:55 am

    On a second note, is Freda a lesbian? Why is she wishing to slack AY’s Ponyor if he was a woman? Or am I the one that can’t read and comprehend? Hian!

    • Lailatu

      June 12, 2017 at 10:35 am

      @ missappleberry, I think it’s Ay that’s saying he’ll slag her ponyor as long as she’s a woman… whatever that means.

    • Weezy

      June 13, 2017 at 1:22 am


  23. tomatoes...

    June 12, 2017 at 9:55 am

    chaii…and the Freda is pregnant oo… Choii AY! who knows….hmmmmmm!

  24. melinda

    June 12, 2017 at 9:56 am

    here for comments***

  25. Truth

    June 12, 2017 at 9:59 am

    Hmnnnnn, women thier own worst enemies.
    Ay’s Wife has been quiet for so long.
    I recollect when she allegedly moved out of her house and moved back in , all in silence.
    I am in no support of anyone but sometimes there is only so much a human being can take. Spa CEO, aka Freda , needs to be called out.
    CEO indeed, everyone knows how you finance
    SPA. Ask, Don Jazzy, Iyanya, Akapabio, Ay & co.
    Haba Aunty Freda! The guts these girls have sef.
    She even asked some one recently on her page if thier boyfriend’s sperm is missing.
    So pls free Mabel , let her speak, its her page too.
    As for you Ay , despite how beautiful your wife is ?
    And she is been there for you since day 1. According to you Ay…….. Now this !

    • Chiyonce

      June 12, 2017 at 2:33 pm

      @Truth But the spa is not even hers na

  26. Asa

    June 12, 2017 at 10:01 am

    Biko what is Ponyor? I can’t by reading the message tell who is sending and who is receiving. Is it that Freda wants to slack AY’s ponyor? Abi AY wants to slack Freda’s own? Aghotaro m!

    • sista

      June 12, 2017 at 11:04 am

      Freda’s messages appear on the left(white). Its her name that appears on the title bar. The message was grabbed from AYs phone
      Anyone noticed Freda Newest??? Does that mean there’s an existing Freda?
      Edible Caterers Incorporated

    • lilo

      June 12, 2017 at 11:14 am

      @ sista – could be Freda changed her number and AY saved it as Freda’s Newest Number

    • TA

      June 12, 2017 at 6:59 pm

      Mabel sorry for all the wahala. Please if you are reading this, read the comments from Sonia Paloma at 10.02, Rubby at 11.28 and Tosin 11.51am. If you have done this, then leave the marriage with your dignity intact. You have finished all the ammunition in your arsenal, there’s no use staying further in a marriage where your husband clearly thinks so little of your feelings. You and your kids would be fine. Leave the idiot.

  27. SoniaPaloma

    June 12, 2017 at 10:02 am

    As for me, I am all up for this public shaming and all but where i have a problem with most African women is calling out their cheating husband, raining bricks and stones on them for cheating and at the end of the day after all that madness they go back to being the ‘perfect wife’ and you think the man will respect you?. It is just going to be a continuous cycle
    Do not snoop to find out if your man is cheating if you are not ready to do something bold and unforgettable about it. All these cry and shouting will only last for a moment before the cycle continues
    SMH!! Women, we need to do better, demand for your RESPECT when you are being disrespected

    • Tosin

      June 12, 2017 at 11:51 am

      Exactly. Calling your husband out in public is so wrong EXCEPT you are leaving him then shame him to the gods. I’ll even help you take 1 minute ad on CNN sef, but call your husband out in public and still stay there, go out with him, take pictures, still be Mrs Makun etc. You just made yourself laughing stock of town. Which kind eye people want to dey take look you now ehn madam. What you had been sorting out in private and people already know or guess you just confirmed in public.

      In trying to shame the other woman and your husband, you have disrespected yourself as well because the whole world now knows you as the foolish woman who still stays no matter what her husband does. It’s one thing for people to guess or snicker behind your back, it’s another for you to give them information to pity you. You either shut your mouth and keep enjoying the benefits his money rings and accept your fate or you call him out and pack your bags. You can’t sit on the fence missy.

      When you disgrace a Nigerian man, if he was still hiding it before out of a quasi sense of respect for you, you have just given him green card to do more. Shey you have disgraced him now, he’ll tell you to do your worst. This is a Patrichal society. Men get away with ish like this and nothing will happen. Mabel your wahala has just entreated gear two. See how your husband hasn’t taken the picture down! He’s still posting about his movie. He’s sending you a message. You took the wrong move.

      That’s how one family member of mine went to disgrace her husbands side chick at the girls house. Beat her up, tore her clothes etc. Her husband was like ehn ehn, sho tan e. You have done our worst. Okay now. What I was hiding from you and everyone, you have brought me out like this. Who will marry her now after all this drama you caused. Okay, I will marry her as second wife, you can go jump into the lagoon if you wish.

      Family intervened, family meetings upon meetings. She was even begging. That’s what our society has reduced women to. This man said no. She has disgraced him so he would return the favour. The man married this side chick o, first pregnancy was twin boys. Aunty first wife hasn’t stopped crying. Neither has she left the house/marriage. The man just left her there abandoned. She can’t show her face at family functions anymore. The embarrassment is too much. The man is flaunting his second wife all over town with no care in the world. Whether his marriage to the girl will last or not isn’t the issue, he will very likely still continue cheating but his first madam ignited a power keg she shouldn’t have, if she wasn’t ready to leave.

      Disgrace a rich Nigerian man at your peril. Shut up and stay or leave and make noise. You can’t have both. Not in our society.

  28. lilo

    June 12, 2017 at 10:04 am

    Any respectable woman would have named her baby daddy, call it a day and avoid this kind of dragging. When women don’t respect themselves, this is what happens. Useless girl. I knew it was thee usual messiness when there was no man to claim her and her baby. Awon push party crew will see you through ijn. Amen

    • Anonymous

      June 12, 2017 at 2:07 pm

      Too funny.

  29. Stuz

    June 12, 2017 at 10:19 am

    Guess poor Mabel is fed up.

  30. Blueberry

    June 12, 2017 at 10:30 am

    Its an unwritten law that friends should not be too comfortable around another friend’s spouse.
    What was she thinking chatting like that with AY? That is dangerous territory. You dont do that.
    Write to your friend’s hubby/wife to send information about something relevant to the family or kids and end it there. Don’t overstep the boundaries and start chatting/flirting. Before long, you will be called a home-breaker even if these were not your intentions.

  31. Smh

    June 12, 2017 at 10:30 am

    Those of you that always use that “why bring private matters to SM” should shut up! If you’re not about that life, why did you open the post? People share their experiences so you lots can learn a thing or two from it. Who are you to tell people how to deal with their emotional issues ?if bringing it here makes them feel good, it’s not your business. ??????

  32. Lord have mercy!

    June 12, 2017 at 10:33 am

    comments section about to be lite! I will be back, popcorn and zobo in tow.

  33. Nk

    June 12, 2017 at 10:52 am

    Let me grab my oatmeal ?and banana bread ? comments section bout to be lit!

  34. CHERYL

    June 12, 2017 at 10:56 am

    she try sef, i for go drag d mumu man for the event, wat a shame, disgracing ur wife with another woman who would probably see ur wife tomorrow and smile and hug her, AY is a serial cheat but this is just unacceptable, no need to cover nonsense, draag him, if dem like make dem settle afterwards or scatter afterwards, she cant just sit and watch her hubby bring disease to her, una think say na clear eye she take pack her load comot the last time? all the home wreckers everywhere, na so one take send inbox to my hubby while we were still courting, say “if no be say dat babe hold u tight i for like shine ur congo,” unfortunately for her, i was on his page cos he gave me password so i kindda run his facebook, na soo i 1st ask am which kain conversation dem get wey go mke her comfortable to type such, after he expalined, i replied the girl and finished her, apas she is also engaged to b married wen she wrote dat to my man, omo i finished d living dead out of her, she deleted and blocked my man on every of her social media wrote a long apology to me and always pass left wen i am passing right, see long epistle, i dey vex jare, 🙂 drag mabel draaaaag

  35. Licious

    June 12, 2017 at 11:07 am

    @Uloma, I hope the day you will make a similar ‘mistake’ your ozban will enter bathroom, even pit toilet and pray for you. Wehdone ma. At the end of the day, it is still some women that enable these men and encourage them to continue in their shameless ways because they know there would be no consequences and they are double sure that their wives will declare a fast for them and rub ashes on their foreheads. What a waste! If tables were turned, would AY pray for her. That guy has always creeped me out anyways. Abeg ma breakfast is getting cold.

    • uloma

      June 12, 2017 at 12:09 pm

      sorry Lucious, you will wait until die kingdom come! make your own comment and leave other people’s comment alone. My husband and I are great thank you for asking, Not by my power though! kisses and loads of hugs from us!

    • uloma

      June 12, 2017 at 12:19 pm

      *Thy’ not “die” sorry Licious for the typo. Have a beautiful day love!

  36. Rubby

    June 12, 2017 at 11:28 am

    The point really is that this type of behavior is counter productive,so that we don’t begin to copy/learn the wrong things…. How dyou disgrace ur mate, male or female publicly in d hope that it would save the relationship,this is what you do when you r done with the relationship, you can disgrace them publicly and be done with it for good …i know she’s hurt,who wouldn’t be??am not excusing their behavior,i’d be livid too but this isnt the way… This is all shades of dysfunctional to “disgrace me,just because u want to kip me” naaaaaaaaaaaa that is dysfunctional love….nothing healthy about it. if I may say so myself in Jay Z’s voice..

    • Tosin

      June 12, 2017 at 11:54 am

      Loud it. Ladies don’t try this with Nigerian men ooooo. It’s counter productive. You will suffer in the end. That’s why we say never go for the side chick. Save your battle for the horseband you married.

  37. o

    June 12, 2017 at 11:28 am

    Why post if you will end up deleting? That’s why you shouldn’t act when angry.

    So if Mabel and AY make up now, with which kind of eye does she want Nigerians to look at her husband?? IMO if you are still going to remain in a marriage, you shouldn’t be calling out your better half so publicly. But what do I know????????

    • SoniaPaloma

      June 12, 2017 at 11:43 am

      Nigerians are already looking at them with corner eyes after the beating allegation exclusively released by SDK although they denied it (but see mercy aigbe and hubby)
      We all go sit down look

    • No Frauds

      June 12, 2017 at 5:17 pm

      The post and delete is a tactic. She knew people would screen grab. I don’t think she’s sends to be honest. The guy own don dey too much. Such a beautiful woman stayed with him when he had nothing. Just negodu. This is how you repay your wife.

  38. Prince

    June 12, 2017 at 11:30 am

    ??????I love 9ja comment, am listening ?? u guys are making my day

    • my opinion

      June 12, 2017 at 5:44 pm

      To my knowledge, Freda is not a party to the marriage. If she has a problem with anyone, it should be with her husband. Freda doesn’t owe her anything, it’s her husband that does.

  39. Rubby

    June 12, 2017 at 11:30 am

    Thank u o, my point exactly…

  40. yummymummycumchick

    June 12, 2017 at 11:30 am

    trouble in paradise!!!!!

  41. Oh! My! God!

    June 12, 2017 at 11:32 am

    This is the next money maker in the next AT show. Lwkmd


    June 12, 2017 at 11:44 am

    Somebody get me a nice cup of coffee…. this Telemundo will be very addictive

  43. Annie

    June 12, 2017 at 11:44 am

    We must hear Ponyor? Joke next year at AyLive. I’m ready to buy ticket now sef..Mr Fumigator??

  44. bee

    June 12, 2017 at 11:47 am

    Freda! Freda! Freda leave people husband +ooo for how long will u use ur ponyor to climb n maintain this hunger for fame n relevance. Pls allow Dear Mabel it’s not easy for a woman to be with a man all thru frm university days till now one ponyor giver will come n spoil her home. If this public disgrace will help us keep Freda’s ponyor closed then let it. Freda I hope after this baby u will learn to have a decent life n decent earning cos ur child will grow up one day to think serving married men with ur ponyor is the only way to life.

  45. Annie

    June 12, 2017 at 11:54 am

    We must hear Ponyor?Joke at AyLive next year. I’m ready to buy ticket now sef…Mr Fumigator ??

  46. M&

    June 12, 2017 at 12:09 pm

    What’s a ‘married’ man doing at push party sef? I thought those things are exclusively for lady friends of the mama to be? Seems like a ‘woman wrapper’ kind of waka!

    • shabba

      June 12, 2017 at 1:45 pm

      Not only that. He went without his wife. That’s correct oniranu man jare

    • I'mJustSayn'

      June 12, 2017 at 2:00 pm

      As in! Serious oniranu!

    • Mom of 3

      June 12, 2017 at 5:28 pm

      Not if he is the father. Let us wait and see, since no man has come out publicly to claim her and her pregnancy. Home wreckers everywhere. Tufia!

  47. tell em

    June 12, 2017 at 12:14 pm

    i was told the accused normally forms uncle and mentor and bff while doing under G….a lady said she nearly wreck her home forming family friend and business partner while travelling the world with the spouse for honeymoon ..she sorted out with the husband sha not the accused..but there is something awkward about doing bf with a married man while excluding the spouse..lastly Ay too should behave himself and know his boundaries

    • Wendy

      June 12, 2017 at 2:01 pm

      Travelling the world with ak47 a married man & Freda was posting the pics on insta that year and still forming bff.

  48. Jess

    June 12, 2017 at 12:23 pm

    Freda is not the problem. If she keeps her “ponyor” shut, it’s no guarantee her husband won’t go in search of another “ponyor”. You can’t control the behaviour of ladies around your husband but your husband can control his behaviour around ladies.

    I don’t believe in posting my business for the world to see. If your husband can’t control himself leave him.

    • No Frauds

      June 12, 2017 at 5:20 pm

      @jess please don’t derail this post. This particular post is about Freda and how she wants to give Ay a married man her Ponyor or whatever the hell they r talking about

  49. Eliot

    June 12, 2017 at 12:28 pm

    Mabel should concentrate on AY , as a mum and wife and the husband been a celebrity , should not give bloggers expo .
    She should learn to handle such things maturely. Not social media ranting and deleting the post. After the damage has been done. Now it’s allover the dailies. Blogs . Let’s learn to control our anger and tempers.

  50. Udegbunam Chukwudi

    June 12, 2017 at 12:37 pm

    I’m just here to find gossip for comment section

  51. Lipstickalley

    June 12, 2017 at 12:42 pm

    The only person i am worried for in this entire convo is “Don Jazzy”. The dude cant just catch a break. Soon, SM will be ablaze with Ponyor and Jazzy’s face. Lollll

  52. leave na

    June 12, 2017 at 12:49 pm

    If Mabel cant take it, make she pack her load go na

    silly idiot…why not call your husband out….why calling Freda out

    Posting their chats means you should be ready for the heat….thank God say you have a hood husband….hin for send u out sef and follow d new girl

    Mabel did this too when AY went to Big brother house saying Tboss should leave her husband…she has a lot of insecurities….Waka if you cant deal

  53. Mahka

    June 12, 2017 at 12:53 pm

    Multiple cheating allegations, sexist slurs, DV insuniuation; Ay is just a handful.
    Freda, today you claim ‘ praying partner’ with Iyanya, tomorrow is bestie with a married man; girl you need to get it together, you are now responsible for another human being. What do you want to be remembered for eh?
    Mabel dear, take a break for your Child n Mental health sake no one will judge you.

    • shabba

      June 12, 2017 at 1:47 pm

      Were you guys not praising her in the othe thread?

  54. Stephen

    June 12, 2017 at 1:03 pm

    What is ponyor please before I comment what I don’t know

  55. but wait o

    June 12, 2017 at 1:08 pm

    But wait o, where do all these commenters surface from?

    You people hardly say nada on every other post except for gossip, relationship or men wahala

    Someone once said many women will be in hell fire…not cos of cheating or sleeping around but cos of gossip

    i raise yansh for una o

    • Mystique

      June 12, 2017 at 2:17 pm

      mind your language……… you can state your point clearly without the use of “gutter” language.

    • but wait o

      June 12, 2017 at 4:09 pm

      Mystique, ode ni e
      what is gutter word there now?
      common gtfoh

  56. CHERYL

    June 12, 2017 at 1:16 pm

    BN where is my comment oooooo, post my comment na

  57. Tosin

    June 12, 2017 at 1:55 pm

    I don’t know all these people, but it seems the guy is a comedian and is joking around. His wife has no sense of humour?

    • No Frauds

      June 12, 2017 at 5:22 pm

      Oh please!!! Who you be sef. Alwaysbforming I don’t know these people on Bellanaija posts. Na only you waka come. Abegi make we hear word. Always talkmbout I don’t know these people. Girl/boy bye!

    • osa

      June 13, 2017 at 12:51 am

      True this “Tosin” person always forming not knowing the vibes around town. And wanting to make “neutral” comments and acting all holy and proper. We bella naija faithful “commentators” aint got time for your shitty comments.

      Abegiii,. . . . shift from this place with her/his dry and irrelevant comments

  58. Cyn

    June 12, 2017 at 2:47 pm

    Has anyone considered that this might just be Silly/Unnecessary flirting?

    • Nne Umu Boys!

      June 12, 2017 at 2:59 pm

      so what? does that make it okay?

  59. divaworld

    June 12, 2017 at 3:17 pm

    Freda u have seen it all u don’t just have good reputation at all

  60. Sunshine

    June 12, 2017 at 3:33 pm

    @Cyn I strongly believe without question that you are part of those men who thinks it’s Norma to cheat and still claim to love your wife. The tunder waiting for you and Bros AY including that – Freda is still in China…wait for it mitchew

  61. African divas slaying

    June 12, 2017 at 4:06 pm

    Ahn ahn! Annie. Why copy my comment from Instagram to paste here? Is that how unoriginal you are? Word for word. Yes I commented on ay’s page on IG @african_divas_slaying

  62. stella

    June 12, 2017 at 4:08 pm

    @Tosin,, and your point exactly??????? POINTLESS!!!! Too much nollywood i guess. So if my husband is cheating i should stay quiet and fight only my husband? Hell no! the two of them must be called out. if you haven’t noticed these days single ladies prefer married men. What if the reserve is the case… Please both married man and their mistress should be dragged equally. All are wrong!!!!!!!

  63. ms lala

    June 12, 2017 at 4:15 pm

    It’s the same reason Freda lost friendship with Elite model boss who is also a namesake. Una notice how toke no show face for the party lol. Hmmmmmm Freda is someone you give hand too.

    • Temi

      June 12, 2017 at 7:08 pm

      Elohor welcome . I dey hail you as I see your brake lights

  64. Diamond

    June 12, 2017 at 5:00 pm

    No wonder he was sympathetic to BBN Karen. Animal!

    • Omodolapo

      June 12, 2017 at 5:33 pm

      Kemen, you mean.

  65. bee

    June 12, 2017 at 5:38 pm

    AY, time to fumigate your house!!

  66. my opinion

    June 12, 2017 at 5:46 pm

    To my knowledge, Freda doesn’t owe her anything, it’s her husband that does. Stop harassing people outside and focus on the person that owes you loyalty.

  67. Na Wa!

    June 12, 2017 at 7:14 pm

    hahahahaha! its obvious flirting which Freda has no right to do. But Mabel iss really stupid. Let no idiot mention Yoruba demon here. You want yoruba men, yet you no get the mind of a Yoruba woman. You never see anything….hahahahahaha

  68. kkay

    June 12, 2017 at 10:42 pm

    Lady, what are you married to? AY’s fame, money, disrespect, domestic violence or cheating? A man that has no respect for you? Make up your mind.

    Why do some Nigerian women stay in marriages where they are cheated on, suffer domestic violence and/or emotionally abused?
    Keeping up appearances, tagging Mrs to their names….. or simply because some of them ‘need’ these men to foot their bills? Some women especially the single ones selling themselves cheap to men for material things.
    Go earn your keep women and stop giving some lousy men the opportunity to walk all over you.
    Live within your means and be content instead of faking it.

    Don’t go saying you stayed back with an abusive or adulterous man because of your children. All the more reason you should leave to protect them from the psychological trauma of witnessing all that.
    *IF a woman is all this terrible things to a man, he should also protect his sanity and health by leaving.

    • Riri

      June 13, 2017 at 1:17 am

      Its a case of choosing what life you want.

      Me i am not married at 35. I know the disrespect and apprehension i get from different places (totally unelligible men o)

      People much much younger than me in my office are treated with respect etc simply because they are “mrs” so and so. They are not called with their first names unlike me (pls u know how big we are in naija on such issues).
      That one is even small. Very unelligible uneducated, incinsidetable men will start giving attitude.
      Me in my life i have never approached a man.
      Its gotten so bad that a male friend from my childhood who got recently got blind o, actually blocked me on whatsapp simply becos i invited him (out of pity and care) to a mutual friend’s party which he was fully aware of. He thought it was an invitation to a date! Imagine!
      Even in his healthy state he is the last person i would date. Tall in a very ungraceful manner and just unattraactively tall and big with just a “mugunish” aura (you know those sort of big and stupid looking people). It is now that one that thinks i may have the tiniest ounce of intetest in him. Simply becos im not married at my age.

      Or is it the insult i got from a colleague with a head as big as africa. Or one village product . Once u are nice you must be intetestef in them. And if you are not nice. Your problems have taken over u. Its the respect we accord and attach to these things. So women who may not be strong will settle for anything

  69. lisa

    June 13, 2017 at 7:25 am

    eleyi deep!!!

  70. stella

    June 13, 2017 at 11:12 am

    A word is enough for the wise Mabel your friends are pretenders and hypocrites: Annie, Freda, Naomi, Stella and the rest.. disgracing yourselves up and down.. all social climbers that sleeps with anything to get famous, fights and envy each other secretly. I thought you are all friends why cant you tell Freda that what she did was wrong… Cowards!!! that does not know what friendship code stands for. Mabel receive sense and leave these girls they will ruin your family. THEY are not your friend or love you. They are just your friend because of the status that is all. Nonsense wannabees!!!

  71. Josephine

    June 13, 2017 at 1:09 pm

    If AY found a chat between his wife and her friend with this kind of dirty talk he would drag them both to the ends of the earth. Well done, Freda dirty gist about you and your friend’s husband AGAIN.

  72. Tisha

    June 13, 2017 at 4:33 pm

    Do whatever makes you happy
    Just don’t stoop to his level.

    If you want to leave him, get in touch with a lawyer that would make sure he pays you half his earnings monthly, pays the children’s school fees and takes care of all his needs.

    If you want him you had better pray he has an encounter with the LORD because the money has gone to his head he probably thinks he can sleep with all Nigerian women

  73. Letty

    June 17, 2017 at 3:18 pm

    Mabel has left before and they begged her and three a party for her. I think she’s done with ay…hr deserves to be disgraced. Men are very stupid even the ones that call themselves pastors are just as bad. If he’s a chtonic womanizer she should leave him.

  74. Xyz

    July 5, 2017 at 5:59 am

    Uncle Ay I think u have really made her to be insecure to this point.She’s young and beautiful & sexy who says u can’t talk dirty with her.Pls make her feel special by apologizing.Take her to her favorite sport &_pour out ur mind to her telling her how much u love her .I also think u shld try & mend ur ways too.,celebrity or not we all need stability in our marriage/ familyWhen pple see u happy together guess they will keep shut. I beg do this 4 d sake of her sanity,guess she’s loosing it..

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