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A Facebook user, Francesca Joseph-Esenwa‘s video of an underage girl maid fanning her ‘madam’ for two hours at a salon has gone viral – just posted on Friday, it already has over 100,000 views.

Here’s the video:

She wrote,
“I witnessed this modern day slavery today at a nail salon. This woman who arrived in a jeep came with this girl who looked rather unkempt and had her fan her for over 2 hours.
I Watched helplessly and prayed for life to be able to add value for my children.
If she can use her as a mobile fan for over 2 hours in public you can then imagine what she uses her for behind closed doors.
No help for this children as we watch them being abused.
No school.
Still hurt by this.
Sad.”

77 Comments

  1. Adeola

    November 22, 2015 at 4:06 pm

    You would have said something, but trust she will beat up that girl like shit, well I k ow one day all this will stop

    • fabulicious

      November 22, 2015 at 5:02 pm

      I went to her facebook wall and people seriously asked why she didn’t speak up and the poster said that the last time she spoke out about injustice, she alongside her husband and in-law where arrested and that it took the intervention of Lagos State government to bail them or something like that and that because of past experience she felt she felt this was the best she could do That being said, this madam so with all her jeep-ness,she couldn’t go to a salon that can afford even a fan or at least generator to power the fan. Some women will just stay and be heaping curses on themselves. Wickedness from the pit of hell.

    • Damilola

      November 22, 2015 at 8:00 pm

      @Adeola

      Why do people open their big mouth to ask, why didn’t you speak up?knowing how unsafe Nigeria is. even in the U.S that protects your freedom of speech, you don’t speak up aboutr everything. You have to protect yourself too. Did you speak up at all injustice that you saw around you or even one you did to others? easier said than done.
      One of the benefits of having social media, you expose a lot of underground injustice, craziness without putting yourself in any type of direct danger. The embarrassment alone, awareness can make a little difference.

  2. Ocean Beauty

    November 22, 2015 at 4:09 pm

    I can’t even fan myself for 10 minutes straight. Why do I feel like slapping this woman through my phone. See her chewing like “aturu” .
    But madam camerawoman, you and the other customers/workers in the salon did or said nothing apart from recording the incident?
    It is okay oh.

  3. Ada Ada

    November 22, 2015 at 4:12 pm

    I don’t understand what exactly made this go viral. This aproko person was there for 2 hours and the girl was fanning madam jeep for the duration? This girl doesn’t look unkempt nor abused. Three Sundays back, I went somewhere with my friend and her mum. It was hot, I had a fan, mummy was sweating so I started fanning her. Would someone look at the scenario and conclude I’m in slavery?
    These days everyone with a smartphone can form paparazzi. Nobody minds their own business anymore.

    • bgirl

      November 22, 2015 at 4:26 pm

      What are you on about?
      Your situation was different.. YOU offered.
      The girl here is a maid to this woman.
      Many homes in Nigeria abuse this young underage children and THIS is a clear case of abuse.

    • Sparks and Tingles

      November 22, 2015 at 4:37 pm

      You obviously didn’t see anything wrong with this…2 hours is a long time for a mum-daughter affectionate fanning. If she has a jeep, she can afford a mini fan or an air conditioned salon.

    • Chocolate

      November 22, 2015 at 4:39 pm

      Well that’s not the same thing at al.mif my mother is hot, of course I’ll fan her, but not for TWO HOURS STRAIGHT, while standing at the same time. Come on, at least my mother will have some pity. And maybe the child isn’t suffering, but she still doesn’t look put together.

    • Tai omo yoruba nimi

      November 22, 2015 at 4:52 pm

      ada ada na wah for you oo,so will your mama allow you to fan her for a good 2 hours? pls answer and would you be happy if that child was yours? fanning some madam for that amount of time,let me tell you something..you dont know nothing cos you said people need to mind their business,i’m afraid if people start ignoring stuff like this then evil people will get away with loads, so i’d advise you to be more compassionate towards others unless you are like the madam in the video and it struck a nerve. i support such videos and snapping of pictures sef,this wickedness on a high level and we are still criticizing the whites about slavery when we blacks are still practising it ojukoroju

    • ICANTDEAL

      November 23, 2015 at 6:08 am

      But were you fanning your mother for 2 hours? gerrarahia man mwetch

    • Princess Chioma

      November 23, 2015 at 9:40 pm

      @Ada Ada – First of, i wonder who is liking ur stupid comment. I can bet its you just clicking the like button over and over again. I cant believe a human being like you came out to write these. It is very simply why you did actually. You must be guilty of something. You should be ashamed of urself as a human being and also as a woman. So if something was to happen to you and ur husband, you wudnt mind someone making ur kids fan them for however long and looking like the child in that video. So SAD for you!!!

  4. Tina

    November 22, 2015 at 4:14 pm

    This is so sad, modern day slavery.

  5. mary

    November 22, 2015 at 4:15 pm

    this is so inhumane, modern day slavery. who knows what this child goes through at the home of the woman if she can openly use her as a mobile fan. look at the way she was chewing the gum like a real Jezebel. May God help us all.

  6. gbolahun

    November 22, 2015 at 4:23 pm

    See something o! In this day and age? So they don’t have a fan in that salon? If she can make her do this in public, i can’t imagine what the girl must be going through inside this woman house.

    See now, If this babe grows small boobs and oga blinks at her twice, peeps be screaming be careful of Housemaids ooo, THEY SNATCH HUSBANDS!….MCHEWWWWW!

    Or if she starts cooking for her with her urine, EVERYONE WOULD DEEM HER EVIL!!

    For every action, is an equal and opposite reaction. Oga Madam, your own is coming.

  7. j'suis belle

    November 22, 2015 at 4:25 pm

    we can’t help it but its the reality of our society, LORD

    • kikiki

      November 22, 2015 at 4:46 pm

      Kikikikikikiki where are those whose freezers chills satan? No more light? Kikikikikikikiki……………body odour

  8. j'suis belle

    November 22, 2015 at 4:26 pm

    have mercy

  9. And then what next?

    November 22, 2015 at 4:30 pm

    I just pray the ‘madam’ is not made aware of the video and having seen it, then takes out her anger on the maid in private where there are no citizen reporters.

    Next time, please try to think of an end strategy, and of what is best for the victim. It might have helped/been better if the ‘madam’s’ identity and contact could have been gotten from the salon, or, in lieu of that, recording the licence plate of the jeep, would have helped the relevant authorities and NGOs to track her and rescue and rehabilitate the girl. Knowing that her details were out there would also have restrained the ‘madam’ from further abuse on the girl.

  10. ATL's finest

    November 22, 2015 at 4:35 pm

    POVERTY oooo! U’re bad.. Dear lord, I have seeing people go through First class poverty ( like I call this one). Please keep me & my hubby alive and be able to take care of our kids AMEN. If men/women were God, I don’t know what would have happened.

  11. emma

    November 22, 2015 at 4:36 pm

    It is only God that can protect all these children that have no other choice but to become maids in peoples houses.The other day it was the househelp that her madam burnt her breast. I don’t know why there is so much evil clouding the hearts of Nigerians and I bet that useless jezebel goes to church on sundays. i think Nigerian pastors need to start preaching about showing compassion to the less privileged, instead of preaching about money, singles and married, and miracles all the time. I also think that our government should do something about this as well, we are in 2015 for Gods sake, but the Nigerian system is still in 1910 what a shame.

  12. Ada Ada

    November 22, 2015 at 4:41 pm

    Besides she looks pregnant, maybe there was a fan/AC but she just had to be more comfortable. We all know how irritable pregnancy can make a woman. Some people screaming abuse might be doing more inhumane things to their wards. Abeg park well!

    • Tai omo yoruba nimi

      November 22, 2015 at 4:57 pm

      ahh @ ada ada so pregnancy is an excuse to use that girl like robot abi? look at your dirty mouth even making excuses for the so called woman ,i’m suspecting you this girl,its either you know the woman or you yourself have maid/s at home that you treat even worse than this. you are not kind and thats not me judging ,its just the fact that you can find baseless excuse for this woman that boggles me

    • lola

      November 22, 2015 at 9:50 pm

      Did u just type this?,So becos she is pregnant the girl had to fan for Straight two hours. Am sure u are the one in d video or you’re related to the woman.

    • ATL's finest

      November 22, 2015 at 10:29 pm

      @ Ada Ada BULLSHIT U hear me(x10——). Because she’s pregos ok why didn’t she get her own Mother, sister or sth to fan her? Is she the first to be pregos? I have seeing pregos Nigerian women work till the last day at d hospital. They practically have to be kicked out of work . so my dear U are a female & u made such comment smh.. Well I declare that d good lord will embarrass this maid with an unstoppable BLESSING & uplift her. And as for that Madam, a sinner runneth when no1 pursueth cuz U are mean & have d heart of a STONE.

    • Smh

      November 22, 2015 at 11:12 pm

      Even if she is pregnant with a future king, still doesn’t make it right. Are you actually this shallow minded? Or you’re just seeking attention?? Because your comments are quite shocking. You’re the type of madam whose maids piss in your food and frankly speaking, now I can see why. So heartless and cruel.

      This is unacceptable. I hope something is done about this modern day slavery. Too many young kids being taken from their homes and turned into slaves all because of poverty. So sad

    • B

      November 23, 2015 at 1:55 am

      Do unto others as you would like done unto you.

    • ICANTDEAL

      November 23, 2015 at 6:12 am

      Apply sense, please and thank you.

  13. i no send

    November 22, 2015 at 4:42 pm

    hmmm… ..very sad but in a third world country this is reality and a thousand camera phones won’t stop it..but do we take it that the account of the lady paparazzi alleging that kid actually held that fan for 2 whole hours is correct ?? the lawyer in me showing up..lol..okbye

  14. Ada Ada

    November 22, 2015 at 4:51 pm

    My point exactly! 10 minutes is even much. Three minutes of continuous fanning will make my arms ache. Two hours??? Besides things are not always what they seem. We are always quick to judge.

  15. cindy

    November 22, 2015 at 4:55 pm

    I’m sorry, I don’t see abuse here. This is a 38 seconds video. Why should I believe this Francesca woman? I was expecting to see a girl in pain but the girl doesn’t seem bothered. I was expecting to see the woman yell at her but nothing. She doesn’t even seem scared of the madam. Everybody wants to be a Social Justice Warrior (SJW) these days. What if the woman decides to sue you? Do you know how much the girl is being paid? She is not even dressed shabbily. You have not seen shabby yet. I don’t want to sound insensitive but Nigerians we need to choose our battles. Is it that we want to abolish housegirl/boy totally or we want fairer treatment for them? which is it please? I grew up with housemaids and I didn’t like them in particular because I felt my mum always gave them special treatment. Now I know better that she just wanted to be fair. I can imagine if someone saw the maid fanning my mum, the person will automatically assume that she is being abused. So all the times my mum asked me to fan her also, was I being abused? This bandwagon mentality needs to stop abeg. There is nothing conclusive about this video.

    • Miss Shee

      November 22, 2015 at 10:47 pm

      Cindy, Cindy,Cindy… Call a spade a spade o. Whether the video is inconclusive or not. U know the truth and it will set you free. The way you are commenting multiple times, you sound like you are capable of telling ur maid to fan you as well (emphasis on you comments) not saying you do. However, let’s be fair, some maids in Nigeria are badly treated, some are equally not good but then again larger proportion of them are severely maltreated, hence, we can deduce from here that she may be one.

    • Cindy

      November 23, 2015 at 12:26 am

      Na wa for you bners oo. All of you must turn psychologists by force. You are trying to read me from my comments. Don’t take it personal dear, it ain’t about me. It is about the video. I think you all are just looking for a scape goat because someone had the guts to record a video. Show me a woman using swear words or hitting a maid, then I’ll call a spade a spade. This mob mentality that you Nigerians project these days is a scary something. Think for yourself for once. It is your type that will stand by and watch the aluu4 get lynched. Everyone says they are robbers…..what were they doing in a warehouse? Let’s get them killed. If you want to call a spade a spade then you wouldn’t conclude that this abuse. I think you already have a prejudice against women with maids that’s why you are refusing to see reason. Fanning someone is something even a mother can ask her child to do. And while I was that age, I’m not even sure I wore clothes that good. And no, I was not suffering, I just didn’t care then. Oh, and if I wanted a maid, I’ve always had preference for a non-live-in-maid so a kid won’t work for me dear.
      Like I told someone on another post, my commenting multiple times is nothing personal. I live on BN now cos I got free time on my hands. So learn to deal with it or just ignore me. When I’m busy again, I’ll let you all be.

    • ElessarisEllendil

      November 23, 2015 at 3:20 am

      Finally!!!!!!!!!!!

      A. The girl didn’t even fan the madam for the full 38 seconds, she literally stopped and left, the madam wasn’t bothered, but we’re supossed to believe she fanned for two hours straight! “straight” implying no break!.

      B. People are acting like Nigerian SJWs and SJWs worldwide have never been guilty of exaggerating to achieve their goals before.

    • SWAGG1

      November 24, 2015 at 2:54 am

      I am sure you are the womans friend or family. NO GOOD WILL COME TO YOU GUYS UNTIL YOU DO GOOD BY THESE GIRLS. WHAT AN IDIOT!!

  16. Chi

    November 22, 2015 at 4:56 pm

    Go to some modern day Kingdoms even in Nigeria. Slaves fan their Kings biko. Did the girl ever tell her madam she was tired? You can complain if she did yet the madam asked her to continue.

  17. Oga Madam

    November 22, 2015 at 5:04 pm

    Judges, the lady looks pregnant, the young girl is NOT unkempt, and that she fanned for 2 hours is hearsay, maybe this is not fair, but it is not wicked, Madam paparazzi, did you intervene at any point in time? she who knows to do good and does it not is worse than the evildoer who is merely ignorant. I pity judgmental hypocrites like you. BN please post, thank you.

    • emma

      November 22, 2015 at 5:37 pm

      Are you trying to use pregnancy to justify reasons why that witch made that child fan her like a robot for 2 hours? and even tho the poster intervened, that would have been more beating from the madam when they get home. Did you ever think of that? I am sure that you are one of those people that treat their domestic help like garbage that is why you are defending the jezebel. May God have mercy on you.

    • ElessarisEllendil

      November 23, 2015 at 3:24 am

      Did you watch the video???? The girl did not “fan like a robot for 2 hours”. Come on! Hell from 0: 17 the girl starts fanning herself! and at 0:36, the girl jeje lives, I didn’t see the madam “act like a witch”.

  18. Anyy

    November 22, 2015 at 5:13 pm

    The woman that posted this on social media is looking for cheap popularity. Mcjew

  19. tunmi

    November 22, 2015 at 5:24 pm

    Let abortion be legal and have women make decisions concerning wanted and unwanted pregnancy. No, Una go want make every belle born. Where are this girls’ parents?

    • ElessarisEllendil

      November 23, 2015 at 3:26 am

      Right……………because if you asked the girl in the video if she’d rather fan the madam or not have existed at all, she’ll pick not to have existed. In your opinion, that’s solid logic right?

    • ogeAdiro

      November 23, 2015 at 9:32 pm

      By your logic, there shouldn’t be any form of birth control. Because everybody will choose to exist.

  20. Wicked madams

    November 22, 2015 at 5:41 pm

    All the wicked madams are united in their wickedness here. Talking about all may not be as it seems. What I pray for is that all of you that treat kids this way may you enjoy the suffering that God will deal you with as well mschewwww!!! For those that see nothing wrong with this whether it is 38 seconds or five hours may God deal with you all. Useless women who think it’s ok to abuse people just cause they can!!

    • Cindy

      November 22, 2015 at 5:53 pm

      Abeg shut the hell up! I will be the first to stand up for an abused child if I see one! But I won’t unnecessarily join a band wagon hate because I have also seen people who treat their maids well. Take this video to a law court, it is inconclusive. You can choose to be logical but if it pleases you to remain stupid then good luck to you. But remember your curses are directed at your kids not me. E wo le pe? What have we said that warrants the nonsense you just spewed? People like you who find it so easy to throw curses around are not much better than the said wicked madam. You are both hurting others. Shio! You should have just tagged me instead of saying “38 seconds”. What are you scared of? Mtchew!

  21. Ebere

    November 22, 2015 at 6:08 pm

    In this day and age, we would rather record an awful scene and later cowardly write what we were meant to say on social media. This is a cowardly act from the recorder and to you slave mistress, God is calculating your punishment……………….

    • Segi

      November 22, 2015 at 6:18 pm

      And did you bother to read the part where someone wrote, she spoke up on a similar event in the past but it took the intervention of the past Lasg governor to rescue her and her family? As for the witches who see nothing wrong in this kind of act, God just said amen to your prayers – y’all will/have kids!

    • Ebere

      November 22, 2015 at 6:44 pm

      If she knew she wasn’t going to say anything,why even bother recording it?And she said this happened for two hours, which means she kept quiet for two good hours watching this abuse……….She and the lil girl’s boss are both to be blame. The boss for ill treating her maid and the recorder for not speaking up/out…

  22. OBSERVE

    November 22, 2015 at 6:26 pm

    See how I Just put on my wifi 2watch…just a 38seconds clip mtcheeeeeewwwwwwww….all I see is an average looking teen whose mind is lost in a movie(I think there’s something she’s watching) …and who said shes a househelp? Could be her niece,cousin or younger sis …u jdgemental lot! And who makes her nails for 2hours???

  23. Blueberry

    November 22, 2015 at 6:32 pm

    God! Why will you even have a child fan you in the first place?! Wickedness is real.

  24. Meah

    November 22, 2015 at 6:56 pm

    So this girl is well taken care of abi?
    May her situation be that of your kids

  25. ako

    November 22, 2015 at 7:04 pm

    Modern day slavery. Quite unfortunate

    • ElessarisEllendil

      November 23, 2015 at 3:27 am

      Please! Please, let’s stop with the slavery comparisons. We of all people should be more sensitive about it.

  26. Wonders shall never end!!!

    November 22, 2015 at 7:29 pm

    The girl looks exactly like my daughter Zainab!!! I just feel aches in my heart…this woman is a bastard and the whole world saw how wicked she is… just feel like kicking her ass with my shoes.. what a whimp…

  27. Cindy

    November 22, 2015 at 7:31 pm

    BN why are you not censoring comments like you love to? I’m okay with people throwing insults but curses? Haba! I don’t joke with that please. All of you cursing others who have different opinions are no much better than the monster you claim this woman is. No one is insulting the child or is saying this treatment should not be looked into. But please please please think before you make an innocent woman into a social outcast. Is that why you all are now cursing? All the curses are back to the send. It is your children you are raining curses on. What is all this now? Haba! You people the heartless ones. Esu ni gbogbo yin. Ahn ahn kilode. If I start my own curses you will not like it? E wo le pe?

    • Chi

      November 22, 2015 at 7:47 pm

      Lol! You jist cracked me up. Lol

  28. Pipi

    November 22, 2015 at 7:57 pm

    My dear those people asking why didn’t the woman intervene… Hmm it would have backfired on the poor girl. I was at a saloon once and this woman came with her housemaid and her son very unruly son and the boy broke something my dear sisters if u see the slap this woman landed on the maid … Shouting on her that why didn’t she hold him well…. My mouth was left hanging one woman told her what she did was wrong, Omo this woman faced her like she sold her conscience to the devil and slapped the girl again to go to the car and stop putting her face like someone “they are suffering”. I was so stunned I couldn’t speak.

  29. meah

    November 22, 2015 at 9:18 pm

    May the situation of this girl be that of your kids,Amen
    I was making my hair,when an unkempt maid and madam’s 6 yr old daughter walked in.(she looked 6). The little girl came for braids while Aunty maid was on rubber thread.
    Oghene

  30. Lotusflower

    November 22, 2015 at 9:31 pm

    I wouldn’t be surprised if that girl is her niece. I know people who have done worse to their own relatives that they turn into maids.

  31. Miss shee

    November 22, 2015 at 10:17 pm

    Some women are wicked to housemaids, it’s unbelievable. The lady that had her ears nipped, the alleged story by a commenter was as a result of the lady’s maliciousness towards the maid. Some Nigerians treat maids without human sympathy. It’s the economy, if not is she not suppose to be in at least secondary school. When government can’t even provide free education for people even to secondary level. The world is waiting for you and I to change things and I will by the grace of God.

  32. Ti

    November 23, 2015 at 12:04 am

    Y’all should shut up,she’s d hair dressers apprentice,I guess it wz hot in dere & d madam asked her to fan her customer so as not to loose d goodwill of d salon,d madam actually asked d girl to go bring her fone for her which shows aw familiar she was of d environment& d closeness wit d madam,rather Dan d customer,although I don’t encourage dt form of slavery,u all getting d story wrong,lets look at it frm dis angle,madam journalist/ reporter,being intimidated by anoda pretty customer driving a jeep to salon& forming big girl for madam reporter,madam reporter being bored under d hairdryer,gets an idea to sham e her,lets all beware wen u see someone typing & directing d fone at u ,out of boredom or jealousy usuall y boils down to dis

    • ElessarisEllendil

      November 23, 2015 at 3:31 am

      ???I know you’re passing on important information………..but language barrier. Do you mind writing it in English or Ich spreche kein Englisch?

    • Ti

      November 23, 2015 at 8:40 am

      @ elessarisellendi,*wat a name*,I guess u understood d message being passed,it’s just a form of semantics dt I guess a great IQ can decode…………by d way lets get ur own take on d subject matter of discourse.i hope u won’t have to bring out a dictionary,lols

    • ElessarisEllendil

      November 23, 2015 at 2:57 pm

      But its really hard to understand. You could have been nice and written the message well nah.

  33. Mabel

    November 23, 2015 at 1:16 am

    Why is it acceptable for children to be in the employ of anyone? This is where the problem lies, children are children and should not be working for anyone. If you offered to take a relative in because of pity you felt for their condition they do not owe you servitude in exchange. I despise child labour in all it forms and will never support underaged children working as maids for anyone.

  34. Dreu

    November 23, 2015 at 1:20 am

    dont you have a life,u are sitting on ur most likely fat ass commenting over and over and have the nerve to open ur mouth and find fault with what others have the right to say…gurl u best stop and nuh boda come my way, yuh nuh wah mi and u inna nuh argument today yah…what u r saying is plain ignorance, do you need to touch fire to know it is hot? so y can’t u use ur comprehensive skills and plain ol common sense when u c situations such as this. Some of u damn africans are plain evil, but as the saying goes “duppy know who fi frighten”. The rest of us in certain parts of the world won’t tolerate this shit.U all need to be much more proactive about abuse,u are far too comfortable with this…with ur bag full of “what ifs” and have the nerve to compare this to the 2 little seconds ur mom probably asked u to fan her when u were small,that is ur mother,a who u want fi fan her!!!! this is not the same thing. So here is what u need to do,move away from ur computer and grab all the chairs in ur house put them all together and have several seats with ur cyber courage and ur rubbish!!!

  35. ElessarisEllendil

    November 23, 2015 at 3:36 am

    All this could have been avoided if government provided electricity, so all of you protesting higher DISCO tariffs please stop!

    Since nobody, wants to say it, the madam, she’s really pretty; Too bad the chewing ruins that.

  36. fleur

    November 23, 2015 at 7:28 am

    The only reason I will comment is because I know this woman will not ask her own kids to fan her for 2 hours or even 10mins. Let us try to think about our children. Also, I thought by un convention we are no longer supposed to employ kids?

    • Cynthia

      November 24, 2015 at 12:24 pm

      looool Lies! Not True.

      A classic Nigerian mum will make you fan her. I know my mum would. In fact as old as I am now, with kids, I cant see her sweating and not go and fan her, house girl or no.

  37. M&

    November 23, 2015 at 10:49 am

    Notice: Nigerian housegirl….wearing Nigerian flag!!
    Hmmm, My own neighbour and her housegirl eh! It reach for the mama landlady who lives in the compound to threaten to call her daughter (the main landlady) to give them quit notice before the woman brings trouble upon the whole compound. The beating the girl gets from this woman eh, its not a small thing….cuts, bruises, injuries, blood, swollen eyes, etc every time it happens, sometimes for 3 or 4 hours straight. and over what? I cant even understand. the whole neighbourhood knows their story….the woman has quarrelled with almost everyone around bcos of the girl’s issue, for up to a year now she doesn’t talk to anyone in the compound bcos we tried to intervene in the matter last year. we were like, if the girl is bad, if she steals you stuff, etc, why not send her home to her parents? but no she won’t, just continuous beating. then the girl will run away, and after some days they will find her and bring her back. o ga o! I wanted to send pictures to WAPA or something, but I wasn’t not sure who exactly handles such cases. Since the quit notice threat anyway, the beatings have reduced, at least for some months now no blood and open wounds on the girl.

  38. Mz Titilitious

    November 23, 2015 at 11:18 am

    i’m not saying what she did is right but this video isnt up to 2hours!!!!!!

    • ElessarisEllendil

      November 23, 2015 at 2:59 pm

      Shh, Nigerians still think you’re meant to believe everything you read on the internet.

  39. zzzzzzzzzzzzz

    November 23, 2015 at 3:07 pm

    I once stopped going to a saloon because of how the hairdresser treated her apprentices. She used to slap and beat them for just the slightest offence and these where not even adolescents. Was shocked to even hear that the woman is from Benin and not Nigeria. Those who live in Ajah may know her

  40. Belize

    November 24, 2015 at 8:41 am

    Whether it is up to 2 hours or not is irrelevant,why would you ask someone to fan you in the first place????;are you the queen of Nigeria??? are your hands broken????;some women are amazing I swear, even if the girl volunteered, you should have told her to sit down, why even bring the maid along to the saloon that’s slavery for real, is she meant to escort you and carry your handbag everywhere you go?? the other thing that irritates me is when I see some of them at the mall with their maids holding the baby pushing cart while they cat walk in front I just shake my head what’s the point of bringing your maid to the mall???

  41. Cynthia

    November 24, 2015 at 12:14 pm

    I totally agree Ada ada. People come here to talk trash and judge but have no clue what actually happens behind closed doors. Plus this person is obviously exaggerating. Fanning a person happens everyday, in some salons sef they have an apprentice dedicated to that kind of work when there is no light. Would you say that is slavery too? You guys like to hyperventilate over everything shaaaaaaa. kai.

    Was telling my baby sister yesterday that I fanned my house help when we went to saloon months ago and the generator went off. If same journalist was in my saloon, she probably wouldn’t have recorded that. She’s just looking to create sensationalism and join bandwagon by force. Please gerrarahia mehn shiiii.

    Plus I expected this video to be at least an hour long to validate the claim she made. Rubbish.

    You guys should calm down, plus some house helps actually care for their employers in ways you cant understand because your mind cant see beyond slavery mentality. Looked at her face again and she didnt seem or look tired, or even disturbed by what she was doing. She was scoping the ceiling, paint basket (lol). Abeeeg you guys should calm down.

    Worst part is you guys that do/tolerate worse in your homes are here sipping tea and cursing the madam. #GodWillJudgeYouForReal.

  42. Cynthia

    November 24, 2015 at 12:21 pm

    Perhaps leaving the nanny/maid holed up in the house for days and months is a good idea?

    Mumu. Think before you speak. The nanny should be able to enjoy sight-seeing as well even if it is just shoprite with the family. Should the madam now hold the child and push the shopping cart all by herself in a bid to look politically correct while the nanny folds her arms? Sharap dia.

    Can’t stand you hypocrites.

  43. bisisexy

    November 24, 2015 at 1:59 pm

    Many pple do things, under d guise of pregnancy,esp in nigeria,d oda day was having lunch near my office greeted old woman seating next to me she just nodded,wen Anoda woman dat was looking very flashy and fair came in wit two kids dat are very dark & hs maid wit her, I realised kids were hers, d old woman changed started smiling to the kids mum saying it’s good to see kids and have kids, Africans like & respect marriage&pregnancy many babe’s get married bcos dey forced d guy and said dey are pregnant, dey won’t say it on Bella naija, d last wedding I went for, the grooms best friend is my wife, she told me confidentially dat d groom was pissed wit d bride. Cos d bride said she is pregnant later told d groom she isn’t preggy,groom was surprised cos he was rushing proposal and borrowing money to do wedding so he won’t have child out of wedlock,

  44. bbz

    November 24, 2015 at 10:33 pm

    abeg shut up ma, i am just hoping you are not as old as me but even if you are please ma still shut up.
    Will she be the first one to be pregnant, are there not other pregnant women out there that would never treat a child this way.

    But wait, maybe you are the lady in the video sef! May your daughter not suffer the same fate in your hands or in the hands of a stranger.
    God have mercy on you!

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