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Toke Makinwa: “Check Your Man”! Nigerian Media Personality speaks on “To Snoop or Not to Snoop”

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  1. Spotter

    August 28, 2013 at 3:24 pm

    Here we go again #Tokestarr lol

    • slice

      August 28, 2013 at 5:37 pm

      lol i knew toke won’t get love today. her vlogs have been getting some love recently but in the wake of Stella and Ali baba and their keep a man talk, people have just had enough. pele Toke. I think there’s some transferred aggression. pele

    • Woman of God

      August 29, 2013 at 11:59 am

      Auntie Toke, you clearly like this snooping business because this is the 2nd time you are doing a vlog on it in less than 6months just with different titles.tokemakinwa.com/2013/03/vlog-update-toke-makinwa-responds.html
      Or maybe it’s because in your blog it’s the only vlog that got you a lot of comments. Back to the matter at hand, is this snooping advice for single or married people? Both sexes? The answer is important because for single people, if you are insecure enough to want to find out things behind his back, that’s a wrong foundation, the relationship is faulty if you can’t ask freely and get honest truthful answers. For married people, what exactly is the point of snooping? To know if you want to stay or walk away from the marriage? To know if you should buckle up in some areas? The problem with the snooping is that most people that do it, live in acrimony because most times it’s hard to confront the partner with the half facts and distorted truths discovered from the snooping. It leaves the person snooping worse and with a victim mentality. For people that base their snooping on intuition- saying they snoop when they sense something is amiss, the truth is if you spend the time used in fretting and snooping to seek God concerning your relationship, He will reveal things that you will never discover on your own and this also applies to people that are still dating/ courting. Lets remember, that unless The Lord watches the house, in vain do the watchmen keep wake.

  2. Spotter

    August 28, 2013 at 3:26 pm

    Toke always hiding her knuckles lool. Embrace ur knuckles #okbye

    • Bimbo

      August 28, 2013 at 3:40 pm

      Lol………. Those knuckles ehhhnn . Why hide them, if you are bleaching then owe up to it and ROCK it proudly . Every recent picture of Toke , shows her hiding it

    • [email protected]

      August 28, 2013 at 4:42 pm

      Only Knickes wht of the Knee my Good Ness that is the only Thing i See BLEACHING. If you want a quick Way to geht Rich Look for a Kindney/dialysis Center Franchise because in the next Ten years Business will be booming

    • daretobe

      August 28, 2013 at 4:57 pm

      WHATATTAT , she looks really scary in the video ….Toke i am BEGGING YOU , please slow down with the bleaching . O boy , no be small thing oooo………. Please pls i am begging u , u almost white on the video

  3. tm

    August 28, 2013 at 3:29 pm

    I’m loving that colour on her lips………. daz all!

  4. Bimbo

    August 28, 2013 at 3:38 pm

    One day God will deliver us from these Toke vlog …….. We dont go to her site, so Bella Naija has to force it through our throat ………Chai . Bella naija team, Toke has a website why dont u let it be on her website for who ever is interested.

  5. CYNTHIA

    August 28, 2013 at 3:43 pm

    nice outfit…………………………….

  6. Ola

    August 28, 2013 at 3:45 pm

    this babe is always talking about men,women and relationship,i think she shuold face hers first and be sure dat her boo is gonna marry her cos 8 years relationship is a long thing ooo…so pls stop all this bla bla bla and knw ow far with you first and then you can start to advise.

  7. ty

    August 28, 2013 at 3:51 pm

    y is looking like she dint shave..nna nawa o!

  8. temmie

    August 28, 2013 at 3:54 pm

    Ruby woo. love the hair and yes we all have snooped at some point.

  9. ty

    August 28, 2013 at 4:01 pm

    however sha, she made sense, its better to know cuz d period i dint know, my bf was seriously cheating on me, i kinda had an idea but he claimed they were just friends, i believed him and found out it was a lie…i forgave him o! but since then no dullin, im a very good detective now. i dont even check for msgs and calls to girls…i check for msgs to his best friends cuz i knw he would tell them d truth..if its dleted..na to go and revive history, call dates, which 1was recieved, dialled,missed..hmmm, i check everything nw, and im much happier to be in d know than wen i dint chek anythin and i was being treated like a fool!

    • asgrl

      August 28, 2013 at 4:31 pm

      But honestly, if you have to do all of this inspector gadget work, is the relationship really worth it? On a regular basis, when you’re on your own, are you crazy? Do you check up on your parents, siblings or friends in the same manner? Why are you allowing a relationship with a man make you act out of character?

      Hmm there is nothing like peace of mind. I cherish it.That stress of always constantly questioning will eat at you and is very unhealthy. You’re there stressing about what he’s saying or not saying to people, and he’s elsewhere, very well relaxed with or without his side piece.

      Don’t you want a relationship where when the man says the sky is blue, you don’t have to look out the window to confirm?

    • Grace E

      August 28, 2013 at 5:29 pm

      I 200% agree with your comment!!I personally don’t find anyone worth this kind of unnecessary stress…I used to do that for my friends. but now, I believe I’m grown past these…f I give someone my ultimate loyalty, I expect same. “For each man will carry his own load”

    • pynk

      August 28, 2013 at 4:40 pm

      all this paranoia to keep a relationship? na wa.

    • Grace E

      August 28, 2013 at 5:02 pm

      you’re better off breaking up with him..doesn’t even sound worth it..why all the stress and paranoia?

    • Grace E

      August 28, 2013 at 5:33 pm

      pardon the first part of this comment (BN we may need an edit button)…I am in no position to decide what’s better off for u and your relationship..

    • Syl

      August 28, 2013 at 9:48 pm

      Please continue snooping. I’ll rather know/have an idea what my bf is doing than sleeping on a bicycle (I hate being taken for a fool). I don’t usually go checking all the time but once that female intuition sets in, trust me am always a 101% right. Thumbs up Toke for this video.

    • Labsy

      August 29, 2013 at 5:26 am

      You know this is not a requirement sha? Like this is not the norm o. Some girls are happily married and you can be too if you offload this pain in the arse you call your bf. this is not likely to get better

    • Bella

      August 29, 2013 at 11:32 am

      babes slow down biko, all this time is coming off your life span, is this relationship then that really wprth it, cause ot seems to me your are in it to be CIA, not enjoying the time together, abeg don vex, but time is short as it is, why spent it iwht someone who is not honest with you, am sure you deserve better. This is too much investigation o, maybe i am wrong but at times ignorance is bliss o.

    • Miss Anonymous

      August 29, 2013 at 3:03 pm

      Hahahaha! Reminds me of the crazy chic in Tyler Perry’s “Why did I get married?” No offence meant though 🙂

  10. Jd

    August 28, 2013 at 4:03 pm

    Yeh she’s obviously hiding her knuckles. Maybe some of her artificial nails are pulled off

    • ..

      August 28, 2013 at 5:05 pm

      Fell off in every single recent picture……………duh !!!

  11. Ada

    August 28, 2013 at 4:31 pm

    oyibo pepper toke looking at u reminds me of Micheal.J bleach on, one day u skin go vanish

  12. eesha

    August 28, 2013 at 4:34 pm

    Lol. She started with an accent but along the way it disappeared. She reminds me of little miss Jocelyn on EbonyLive TV.

  13. Ada

    August 28, 2013 at 4:35 pm

    lol indeed she hides her knuckles in all her pictures, and d video, lol aunty oyibo what are ashame of

  14. D'Mamma

    August 28, 2013 at 4:40 pm

    Plz what are you guys looking for in her knuckles, she only has to speak. she’s not in a boxing ring. That being said, if she decides to bleach, its her choice entirely. If her bleaching makes you feel darker, then by all means join the bleaching community. It might just save you some headache

    • Laide

      August 28, 2013 at 5:14 pm

      Lmaoooo…if her bleaching makes you darker….dead!
      Tbh, I don’t think I would ever understand why people make it their business and take it so personal. I like being dark, some one else doesn’t…soo??

  15. Omo1

    August 28, 2013 at 4:44 pm

    I think she should begin wearing gloves..

  16. Lolu

    August 28, 2013 at 5:00 pm

    I feel bad for the girl in question, I don’t know how anyone with a full time job can live a double life. The guy even has a son that she didn’t know about. She probably isn’t close to anyone in the guys family or cos they would have mentioned it to her. Poor girl, its better she found out now. On to the next one!

    Btw i love Tokes hair

    • Labsy

      August 29, 2013 at 5:21 am

      Some family are standard olofos. They will sit there and courr multiple girlfriends for their son/brother. They no send you. They will wound you with “iyawo wa” oju aiye. My ex s mom knew about the other chic even tho she exploited me of Ankara Vlisco and coral beads. I’m sure she exploited the other chic too. We both left her son …mama Elebi oshi

  17. pwetty

    August 28, 2013 at 5:09 pm

    The name of d vlog is ‘to snoop or not to snoop’ not y is toke’s knuckle not showing nigerians

  18. spareme

    August 28, 2013 at 5:40 pm

    Snoop around for what…….the ONLY thing you have to check ( as a single girl) is your that your legs are FIRMLY together…..sister Mary and co. Abomination single girls checking, this society sef some babes are seriously turning this so called men into gods……am I so jobless!!!! If you have a busy and a fulfilled life you would not have time for such crap! As for the married sisters do not make your lives miserable by snooping….you are in too deep…all you can do is PRAY and live your life to the fullest!!

    • honest

      August 29, 2013 at 3:00 pm

      love u gurl u jst hit nd nail on d head

  19. xty

    August 28, 2013 at 5:41 pm

    The hair and the dress in the pic are v cute,I must say..But I can’t get over the knuckle comment! I feel she should start wearing hand glove!

  20. I see friends shaking hands, saying how do you do? They're really saying I love you

    August 28, 2013 at 6:23 pm

    Sit down there, let the pant be wearing you. LOL!

    One observation though is that her accent is now somewhat stable.

    I wish her all the best.

  21. Ayomipo

    August 28, 2013 at 6:49 pm

    Ok. Toke stop lyong about mary sending you emails. Ur senario is always hypothetical and there is no problem with that.

  22. Maggie

    August 28, 2013 at 7:14 pm

    Toke is saying it as it is! I check my bf phone when I sense something is off, or I do that when I feel I haven’t snooped in while. To be frank I do not trust any man!! So to save yourself if you feel there’s a problem you check on it. I have a cousin that checks her Oga’s phone whenever he comes back from nigeria, they just broke up after she read some of his messg on bbm. How would my sista have known he decided to give himself a holiday pass ? Check on ur if need be!

  23. teegirl

    August 28, 2013 at 7:41 pm

    All d best 2 her..

  24. Lily

    August 28, 2013 at 7:51 pm

    Jesu Mi o! Oh ye BellaNigerians, I can see you old trashy women are tough behind your keyboards or whatever device you type from.
    This Girl(Toke Makinwa) is busy doing her own job doing what she probably knows how to do best (media personality)., and you bunch of trashy unfortunate skanks would sit in the comfort of your homes (probably waiting for your husbands to bring money home) and castigate this hardworking girl??? Have you idiots no iota of shame??? If youre so busy with your lives, im not sure you’d be here commenting to backlash and castigate other peoples hustle. Your names have been spelled in misery! Awon oloriburuku! Most of you dont even have husbands let alone kids, instead of you to focus on your babalawo ( Cos thats what most of you do best) and let him find solution to your problems, youre busy trashing out Toke Makinwa! Im sorry for your dirty lives! Ori Gbogbo yin ti buru!

    Lily Said so!

    • Ada

      August 29, 2013 at 10:20 am

      lily am sorry but u are not better than the” bunch of trashy unfortunate skanks” infact u are a bigger one, u would have just commented on the topic of the day zuzu out other than read peoples comment and talk rubbish. freedom of speech/write

    • Ada

      August 29, 2013 at 11:06 am

      dear lily I just read Ayodeji Osowobi`s story, since u r an expert in reading peoples comment, read tru the comment and see if there is any negative comment. that’s an inspiriation, am sure some rape victims will see her as a role model now that’s d kind of things we want to see not some bleached oyibo wanna who has a funny relationship coming out to dish out relationship tips

  25. EBA and FUFU

    August 28, 2013 at 8:52 pm

    TOKE pls stop bleaching! its ok u are now fair plz its time to consider ur skin

  26. Cynthia

    August 28, 2013 at 9:06 pm

    Too much of same thing is bad, honestly I clicked, watched for two seconds, and I hit the stop button, I’m tired of hearing abt men this, relationship that.women this. I don tire.

  27. Ms. T

    August 28, 2013 at 9:08 pm

    Nne Toke is looking white. What’s going on ?

  28. Lina

    August 28, 2013 at 9:08 pm

    This whole toke bleaching issue ehnnnn. Oyah o toke, I have a question for you. Please kindly do a vlog on nigerian women bleaching and either confirm or deny the allegations against you….pls humour me….your vlog’s are entertaining! ….well,most of them…kudos!

  29. miss mi

    August 28, 2013 at 9:25 pm

    toke hugs n kisses for you. am team snoop all the way!! atleast it saved me from a mistake the last time the dude was married with a child on the way, yes a child. I use to form won’t do that because my first boyfriend would tell me all the truth but I realized that was him some guys won’t. if I meet another dude will I do it again ? yes n yes. am I insecure? no just to be sure that a surprise baby and wife is not waiting for me. he takes 1second nap I snoop, a tip don’t check the female friends they usually discuss it with their male partner in crime,then delete or save the girls messages so you won’t notice it. good luck with snooping and pulizzzz don’t get caught!

  30. stella

    August 28, 2013 at 9:59 pm

    well said Toke. i support lily’s comment/ I really dont get why wld u guys continually criticise someone..whoz doing sthing she enjoys..if u dont like her, u dont have to watch it.. i am sure there are people who enjoy her videos..all these bitter or cynical comments are nt needed… As for the bleaching comments , i dont get the drinking of another persons panadol tho’…

  31. dami

    August 28, 2013 at 10:05 pm

    Snooping snooping snooping all the way, last time I did it it saved me dating a guy who had a gf in naija. It’s not a bad thing imo, it should just be controlled. .

  32. kaddy

    August 28, 2013 at 10:27 pm

    Love doesn’t have rules Every girl knows wen A guy truly loves Her. Girls more often Dan not just Try to paint d relationship in a way To Suit Her feelings men are Men and Not gods so can Sin anytime Snooping around or Not can’t stop him From sleeping Around and Getting Anoda woman Pregnant just dnt Force d Relationship love him and Get a Job to get busy

  33. Okechukwu Ofili

    August 28, 2013 at 10:31 pm

    Women…stop sleeping on a bicycle #TokeMakinwa

    • Atm

      August 29, 2013 at 10:13 am

      i’m telling you! Never heard that before

  34. fashionandstylepolice

    August 28, 2013 at 10:43 pm

    Love her hair.

  35. Beauty

    August 28, 2013 at 11:09 pm

    My dear snoop ooooooo its very important if u don’t ur pant is seriously wearing u #gbam#

  36. mary

    August 28, 2013 at 11:52 pm

    i really don’t understand why Toke’s complexion should bother a lot of people here, kindly comment on the topic of discussion here and not on her personal life, Toke is old enough to know what she wants/likes in life. if enhancing her complexion is one of them, so be it. it does not even affect the cost of garri in the market, can people leave her alone pleassssssse

    • Bola

      August 29, 2013 at 7:32 am

      Abi o thanks

  37. Blesson

    August 29, 2013 at 12:30 am

    Even married ladies snoop on their husband not to talk of single ladies, bcos d rate at which these seductive ladies do their thang, even the holy than thou man will find it hard to resist. lol . Snooping doesn’t have to be all the time, but in the course of u spotting some Fishy Kukere Movement about ur partner, biko u just need to snoop and shine ya eyes wella. If not O.Y.O!!! Please u guys need to appreciate her for once and stop nagging over her skin color.. Haba, Is that not the trend in Nigeria now, so why make it seem like it one big thing. It her life oh and she chose to live it that way… biko stop hating jare…#byebye

  38. mujer casada

    August 29, 2013 at 1:40 am

    anyone who turns into a detective – not worth it. you will never have a good night’s rest

  39. gigi

    August 29, 2013 at 5:50 am

    lmao Nigerians just like being mean. of course it doesn’t concern us that shes bleaching but then again we just stating the obvious!! lol embraced them knukcles girl…
    and for you all saying we should focus on the topic at hand and not her bleaching like serious come on guys is this a topic?? men this men that well im sorry our life doesn’t revolve around RELATIONSHIP. specially wack ass relationship with Nigerian men in Nigeria lmao cheaters

  40. Anon

    August 29, 2013 at 7:55 am

    I don’t check on my husband. I trust him . If he loses that trust, he will never get it back. But till then, no snopping tonight. I disagree o Toke! He always brags to his friends about how I never check on him , he tells me everything. Our relationship is built on that trust. I know far too many examples of women that lost relationships due to their lack of trust. I don’t and won’t check on my husband. But pray for him, I definitely will. I’ll pray hard on my knees everyday that God keeps him faithful and true while I focus my energy on making him happy.

  41. Cutychic!

    August 29, 2013 at 9:16 am

    Nice one Miss petite&cute! i totally agree with you babe…..Thumbs up!

  42. TheTruth13

    August 29, 2013 at 12:16 pm

    Toke just says it how it is, she seems to always talk about something I can relate to. I do love Toke, lol I think she’s grown on me. Don’t mind these haters, your looking good and doing u, keep it up!

  43. leika

    August 29, 2013 at 12:34 pm

    This is the bitter truth- Toke shot herself in the foot with that Vic-O interview which was like her entry into the industry. No one should treat another human being like that. This is why no one will ever like her. She is making waves because of the negative publicity surrounding her and not because of fans that love her. Toolz has fans and that is a more positive way of being a star. Being a star based on negative publicity will never last. I hope she is enjoying the journey while it lasts. Vic-o must have cursed her or something and that is why only negativity surrounds her. She needs to go and beg for his forgiveness. As a women I feel really bad for her but then again she disgraced another fellow human on tv with her class conscious fake foneh so it is hard to feel sorry for her sometimes. You reap what you sow

    • Fatimah

      August 29, 2013 at 4:13 pm

      Dapada, Vic-O bawo?

      It has more to do with who she is. When you read through nasty comments, one thing you would notice is people saying she deserves it because she is a nasty backbiter, can be bitchy etc. and then there is the whole ‘fake’ personality thing; her accent, skin etc.

      I heard she has changed though. Lovely

  44. oga madam

    August 29, 2013 at 1:07 pm

    shes looking white because of the colour of her hair guys!i like the topic a lot and yes i snoop when intuition set in. my guesses don’t go wrong

  45. anon

    August 30, 2013 at 1:42 pm

    But Toke, why are you bleaching? Coming up here giving us advice which you never take for yourself.

  46. Cee

    August 30, 2013 at 9:51 pm

    Toke oh!!! love your expressions. ” pack your slippers and dust it up. Put it on your head and walk away.” #Dead

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