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In an exclusive chat with Pulse TV, superstar Tiwa Savage has addressed the controversies and rumors about her marriage.

The singer had quite a lengthy chat with Pulse TV in which she talks about the fact that she was recently pregnant again but she lost the baby. She also adds that she knew her marriage was over for a while. She says when things started (two months ago) she didn’t know whether to keep up appearances or let the world know.

The video is heartbreaking because it confirms that the couple (Tiwa Savage and Tee Billz) will probably be finding their way individually henceforth.

She talks about how she found out about the Instagram posts from a friend and how she was woken up from sleep to hear all about what had been posted on Instagram. According to her, her first thought was that maybe they found him dead. She says that when she heard that nobody could find him her initial thought was that “We need to find him. He might be suicidal.”.

She didn’t even know the extent of what he had said until much later. Tiwa Savage explains that her phones were taken away from her and she was just scared for his life.

Tiwa Savage categorically denies every cheating on her husband…”and Tunji knows this” she adds.

Tiwa reveals the following in the interview

  • She had a devastating miscarriage just 2 months ago
  • She and Tee Billz have had problems for a long time
  • Tee Billz was fraudulent and stole from her as her manager
  • She fired him as her manager to give them a chance to work on their marriage
  • Tee Billz cheated on her frequently
  • The final straw as per infidelity was when she saw a number saved as “edible catering” on his phone discussing various rendevous including during her miscarriage
  • She discovered that Tee Billz has another child in Nigeria, conceived during their relationship
  • According to Tiwa, Tee Billz has alcohol problems, a cocaine habit, lives above his means and has many other vices
  • He is currently owing over N45 Million and the EFCC is after him
  • She covered up his issues for so long by paying off his debts
  • He bought a rolex and a Mercedes even when he could not afford it and she ended up paying the debts
  • He accused her of “stealing his manhood”
  • She has NEVER cheated on her husband
  • Tee Billz was emotionally abusive and claimed “He made her”
  • The marriage was a mistake and it is over
  • Her focus is her son
  • She wishes Tee Billz the best and is praying for him

Watch the video below.

577 Comments

  1. Anonymous

    April 29, 2016 at 8:45 pm

    I believe her. She will be vindicated

    • Lol

      April 29, 2016 at 9:05 pm

      Tiwa why the f- you lying why you always lying hmmm oh my God stop f-ing lying.Bella post my comment I know u all have favor towards tiwa but Toke was almost killed on blogs everything was reported.Fact Billz pimped tiwa,tiwa pimped herself,bills f-ed around.Tiwa f-ed around.Why will u even come and do this interview why? Like why? You want to be Beyoncé so bad did u see Beyoncé gate? Why do this interview,? You know the truth and Billz isn’t crazy he is just a man who is fed up maybe that baby isn’t his.Bella post my comment both of them are wrong and should go solve their problems outside social media & all.Didn’t she see how elevatorgate was handled with Jay Z?
      Jesus who is advising these people? Tee bills has nothing to lose so he will come back stronger with teceipts tiwa just stop

    • Gg

      April 29, 2016 at 9:12 pm

      You are so stupid!!!!

    • TeeS

      April 29, 2016 at 9:17 pm

      You’re such a judgmental bunch in Nigeria. Like dang! Y’all are pretty evil. People are going through stuff and all you can say is rubbish. If you don’t have anything good to say. Just don’t say anything at all. Her husband spewed everything on Instagram, she has a right to spew all in an interview as well. I wonder what y’all lives are behind closed doors. Is your life perfect ? Is your marriage perfect ? Are you sinless?
      Like dang, I don’t support either of them but please i do understand it is a free world but please don’t spew hate. It’s not nice. It is very unbecoming. It’s not too hard to pray for them, or read and go. You don’t have to say mean stuff.
      And to the person who said she had make up on? So? Make-up is now the line to define whether someone is happy or not ? Let’s stop being ignorant here please. Many of you here are old but apparently age does not come with common sense. I am 25 and I know better to seat anonymous behind a computer or cell phone and judge someone’s life when mine isn’t perfect

    • ijebu_ipswich

      April 29, 2016 at 10:05 pm

      Mmmm…… When she was singing

      IF I START TO TALK!!!!

      THING WEY MY EYE DONE DSEE…….. NAH ONLY GOD OOO!!!

      UNA NO HEAR!!!!

      NOW SHE DONE TALK OOOOO!!!!

      MY PEOPLE LISTEN!!!!!! WHEN WILL WE STOP BLAMING OUR WOMEN?

      WHEN?

      WHEN?

      WHEN?

      HAVE A HEART FOLKS!!

      HAVE A DARN HEART!!!!!!!

    • lami

      April 29, 2016 at 10:11 pm

      Waoh ,why so much hate, just like how teebliz put his business out there, tiwa have every right to tell her own side of the story cos of judgemental and hateful people like u.

    • Collin

      April 29, 2016 at 10:14 pm

      Ur such a bastard… Retard

    • Hmmmm

      April 29, 2016 at 10:34 pm

      mmm, it looks like this marriage had 3 people in it, Tiwa, you and Tunji. Well i trust you will attend the divorce hearing too, this one that you know who f’ed who in the marriage…toh.

    • A

      April 29, 2016 at 10:51 pm

      what good husband smokes cocaine, doesn’t want to find a job even to buy pampers for his child and starts embezzling money left and right even from TIWA….this guy was not good for her and not worthy. Teebillz is a lousy husband. I am glad that Tiwa knows her worth and is walking away. This is an example of true strength. I have always respected how Tiwa has carried herself over the years. She is always respectful in the media and to everyone!! GOD is her vindicator. I believe her and Tiwa will find happiness again. AMEN.

    • Olufunmi

      April 29, 2016 at 10:56 pm

      U re a bloody idiot..

    • MyTake

      April 29, 2016 at 10:59 pm

      Thank you, Tiwa is a f-ing liar, she’s always known about the drugs, and they both smoke weed. It’s a known fact that he hits her but she never said that in the interview cos that will beg the question why?….some women are happy to turn their husbands into “gbewudani” when it is convenient for them. She was happy to foot his bills before now, she was happy for him to keep up with the “Joneses” at her expense, so what’s changed???
      He has outlived his usefulness and there no seat on this Tiwa Savage plane. Babe knew what she was doing all along and I may be wrong but this seems like a well planned move, she probably knew what to do to send him over the edge – hence his insta meltdown. These are two – up people and I have no sympathy for either of them.

    • david

      April 29, 2016 at 11:00 pm

      this is the best comment iv read in a while. its so obvious she is lying. she even dressed like she wants people to pity her. having said that it is not my business. they will not pay my bills

    • dora

      April 29, 2016 at 11:41 pm

      Well hello there its unfortunate u talk lyk ds bt frm my point of view u re nt a woman i bet u won’t ask me y I said dat

    • k

      April 29, 2016 at 11:45 pm

      Ewu!

    • Concerned doc

      April 30, 2016 at 12:32 am

      Please people educate yourselves about bipolar disorder. He needs help. Both parties deserve some kindness as no one is immune to problems. If anyone knows Tiwa, pass it on to her.

      wikipedia.org/wiki/Bipolar_disorder

      No need to judge, we are all human. Let’s all learn from each other and help each other to find peace in our lives.

    • Johnson

      April 30, 2016 at 12:43 am

      Who are you and what gave you the courage to come and get involved in this matter? You are not God, so please keep quiet. These guys are going through a lot at the moment and we need cool headed and reasonable people around them to help them survive their painful ordeal. Please go away with your negativities.

    • jo

      April 30, 2016 at 1:06 am

      @lol as in, my first reaction was oh no she didn’t just……………! But madam why are you lying now, okay you want our sympathy now you have it,not taking responsibility of that sham you called a marriage that was over before it began na wah for you. Pretender oshi you were busy f**king bros otedola so make them no help ur own. Doh

    • Caligula

      April 30, 2016 at 1:26 am

      No words man…. I can’t even watch this interview. Too much drama, she shouldn’t have done the interview. We know she’s not loose like that so why say anything? Tiwa, wishing you all the best, you don’t need this drama at all. If you plan to be as successful as you wanna be, don’t indulge in BS interviews in a bid to explain yourself.

    • RUSERIOUS

      April 30, 2016 at 1:28 am

      U need to be quiet.But if u must talk,direct ur sick comments to Tunji.It is people like u who failed in making him realiseHe has been sick for so long.
      Tiwa obviously married him out of need to show gratitude,pity & sympathy
      He need to apologise to Tiwa Bigtime.The guy is manipulative and he knew Tiw’s will be successful but not so much like this.He married her because of her Fame n Fortune and to have total claim on her but she is no object tunji????If u love her u would not have gone on social media to do all that trash. Tunji u are obviously a jealous guy and Banky also need to stay away from you

    • swagg1

      April 30, 2016 at 3:05 am

      Are you one of his jump offs? STFU!!!

    • Tope

      April 30, 2016 at 3:55 am

      You sound like an Uneducated bloody fool. I would advice you to get more education, but that’ll be a waste of time; because you lack the brain matter to process higher information.

    • Motun

      April 30, 2016 at 6:16 am

      You are one of the reasons internet access should not be for everyone. You should be locked away and the key should be thrown into the sea. Arindin!

    • catfish

      April 30, 2016 at 6:38 am

      Hmmmm! You must be out of your mind.

    • xoxo

      April 30, 2016 at 9:45 am

      With 45 million, in this economy? Na only TJ waka come?

    • Kk

      April 30, 2016 at 10:24 am

      Wow… Most ignorant comment ever.

    • Mrs. A

      April 30, 2016 at 11:43 am

      You are an idiot. Was going to say you are stupid but someone already posted that.

    • bex

      April 30, 2016 at 2:57 pm

      U r just ode oshi. Where did they bring this okponu interviewer from biko??

    • Ty

      April 30, 2016 at 3:48 pm

      You are full of shit for saying all these garbage lol

    • Shaunie

      April 30, 2016 at 4:11 pm

      And you know this how? Are you a ghost of the present that was there through their relationship? STF ALL THE WAY UP

    • Olivia

      April 29, 2016 at 9:05 pm

      As much as I believe her, I wish she didn’t do this interview though.
      I wish she took the Toke route. But then again, she’s grown and has every right to her decision.
      Please everybody, watch “Infinitely Polar Bear” on Netflix to see how to make a marriage work when 1 party suffers from Manic Depression or is Bipolar. Thanks.

      #randomthoughts: Nigerian men, ya’ll need to learn to cook for your dyam selves! She doesn’t cook for me is not enough reason for a marriage to end. Bruh!

    • Austin

      April 29, 2016 at 9:50 pm

      U are a lady n u don’t cook 4 ur man…… Dats too bad girl….if a man be doing de ladies work den obviously don’t need de women around anymore… N if ur girl can’t cook for u trust me she’s cooking for her Boss…..It’s a normal thing dey do…..Trying to impress de wrong people all de time?

    • Lola

      April 29, 2016 at 9:58 pm

      I thought as much also. But she had to clear her name. Being accused of committing adultery and the other allegations is not a small thing, and with the bashings on her page, her family, others family. She has to speak.

    • Layo

      April 29, 2016 at 10:34 pm

      Austin learn to write proper English first Bradford you start demanding women to cook.

      Can you even spell the types of food you want to eat? I dare you!

    • Love`

      April 29, 2016 at 10:38 pm

      I get it but I also love that shes being honest..cant stand the fake phony Lagos keeping up appearances lifestyle that serves to keep people on their roller coasters of posturing and misery. She admits to the truth that sometimes getting married is a mistake- no matter the love, or whatever motivation.

    • Purpleiciousbabe

      April 29, 2016 at 10:40 pm

      100 PERCENT…..
      She owed me or nobody this explanation.
      I was hoping she would not do this nonsense.
      Goodness…..

      I still think they will get it together despite this drama sef.

    • Dulce.

      April 29, 2016 at 10:46 pm

      Toke Makinwa on her knees thanking God like “At least for once the scandal gist is not on me this time. Thank you Father!.”

    • Purpleiciousbabe

      April 29, 2016 at 10:58 pm

      Tiwa if you are reading this……
      Accept my hug. All I wanted to do was give you a hug and just allow to cry your eyes.
      You have a child and this is pressure.

      Plus the stories do not add up. You have been living apart for 2months yet a week ago you told him you ran out of milk,
      Anyway, this is for a counsellor……..
      You are both broken and hurt in different ways… COUNSELLOR not social media…

    • Bee

      April 29, 2016 at 11:02 pm

      You have to defend yourself when someone slanders your name. I think the video interview was smart. I hope at the end of the divorce they can work together as parents . Praying for them

    • shady

      April 29, 2016 at 11:06 pm

      No more Dubai wedding, Oya Ikoyi register ti take over.

    • Amaa

      April 29, 2016 at 11:16 pm

      I agree with you this interview was not thought threw at all. she shouldn’t have bothered doing or if she felt she needed to speak a month or two would have been ok to really think about what she wants to put out. Once it gets out there the right to be forgotten on Google doesn’t apply to countries in Africa. I just wish she would have just Packed her bag carried jamil and gone to a remote Island for a month. His other family must be smacking their lips like you see. I pray they come out of this stronger I just keep on seeing their fairy tale wedding .God !!!!!!!!the devil is really after families ,broken homes statiscally most time leads to broken children and broken children lead to broken community and it goes on and a vicious circle continues. May God protect our families and gives us the wisdom to deal with all the devil is planning and has planed to throw our way.

    • oluseunplenty

      April 29, 2016 at 11:36 pm

      i didnt see the movie on netflix.. nothing as indefinitely polar bear

    • AmericanWonder

      April 30, 2016 at 3:45 am

      Enough! Stop diagnosing mental illness that has not been medically confirmed. He can claim depression all he wants, it could even be an excuse but it doesn’t mean he actually is clinically depressed, people go through depressive moments but doesn’t mean they’re ‘depressed’.

      Not condoning drug taking but if you work in the ‘city’ majority of the bankers, lawyers naija’s typically envy for their oxbridge and ivy league education and pedigree & think wow what a catch are on coke. It’s how they get through working crazy hours & their social life. Don’t know why coke users are viewed as madmen in nigeria. Coke is too expensive a habit for the yaba-left crew. Just saying.

    • Kessy

      April 30, 2016 at 6:39 pm

      Yea right Baby. I love your comment! 100%

    • truth hurts

      April 29, 2016 at 9:29 pm

      Sure she will….. Clears throat. Let me ask something:
      Is doing an interview the best possible thing, like I mean just 24 hours after your (soon to be ex) hubby immaturely opened both of your asses to the world on social media, you go ahead to do an interview? I mean, come on…
      Like I said yesterday, and I will say again today. Our celebs do not read comments #FACT
      Tiwa, you my girl, and I advise you to go to Abuja, find Dr. Pops(Likemynds) and seek help.
      Get a dope lawyer and ensure Tunji leaves with #nada #FACT
      Pray to God to restore your happiness because this move just hurt your career(and by this move, I mean this interview). What were you thinking ? You could have silently gone with the #hack nonsense your (or 323 ent ) camp was trying to sell us and we for believe,

      Depression is a quiet disease destroying Nigerian society slowly. Seeking help for depression is not something to be ashamed about. Going to therapy is something we should take seriously because everyone rich, poor, superstar, or bread-seller(see what I did there) needs help.
      I don’t mean going to meet a marriage counsellor or your pastor who will skelebosh and bind and cast.
      I mean meeting a professional which is why a lot of us keep recommending Likemynds. I don’t know any good one in Lagos if not, na there you for try send T.
      Be strong. Be beautiful. Tiwa, you will overcome! for those going through issues and need to see a professional, don’t be shy. seek help. God bless

    • SpeakDTruth

      April 29, 2016 at 9:56 pm

      Why should she go with the hack nonsense? So because she is a public figure, she shouldn’t express her rights to freedom of speech. I see nothing wrong here with what the lady did. Her husband friggin spilled very damaging gist about her and you expect her to keep quiet? Come on people! Let’s be realistic here!

    • Bim

      April 29, 2016 at 10:40 pm

      Azuka muscled her way to becoming Olajumoke’s manager. Now she somehow muscled herself into doing this interview with Tiwa.
      She should please stay behind the scenes of PR and NEVER be asked to conduct an interview again.

    • Ivy

      April 30, 2016 at 7:20 am

      When there is no joy to be found in silence or keeping up appearances, then you speak up. She did the right thing. He dragged her name through the mud by what he did. He could have sent her a text message expressing his anger, he could have left her a note, he could have called her on the phone, heck he could have arranged to see her and poured out his heart but he had to come on social media and rubbished her to the world..she did the right thing by speaking out now, dont even think of making her feel guilty for it..dont think

    • Crappy Interviewer

      April 30, 2016 at 10:30 am

      I couldn’t understand a word Azuka said but just had to listen to Tiwa to guess what the question might have been. I learnt Azuka is friends with Elohor which is why she’s the one interviewing Tiwa but she’s just so inadequate for the job. Just goes to show why there’s no progress in this country when you keep giving jobs to people based on who you know. She looks rough and she can’t string a sentence together. From her body language it looks like she’s jealous of Tiwa and can’t relate to what she’s going through. I’ve heard Azuka is quite a bitter gossip herself alongside Ruth Osime. These so called ‘journalists’ seem like they want to be the celebrities and are only using these jobs to ‘feel among’.

    • Dumebi

      April 29, 2016 at 9:46 pm

      I believe her too. I m wondering how Tu face, Dr Sid and Don jazzy will be looking at tunji now….this guy is too flippant……ladies learn ooo…..when a man leaves his wife and kids to be with u , it can’t last. Look at funke akindele, dabota, Caroline danjuma, tiwa. We are waiting for u Stella damasus

    • All iz well

      April 30, 2016 at 4:00 am

      Tunji wasn’t married before now. Only had kids with the other woman. It’s amazing what we women go through in marriages.I’m in an emotionally abusive marriage that has also become physically abusive.Hubby smokes and drinks a lot and everyone asks if I didn’t know before we got married. Of which, I didnt. No one believes it’s possible not to know such things.I pay the bills :rent, shool fees, dstv including light. All I get is insult, blows on all this.its a toxic marriage I’ve been in for 7 years and he has promised to kill himself and kill me if I leave.we just put up appearances outside. In my heart of hearts, sometimes i dint feel he deserves food in the house. IwishTiwa all the best.

    • Negodu

      April 30, 2016 at 7:58 am

      Dumebi. Why you tink say Stelka put that man on lock down for yonder? To say na Naija the expiration date for that relationship for don pass na. Just negodu!

    • Kanyin

      April 30, 2016 at 8:44 am

      @All is well! He won’t kill you and kill himself! Seek help!!!!!! Please!

    • Landi

      April 29, 2016 at 9:58 pm

      Na wa o! This marriage institution is something else. It is not always a bed of roses. Seek God, pray and be careful before heading into any marriage or relationship.

    • Carme

      April 29, 2016 at 9:59 pm

      Let’s just hope this is not some kind of Blac Chyna and Kylie or Beyonce and Jay Z publicity stunt.

    • Moi moi

      April 29, 2016 at 10:00 pm

      She really will be vindicated. Check out townkryer.info and become a townkryer yourself.

    • Dulce.

      April 29, 2016 at 10:08 pm

      There is something called “Releasing an official professional statement and laying low for a while till things settle down a bit.” Having a show interview less than 24 hours after the situation and still accusing each other, is not the best strategy and seems to only complicate things. Interviews can always come later.

    • My 2 cents!

      April 29, 2016 at 10:35 pm

      This is why we shouldn’t be so quick to do #relationshipgoals #weddinggoals #goals this! #goals that! Where are all the people that wished they had their love, better start praying and rejecting it… agbaya fans lmao….

    • oversabi

      April 29, 2016 at 10:35 pm

      I dey vex now. This story is too long. These issues are significant negligence issues. You definitely saw these things. So why did you marry him? Most men would show their hand after dating for six months. Na you open eye korokoro carry everybody go Dubai go do sexy wedding. I bet you paid for your wedding. WHY nigerian women?

    • cos I say so

      April 30, 2016 at 12:37 am

      Err cos she was in love… duh!!!

    • Kanyin

      April 30, 2016 at 8:47 am

      Just shut up already with the didn’t you see it before you married him! They are already married! Can we move on! Mstchew

    • Dulce.

      April 29, 2016 at 10:56 pm

      No wonder Tiwa is always looking somewhat sad in most of her pictures as of late. We pray we overcome our trials and tribulations

    • MaMa

      April 29, 2016 at 11:41 pm

      Vindi… wetin????
      It was so fake and it’s so obvious she was lying. Crying Fake tears. This interview is as fake as her fake tattoo eyebrow.
      Yeye dey smell!!! Please shame on you for not being able to keep a home. You took food from his mouth and expect him to find money else where and take care of you… wicked girl!

    • Gorg

      April 30, 2016 at 12:32 am

      Mama are you insane?

      She took the food from his mouth how? When he was booking her to shows and swallowing the money? Receive sense abeg.

    • hocn

      April 30, 2016 at 12:54 am

      something is def wrong with you…. so you didnt hear the part were she said he was stealing from her and now u say she took food from his mouth….before her shebi he was working…why couldnt he continue after her. im sure the both of u are the same…. ULAZE!

    • Anonymous

      April 30, 2016 at 1:02 am

      You need your head to be examined! Must her low life husband mooch off her? Can’t he find some other job to do instead of waiting for her to bring home the bacon? That’s why people like you remain baby mamas for life, no single common sense! Retard.

    • PD Young Billionaire

      April 30, 2016 at 2:10 am

      @Mama…Stupid person.May the ladies in your generation experience what Tiwa is going through.

    • Dionne

      April 30, 2016 at 2:59 am

      Mama you’re stupid! Go back to that ants and learn. #onyewuojo

    • morgana

      April 30, 2016 at 6:16 am

      This is the dumbest shit I’ve read in my entire life. Are you a human or an animal without reasoning faculties. What were u thinking when you spewed this much nonsense as a reply. I bet you have your own tunji in your house, a man who feeds off you like a leech, dont worry your story will come out too…Hateful vindictive moron.

    • ness

      April 30, 2016 at 8:27 am

      Your opinion….but the height of foolishness. This is what happens when everyone has access to the Internet.

    • Ladygod

      April 30, 2016 at 10:26 am

      U must be an insane person… Yaba left escapee… ‘she took food from his mouth?’ like seriously? Please recieve sense

    • Damilola

      April 29, 2016 at 11:49 pm

      Tiwatope, you are going to get a lot of HATE, anger, insensitivity, insults, from this interview. Most Nigerians are morally corrupt, they will want you to lie, cover up for your husband and blame yourself for his own demons but free yourself from bondage. You have covered up enough. I want to commend you for this candid interview. Tunji Balogun told on himself, he exposed himself. I’m glad you admitted you made a mistake. You married a “demon”, and Tunji balogun was his personal demon prior and there’s nothing you can do to change him. He knows it, his family knows that and many people know it but bcos of the evil world we live in, the woman is suppose to carry all the pain and die on top of it. No woman, nobody can help someone who doesn’t want to be helped.
      Tiwatope, stay strong. I pray God’s protection over you, HE will heal you and guide you.
      I also hope Tunji can admit, accept his own mistakes and make the decision to change his life around. And stop blaming others except himself for his issues.!

    • Folasade Omo Ibadan

      April 30, 2016 at 12:02 am

      Thank you so much…

    • femfem

      April 30, 2016 at 1:17 am

      Wish I could love this a million times. This is HER story and she has a right to tell it. Sometimes you have to let it out. It’s cathartic. I feel like bottling up stuff like this can cause cancer.

      Tiwa I hope you can see pride comes before a fall. You became very big headed. I remember what you said about people’s husbands ogling you. Now you have seen life.

    • BrightNellaNights - Team Tiwa

      April 30, 2016 at 5:25 am

      Damilola your head dey there. Some fat idiotic cow on my WHATSAPP secondary school group kept blaming the poor child – Tiwa. Why be so judgemental?

      Tiwa had to come out to speak too, otherwise her silence would have meant ‘consent’ to T.J’s allegations against her.

      They even talked down about the scarf she wore ( totally irrelevant),and how drab she looked etc. Some people have no milk of human kindness/ empathy.

      This is a difficult time for the Baloguns especially Tiwa – being a woman in the public eye and the one with the success. Tunji cannot come and damage her career. Not surprising how they are in their late 30s and all they do is still go clubbing with no suitors- my stupid old mates.

      Which man would want to be in the company of such a woman?

    • nawa

      April 30, 2016 at 9:07 am

      God bless you,Damilola for your comment

    • Mamacita

      May 1, 2016 at 3:40 pm

      God bless you Damilola for this.

    • James

      April 30, 2016 at 12:19 am

      So here’s my two cents.

      Everyone is going on about women suffering in silence and feeling sorry for Tiwa etc. I hear una.

      BUT, the THREE MEN who were named by TeeBillz have NOT said anything. NO public sign of support. NO denying what TeeBillz said? NOTHING. Absolutely NOTHING!!

      As a Nigerian man myself. THIS DISGUSTS me! If what TeeBillz said about Tiwa was a lie, they should QUICKLY have denied it. I don’t care what medium, social media, on the news. It doesn’t matter. Tiwa is a colleague of theirs. They should respect her enough and support her. I don’t care if you are a celebrity, a banker a pharmacist etc. If someone accuses me of sleeping with a married woman when I did not, I WILL DENY IT right away! What is my silence for? Am I mute because I have been accused?

      What are these men doing? They are all keeping quiet. Why must it be on Tiwa to do this interview? Why must it be on the woman to vindicate herself? Why Why WHY???? (PS I do not believe in reaching out to her in silence when this ordeal has already become so public)

      I am so ANGRY. Nigerian men just sit back and do nothing when they are wrong. Will these men mentioned ever do anything? No. They will say, oh it does not concern me. Let me not get involved. Etc. It CONCERNS you. Nigerian men should start SPEAKING up against issues like this.

    • BrightNellaNights - Team Tiwa

      April 30, 2016 at 5:30 am

      If you also slept with her or a married woman, and knowing it was inappropriate you would still deny it, so your point is pointless Mr.

      If you didn’t sleep with her, you would still keep quiet dealing with a lunatic like Billz. You don’t get into confrontation with a mad man, so you are still a pointless creep

    • James

      April 30, 2016 at 7:29 am

      BrightNellaNights – Team Tiwa – Lol. Yes I am a creep for saying that the men should be accountable. I guess that’s why people stay in abusive relationships, because when they tell their friends about it, the men will deny it…so with that logic, why tell their friends about it. They should just suffer in silence.

      You just said in another comment that ‘Tiwa silence would have meant consent’….so the accused silence also means consent, we should all cheat, and if we get caught just keep quiet about. Life continues.

      Okay, I’ll go back to being a pointless creep Ms. BrightNellaNights

    • Negodu

      April 30, 2016 at 8:08 am

      Mr James. What you fail to realize is this: they couldn’t come out to refute the claims because TeeBillz already came out and said his account was HACKED! How about if Tiwa decided to come out with the same gimmick and say her hubby’s account was hacked? What purpose then will have their refutal served? It will have shown that there was no hack!

      They would have had to consider Tiwa’s next actions before publicly refuting anything. Now that Tiwa has decided to tow this road, they can come out to refute all they want. NOW is the time, not before.

    • Azazelle

      April 30, 2016 at 8:41 am

      I like you James; I really like you.

    • Md

      April 30, 2016 at 8:58 am

      Stop pretending, your not a man, u are a woman claiming to be a man so as to make u r message stronger..stop deceiving yourself

    • red pill male

      April 30, 2016 at 12:46 pm

      I agree that the accused men should speak up. However the tone of you comment and the generalization of Nigerian men smacks of someone desperation for female approval. Stop it, it is not a good look.

    • Jade the Edo babe

      April 30, 2016 at 12:32 am

      Tiwa, HIGH FIVE.
      He thought he can drag you by ruining your reputation. The best way to do it is, come out and say your own side.
      I bet if Tiwa didnt come out soon, this guy will keep dragging her name on social media especially now that her new music, video is popping. He chose this time to expose such to mess up her shine. Tiwa, keep shinning. I’m sure, you learnt your lesson and for most women here judging, don’t mess with a fuck boy. Moral of story.

    • Ojo

      April 30, 2016 at 12:45 am

      When I read his IG, I thought “don’t you sound bitter.” He tried to make her look like a monster.

    • Caligula

      April 30, 2016 at 1:18 am

      No words man…. I can’t even watch this interview. Too much drama, she shouldn’t have done the interview. We know she’s not loose like that so why say anything? Tiwa, wishing you all the best, you don’t need this drama at all. If you plan to be as successful as you wanna be, don’t indulge in BS interviews in a bid to explain yourself.

    • letty

      April 30, 2016 at 3:06 am

      I believe her too…she is free and liberated…she is telling the truth. …classic bully syndrome. ..I made you you are nothing without me it’s pure mind control…some Nigerian men are liars and deceptive…she’s scared he will commit suicide cowards don’t commit suicide he just needs money to continue with the drug habit he needs money for his fix…cocaine is highly addictive. ..TIWA run as fast as ur legs can carry you…the guy is a loser in all its ramifications

    • LoveyouTiwa

      April 30, 2016 at 9:26 am

      Hi Tiwa, were you telling my story? Everything you narrated happened to you did happen to me through my marriage except that I’m not a celebrity like you. I want you to know it’s your life! Let haters talk, let ppl judge, that’s what Nigerians do. Don’t go through this again! Your husband has a clear case of bipolar ism but this is never addressed in Naija unfortunately. I live in the western world so I understand this perfectly. Didn’t though when I was with my man in Naija and he exhibited such behaviour(s) too. Nigerians need to be educated in such.
      However, You have a right to make decisions that would be safe and healthy for you and your child. Jamil can’t grow up with such a father in the background! IF NOBODY BELIEVES YOU, I DO COS I WENT THROUGH IT. My man eventually killed himself with alcohol but I’m glad I walked away when I did for my safety and that of my children. Know that whatever you do, people are not going to be kind to you so be kind to yourself and do what’s right for yourself. my heart goes out to you. I wish I could give you a call to show you I understand but take comfort in the knowledge that people can be cruel on this platform or other media but there are a few out there who understand. However whether we understand or not my advise is : don’t care! It’s your life, make the best decision in a bad situation. Lots of love , hugs and kisses to you. LYT (UK)

    • Ada

      April 30, 2016 at 1:29 pm

      I went through same my dear. Dated for over 2 years, got engaged and even got married. VERy shortly after the marriage my life flashed before my eyes and I packed it up. It was the whole nine yards; me paying bills, him into weed alcohol and VERY erratic behaviour alternating between being abusive and suicidal.
      The only reason u eventually knew what u was dealing with was because I have natural interest in medicine and started looking up his ‘symptoms’. I knew it was a lost cause cos even though he had jokingly told me once that if he were to have a mental problem it would be bipolar, he refused to admit it enough to get help. I still love him, as a friend, we talk sometimes but it’s only his family that know what I went through. I let outsiders assume whatever they wanted of my move.
      Where is even the help in naija. Nigerian women need to understand that our cultur by itself sets a default state for abusive men. Men who can’t admit they need help. Men who can’t see their addictions when it’s right up in their face.
      Please, mothers, if you have a daughter make her read up on signs of abusive men. Although if her father is abusive, she’s going on that default to seek same in a partner unconsciously except she gets help.
      Marriage is not a do all and end all. Don’t die in a marriage just to stay married. We are jor our mothers . It is not ‘our portion’ to suffer in silent to save face. The more women speak up on what they go through, the more other women get courage.
      Not just telling your friends and daughter “Go and marry”.

    • Ife

      April 30, 2016 at 12:32 pm

      Wow this Tiwa story is amazing , my two cent lol. Even when no one asked me . He or she that is unable to make a good choice of a partner is also not a credible partner . Both of them have vices and both of them are dysfunctional . All the terrible things she said about this guy, they were in it together , drugs , bad debts etc . It’s okay for the guy to use fraudulent means to fund your career but its not okay for him to manipulate you the same way . When he put a ring on it and you agree , it was a choice . You choose to love at all times , you can’t choose to love only when it’s convenient for you . When life throws you lemons in marriage you make lemonade and add some sugar lol. Believe it or not the health of your partner may fail , your partner may be broke along the line , he or she may lose their sanity or their ability to reason , they may have disability, but when they picked u they did that knowing that if all these happens you are the only person they can count one . Will you fail them ?? Don’t choose someone that can’t bank on you ! If all the money fails you and all the whole world rejects you , are you happy to go back to your village and live in a hut with your partner .

    • corolla

      April 30, 2016 at 2:46 pm

      @Ife FOH with this dangerous advice you are giving. Sometimes people make mistakes and marry the wrong person. Yes, they are stupid for this mistake, but they should be able to leave an awful marriage. So because she made a bad choice, she should stay in it forever abi? She should just stay there as punishment to herself, ba? Like really, what is your point?

    • Ife stop chatting crap

      May 1, 2016 at 11:16 pm

      Ife, it’s not compulsory to respond to stories. You wrote rubbish!! Get some insight and if it’s too much for you to comprehend, just shut up!

    • Patricia Witter

      May 1, 2016 at 8:24 am

      It’s clear why this marriage failed. Immaturity. Family affairs are a private matter. What example have they both set for their son my revealing all? THe is the only victim.

  2. tgirl

    April 29, 2016 at 8:46 pm

    which kind stupid interviewer

    • Fine lady

      April 29, 2016 at 11:09 pm

      Lol I felt like slapping that emotionless interviewer. Not even a single sympathy in her voice like she was there to just get the story so she can say “good for her.”

    • Plot Twist

      April 30, 2016 at 1:08 am

      This interviewer is EDIBLE CATERING.

      Abi how una take see am?

    • AmaBee

      April 29, 2016 at 11:29 pm

      I know right? My girl all slouched and chilling on the sofa like she’s in her front room LOL!

    • Tunji

      April 30, 2016 at 1:52 am

      Lol. maybe she was tired and working overtime. Lol

      Or maybe Tiwa didn’t sign her autograph

    • Winifred

      April 30, 2016 at 9:25 am

      That’s the one that got me the most! Why should Iya sule conduct this interview for crying out loud… unkempt!!! Ratchet hair, amoeba looking etc…. mediocrity really do take the high seat in Nigeria.

    • MysticD

      April 30, 2016 at 12:04 am

      U just speak my mind; interviewer is just dull ni

    • Iya

      April 30, 2016 at 8:06 am

      My goodness! Thank God someone mentioned this! Not only was she looking dull and uninterested, she sounded accusatory a LOT of times – like she had concluded in her mind that Tiwa was guilty. Asking stupid questions . What rubbish!!

    • ness

      April 30, 2016 at 9:17 am

      Hahahahahahahaha!! I think say na only me see. Thisday reporter…. I gathered. The babe should just stick to print media…. Maybe she writes better. I’m watching the interview and all I see is her (not Tiwa), Her unprofessional mannerisms. To think this was an exclusive interview. I am shamed.

  3. Femi

    April 29, 2016 at 8:47 pm

    [email protected]!
    Like, have we really gotten sooo used to aggrandizing people this much!??

  4. jade

    April 29, 2016 at 8:48 pm

    Omg, Tiwa , I will be praying for you both.

  5. FasholasLover

    April 29, 2016 at 8:49 pm

    It may be difficult for some time but, this too shall pass. Let him go with his oriburuku. Lazy, weak ass bitch.. Attention seeking whore.

  6. The Observer

    April 29, 2016 at 8:49 pm

    Oh wow…..It is actually true???? God is their strength

  7. Jayjay

    April 29, 2016 at 8:49 pm

    WTF?! Why is this girl doing this? Are you both so hungry for attention? Did pulse pay you? Is nothing private anymore? You didn’t even wait for the dust to settle. I your mind this is damage control? Nothing heartbreaking about this, it’s just downright shameful.

    • Lil

      April 29, 2016 at 9:11 pm

      Let people speak! Let them speak ! You can’t say she should be silent. Do you know how many women she’s talking on behalf of

    • i no send

      April 29, 2016 at 10:16 pm

      TIWA If only you know how powerful this interview is …regarding abused Nigerian women..Standing ovation abeg

    • SpeakDTruth

      April 29, 2016 at 9:58 pm

      I sincerely see nothing wrong in trying to clear your name when someone slays you. #AbsolutelyNothingWrong. She is human too. Please remember that.

    • Marc Francis of Chelsea

      April 29, 2016 at 10:11 pm

      Go an ask TeeBillz if anything is private. This is my issue with Nigerians. He could literally pour acid on her and the moment she speaks back, she’s wrong and she should keep it in her family. Sit down abeg! She is a celebrity. He has used social media to bash her public persona and you want her to just be quiet and do what? She can’t say what he has done? Makes me sick to my stomach the way women in this country are treated.

    • SpeakDTruth

      April 29, 2016 at 10:52 pm

      #Word.

    • anonymous

      April 29, 2016 at 11:44 pm

      Don’t mind the wicked souls. they think it is the 80’s when women were suffering and dying in silence.. I am happy she spoke out.

    • Damilola

      April 30, 2016 at 12:01 am

      @jayjay
      SHUT UP!!!
      WTF are you saying?
      Her husband started it, he made private matter into a public matter. So freaking what she’s a celebrity. She’s a human being first. Let her speak up for herself, let her clear her name. Too many women are dying in silence and covering up foolishness. The man goes free, moves on. Everybody is saying it’s Tiwa’s fault. Yes, she should blame herself for marrying a someone with such heavy baggages. This is another lesson for women, just bcos you are worried about your age, think you can change a man, think you are his number one after he left his other woman, think twice.

      The woman is blamed for everything. What’s there to hide that people didn’t already know or suspect? Whose integrity is there to protect? Tunji lost all integrity already from day one if you know him from LA. Tiwa, if anything she will be free. She doesn’t need to cover up, pretend anymore.

  8. Hmmm?

    April 29, 2016 at 8:49 pm

    Lol for some reason I wasn’t moved… God forgive me

    • Bim

      April 29, 2016 at 10:36 pm

      Yes. God forgive you really.

  9. TJ MICHAELS

    April 29, 2016 at 8:49 pm

    BUT WAT IS IT WITH DZ SO CALL CELEB, SO EMOTION SHA

    • Betterthanever

      April 30, 2016 at 7:45 am

      They are humans!!!

  10. Nikky

    April 29, 2016 at 8:55 pm

    Can someone pls post a transcript. 45 mins ke

    • Dee

      April 29, 2016 at 10:13 pm

      @instablog9ja has the transcript…

  11. Abi

    April 29, 2016 at 8:56 pm

    Ugh! I feel sorry for this couple. I wish they would be left alone to sort out their marriage. No need for long interviews with interviewer asking probing questions.

  12. God's Child

    April 29, 2016 at 8:56 pm

    ..Tiwa I genuinely love you. This news bothered me so much and for you to be so open about it and more? My dear the Lord is truly your strength!!! You are in my prayers.

  13. Nahum

    April 29, 2016 at 8:57 pm

    This poor woman! I feel terrible for her

  14. Kukks

    April 29, 2016 at 8:57 pm

    Lord God heal, heal and HEAL this family in the mighty name of Jesus ?

  15. RicenBeans

    April 29, 2016 at 8:59 pm

    Wowwww.. Now I know that there are always two sides to story. She has gone through a lot. I really hope she gets through this.

  16. shady

    April 29, 2016 at 8:59 pm

    Tiwa a beg u have ur tunjis number call him. What happen to d good old days of talking 1-1. Plssssss take it behind close doors. But this tunji guy can eat anything sha. First u claimed ur wife slept with most of her record label mate including 2 baba. U still carry on eating the leftovers (tiwa) , now u became too hungry the first person u went to for food is anie idibia. Can’t u look for food elsewhere mtschew

  17. je suis chinenye

    April 29, 2016 at 8:59 pm

    : You can’t blame social media for the failure of your relationship… it just helped expose the weaknesses that already existed.!

  18. Dazeita

    April 29, 2016 at 9:00 pm

    The full face of make up and scarf don’t really go together, they seem to contradict one another. This just looks too rehearsed imo. But then what do I know?

    • Victoria

      April 29, 2016 at 9:33 pm

      Exactly !!! What do you know

    • Damilola

      April 30, 2016 at 12:04 am

      Yeah, You know nothing. So, take several seats. There are times you wear scarf, makeup before throwing on a wig. She’s not going to show her bare face for the world to see neither is she going to be fully dressed up to do such sad interview.
      People suddenly act like they can’t relate or think when they probably in or worst situations.

    • Betterthanever

      April 30, 2016 at 7:48 am

      I don’t know you Damilola, but your so matured from your post, a lot of these people that write rubbish are also going through worst situations forgetting that Tiwa Savavge is also human…. Well done, good post

  19. Abike

    April 29, 2016 at 9:01 pm

    Is the girl in black the interviewer?….sigh. You interview someone going through so much with such filthy attitude and you are cool with it?

    • ebyie

      April 29, 2016 at 11:07 pm

      In fact my dear na weak interviewer…. my gawdd.

    • Tosin

      April 30, 2016 at 6:17 am

      after crying in Dubai come and start crying again? say who die?
      #entertainment #istandwithazuka

  20. Ivy

    April 29, 2016 at 9:01 pm

    Seriously. She’s full of lies. You husband you once loved the father of your child and all these drama. Oscar goes to tiwa savage

    • Nahum

      April 29, 2016 at 9:09 pm

      As usual, a woman ready to demonize another. Stupid cow

    • anonymous

      April 29, 2016 at 11:59 pm

      A really stupid cow…God bless Tiwa for saying the truth.

    • Love

      April 30, 2016 at 9:54 am

      Please let’s try not to insult others who have made an obviously ridiculous statement, it just continues the circle of hate and abuse. This message is for me as well.

    • Amy

      April 30, 2016 at 3:17 am

      You live with them which is why you know she is lying. May you never encounter a one chance man who transforms all the good in your life to bad.

    • Chiquita

      April 30, 2016 at 2:42 pm

      Wow… some comments here make me feel like actually slapping these fools. So everything she said the man did including borrowing 45mil did not enter some people’s ear because all they want to do is judge the woman. Buying a car he can’t afford and a rolex, popping drinks in d club but can’t put food in your child’s mouth? Are people even watching this whole interview, cos they running their mouth like they have diarrhea. At the end of the day, she needs to do what’s best for her and her child cos he’s obviously irresponsible regardless of everything. If he wants to be the man and earn respect from his wife, he should have gone out there and hustled to provide for his family, not lashing and acting out, throwing tantrums for sympathy like a deutsch bag. Please Tiwa, don’t know you or your marriage, but do what’s best for you and protect your child, at least the child deserves one sane parent…so sad!

  21. xoxo

    April 29, 2016 at 9:01 pm

    Stay Strong girl! Don’t worry it is well!

  22. keke driver

    April 29, 2016 at 9:01 pm

    If this is true (and hopefully not a publicity stunt) then i’ll remember them in my prayers it’s sad to see a couple sooo into each other, fall apart so terribly.

  23. James

    April 29, 2016 at 9:02 pm

    Don’t get me wrong, the gist is sweet, but darling, you don’t owe anybody an explanation. The world will still judge you anyway. These things are private. Go and tell it to your friends, family, loved ones. This is all shades of wrong. I seriously expected more.

  24. Kikelola

    April 29, 2016 at 9:03 pm

    Having recently gone through a divorce myself, my heart and soul bleed for Tiwa and her baby. I am however glad that she’s taken the time to disclose her perspective and wish her the best in the future.

  25. Ekbasis

    April 29, 2016 at 9:03 pm

    This interviewer is so not professional. Twiddling with her pen the whole time and stuttering and just terrible. Her questioning is terrible. I think she should have just kept quiet, she does not owe anyone any explanations, information is power. Why do people feel the need to explain their personal business to the public. I pray God heals both of them.

  26. Lagos is my home

    April 29, 2016 at 9:04 pm

    I think this interview was not needed …dragging each other through the mud
    It means there is no hope from here . Both go their separate ways and wish each other luck

    Ladies never marry a man without a job, no matter how hard you try his complex and ego problem will weigh u down . Your effort will never be good enough

    • Mr. Egghead

      April 29, 2016 at 9:28 pm

      Tunji had a job. He was her manager and he probably got a good cut from whatever money she made.

      But yes, this interview was not needed

    • s

      April 29, 2016 at 9:41 pm

      she fired him a while back so he actually had/has no job. The mavins didnt like how he treated her + controlling her money, so they got rid of her. Which is why he mentioned the names he mentioned + the ever mediating Tu Face. If he wanted to oust who she slept with, it wouldnt be any of the names he mentioned.

  27. amy

    April 29, 2016 at 9:04 pm

    Damn it… marriage is not a joke… I pray u guys come back together…. it hasnt been up to five years..chai

  28. AA

    April 29, 2016 at 9:05 pm

    Awwwww !!!.. She’s so broken……Just hold on to God, and don’t be too hard on yourself……One thing I know abt life is that, when things get so hard at times, and your stories nd news are all over…Trust me, God can turn it all around for Good, the devil will think he’s shaming you, not knowing he’s helping you to advertise your name for the next big blessing on your way………..
    Don’t be hard on yourself…God, your family, friends and fans love you!

  29. sha

    April 29, 2016 at 9:05 pm

    some men can be wicked sha!

  30. shady

    April 29, 2016 at 9:05 pm

    Why do u care about ur public image , I need to explain to d public blah blah blah bullshit . Go sort it out nd explain ten years later. It’s tooo soon nd please lose that scarf nobody died ok.

    • IBK

      April 29, 2016 at 9:46 pm

      Why shouldn’t she care? She is one of the biggest, most endorsed entertainment brands in Nigeria. so run along

    • SpeakDTruth

      April 29, 2016 at 10:01 pm

      I don’t think they get it. Myopic thoughts around here.

    • Olope

      April 29, 2016 at 10:20 pm

      How dare you tell her how to handle her business, or when to respond? It is people like you who put all these pressure on these “celebrities”, and drive them to depression. It is okay that you wouldn’t try to tell your side of the story to the public when you have been publicly humiliated, but it is also okay for others to choose to handle the situation differently.

      Keep your bloody opinion to yourself if it is not solution-driven

    • lami

      April 29, 2016 at 10:20 pm

      Did u just ask why she cares? It is because of people like you who never gave her the benefit of doubt and for the people wrongly accussed, tunji went for the jugular so this is so necessary.

    • Demi89

      April 29, 2016 at 10:57 pm

      This is by far the dumbest comment. You’re asking a public figure why they care about their public image? You are clearly daft.

  31. Jade

    April 29, 2016 at 9:05 pm

    Wait hang on, what kind of yeye manipulation is this scarf and barely there make up ?

  32. Nahum

    April 29, 2016 at 9:06 pm

    All the women that were ready to demonize Tiwa, what’s good? Where una dey? I always say that I have never met a bad wife, I have only met good women that were forced to turn bad. But our society loves to demonize women. Shey you see na?

  33. biggest

    April 29, 2016 at 9:08 pm

    Yes Tiwa be the strong woman that you are, i am a witness to you spending your hard earned money on your son as i was present in Ralph lauren biecester with a friend when you were buying Jasmils onsies and others. More grease to your elbow, The Lord uplift you my sister.

  34. oma

    April 29, 2016 at 9:10 pm

    Pulse. TV, please go and hide your heads in shame. I didn’t think it was possible to have an interviewer this inept at doing an interview, much more an important one like Tiwa Savage’s at this point that dominated social media. Tufiakwa….the interviewer can’t even. construct eloquent sentences and keeps breaking thoughts like a confusionist. Tufiakwa….i don’t have the words. Pulse TV, Pulse TV, Pulse TV..change your ways. Tiwa, if all you say is. your truth, then I feel your pain. Don’t worry…this storm, like all others, shall pass and soon, will be history in. Your life.. Let this experience build you into a stronger person. Again, Pulse TV….tufiakwa

    • Tutu

      April 29, 2016 at 10:07 pm

      Don’t we have seasoned people that could handle this interview? Azuka of all people! Msvhewwww!

    • Yawa

      April 29, 2016 at 10:41 pm

      Honestly! Very offensive! Azuka was not a good choice.

    • Fine lady

      April 29, 2016 at 11:11 pm

      You are on point!!!

    • Ola

      April 29, 2016 at 11:31 pm

      Utter shambles…. the interviewer whoever she is….make up, body language and communication ….she was a hot mess.

  35. Oba

    April 29, 2016 at 9:10 pm

    I feel for her. I really do. I have seen the likes of Tunji personally, even experienced such in my family which is why I didn’t believed anything he stated yesterday. If Tiwa is wise, she would leave him alone for good. Some men are evil and the lies they tell can wake up the dead self. It doesn’t matter how well behave or how nice you are, it’s a character issue. This is why before one marry, shine eyes well and look at people’s character o. Don’t let good looks deceive you.
    What goes around comes around. All I know is this, God has a way of working things our for those who are sincere and honest no matter what lies people tell on you. Eventually, truth will win and eyes will open. If you are honest, then keep doing you, take care of your child, focus on your career and the God that brought you this far won’t forsake you.

  36. Nina

    April 29, 2016 at 9:11 pm

    i am starting to believe this notion about yoruba guys… it might be true o…hmmmm

    • Cunlinha

      April 30, 2016 at 3:01 am

      Nne, what notion?

    • Loti

      April 30, 2016 at 9:47 am

      …bi like say na one mama born dem…end of story.

  37. No name

    April 29, 2016 at 9:11 pm

    This interviewer or whatever she is ,must be fired ??;what Is this ??!!??

  38. Chidi

    April 29, 2016 at 9:12 pm

    May God heal them both. Really heartbroken!

  39. ekiuwa

    April 29, 2016 at 9:14 pm

    ALL FOR ALBUM SALES! This thing na set up

    • Onlooker

      April 30, 2016 at 12:25 am

      Lol. Is this Yankee ni? Is does not work that way in our naija abeg. No such thing as any publicity is good publicity. You make a mistake here, that might be the end. Album sakes ko…Album wey every body Don already download free.
      And btw, have some empathy.

  40. Ponla

    April 29, 2016 at 9:14 pm

    Tiwa should not have said anything

  41. Koro

    April 29, 2016 at 9:15 pm

    She did not need to give out THAT much info.

    • Popular demand

      April 29, 2016 at 9:17 pm

      THANK YOU!

    • Layo

      April 29, 2016 at 10:30 pm

      Yo! You commented and you thanked yourself?

      Meeeen, don’t you know your avatar gives you away? Or truly many people are suffering from bipolar disorder in this country?

    • Og

      April 30, 2016 at 2:14 am

      You know we know you replied yourself right? Commenting is not that deep ?

  42. Precious

    April 29, 2016 at 9:16 pm

    OMG I just think this is too early for a person who wants to kill himself…i know she wants to save her career but men this is just too much for public consumption…marriage that is not built on GOD and proper values truly can not last…i wish both of them well

    • Busarni

      April 29, 2016 at 9:34 pm

      @precious; you are funny. My dear nobody has the monopoly of washing dirty linens in the public. Tit for tat.
      God will see both of them through; we all have our flaws.

  43. Koro

    April 29, 2016 at 9:16 pm

    I don’t feel bad for her: it just looks like she’s seeking for sympathy . She never acknowledged her mistakes which is very bad. All this was unnecessary. This is not how a queen acts! You don’t need to adrees EVERYTHING

    • Mrs. A

      April 30, 2016 at 1:37 pm

      Did you listen to the interview where she even added at the end that if there is anything she did wrong, she is sorry?

  44. Ben

    April 29, 2016 at 9:16 pm

    Please who is the interviewer? She is so rubbish. I feel really sorry for tiwa savage. God bless her

  45. Orlando

    April 29, 2016 at 9:16 pm

    Sigh. I won’t take sides. I just wish this never happened. It’s sad

  46. mango

    April 29, 2016 at 9:17 pm

    I’m not a Tiwa fan or anything but this interviewer’s body language and tone I find unsympathetic haha..
    Praying for you Tiwa…!

    • Elle

      April 30, 2016 at 5:43 am

      The one that killed me was when Azuka said “so we came to Dubai to cry for nothing”…. If I could slap through the Internet sha…unempathizing incompetent interviewer.

    • Like seriously ...

      April 30, 2016 at 2:27 pm

      OMG ! Did she really say that?!

  47. tare

    April 29, 2016 at 9:17 pm

    Hmmmm. I love tiwa but this looked to rehearsed its fake. It’s tunji I feel for most , cos it’s obvious he loves her and would even take his life but anyway u people should think about d good old time and sort your issues. Think about the plenty money u spent on the wedding ( I never liked d dress though) lolzzzz

    • Olope

      April 29, 2016 at 11:00 pm

      You are very easily fooled. You obviously are very inexperienced. I pray your innocence/ignorance never leaves you. I really do.

    • Rissa

      April 29, 2016 at 11:02 pm

      He lovess her money and the life of a big boy. Dont mix both

    • Damilola

      April 30, 2016 at 12:08 am

      Anybody that will take his own life or atrempt or threaten doesn’t love himself and definitely not another person.
      You don’t love someone you constantly put in so much pain and blame that person and not take any responsibility.

    • Olope

      April 30, 2016 at 12:54 am

      Thank you. That’s the greatest form of manipulative stunt, if I ever saw one. He hate his life so much he wanted to end it (not like I believe he meant to go through with it), but he had to take his wife’s reputation with him? Depression indeed! More like addiction. He needs rehab, and fast too. Self-centered boy.

  48. anu

    April 29, 2016 at 9:17 pm

    She is actually reading her responses from her phone. As much as this might seem like damage control and pretense whatever, I pray God gives you strength Tiwa and as the lord we serve lives, this tribulation will never affect your career and you shall survive it in Jesus name. I love you honestly forever

  49. mango

    April 29, 2016 at 9:17 pm

    *haba not haha

  50. zuzu

    April 29, 2016 at 9:18 pm

    Moral of the story: Be careful who you marry. Don’t be tapping into all these BN Weddings.

    • candy

      April 29, 2016 at 10:59 pm

      Yes o. All dis “I tap in2 dat blessing”. U no no how dem take get am.

    • Winnie

      April 30, 2016 at 2:33 am

      Yes you are totally right.Since Tiwa ‘s issues I have seen that marriage is a very hard work to get and to have the right guy.We Woman we have a very difficult descision to make when it comes to marriage. We will never know if the marriage is going to last forever.So sad ,We will wait and wait but nothing has come …

  51. Precious

    April 29, 2016 at 9:19 pm

    why does d interviewer look miserable like its her marriage….she is so unprofessional even tho its all scripted.

    • Anonymous

      April 29, 2016 at 9:48 pm

      Follow me see ooo

  52. MEE

    April 29, 2016 at 9:20 pm

    Isn’t it a bit too early to be granting interviews over this issue? Wonder what the deal was for this “exclusive” interview. Even the kain pulse tv sef, isn’t it a bit insensitive to be interviewing her at a time like this. Let’s not even get started on the unprofessional interviewer.
    This interview just made the whole situation seem staged and dubious.

  53. Baby gurl

    April 29, 2016 at 9:20 pm

    I am so heartbroken seeing another woman in pain like this not to talk of Tiwa whom I love and adore so much. Marriage is definitely not beans. No matter how you go in with your two korokoro eyes wide open, nose open, ears open, there is still that one thing that will hit you like a storm from nowhere as in GBAM!! and you are down. What you need at that point is first catch yourself, look up to God and allow your loved ones (and only loved ones) help you crawl till you start to walk again. I love you Tiwa. God loves you more. It will be well.

  54. Oga o

    April 29, 2016 at 9:21 pm

    Oga o. We went to Dubai just 2 years ago o. In fact the Dubai gbese isn’t fully settled and the marriage has pafuka? Wow Ho Wow!! All that money down the drain. O really ga sha.

  55. Ama

    April 29, 2016 at 9:21 pm

    What’s with this unprofessional interviewer?
    I cringed every time she tried asking a question.

  56. Pinkfunky

    April 29, 2016 at 9:24 pm

    Oh No, this is to early for an interview. Silence is golden.

  57. dddd

    April 29, 2016 at 9:25 pm

    Interviewer no try , tiwa no for do the interview.what happened to seeking the face of God before marriage. Abi na fake pastors dey around una!!

    • Peace

      May 1, 2016 at 10:09 am

      I agree with you bcos instead of seeking God’s face personally, they go and ask a prophet what did u see and frantically speaking, they see nothing.

  58. justsaying

    April 29, 2016 at 9:26 pm

    She said she never cheated on her husband though. She didnt say she never slept with Don Jazzy, Dr Sid and 2 face. We all know she slept with them before marriage.

    • bumble bee

      April 29, 2016 at 9:45 pm

      Exactly.. my point exactly, she kept saying I have never cheated on my husband but she never said I have never cheated on tj.. if I was the interviewer I would have asked her if she slept with any of the men before they got married.

    • i no send

      April 29, 2016 at 10:24 pm

      she said she didn’t cheat on her husband now why are you agbayas concerned about what she did before marriage???na wa for you judgemental bunch……ngwa gbafuo osiso……losers

    • NIRA

      April 29, 2016 at 10:29 pm

      So what if she slept with them before marriage? Guess you were a virgin before you go married??!! Abeg make una shift! You want the interviewer to ask if she ever slept with them; na so!!

    • NIRA

      April 29, 2016 at 10:29 pm

      *got

    • Wow

      April 30, 2016 at 12:27 am

      Now that’s just plain ridiculous. She should start mentioning who she slept with before marriage??? Really??? Such a stupid comment. Smh!

    • Olope

      April 30, 2016 at 12:58 am

      And why does she owe you, or even TJ, a roster of the men she slept with pre-marriage? Did you ask the same of her husband? Tatafo. Most of you are probably typing from a concubine’s or sugar-daddy’s house or sponsored phone, while your “main guy” is elsewhere.

    • odiegwu

      April 29, 2016 at 10:01 pm

      you guys are so somehow, Tj that was openly cheating before, during and after the wedding is being totally ignored but only Tiwa’s cheating should be addressed, and I’m pretty sure you are women. Everyone in Lagos and their clubbing partners can attest to Teebillz’ affairs, but I’ve only heard typical rumours about Tiwa’s. What you guys are doing here is defamation, to your fellow woman. Continue from your anonymous monikers, but God sees all

    • Damilola

      April 30, 2016 at 12:14 am

      If that makes you feel better. Tiwa slept with don jazzy, dr sid, 2face including your father.
      It’s not like her husband is a responsible man. And you think a man who believes his wife slept with certain men will be cool with them. He said, he goes to 2face house to eat. He’s friends with don jazzy.
      He probably didn’t mind his wife sleeping with a billionaire to make money for both of them. If tiwa slept with someone while married to him, he knows about it. He’s a pimp too.

    • Nah

      April 30, 2016 at 8:51 am

      Who is the we….awon wall gecko you were there abi. Stupid

    • Does that concern you?

      May 1, 2016 at 11:10 pm

      I don’t understand you people. Whoever Tiwa slept with before her marriage is her business!! Lots of people have sex with different partners before they marry and if you’re team ” I’m a virgin ” clap for yourself ????.

    • Just shut up

      May 1, 2016 at 11:23 pm

      So what if she’s let with them before she got married? How does that concern you?! Is it anybody’s business who a grown woman has sex with??!! Her husband was a beast are who just wanted to drag her down!

    • Just shut up

      May 1, 2016 at 11:25 pm

      *slept with them

  59. ife

    April 29, 2016 at 9:30 pm

    Chineke!! As much as we love gist, this is just too much information to be completely honest. I wish them luck oooo

  60. Luka

    April 29, 2016 at 9:31 pm

    I don’t get all dis stupidity. First is it me, on tiwa IG she posted a pic of a shoe n her sons own she said her husband got dem, now u saying tunji didn’t spend on his son. Tiwa fucked around so did Tee bills guess he thought everything wld change after marriage. Na wa

    • Yawa

      April 29, 2016 at 10:44 pm

      Are you a dullard? Didn’t you hear when she said she did everything to cover up for his financial inadequacy?
      Shoe monitor aiye

    • Olope

      April 30, 2016 at 1:00 am

      You asked the obvious. What an insult to dullards.

  61. Esrun

    April 29, 2016 at 9:32 pm

    It is just sad that a lot of people do not empathize any longer. Where are you people when the guy used to beat her in the middle of the night at 1004. Tiwa made a terrible mistake by marrying him just because she allowed her emotions to control her. Yeah a lady can fall in love cos he’s always the guy next door as her manager. People close to them know the whole bulls hit the guys been doing now. Dude saw Tiwa as his atm machine and he has an upper hand cos he’s the available shoulder to cry on. Where the mavins became the enemy was when she was advised on her financial management. Typical broke nigerian man the abuse for a woman that has risen above you is to call her a b**ch. The only mistake is that Tiwa should have been wiser from the start. I salute her courage to talk about it. It is not easy and a lot of women can also learn from her mistake.

    Tiwa my prayer is with you at this period you shall rise above the storm cos you deserve better.

    • Thisiswhywearehere

      April 29, 2016 at 9:51 pm

      but she just said he didn’t beat her na?

  62. Ms Purple

    April 29, 2016 at 9:32 pm

    Hello Bae.. but why? you just had to clap back, all for?.. btw I can imagine the preparation before this interview. Cry at this point, say this and that, hammer on this fact, make people believe and feel sorry for you.. you can relate to all when you watch series like Scandal. Nice Try Ma. My 2 cents: You should have dealt with this privately as you do not owe us any explanation ma. NEXT

    • Angela black

      April 29, 2016 at 11:30 pm

      Shut up ur mouth u bastard…Don’t u have a sister or a wife?

    • Nah

      April 30, 2016 at 8:54 am

      Privately ok! When he destroyed her image was it private? When people called her an ashawo was it private? When people said her mum was a witch was it private? Abeg. When it happens to you you can deal with it privately

  63. truth hurts

    April 29, 2016 at 9:32 pm

    Sure she will….. Clears throat. Let me ask something:
    Is doing an interview the best possible thing, like I mean just 24 hours after your (soon to be ex) hubby immaturely opened both of your asses to the world on social media, you go ahead to do an interview? I mean, come on…
    Like I said yesterday, and I will say again today. Our celebs do not read comments #FACT
    Tiwa, you my girl, and I advise you to go to Abuja, find Dr. Pops(Likemynds) and seek help.
    Get a dope lawyer and ensure Tunji leaves with #nada #FACT
    Pray to God to restore your happiness because this move just hurt your career(and by this move, I mean this interview). What were you thinking ? You could have silently gone with the #hack nonsense your (or 323 ent ) camp was trying to sell us and we for believe,

    Depression is a quiet disease destroying Nigerian society slowly. Seeking help for depression is not something to be ashamed about. Going to therapy is something we should take seriously because everyone rich, poor, superstar, or bread-seller(see what I did there) needs help.
    I don’t mean going to meet a marriage counsellor or your pastor who will skelebosh and bind and cast.
    I mean meeting a professional which is why a lot of us keep recommending Likemynds. I don’t know any good one in Lagos if not, na there you for try send T.
    Be strong. Be beautiful. Tiwa, you will overcome! for those going through issues and need to see a professional, don’t be shy. seek help. God bless

    • Asgrl

      April 29, 2016 at 10:12 pm

      You do realize that there isn’t one formula for reacting to pain. That’s like saying if you don’t cry at a funeral you don’t care.

      You all need to stop making these comments about what she should say or shouldn’t say.

      Someone is suffering from an incredible loss of a relationship with the father of her child and you are lecturing her on etiquette?

  64. Memkem

    April 29, 2016 at 9:34 pm

    I love the fact she did her eyebrows before the interview…lol. Just 24 hours and you already giving interviews…Shior

    • USA

      May 1, 2016 at 3:19 am

      If she didn’t do brows you will still talk. If she waited a week to do interview you will also talk. You lot are insatiable. See how you handle it when it’s your turn. Rubbish

  65. jack101

    April 29, 2016 at 9:35 pm

    I heard folks saying they made Hov
    Made Hov say, “OK so, make another Hov” If Tbillz made Tiwa, may made Tiwa say, Okay, please make another Tiwa. Inspired by Jay-z’s lost ones

  66. Ay

    April 29, 2016 at 9:35 pm

    The Marriage Was FAKE from the Beginning! Tiwa Was Desperate to Be A Mother and Took Another Woman’s Hubby! While Tunji Married for more Money Simple!
    All U Ladies this is What Desperation Causes, take Ur time to know Ur Man before u jump to B his WIFE! Men Stop Hunting for Rich Successful Babes learn to Work for ur Money it earns u RESPECT
    Both Tiwa and Tunji Deserve What they got Cos Marriage Was Fake from day 1

    • Yesabe

      April 30, 2016 at 11:23 am

      Agreed.

  67. lami

    April 29, 2016 at 9:35 pm

    Totally believe her , I know haters are going to hate, this is the same guy that posted a picture of himself in the restroom in dubai, tiwa needs to clear her name and it ‘s good she has done this cos the allegations are too serious to be ignored.

  68. Teju

    April 29, 2016 at 9:37 pm

    this is the worst interviewer in history…what sort of questions are these….

  69. Temi

    April 29, 2016 at 9:37 pm

    I really wanted her to not say anything about the whole situation. However now that she has good on her.. I hope she heals quick. No one should be allowed to drag another persons”s name through the mud without them being able to fight their own corner. Good on you Tiwa and goodluck going forward to both you and TJ.

  70. IwannaKnow

    April 29, 2016 at 9:39 pm

    I just want to know…..

    Who is EDIBLE CATERING????!!

    It will NOT be well with you!

    • Babs

      April 29, 2016 at 10:17 pm

      Lmaooooooo

    • Positive K

      April 29, 2016 at 10:48 pm

      LOL! I just know there will soon be memes about this edible catering matter.
      Biko me go and check my wife’s phone for DURABLE PLUMBING

    • Jay

      April 29, 2016 at 10:30 pm

      Nigerian Becky with the good hair. Edible catering ko.

    • Ojo

      April 30, 2016 at 1:07 am

      There needs to be a tshirt with thus on it.

  71. Dragon Queen

    April 29, 2016 at 9:41 pm

    @Just Saying… GBAM!!! 1000 likes for your comment!

  72. Be human

    April 29, 2016 at 9:42 pm

    Why are people doubting Tiwa. Is this not the experience of most married women in Nigeria. Our mothers, aunties neighbors etc
    What kind of love are yalll saying he haa for her. Please go back and reflect on your definition of love. I believe her and i appluad her bravery to talk about this. Please why shouldn’t she? Its okay for her husband to have said those despicable things about her but its not okay for her to defend herself.

    What baffles me the most is that, most of you all saying she should keep quiet, why interview so soon are women! Please what has your silence in your relationships done for you? Who has it helped?!! You go on covering up for a man who doesn’t give **** about you. Nigerian Women!! Stop enabling Nigerian Men. Tiwa Savage ia doing the right thing. How can your spouse have total disrespect for you, your family and even your child.
    I personally know a lady that TJ has been asking out. He has the nerve to say she slept with this and that! Really?! Like you’re innocent.

    Typical nigerian man to call her a whore, ashewo etc SMH!!
    He may be depressed, suicidal etc but he sure knew what he was doing all the years he’s been cheating on her. These are the kind of guys that can kill their wives. So please! Yall can miss me with that bullshit of her reconciling with him and all.
    Deep down… You all know all she spoke the truth!
    Unlike some of yall that will rather die than come out of that toxicity you call a marraige!

    • Nahum

      April 29, 2016 at 9:54 pm

      @Be human, God bless you my dear. Who are we trying to deceive here? What Tiwa is describing is the reality of most Naija women and we know it!! And why should Tbillz have the monopoly on airing dirty laundry? This man has completely destroyed his family, the least she can do is clear her name of adultery and move on and she should be given that chance!! Naija women will never stop amazing me. We truly love to tear other women apart. This is why I don’t have female friends.

    • Obianuju

      April 29, 2016 at 10:16 pm

      You literally said everything I am thinking but too lazy to type! THANK YOU!!!

    • concerned9a

      April 29, 2016 at 10:34 pm

      @human…well said joor..people trying to be all classy. ..only 24 hrs after..so??..This is 9ja nothing like Oyinbo keeping iit all bottled up..She better talk..already people spreading all sorts of rumours and believing his version of events..
      Toke was different…and not put on blast like Tiwa. .
      Dude was a bad model of being paired with a richer woman..
      All that connection and hasn’t managed anyone else or found a rising star!!….dude didn’t [email protected]

    • Okay...

      April 30, 2016 at 1:10 am

      I watched the video with my anti-divorce woman, and she started to share stories. In the end, after I had told her what TJ said, she said Tiwa would be a bastard to back with him, and that he’ll kill her the next time. I had to blink to be sure it was my mum talking. She once said woe betides any woman who leaves her husband’s house for infidelity, so you can understand my shock.

    • Okay...

      April 30, 2016 at 1:11 am

      Typo: anti-divorce mother.

    • Azazelle

      April 30, 2016 at 9:18 am

      I wanna love you twice…I really do; but alas, BellaNaija…*bursts into uncontrollable weeping*

    • Ibi

      April 30, 2016 at 3:49 pm

      You are so right. We all know women who have had the unfortunate experience of being married to douches. And for the typical Nigerian man, the first thing is always to attack their fidelity and accuse them of sleeping around. This is not a new story. It has nothing to do with being a celebrity. No one has the right to tell her how to react because we are not in her shoes and we cannot know what she has been going through and for how long.

    • Funmi

      April 30, 2016 at 11:43 pm

      @Be human
      Don’t mind all of them as if what Tiwa said is new in the history of Nigerian marriages. Now that women are ready to speak out loud and clear am trusting all these men will seek redress. No more suffering and smiling till one die in a bad marriage.

  73. Moyo

    April 29, 2016 at 9:45 pm

    I am on Tiwas side but I believe this interview was not necessary. She was not advised properly. All she needed to do was send out an official statement denying the allegations and ask everyone to allow them to sort out their issues quietly because of the child involved. send a statement to all the companies she has their endorsement. She needs to be out of the public’s eye for a while. The Nigerian society does not forgive the woman when a marriage breaks down, it is always the woman’s fault. You don’t need an interview stay away from social media, people will soon forget this and move on to the next scandal. Mavin’s group also need to put out an official statement. This titbits guy has messed them up.

    • Newjack

      April 29, 2016 at 11:30 pm

      Really? “The Nigerian society doesn’t forgive the woman? Well, it better start forgiving them tonight… don’t women make up more than half of the population? Self inflicted unforgiveness. Besides, who and what is this so called society? People who don’t pay your bills,know your middle name or give a toss if you eat or not? Is society going to take time off work to watch your sick child or will they walk into a burning house to save you? We overestimate how much influence “society” has. ” We”are “society”. Opinions are like an ass…everyone has one. She can do an interview every if she wants…she’s walking in the shoes

    • Tru

      April 30, 2016 at 7:37 am

      Can L get an “Ay-Mehn”??? 1000 likes for your sensible comment jor

    • Segun

      April 30, 2016 at 3:15 pm

      I am on the sides of TIWA AND TJ but I agree Tiwa was ill-advised doing this interview. Both need to stay away from public. Tiwa’s tremendous talents should carry her for a while, but the essential inner healing and freedom from their fathers’ sins must begin immediately.

  74. Anonymous

    April 29, 2016 at 9:47 pm

    It is really sad that anything a lady does for a man whenever theres a matter, the world will know. As far as Teebillz acted childishly by going public, I believe his ego must have been trampled upon by his wife , mother inlaw or whoever.

    • Onlooker

      April 29, 2016 at 9:58 pm

      Why was his Ego on the floor?
      In truth it’s difficult to say a thing and not sin but the Duke of Edinburgh should school some of these guys. It’s a cooperation that y’all have to learn. As long as nobody decides to be up in his/her feelings and cause grief to the other party , it’s not a big deal who makes more money than the other in a marriage. Most women will even play pretend that the man makes more money than they do and wouldn’t mind as long as they are happy and not being take advantage of.

  75. Lala

    April 29, 2016 at 9:48 pm

    To the person who said she should take the toke route. Ermm NO! He went on insta to display madness knowing full well that he was also mad in his marriage.

    Tiwa had these issues time ago, why didnt she come up with the drama of going to lekki bridge because her husband just wants to kill her with debt. He isnt strong enough as man.

    You’re supposed to support your wife, be kind to her, help me, motivate her. If you wanted her to cook for you, discuss with her. Plan a date night when she is free. Dont use her success against her afterall, she is settling your debt!

    Saying things like ‘I MADE YOU’, ‘WITHOUT ME YOU ARE NOTHING’ is the most insecure thing you can ever say. Sometimes you need to accept that your wife might be doing well even more than you are. We live in a society were its the MAN oo that must make the money. And any little thing she does she is insulting your manhood.

    Now that she has left you Mr TJ we shall see how far you will go. Because tbh you seem lazy. You went to borrow 45M without informing your wife and she is looking for how to pay it for you? Can EFCC take this guy away please. Bcos ori e to daru tbh.

    Get up! Hustle! Find your way to the top. Tiwa savage is your wife she has and you have connections. Find/develop and collaborate with someone with an idea that bangs! Do something!!

    God Forbid if tiwa fell ill and couldnt sing for a while. So they will all go hungry? He will just even collect her debit card and pop champagne.

    Saying that someone did something with your destiny. So disrepecKKKKKKful of you! You havent spent a dime on your kid and you want to fall off a bridge. You have failed as a dad MR TJ no matter how many times you apologise to your kids.

    I have typed long abeg. Its just not right to do these things man.

    Stay strong tiwa. We love you.

  76. mrs chidukane

    April 29, 2016 at 9:50 pm

    I haven’t watched the video because of poor network from glo but if you saw the way people were dragging her on twitter as an ashewo and calling her everything but a child of God then you would see why she feels like she needs to explain herself. This same pulse had their headline as Tiwa sleeps with don jazzy, dr sid and tuface. I don’t see anything wrong with what she’s doing. There’s no one size fits all when it comes to matters like this. One thing I know is she should keep her head up and keep doing her thing. This too shall pass. She’ll be alright , on another note, I wonder when women in Nigeria will stop being being accused of being successful because they slept around. Women work hard but it can never be talent or drive, it always has to be because she slept with so and so. I guess she won her mtv award because she slept with the mtv president. All the guys who have featured her on their tracks did it because she slept with them, not because of her great vocals.

    Toke’s own is quite different because her husband cheated on her. She was a clear victim. In this case, her husband called her irresponsible, an adulterer, a bad wife, her mother a witch and also talked bad about her parents marriage ALL on a public platform. This is capable of derailing her career and for a long time this will linger. In fact, he tarnished her image. It will even be difficult for her to date publicly or even remarry because of the image out there. .

  77. Zubby

    April 29, 2016 at 9:50 pm

    Obviously, its not likely she slept with these ppl after marriage. So technically, and realistically, she hasn’t cheated on her husband. Howbeit, she may have slept wt these guys b4 tying the knots with Tee.

    • Positive K

      April 29, 2016 at 10:52 pm

      Einstein is in the building ladies and gentlemen! Clap for Zubby!

      Shior!

    • KB

      April 30, 2016 at 5:30 am

      Welcome, Captain Obvious.
      Thanks so much.

  78. Moji

    April 29, 2016 at 9:51 pm

    If Tiwa had paid more attention to her family and not on fame all these wouldn’t have happened. Like chick was releasing videos back to back letting her husband wander in his darkness. Though he came on social media to rant but I’m very sure Tiwa was aware before hand but totally didn’t care to fix things with him.
    No doubt she’s doing well but she should take a clue from Omawumi, Oma is not in our faces 24/7 but that lady is keeping her both home and her career.
    There are two things….its either 1) Tunji is mentally ill making it a shame that Tiwa is not by him or 2)He mentally stable meaning he has had enough of her.

    • Regina

      April 29, 2016 at 9:55 pm

      So, who/what would have fed and clothed them as a family? His abusive, thieving ass? His foolish pride? GTFO

    • IBK

      April 29, 2016 at 10:00 pm

      What is this one saying? everyday you people will open mouth and say there are no big female artists in Nigeria and the first woman to do it on this scale should sit down and kill herself because the man she married who by the way knows too well the dictates of the entertainment industry wants her to keep her home while he philanders with every thing in a skirt and robs her in broad daylight. toh..

    • Tasha

      April 29, 2016 at 10:02 pm

      U’ve gotta be mad or something

    • Stop Moji thinking

      April 29, 2016 at 10:05 pm

      so Tiwa is bad for making money for husband and child? The same way Toke was bad for going out alot? Do you KNOW how Tiwa was beaten up, stolen from WHILE trying to help him out? A fellow woman like you! Tueh! You’re using Omawunmi as example, let’s be honest, in terms of international superstardom, endorsements, hit music videos etc, who is bigger? Plus Omawunmi is older, different music genre AND married to a well-off man so she doesnt need to work as hard. It’s not your fault that you weren’t taught to do anything but blame women.

    • Anonymous

      April 29, 2016 at 10:16 pm

      @moji
      Listen to your self, read what you wrote and ask your self if it makes sense. The behaviour described in this video will occur even if the woman was selling agege bread and the guy had nothing. It takes a mature and brave man to stay with a woman who clearly does everything. Her job is no different from a woman who works long hours in a bank, or sells food all day, an event coordinator or a baker who is on her feet all day. I’m not saying she has gotten it all right and is without blame, but please leave her music out of this. The only reason we are all commenting here is because she is a celeb and yes I used the word “celeb” a colleague of mine was hiding what she was going through for years, even to her own siblings until he stabbed her because she refused to do a direct transfer of her salary in a particular month. Her family was shocked, they didn’t see it coming but knew something was wrong as she was always walking on egg shells. My dear Moji please reconsider your comment.., I know you are entitled to your own opinion but be human.

    • Ceetoo

      April 30, 2016 at 8:17 am

      This reminds me of the book by Buchi Emecheta – Second Class Citizen

    • Moving on Swiftly

      April 29, 2016 at 10:30 pm

      Boya you did not hear that she was looking for 45 million to help clear his debt so that they wee not kee her and her son. Abi 3.5 million to pay for Mercedes Benz. Joo o. She has to release video every day sef.

    • Grace

      April 29, 2016 at 11:16 pm

      Moji, you are entitled to your opinion but this one sounds off. Let me simplify this one for ya! Tiwa didn’t marry Omawumi’s husband so you can’t expect the same results. Think before your type

    • double c

      April 29, 2016 at 11:32 pm

      @Moji am not sure u watched and listen to the interview cos if u did u wouldn’t have said she was releasing videos back to back. For f- sake she has to work, she provides for her home,she has a nagging lazy husband, she has debt to offset thanks to her husband c’mon don’t be ridiculous.

    • my own

      April 30, 2016 at 12:33 am

      Pls all unilag girls living in new hall, kofo and moremi! Where una dey? Shebi it is every night that bastard comes to pick girls up? Una no go talk now? So she shouldn’t work hard to pay up all the debt he has incurred? U as a woman blaming her? Wonderful! My dear, no matter what u do, a leopard can’t change his spot. If u like cook 3 course meal a day and do karate in bed, a mistake is a mistake!

    • Mz_Danielz

      April 30, 2016 at 11:22 am

      Madam, Omowummi’s husband provides for the home. Tiwa is paying off his Teebillz debts. She provides the food, the least he can do is serve himself

    • Corolla

      April 30, 2016 at 12:15 pm

      @Moji, Seems like someone replaced your brain with spaghetti. People like you will always, always blame the woman for not keeping her marriage. Marriage is a two way street, and the success does not depend on the woman alone. This is a man that’s a druggie and also steals from his wife, yet your brain can only register that she is at fault . Women like you need to be flogged for your dumb and dangerous ideologies. What a retard!

    • Just shut up

      May 1, 2016 at 11:32 pm

      @Moji, just shut up. If you have nothing reasonable to say, silence is better. Since this husband didn’t want to hustle, Tiwa had to do it and upon all he was stealing from her! All these keep a home people!! I tire for una ooo!! Is he a child? Can’t he look after himself?! He had nothing to contribute except negative energy. She’s well rid of him!!

  79. Aduke

    April 29, 2016 at 9:52 pm

    In the words of Falz the bad guy, “these are stories that touch.” Men don’t change, you opened your eyes and married his broke cheating self. You were sugar mommy, paying for everything and now you want him to be husband of the year. (FYI: nothing wrong with a man who is still trying to make it, as long as he taking responsibility in his own way, even before you all marry)

    and don’t forget the wife/woman, he left in LA with two children! Women think they are special, and believe he won’t do to you what he did to the one before you, but they always do….OPEN YOUR EYES BEFORE YOU CHOOSE A SPOUSE…What you see is what you get!

    By the way if Tunji wanted to kill himself, trust and believe, he would not go to Lekki bridge in the morning where there is lots of foot traffic, he’ll just put a gun to his head or hang himself – very quick and effective, ….not to be morbid. Dude calculated his moves and counted on the very sentimental Nigerians to feel sorry for him.

    • Aduke

      April 29, 2016 at 11:53 pm

      Aside from the rant as stated above. Woman to woman though, I feel very sorry for her. I hope she can heal from this fiasco.

    • curious

      April 30, 2016 at 12:03 am

      THANK YOU! When people warned and warned and warned. She refused to listen. They should label this as Karrueche syndrome.

  80. Person

    April 29, 2016 at 9:52 pm

    Lesson learnt: marriage is not by force. Don’t marry because of pressure. Don’t marry because of lace, cake, white dress etc. It is way better to be single than to be married and this unhappy. My God, see as this man dragged his wife and family through the mud. Oluwa maje kin ba oloriburuku pade.

    As for people saying Tiwa shouldn’t talk, abeg, mechonu there! Eyan ti ti e ti baje already, o tun fe ba ti omolomo je! She shouldn’t defend herself abi?

  81. lollss

    April 29, 2016 at 9:52 pm

    Everybody saying she shoudnt have done this interview are hypocrates. You all know you like the jist. And she has the right to tell her story and clear her name. I understand her more as a person and one thing i have learnt is do not judge anyone. There is always more to every story.

  82. Blueberry

    April 29, 2016 at 9:54 pm

    Girl please. This was totally unnecessary. I know its hard sometimes and easy for us commenters to judge you, but boo, you don’t wash your dirty laundary in public.
    If your husband is not mature enough (and clearly he is not), he will slap back. And slap back he will.
    Usually when a child is born, couples fight alot in the first year. And if they are not careful, they pull appart and seperate. It is just an issue of adjusting to the new dynamics of the home. Compromises have to be made and both partners have to TRY to understand each other.

    Please both of you need to TALK with each other and TO God. Your son needs both of you. Make your decisions wisely. Let Jesus guide you.

    • stop blabbing

      April 30, 2016 at 7:45 am

      blabber, go and kneel down in that corner raise up your hands and close your eyes, i am coming

    • debby

      April 30, 2016 at 8:55 am

      Who maturity don Epp? :s

  83. woohaa

    April 29, 2016 at 9:57 pm

    Seeing this video I literally have sudden shortness in breath and heart palpitations thinking about the concept of MARRIAGE. Regardless of who you believe in this whole saga it just goes to show that marriage, if not right, can break the strongest soul and can be what I can only think of as hell on earth (with all the emotional and physical turmoil one goes through). But when it is right it is like living on cloud 9. Marriage is an institution and nobody should EVER rush or be pushed into it or assume that they will be blessed like “the cloud 9” couple.

    Tiwa and Teebillz praying for you guys and hope that you each find some peace of mind and have the heart to forgive yourselves for the decisions you made and each other. I also hope that eventually true love (whether it be in your faith, in another human being or in a project) finds you both and makes each of you happy.

  84. honey omo lekki

    April 29, 2016 at 9:57 pm

    This is dirty. She shouldn’t have granted this interview.

  85. Bibi

    April 29, 2016 at 9:59 pm

    Pulse TV, don’t you guys have someone smart and eloquent? …. Jeeez this girl should be working with Mitv station lol.
    All i can say is T J married a Maga.

  86. uzo

    April 29, 2016 at 10:02 pm

    Tiwa you are a gem. Well done. You have exposed him for the fool he is. You are a beautiful woman and god will continue to lift you up. You needed to do this to show the world your not a loose girl because thats what some idiots will be thinking. The interviewer ;well you need to go to school. you are an illitrate. If you walk away now from your marriage no one will blame you because we all know the truth and your son when he grows up will watch this video and will know the truth and know his mother is a wonderful. Well done you have cleared yourself from this mess

  87. Manuel

    April 29, 2016 at 10:02 pm

    Her husband is so immature. Didn’t he sleep his way to fame too? Pure nonsense

  88. The real Ibinabo

    April 29, 2016 at 10:03 pm

    I am not surprised it is the very bitter Azuka Ogujuba that conducted this interview, so unprofessional. I bet she is happy the marriage packed up. Btw I support Tiwa Savage for speaking up especially since Teebills dragged others into it. I respect Tu face, Dr Sid and Don Jazzy for not publicly insulting him for slandering their names. To all those claiming Tiwa has been sleeping around, I hope you are 100% sure of what you are saying and not just saying it based on rumors. If not with the measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. Someone will also accuse you falsely. Tiwa, may God comfort you

  89. Hmmmm

    April 29, 2016 at 10:05 pm

    I just think some situations can not be helped, when it’s public it’s all over. It looks like Tiwa depends on the public to drive a situation that is suppose to be private.

  90. Gbemi

    April 29, 2016 at 10:07 pm

    My goodness i am completely and utterly appalled by this interviewer’s insensitivity and lack of professionalism. Her demeanour is so non-chalant. Even her diction sef na wa. Pulse TV please do better. On another note, why did Tiwa grant this interview in the first place, isn’t this her private life? She owes nobody any explanation. This should be resolved between their families. Why invite the public to further dissect your failing marriage and spew dribble on social media. Did Beyonce give any explanation for the elevator fight between Solange and Jay Z? NO! Because it was a family fall out. It is not our business! She is a singer/entertainer not a reality tv star. Her own is to entertain us with her music and not her private life.
    I know some people will say “eh she is empowering and helping other women who are going through the same issue”. I say Bullsh*t.

    Resolve this issue with yourselves privately and seek God in the matter. If it can’t be resolved then amicably part ways and let it go. Marriage is not by force!!!

    • Damilola

      April 30, 2016 at 12:23 am

      Did Jay z come out to talk bad about his wife or accuse her of sleeping with usher and whoever? No. It’s both ways. He started it, and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with Tiwa clearing her name. She’s not airing any dirty laundry that it’s not already out or speculated.
      Bey talks about her marriage problems in her songs.

  91. Dulce.

    April 29, 2016 at 10:07 pm

    There is something called “Releasing an official professional statement and laying low for a while till things settle down a bit.” Having a show interview less than 24 hours after the situation and still accusing each other, is not the best strategy and seems to only complicate things. Interviews can always come later.

  92. jide

    April 29, 2016 at 10:07 pm

    From what I ve read so far , I LL apportioned blame to both party they shouldn’t have go up to this level especially u Tunji u re not man enough anyway may God intervention stabilized in both party amen.

  93. Asgrl

    April 29, 2016 at 10:09 pm

    As someone who has been in this position before, where you are always in the “boashiri” mode aka cover up so people don’t know the truth, I can tell you this much, covering up the mess you’ve made of your life is one of the most nerve racking things ever. And I’m not even a public figure.

    As the female in the relationship, you are always thinking from the perspective that if this relationship is to work, you don’t want anything to get out that will color the way your friends and family see your man.

    While you may see this as clap back, it really is not. it’s incredibly freeing. She’s where I was a fewyears ago and at the point where I was finally able to cry outside of my bathroom about living a lie for 7 years.

    She just finally said you will all judge me on everything regardless. You will say I’m a horrible wife, I lord money and authority over my husband, I’m a bad mother etc. please take this extra information too. She’s done hiding.

    I feel for them both. Because it’s clear he’s manic depressive with an addictive personality and she’s going to wear the scars from this for a while. I would encourage Tiwa to get into counseling fast for her self and her son. Something I wish I did early.

    I pray for healing for Tunji as well that he finds healing and the path to starting over in a healthy way. He has three children and if he doesn’t want his children to say about home what he said about his father, things have to change.

    For those of you that can not find it in your heart to have empathy towards your fellow human being. I feel sorry for you and hope the world isn’t as cruel to you in your time of need.

    There is no such thing as “awon aiye” (spiritual evil doers in Yoruba folklore), just uncaring, unsympathetic fellow human beings in this journey called life.

    • Olope

      April 30, 2016 at 1:23 am

      @Asgri.

      Wisdom!

    • Someone

      April 30, 2016 at 1:48 am

      My dear, I agree with all u said, except the aiye part. MA goo oh, aiye wa. May God save us from thier clutches and take thier footsteps and footprints far away from ours.

    • editor

      April 30, 2016 at 3:43 am

      Best comment ever!

  94. Anonymous

    April 29, 2016 at 10:11 pm

    It’s so sad. It had to come to this. Never let the society push you into getting married. She saw the signs and didn’t follow on it. Once she work in on him been high on cocaine, she for end am! Well she made a mistake. I think she should separate for now don’t divorce yet. let him seek counselling, rehab and If he doesn’t change….

  95. Hmmmm

    April 29, 2016 at 10:12 pm

    Why do women stay in failed marriages? Especially Nigeria women! But why?
    So I am assuming she knew his flaws before marriage, but now she can live with it.

  96. Rose Okwy

    April 29, 2016 at 10:14 pm

    I am so SSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO PROUD OF HER. Nigerian women go through so much.

  97. Adenike

    April 29, 2016 at 10:14 pm

    EPISTLE AHEAD
    P.S: I don’t know Tiwa Savage personally.

    For all of you saying she shouldn’t have granted an interview. Una welldone!!! I hope when it happens to you, you will keep quiet, and let the world believe that truly your mum is a witch. Did you read all the things he said? And I’m so disappointed in the women that are spitting venom. Common! You could at least hear her side first before concluding. And now that you’ve heard her side, you still spit venom.
    1. I knew this relationship was doomed when she said in an interview that Teebillz removed her shame by proposing to her (something about being single at her age then). When someone that feels or you tell someone that they are doing you a favour by marrying you, then you are at the mercy of the person.
    2. All these people talking about makeup or no makeup. So she should look like the picture he put of her online? If she did sef, una go complain. She’s being vulnerable already, if she wails on the screen, you people will say that she’s still seeking attention. So y’all just shut up. I’m tired of people always finding fault. Like your personal lives are perfect. Let someone be for the love of God.
    3. She couldn’t have been silent. For comparison sake, Tokes husband didn’t come out to say that her mother was a witch, and she was using his destiny to shine, and that she had slept with her label mates…common guys! Be objective! If you were in her shoes, would you not want your side of the story to be heard. Let her redeem her reputation, at least records will have it that she tried to clear her name, even if her reputation does not recover from this.
    4. For the “she should keep it private people”. At this point, the man she vowed to spend the rest of her life with, took gloves off (I’m sorry depression or not), and maligned her in every way or form. She has a right to also use the same medium to tell her own truth. She didn’t slander his personality, she only told her own bit.
    5. If you clearly look at this issue, her husband is not as pissed off with her, as he is pissed off at himself. He feels like a failure because he couldn’t break free from the evil family pattern. What about the people he brought into the mess? Don’t they have a right to clear their names? Or they should all say “yes he’s depressed”, and let him destroy their personalities. Common!
    6. I pray this man gets help because if he doesn’t he’s going to be a wrecking ball, and a destructive force to everything on his path. Hurting people hurt people, and yes they should be helped. However, the ones hurt are still human.
    7. I pray that you both heal. I pray that you truly heal cos I can’t imagine how you feel.
    8. People please let’s take a look at our lives, the children are always the innocent bystanders, brought into all this mess just cos of a wrong decision. Some People say they don’t want to marry from broken homes, but if we keep making bad decisions that lead to “broken home” situations, what is the fate of this children? They will be judged forever because of the mistake their parents made.
    So really guys when making decisions, even the tiniest bit, think of your children, cos it really does affect them.
    ✌?️.

  98. Cheekie

    April 29, 2016 at 10:14 pm

    The interviewer needs to be schooled,damn…
    As much as everyone seems to feel sorry for tiwa,i saw this coming so no surprises..Tiwa just like Ciara just managed to pick the wrong men to father their child/marry…It’s soooo sad that after being single with no kid(s),in their mid 30’s/late they just picked dushbags…
    I was disappointed when i heard they were getting married.. Tunji didn’t become this person over night,he most definitely displayed this traits when they were dating/courting..

    Marriage is beautiful,but it’s not that deep. Even with the right person if a marriage will fail it will,not to talk of being married to the wrong fellow…Did he just start taking cocaine now,wasn’t he using whilst you dated… Women,we always see the hand writings on the wall,but we choose to ignore we make excuses for the guy. Deceiving ourselves that he will change when you marry him…She should take responsibility for ignoring the signs,for marrying him… He would be an ok guy to some extent regardless, but just not for her.
    She should count her losses and count it all joy,move on with her life and embrace single motherhood.. She will be fine as long as she doesn’t rush into another relationship…May God help her…m

    • Olope

      April 30, 2016 at 1:29 am

      You must enjoying looking down your nose and saying “I told you so,” no thanks to your perfect life. Stop preaching to the converted: she acknowledged she made a mistake by getting into the marriage already. Appreciate the fact that she has chosen to right her wrong, or walk on by… or scroll on by.

    • Real Talk

      April 30, 2016 at 5:57 am

      Why are you so angry?

    • Real Talk

      April 30, 2016 at 5:59 am

      That’s for Olope. Why are you policing comments and being rude?

    • Olope

      April 30, 2016 at 8:24 am

      @Real Talk

      You asked: “Why are you so angry? That’s for Olope. Why are you policing comments and being rude?”

      The lopsidedness in our society ought to make one angry, don’t you angry. Continuously reading people sitting in their glass houses to throw stones, castigating women for their men’s shortcomings is why I am… irritated, not angry. Policing comments? Correct me if I am wrong, but the comments were posted to be read, no?

      Why are you bothered that people who come online, and hide under the false cover of anonymity to insult “celebrities” they do not know, just because their problems are magnified by virtue of their statuses – never mind that the commenters are likely hiding worse demons in their own lives – are being told off? Are you equally bothered about the impact of their reckless cyber-bullying on the “celebrities?” Or you think being celebrities, they deserve to be cyber-bullied?

      Now, why do you ask why I am angry?

    • Olope

      April 30, 2016 at 8:33 am

      Typo fix:
      @Real Talk

      You asked: “Why are you so angry? That’s for Olope. Why are you policing comments and being rude?”

      The lopsidedness in our society ought to make one angry, don’t you agree? Continuously reading people sitting in their glass houses to throw stones, castigating women for their men’s shortcomings is why I am… irritated, not angry. Policing comments? Correct me if I am wrong, but the comments were posted to be read, and the reply button was added for a reason, no?

      Why are you bothered that people who come online, and hide under the false cover of anonymity to insult “celebrities” they do not know, just because their problems are magnified by virtue of their statuses – never mind that the commenters are likely hiding worse demons in their own lives – are being told off? Are you equally bothered about the impact of their reckless cyber-bullying on the “celebrities?” Or you think being celebrities, they deserve to be cyber-bullied?

      Now, why do you ask why I am angry?

  99. Tunmi

    April 29, 2016 at 10:14 pm

    She chose to do this interview because she chose to. No time would have been best. Respect the decisions an adult person made.

  100. love

    April 29, 2016 at 10:15 pm

    God bless Tiwa. I hope TJ gets help and heals but she is absolutely right..she has to be strong and happy not just for herself but for her son. If they both go downhill who e epp? I respect her for being honest about her perspective..noone is perfect but she is the only one who has to live with her choices and mistakes. I really pray this chapter in their lives ends well for them all.

  101. Bibi

    April 29, 2016 at 10:15 pm

    I wished Wendy Williams had done this interview.. It would have been juicy.

    • Haggai

      April 29, 2016 at 11:04 pm

      Bibi is your surname Shallow? Because it sounds like you’re from that family with this your comment.

      Peoples lives are falling apart and you’re looking for Wendy to make it juicy for you.

  102. AraBee

    April 29, 2016 at 10:16 pm

    Irrespective of who is right or wrong, it is so heartbreaking to see a marriage crash. Celebrities are human beings who make mistakes like every other person out there and sometimes when I read the mean comments, my heart bleeds. Where did empathy go to? To all those insulting both of them, remember no one knows tomorrow and one could easily go through such difficult situations. Do unto others what you want others to do unto you. I pray they both find peace and raise their son properly.

  103. BadtSharpGuy

    April 29, 2016 at 10:17 pm

    1st the interviewer was wrong in some many levels gosh TF. 2nd whatever u do guys never let the woman be the bread winner for long… lastly it’s not my place or anybody’s here to judge either of them cos u dunno half of their story. That been said may God help their family

  104. the gentleman himself!

    April 29, 2016 at 10:19 pm

    i must admit this was a juicy interview. Tiwa i applaud you for walking away from that mess called marriage. and yes you will find love and NO you’re not too old to find Love again.
    keep being the Doro superstar you are!!!

  105. Stella

    April 29, 2016 at 10:19 pm

    If someone accuses you falsely. You have to clear your name. If not that she cleared her name I was seeing her already in a different light. Kudos tiwa

  106. The real Ibinabo

    April 29, 2016 at 10:20 pm

    It is very stupid to compare this to the solange/Jayz elevator fight. Did Jay Z go on social media accusing Bey of cheating and even naming some of her colleagues? Did he insult Tina Knowles and accuse her of jazzing her on social media? She has the right to clear her name!!

    • Fani

      April 29, 2016 at 10:40 pm

      Exactly how you expect her not to defend herself when he is trying to destroy her .

    • Gbemi

      April 30, 2016 at 1:22 pm

      I am entitled to my own opinion and so are you.. Saying that it is stupid is uncalled for. Disagree politely and move on.

  107. Akus

    April 29, 2016 at 10:21 pm

    Wts d fuss all abt,did teebiLzs mention all d women he has slept wit,ok let’s assume she did it does he nt kn all dis b4 sayin I do,he jst wanted to create a scene if nt he would av commited suicide witout letting anyone kn abbt it ,pls Tiwa u guyz kns d truth u ppl need prayers nd nt all dis,

  108. Lola

    April 29, 2016 at 10:23 pm

    First of all. The interviewer! Why are you sitting like you came to tiwa’s house for a drink up? Do better please @pulsetv.

    Sooo lool wait first. You guys are saying she should have kept quiet, she is lying, she did this and that.

    No she should not. Mr Edible caterer went on insta and had a meltdown, dragged her and his entire family into this mess. So umm no sir/ma it has to be publicly addressed.

    She took away your manhood by paying off your debts. Okay sir. You have not bought anything for your kid but you want to get haircut twice a week and buy mercedes and rolex.

    Why didnt your wife go to Erin Ijesha to commit suicide since you want to kill her with debts? Weak man. Your wife is tiwa savage. She has connects, you probably do to. Why cant you just start something, buil something. You thought since you married tiwa, you’re set for life?

    You’re supposed to lover your wife, motivate her, RESPECKKK her! But nahhhhh! You were fraudulent with your own WIFE? Lets not even talk about how she just insulted tiwa’s mum.

    She was bleeding but edible catering was cooking for you at home since tiwa hasnt cooked for you in years. Oshey, baddest!

    I pray for you and your son tiwa.

    • ify

      April 29, 2016 at 10:35 pm

      lmaoooooooooooooooo, you are hilarious!!!!

    • MEE

      April 30, 2016 at 7:36 am

      Lol, at least the interviewer wasn’t lying on the couch like Maria Okarende. All these “chic” interviwing positions sef, o di kwa risky, hahahaha

    • Chi

      April 30, 2016 at 9:28 am

      Hahaha….. Put some RESPECKKK on it!!!!

  109. Not bitter Kola

    April 29, 2016 at 10:24 pm

    Nobody likes to be lied on. Tiwa, you felt it was proper for you to talk to people and you did. And as for the interviewer, where you go school? You no sabi anything. Tiwa, I pray you find strength after speaking out, it’s not easy being with someone you supported and used you to play ludo. Head up, chin up and move on. Life goes on.

  110. Titi.

    April 29, 2016 at 10:25 pm

    Cocaine is for Mad people not Rich people. Tiwa please go sit down. You really were not sure of this marriage before you got into it. Sorry dearieeeee God will help you out. Pele.

    • pepple

      April 29, 2016 at 11:07 pm

      Titi. Pick a side. Are you bitter or sympathetic?

    • Olope

      April 30, 2016 at 1:35 am

      She’s confused, and that’s fine. Abi Titi?

  111. Anon

    April 29, 2016 at 10:26 pm

    Azuka Ogujiuba is the crass interviewer, After all these years of being in the press she has failed to polish herself.

    I was cringing at the expose. On one hand she was brave and on another hand she was silly. The thing is that Tunji is a hoodrat and he will come back to drag her on the floor. The guy is send-less and will drag her down the pit with him (plus anyone else he can drag down.) Is she ready for the aftermath?

    So all the whispers were true. Sad.

    Azuka and Elohor A are friends. Elohor and Tiwa are good friends. I can see a connection.

    Snorting cocaine is an expensive habit. A real money guzzler. Tunji, please go to rehab. Check yourself in before you wreck yourself completely (at least for the sake of your children.) Tiwa, be strong for your son. You will be fine.

  112. oversabi

    April 29, 2016 at 10:26 pm

    Why would you take pictures of your miscarriage and send it to your ex? Oh well. This interview with iyabo headtie does not help and borders on contrived to garner pity. It just gives folks like me opportunity to opine in business we have no business minding. Please una go rest. Una wahala never start. If you see how I dey chase business to put clothes on my kids and maintain my lifestyle, you no go even complain. Most Nigerian men dont take care of their wives and children. That is the problem with marrying them. I dont even know my husband exists. Im dey house sha. I just mind my business and count my damn money and secure my children’s future. You follow them, you go insane.

    • Abeggi

      April 29, 2016 at 10:43 pm

      But you’re not a ‘celeb’ whose public image (Tiwa’s source of income) can be affected by your husband’s screw up

    • Leah

      April 29, 2016 at 11:11 pm

      Oversabi, your name says it all.
      Which ex was she sending pictures of her miscarriage to? She was sending to her husband oh!
      Let me tell you, I’ve had 2 miscarriages and both times my husband had travelled. In my panic and need for empathy, and wanting him to be very aware of everything happening to his wife, I took pictures of the bleeding and clots and sent to him too.
      I don’t know what I hoped to achieve but I needed to share the pain I was going through and who better than the father of the child(ren) that had just died in me?

      Abeg you People exhaust me with your judgmental selves.

  113. MEE

    April 29, 2016 at 10:27 pm

    Please what are you saying, Jide? Na wa o

  114. Omolade Remilekun

    April 29, 2016 at 10:27 pm

    Its really heartbreaking, I pray God heals your wound and make you find happiness soon.

  115. ify

    April 29, 2016 at 10:28 pm

    Its so easy for “we” the outsiders to say she shouldn’t have said any thing but this man said a lot of unforgivable things that she had to clarify. This same Tee Billz I see at The Palms gallivanting in a Mercedes Benz S class and a Mobile policeman as his security just to go have drinks with his friends. Even Aliko Dangote, Sayyu Dantata who are billionaires do not drive around town with policemen. Selfish dude, you expect her to go on tours, come back and cook for you. This lady was pregnant and still performing all for the sake of income.

  116. Ruth

    April 29, 2016 at 10:30 pm

    Not been judgemental. But am trying to understand some comments. If tee billz was accused of cheating my fellow women folks would be condemning men. How come tiwa is been accused and Tj is said to be depressed. This whole interview is crap and pls keep ur issues to urself. Just 2years after a beautiful Dubai wedding. Advice, Invest ur resources in ur marriage not ur wedding. Marriage is forgiveness and if ur husband is shameless,be the virtuous woman with sense that keeps that home. Awaiting tee billz reply to this video

  117. The real dee

    April 29, 2016 at 10:31 pm

    All I heard was “Before you guys decided to walk up the aisle”, like really? WALK UP THE AISLE. This interviewer, I hail you o!

    • bae

      April 29, 2016 at 11:29 pm

      she said walk up the eye!

  118. Ren

    April 29, 2016 at 10:31 pm

    So naijas ‘Becky’ is Edible Catering…. LMAO

  119. eve

    April 29, 2016 at 10:34 pm

    Tiwa you did right, how else would we have heard your own side of the story if you had not come out to defend yourself……….People would have continued hating on Tiwa and accusing her of infidelity because of Tunji’s statement, but she came out to clear her name, great move dear.

  120. clara oby

    April 29, 2016 at 10:34 pm

    Why must it always be women that ends up being blamed when things go wrong in a relationship? I think we really need to mind our businesses especially all these media houses that enjoys blowing things out of proportion.The fact that they are public figures doesn’t mean blood isn’t flowing in their veins. And for the husband uncle Tunji she is your wife for crying out loud the fact that you feel your marriage with her has ended doesn’t mean she must be defaced.All the same Tiwa be strong this is a phase in your life journey it will pass darling.May The Heavenly King take care of whatever it is you guys are going through because He alone can bring calmness upon troubled waters.Amen. I will continue praying for both of you(My heart is so heavy)

  121. Me

    April 29, 2016 at 10:36 pm

    This was not about the public, this was about sending this tbillz a message. He tried to ruin her and tried to ruin what she cared about which was her reputation. Abusers come for what they think matters most to you, so tiwa doing this, was to send a clear message to this guy that he had no more control over her because she herself will open up to the world. He now can’t abuse her anymore, she took her freedom

    • my own

      April 30, 2016 at 12:44 am

      Thank you!!!! A million thanks! People really need to read up on psychology and the cycle of abuse. The only way out is to take ur power back and she just did. Now no one can threaten her with the media.

    • Arin

      April 30, 2016 at 3:48 pm

      Exactly! She took her power back.

  122. Confirm

    April 29, 2016 at 10:36 pm

    But why? Everything doesn’t seem right so why not fix things rather you tell it all to the world. Now the outcome is inevitable. Now a pair of ordinary shoes last longer than marriages. Shame. Marriage isn’t sacred no longer. You scare those of us single.

  123. Amebo

    April 29, 2016 at 10:42 pm

    Hiah oooooooohhhhhhhh. U nu don here am. Leave six pack broke ass thirsty men aloooooonneeeeeeee. A broke guy has broken confidence, broken ego, a fat cheap on his shoulder. You can never fix a broken guy ohhhhhhhhhh.myou need to leave them alone to FIX THEM BROKEN SELF. Tiwa u see am. You for ask the mother of his children wetin them see.. Ladies over to you. Sounds like you got yourself one hell of a %%%%%% demon. Hummmmm ! Good luck to you tiwa. Upon all the rubbish drug taking, men ashawo tinz you still go carry belle. Na WA ohhhhhh. Infact babe you need to go test for STDS. LIKE SERIOUSLY. You need to protect your child from him. He’s a druggie, he hates you and will harm anyone you love to get back at you. It’s time to Grow up little girl. You need to get angry and into full protective mode. It’s war. Don’t be backmailed by this wasteman. Tiwa sha you fall hand.

  124. MyTake

    April 29, 2016 at 10:43 pm

    Tiwa and TeeBillz are as bad as each other, Tiwa was shagging Cecil Hammond, She slept with Tuface while Tunji was downstairs in the hotel lobby, and Tunji sometimes pimped her out, they had an arrangement and it worked fine for them until one of them decided to change the rules of the game, one had an advantage that made the other resentful, bitter and miserable.
    This interview just goes to show how fake Tiwa is, you stole someone else’s husband and you complain of his womanising ways, forgetting you used to be his side chick. What goes around comes around, I don’t feel sorry of them, they deserved each other.
    The only victim here is baby Jamil.

    • oluseunplenty

      April 29, 2016 at 11:30 pm

      someone said this same thing last night we were talking about this and i wonder, how do u guys know all this?? huhhh

    • Olope

      April 30, 2016 at 1:40 am

      Because they were in the room with them now. How else would they have known? You sef.

    • Jokesadsa

      April 30, 2016 at 1:31 am

      Bring receipts or keep quiet ??

  125. The girl who drinks kai kai

    April 29, 2016 at 10:48 pm

    I am just crying up and down!
    I feel so sad!
    Let me sleep in my bed alone without husband or [email protected] least no one is cheating on me!
    I shall just drink Tanqueray and be sad or oolong tea!
    Azuka Ogujiuba is a sad person and everyone knows.

    • Mrs. A

      April 30, 2016 at 1:44 pm

      Oh get over yourself. There are many happy marriages.

  126. Florence

    April 29, 2016 at 10:49 pm

    Azuka, you are a terrible interviewer. I don’t know how you are in the media. We really do celebrate mediocrity. You are everywhere on every red carpet doing PR and this is how you interview? Wow

  127. Agape

    April 29, 2016 at 10:50 pm

    Tiwa, please know you’re in my prayers. This too shall pass.

  128. maymay

    April 29, 2016 at 10:56 pm

    am not surprise cos I saw dis coming since d day he started cheating on his wife just to marry u. wot goes around comes around. It’s time to feel d pain his first wife felt when he dumped her for u..women dis will serve as a lesson to all gbokogboko..money n fame has nothing to do with love. tiwa use ur money now..U can call me heartless, trust me..I no send anybody..this is karma n it came so fast…am a woman but I wiĺ never crash another woman’s happiness just to have mine…Stella Damascus urs is on it’s way.

    • ohhhSoNawtii

      April 30, 2016 at 5:45 am

      Hush it there abeg, so karma only affects women abi? The man can jump from woman to woman with no repercussions.. Hypocrite!

  129. Arcmidi

    April 29, 2016 at 10:57 pm

    I felt so uncomfortable watching this interview solely because the interviewer did such a poor job….was she star struck or sthg, she literally couldn’t finish her sentences she kept stuttering, very sad

  130. Nma

    April 29, 2016 at 10:57 pm

    First of, this interviewer is atrocious, seriously atrocious. She has no interviewing skills, zilch eye contact, zero body language.

    Tiwa really dug into specifics didn’t she. My goodness, as she spoke, i was picturing mentally how things really happened.

  131. Nma

    April 29, 2016 at 11:00 pm

    Not to mention, her grammar is appalling, unpolished and just plane razz!!!

    • GP

      April 30, 2016 at 12:45 am

      “Plain” razz…madam good grammar

  132. Anonymous

    April 29, 2016 at 11:00 pm

    Tiwa I can feel ur pain cus I am in a similar situation too. Mine marriage is not even up to a year yet and I have been through a lot. We recently had a very dramatic issue this week and I am yet to recover from it. Been wondering how long can this continue? Your happiness comes first and don’t let anyone take that away from u. You are so brave to even speak up now…the good lord will continue to be with u and ur son…..the signs are always there but we choose to always ignore them. Love u tiwa.

  133. Whocares

    April 29, 2016 at 11:03 pm

    “I’m even praying that let him be with another woman so I know he is safe”… Sigh. I almost cried watching this I won’t lie..people telling her not to talk are stupid. Women never talk and that is the problem. Talk. Talk is therapeutic , and she will be fine. Better than before. Gosh that man is a fuck boy. I real y realllly really want to do some, no a lot of physcial damage to him. Depression or not. I also want to bitch slap the interviewer. She is getting on my damned nerves. Gods I am just so angry and sad. I woudlnt wish this on my enemy.

    • Whocares

      April 29, 2016 at 11:18 pm

      She looks soo drained as well. She will be fine. I hope she is getting enormous support from her friends and famiy. Love is a bitch man.

  134. oyin

    April 29, 2016 at 11:06 pm

    Tiwa, you should have kept to yourself and not do this video. the household and friendly enemies around you are rejoicing. You are a star and you allowed aiye to destroy your home. Even after the divorce, its only ridicule from the same so-called well-wishers. I hope you recover quietly and raise your baby with dignity. Single mama and man drama are NOT anything you want to embrace in Naija or Yankee, I pray God restores you and you come back better in Jesus Name, but keep the world out of it. please for the sake of your child, this stuff is permanent marker on the internet and the world will use it against you in the future

  135. oyin

    April 29, 2016 at 11:07 pm

    this is why less is always more, shine your shine but keep your home sacred and private.

  136. Beverly Asemota

    April 29, 2016 at 11:07 pm

    This is such a fake interview. Why tie your hair like you are a deeper life Church member. And that pretentious sound of cry. Everything you have said may be true, but this whole charade is just annoying. I am not judging you, I probably will do worse in suchsituation, but I won’t pretend to share crocodile tears.

    • Right

      April 30, 2016 at 12:03 am

      You’re not judging… So pray tell what you call this? Criticism? Oh ok. SMH

    • Judge

      April 30, 2016 at 12:48 am

      Don’t mind this nonsense person oh. Beverly please enter dictionary and look for the meaning of judging. Your picture will be there I’m sure.
      Nonsense!

    • Olope

      April 30, 2016 at 1:42 am

      She is comforting. Easy.

  137. Kemi

    April 29, 2016 at 11:10 pm

    Firstly this interview is totally unnecessary at least not so soon.

    Secondly what I can deduce from this whole drama is that they both have their faults. Going by this interview I find it so astonishing that Tiwa kept going on about” paying the bills”, “trying to find money to….”, “Tee Billz not spending money on their son”, Tee Billz being broke”, “Tee Billz stealing from her etc”. This overpossessiveness over finances is one of the key problems in their marriage. For goodness sake your wealth should be your husband’s and vice versa. You are married for goodness sake. His problem should be your problem and his happiness and success should also be yours, not because you did not want things to come out to the press or that you wanted to cover up for him. With all the success in your career, album sales , endorsement deals money should not be an issue in your marriage. Besides this man contributed to your career and believed in you even when nobody did (according to you in previous interview). Because of this same career, you guys both relocated to Nigeria from USA, you …….

    This marriage was apparently built on weak foundation, I guess all the fanfare of celebrity wedding made you to forget about some fundamental preparations in courtship such as counselling. Marriage isn’t a walk in the park, it requires hardwork, commitment and sacrifice from both parties.

    Lastly infidelity in marriage is a no no. I hope you guys can find a way of working thing out, at least for the sake of your son.

    • mrs chidukane

      April 30, 2016 at 12:37 am

      There’s nothing like over possessiveness of possession abi money. If I’m paying all the bills then sweetie you have to curtail your expenditure. This applies whether male or female. You want to drive Mercedes, pay a mopol to bodyguard you though no-one knows you, wear Rolex and so on too numerous to mention when you’re not earning a dime. It’s enough to get anyone resentful. I’ll work all day and you want to be enjoying anyhow!

    • Mrs. A

      April 30, 2016 at 1:41 pm

      You are very stupid, my darling. But carry on.

  138. oluseunplenty

    April 29, 2016 at 11:12 pm

    oh my oh my!!! one thing have learn from this whole drama is never to envy anyone” marriage on social media and use it as a yardstick for yours. not everything is what it seems…..
    now its clear why Tj wanted to commit suicide , it was apparently cos of the money he owned, not because he was tired of his marriage, he” s broke and his source of income left him already.
    i was expecting Tiwa not to comment at all like Toke but she”s an adult and if she feels she has done the right thing by spilling it all, good for her, guess it all in a way to help her brand as well.. i pray God help u guys in whatever decision y’all decide to take.

    • A

      April 30, 2016 at 8:28 am

      yea but the difference is Maje never bashed or disrespected Toke on instagram despite their differences….Tunji totally disrespected Tiwa and is basically trying to mess with her money and image.

  139. Ope

    April 29, 2016 at 11:12 pm

    I’ve read comments m all. 1) did tiwa tell you her mum called her husband a gold digger?
    2)Did tow tell you guys his dad flew to meet her parents in jand and sounded them mad ass warning not to sat such. Wah u going so when your mum inlaw calls u a gold digger? After investing resources n time?

    • Jester

      April 30, 2016 at 12:50 am

      What on earth is this one saying oh?

    • Agape

      April 30, 2016 at 3:59 am

      That’s you and me both wondering. You and me both!

  140. Oya na

    April 29, 2016 at 11:14 pm

    We may be divided abt Tiwa and T…but we all agree dt ds interviewer own no good!
    PulseTV whr did u guys dig up ds interviewer from?? Did u guys do ds to mock us or Tiwa or even d edible catering…

  141. Gbamm

    April 29, 2016 at 11:16 pm

    Tiwa sounds like a kenyan oh. On a serious note, this is a serious matter. I hope things work out in terms of reconciliation so that they can co-parent their son. U people self, if she is quiet, you talk, if she talks, you tell her not to cut. This is closure on her part, a woman scorned

  142. MyTake

    April 29, 2016 at 11:16 pm

    Bella Naija, why are you sleeping on my comment, awon enabler oshi, owa lara yin, o n ba yi lo……

  143. Stay strong Tiwa!

    April 29, 2016 at 11:16 pm

    Silence is golden? Even when many other families are involved? Big NO!!! Also verbally abusing her by saying he made her who she is today is just a no no!! Y’all saying she should have laid low, remained silent, followed the toke path, hmmmm…I pray you don’t stay silent till death.

  144. Ope

    April 29, 2016 at 11:17 pm

    Did she tell you about Nuel ojeh? Folarin cokwr?

  145. Keke

    April 29, 2016 at 11:18 pm

    .

  146. Tobereal

    April 29, 2016 at 11:18 pm

    Contact..Edible catering conjures up all sorts of sexual connotations….
    He should sober up..get help..from LA to 9ja..same tori!!
    Tiwa has to live her life..a good man should compliment his wife…and be considerate..
    What’s the biggie..Wife hustles comes back tired..make her a lil meal…lil massage …ask her…how was ur day?
    Man be surprised how loving and appreciative she would be..
    Feel 4 them and early marriage… but Tiwa must keep distancre 4 now…

  147. Keke

    April 29, 2016 at 11:19 pm

    Tiwa, if you consider yourself a celebrity you didn’t needs to do this interview, it was just too soon, people are always going to speculate.
    You also looked very rough, not very composed with your speech….. MMMMMMM. It’s a pity no one to advice you.
    The whole story is very sad BUT you’re a celebrity, I know you’re human. But you just put yourself down to his level.
    I hope the interviewer feels happy with herself, you are hurting very much, you are very vulnerable, this shouldn’t have been done.
    Well what’s have a has been doing, you are still very beautiful, I hope you can get yourself back together, please no more talking.

  148. chief

    April 29, 2016 at 11:19 pm

    first of all,as a man i’m not buying what she’s saying.He made you and he has the right to come to his house at any time.Another reason why my wife will never earn more than me, now i know why TJ felt disrespected.No big deal 99% of.Men cheats all the time..Rubbish…..

    • forchiefmoron

      April 29, 2016 at 11:30 pm

      you are a sad, PATHETIC excuse for a man and i pray you end up with someone that will treat you exactly as you treat her, Idiot.

    • polarized

      April 30, 2016 at 12:56 am

      Chief chief!

      The Oba of Stupidity
      The Eze of Idiocy
      The Emir of Foolishness

      How you dey? Long time oh!

    • Olope

      April 30, 2016 at 1:46 am

      Responding to you is no use. Oya, crawl back into the hole you crawled out of.

    • lola

      April 30, 2016 at 3:03 am

      you are very dumb.

  149. Lovelyhannah

    April 29, 2016 at 11:25 pm

    TIWA shouldn’t have gone public with an interview, she should hAve been the wise one, Divorce him privately and walk away quietly.
    Lesson learned is not all that glitter is gold, and for all young girls out there, watch before you leap. I think the marriage was doomed from Day one. How can you marry a guy that snort cocaine !!!
    Lesson two, most of the fake big boys in Nigeria are pretender, empty vessels with no weight. Most Nigerian men are fake beware of fine boy no money for pocket.
    @Tiwa dust yourself, return to England and rebuild your life.

    By the way, the interviewer needs to brush up her skill set. If I was the CEO of Pulse TV I will sack her on the spot. Did she get that position through the backdoor just asking??????

  150. nicole

    April 29, 2016 at 11:25 pm

    I have two things to say

    1. The interviewer deserves to be sacked. Not only does she speak horrible english, she was off point, didn’t understand the complexity of the issue at hand, and looked completely stupid throughout. Pls if you can’t interview properly stay off TV. Thank u

    2. This story is just a wake up call for all you thirsty and desparate girls who are in a rush to get married. MARRIAGE IS NOT GOING TO BE ROSY AND FUN! Mothers, stop pressuring your daughters to get married. Just because she is “already 25” does not mean she should enter any relatsionship and get stuck. TAKE YOUR TIME. There is no prize for first girl to get married. If you are feeling depressed that all your mates are having children, and u dont even have a ring on your finger, THINK TWICE. People looked at tiwa’s fantasy wedding in Dubai and were asking “God where is my own ooo?”, now, 2 years after the marriage is crumbling. Not everything is as it seems! Girls, stop rushing into relationships, stop pitying yourself because you’re 30 and single. ITS OKAY TO BE SINGLE. Life is a competition but marriage is NOT. Don’t go and rush into a relationship because of peer pressure or because of money or what u see on tv. pray to God to lead you! Tiwa’s story should convince women out there especially in Africa that all this “hurry and marry” advice does more harm than good!!!

    • Dee

      April 30, 2016 at 12:17 am

      no, no you are wrong there.
      life isnt a competition,it doesn’t matter how long mr A achieved that goal even though he finished school same time as mr B whose still working on his and of the same age with MR C who hasn’t even started.
      No single persons race here on earth is the same, everyone’s time is different.so neither is marriage or life a competition.

  151. Abbih

    April 29, 2016 at 11:25 pm

    Tiwa, let me make it clear to you guys once you lots stop putting stuff on social media then you guys would feel happier. You didn’t know if you should wish ur hubby happy birthday bcos of what ppl will say… And if you put it they will Still talk…. Na WA oh. Why are you apologising , that means you didn’t have tunji’s time and he felt neglected and all that.

  152. Adesuwa

    April 29, 2016 at 11:25 pm

    I can’t but wonder how apathetic we are as NIgerians. We loved dramas for the wrong reasons, we love to see people’s vulnerable side for also the wrong reason. I am a woman and I totally connect with Tiwa. Although, I haven’t walked in your shoes but I can feel your pain and I actually cried just watching this interview. I also thought that the person interviewing was a lil bit nauseating because of her approach. I really do love your work Tiwa and I know you are such a talented individual too. Don’t let this break you, we all have done something we ain’t proud of at one point in our lives so I never judge people. However, I think you need to talk to a specialist to help build your mental security before from the comments have been reading you have to be strong to handle all this alone. My sister is a mind therapist and she’s good in helping people go through challenging things like this. You can call her on +234 810 683 6707. She would be happy to help you. I love you girl don’t stop shining!

  153. Hey

    April 29, 2016 at 11:27 pm

    Let’s hear from daddy freeze tomorrow ehn. He must have something to say .lol

    Tiwa sorry dear . it is well with you .

    Baby jamil, you will be fine dearie by His grace .

  154. AmaBee

    April 29, 2016 at 11:27 pm

    Lol @ the Interviewer- where did they get her from ? Terrible intervewing skills, posture, rubbish questions and just generally a very unprofessional approach .Everything done in the dark will surely come to light. Wishing Tiwa and TJ a time of healing . Namaste ?

  155. pelu

    April 29, 2016 at 11:28 pm

    This is Hogwash! Why should she Grant an interview?????? The Full Makeup and Headtie? Looking like a Widow?? So unfortunate. Stage managed….. It’s clear this is so fake. She clearly drove him off the bend. Pray for them……. I will not be buying anything she endorses!

  156. Vilala

    April 29, 2016 at 11:34 pm

    I think tj tried to kill himself because of the huge debt… But mehh I don’t wanna be judgemental tho.. But I love tiwa and can’t blame her for this interview, everyone has a right speak out, freedom of speech is allowed. By the way tj brought it out to social media for us to involve our opinions.. I just pray God heals them both ????that’s for tiwa alone

  157. Femi

    April 29, 2016 at 11:35 pm

    Poor Tiwa I pity for her

    femdevcon.blogspot.com

  158. Friend

    April 29, 2016 at 11:37 pm

    Wen Excetra said she was marrying a second hand husband,she abused him and said s lot of things,now we can see DAT all he was saying den was true,a man DAT abandoned his former wife to be with u will surely do d same to you.I pray God gives her the strength to move on and not make anoda mistake as funke Akindele is making now.

  159. Opraah

    April 29, 2016 at 11:38 pm

    Tiwa! May God heal your heart in Jesus name. Amen

  160. nameo

    April 29, 2016 at 11:40 pm

    The interviewer is so dull….she is not a professional at all….TIWA nothing do u,some husbands are a huge pain in the butt.

  161. Tami

    April 29, 2016 at 11:45 pm

    God will heal your marriage

  162. Ibbzblogs

    April 29, 2016 at 11:46 pm

    Nigerians! Nigerians! Nigerians!
    And when they say what’s wrong with our country, we’re quick to point to ppl in the government. Y’all need serious prayer… Haven’t seen bunch of sadist and religious hypocrites in my life. So judgemental for no reason. Please we need to do better, everyone of us.

    That said, I cannot fault Tiwa for the way she’s approaching this. I can’t judge her. Is it too soon? Maybe. Is it the wrong approach? I can’t say. I don’t know her thought process. I’m not in her shoes and neither is any of you, I can only empathize and pray there’s a peaceful resolution in this, and that both, especially Jamil, are happy. This was heavy to watch and I see the hurt, betrayal and frustration… I just pray all ends well for these two.

  163. Tami

    April 29, 2016 at 11:47 pm

    This interview wasn’t necessary you should have left it the way it was and let God take control

  164. Wilfred musa

    April 29, 2016 at 11:48 pm

    The interviewer is the worst i have ever seen. Zero command of presence and very drab! She almost made viewing a serious bore. Gosh!!!!

  165. Tami

    April 29, 2016 at 11:48 pm

    Women need to learn to prat for there husband

    • arelis

      April 30, 2016 at 11:39 am

      U are a fool @tami! ! wot happened to d husband praying for d wife? that’s how u will pray and die all bcos u wanna answer Mrs. thunder fire u there. idiot. U are all that is wrong wiv dull n stupid ppl n den sum more. so wish I cld slap u right now.

  166. Anony

    April 29, 2016 at 11:50 pm

    Tiwa is a saint ooo!!can’t believe she answered some of the questions thetc interviewer asked her!Tj God is watching you in 3d. A lot of women are going through what she is going through, tiwa thanks for speaking out and encouraging other women. I am praying for you

  167. Angela black

    April 29, 2016 at 11:50 pm

    My goodness,why have we nigerian lost our ethics?Why do we comment like we don’t have conscience anymore.Why do we judge people and condemn what is good?If you are a woman and you have commented against Tiwa,You are evil…What does the bible say about marriage?Listen, to all the men,if u are sitting down and a woman is funding your bills,u are better dead.Tiwa u took a lot and that wat the bible says of a virtuous woman and the bible says anything that causes you anger,cut it off.She has done nothing wrong,coming on air to defend herself.To all you idiots,saying rubbish about her,u are evil and stupid.If Tiwa was ur sister,will u like her to be treated like that..Her husband should go n put his life together and make a living for himself n stop living off a woman.Shameless dick head!!Please let him go n jump into the lagoons,cos that where he belongs.

    • Folasade Omo Ibadan

      April 30, 2016 at 12:02 am

      Thank you very much

  168. bibi

    April 29, 2016 at 11:52 pm

    This is the worst interviewer I’ve ever seen in my life!!! Pls don’t ever do an interview again. Go fry akara or sell Brazilian hair or something!! Shameful!

  169. @DREDMANSTORM

    April 29, 2016 at 11:56 pm

    Hmmm I am just speechless! who am i to blame anyone? never! I so so much love Tiwa very much,shes the wife i never had and i dont want to be judgmental. I sure know the blame must be from someone among them, the whole thing started after the wedding the HipTv issue bla bla bla you and i also know where the fault came from but still i follow the bible says dou shall not judge. I have just one word for both of them, You guys are married with a kid and no doubt about it i see no reason why you want a divorce now, when you talking about marriage alot of thing comes along with it, good and bad. thats where you know how stronger your relationship… why not forget about everything and keep the shit to your self plus never forget to put it all in prayer and build the happy home back. If you both agreed on divorce then you are both wrong, Dont let the child feel the pain in future, its not all about the money but the feelings… if you cant come together because of your self why not for the child sake pls. Dont destroy the little boy future pls Tiwa/TeeBillz you guys can settle the whole issue and make it privacy. Baby Mama Baby Father doesnt help the kid.

  170. Aiye

    April 30, 2016 at 12:03 am

    Honestly, I didn’t need this interview to know that tbillz is a bum ass Nigga. An underachieving lazy ass that doesn’t wanna to work or be about anything. At this rate he should have just jumped and left the building. Only thing worse than starting this shit show is to be alive to witness this repercussion. I stand with Tiwa and wish her the best. As for mr billz u are dunzo my friend. This was your last chance to get it right but you bungled it. All the best my friend cos you go need am.

  171. Dee

    April 30, 2016 at 12:03 am

    Marry a responsible man/woman that’s Gods Fearing …. no you wouldn’t listen, I like them hippie …. Hip hip huraaaay!
    Marry someone who at least has a job and not just idle …… No, he has potential, have you heard of his is idea, they cost millions.
    Don’t endure behaviour in relationship ….. No, he/she will change when we get married
    Xxxxxxxxx
    Whatever you put up with in a relationship, be ready till endure in marriage. People only pretend for as long as they want, as long as it takes them to achieve their aim (e.g marriage) once they’ve achieved that, they start to show their true self and when they don’t get what they want, if the money or whatever (the original purpose for getting into the marriage) isn’t fulfilled as they thought it would, prior to the marriage, they will seem like they are acting out( although this is just them revealing who they really are)

    Xxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Open your eyes ladies, open it very wide!!!! Men these days are also gold diggers gone are the days were it was only the woman referred to be gold digging, Tables have turned around o, Packaging is so real in this our generation.
    NEVER EVER get carried away looking at superficial things In a partner, he/she drives a Range Rover, he stays in banana island, he wears designer labels etc. It really isn’t as you see it, sometimes all you see it’s ALL that’s been packaged, and ALL that there is, NO MORE not even for you or the unborn kids. Remember all that glitters isn’t always Gold.

    Xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    Rather Look for substance, are they God fearing, will they love me like Christ loved the church, Is there character of integrity, how do they treat other people, are they wicked( real life: my ex once told me he was wicked and he was only learning to be nice because of me *gulp!* are they true to themselves (false life, is a horrible thing, having 50k and wanting to spend/act on 500k) this are a few things to look out for and all other things will fall in place.

    • Sisi

      April 30, 2016 at 1:42 pm

      Amen! This is what people done understand, they think marriage is one big unserious thing that you just do and get aso ebi and take pictures and dance and eat then drive off into the sunset. It can redirect your whole destiny if you marry the wrong man or woman. Be true to yourself and listen. Not everyone who advises you or tells you what you don’t want to hear is a hater. Every critique – assess and ask if this is true is it something I can deal with. Learn to say no ladies, it’s not by force to marry and certainly not when you know deep inside of you something isn’t right. This is not about money people, rather character. You can take money away from some people and it will never change the way the treat you!

      Like Tiwa said she made a mistake. I pray the God of second chance will make all things right with her in his perfect time. For now she’s just going to have to ride this wave out whether discretely or in the lime light. She had every right to defend herself against someone who wanted to destroy her because he had destroyed himself. Very selfish and manipulative behavior. She did reveal rather a lot in my opinion however she’s just probably trying to put it all in context so you can actually understand the depth of his problem and the pain he has caused. Of course she is not blame free and could have responded without all the extra……………….I would love to know her thinking behind it. Is it insurance for should he do something to himself or payback? They should have never married themselves in my opinion.

  172. Newyorkbawler

    April 30, 2016 at 12:07 am

    Aight right quick ; just read the first line and BN ahhs already gots a comment for yall. How u gon call that a ‘chat’?!? That aint no chat- that waa a bloodbath of an expose yo i mean did we watch the same video or kini gbogbo yi ?

  173. Abi

    April 30, 2016 at 12:10 am

    Tunji had a sense of entitlement over Tiwa and everything was fine up until he was cut offas her manager. The guy felt he made her and turned her into a start and therefore saw the marriage as his money-making venture. The only mistake Tiwa made was getting married to him. All the signs were there. Ladies, if you make excuses for your man either in your mind or to other people, please know that your marriage ended before it began.

    Shout out to all the loving husband who take care of their women and put them first at all times. You guys are the real MVP. If you are married to such a man, please appreciate him cos as you can see, their type is scarce.

  174. LolaLovesTiwa

    April 30, 2016 at 12:13 am

    Anonymous said…
    Tiwa
    I never gave a toss about you.
    Not for any reason in particular,but just because I just never was into your music.

    But I will tell you something today.
    Keep moving.
    May God guide you as you start a new chapter in your life.
    Both with your son and your career.

    So many of us women have made this mistake.
    Loving the wrong man..
    Carrying the burden of useless men

    Difference is,some of us marry them,while some of us only date and break up with them.

    The ONLY thing you are guilty of is loving this man!

    He had NO right to say all he said about you!
    He had NO right to do that at all!
    He is a wicked soul from the deepest parts of hell!
    His mission was to turn people against you,and kill your career!

    He believed in you and supported you,and so?
    Is that why he should keep dangling that over your head?

    To all those who have cursed and judged this lady,better as God for forgiveness.

    Tiwa,you will be fine.
    Keep your head up.

    We the sensible women of this world stand with you,by you and for you!

    I cried watching you cry!
    And I am a notorious ice queen.

    Get ready for random attacks online.
    But what does it matter?

    Channel all the negativity into your music!

    Stay strong!
    God bless you!

    And wherever I see you,i promise you a hug!

    My name is Lola!
    And I stand with Tiwa!

    **PS
    Don’t you EVER let this define you.

  175. MysticD

    April 30, 2016 at 12:14 am

    How did this interviewer get this job? Can someone please sack her. Please sack her!!!!

  176. Smhsmh

    April 30, 2016 at 12:17 am

    Teebillz should address his mental health and beg his creditors to give him time to pay off the 45 million gbese. He was most likely self medicating Bipolar disorder with cocaine and alcohol. Really sad. Hope he gets the help he needs.
    Tiwa, kpele oh. I hope things work out for you and baby Jamil. May you be lucky in love the next time around.
    Edible catering and awon association of side chicks, your own dey wait you for front.

  177. kayla

    April 30, 2016 at 12:18 am

    All this pampers talk.. Isn’t Jamjam a pampers baby and has a lifetime supply of pampers? Why should Tunji be buying pampers? Abi the ad na wash too?
    This was too much detail…Best thing to have done was ‘sing’ about it….No point adding fuel to fire. Tomorrow he would come and add to it…He has nothing to lose and Tiwa has everything to lose.

  178. Chinelo

    April 30, 2016 at 12:18 am

    I think the interviewer did a good job at being unbiased and asking questions that everyone wanted to hear the answer from tiwa. I think the interview vindicated tiwa. Tiwa herself wanted to answer those questions. She could have stopped the interview at any point but she didn’t. That to me shows that she had vetted the question before hand and was comfortable with them.

  179. MysticD

    April 30, 2016 at 12:19 am

    Dear lovely lady Tiwa, when I was telling you that I’m better and more responsible than that Tunji; you said that I don’t have style. Okay, shey you see what style/swag has done to you. You see your life?!?!

  180. LolaLovesTiwa

    April 30, 2016 at 12:22 am

    And Azuka Oguijuiba
    What a mess!!
    You have never fitted into any role you found yourself
    Did you handle style at ThisDay?
    Yet,there was absolutely NOTHING stylish about you!

    Now you conduct interviews?
    You are so cold,unpolished,crass!
    For something this sensitive,that requires depth,connection to the subject,probably Funmi Iyanda!(yes,even if for a one-off)

    Please Azuka,look for your true career in life
    What a joke
    Vibe I got was “abeg wetin dey do this one,na today marriage dey crash”
    F9 Azuka!

  181. James

    April 30, 2016 at 12:26 am

    So here’s my two cents.

    Everyone is going on about women suffering in silence and feeling sorry for Tiwa etc. I hear una.

    BUT, the THREE MEN who were named by TeeBillz have NOT said anything. NO public sign of support. NO denying what TeeBillz said? NOTHING. Absolutely NOTHING!!

    As a Nigerian man myself. THIS DISGUSTS me! If what TeeBillz said about Tiwa was a lie, they should QUICKLY have denied it. I don’t care what medium, social media, on the news. It doesn’t matter. Tiwa is a colleague of theirs. They should respect her enough and support her. I don’t care if you are a celebrity, a banker a pharmacist etc. If someone accuses me of sleeping with a married woman when I did not, I WILL DENY IT right away! What is my silence for? Am I mute because I have been accused?

    What are these men doing? They are all keeping quiet. Why must it be on Tiwa to do this interview? Why must it be on the woman to vindicate herself? Why Why WHY???? (PS I do not believe in reaching out to her in silence when this ordeal has already become so public)

    I am so ANGRY. Nigerian men just sit back and do nothing when they are wrong. Will these men mentioned ever do anything? No. They will say, oh it does not concern me. Let me not get involved. Etc. It CONCERNS you. Nigerian men should start SPEAKING up against issues like this.

    • The real Ibinabo

      April 30, 2016 at 9:24 am

      I suspect those men are keeping quiet due to the respect they have for Tiwa. They want her to handle the issue her way and don’t want to hurl insults at TeeBills

    • G

      May 1, 2016 at 9:08 pm

      I believe Tiwa did have something something with the list of men. In HER PAST before she got married. in as much respect for their respective wives this is kitchen table talk. Their respective wives are aware and don’t need to be reviving the past. The past is the PAST.

      So TJ was only calling those names and also stated that it was her past. But he called those names to tarnish her public reputation to that of a loose girl. We critize others what we hate within ourselves. TJ tried to use all those excapades to boast his ego but his conscience wouldn’t give him peace. He also saw himself like a gigolo.
      Everybody in this world has got an ex, so be it which circle you hang out we’r all separated by 6 degrees.
      What makes me believe she might have had with Dr Sid was her demeanor at his wedding. I said ah Tiwa why dress like that naw??? I wasn’t too happy. (this reminded me of an acquaintance that attended a mutual friend’s wedding. ehm you need to see the half nakedness of the aseobi; passive aggressive. Please let me not digress but you can imagine the reason behind it. Man palava matter).
      There’s a group picture at Dr Sid’s wedding I think they were all at the altar and Tiwa’s body language was like she was uncomfortable next to Dr Sid. I said to myself ah why she posing like some ex girlfriend. Like she had to attend the wedding out of obligation due to the fact that they are colleagues.
      I commend her for her courage and honesty. There are still some diillusional married women who are terrorising the single ladies to get married.
      I take home the lesson to really work on myself, no predator will snif any insecurity to feed on. Know my self worth and be patient. For we attract what we got. What we tolerate we accept.

  182. ANGRY

    April 30, 2016 at 12:29 am

    i swear this interviewer made everything an eyesore. Nigerian TV stations PLEASE i beg you, hire people who can do the job well. Azuka Ogujuiba you’re a disgrace to the world of media. How can u call yourself an interviewer yet you showed ZERO sympathy, couldn’t even ask questions like a literate, couldn’t speak audibly? Please if i ever see this woman on tv again i will ask people to sign a petition to sack her forever. Foolish idiot

    • Like seriously ...

      April 30, 2016 at 2:33 pm

      Interviewers are nor supposed to show empathy but remain impartial. That being said, I agree with your other points.

  183. Mimi

    April 30, 2016 at 12:30 am

    My heart bleeds for Tiwa but I think she was ill advised to do this interview. She is clearly emotionally unstable and that interviewer was just cold. A statement in writing would have been enough. However, this goes as a warning to ladies out there not to envy other women as you do not know the struggle behind close doors. The Bible says that those who compare themselves with each other are not wise.

    Also, this should be as a warning to ladies to watch out for signs in a man before you marry him. Do not follow the crowd, by thinking my biological clock is ticking (God can restore your youth when you have children), all my friends are getting married, I am lonely, friends and family are asking me when am I getting married. So what??? Let people say what they want to say. It is all about God’s timing. Shut them down politely but firmly and keep it moving. Even if the guy comes, do your thorough investigation with no stone left unturned. Get your family, good friends and your church leaders involved. Marriage is not a small matter no one ever wants to end up in divorce. So you have to follow your intuition especially as a woman if the writing is on the wall that you are unequally yoked. This also applies to guys that want to get married.

    I just pray that God gives Tiwa the peace in this difficult time that transcends all understanding. Continue to pray for him and be a loving mother to your son. If it is God’s will for you to marry again in future you will but please shine ya eyes that time around.

    • red pill male

      April 30, 2016 at 12:56 pm

      Well said. Unfortunately, the world we live in today is much different than the one our parents lived in. Quality men and women are hard to find and young people simply do not understand what marriage entails. Like I keep saying, a marriage is more than a wedding, its more than instagram photos and hashtags.

  184. Naaatoday!!!

    April 30, 2016 at 12:32 am

    TIWA_If we analyse what the two parties have said, properly without taking sides. Tiwa was wrong to have sacked her husband, knowing sure that the Job was his major source of income. \she should have resolve the issue in house. Tiwa said people advised her on what she should be paying her husband, who are the people, why should you report your husband,’s mismanagement of money to outsiders, you expect them to clap for u? of-course you will surely get the wrong advice from them. she has forgotten that this man is her husband and her manager. Money issue can easily be resolve when the right people are involved. The whole problem escalated after the sack, things can never remain the same, she broke what they both share , what keeps them united…its a pity, you didn’t get the right advice.

    TeeBliz- You f**k up big time, you should know better as a manger to be accountable and even if u had messed up with money, you should swallow ur pride and apologize to ur wife and make sure you put things straight.

    Man, you have problems in your personal life to fix..u blaming everyone including your dad for your present problem, what happened to u dad happened so u could learn from it qand not make the same mistake. man! u sick up there and u need help… if you want to divorce your wife , u don’t have to come on the social media….u didn’t consider effects on ur personal life and the life of ur friends, family and son…man! u need help..and stop blaming everyone for ur problem

    • Regina

      April 30, 2016 at 6:13 am

      He. Was. STEALING. From. Her. That is why she fired his tired ass. Husband or no, you don’t keep a thief on staff.

    • Mrs. A

      April 30, 2016 at 1:44 pm

      You are stupid oh.

  185. concerned9a

    April 30, 2016 at 12:33 am

    Yeah shame on the women hating on Tiwa…dislike the word but her fame makes people jealous…like other 9ja successful women..they like to see them fail…

  186. Ajsin Bobbi

    April 30, 2016 at 12:39 am

    Tiwa am so glad you walking away . I don’t want to see a remix of Whitney Houston and Bobbi Brown. This will be the best decision you will ever make in your life, for your own well being and that of your child. One more advice , keep a low profile from now onwards. Let your talent do all the speaking for you. You can never win everyone over There will always be negative comments around , ignore all negativity. In general you can’t satisfy human beings. Even our prophets had enemies not to talk of us mere humans , so always have it at the back of your mind that enemies will always be around. My heart goes out to you . Stay strong , pull ur chin up n head high continue slaying and winning . Much love

  187. subzero

    April 30, 2016 at 12:40 am

    I have a few things to say:
    1. It’s her right to grant an interview and say whatever she wants to. After all, her (ex) husband put his on social media. She’s a celeb so she needed to clear her name.
    2. For those men and women that think that marriage is about cooking for the man, you certainly need help! If you (or your husbands like), don’t learn how to take care of yourselves.
    3. Yes, the interviewer should have done a better job in terms of speaking but emotion-wise, I do not think she needed to be empathetic or pick sides so I think it was good that she kept a blank face.
    4. Whether or not she slept with the names mentioned before marriage is nobody’s business as long as she did not cheat on him. If the guy was a virgin himself, how did he have the pre-existing children? It’s so sad that we come from and live in a country where women are judged stupidly for everything.
    Good luck Tiwa and make sure you pull an Adele with this situation. xoxo

    • Ibi

      April 30, 2016 at 4:01 pm

      His baby mama (the original one) must be dancing shoki right now

  188. LemmeRant

    April 30, 2016 at 12:46 am

    No wonder he won commit suicide- 45 million naira.

    Omo you are on own o.

    Oya EFCC do your job.

    • LemmeRant

      April 30, 2016 at 12:48 am

      Buh on a lighter note — linda and uche can help nah since u’ve made so much 4rm dier story.

      Oya #teamLinda and #teamUche to the rescue.

      Lets save this useless man.

    • Like seriously ...

      April 30, 2016 at 11:56 am

      Amen ohhhhhh

  189. fatou

    April 30, 2016 at 12:46 am

    Dear i Love you very Much but you dont need to say all this in the media, some things Are better lett private and move on.

    • Like seriously ...

      April 30, 2016 at 11:54 am

      So he assassinates her character, spreads out media lies to play victims, and you are saying she shouldn’t have said all this to the media? You would have done the same. I swear that the biggest problem for us women and why we continue to be disrespected is other women. The small minded, backward thinking ones. Like you, Fatou

  190. Mashoodat

    April 30, 2016 at 12:46 am

    i just finished watching this video, and this is my thoughts. I think Tiwa shared too much. It’s not anyone’s business what you are dealing with in your marriage. You are known for your great music. Leave it at that. You don’t owe anyone an explanation. Take a page out Beyoncé book, when Solange beat the crap out of Jay Z, she did not say a word. You should have done the same. You leave people judging you and they don’t even know you. You alone know the truth. You know who you are. That should be enough.

    • Like seriously ...

      April 30, 2016 at 11:51 am

      Beyonce also came out with Lemonade last week. That is , ore recent than the elevator incident 2 years ago. So what is your point?

    • Like seriously ...

      April 30, 2016 at 1:45 pm

      *more recent

  191. Matt

    April 30, 2016 at 12:51 am

    It pains my heart to watch this. And seeing, as people are saying, that this is common for women in Nigeria (probably in the rest of Africa too.) It’s depressing.

    I want to say, Tiwa you are strong–wow!!! I grew instant respect for you as a person. I know what it’s like to love someone despite their hurting you emotionally, but you took the cake with this one. I wouldn’t have forgiven my partner stealing from me, I don’t think I would. That just seems like the utmost disrespect to me. A husband that steals from you has no regard for your person!

    I can’t believe you supported a man that dragged you down to debt. As someone suffering from depression, i can suppose that his mental illness had a lot to do with his behavior. Maybe, in addition to depression, he has narcissistic personality, BPD, Bipolar, etc–things that can make or break a person. Unfortunately we don’t talk about these things in Africa. We call them the white people illnesses. You can simply not love anyone with any of those illnesses (depression and bipolar excluded.) They will mentally suck you dry!

    What baffled me though, is that after all this, you were still worried about him.

    I believe you shouldn’t have done this interview, because I’m worried people will use this against you; but with that much baggage bottled up, you needed to vent–it was eventually bound to come out.

    I hope you seek out therapy! Not Church, not the Bible. I know Africa is as built on marriage, like you said, as it is on religion but God is not the answer here; you need someone who allows you the safety to open up, to make sense of your experience, and to not feel judged–and to rebuild yourself. Because, from experience, I know how crazy abusive relationships can make you feel.

    I wish you could read the comments, best wishes to you!

    • Like seriously ...

      April 30, 2016 at 11:50 am

      You said some sensible things and a lot of stupid things too

  192. Sherry

    April 30, 2016 at 12:51 am

    So I was embarrassed for the interviewer. She lacked tenacity an her diction was poor or of kindergarten level. She may be dyslexic. She showed zero empathy to the situation, Her body language and resting bitch face is not of industry value. The only thing that made this interview a bit better is the interviewee. She spewed out a lot. The whole segment would have been better if it were a monologue. This could have been a make or break interview for her, but she broke it. I don’t know who she works for but they may need to re-evaluate her service. Her representation of her employers is like a dark cloud.

    • Ama

      April 30, 2016 at 5:32 am

      This comment is giving me life right now!!! “Resting bitch face”????

  193. Pebble

    April 30, 2016 at 12:52 am

    What’s the essence of this interview, like hello tiwa do you think you owe anyone an explaination to what’s going on in your life.?.. Damn!!! I used to love you tiwa but how the hell did you end up with such a man who has shamed your image and career. This is just beyond what we all think. Indeed all that glitters is not gold.

    • Like seriously ...

      April 30, 2016 at 11:55 am

      So he can drag her name in the media but she shouldn’t respond to his allegations. What is your logic here ? You are stupid.

  194. pdamsel

    April 30, 2016 at 1:09 am

    Plz Tiwa I will advise u to go back to your man,hold him tight no matter what happens,nobody z perfect n so also no marriage z d sweetest.If really u’ve wronged him,forget about your FAME n apologise to him,if he truly loves u ,z gonna forgive u.
    Marriage z for better for worst,once u are in ,no going back.Plz think twice before making any decision.

    • LolaLovesTiwa

      April 30, 2016 at 1:52 am

      Abi werey ni eleyi
      Wtf?

    • ms lala

      April 30, 2016 at 2:30 am

      You must be stupid!!!!!!!!!! A man who called his wife a whore and called her family names, is who u are asking to beg for forgiveness. May thunder fire you!!!!!!!!!!!

    • Tope

      April 30, 2016 at 4:09 am

      @Pdamsel- people like you deserve guys like TJ.

    • sweet breeze

      April 30, 2016 at 5:44 am

      Are you stupid?

    • Hmm

      April 30, 2016 at 7:41 am

      And to think that some people actually loved this silliness

    • pages

      April 30, 2016 at 10:35 am

      Are you mad???? Go back to what? This is the daftest comment ever!

    • Like seriously ...

      April 30, 2016 at 11:47 am

      Are you stupid?

    • Like seriously ...

      April 30, 2016 at 11:57 am

      So he assassinates her character, spreads out media lies to play victims, and you are saying she shouldn’t have said all this to the media? You would have done the same. I swear that the biggest problem for us women and why we continue to be disrespected is other women. The small minded, backward thinking ones.

    • Ibi

      April 30, 2016 at 3:59 pm

      Who should forgive who? Hold who tight. Are you a desperado. Haba. I pray they can overcome this but they both have to be on the same page. Things need to change or the centre will not hold. First things first he needs to get a job

    • Vidavi

      April 30, 2016 at 7:32 pm

      I’m sure you were dropped on your head as a child. She should go back to a guy who tried to ruin her financially, and emotionally? Idiot

    • m

      May 3, 2016 at 9:55 pm

      @ pdamsel…are you alright,dear?

  195. Miss T

    April 30, 2016 at 1:18 am

    I’m trying to listen to Tiwa but omgg …I can’t stand that lousy interviewier! She’s getting on my last nerves with her eye rolling! Soooo unprofessional !

    • no time

      April 30, 2016 at 1:44 am

      Me i was just skipping the part when she was talking.

  196. temibalo

    April 30, 2016 at 1:18 am

    Well tunji to me isn’t responsible at all. Thank God she spoke on time…u got another woman preggie …mean man evil man… Babalawo .. Then u abuse her emotionally… And u expect her to foot ur bills still… U made her ..Are God ????? Go and work . it’s good for u… Lazy man …men dat wants to rely on women…now blackmailing her. Wondering why some people on here r sayi g why did she have this interview…should she have it when she’s dead? Someone who take cockaine… Pls ooo !!!! Happy she spoke up on time ..Tiwa pls face ur son Nd ur careee.God would bless u more ..,

  197. Damilola

    April 30, 2016 at 1:33 am

    Y

    Kemi, your wealth is your husband only if the man is a responsible and respectable. Women, stop being mumu in the name of submission. Then you still suffer on top of it all. Clearly, Tiwa didnt mind being the breadwinner and even make him feel like the man. However, we are all human here. The same man you care for squanders the money, dupes you as your manager, doeent take care of his own child but knows how to take care of himself, doing business, taking out loans. He is the father and should contribute. Dont get me started on infidelity, mental abuse.
    So, he cheats you financially and the woman should still be doing its our money. No, life isnt like that.

  198. Why?

    April 30, 2016 at 1:37 am

    When some men are asked why they don’t cook, they say it is a woman’s job and that they just have to provide financially for their family. Ok.. How about when the woman bears the financial responsibility, why don’t they still cook?

    • Tema

      April 30, 2016 at 4:03 am

      Exactly. He can live off her money but refuses to help lessen her burden in other areas,

  199. Wise up

    April 30, 2016 at 1:42 am

    It’s the height of INSENSITIVITY, CALLOUSNESS and EGOTISM to wash all that dirty linen in a badly choreographed interview massacred by a horribly inexperienced interviewer! Your ESTRANGED HUSBAND is obviously going through some mental problems. This, regardless of his rants against you on IG and the fact that your marriage is breaking, your paramount concern should be for your SON and the health of your son’s father, and your family. Not to feed more sordid details to the baying herds in gossip hungry bloggosphere. A brief dignified public statement asking your fans for prayers and understanding at this difficult time, would have been more than adequate to gain you respect, support and the popular sympathy that you so desperately crave.
    Those forced tears were far from convincing (acting not your strong suit). While a few die hard fans will misguidedly applaud your perceived “courage”, your video vomit indicted you more than vindicated you and will only foster the notion that “you drove your husband to contemplate suicide”. Fire your PR team now!

    • Hawtspot

      April 30, 2016 at 8:37 am

      This whole thing is crazy! This is not a marriage but a sham!! These two, Tiwa and Tunji were never meant to be….there was no chemistry between them!!! Prior to now if I said this everyone around me says its beefing; how can you explain a crazy husband and a dispassionate cold wife??? Teebillz goes crazy and wants to jump the bridge and Tiwa in 24hrs is sitting like a widow granting a 45mins interview aimed at damage control. Where is the love that brought them together? All lost abi? No sense and sensibility at show! WHAT A SHAME! I don’t believe the two of them, guess they have been smoking weed. I just feel sorry for poor Jamil who is in the middle of this whole trash.

    • Bola

      April 30, 2016 at 10:39 am

      Do not be unnecessarily judgemental. Gosh, Nigerians are everything, from Psychologists, to soothsayers, to psychics, how can you tell there was no chemistry between them and Tiwa is a dispassionate cold wife and Tunji is a crazy husband? Some of you are too irrational. You can comment, but don’t jump into conclusions, don’t assume and be careful with your words. Smh.

    • M

      April 30, 2016 at 11:44 am

      You are stupid. For real.

    • Ibi

      April 30, 2016 at 3:51 pm

      I guess you live with them. In fact you bunk in their room and then you are also their marriage counselor and confidante. Shioor

    • Nikki

      April 30, 2016 at 9:05 am

      lol you took the words right out of my mouth o! God bless this family

    • Like seriously ...

      April 30, 2016 at 11:58 am

      So he assassinates her character, spreads out media lies to play victims, and you are saying she shouldn’t have said all this to the media? You would have done the same. I swear that the biggest problem for us women and why we continue to be disrespected is other women. The small minded, backward thinking ones.

    • Mrs. A

      April 30, 2016 at 1:39 pm

      It is her life and she is allowed to respond how she wants to. The fact that your would have responded differently doesn’t make hers wrong and yours right.

    • Segun

      April 30, 2016 at 3:20 pm

      You read the video brilliantly. Now the important inner healing work must begin for both.

    • Ibi

      April 30, 2016 at 3:55 pm

      I’m not a die hard fan, not even interested in the naija music scene but I am a woman. You have no right to judg. You are not in her shoes. You have no right to tell her how to react. She must find her own way. She never said anything till her own character was maligned. I’m sure you expect her to rub his head and go and pound yam for him and apologise for not been more supportive of his male rights to philander amongst other things

  200. Who cares

    April 30, 2016 at 1:50 am

    Beyoncé scoot over this is the REAL lemonade..??

  201. Annonymous

    April 30, 2016 at 1:51 am

    This interviewer is so insensitive

  202. burj khalifa episod

    April 30, 2016 at 1:52 am

    Tiwa is not lying. She saw the signs tho but she went in eyes closed. I remember one picture on TeeBillz’s instagram just before their wedding.

    In the midst of controversy because their kele kele love was no more kele kele, Tunji posted a pic of Him NAKED doing number two in the prestigious toilet of the famous Burj Khalifa HOTEL in Dubai. The picture was one of those He took during a trip He offered to his then fiancee. The caption of that post was something like “I’m shitting on you haters on a golden toilet seat”;

    That day I saw something and I was like OH LORD TIWA DON ENTER. Some friends told Him to take it down. I think they quickly called Tiwa. And the pic was taken down before the bloggers could catch a glimpse of it. I had it my memory because I felt sad for Tiwa that day but who am I to put mouth in someone’s else business? If she downplayed her friend’s warnings, what about mine a not even fan? I was just a well wisher.

    I saw the signs of an unstable man capable of “shitting” on his own image and on his family to prove a point to haters. Money is the only thing that validates Him as a man. Without money, He goes mad. If you go through His instagram right now you will see two things that stand out (corroborating Tiwa’s version of the story): Tunji likes HIS FOOD and WORSHIPS MONEY.

    LOVE IS BLIND, sometimes STUPID. Don’t argue, we’ve all been there. That’s why you need spiritual covering, mentors who will tell you things as it is and pray with you. If you cannot listen to your parents or friend’s, you need to pray yourself, ask God to lend you His spectucles so that you can fix it on your designer glasses. Common sense is not so common. GOD SAVED TIWA!!!!!!!! She could have been dead by now. Someone who went as far as attempting to kill Himself could as well kill His wife if they were still in the same house. He had nothing to loose.

    TeeBillz needs help, His self-esteem is so messed up. He needs counselling and prayers because love alone couldn’t/won’t change Him. May God heal all the parties involved. No time for the blame game.

    • 'Deola

      April 30, 2016 at 5:11 am

      I remember that picture where he was shitting too. Just curious, do you think he was sober when he posted the picture? Do you think, in private, there weren’t similar wild actions of his that should have bothered Tiwa? I suspect there were and many moments, not just on IG.

      Could it be that Tiwa encountered alpha males in the course of her career. I define alpha males in this context as males that were ferociously focused on getting money. creating music and building a brand and an enduring future. For example look at Don Jazzy, he seems pretty driven. Look at Dr Sid, he seems obviously driven. It takes a lot of drive to abandon a medical practice for music and be willing to apprentice under someone less accomplished academically. And look at their erstwhile collaborator or former label owner, Dbanj, he seems fiercely driven and huge ambitious too.

      Imagine the creative space she found herself. In the midst of hardworking people who had huge ambitious and were willing to make sacrifices. Imagine the families that all these guys grew up in, not broken homes, but in stable family units. I guess in that creative space she encountered another breed of men.

      Tee seems damaged. He seems unstable and obviously seeking the love a stable family unit never provided. I have no idea how Tiwa grew up as well. Maybe she came from an unstable family and as such never grew up with strong family values.

      This interview is self serving in my opinion. She should have taken sometime out to reflect on her life and possibly her future. But then business needs could have called. I guess business first – protect the brand or public image. There we go!!

    • Sandy

      April 30, 2016 at 9:54 am

      Tiwa took that picture you know…….

  203. T4Toyin

    April 30, 2016 at 1:54 am

    Welcome to Nigerian society,
    Where the woman is blamed for all society ills,
    Where a woman must sacrifice her life to save her husband’s,
    Where a woman must play weak to feed her husband’s ego

    I am definitely not surprised by the types comments I’ve seen online in the past couple of days.

    Fellow human beings,
    Can we please be kind to each other?!! If you have any emotions, you would see that this is a woman who is hurting. If you are not a part of their relationship, you have NO right, ZERO right, to say Tiwa’s emotions are not real!

    Tiwa, stay strong. Your well-being matters. Pray to God for peace, healing and guidance. Naija people will advise you to stay with your husband until he destroys you! I will never encourage a woman to stay in a relationship where your well-being and your sanity is being threatened. For those saying Tiwa should stay with TJ, let’s be real for a second- would you advise your daughter or sister to stay in such a relationship? And if your answer to that is yes, then best wishes to you!

    TJ, I hope you learn to take responsibility for your actions. I also pray that you are able to get the professional help you need for your substance dependecy.

    Women,
    Please, please, please let us move beyond the mindset of evaluating our self-worth based on our marital status.

    May God help us all!

  204. Anon

    April 30, 2016 at 1:55 am

    Hmmm! I feel like i jst watched a movie…we’ll never know the actual truth of what happned btw u two…we were not there only God knows nd he’ll judge whoever wronged who accordingly

  205. Chinelo

    April 30, 2016 at 1:59 am

    Lillian Esoro don’t you dare come and cry to us two years from now talking about we all told you and you didn’t listen. Two years ago all the insults that was rained on TJs baby Mama in Yankee, you people should apologize to her

  206. MsTilii

    April 30, 2016 at 2:11 am

    I don’t know if Tiwa has a publicist but personally I think THE TIMING for this interview scares me a lil. His friends need to keep an eye on him. I think what tiwaa should have done is tweeted

    All the things my husband has said about me are FALSE. AT THE RIGHT TIME I WILL TELL MY SIDE OF THE STORY. AT THIS TIME I PLEASE ASK MY FANS TO PLEASE GIVE ME TIME AS MY FAMILY GO THRU THESE TRYING TIMES. I THANK YOU FOR YOUR COOPERATION.

    Simple.

    Ps: the interviewer is the worst I have ever watched. Is this her first day on the job or something

  207. letty

    April 30, 2016 at 2:22 am

    I thought it was just me but this interviewer was hideous unprofessional and sounded quite stupid and ignorant. She shouldn’t have granted this interview she’s probably in pain and wanted payback…..at least not with this nitwit…this marriage

    was over b4 it began…the stories about the wife or baby mama in the US and 2 kids that trailed him from day one…they never looked compatible or in love…he always looked kind of angry…she herself wanted to answer mrs. And join the clique of so called married women. .marriage is very very hard and when you Come in with baggage it’s pretty much over..?tbilz knew she was a performer and wou.d always be on the road..do they not have housegirls…pp, in Nigeria hire help and cooks to cook for them why must tiwa do the cooking.?growing up I never saw my Mom . Cook there were tons of maids..cooking is not the criteria for a healthy marriage..I live In Los Angeles and I have actually come to hate cooking I loved cooking b4 I got married now I am so drained from work and taking care of kids and cooking that it has become a chore and I really detest it….I dream of being in nigeria and having a great cook and. Cooking only when I have to ok…let me stop the rant but really I feel sorry for tiwa…people
    have not yet seen the damaging effects of social media …why is it so hard for ppl to keep private things private..she deserves our outreach and prayers

  208. PD Young Billionaire

    April 30, 2016 at 2:28 am

    Tuni Balogun is obviously cursed.It’s a pity Tiwa got married to him.I have always thought there was something weird about the guy.He is an example of who yorubas call “Omo ile”.(that is,he belongs to the ground).He needs to go for deliverance honestly.

  209. lindy

    April 30, 2016 at 2:31 am

    this one na Nollywood movie ooo..Jesu! which kain one chance husband be dis? Yoruba demons…Yoruba men are so lazy and have no shame. They don’t have any qualms about living above their means..or off a woman,

  210. PD Young Billionaire

    April 30, 2016 at 2:35 am

    And please Tiwa,stay safe cos this guy could be dangerous.May God give you strength to pull through.

  211. letty

    April 30, 2016 at 2:40 am

    OK I HAVE TO SAY THIS IN. CAPS….I BELIEVE HER….HE IS CRYING FOR HELP NOW BCOS HE IS A MOOCH AND IS CURRENTLY BROKE…NO MONEY TO CARRY GIRLS…HE IS FAKING. SUICIDE…TIWA JUST MADE A HUGE MISTAKE. ..SHE SHOULD JUST LET IT HANG OUT…BUT THE CARDINAL MISTAKE WAS DOING IT WITH THIS CLUELESS LADY

  212. Dilly

    April 30, 2016 at 2:43 am

    Watch Tiwas first interview with Pulse talking about how TeeBliion helpd her

    quiet interesting compared to now

    youtube.com/watch?v=pRR3GmRCLN0

  213. swagg1

    April 30, 2016 at 3:02 am

    WTH, this TJ guy is a loser. Kick him to the curb jor. The babes that think he is all that, can have him.

  214. Tema

    April 30, 2016 at 3:08 am

    It seems to me that the N45 million is the big issue especially as Tiwa stopped the gravy train and he no longer has access to money.

  215. swagg1

    April 30, 2016 at 3:11 am

    Wow, though I dont know who this Tiwa is, but I really like and feel for her. GF, you will be fine and this drama and himuliation shall pass. He will get what is coming to him, cuz karma will bite him. where it hurts.

  216. Zahra Khalid

    April 30, 2016 at 3:16 am

    I love dis lady. be strong for son dearie, God wil never let u down. And for teebillz I pray God save him from depression and also make him prosperous and a gud father to jameel. My advise to u all, hold unto God he never disappoint nor fail dose dat rely on him. Masalaam.

  217. lola

    April 30, 2016 at 3:22 am

    Tiwa, I can totally relate to your story. My mother went through exactly the same thing. She suffered for years with her husband ( I don’t acknowledge him as my father. God is my father) who was exactly like Teebillz. My mother just like you. Always worried and praying for him when he doesn’t come home for weeks. She had a miscarriage like you and my father walked out of the house like nothing happened. My mother covered for so many years. Footing all the bills since I was born.My mom worked hard and he would squander all of her money. He made us dead broke and was cheating in front of us kids with my MOM’s money. Small little girls will threaten my mother and he even cheated with the damn house girl. He never took care of us. Not school fees, not house rent. When I was old enough and really processed all these stuff I had seen for years I was able to give my mom the courage to move back to the US. I love you and God bless you. God please give women the strength Tiwa and my mother have to walk away from something that might cost you your life.

  218. Upstairs

    April 30, 2016 at 3:26 am

    Some people ehn! Na real wa!! I’m sure majority of those saying she should have kept quiet on the issue without redeeming her image by clearly stating all these facts will never in real life tolerate half of what she’s tolerated in her marriage, Infact , they have not been proposed to let alone married.
    He made her, so? Would God have descended from heaven to make her, He made her because he saw a potential in her. Would he have even attempted to help her career blossom had she no talent? At least she paid you for your service so move on bro!The mistake she ever made was marrying you. He’s an alcoholic, a bloody Casanova with kids here and there,lazy ass and above all a drug addict! Come on now, I won’t even wish any of these features on my enemy let alone a combo of these.
    He wants to commit suicide not because he gives a damn about you, he wants to because he’s run dry!
    Tiwa, I’m happy he made you, you have thanked him enough through love,body,finances&soul, you have paid your dues. He will be fine again provided he is ready to seek help and get his acts together, provided he’s hardworking!
    I pray God grant you the fortitude to completely separate from this demon in man disguise’. I love you sis.. #hugs#
    That being said, Pulse TV, NEVER!NEVER!NEVER and EVER use this interviewer again!! She’s appalling!

  219. Tope

    April 30, 2016 at 4:05 am

    I don’t think he’s depressed- intact I have seen these classic signs of narsassistic manipulation several times in my practice. He’s a spoiled man child who has lost his cash cow and is throwing a tantrum out of desperation. He perfectly timed his suicide/ suicide notes to gain max attention and publicity. A suicidal person is not that calculator and manipulative. Most suicidal people are irrational and brash with very little ability of a well thought out plan. Good riddance to the scumb bag

  220. Tema

    April 30, 2016 at 4:05 am

    All I can see is that this is about the N45 million and the fact that Tiwa cut him off. That’s why he blamed her for everything and wanted to kill himself.

  221. Tope

    April 30, 2016 at 4:07 am

    I don’t think he’s depressed- infact I have seen these classic signs of narcissistic manipulation several times in my practice. He’s a spoiled man child who has lost his cash cow and is throwing a tantrum out of desperation. He perfectly timed his suicide/ suicide notes to gain max attention and publicity. A suicidal person is not that calculative and manipulative. Most suicidal people are irrational and brash with very little ability of a well thought out plan. Good riddance to the scumb bag

  222. Spindoc

    April 30, 2016 at 4:11 am

    Too soon for this kind of interview. Way too soon & too much detail. Why? Release a statement, get jaz and sid to deny allegations (whether it happen or not ). Yes it was came out on social media but we need to deal with this privately because these are very sensitive issues involving the father of your child. You can talk later, if at all. but a 45min interview 24hrs later?!?!. Who is her rep?

    And why is she dressed like she’s taking over jumoke’s old job. trying to look homely and like iyalata whose husband left with 6 six kids. the whole thing looks so insincere and staged. You’re going though a huge family/ business/ career/ personal drama & you siddon yan interview to some unskilled nobody? like there isn’t enough already for the public to digest. I don’t get it.

  223. Lerenzo

    April 30, 2016 at 5:05 am

    Firstly, who the hell employed this dumb interviewer. She needs serious training on how to ask questions, construct a proper sentence and conduct herself professional. She seriously lack decorium.
    Secondly, tiwa savage has every right to conduct an interview to correct the negative perception has irresponsible callous dumb husband put out against her.
    Thirdly, I absolutely agree that they both had faults in the demise of Their marriage, she accepted some responsibility and she apologies for it. But tiwa this marriage was doomed from the beginning because all your well wisher advised you but you did the opposite.
    The pastor of house on the rock london pastor o, had several conversation with you on this idiot man but you never listened.Knowing fully well he was still in a relation ship with another woman in America.
    Finally you made your bed on lust so lie on it.

  224. Don

    April 30, 2016 at 5:10 am

    Today is Tiwa’s home on the blast,giving room to evil principalities that feed on negativity,forgetting that 60% of marriage in Us and Uk last year ended in divorce.Tiwa be strong people miss there way and with the grace of God they retrace and move on to higher ground,Any setback that didn’t cost one his/her life,will only make you stronger.Still listening to my Darling by Tiwa.

  225. Don

    April 30, 2016 at 5:19 am

    We should devote the same energy am seeing on Tiwa’s private issue,to the evil and wickedness of corruption in Nigeria,Madam deziness story was on the same day,$115 million gone like that,and Tiwa’s private life seems to be more important,misplaced mindset,till then Our officials will keep getting away with everything.

  226. Vicmo

    April 30, 2016 at 6:10 am

    Its very obvious TJ destroyed himself and is also a lazy MF. However, TIwa’s past is also hunting her . I believe TJ ‘s accusation that Tiwa slept with Jazzy, Dr Sid and Tuface in the past. No man will be comfortable with the fact that his wife still works with the men she once slept with.. Men, Women, remember, whatever you do today may hurt you tomorrow, Do not think about now alone, always remember the future. Tiwa was prolly Oshofree on her way to the top., Now her past is hunting her!!!! TJ , Tiwa, for your son’s sake, go your separate ways, move on and sin no more!

  227. Tee

    April 30, 2016 at 6:28 am

    Couldn’t pulse find someone else to do this interview???

    Tiwa take it easy, this would only make you stronger.

  228. J

    April 30, 2016 at 6:55 am

    Nigerian women, forever ‘bo’ing the ashiris of useless/wayward husbands! Nigerian parents, raising boys to be douchebags. Faulty foundations. We need to do better!

  229. Real Talk

    April 30, 2016 at 6:58 am

    I remember that picture of Tee Billz on the toilet. You don’t forget such. I remember Tiwa fighting with a policeman. I remember catching an expression on the face of Tiwa’s mother on their wedding special on TV and suspecting that she doesn’t approve of her daughter’s choice. These are 2 flawed people who knew each other well and thought they could handle each other. They took a gamble. That is all marriage is.

    I married a man who cheated in the relationship thinking I’d die as a spinster if I wait for the one who will never cheat. My father cheated on my mum and she didn’t die so a long as I’m number one I can cope. I went in eyes wide open. He also married me knowing I’m spoilt. He felt he could pamper me so we married. But all these calculations fail. We always still expect change and start saying “but I thought you would mature”. We fight when I catch him with his Edible Catering. We fight when I throw tantrums when he can’t get diesel because I must have light 24/7. There are no perfect people and no perfect marriage. Some are lucky. Their fights don’t cross the line. Others like the Baloguns go too far but don’t think it can never happen to you. Its God’s grace.

    • Real Talk

      April 30, 2016 at 7:23 am

      And by the way, I think Tiwa did herself and many women a favour by giving this interview.

    • Tosin

      April 30, 2016 at 8:29 am

      preach! so deep.

  230. sdee

    April 30, 2016 at 7:05 am

    Don Jazzy :Doro is a cheerful giver
    Dr sid: Doro knack pass carpenter Wei don d knack before
    Tiwa:Doro na tiwa..It all makes perfect sense now.

  231. Segun

    April 30, 2016 at 7:07 am

    1. hmmmmm THE SINS OF OUR FATHERS
    Two psychologically fractured people without fatherly care and guide decided to escape their pasts and make a beautiful family. Unfortunately:
    (I) They both had not experienced the much-needed inner-healing and enlightenment they needed to overcome the ghosts and shadows that lurk behind and within.
    (II) Wife is a mega-star celebrity on the rise expected to shine on in the light. Queen, getting a maid to cook for you and your King further widens the divide because it lessens the touch plain and simple. An Afro-centric consciousness must be imbibed.

    GOODNEWS:
    This can still work, but it will take many years of inner healings and enlightenment through Counselling and caring.

    Marriage is NOT a means to escape the ghosts of our pasts. I fear for their children. We have to end these widening cycles by allowing the inner healings to take place.

  232. Anonymous

    April 30, 2016 at 7:11 am

    The only one who can heal you both is that wonderful man called Jesus. He says ‘Come to me all you who labor and are burdened and I will give you rest’. Please leave the world and all this talk here and there and run to Jesus. He ALONE saves. Shalom!

  233. tife

    April 30, 2016 at 7:53 am

    It’s just impossible to please you all….When toke’s Matter happened, u all bullied her to address the issue, now tiwa did, u are all saying why didn’t she kee quiet like toke. Toke’s husband impregnated another woman, and was totally on him. Tunji made too many allegations!

  234. ada

    April 30, 2016 at 8:09 am

    Marraige is an institution a lot of people dont understand these days. Open your eyes before entering pls pls women always have peace before u go into it. I have a lot of sympathy for her but the fact that she realized its better to be happy rest of my life than live a life of agony.Women your children never forget and they see everything.your’e staying for the kids but they grow up resenting you and thinking you were weak. i am an example where i still have bad memories and fear of never wanting to be like my mother i argue with her over stupid things because the resentment is still there.. mum thinking shes protecting kids not knowing the long term damage is more. But ive learnt she just did what she had to do to survive, and forgive.

    wedding in dubai etc.Lord this is like film trick. the easiest thing to do is insult Tiwa; which is the fear that a lot of women face ans stay and the shame. But instead she’s ready to face it at least its you in it. they should be the best for their kid regardless of who was right or wrong.
    i think my lesson is never compare what you have with others.

  235. I love my husband

    April 30, 2016 at 8:13 am

    If the foundation is destroyed, what can d righteous do. Ladies stop crying over spilt milk when the signs were clearly there before u said I do. Tiwa n teebikz saw dis but dey decided to go ahead at d marriage. Sometimes I feel like pulling the eats of ladies wen they see all d signs but Becos they want a glam wedding and carry d Mrs title..they go ahead. Life is a matter of choices, you live by the choices u make. They both made deir choices and are suffering from it. I’m not going to judge teebikz like the whole lot are,a leopard can not change its skin, the dint force tiwa to say I do…she chose to mare Jim. Life is a matter of choices..choose wisely, choose God, choose character…Marriage is an eye opener..don’t get carried away with the clumsiness of d wedding day and aso ebi. I pray God heals them both and help them to find peace and forgiveness. Celebrities need to learn and stop making divorce the solution for what. An be avoided . It is well.

  236. the interview

    April 30, 2016 at 8:14 am

    Tunji has a lot of things to be condemned for. You should have used all in your disposal to establish yourself, start up a company-factory….and be able to provide for your family.

    1. The interview was planned/arranged to save face
    2. You all dont get why the interviewer is like that, it is arrangee so she does not feel any remorse for the interviewee so she is acting the script so Tiwa can clear the grey areas
    3. 24:47 when she started crying, there was a cut and join there. It reminds me of Patience Jonathan’s cry- There is God o, the bloods you are sharing…. It was arranged
    4. I have never cheated on my husband means after you married him, you didnt sleep with those people. Did you sleep with them b4 you married him?
    5. How many times do you hear a man say everything he does for his wife and kids. How can a man recount the everyday bills and payment he does for the wife and kids? But let it be the other way round that the woman is the bread winner, everything she does is in her diary, she lets it out on the day of reckoning
    6. You knew it wouldnt work, You knew the condition of the guy before marrying him, why did you go ahead to marry him?
    7. GUYS, MEN, BOYS, GENTLEMEN, never, ever ever marry a lady that is more successful than you. This is always the end result. Since 0001AD, BC, since creation that men have been providing and are the bread winners of the family, you can never hear any problem in the marriage. As soon as a woman becomes the breadwinner, your own has finished. She will even sleep with your driver and rob it on your face. Please leave the established ladies alone to die single.
    8. PR toh bad. After all d things you listed, you are saying you are sorry for the camera. Killing somebody as well as rubbing his back. You said he must have a mental problem and you still stayed with him….
    9. BOTH of you are irresponsible not to handle marriage. You may have all thing but your inability to handle marriage shows that you both are irresponsible and deficient.

  237. eli

    April 30, 2016 at 8:17 am

    Sister why you nah. Naija be yankee. You no be lady Bee.

  238. osaretin

    April 30, 2016 at 8:33 am

    hmmmmn tiwa savage! God be with you my dear. hugs and kisses. Be strong for your son. and can this interviewer be sacked like ASAP…..the worst ever!

  239. Sandy

    April 30, 2016 at 8:33 am

    She said she could tolerate “Igbo”???? Drugs are drugs. Maybe she smokes it too!

  240. Peperempe

    April 30, 2016 at 8:39 am

    marriage is complicated. you can not take sides because you never lived with them. Its sad to see them air their dirty laundry in public because this situation was meant to be kept private. One thing i know for sure is that men and flirting go together like bread and honey. Being married to a man won’t stop him from looking at a gorgeous woman, talking to her (if given the opportunity) or even taking down her number. But when it goes beyond just talking, then he is irresponsible and doesn’t respect his spouse and God. I wish them all the best. My advice to married women is to be steadfast in prayer (side chics aren’t ready to back down-as long as their bank account is red), For the men, i thought they said ‘pussy na all the same’ (Please stay with one and pray against temptations). Both men and woman should support each other financially. ABEG back to the hustle and grind ……..

  241. Ivy

    April 30, 2016 at 8:48 am

    A woman keeps a home when the husband want to be kept..its unfair to compare her with Omawumi. Omawumi’s husband and Tiwa’s husband are two different people.. one might be working on the marriage with his wife, making it easy for her and the other is obviously trying to rip his wife off and make her life a living nightmare..two different things.

  242. not a lie

    April 30, 2016 at 8:53 am

    some nigerian men are wicked – i have friends that have gone through this just like tiwa – look at our parents – see how how most of our fathers treated our mothers – its a control thing and he could not handle she is doing well – she has her child – my advice – run fast – he is no good – some niaja men – the lies – deception – money – when there is no money – it means you have collected manhood abi….she made a mistake marrying a second hand – he was already married – she should have called the first wife before marrying him -that would have put her off – he got sacked as manager – where he was eating her money – now no money – they have collected manhood – chineke – am surprised he is not saying tiwa used spell on him – thats why he married her – thats another one they say. – if it was him with the money – and she had none – he will have women outside the family home and he will even bring another woman in the house to join tiwa

  243. Ope

    April 30, 2016 at 8:54 am

    If I want to make a trip or visit to a place I’m not sure I’ll make out alive, with 50grand I’ll get a turck of soldiers as escorts. Police na pure water money. Tokunboh’s father is rich enough to get his son a Benz and a truck of mp men. This chic had iss with her husband and traveled to enugu,to do wah? Her mum want’s to dictate what happens in 1004 from Abraham adesanya. If you want to pray for a good mother-in-law,tk’s mum is the best .e

  244. Naaatoday!!!

    April 30, 2016 at 8:55 am

    @wiseup: your ESTRANGED HUSBAND is obviously going through some mental problems. This, regardless of his rants against you on IG and the fact that your marriage is breaking, your paramount concern should be for your SON and the health of your son’s father, and your family. Not to feed more sordid details to the baying herds in gossip hungry bloggosphere. A brief dignified public statement asking your fans for prayers and understanding at this difficult time, would have been more than adequate to gain you respect, support and the popular sympathy that you so desperately crave.
    Those forced tears were far from convincing (acting not your strong suit). While a few die hard fans will misguidedly applaud your perceived “courage”, your video vomit indicted you more than vindicated you and will only foster the notion that “you drove your husband to contemplate suicide”. Fire your PR team now! @ wISEUP

  245. Nikki

    April 30, 2016 at 9:01 am

    I wish you all the best Tiwa. In life we try to do things the best way we know how. This interview was not the right way – you needed to a short message to clear the infidelity rumours and to ask for some alone time while you sort out your family issues. That’s it! Your son will see this one day. Please rid of your PR person as you were probably not in the right frame of mind and it is their job to think for you – as a human being first before a celebrity. I know God will definitely come through for you he always does – but sometimes we can spare God the extra wahala…

  246. Isiuwa omorefe

    April 30, 2016 at 9:05 am

    He is a weak man and a coward. Irresponsible and a parasite. When he was taking 40% as her manager he could have used it to b a man to her. When Tiwa sees that, as soft as women her for men that show responsibility, she would have given him her last kobo. Responsible acting men will tell you that their wives will b ready to give them their all because they took their place as real men in their lives. This guy is just like Tina turners manager who she married and he squandered her money and abused her for years. She also walked out. The best decision Tiwa has made in her life is to do this interview and move on. Tilbilz should seek help and get his life back together again and in his next relationship try and b a man. Even if it is one Naira you are earning and your wife is earning millions, bring that one Naira to the table, discuss, plan be open with your wife and you will see if she will not give you more than the one Naira. Imagine, he has not spent one Kobe on his son since he was born. If tilbluz was my son I will disown him. Tiwa kudos to you for not keeping quiet. By your interview you have helped many women who were and are still in terrible relationships. Suffering in silence when they have only one life to live. You have touched their lives and by your courage you may have helped them to take a bold step to move on. Nigeria tradition victimsizes the women even when she could get killed by a man who feels inadequate and weak because he has a hardworking woman. What is more pathetic about Tiwa is that this man does not feel inadequate but simply a jealous self serving self worship and self centered man because he had the means to be a responsible husband and father to his family which was the 40% he was receiving as her manager but with his own hands decided to go on a self destructive path, lived a careless life even some bachelors will not try, sleeping around in this age of disease, and couldnt handle success or money as he went reckless with it living above his means, displays arrogance by claiming he made her when it was God who made her and if she wasn’t his wife wouldn’t he behave and keep the cow that produces the milk happy? Sips water…. But he wanted to destroy her, turn her into his personal milking slave by emotional blackmail while she funds his reckless life which doesn’t pay anybody. So he is manager to his wife, he discovered her, does that gives him the right to steal from her, still collects his 40% which I agree is quite high and spend the money on reckless living and other women? Nigerians wake up!!!!!!!!!Many male and female Hollywood stars have been there with family members handling their finances recklessly. Even some have sacked their own fathers as mangers for mismanaging their hard earned money while would Nigerians want Tiwa to continue with his irresponsibility. Tiwa today you have given many women strength, hope and wisdom. Walk away and keep walking. Be careful too with your life with such a destructive man on the loose especially when he comes visiting his son. Ensure you are not alone with him even if he swears he is clean and has repented. In the UK, your kind of story happened many years ago. The woman believed her husband that he has changed but he ended up killing her and then he killed his kids and himself. A ma.n that his jealous of your career, has drug and alcoholic problems and a low self esteem and blames every other person for his failures except himself is a walking time bomb. My prayers for you my dear Tiwa is that you will come out stronger, better and wiser with this experience for experience is the best teacher. Don’t ever look down on your self or think you failed as little minds would want you to think. No you didn’t fail. Nobody is above making mistakes. We are all fallible. But the greatest thing is that we have a chance to get up, dust ourselves and move on. You fail when you refuse to rise up. For your husband too, I give same advice. Rise up, dust yourself and move to into your past again but to a better future. And I beg you to b a man for your son for if you are not you will regret it when he becomes a man for he will know you were and may be still would be a coward of a father. It is only a coward that will not care for his son or children even if it is one pamper a month he can afford. Shoe makers are caring for their children as best as they could so why wouldn’t you? For both of you, remember the son God blessed you in all of this. I rest my case. God bless , strengthen and protect you and your son Tiwa. You are a beautiful woman and can find love again. Pray for its not for us to tell our destinies but God will. If God says you will marry again even with a son, you will. You just have to b wise in the choices you make. And don’t manage a bad man or think you can change him when both of you marry. Na big lie. A man even a woman with problems have to recognize the problem and change by himself or herself and when the problem is too big, has to seek God by himself or herself. Family and friends only support. God help and have mercy on you tilbliz for you need to go into rehab Women both in nigeria and elsewhere don’t allow society to pressurize you to marry. Don’t ignore little important signs from your prospective wife or husband especially drug, alcoholic problem, financial recklessness, and tendency to b violent. Many wives have lost their lives with such husbands and many men have been destroyed by such wives. Have a lovely weekend people.

  247. Anu

    April 30, 2016 at 9:18 am

    Both parties are hurt.. I pray de bth find peace n gve jamil d best they can. Marriage is nt an achievement BT a commitment n responsibilities.. All d ppl tappn into BN knd of weddings n celebrities wedding hope de wud untap nwnw… Prepare for marriage nt wedding.

  248. Ope

    April 30, 2016 at 9:35 am

    Tiwa has her own shi. Her mum didn’t help,her friends made it worst. Eg Jenifa n co. She’s not the only one messing around in the industry, chidinma and mc oluomo, genv and gej,omoni and uduahan. They’re just dirty characters.

  249. Isiuwa

    April 30, 2016 at 9:35 am

    Additionally, tilbliz is not suicidal. He is just trying to vilify Tiwa and get pity from people. A man that goes and buy a Rolex for himself when he cannot afford it and doesn’t buy things for his child who is part of him is a self lover and cannot commit suicide. Period. And it is normal for him to accuse Tiwa of isle elina around. That is what inadequate failed weak men do. When they have a successful wife who is working hard and their jealousy sets in, they accuse her if sleeping around. And call names without founded evidence. Not Cooking for her husband due to her work schedule is inexcusable. For the home is the turf of the woman. But tilbliz knows about her work schedule and knows it puts food on the tanks and pays him good money that is his 40% when he was her manger so he should support her or not marry her in the first place. He knew marrying or dating a musician a star for that matter means many days away from Horne doing shows and recording. So she hired a cook. And when she is around she cooks for him. But I will advise that whenever she had the time, she should have cooked many different types of soups with the cook assisting her and kept them in the freezer. Na 21st century we dey. Technology are co-wives. So at least tilbliz will know that this is his wife’s cooking. All the cook or himself needed to do is re-warm in micro wave. Many homes are being run this way especially with no money to hire cook. But even at that does that give tilbliz the excuse to live a reckless life, borrowing monies you can’t pay for, embarrassing Tiwa by running huge debts knowing it could hurt her reputation and career. Capital NO!!!!! If tilbliz is my son, I will disown him. Men the little you have and can afford bring it to the table for it shows you are responsible and care for your wife and children. Try and God will bless you more when He sees your effort. The wife will add up and some times wives add even more in some homes. Let’s be reasonable please.

  250. Prince

    April 30, 2016 at 9:40 am

    From the moment Tbillz came out to talk trash I knew he was trying to be defensive and he was totally at fault. What he did was what Tiwa was suppose to do as a woman and for the cocaine thing, I agree with Tiwa.
    Marriage is not by force, our prayers is that it works, but if it doesn’t, you don’t have to kill yourself, just move on. YES, I could be painful, but then your life is far more important than anything.

  251. NL Comment

    April 30, 2016 at 9:49 am

    472 comments and counting…

    If Nigerians can pay attention to their own development and success the way they do to celebrities, Nigeria would have started to experience change years back

  252. Ope

    April 30, 2016 at 9:57 am

    having baby mamas,that’s his greatest regrets. But having a failed marriage,is a no no. This marriage won’t fail. To those who said he fucked his way to fame,marries tiwa cos her money etc. Tk’s. Father is a socialite,as in bad ass socialite,ask kwam 1. If you hear wasiu sing praise of tunji Balogun,which he does on the reg,that’s his dad. Tk was in charge of of his dad’s coy in yankee.he made money there before his stepmum came performed African magic. he takes care of his own,his loved ones.

  253. TOKS

    April 30, 2016 at 10:12 am

    Tiwaaaaa! This was so empowering, I could sense the peace seeping from your pores. Enough of covering up for insensitive, bratty husbands who steal from their wives! Enough of covering up because of culture! Enough, enough! Yesterday I watched a snippet of this and was quick to judge and say why make yourself look so.pathetic But after watching this whole interview, I am PROUD of you. You spoke for many women without a voice in this interview and you with your own talen, not given by any man but by God alone will bounce back in full splendour. Amennnnn! Pls stop looking for ways to pay back that debt for this irresponsible so called man. 45million naira, what did he want to do with that? Onigbese. Nahhhhh man, I can’t even shout, this was the right move, you have suffered enough!

  254. Olayinka64

    April 30, 2016 at 10:16 am

    Tiwa, bless you for your bravery, honesty and candor. This is a common story in Nigeria . We’ve all seen this movie before. Too many men who want to be big men in the house and to the world but not willing to step up to the responsibility and obligations that come with that. All about their fragile egos and other people’s perception.
    I know so many women who have been through this. A popular guy who was married to a very career minded, pretty , successful and smart lady was dumped after she got tired of his freeloading, lack of ambition, immaturity and drunkeness. The fool married her, was happy to live in her luxury ikoyi apartment, enjoy the perks of her big job, contribute nothing but constantly giving her a hard time and complaining to friends and family about her. When she finally got tired ,kicked him out and filed for divorce he abused her, accused her of having affairs. disrespecting his family. In fact anything to divert blame from him and his loser antics. Everyone attacked the babe accusing her of being arrogant, a ho and all sorts. But now when you see them both you can see who was telling truth. She has gone on to far bigger , better things enjoying a wonderful career and now living abroad as an expatriate making big money as ED for an international bank, happily enjoying a lovely lifestyle with her child. The same guy meantime is still broke, stuck in the same place, collecting allowance from his mothers business, complaining about his life and giving his poor, new wife the same alcoholic, irresponsible crap. In short your story is a lot of people’s story . Take heart. You’ve taken a step in the right direction. Don’t do anything for appearances. Those insulting you are in their own miserable situations and don’t have the courage or means to change it so they’re jealous and resentful because you can walk away with your awesome career, beautiful little boy and still be very ok. You will prevail in the end. The truth always wins out.

  255. Ruth

    April 30, 2016 at 10:28 am

    I hope NDLEA boss watched this interview. Because tiwa a brand ambassador keeps or hides cocaine in her house with her TJ. ACCORDING to HER COCAINE not WEED. I think TJ suicidal or not needs to be invited for criminal activities.

  256. Yellow Fatty

    April 30, 2016 at 10:31 am

    What a shame can’t even feed his own family – but cuts hair 2wice a week. I wouldn’t be surprised if she funded the whole wedding too – pressure she was getting old and wanted to marry sharp sharp – opted for first man who gave her face – she turned a blind eye to all the questions to ask and his behaviour… I am glad he didn’t commit suicide and he can watch the video in shame – had he have died it’s her word against the dead – no wonder he deleted all the suicidal quotes on IG when he didn’t die ??- why didn’t he throw himself Infront of a moving car – or eat rat poison – he was looking for drama and wanted to be seen to shame her .. Now he has to live with the shame – as bible says man who can’t feed his family is worse than an infidel .. Mschewwww – the girl is loaded Sha , 3mill to sing in London back in the days when £1- 250 naira that’s £12k.. ????

    Shine on Tiwa!!!

  257. Tess

    April 30, 2016 at 10:36 am

    Lets be realistic. We all have that brother or Sister that take our money or things without asking us. Do we breakup with them? Your music was your husbands only source of income. When you sacked him, were u thinking he was going to find his feet almost immediately. Y didnt you use ur money to start-up a business for him while he finds a better job. I know you tried but marriage is for better for worse. Hez wrong for cheating on you but what were u expecting from a man who is not born-again. Do you pray together? My advice; i believe its not over. You both should try 2 understand yourselves. Its obvious that you havent been paying attention to him and hez not been doing same too. This interview was uncalled for. You should have just remained the mature/strong one. Someone has to be stronger.

  258. Tee

    April 30, 2016 at 10:53 am

    lways sad to see couples who once loved each other go through a messy public separation ……. The scars and stigma remains with some of them for years ……it’s always important to pray and seek marriage counselling before walking down the aisle with our life partners, and ensure that God is the third person in the marriage as best as we can….. Bearing in mind always that whether we choose to pray at the start of the marriage or pray later when the storms arise, somewhere along the line we’ll have to pray ……………….
    May God bring total healing to both of them and help them find true love either with each other again or in their separate ways .

  259. Vidavi

    April 30, 2016 at 11:04 am

    I love my country I no go lie, na inside am I go live and die, but damn Nigeria, why do we women always get blamed for the crap our men put us through? And the first ones to throw daggers are always other women.

  260. Smackdown

    April 30, 2016 at 11:06 am

    This interviewer is lucky this is not pay per view. I for don sue the network

  261. Ch

    April 30, 2016 at 11:13 am

    Tiwa, my heart goes out to you because I really understand the pain and frustration of having a man that cannot handle his wife’s success, just like the case of my dad. I didn’t need this interview to know what the story would be cos having read TBillz rants, I could figure out the mess you got yourself into. That being said, you should never have granted this interview, 2 wrongs don’t make a right. Where is your PR team? Even if you wanted the world to know your side, there’s a professional way to go about it and with a sensible and empathetic interviewer. You just washed the guy more publicly and I can only feel for Jamil in this entire saga. You should have taken the high road, and parted ways amicably and not feeding people with this story. Then hit the studio and narrate your side in a song, we would understand. As for TBillz, I’m worried for the next woman that would fall for you and become your next victim, you need serious help.
    Lastly, social media is a bane in this side of ours. It’s like the devil himself lures people with social media to do stupid stuff. We need to be more careful. Airing your dirty linen in public has never been the solution and would never be.

  262. Rukayat oyedele

    April 30, 2016 at 11:36 am

    She should have waited and let her self be slandered by the lazy sucidal man!I mean the way people reason is so wack…he acts all crazy ranting and threatening to commit suicide …who do you think they would arrest first if he actually went through with it,..and u saying she is pretending for the camera…this is d first of its kind in Naija…exclusive interview to clear your name against a freaking bully lol…

  263. Nnnn

    April 30, 2016 at 11:52 am

    Very Emotional. It well is Tiwa just continue to pray. God is your strength.

  264. jjc

    April 30, 2016 at 1:46 pm

    what just happened here?? what she needs and all naija show biz artist needs are good reputable publicist.. All this should never have happened, this is your life on dam social media. common!!!!

  265. Ty

    April 30, 2016 at 4:21 pm

    I bleed in my heart for you Tiwa and I pray you will overcome this phase of trials in your life. As for the lady that interviewed Tiwa, I realized that you were insensitive to Tiwa’s pain, even when she broke down, no words or touch of comfort from you. Just because you are interviewing somebody about a sensitive and painful experience they are going thru does not mean you can not empathize with them . As for TJ, I feel sorry , pity, and disgust that as a man you can air your ‘ dirty laundry’ about your hardworking wife in public because of your frustration of being a loser as a MAN! A Real Man provides for his home no matter how small it is ! Read about Celine Dion Husband who discovered her and was her manager , then you will know that there are still good and surportive husband/ manager that are not threatened by their wife’s success but proud. After all TJ, as married couple, you were suppose to plan your life and family together with your wife.The only weapon you have over Tiwa is emotional blackmail and I advice you Tiwa, do not allow any human being to put you thru such torture just because they helped you to actualise your dream! After all, no man is an Island. God uses a person to help another person. That is the way life is and anybody that impacts positively in the lives of others should be grateful to God for being used by God. ….lest I forget, TJ was paid for his job as your manager. Finally,I suscribe to you Praying for TJ because it is only God that can deliver him from his vices that is, if he is willing to receive or get help. It is well with you and your son Tiwa. Never forget that a mistake in marriage does not define you as a woman. Rise up, pick up the pieces of your life and with God on your side, God will fix your life and grant your heart’s desire for you and your family.

  266. bytheway

    April 30, 2016 at 4:29 pm

    I have to buy you gala and coke for this comment! thumbs up.

  267. Temi

    April 30, 2016 at 5:47 pm

    Front roll seats with my mates popcorn and pepsi. Tiwa you for sell this video give Netflix. I feel your pain sha. That Tbiliz na real devil. But why you date man when they call himself idiot name like Tbiliz na. No be trouble you find. It’s okay noting spoil.

  268. "changing moniker"

    April 30, 2016 at 6:09 pm

    Pulse TV pls fire this lady….
    She’s unprofessional, can’t speak English. ….”she said at what point did all this started”….. she made a very important interview seem unnecessary. … anybody else would have been better…

  269. Body proud

    April 30, 2016 at 8:40 pm

    Babe!!! You have done nothing wrong, keep walking with your heads up, lick ur lips and swing ur hips?. You must have loved him to marry him, do everything to save ur Marraige including lying to save ur face, most of us have done this while in it and until you say NO you cannot be happy. Your son deserves a happy mum. Who says you have to have a man to be happy?? pls be more careful now if you need one take your time n pray in good time . But for now you are no 1.
    Love ya Tiwa don’t be broken he is only a man, you are stronger than you think❤️

  270. Bar

    April 30, 2016 at 10:08 pm

    Not to judge anyone involved in this matter as my heart felt prayers goes out to both parties for healing and forgiveness both for each other and self. Here. The society has really deviated from the reason why we enter into marriages. We get married because we’re getting old, because we want to have legitimate sex, because marrying our partners feels like the best thing to do but we forget to ask God what His opinion on the matter is. We get married based on great sex, financial security and all what not. The devil has so decieved us to think we can d it all. oh am an adult so i can make decisions about my life. Na its not so . The Word of God said no other foundation can built except the one laid in Christ Jesus. Many marriages are built on the foundation of self and passing things. I pray that the married folks finds grace to return to God’s original purpose for marriage . I pray and ask that intending couples should re evaluate the reasons why they want to get married. if you find out that God is leading you to leave the union by all means leave it because most times There are signs that the marriage will not work but we still get into them . Let’s start getting it right by first getting it right with God then He will cause everything to fall into place for us. Am not saying there will not be problems in the marriage but having God at the centre of our lives will make it easier for us all. God bless these wonderful children of His and fix them the only way He can fix a man. Please let’s get back to our roots in Christ and He will direct our parts. I pray for healing and forgiveness once more for the parties involved and anyone else going through the same issue in Jesus Name Amen.

  271. PR POLICE

    April 30, 2016 at 11:12 pm

    Azuka with your stupid rachet ‘do and get this interview over face’, you couldn’t even hide your jealousy or show empathy. U need to get schooled and learn a thing or two on decorum. After leeching off Elohor and she finally lobbyed TIWA to get you this, common sense did not teach you to potray ‘grace and poise’. U need to hide your face on shame if you thought this was ur big moment….unethical cow…..you couldn’t even pretend to care or hide it small. Look TIWA the sooner you lace your boots and kick these blood sucking gold digging vipers away from you, tje sooner you’d focus on straightening out ur life and ironing ur shit….

  272. godly

    April 30, 2016 at 11:16 pm

    Guys stop abusing each other here cos our comments or opinion mean no shit to dem I knw this for sure in a twenty lie u will find like 5 truth inside an to u planning to marry soon plz knw that love an riches are not enough to make marriage work

  273. Anne

    May 1, 2016 at 12:25 am

    Tiwa did the right thing by speaking up. She had to defend her name after her so called husband defamed her character. This thing of living up a lie is a big problem I swear. You don’t have money but u want to buy a benz and a Rolex. All na wash…then all the banga smoking and late nights. What a fuck boy. Nothing do you Tiwa you will get out of this mess stronger

  274. Moses

    May 1, 2016 at 8:35 am

    Dont forget the part u sang in “Labe igi orombo” you said “no need to pay for me with all your money, dont worry cuz i got it nd baby i will share it all with you” what message were u thinking u were passing to TJ…now u come dey complain again…dont mind my comment though, just playing around.

  275. Evelyn

    May 1, 2016 at 5:31 pm

    To all the stupid men n guys in d house i wonder how u treat ur marriage issues or maybe u are not even a divorce, n most of our nigerians dat dnt tink b4 commenting n only know how to give insults. U are not the one in dis, rather u know anything about wat she is goin tru, a real man will not come out to social medias to say such rubbish about his marriage n family he should know how to handle them ptivately no matter wat, there are alot of people outside there celebrities n non celebrities who are goin tru marriage crisis even bigger than theirs, for her t even say something to her fans she tried bcos d shock of d unexpected done by the hunsband is still on her. Sisi tiwa d lord is ur strenght. Foolish people is d same way u ppl would av criticize t blizz if tiwa was the first to come on public.

  276. Mikel

    May 1, 2016 at 9:28 pm

    My virtuous wife always says: there’s 3 sides to every story. In this case her side, his side and the truth.
    I/we are neither judge nor persecuters & the Holy book from which I draw knowledge states “he who is without sin cast the first stone…”
    Has anyone thought about what the case would have been if none commented on this post or any other posts they put out relating to their marital issues?

  277. MISS P

    May 2, 2016 at 5:44 am

    I believe Tiwa, I was in an abusive relationship for 4yrs. Anytime we had a quarrel he would remind me how he gave me a job, cloth me and feed me. He would post on Facebook and tell his siblings.
    People would call me and say bad stuff about me and his family hates me till date. I never said any bad would about him to a third party and I would always defend him before my family.
    Eventually he broke up with me because his mum and family doesn’t want me, how I’ll they want me when for 4yrs you constantly told them every quarrel we had?
    All I know is that it is well!

  278. Anonymous

    May 2, 2016 at 2:08 pm

    It’s a very unfortunate situation for the couple. I’ll start by reiterating the saying that it takes two to tango, so both Tiwa and Tunji played active roles in leading their marriage to where it is right now. As one who has had to keep up with things and had to cover up many times however, Tiwa’s side of the story presents a realistic pattern, especially with admitting to not always cooking for Tunji and his support for her career. Typically, someone else will readily play the victim and emphasize all the negative side of the other party does, ignoring the good side but this lady didn’t. I also think articulating her regret over her marriage choice reveals strength because the modern society has taught people to rather say they’re in control of all their actions. I’m looking back now and thinking that my acceptance to marry my husband might be related to my wanting to show appreciation for his support… it’s very difficult admitting to this even to yourself! Also I think Tiwa’s portrayal in the interview is a reminder that celebrities are also humans like any of us. Truly, she her narration might not have added up when she said she asked Tunji for the baby’s milk a week ago whereas she had said that they hadn’t been talking to each other for a longer time than that, but then again, this further reinforces that she’s only human like everyone of us as such slips are characteristics of anybody under interrogation. Ask any police accused! If we must analysis this situation critically and be fair and human in our reasoning, we would see that the lady, in trying to keep up with the ‘role model’ picture society expects of her as a celebrity, she must have sacrificed a lot. And it seems really possible that Tunji took advantage of that and lived irresponsible- his social media outrage indicting various families, including his own, an attestation to this! I don’t believe any responsible man would blame people for all his miseries and woes in life on anybody. While it appears impossible given the damages involving other families so far, I genuinely hope that the couple finds a resolution to their challenges, and both find sanity, happiness and peace of mind once again, at least for innocent little Jamal!

  279. Uwamukiza

    May 2, 2016 at 3:40 pm

    Its times like this I hate God for having me born as an African woman!! a woman is treated like trash by someone that was suppose to love and care for her; and we have useless good for nothing idiots that God wasted souls on insulting her and blaming her for the hurt that she was put through!!! God oh, why do we AFRICAN Women have to live feelin