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Maje Ayida to Alleged Mistress Anita Solomon, “I Have Taken Your Virginity. U R Mine Forever!”

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Toke Makinwa Maje AyidaThere was quite a lot of drama surrounding Toke Makinwa and husband Maje Ayida over the weekend. See here and here.

In a bid to put more credibility to the story, an old conversation between Maje Ayida and alleged ex-girlfriend Anita Solomon has surfaced on Stella Dimikokorkus’ blog where Maje comments ‘I have taken your virginity…u r mine forever!!!’

While it looks controversial, it is more likely that Maje meant the comment in terms of being the first to comment on Anita Solomon’s brand new Facebook wall.

Photo Credit: SDK

178 Comments

  1. mama dammy

    June 15, 2015 at 11:25 am

    BN it doesn’t mean that…..it means exactly what it says. Choi… since when FB start to de get virginity?
    Toke sorry, The good Lord will comfort you. Forgiveness is the key. Even if you leave him still forgive him. Keep your head up!

    • Kadara

      June 15, 2015 at 1:53 pm

      Maje should better go and ask Toke for forgiveness not only for betraying her trust but also for embarrassing her with his mess. I don’t care why he married her, he is a grown ass man and has no excuse. He stood and made those vows and he should have stuck by them or gotten a divorce . The Anita girl is also shameless, a man left you to go and marry another woman no matter the excuse then came to you that was not good enough for marriage or public claiming but only for side chick moves and you entertained such to the point of getting pregnant. When will some women have standards?

    • james

      June 15, 2015 at 2:11 pm

      He should go and beg for forgiveness…lol do you know what Toke has done in hiding that cant even make her complain?do you know if there is anything secret that Toke is even begging the guy no to reveal to the public….you all just come and start talking without knowing all that happened.

    • Kadara

      June 15, 2015 at 2:29 pm

      @James oh please give me a break. As long as Toke is not Pregnant by another man any wrong she may have done is not the same! I am sure for every time she has offended him , he has offended her too. The difference with this is a child is a permanent reminder of his betrayer. This is a mistake of his that she will have to live with all her life if she chooses to stay with him.

      Let him just imagine for a second that Toke was the one pregnant with another man’s child!

    • Janice

      June 15, 2015 at 3:51 pm

      Kadara, what Maje has done is unquestionably wrong. I am not going to start naming “society boys” I know for certain Toke has been seeing before and after her marriage.
      Who knows if Maje found out and took a childish option of pay back?
      I pray Toke is strong to go through this public shame and learn from the drama and comes out better and stronger.

    • bola

      June 16, 2015 at 4:06 pm

      Pls o when did they get married bcos that tweet was in 2007 its possible the relationship ended b4 Maje met Toke

    • E

      June 20, 2015 at 3:01 pm

      Loool ur name “Kadara” Destiny stuvvs ????

    • Ainy

      August 5, 2015 at 6:19 pm

      You have said it all, the man is a confirmed bad guy! He dated Toke for 12 years before he married her! He dated Anita for 8 years and went back to impregnate her, what a shame! The lady intentionally got pregnant for him to tie him down! I just pity Toke if she continues the marriage with that dog, already everything is over because no matter what, Anita is going to have all her kids for him, so far that he has found it difficult to take his greedy eyes away from Anita when he got married to Toke, there is nothing Toke can do to stop him from going to her again now that they have a kid together!

  2. Mystique

    June 15, 2015 at 11:27 am

    Toke…..hmmmm, much as i don’t care too much for you, i just hope and pray people will move on from this gist. It could happen to anyone. Even if you sat at home all day long staring at your husband, he can get a woman pregnant with his phone. We have no clue how much phone sex people have these days……..No woman has the power to control any man. People stop putting pressure on Toke. Its not about her career. Men just do what men want. simple as.

    • TRUTHTELLER

      June 15, 2015 at 8:17 pm

      Thank you o! People need to chill with this “na her waka waka cause am”. All the loving, totally submissive house wives that their husbands cheat on them Nkor? Some people are just on another level of DENSE!! KEEP MAKING EXCUSES FOR MAJE O! SAME THING TOKE HAS BEEN DOING SINCE 19KOKORO!! THEIR RELATIONSHIP WAS ON FOR 12 SOLID YEARS!!! AND HE WAS CHEATING ON HER FOR 8 OF THEM!! AND THIS IS BEFORE Y’ALL EVEN KNEW SHE EXISTED!

      I TOTALLY BLAME TOKE! TOTALLY!

      SHE WAS WARNED!!!

      REMEMBER UNILAG DAYS? WHEN THIS MONSTER USED TO BEAT HER, “WE” WARN TOKE REACH!! SHE NO GREE OO! BAE SAID SHE GOSTA DIE DIA! WHEN HE CHEATED ON HER, NOT ONCE OR TWICE, WITH BABES OTHER THAN ANITA, SHE GREE COMMOT? “WE” ADVICED HER SOTEYYYYY……..TOKE WAS IN LUFFFF.

      MY PEOPLE, THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE, AND HE LOVES ANOTHER……….#Matters.of.the.heart.should.be.solved.with.sense!!! THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN BAD FRIENDS ADVICE YOU TO #TAKEWHATISYOURS #BYFIREBYFORCE #THEOTHERWOMANISADEVIL #MAYBESHEJAZZEDHIM TOKE WAS WARNED OOOOOOOO! NO BE TODAY E START! THIS IS JUST THE ONE Y’ALL KNOW ABOUT!!
      (shouting competition over!)

    • onome

      June 15, 2015 at 8:28 pm

      Abeg Toke should leave his broke ass jo. Agbaya osi! He was a fool at 40 and he’ll be a fool forever. Na lagos ‘I must marry before 30 that made Toke fall her own hand ‘. People are saying Toke is going around doing career woman. As a husband, can he pay the rent ? She no go work. He is just a leech. Multi million naira salon ko! Why didn’t he sponsor hus own gym.
      Toke, he is not your husband. Look at even the corner – corner way they got married. It’s only a lady that doesn’t have faith in her man to complete ‘marriage rites’ that will where a long white wedding dress (meant for a church ceremony) to a court wedding !

      Toke , Toke , Toke don’t chest this situation o! No one will judge you for leaving this loser ! Please leave now. There’s nothing permanent like a child tying you guys together. You will marry a fresher and creamer guy again and we will celebrate with you again on the blogs!
      Please leave his ass now. Leave now!! You deserve so much better. An unrepentant philanderer has only outside children and HIV to offer.

    • wagamama

      June 15, 2015 at 9:27 pm

      Cant help but feel sad for @tokstarr

      But remember these folks,

      If you’re a career woman (THE WORLD CHASTISES YOU “FOCUS ON YOUR FAMILY”)….. He will cheat!

      If you’re a stay at home devoted mum/WIFE (THE WORLD TELLS YOU TO STOP BEING A LAY ABOUT, GO OUT AND MAKE YOUR OWN MONEY)….. He will STILL cheat tho!

      If he married you a virgin……He will cheat!

      If he married you off the streets….. He will STILL CHEAT!

      Some men cheat, some don’t…….aint nothing you can do about it. Once a cheat, always a CHEAT!

      1 Question tho, Toke why did you stay? He’s been at the for 8 year babe.. one-sided love is never enough, it works both ways.

      At least you have your own money, abeg jump am pass!

      Take your own advise. Leek him off like dirt under your nail. Dust your shoulders and move on.

    • S

      June 16, 2015 at 1:37 am

      My dear, when you see a friend mumu for love. Take it to the Lord. Let him reveal the root so you can help your friend out of that bondage. I encountered a case in point. I was shocked. Only God knows the solution. Love my Tokes. She admitted she was warned twitter… The Lord also said He will be with her in valley. And He saves

  3. john doe

    June 15, 2015 at 11:27 am

    BN to the rescue!

  4. pearls

    June 15, 2015 at 11:30 am

    Can all these mess just be cleared. Its pathetic.

  5. Ms.B

    June 15, 2015 at 11:31 am

    May be toke never married maje. She should just let the relationship end, no be by force. From surprise wedding to surprise baby mama. The next will be a surprise divorce, If at all there was a marriage.

  6. Jane Public

    June 15, 2015 at 11:31 am

    Bella Naija, even this one is beneath you. In the midst of this, I can only say, it must have been difficult living with a narcissist. I should know, I dated one in the past. I can only feel sorry for him. He should have left when he stood her up at the registry and just walked away. You can never win with them, and in your bid to “escape”, you may end up doing yourself a disservice. No human being is worth committing sin for, just to make yourself feel better. Narcissists are a lot of hard work, no matter how lovely they or the relationship may look on the outside. It will never be about you, not for a second. Even them being with you, is about them. He felt pressured, trust me, I was too, but I picked my legs and ran quickly. Best decision of my life. I wish the three of them all the very best, I hope they all find peace.

    • Madamsofo

      June 15, 2015 at 1:42 pm

      She is a narcissist cuz she posts pictures of herself on ig? Or cuz you are her best friend and know her personally? Please what is Instagram for? Isn’t it to post selfies and instant pictures of urself and what’s going on around you? Cuz everyone’s assumption of her character stems from social media. Don’t believe all u see on social media. She is probably completely opposite of all you see out there. God is the ultimate Judge.

    • Asgrl

      June 15, 2015 at 3:35 pm

      No one can force a grown adult to get married!!!! I hate when people say this. When you get married for whatever reason, there is often a need that you yourself are fulfilling.

    • MallamSawyer

      June 15, 2015 at 1:44 pm

      You’re a devil for that comment. How is this Toke’s fault?!

    • Ann

      June 15, 2015 at 1:56 pm

      She’s a narcissist cos she’s out there hustling to feed herself and her jobless husband? You’re here defending a man who stepped out on his wife to have another child with a woman he’s been seeing behind her back for 8 years. Tell us some more about toke since you’re her best friend and you know her so much. please enlighten us on how toke is a narcissist. Tell us some more about how you feel sorry that make mistakenly slipped and fell into another woman’s vagina. Oh ye Lord Jane Public, tell us some more about your best friend toke whom you know in real life and are sure is a narcissist.

    • Encourage her

      June 15, 2015 at 2:07 pm

      Pls shut up! Whatever you may think she is no one deserves to be humiliated like this. Toke might be annoying but no one has the right to judge her or call her names at this moment. The ‘sisterhood’ should aim to protect and encourage her at this time. It is not wise to gloat at another persons misfortune. You will surely reap a thousand fold what you have sown Waje you ugly black he-goat!

    • Miriam

      June 15, 2015 at 2:13 pm

      The Toke hive is here. The girl IS a narcissist. If this incident didn’t happen, not many people will disagree with that observation. Leopards don’t change their spots. I won’t sit here and say aaaaaw, poor Toke alone. BOTH of them are victims in this situation. It was only a matter of time, not that long in this case. Both of them entered a marriage they shouldn’t have, woman that was desperate and man that was bullied and pressured is a recipe for disaster. Remove emotions running wild right now, remove anger and look at the situation as objectively as you can with the information Toke has always shared. Madam notice me or I will die. He is clearly wrong here, but things are never black and white. Who knows if he asked her for a divorce and she said no, so he decided to do this to force her hand. The public she used as a tool to bully and public shame this man into marrying her is the same public she is using now. Poor, pity me Toke. You guys are just lapping it up like ice cream.

    • Madamsofo

      June 15, 2015 at 3:01 pm

      Hopefully the world will feel empathy for your misfortune. You do not know this woman, you should be smart enough not to judge people by pictures they post. Social media is a free and fast way to prompt your business and talent and that’s simply what she has been doing. “Mrs notice me” lol, I guess she did a dang good job! You and the rest of us noticed her. If you are not married, please thread softly, you don’t know the kind of man your future husband is. If you are married, I pray you didn’t marry a monster that will hurt you to the core. Be very careful how you gloat, you are still well and alive, you don’t know what you may be faced with tomorrow. Always show empathy. God said love your neighbor as yourself! And for those that keep saying she is everywhere? Abeg where does she sleep at night? Where does she freshen up? Isn’t it at home? must she smolder Maje to keep him happy and keep his John Thomas (penis) zipped? Is Maje a TV, that she must sit down and watch daily or is he a Purse she must carry about? Is he a new born she must tend to day and night? *yes jamb questions* Please stop the BS! My friend is a housewife that is glued to the house, the same thing happened to her. Her husband cheated with his ex while she was pregnant and they both had his babies few months apart. She stayed with him and showed no emotion like toke. At least toke has a choice, my friend doesn’t! Because she is a housewife with no job. A cheat will cheat even if u glue urself to his penis. Gloat away y’all, God is watching.

    • Person

      June 15, 2015 at 2:16 pm

      Jane Public!!! Ha, fear God now! Fear God. How is this Toke’s fault? Because she is out there hustling to make something of her life? How is life different from all you career women who leave home at 5am and return at 11pm to your so called husbands? Fear God o!

    • Jane Public

      June 15, 2015 at 2:52 pm

      you know they say, “i am responsible for what i say”, you are “responsible for how you interpret it”. I never said it was any of Toke’s fault. Please read the comment again. I was giving another perspective, based on my personal experience. We really have to discuss Toke’s narcissism. Really!!!!! Okay o. Tensions are running high right now and every woman that has ever been cheated on are using this situation to vent. Maje is the scapegoat. All well and good. He deserves it. Again, I was bringing in another perspective. He committed sin here, and for what reason? He could easily have walked away, but @Miriam has also given a different perspective to it. What if he wanted to leave and she said no. Has anyone considered that at all? Not that it makes what he did right. Heaven forbid Toke becomes a divorced woman, not good for her image at all. At least this way, she won’t bear the scarlet letter of a divorced woman. She will be the scorned woman that everyone will pity and be on her side if she decides to leave him. Remember the backlash on Maje when they broke up that time? Not once did those people consider that he was doing her a favour, so she can find love somewhere else, but nooooo, he was the wicked one breaking up with her after 11 years. He married her and yaaaaaay, he suddenly became the good man, for doing the right thing. What has been the end result of that? How time flies. Human beings and short memories. The public has been dragging him since 1860 on top this Toke matter. I hope he will have balls this time and take a stand. If you want to stay, stay and work on your marriage if Toke still wants you. We don’t want to hear stories o, before we hear baby 2 is on the way. If you want to leave, leave and tell the world to buzz off. It is your life.

    • Fashionista

      June 15, 2015 at 3:38 pm

      Jane Public, always on hand to pull down and thrash people. choi! I fear you and what is in your heart.

    • PurpleiciousBabe

      June 15, 2015 at 7:09 pm

      I don’t think so.
      I think her points are valid..Some reason with more with logic than brain.
      Unfortunately, I don’t have a contribution on the matter.

    • IKnowUKnow

      June 15, 2015 at 8:31 pm

      Let her gloat. When Oyinbo say marriage don tire am, family meeting no dey the matter.

    • Renix

      June 15, 2015 at 8:03 pm

      All those saying Toke forced Maje into marriage are liars, Liars, Liars. Maje and Toke did introduction which involved both families. So, all Maje family members that followed to go and ask for Toke’s hand in marriage were also forced? See, as for small impromptu wedding, Maje no gats money to do any elaborate wedding.

      Wedding could have happened long before it did. Like most girls, Toke wanted an elaborate society wedding but bros Maje no gats money. When Toke saw that the bros fit like play like play no do wedding, she it was who was forced to accept a small wedding. In every family, there is a black sheep. Maje is the black sheep of the Ayida family. Don’t ask, but l know.

      BN bia, pls. free Toke. Dis gist don stale sef. Both of them used each other let them leak their wound in private

    • shade

      June 16, 2015 at 7:09 am

      @ Remix lmao!!!#shades# U know something we don’t know. Oya tea tell since Maje is the black shit of his family. Like I always say, U can’t change a growns man. Only babies in diapers can be changed ; meaning he’s always gonna do what he wanna do smh

    • Jane Public

      June 16, 2015 at 11:55 am

      @Iknow you Know. Aaaaaw, when some people don’t have anything else to say, they resort to curses. Le Boo and I are fine, thank you very much, and if anything happens, it won’t be because of your bad wishes. He who The Lord has blessed, NO MAN can curse. It is for reasons like this, that some of us ran from Nigerian men, not to say that all of them are like that, but for those that it happens to, there won’t be consequences. Maje is just unfortunate that he is in the public eye, if not, he won’t get any shishi and his wife will still stay with him. Ask Matthew Knowles what happened to him. So run along with your bad vibes darling, if they sent you to me, tell dem say i no dey house. Mschew

    • Jane??

      June 16, 2015 at 11:57 am

      i used to think u had sense

  7. kay

    June 15, 2015 at 11:34 am

    My heart goes out to toke…one can only imagine aw she really feeling rite now(wit all her biz all over d pages of blogs) but i tink toke saw all dis coming(her interview on moment wit mo)…may be she tot things will b berra “if they were married” bt a man will always be a man married or not, if he doesn’t come to terms wit himself and change for himself and his creator noting can not even his wife(she can try though)…Men and their ways sha!!!!Lord have mercy on we men…v mercy Lord, just v mercy…aw do we v a berra society with we men behaving lik dis?

  8. yeah

    June 15, 2015 at 11:34 am

    Fear God maje!!why take a vow when u know u will act like dis?

  9. vien

    June 15, 2015 at 11:35 am

    hmmmmn….gbege

  10. PI

    June 15, 2015 at 11:38 am

    Bella naija pls dont help interpret!!! Maje could as well have meant what he said ….. he might not have been together with toke at that time ….. dey did not go on straight for the 12 years, it was an on and off thing. Toke knew what she was getting into eyes open. Let this be a lessons to You! fighting with a constant side chic and u get the ring and expect dat D**k not to wander back into the honey pot! u must be a joker!

  11. hmm

    June 15, 2015 at 11:38 am

    Smh…… having fried rice and coke for lunch …… who wan join me?

    SDK na wa o….you are the true gossip blogger of Naija..smh

  12. Yemisisi

    June 15, 2015 at 11:39 am

    Oh lawd, the story’s getting even worse! I’m actually dumbfounded.

  13. AMAKA

    June 15, 2015 at 11:41 am

    Bwaahahahahahah..Abeg abeg abeg BN, nobody sent you people on this “comment interpretation voyage” you have embarked on. Who has ever used the term virginity to mean being the first to comment on a person’s social media page, ehnn? I think the comment means what it means and considering how young the girl I saw in the pictures with Maje looks, I have no doubt that Toke is quite older than she is so yes, Maje meant the virginity in terms of what it means to literally take someone’s virginity.

    Toke dearie, my prayers are with you. I listened to you this morning on radio and you were as upbeat as ever. Considering what is going on, that is quite commendable and you have a new stan in me. May God continue to uphold you in this trying times. This too shall pass baby girl, this too shall pass.

  14. Angie

    June 15, 2015 at 11:43 am

    Patiently waiting for BN commenters

  15. Hot tea

    June 15, 2015 at 11:44 am

    BN so love this hot tea

  16. keeks

    June 15, 2015 at 11:50 am

    i hope the truth surfaces for tokes sake. better yet the truth shouldnt be public. as much as the stories are interesting.. for Toke’s sake and that of her union.

  17. SweetJane

    June 15, 2015 at 11:52 am

    Toke may be able to fool many, but I am not fooled. She’s a pathological liar who used emotional blackmail to obtain her goal of becoming Mrs Ayida. She became desperate to become a wife after seeing all her celebrity pals getting hitched i.e. Tiwa Savage, Annie Idibia etc…

    So she resulted to starting her pathetic weekly vlogs in an attempt to indirectly pass messages on to Maje to wife her down. She then publiced their break-up, going on this “woe is me” campaign crying everywhere that Maje dumped her after 11yrs of dating. She turned all her fans against the poor guy. This hurt his brand so much that he just had to do damage control by marrying her a few months later.

    Toke thinks she’s smart.. what on earth is a “surprise wedding”? so you just happened to be chilling in a courthouse with the perfect wedding dress on and your boo suddenly showed up like “surrprrisseee! lets get married!” abi? smh

    Guess she forgot to announce on her vlog how Maje slapped her in public and stood her up at Ikoyi registry a few years back. Everything Toke has done up to this point was to spite Anita (the woman who truly owns Maje’s heart) she used her looks and fame to indirectly bully him onto her side simply because she couldnt bear the shame of being with a man for so long with nothing to show for it.

    • ksgchick

      June 15, 2015 at 1:44 pm

      Think i believe u….I see her on moments with mo…she acts so dominaring. …

    • Anon

      June 15, 2015 at 2:58 pm

      dominaring?

    • sexy o

      June 15, 2015 at 1:56 pm

      Hmmnn. I never knew toke had a personal assistant called sweet jane that follows her all around. Anyway,i never liked toke but i wish her all the best.

    • Ann

      June 15, 2015 at 2:04 pm

      How do you bully someone into marrying you? Is he a child? God. You nigerian women might hate women more than nigerian men though. Y’all are the champions of the patriarchy in Nigeria. Did she drag him to the altar?! If he loved someone else that wasn’t toke why didn’t he go and be with the person he supposedly loved? Is he a child?! Ughhh. Nigerians remind me of a quote from “a thousand splendid Suns” that says “Learn this now and learn it well. Like a compass facing north, a man’s accusing finger always finds a woman. Always. You remember that, Mariam.”

    • Funmi

      June 16, 2015 at 7:43 am

      Best comment specifically ” Nigerian women hating women more than the men?” ain’t that the truth. Didn’t intend to comment but that got me! It’s how I’ve always felt. Well said!

    • doll

      June 15, 2015 at 2:16 pm

      no kidding and Maje is a child who was emotionally blackmailed? lol.

      welcome to BN Anita..its only you or your family or someone from mars that can spew this thrash

    • tiwa

      June 15, 2015 at 3:04 pm

      If this isn’t the Anita chick commenting, then you most likely need psychiatric evaluation.

    • Laidemajeks

      June 15, 2015 at 4:03 pm

      Sweet Jane – you are on point. Toke is not a saint. I keep telling people I know married young Ikoyi / Lekki boys Toke is stroking in hotel rooms.
      Maje should have man’d up and walked out for good when they broke up. Should not have allowed any public bullying affect him.

      Anita: should have told him sort out your divorce and come for me if you want me. Am not into baby mama stuff (then again baby mama is the new trend)

      Anyway all of you sort out your business and give us peace here

  18. Tisha

    June 15, 2015 at 11:54 am

    Aproko. U guys knew what he meant. Let this news die.cyber bulling at its peak, when u kill someone then u will start voting against bulling.

  19. Adain

    June 15, 2015 at 11:55 am

    HIAN KWA! But wait, was he and Toke dating in 2007?

  20. zee

    June 15, 2015 at 11:56 am

    So u think we r babies wearing diapers? Abeg virginity is virginity, it has nothing to do with face book. So how shameless can a man be though ????

  21. Omo1

    June 15, 2015 at 11:57 am

    Hmmmmmmm….no words. But then, nothing new under the sun, just a pity its happening to our dear Toke who seemed like sha had it all under control.

    Ladies! If a man is not into you, nothing can change that. No amount of Whitenchious cream, no amount of Brazilian hair, nada! Just be you and settle for the best. Then also, never try to put up a perfect front on social media. Let your life remain a mystery and leave the world guessing.

  22. TK

    June 15, 2015 at 11:58 am

    Oga o!

  23. Diddy

    June 15, 2015 at 11:59 am

    if u take her virginity nko,wetin happen,onye nkwugheri

    • RIFF RAFF

      June 15, 2015 at 12:25 pm

      I just knew it!!! Maje knowingly impregnated this other lady. It was all planned out! He’s doing all this just to spite Toke or he’s tired of all the façade/pretense. If this guy didn’t want the marriage for whatever reason, he should have walked out for good. Why do this to her?
      All of u here tapping into marriages you know nothing about, let this be a lesson.
      Whatever decision Toke makes, may Solomon’s wisdom guide her.

    • someotherthansense

      June 15, 2015 at 8:38 pm

      Some low brained girls will come here and say it is because she is a career woman. Let me ask you that your husband is cheating on, you the housewife whose husband sleeps with your maid, you the teacher who quit her bank job for your home if your husband is not chasing his high flying co worker. Look if you like carry the man for head, if he is a bad man he will cheat. Even if you are the female Barak Obama, if your husband feels neglected he should tell you. That is marriage, men when you fall short most wives manage sef. The brave ones open mouth and tell you. So what is wrong in you, priest of the home telling your wife she needs to pay you some attention? Are you a child who can not articulate your needs? You run and dip your tool into another woman and get her pregnant while probably chopping the wife’s money. I hope Toke does not give him squat. Ladies, make money cause these men will cheat whether you pin yourselves to them or live your life. God bless the sensible men out there abeg.

  24. Yes?

    June 15, 2015 at 12:00 pm

    What is “have taken your virginity”?? Is that a good English???

  25. goldyna

    June 15, 2015 at 12:01 pm

    OMG! Maje you are wicked, after dating sister Toke for 12yrs and got married to her,, still u did such to her. hmmmmmmmm! may God have mercy on you.

    • Laidemajeks

      June 15, 2015 at 4:05 pm

      Are you ok? Abeg is sister Toke a saint??

      Look dont blame only Maje o

    • Ada Nnewi

      June 15, 2015 at 4:58 pm

      May your husband do same to you for defending this rubbish!

  26. bn lover

    June 15, 2015 at 12:01 pm

    Blood of God ohhhhhh…..i no been want talk for this matter ohhh….but how vicious can pple get?? Must u dig and dig?? Eye wey dey find something,na Something e must see ohhhh. So as u commot dis story come now,pple go talk,Toke go cry if she like ohhh,wetin be ur gain?#God4bidaproko #nasty #trashy #mindyabusiness #leavesomebodyalone #liveurlife

    • Ada Nnewi

      June 15, 2015 at 12:51 pm

      My sister na real wa oh!!!

  27. jayboogie

    June 15, 2015 at 12:02 pm

    oh , oh!!!!!!!

  28. Grace

    June 15, 2015 at 12:10 pm

    This is since 2007 o…smh.
    They should just go settle or take things out amicably instead of telling the world. Alot of people have experienced worst.

  29. pinkie

    June 15, 2015 at 12:13 pm

    ‘brand new wall’ kwa. BN gerrara hia my friend.

  30. Alert!

    June 15, 2015 at 12:14 pm

    Looking through pictures of both of them from another blog and her profile. I must confess they both share more of a connection that what I see of him and Toke.

    Anita looks like a regular girl, but there is something at ease about her. Probably same thing Maje found with her.

    • fleur

      June 16, 2015 at 2:51 am

      Indeed, Maje looks very into the Anita girl in those pictures. I have always commented that Maje looks unengaged when in a picture with Toke – like a piece of wood that was forced to her side. But with Anita, the flame is palpable. Sorry Toke but this man was and is smitten with the other woman.

  31. Cheeker!

    June 15, 2015 at 12:17 pm

    It Keeps getting messier day by day. Pls people keep ur relationship away from the public eye…always lead a private life. It’s so shocking now cos it’s the same Mrs Ayida who keeps pouring encomium on her husband…how u can spot a side chick and a side bae… How u know wen to walk away n spot a joker from a real man…So what went wrong? We all know No marriage or relationship is without issues or cracks but this one is attracting so much attention and you all know y. I just pray the parties involved find the answers that they seek. We all have lessons to leArn from all this drama drama. This life is just a pot of porridge beans…smh

  32. melinda

    June 15, 2015 at 12:22 pm

    I am.just speechless, so speeechless at this matter…..

  33. Amh

    June 15, 2015 at 12:24 pm

    ANITA is really desperate. Releasing 100 yrs messages. Thirsty babe.you think toke will divorce him .you are in for a surprise. They are going to work on their marriage and it will work. Just like victoria N david beckham scandal. They will come out strong. Shame on you.now its the time for you to rethink and get out of their lives. Maje does not love you. If you like release a porn of both of you. You are just a strange woman thatt need s to be banished. I give toke and maje 1month. All is history. The medusa would have been conquered. Stay winning toke and hold on to your man. What God had joined together. Let no man put asunder.he erred but theres forgiveness in christ jesus. Goodluck beautiful toke
    i pray the lord will bless you and maje with a baby soon
    AMEN

    • Alert!

      June 15, 2015 at 1:35 pm

      She didn’t release it. People went digging. I did also. and found pictures of both of them posted openly on FB as far back as 2007 and so on…I think she’s already putting some pics down sef.

      My dear, hard to think, but I don’t believe Anita is the desperate one here.

    • Deonli Papijuno

      June 15, 2015 at 2:06 pm

      Are you wise ?
      Your brain dey skip ?
      You don chop today ?
      If your senses are normal this afternoon clearly you will see someone went on her FB page scrolled down to dig for something and found what they were looking for !
      So please look,think,type wisely Ode !

    • 4626

      June 15, 2015 at 6:13 pm

      Pele o madam wounded! The Facebook timeline has been there since for ever. It is even obvious the girl has not had time to go to it to close it or even update in a while.
      I wonder why you see Toke has a saint here. She brought it upon herself. And to those who call her narcissistic….. They do have a point. How many of her old friends have come out to support her …. None that’s because they know she brought it upon herself. Toke still does runz just like she graced an uncountable number of beds before she hooked Maje. So why won’t she be strong as Bella naira termed it this morning. O ti gba Kamu

    • fleur

      June 16, 2015 at 2:52 am

      Did Toke have a church wedding that we missed? I am referencing your what God has put together comment.

  34. mama ovie

    June 15, 2015 at 12:30 pm

    People think dating someone for AGES practically gives them right to marry to marry that person
    as for TOKE we all have our own struggles, take heart .
    as for MAJE am not in your shoes but I wont judge you its easier to point fingers to other directions
    Good luck with the both parties with the decision they make, but one thing for sure this Marriage will never remain the Same.
    PEACE

  35. Stella

    June 15, 2015 at 12:31 pm

    Gosh! This man is wicked

  36. maame ekua

    June 15, 2015 at 12:33 pm

    i feel for toke but girl should sit her butt down a lil. haba shes everywhere. men will cheat what ever u do if they want to dey will cos they think they can. but if a wife does not make time for her hubby this is what happens. sometimes am even tired for her, shes everywhere.

  37. Toke, listen to me

    June 15, 2015 at 12:43 pm

    Toke, all these people you see around you, be it Linda Ikeji, Bella Naija, SDK, Twitter, Instagram…. are all out just to gossip about you and feel good bout talking about someone.

    If i were you and Maje, i would keep my issue out of the public eye. Its very simple, resolve it or take a walk and move on. Know something? All these things will never be deleted from the net. Your generations unborn will get to see this when they just type your name on google. It will affect your opportunities in life, jobs, endorsements, friends….infact every facet of your life.

    Everyone knows his/her own predicament. Keep yourself out of the public eye. No be everyone wey dey advice you be your friend o. Many are happy with your downfall.

    FYI, many of these girls and guys are going thru worst cases in their own relationship/marriage.

    For all of you pouring petrol ontop d fire wey dey down already, kontinu. God knows your address

    Digging tweets and messages of 2007? wow!

    • Radio Katanga

      June 15, 2015 at 3:28 pm

      But you’ve grouped yourself among the “cyber gosspis” nah. Madam/ Oga counselor abeg make we hear word. For your mind you don talk better thing abi? You self righteous prig. Yeye dey smell…

  38. Luchi

    June 15, 2015 at 12:49 pm

    Okada girls,why are we always in the news tho..

  39. hmm

    June 15, 2015 at 12:53 pm

    Can all these jus die down? Bn it ve do! Dey all ve der faults including ppl that abused n pressured this ass into. Gettn married cos Bobo yi ko ready! Shuld we b worried abt the CAPTAIN too?? Cos na so ppl shout put a ring on it already! All man for em self

  40. Black Coffee

    June 15, 2015 at 12:58 pm

    See ***** opening. No privacy anymore because she went and got pregnant for a celebrity’s husband. Let this be a lesson to us. Nigeria is changing. We now demand morals and accountability both in public and private life. The days of “anything goes” are coming to an end.

  41. ontothenextone

    June 15, 2015 at 1:00 pm

    let us be realistic, Maje loves Anita. Toke you knew she was there but u forced everything, Man wey first deny you cmon. Maje too was leading you on sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

    i have been in this situation, i was in it for 4yrs he kept reassuring me and saying she was an ex that woudnt go away etc she called me to inform me they were going off to be married but i never believed her until i saw pictures online , meanwhile the night before the wedding i was with him smh . i had to take myself out because i knew he loved her more and if i married him i would suffer the outcome thank God for my friends who almost went to babalawo to deliver me lol

    • Deonli Papijuno

      June 15, 2015 at 2:08 pm

      Nobody asked if you were in a similar situation abeg Kak.

    • PurpleiciousBabe

      June 15, 2015 at 7:16 pm

      ‘God’ and ‘babalawo’
      Wow….

    • oversabi

      June 16, 2015 at 3:02 am

      Thanx my sister. I have a guy who I dated for 4 years and according to his friends, I was the first girl ever to have him at my beck and call and on his knees. Well, when we started getting serious, he decided he was getting too close and decided to dump me. I no vex. I cry, clean eye continue with life. He broke my heart forever. But guess what? I found a guy that is really caring and married him. He pets me like a doll and does not mess with me. My old oga found a babe from his Kaduna hometown with all the virginal trappings I did not have that he wanted, but is now seeking me out again. I don born 3, all he tells me is that he loved me so much it scared him and he would have me back if he could. If I open leg, im go enter, and I know he is addicted to me. Every girl he dated after me ran because all he did was compare them to me. So I was told by some of the babes who actually marveled and wanted to know which voodoo I was using. If I open my legs he will land. Right now if I complain about the day, he asks me what he can do to make my day less stressful. He has offered to send me money, pay for vacations. If no be say Jesus na my other husband so, I for don lost for this bobo side. Hian. He is also a fine man and with kudi. Long story short, if a man is in love with another woman, you will know. What to do? LEAVE HIM ALONE. You will always be in that woman’s shadow. This man’s iyawo has written me begging to leave her oga. I tell am say no be me hold am. I tell am say in fact, thanks to Jesus I be ally cos he aint gonna climb this mound. So ladies be warned. Save yourself the agony of feeling like a second fiddle.

  42. tosintosade

    June 15, 2015 at 1:01 pm

    this guy no try sha

    visit tosintosade.blogspot.com

  43. Zee

    June 15, 2015 at 1:15 pm

    This was very common when we signed on to Facebook many years ago. The first person on the wall will post I have ‘disvirgined’ your wall. This is no biggie even though there could be a double meaning.

    • Shandi

      June 15, 2015 at 3:56 pm

      I know right. People blow things out of proportion. I’m female and my female friend also wrote on my wall in 2007, “Just felt like disvirgining your wall”.
      People use situations like this, to make something out of nothing.

  44. Justme

    June 15, 2015 at 1:19 pm

    Toke dear It’s a shame when you have such a high regard for someone and they fall so short of your expectations

  45. Mystique

    June 15, 2015 at 1:26 pm

    BN, use my comment to make a lovely outfit you hear? as you have refused to post it. #crimesagainsthumanity

  46. Leo

    June 15, 2015 at 1:26 pm

    I just found out Maje is a Leo… I would have sworn he was a Gemini… those are the ones that lie like there is no tomorrow. Leos don’t do this ish although we love hard but we ain’t confused… Maje na who do you?

    • Shandi

      June 15, 2015 at 3:58 pm

      Gemini’s lie? You have no idea what you’re talking about. Leo’s have a phd in lying, and Virgos too. Gemini’s are blunt, usually very harsh and blunt. I’m sure you’re a Leo. ?

  47. Dr J

    June 15, 2015 at 1:27 pm

    Waste of time.

  48. Disguised

    June 15, 2015 at 1:33 pm

    Nigerians do you think he is stupid?

    He meant first to comment on her page.

  49. onetallgirl

    June 15, 2015 at 1:37 pm

    I still don’t think this story is true.
    I want to see more proof before I start pitying Toke and cursing Maje.

  50. Godsangel

    June 15, 2015 at 1:37 pm

    madam Bn he wasn’t the first to comment on her wall, his was 10:00 am while the other guy was 8:00am..HE meant the real Virginity between her legs…. MEN very shameless beings….God see Toke through this

    • Shandi

      June 15, 2015 at 4:00 pm

      Why are some of you so shallow minded? No offense, please. He meant the wall. Do you actually think he’ll actually take to Facebook to announce, and do you really think the girl will be stupid to leave the post there, had it been he was talking about the real thing? Think please! You guys are blowing things WAY out of proportion.

    • Miss marple

      June 15, 2015 at 9:56 pm

      You be real FBI! BN readers I hail thee!

  51. Let the truth be told!!!

    June 15, 2015 at 1:39 pm

    This is really starting to irk the crap out of me! Haba! Since Sunday una no gree give us peace….enough already! Any rational thinking person can deduce this cheating story is very much legit as neither party has come out to debunk it. Delving into archived FB messages to drive your point home is beginning to make your story redundant and quite frankly annoying.

    That said, Madam Toke, I am sorry this happened to you, I wouldn’t even try to imagine the kind of pain you are in. My father stepped out on my mother (had two bastards) and I can tell you their relationship has never been the same. In my mother’s case she already had four kids and was expecting her fifth when my father got that whore pregnant the first time. though my mom worked her income could never have supported 4kids in private school and maintained our upper middle class life, so she stayed. My father begged, swore never step out on her again and guess what, he did! Less than two yrs after the first bastard was born that no good trifling whore was pregnant with the second bastard!

    That ordeal ruined my parent’s marriage. I grew up watching constant bickering, physical assaults, and resentment grow. My mom swore we would never have contact with my father’s bastards and she saw to that….”f$&k a blended family” my mom wanted no part of that BS, one by one we were shipped to the America right after high school, till date I have no idea what those kids look like, never met them and don’t intend to. My folks celebrated their fortieth anniversary together recently and let me tell you dear…they are like strangers in thier own house. My mom never misses an opportunity to throw my father’s infidelity into his face….the older she gets, the angrier and more resentful about the whole incident she becomes. My father never married the other woman, he built her a nice house on the mainland and made sure the kids are in private universities in Nigeria but that is the closest they will ever get to us. He sees them quite frequently which still infuriates my mother, 25years later and it hurts her like it was yesterday
    My point is this Toke, you are young…..unlike my mother you have little vested in this union, no kids, no strong ties…. My advice, cut your losses and move on!!!! You can do bad all by yourself. That no good cheating negro you married might have loved you but not enough to stop him from cheating. He is a selfish prick and part of me believes he married you for a come up. You Toke were equally desperate to marry into a certain clique….well this is what comes with the territory. Ever wondered why none of his friends seem to have stable marriages???…. Seriously, don’t mean to drag anyone into this but its pretty damn obvious. From the one who had a lavish wedding in Dubai and now separated, to the banking exec constantly dogged by cheating rumors…..cheating swines the lot of them!!!

    I doubt this baby business will make you leave though, hell, if it took him 12yrs to make u wifey and you stayed put, this then is a tip of the iceberg. But ask yourself this, are you ready to share for the rest of your life….because this Anita looks like a die hard, I can tell you now, I don’t think she’s ever leaving. She has his baby, and she has him exactly were she wants him, they are connected for life! My mom made a poor decision staying with my father, a decision she regrets everyday. Today we (her kids) are all extremely successful in our fields, thanks to the quality education my father provided but I am sure had my mother left, things might have played out differently. My mom once said had it not been for the kids she would have chucked the deuces, I am not excusing her reason for staying, because I know single women who walked out of bullshit marriages and are doing it big. All I am saying dear Toke is this, don’t let my mother’s story be yours..,,.

    • Black Coffee

      June 15, 2015 at 2:08 pm

      Wow. Your experience has really touched me. With all due respect and no judgment at all, the way you’re casually calling innocent kids who didn’t choose to be born bastards shows me that your mother’s bitterness has been passed to you. I know good hearts turned twisted and mean because of heart-break. Your mum wasn’t at fault. If she wasn’t a loving wife it wouldn’t hit her so hard. She would have taxed him for some millions and a new car then shrugged it off. She was a real lover so it crushed her even to the point of affecting the next generation. I hope some men read your comment and see how their careless wickedness poisons their covenant partners and their innocent kids. The fruit of their adultery too are not spared. They will forever be outsiders with a complex who get crumbs while the main kids enjoy the bread. Side chicks and mistresses take note.

    • Oyinlola

      June 15, 2015 at 3:34 pm

      Actually, bastards are kids born to parents who are not married to each other. It’s not an insult, it’s just a word. It’s only wrong if the poster’s dad actually married the other woman

    • m

      June 15, 2015 at 2:15 pm

      And you think those kids care abt u. They don’t even want to meet all of you bitter people.It’s not their fault that your dad and their mum had them. I wish those kids all the best. Who said living in America is heaven. Smh. U guys better forgive una self of bitterness bcos those kids are going to high places see Solomon in the bible. God has a plan for everybody no matter the circumstances of your birth.

    • Ada Nnewi

      June 15, 2015 at 5:06 pm

      You must be one of the bastards…ndoo

    • Why so bitter

      June 15, 2015 at 2:28 pm

      I have to respond to let the truth be told, I feel so so sorry for you and your mother, referring to two human beings as bastards, haba fear God! You are so bitter towards people who share the same Dna with you like there is no tomorrow, pray they don’t end up being the ones to save you. You haven’t meet them, your mother raised you in bitterness, she has no peace and you have none all because of two people you proudly write your mother made sure you people had no contacts with. Shame on you for not seeing that your fathers wrong were not corrected by your mothers action, she decided to remain but to what gain? Now she remains sad and dad is still in contact with the other woman and here you are even with all your so called upper middle class upbringing you are messed up, you need healing

    • Madamsofo

      June 15, 2015 at 3:22 pm

      According to the dictionary, any child born out of wedlock is a bastard. The word is not that serious. Even if your parent had you, then later marry…you are still classified as bastard. Check your dictionary, stop guilt tripping her for sharing her story.

    • FinchleysFinest

      June 15, 2015 at 4:44 pm

      Why so bitter: Stop translating every english to your dialect and back to English… This is what happens when HALF Baked Education is crying out so loud in someones destiny!

      Chai!

      @Let the truth be told!!! You’re right my dear!

      I have the same experience as you my dear and I can relate with this issue.

    • Idomagirl

      June 15, 2015 at 3:26 pm

      Well said.

    • Radio Katanga

      June 15, 2015 at 3:35 pm

      3 Gbosas for you for your comment. I sympathize with your mum it must have been really tough to have been betrayed more that once. But I’m glad you guys (Your mums kids) turned out alright at the end of the day…

    • Black Coffee

      June 15, 2015 at 3:59 pm

      Sorry, this reply is for Oyinlola and Madamsofo, I know the definition of “bastard” but even though its factual its still unkind to say. Some men have really made a huge mess.

    • Manny

      June 15, 2015 at 3:54 pm

      if you truly love your mum, you would advice her to calm down and let go of the bitterness and resentment for her own good.

    • Asgrl

      June 15, 2015 at 4:01 pm

      Some of you are mad. This chick has to live in a broken home. Did you live through the impact with her? If you’ve never had a broken woman for a mother don’t say shit. Obviously she’s still living through the pain and the dysfunction caused by her father’s infidelity.

      Please free her. Not everyone is Mother Theresa. I’m sure Mother Theresa sef woke up one day and said “F*CK*ng Sh#T”

    • fga

      June 15, 2015 at 4:49 pm

      My dear. Amazing how the other woman is a whore and your father the semi-righteous one. Was he raped? Deal with your Daddy issues before they wreck your life. The man paid your school fees and sent you abroad, you’re still raining curses on him and his offspring. If he left you, your siblings and your mother high and dry nko? Show some respect biko. He had kids outside, it was not the end of the world. Even Martin Luther King did the same, who died?

    • viv

      June 16, 2015 at 2:31 am

      You need to read again. She didn’t “rain curses” on her father, she only called his illegitimate kids bastards, which is exactly what they are without mincing words! Your dictionary is your friend!

    • Abena

      June 15, 2015 at 6:14 pm

      WOW!!!!!I can say i understand your situation or what your mother went thru but your hatred or bitterness for those innocent kids is sickening!
      Do you know what can become of them?Do you know whether they might be the one to save you?
      Do you call yourself a Christian?then please remove the hate from your heart,i know it might be difficult but thats the only way you stand to get forgiveness from God.
      You be angry at anyone but not those kids..
      And your mother’s anger too is a disease infested one..Y’all need therapy

    • PurpleiciousBabe

      June 15, 2015 at 7:33 pm

      As sad as this maybe, I am actually happy your dad did his part for you, his children and didn’t leave your Mum.
      Could have easily abandoned your Mum and the children. I have read and seen too many stories of men leaving their homes, wife and children for mistresses.
      All I can say is for your Mum to live, love and laugh. 25years is a long time to hold onto bitterness and disappointments. X

    • ecila

      June 16, 2015 at 10:06 am

      “I am a victim of what you have talked about here,but I love my younger ones in my own case my mother left me when I was a year and two months…I did not even know my mom till much later in my life……I suffered in the hands of another woman but I grew up in love with my siblings..guess what? They aren’t bastards

  52. anonymous

    June 15, 2015 at 1:39 pm

    I have one question tho, did anita Solomon delete the comment from her Facebook page? Cos its no more there

  53. itiswell

    June 15, 2015 at 1:50 pm

    I have been praying and pitying toke but on second thought, I am beginning to think she just might be the one that leaked the news to SDK in order to spite Maje a bit for embarrassing her.

    Because the way she has just moved on. Trust me the last thing I want from her is to sit down and cry, lai lai. I do not believe in crying over a man born of a fellow woman but nevertheless you can cry over disappointment (as she claims he’s the love of her life) or at least take a day out to reflect on yourself. The only reason she’s still bubbly is probably because;

    1) she knew about Maje, his issues and the girl and is already accustomed to the bullshit that she is numb to the disappointments from him now.
    2) She herself is not really in love with Maje and just wanted to get married to him or cos of name
    3) She probably knew about all these since and has had time to heal her heart.
    4)she leaked this info herself, so that people can insult Maje for her.

    Honestly I still like her and still hope for wisdom in this situation but the way she has really gone about it, I won’t be surprised. After all this is showbiz or maybe I am just a different personality from her hence she’s dealing with it her own way.

    Bella pls after this no more post on this issue.

    • Miriam

      June 15, 2015 at 2:35 pm

      Bingo!!!!!! Anyone who thinks this wasn’t a carefully orchestrated event, obviously doesn’t know Toke very well. The girl can calculate for Africa. Always comes out smelling like roses. Pregnancy takes 9 months. She didn’t just find out. This situation has t embarrassed her, just made her more popular. Remember when they “broke up”, the way she went on in the media, the interviews, oh pity me, the jerk broke up with me after 12 years, next thing it is “surprise wedding”, all the lies that went with it, she forgot to mention he stood her up before. Someone will now be arguing that she isn’t a narcissist. Google is their friend.

    • Madamsofo

      June 15, 2015 at 3:26 pm

      Why are you so invested in her matter? Anita is this you or your goons? Talking like y’all eat lunch together daily. You probably just hate that she is always well put together. Don’t worry God will bless you too and you will attain greater heights. No need to be mad at other people’s success.

  54. Bizwax

    June 15, 2015 at 1:52 pm

    He disvirgined her wall and not her female genitals. Don’t read too much in the comment; it’s not that serious. Toke and Anita have been playing the boy is mine since forever. Look where its landed them. There are no winners in this sad sorry. My heart hurts for the innocent child that will be dragged into this mess.

  55. Dirty O

    June 15, 2015 at 1:55 pm

    What is these accusations are all false. Just rumors… what if… what if….???

  56. Bizwax

    June 15, 2015 at 1:57 pm

    *sad story*

  57. Person

    June 15, 2015 at 2:12 pm

    Omotoke Makinwa, asabi ade! O ma ga o! Afi igba ti awon aye get e finally, ti imo awon ota jo lori e! Kini ka pe eleyi? Can’t even imagine the pain you are going through; an embarrassment so public, humiliation so total. Well, as the Yorubas will say, a ti ri iru eleyi ri, a fin deru ba oloro ni o! It is happened to some of these keyboard warriors and it will keep happening. I hope you find the courage to make what is only the right choice. God be with you.

    • temi

      June 15, 2015 at 2:33 pm

      Lmao. Who is this clown? DEAD @ asake ade. Awon were po ni BN sha. ROTFLMAO

  58. Bola

    June 15, 2015 at 2:14 pm

    Enough with the rubbish that she forced him to marry her! A man in his 40s with no backbone, Anita that’s what you also want abi. Maje is a weakling who doesn’t even seem to know what he wants or have the guts to go for for. Frankly no sensible woman deserves Maje, he is indecisive and weak

  59. Luv

    June 15, 2015 at 2:27 pm

    “Let the truth be told” I feel you girl!

    Toke cut your losses! learn from it and move on.
    There are better things ahead provided you are willing to be honest with yourself, improve for the better and put God first.
    There is nothing new under the sun, you are not the first woman this is happening to and you sure aren’t going to be the last. How you deal with it, is what will make all the difference.

    I sincerely wish you the best!

    And for crying out loud, milk this to the bank, book deals, TV shows, speaking engagements, the whole nine yards
    Babe make some money in between those tears.

  60. Why so bitter

    June 15, 2015 at 2:31 pm

    People crying more than the bereaved. This is the age of social media, this is simply entertainment. More please bellanaija however there are no winners or losers, this is life

  61. PRINCE

    June 15, 2015 at 2:32 pm

    in as much as I wont say well done to her husband, I’ll also not pat Toke at the back, for every single guy/girl, you owe no one an apology for how you live but once you’re married, your marriage comes first. almost all the people that got married after Toke have their child or they are expecting. Toke is busy attending the whole celebrity wedding and flying private jets to port Harcourt while she was suppose to be minding her marriage.
    He who fails to plan have already plan to fail. Agreed, the guy did wrong but if Toke had been there when he’s horny, he wont be thinking of Anita
    Why on earth will a married man or woman hold her carrier higher than her marriage? She got what she deserves. they can still go ahead anyways, nothing spoils.

    • at

      June 15, 2015 at 4:25 pm

      This is an insensitive comment

      Is she God to make babies?

    • Ada Nnewi

      June 15, 2015 at 5:10 pm

      Tell the clown oh…too many cervix watchers in this country…

    • adadioramma

      June 15, 2015 at 5:15 pm

      U are a bull. Do u make babies? Senseless talk

  62. I no send

    June 15, 2015 at 3:04 pm

    Toke and this Anita girl have been feuding for majes love for a longtime. So though the pregnancy may be a surprise the side chick is no stranger to toke cos she has confronted this Anita many times when she wasn’t even married.

  63. Moyo

    June 15, 2015 at 3:05 pm

    Na wah o, all these psycho analysis on top of another person matter, my 2 kobo opinion is that everyone including me should mind their own business and allow Maje and Toke to sort out their business, it is nobody’s business, that is how you people started with Emma Nyra and Ubi Franklin/Linda Esoro una no dey tire. Everyone should mind their own business. Bloggers are just using these stories to drive traffic to their blogs. Nuff said

  64. Exsidechick

    June 15, 2015 at 3:05 pm

    I once found myself a sidekick in my own relationship ended up playing the boy is mine with another woman. She got pregnant first and married him and I was forced to “break up” and move on with my life even with the strong feelings and emotions I still had for him, mini depression, sleep deprivation and restlessness amongst other things… I kept it moving. Less than a year after their wedding he kept coming back and I fell for it knowing he was now married. I mean the s..x was awesome and most times he didn’t mind dipping … r..aw.. (lol) I know I know…. One thing I have made sure I do is look out for me. I refuse to have his kid even though the thought might have crossed my mind many times. Men are wicked and no matter how much love and respect you have for a man, he will still do what he has to do. I wish Toke all the best though, but this is the height of it… Everyone might blame Anita, but we don’t know what they have .. the lies he might have fed her amongst other things…Goodluck Toke mehn, don’t short yourself, only you know what you deserve.

  65. Ibinabo

    June 15, 2015 at 3:09 pm

    The media should allow Toke think… this drama is overblown.

  66. mrs chidukane

    June 15, 2015 at 3:14 pm

    This episode has been very embarrassing for all the parties involved. People saying BN should not cover this will be the first to say BN is protecting their friend if they don’t. Also, commenters cursing people and saying they will experience worse because they dared to have an unpopular opinion about the matter at hand , know that those curses don’t hold water so don’t hold your breath expecting them to happen. Not every man cheats on his wife.

    • Hohoho

      June 15, 2015 at 9:21 pm

      The original MRS of Naija is back again. The one who is loyal to husband before country. Tell me, is it MR Chidukane that you are beating your chest about?

      I laugh in Finnish! Hohohohohoho!

  67. FinchleysFinest

    June 15, 2015 at 3:24 pm

    Is there anything as ” THE MAN was pressured to marry the Girl????

    Can some of you just THINK! before you type??? In this day and age?
    There’s basic HOME TRAINING at work here: If you are not interested in the lady, DO NOT MARRY out of pity OR pressure…. There are NO EXCUSES!

    Toke and her husband made a VOW! Simple… When has it become the norm to have side chic before or after marriage. Can you guys just stop this comments… Its disgusting….

    Must/Should we continue treating ladies/women like they don’t matter because our parents have gone through this torture???

    If you are not willing to be the best husband ever, THEN don’t put a RING on it… Run, Relocate if possible,, Go on social media and cry for help…. PRAY if all fails… ABEG… don’t give the shebang of MAJE married out of pity or TOKE is dominating or begged for the ring… anyhow she got the ring…. its none of my business…

    Enough Said…..

    • Ff

      June 16, 2015 at 5:34 am

      Such grammatical errors I had a headache trying to read

  68. Blessmyheart

    June 15, 2015 at 3:47 pm

    I’d want to go with BN’s explanation because I CANNOT believe a grown man will write this kind of thing on FB and a grown woman would leave it there if it meant sex.

    This is just messy and I feel really bad for Toke

  69. Anonymous

    June 15, 2015 at 3:53 pm

    Toke can lie for Africa’ Before I write my own let me say Maje Ayida is a dog/woman wrapper from time!! Whether Toke stays @ home or is a ‘career woman’ he was going to cheat no matter what!! He is immature & refuses to grow the hell up BUT Toke was Anita a stalker? Was Erica a stalker? Were you not the side chick when he was formally dating those ladies?! Who chased them away from Maje so there would be space for u? Was it not you & your Bacchus friends? Sending them anon emails,texts messages & phone calls! Harassing them in clubs, spilling drinks on them,all sorts of childish things to let them know you were his side chick then? Na lie?! Maje was dating Anita & you were seeing him on the side in those days of Bacchus same with Erica coswoth,did you really think after u managed to chase them that you will have peace in that marriage?!! He cheated on them with you so of course he will cheat on you too! Karma is a bitch, anyway as for the useless Maje yes we all know you didn’t really want to marry toke,I mean even up to a few days to your wedding you were asking your friends if you should marry her,a grown man of over 40 smh but nobody forced you you to go to the registration office without your family’s consent so as you make your bed u must lie in it & make it work out with toke,Anita I wish you a safe delivery because your baby is innocent in all this & I know Toke made your life a living hell while you & Maje were dating then,ah my fingers don type tire, Maje go & beg your wife make it up to her, Toke it is well afterall you got what you wanted nah Mrs Ayida but sarcasm aside keep your head up,this will soon be stale gist. But you know he will always love Anita so if you are wise cut your losses now.

    • sippingzobo

      June 15, 2015 at 4:41 pm

      @ anonymous dis ur gist be like real insiders scoop abeg SPILL (make I run go get more chilled zobo as d gist continues) . Chai see wetin BN cause now ehnnnn.

    • Asiri

      June 15, 2015 at 6:22 pm

      Real insider gist! chai!

    • polypoly

      June 15, 2015 at 9:38 pm

      come thru booo….yasss hunnay!!! people are on here fighting over toke being innocent and this whole time we didn’t kno the history….chilllleeeee cheese, lets drink this tea

      *iya basira abeg add small sugar inside this liptin tea*……………Anon you are the real MVP!!!

  70. LeoLeo

    June 15, 2015 at 4:01 pm

    Na wa o! is this what social media has turned us into, insulting and condemning people because we feel we are judge, jury and executioner on top another person matter. wetin concern una? did they ask for our advice or insight?
    in other news Game of thrones just committed an atrocity

  71. twinkle

    June 15, 2015 at 4:14 pm

    Sigh…. first of all TOKE didn’t know she was getting married..do y’all voltrons remember that HUGE LIE! then literally she dated MAJE for 4 years…..that marriage or whatever they both call it should NEVER have happen, women are blessed with Intuition , you know when your man is creeping , and if you you attend events like Toke does and your hubby doesn’t raise an eye brow, check him, he MUST be creeping (men are not wired to let their wife off 5 times a week). Also when you get married you NEED to change your priorities, that aint rocket science…..its just like when you have a baby, you cant be gone from the baby all the time, someone will take care of that baby…..Men are like babies ( even if you think they are not) so i blame TOKE, if she didn’t want to priorities or re arrange her life style she should have stayed SINGLE..i mean that chic works for AFRICA, work and extra curricular events…..(I mean she’s in our face EVERY DARN WEEK)…..you cant be a hustler and expect that your man will stay under the sheets waiting for you…..don’t fool yourself be REALIST! a man wouldn’t want to be referred to all the time as TOKE’s husband, it wont help his self esteem or feel needed, he found where he was needed and took advantage. Toke I wish you the best and i hope you find closure.

    Don’t be surprised if Maje comes out to say he didnt pay her dowry….am just saying!

  72. Sky Blue

    June 15, 2015 at 4:15 pm

    He obviously meant he disvirgined her wall. We used to say that back in the day.

  73. Jojo

    June 15, 2015 at 4:22 pm

    @Let the truth be told!!! is on point in a lot of way. Toke, I had to advice you, take you personal life of the pages of the internet. Secondly, take an honest look at your situation marriage and all. Some very hard choices need to be made. good luck

  74. fga

    June 15, 2015 at 4:32 pm

    Women and judging sef. Is the Toke in question a saint? The man had a baby with another woman it’s not the end of the world. Haba. We’re acting as if all our parents and grandparents were monogamous people. Na wa.

  75. paradigm

    June 15, 2015 at 4:43 pm

    I hate all dis kinda relationship drama especially wen d real wife is cuter dan d mistress. Maybe Toke saw dis coming, dats why she didn’t make her wedding too known. Men are bastards, but we hav no choice, if u decide to breakup with one, u’ll definitely hook up with another bastard…..

  76. lol

    June 15, 2015 at 4:44 pm

    I don’t have time to take sides but I just feel maje never really loved toke. I think he married her out of pity. But the truth is toke must have seen the signs that maje wasn’t dat into her. He had other selfish reasons why he settled for toke that wasn’t close to love.

  77. fga

    June 15, 2015 at 4:45 pm

    Being faithful for Nigerian men is an exception not the rule. Regardless of what women think here. I’m surprised so many are so willingfully ignorant. The only men that probably don’t cheat in Nigeria are the religious ones or someone who is too broke to cheat. As long as the guy has small change and enjoy’s the good life, lol, all this one una dey talk na story. You think you know everything but you really don’t know. Don’t be deceived by what you see on the surface.

    • not true

      June 15, 2015 at 6:11 pm

      religious wetin? I dey laugh o!

    • funmi peperenpe

      June 15, 2015 at 9:45 pm

      Have you met Paastor Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA?

    • Teedee

      June 16, 2015 at 11:29 am

      Hahahaha I actually choke on my cold glass of water. LMAO!

    • Teedee

      June 16, 2015 at 11:30 am

      **Choked

  78. Amh

    June 15, 2015 at 5:11 pm

    ANITA. You are pathetic. You are all over this blog with diffrent names screaming tou have his heart blah blah. You are no 1 fool. You wish. If you have his heart he will marry you not toke. You are mistake that needs to go away.you just embarrassed yourself by getting pregnant.you are reallg pathetic. A child born outside a wedlock is a bastard. She will have kids soon and yours will live with you. U have a very loose morals and no great expectation for yourself. Hanging to a married guy and typing rubbish. You are just a free punani to him thats all. The marriage is going to work cuz he loves his wife.if you like open your legs again. You must have low opinion of yourself thinking no man wants you. My uncle had 2 kids outside wedlock over 3o yrs ago. The baby mama can never step into their house nor her kids up till today. He begged my aunty
    she forgave but the stranger was put in her place. Eventually.the woman remarried cuz my uncle was ashamed of his behavior. He took care of the kids outside but must never step into his family home with minimal association with them. You better bury your head in shame and look for your own hubby. Ole. Most of the commenters are offspring of second 3rd mistress. Concubines so i am not surprised. When you are married and a strange dog comes into your marriage welcome her with 3 hands. Anita is obviously mary jane and commenting under diffrent names. Lightskirt. Maje the gorilla. You have a lifetine to beg your wife. But it is well. With your family. The lord will rebuke the evil in you and tokes marriage. Its babies we want to see soon . Piss off Anita. Asawo kobokobo.

    • Diesel

      June 15, 2015 at 8:45 pm

      I million likes?… For those of u saying rubbish about Toke God ll reward u all accordingly, what ever u wish her ll come back to u 1 million times.

    • oversabi

      June 16, 2015 at 3:10 am

      he he he he. All these three people na serious victim. No one win for this fight. Regarding Toke and Maje remaining married no matter what, na by force? Toke, please consider your sanity and self respect first. Be selfish.

  79. MsFelinda

    June 15, 2015 at 5:22 pm

    You guys are so stupid and gullible.
    CANT YOU SEE THIS IS A FAKE ACCOUNT
    GOSH – SO FREAKING GULLIBLE

    You think she is that stupid to write this and put it out,. Cmon. Be a lil smart

    • shade

      June 16, 2015 at 7:12 am

      Hmmm thank U sha!!! I thought I was tripping for a minute but what if she deleted the account cuz this msg was way back in 2007! I was wondering if her friends that appeared on the msg still got there account. Well I pray for peace for her that’s all. She’s gonna need Jesus and a team to get her back to her normal life. Well its DO-ABLE

  80. MsFelinda

    June 15, 2015 at 6:45 pm

    calm the fcuk down people – THERE ARE TWO SIDES TO EVERY STORY, ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT. OPINIONS ARE LIKE ASSHOLES EVERY BODY GOT ONE.

    i mean have you thought about the fact that there is TWO SIDES TO EVERY STORY,

  81. Elsa

    June 15, 2015 at 7:29 pm

    Lmfao you are crayyyyyyy

  82. Elsa

    June 15, 2015 at 7:31 pm

    @asgrl

  83. asgrl

    June 15, 2015 at 8:25 pm

    STDs are real. Toke please get tested.

  84. Diesel

    June 15, 2015 at 8:46 pm

    For those of u saying rubbish about Toke God ll reward u all accordingly, what ever u wish her ll come back to u 1 million times.

    • funmi peperenpe

      June 15, 2015 at 9:44 pm

      Olopa ewo ni ti epe? This matter dey pain you like pllay like play o

    • oversabi

      June 16, 2015 at 3:11 am

      Please stop using God’s name in matter he was not consulted on.

  85. HRS

    June 16, 2015 at 10:28 am

    women!!!!we r our own enemies.if u r living in a glass house dont throw stones sha.if u av a man u call ur own just pray for the fear of God in ur man cos u neva know wat goes on wen u r nt looking.na wa wa,our morals keep getting lower and lower as d minutes go by,nxt tin u know we will be “crawling on our belies” cos der will be no morals left in us at all!!Lord av mercy.

  86. kaay

    June 17, 2015 at 2:43 pm

    But this Maje guy is not even handsome. See his head.. mtchewww

  87. Opinions are like assholes

    June 20, 2015 at 2:43 pm

    If you feel that the people that are sympathetic to Anita are really her, then we should assume that you are really Toke. In fact, it looks like Toke is commenting under different names.
    The real culprit here is Maje. Only God knows what he tells both women behind closed doors that keeps them taking him back. I’m not going to blame either woman because I know how men can be.

  88. jealousjewel

    July 21, 2015 at 1:13 pm

    @funmi peperenpe pls tell us about pastor fatoyinbo of COZA … Can’t wait to hear

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