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Tiwa Savage & Tee Billz’ “Big Sis” Remi Fagbohun Speaks Out – Don’t Judge Those Who Have Reached Their Limits

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Personal shopper and friend of the couple – ‘big sis’ to Tiwa Savage and Tee Billz has spoken out about the relationship turmoil on her Instagram page.

Here’s what she wrote –

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remi_fagbohun_teebillz_lami_phillipsThe hardest thing in the world to do is to keep quiet when your friends are going through something.

Gosh… People have ZERO CHILL!!! The Internet has become an open spot where you can say whatever you want. Say things you know are not right! Be downright RUDE!! Laugh and make jokes at someone else’s expense. Create Meme’s… It’s HARSH, It’s cold and it’s just wrong on so many levels. But it’s the world we live in… A very sad one.

Whatever your personal opinions may be, remember the person you just TORE apart , is HUMAN!! Didn’t start that journey thinking it would fail (do any of us do that???). Does anyone get married saying I’m going to give this a few years and see how it goes??? Or let me tie myself to this person knowing that he isn’t going to be the man of my dreams?? NO!

Like any other man or woman – you go in giving it your all. You plan and carry out the wedding of your dreams because — ITS supposed to be the wedding of your dreams!!! The one time you will ever get married. Hoping the journey gets better. Hoping he gets better … Hoping you have more happy moments than sad ones.

Marriage is by no means an easy road to walk (trust me I KNOW) . For those that decide to stay in it… Kudos. But don’t JUDGE those who have reached their limits. Don’t start quoting the bible when you’re already being hypocritical by casting stones. Everyone has a different limit. When you reach your limit you will know. Try to have a bit of empathy for those going through something and simply imagine yourself going through it. Then ask yourself , how would this comment make you feel if directed at you. Would you like it? Does this seem fair?

Remi Fagbohun Tiwa SavageI am teaching my son, every single day… When you have nothing good to say, say nothing. I implore others to do the same.

I’m stronger than most , yet today I cried. Cried for my friend and sister. Cried for my brother , cried for my baby. Crying again as I write this , thinking of the world we live in now where it’s ok to tear a person apart when they are down! Remember these people aren’t ROBOTS!!!! #tiwasavage #support #love #prayers #welovetiwasavage #westandaswomentogether #strongwomensupporteachother

Photo Credit: SC George & Instagram

78 Comments

  1. squanderer of the universe

    April 30, 2016 at 12:08 pm

    Just imagine what would have happened if Teebillz had successfully killed himself. Imagine what would have happened to Tiwa…….that would have been the end of Tiwa and her career. She would have been public enemy number 1. People would have called her names. No amount of interview or damage control would have helped her because the dead cannot defend himself. I am glad that she immediately granted that interview to address the situation. Teebillz really put her on blast and called her names. Those allegations are not to be taken lightly. If Teebillz has anything to say to counter her interview then he should come out now or forever keep kwayet.

    How can you borrow 45 million naira without telling your wife first. A whole 45 million naira. Is that how marriage works? Teebillz is nothing but a ‘squanderer of the universe’. I know his type wella. He blew that money away and expects the poor girl to pay up. He is now playing the victim…..forming depressed just because the poor girl put her foot down and said ‘enough is enough’.

    Like that Gulder billboard asked, ‘where are the men?’ Now you see more gold digging men, gone are the days when men were men. All they want now is to marry a girl from a rich family or a girl with a good job who is willing to finance their extravagant lifestyle. They want a woman who is ready to become their kitchen slave, bedroom slave, financial slave……..kinds of slave……meanwhile, all the horseband wants is to be jumping from one skirt to another. Edible catering…….smh……may God help us to be courageous enough to choose the path of happiness even if it means defying societal norms.

    • squanderer of the universe

      April 30, 2016 at 12:14 pm

      all kinds of slave*

    • Caligula

      April 30, 2016 at 12:34 pm

      New breed of Nigerian men… They’ve evolved into hot messes! Tee Billz did the kind of ish most Nigerian men do, especially Yoruba men. They feel entitled because that’s just Nigeria for ya! Unpredictable, incredibly selfish, abusive & narssicistic.

      i think the worst part of all of this is him selfishly threatening suicide when he has 2 other beautiful children, older children that love him… (Plus Jam Jam of course)…… Your Children should trump anyone and anything.

    • God 's Gold

      April 30, 2016 at 2:00 pm

      Yes very typical of Yoruba men that’s why I didn’t go near them before I got married. Sorry a terrible specie of men in Nigeria. This story is typical of what a lot of women are passing through in the UK. I have a case I am working on the Yoruba guy has 3 different families : 2 in London and 1 in Germany. I have a cousin who married a Yoruba man she has a set of twins she said she would not recommend a Yoruba man to anyone.

    • myview

      April 30, 2016 at 2:38 pm

      This is harsh and just my perception. But I believe the guy is a coward and was not suicidal or depressed. His pride had him backed to a wall and instead of humbling himself,, he turned to theatrics! pitiful!!! He is a disgrace and anyone who does any kind of business with that boy does so at their own peril. He’s gotten off with sympathy and zero accountability. I’m glad she’s seen that and walked away.

    • Abi

      May 1, 2016 at 10:28 am

      God bless. You, ur definition is spot on

    • OMO NAIJA

      May 3, 2016 at 5:42 am

      CALIGULA, Or whatever you call yourself, I think your comment above, is very uncivilized , tribalistic & barbaric. This blog ought not to have allowed it. There are more civilized ways of putting across your opinion about marriage, without being an ethnic chauvinist and a purveyor of ethnic hatred. What you are trying to portray in your comment, is that Yoruba men lacks integrity, worthless, irresponsible, & would always divorce their wives.

      Does it ever occur to you that, there are many/several men whose marriages have packed up in your village or ethnic group ?. Do you realize that divorce & other marital problems are societal problems that cut across all nations, tribes, clans, & races ?. Civility would not allow me mention several marriages of our big men, musicians and actors whose marriages have crashed; and most of them are non – Yorubas.

      My humble view is that, you need a lesson in public commentary; in order not to be seen as a purveyor of hate speech.

    • EPI

      April 30, 2016 at 1:08 pm

      Middle fingers up, wave it his face, tell him boy bye! #DustToSideChics✌

    • mee

      April 30, 2016 at 1:30 pm

      I strongly believe all TIWA said cos men of dis dayz re sometng else cos dey all criminals

    • Shy

      April 30, 2016 at 1:59 pm

      Understatement…This is what you always get if either the bride or the groom does not first of all ask if this is love or infatuation..A man who feeds on her woman’s sweat is a shit and will always turn to be more shit whenever the woman is aware the man is not actually financially active in the house.

    • Ann1

      April 30, 2016 at 1:36 pm

      That was beautiful.

    • Kola

      April 30, 2016 at 1:53 pm

      “Where are d men ” dey are going after women and drink

    • Fri Achiri

      April 30, 2016 at 3:18 pm

      You couldn’t have said it any better!

    • Osa

      April 30, 2016 at 3:28 pm

      I KNOW TIWA WILL PULL THROUGH.

      TEE BILLZ YOU NEED TO GET A LIFE AND STOP BLAMING EVERY DAMN PERSON AROUND YOU FOR THE STATE OF YOUR SORRY SELF. I DO BELIEVE YOU ARE NOT ON ANY SUICIDE/ DEPRESSION STATE. BUT IF you are, seek help.

      THIS should be a lesson to all those women who are footing most of the bills. Your husband will be taking money from your hand bag in public (Yes I have seen that live). You will go to work and thru traffic , Get back home at 11pm, He would have been home all day and expect you to cook for him, and do the laundry etc over the weekend. Why wont he look better than you when he is not under any stress?

      When you age finish and start looking older than him sooner or later, your eyes will clear. It is then he will say you were the one doing him spiritually and suppressing his life so that you will always be on top. – To find a ‘valid’ excuse to be with a better looking and younger woman.

      Men never appreciate these things at the end of the day as God didn’t design things that way. It usually never ends well the woman being the provider.

    • anonymous

      April 30, 2016 at 8:56 pm

      Yes o. He should have drank sometin or use the ceiling fan, rubbish. Why did he come to the Ikoyi bridge?? Why did he tell d world he wants to die???? Attention seeker.

    • Nkechi

      May 1, 2016 at 3:45 pm

      Well said. Nothing to add

  2. Md

    April 30, 2016 at 12:09 pm

    She is also a hypocrite..she is already taking side and what is the stupid hashtag of women supporting each other, ,so I should support a killer, criminal or adulterer because she is a woman.nonsense

    • Odine

      April 30, 2016 at 1:21 pm

      Don’t sit behind ur cheap tecno phone and call anyone in this type situation a hypocrite. Walk a day in her shoes and even his shoes before you open ur blasted mouth & emit rubbish! I don’t condone any of their behaviors but don’t go on Abt people taking sides. Like she said, you got nothing good to say? You shut the hell up. Hateful people live in these times

    • Ijebujesha

      April 30, 2016 at 4:29 pm

      Here we go again- ‘cheap techno phone’. What does the type of phone or what does cheap or costly has to do with this? It is this undue pressure out of trying too hard to live fake lives and to be oyinbos and this singular emphasis on materialism that is causing all these wahala up and down..Nothing more!

    • Kola

      April 30, 2016 at 1:51 pm

      Are u dere …I believe she’s in d best position to tell us wat is going on wit tiwa and teebill and u are insulting her.pls tinz we don’t knw pls lets kip Ur mouth shut

    • Skript

      April 30, 2016 at 4:02 pm

      But you are really DUMB oh…what are we saying here…so because i don’t want to hurt someone i should leave only this ONE life with someone i don’t find happiness with…someone that would soon bring me down with irressponsible acts…when would someone not eventually die if she stays in that kinda relationship..na heart attack go kill the babe last nah…omo she has to be strong and be at the right mental state to stay strong and hustle for her children oh..am a man and i SO support TIWA SAVAGE..#StayHappy #NeverFindYourselfInAnUnhappyRelationship if you do #TryToMakeItWork and if it doesnt still work #LEAVEbiko

    • tiwa's cousin

      April 30, 2016 at 5:53 pm

      I believe your statement is really swallow.

    • lydia

      May 1, 2016 at 12:57 am

      I have been in tw shoes. Her story and mine r the same. Is only God that will help her let go of that pitty love she has for him. The husband is using TW deep love for him against her. She must pray for divine direction to make this decission. It is easy to say let her move on. Sis. It takes d grace of God to really move on in to a new like. It is not some thing u wish any woman or friend. Be careful what u say to a fellow woman, a wife and a mother. If u no enter u no know. U called her a killer. A woman carrying a load of 45million. Be careful what u say to people at this time of pain in their life.

    • Anonymous

      May 1, 2016 at 1:59 am

      I guess u must b one of his edible catering. Ish!
      Or maybe cocwhore.

    • Ij

      May 1, 2016 at 6:20 am

      You are stupid to say that, she’s Tiwa’s sister-inlaw and should knw them better than you that’s in kafanchan….

    • honeymix....

      May 2, 2016 at 11:13 am

      I think I know you from your name, I would not be surprised if its confirmed that you are truly the one.

  3. Wanderlust _Trekeffect

    April 30, 2016 at 12:09 pm

    If only people would listen, even people who have been victims of such acts would still turn around and do it to others forgetting how hurtful it is.

  4. Mr. Egghead

    April 30, 2016 at 12:14 pm

    When you are in the eye of the public, people will say nasty (and untrue) things about you. They will make memes and laugh at your expense. That’s the way it is. Nobody is spared, even the Pope has gotten a bashing in some corners of the Web. Some will love you and some will hate you The Internet’s code of conduct manual is surprisingly thin and nobody cares for being politically correct.
    Huddah Monroe is bullied everyday but the gal keeps her head up and is stuntin like a G.
    Either you develop thick skin and move on with your life or you shut down your social media and retire.

    | Don’t start quoting the bible when you’re already being hypocritical by casting stones.
    Please add: Don’t start prescribing “War Room” for every marriage related crisis.

  5. keke driver

    April 30, 2016 at 12:20 pm

    Why do I feel this is a publicity stunt? #My2Kobo

    • Ifeyinwa Mic

      April 30, 2016 at 4:40 pm

      I’m with you!

  6. Bubu

    April 30, 2016 at 12:23 pm

    BN pls stop posting all this write ups and comments from left, right and centre. Its beginning to annoy somebody. Aunty Remi wht exactly are u blaming the public for. I don’t understand, blame ur friends naow for ranting rubbish online. You put urselves out there and u expect what, people to clap for them oh support them I guess. Remember the PUBLIC is not their family members and friends that they should have gone to in the first place so what do u expect. On this matter o, the public you are referring to has no blame at all. Na Jeje their own dey siddon before they carry matter come. So pls.

    it would have been a different case if it was a blog or newspaper that broke the news but Teebillz m made it soo easy for everybody so pls when you see him blame him. You don’t have control over how people respond to issues, and this is a global fact. So all the family and friends scrutinizing the public and cajoling them to be nice. PLEASE TELL YOU FRIENDS TO KEEP THEIR PRIVATE LIVES PRIVATE. OTHER PEOPLE GO THROUGH STUFF EVERYDAY.

    • Ann1

      April 30, 2016 at 1:39 pm

      Who are you to tell someone what not to post because it’s annoying you? My friend and so what if it’s annoying you. Who are you?!! Look at this joker. If you want to be able to control the material that goes into a blog, then go open your own blog. Until then sit yourself down and eat whatever BN feeds you!

    • Dee

      April 30, 2016 at 11:27 pm

      You’re just too much!! Well said. On point!

    • Oluwatosin

      April 30, 2016 at 11:56 pm

      Correct joor

  7. TuTu

    April 30, 2016 at 12:36 pm

    See, all these celebs enjoy the fame especially when its good, they love to be worshipped and adored, they choose this lifestyle and they definitely enjoy all the benefits that comes with it. Unfortunately, the ugly side of it is really ugly. I do agree that it is very unfortunate that we live in a world like this, but if you present your life to the public, be prepared for the good, bad and ugly. You can’t ask people not to say what they want, be it positive or negative. Again, you live a public life which you benefit from, you will be talked about publicly when things get ugly and its unfortunate that some people are heartless, but these are people who don’t even understand what compassion, empathy, or love is cos they never experienced any of that. the world is harsh because we make it harsh, its a circle of life. These celebs themselves are not helping matters, a lot of them flaunt their wealth and lavish lifestyles on social media, reminding majority of the public that they got it good etc. while their followers are struggling to get the basic things in life. Yet you want these same people to be sympathetic. while some will be, a lot wont. We all have a duty to make the world a better place and it all boils down to love. Love for self and others. May God help us all.

  8. Tania

    April 30, 2016 at 12:41 pm

    It is not easy being in tiwa shoes, but even if what she said about her huby is 150% true, it does not help her case… She should watch aisha Tyler and said exactly the same thing case closed. People don’t need to know all the detail of what happen, when u invite them in, not be surprise that the laugh and are happy to see u suffer…stop feeding their voyeuristic sadistic way….. Get better publicist ….

    • omaa

      April 30, 2016 at 1:03 pm

      I think people need to know else they would assume tee saint whereas tiwa a devil.

  9. Damseldami

    April 30, 2016 at 12:54 pm

    Pls oo people what is the gist about edible catering and tiwa hubby??? I must have missed the info. Oh I never knew tiwa has birth mark around her neck /chest area its so beautiful!

  10. Fola Coco

    April 30, 2016 at 12:55 pm

    Why blame the people all across the world wide web….If you can’t handle people saying good or bad things,posting memes,judging you etc. Then live your lives off this thing called Social Media…If Teeblizz had not allowed his fingers go hay wire all of these can of worms would not have been opened…Marriages end everyday without drama,even celebrity marriages end with just a press release no drama.. You all keep posting your entire lives on SM and still keep asking people not to talk trash…[email protected] Egghead said it all….Even Obama isn’t spared,its unfortunately the way it is,it is what it is at the end of the day…
    Instead of addressing this issue via Social Media,aunty Remi i would have advised you be the good friend and big sis that you are offline…
    You are only giving people more reasons to talk thrash,to insult T n T and cast aspersions on them…
    Any good or close friends of either Tiwa or Tunji,should not be addressing this drama,defending,taking sides,or writing articles/epistles on it….Support them offline,in their homes…

  11. Muse

    April 30, 2016 at 1:08 pm

    But Tania, Tiwa is not Aisha Tyler nor his her husband, Aisha’s ex. Stop it already guys. Enough!

  12. Muse

    April 30, 2016 at 1:11 pm

    But Tania, Tiwa is not Aisha Tyler nor is* her husband, Aisha’s ex. Stop it already guys .enough!

  13. The don

    April 30, 2016 at 1:20 pm

    To be honest, no one has any right to take sides here. My prayers are with both Tiwa and TBills. As much as it is not necessary, until we hear and see a 45mins pulse TV interview with TBills, everyone should hush. There are two sides to every story. Both of ’em have played victims one way or the other. Let’s let God do His job…He’s the only judge

  14. Temiiii

    April 30, 2016 at 1:34 pm

    There was a life before Social media. Couples could wrong each other as we are not to judge. Couples have their ups and downs but putting it out on social media!!!!Hmmm..
    Seeing a celebrity granting an interview in the house. Has it gotten to this? It can be painful Yea and wants the world to know another side of the story.
    Ha a mother inlaw being accused  of witchcraft by a celebrity on social media and putting blames on her for a short coming…… This is the height.
    It is well.
    It is well with the Baloguns in Jesus Name.
    May God help us all.
    What is the future of Social media for all of us and the generation to come.

  15. nifer

    April 30, 2016 at 1:42 pm

    I have been there, i know what it feels like ; i feel for tiwa, may God grannt you grace and strength.

  16. Baba T

    April 30, 2016 at 1:57 pm

    Being an entertainer or a public figure is a very difficult job. But this is the industry they chose.

    When you make money off the masses the masses feel they have every right to judge you as they see fit. They pay your salary and afford you all the luxuries that you have by buying your albums and going to your concerts etc. etc.

    This is the life they chose. People will judge no matter what, this is just x 1million. They love their fans when all is well and albums are selling, well, this is the flip side of the coin.

    This too shall pass!

  17. jwezee

    April 30, 2016 at 1:58 pm

    I WILL TAKE SIDES..I WILL TAKE TIWA’s side..shey b they said to hear two sides of the story first.. Tbillz gave his own first, and tiwa gave hers..wot other side do I need? If they brought a lie detector now Tbillz would fail!.. How dear you put your wife mother of ur kids true that..I can totally relate with all she said..hian only her will deal with Infidelity issues, financial ,emotional (talking about I made u) but she was paying your salary , cover up his shame… It’s never easy for a woman to walk out of her marriage…the tbillz boy is bad news..Why wouldn’t he want to commit Suicide after owing 45m in debt..blaming his father and mother in law n wife for his failure..
    You are a disgrace!

  18. Oluseunplenty

    April 30, 2016 at 2:05 pm

    I clearly don’t understand what she’ talking about, who is tearing who down? How has pple laughed about thier predicament, abeg if u don’t no what to say, shut up.. not a must to comment. We all feel bad for them n they brought their issue into social media , they shld expect comments: good n bad ones

  19. Chi

    April 30, 2016 at 2:08 pm

    It’s a cruel world out here.

    But she can never say she hasn’t reposted or laughed at a meme that someone has posted about someone else. Since it hits home. It’s harder for her. Celebs know one hundred percent what they sign up for. It’s all so unfortunate .

  20. Shy

    April 30, 2016 at 2:09 pm

    Living together as husband and wife is the hardest thing on earth. There is always one issue or the other. But when marriage is controlled by what people will think or say, then things will begin to fall apart…

  21. Tp

    April 30, 2016 at 2:11 pm

    I hardly make comments on social media but on this, I will air my views.
    As hard as it may come on the couple, I would appreciate all that are reading to be as open minded as possible and not judge me.
    Both tiwa and hubby deserve to be spanked with naked high tension cable wire.
    For being such a huge disappointment and top of it all for being so selfish to wash it all in public thereby having total disregard for the marriage institution and discouraging people and younger ones who have looked up to them for mentorship that they can be like them. Have you wondered how many youngsters who may have just made mistakes due to the disappointing situation in the last few hours?
    Again, it all goes to same thing I have always said: the new world order is anti-marriage. Everybody is selfish! I do not support or have empathy on d guy because of his social media post and accusations. I also do not totally believe all he has said. He was just seeking a pity party for the failure and breakdown of the relationship and trying to make himself look clean. I also am so dissapointed in tiwa for putting up such a crappy interview for the optics in what seems (certainly is) like an Olivia pope ochestrated move to salvage her image and publicity in a twisted publicity stunt which is so not who she is. I don’t need a prophet to tell me she’s so happy it’s all over and pretending to be sad and dejected in her scarf and plain self and talking like a puppy when she is a lion. I can’t be fooled.
    At this stage, it’s in protective mode…save your image, not the marriage. Get the public sympathy and thrive and play of people who will quickly and naively embrace you as being he victim of an abusive man… And unfortunately it’s working.
    But God sees everything and He will judge right!
    For God’s sake: it’s just two months that things got really bad. Did they even try to make it work? Can you see how easy it is for either party to walk out? Marriage shouldn’t be so easy to walk out of!
    The thought of it should bring chaotic turmoil to the mind once considered such that people would work so hard to explore all avenues to make it work before coming out to embarrass themselves and dissapoint the young ones they should be mentoring.
    But no! It’s easy cos they have no mutual goals tieing them together …a goal whose loss they both know would ruin them to the extent they may never recover!
    It’s sad but that’s what the new world order brings and we need to see it that the devil is at work and not encourage the celebration and partisan views these type of news generates.
    We should be asking them both if Christ was the center for them both. We should be asking how committed they were to kingdom works and how their marriage and union was used as an outreach to honor God. Did they honor God with their lifestyle? Maybe and maybe not! Did they reach out for counseling when these irreconcilable differences came to surface or one party just felt it was a problem for the other to deal with.
    Do people even understand the true meaning of the institution of marriage or it’s about fulfilling societal demands and keeping up a seeming and expected appearance which society demands?
    Where is their faith in all of these and why are people not talking about the role of their spiritual belief in helping to sustain them.
    Look, this is one of many more to come if people don’t turn back to the scriptures.
    The moment a partner feels the other is not needed then there’s a problem.
    Greed and insatiable quest for power has replaced true family values as key ingredient for raising champions and it’s so unfortunate that nobody is emphasizing this.
    Be watchful because if people don’t begin to see this light and openly talk about it and condem it, they themselves are not exempted from the possibility of it happening to them.
    God help us all.

    • Ifeoluwa

      April 30, 2016 at 7:49 pm

      God bless you dear for this bitter truth

    • Vidavi

      May 1, 2016 at 5:12 am

      Sometimes there are non negotiables. He was snorting cocaine, bankrupting her, and putting her health at risk by gbenshing other women. Any woman that tries to work things out with such a man needs her head checked. These are non negotiables dear, deal breakers of the highest order.

    • OMO NAIJA

      May 3, 2016 at 5:01 am

      TP, God bless you for your matured, civil, and godly comment. You have really spoken the truth. Of course, we all know that the truth is bitter; consequently, not many people cared to read, like or reply your post. Majority of the contributors on this blog (especially, ladies) decided to take side unnecessarily; instead of addressing the root cause of the problem of the couple: which in my humble opinion, is the fact that the foundation of the marriage was shaky; thus the inability of the marriage to withstand matrimonial storms. Let us realize that to every Coin or Story; there are two sides, with each side embellishing his/her own version (and this is perfectly human.),

      On a final note, I urge us all to realize the fact that both sides are hurt & presently need our support & prayers. May God heal them IJN

  22. gbam

    April 30, 2016 at 2:18 pm

    see this so called friend. all these people coming out of the woodworks and inserting themselves as spokespersons. Tiwa gave her interview especially to prevent people like you. those who will try to get free marketing at the expense of her marriage problems. If this personal shopper truly cared about Tiwa and TJ then she will convey the message in person and not blab all over social media. Another vulture. trying to protect an investment. They already told you they are broke, you still want to keep them so that they can buy chanel and other expensive stuff from you. that is wicked personal shopper

  23. kemmy

    April 30, 2016 at 2:19 pm

    life of a celeb is often complicated. we all forget that they are not superhumans but human being like u and i. there is always a two side to a coin and those that where d shoe know where it pinches. pls stop judging them already. I pray God help them to overcome this trauma

  24. justsayying

    April 30, 2016 at 2:58 pm

    When all hell breaks loose in this family, who do you think is stuck with RAISING THE SON, ofcourse its Tiwa. My babe do whatever you have too to keep your job, raising a kid is not moimoi, regardless of what anyone says. She has to keep face for the sake of the child. Wemarried women know we are mostly responsible for our kids, our husbands can throw tantrums, we cant. No one supports us, not even the government.
    Throw the damn bastard under the bus!!!!! If he cant man up, and face his issues, he shouldn’t drag you down with him for the sake of your son. crazy!!!
    Our children must eat, go to school and grow up to be responsible regardless of whether papa dey no dey, no time oh!

  25. Esther

    April 30, 2016 at 3:14 pm

    Am I the only one that saw the part about the miscarriage? Nobody is bothered about the state of her mind after losing a pregnancy?

    • Osa

      April 30, 2016 at 3:43 pm

      My dear, so many issues were highlighted. Lets Just pray for Tiwa Savage. She must be physically, and psychologically shaken. She has been through a lot, and this must even be a relief for her.

      She will come out on top of the situation. Its TeeBillz who needs being saved. His life is going down the drain in my opinion

    • Damseldami

      April 30, 2016 at 9:11 pm

      Abi o. I remembered when people was crucifying her for the weight especially around her tummy who knows if it was that period the miscarriage happened. Social media shaaaa

    • jide

      May 1, 2016 at 1:27 am

      She didn’t sound ready for the pregnancy jare. Looks like it was blessing in disguise that she lost it. Which kind pop queen gets knocked up back to back and still save her career?

  26. Fri Achiri

    April 30, 2016 at 3:19 pm

    You couldn’t have said it any better!

  27. NationalSquirrel

    April 30, 2016 at 3:24 pm

    Eleohor and her best friend tiwa. Married cocaine addicts who are besties and who have now left them.
    Move in together. Rent is cheaper that way.

    • Adeanon

      April 30, 2016 at 5:20 pm

      Pure hatred. You are one vile person

    • jide

      May 1, 2016 at 1:25 am

      Owen sniffs to. Awon ode girls just looking for tall dark and handsome boys looking stupid.

  28. ojobo

    April 30, 2016 at 4:08 pm

    Am impressed by ur comment. God bless u. They will surely pull thru with time

  29. Moneymatter

    April 30, 2016 at 4:19 pm

    As much as Mr TJ has done many things as purported by Tiwa I believe the 45 million gbese is what drove him to lekki bridge, cos if he truly loves her or was hurt by whatever he claims she did he wouldn’t ignore her when she had a miscarriage.cocaine was also at work.

  30. tiwafan

    April 30, 2016 at 4:47 pm

    Probably you have to be n the outside looking in to see what this guy has done.
    1 He had no access to her money when she fired him therefore he planned other methods in order to swindle her thus the 45 million she will have to cover his debt.
    2 No man be it African or otherwise does not deal well with there spouse being successful therefore he tried to sabotage her career.
    Lastly this is for those who know what it is to be pregnant do you know how painful it is to stand for long like performing and having a huge belly in front of you then take the money and sqander. God help him.

  31. B.Savage

    April 30, 2016 at 5:08 pm

    . Everyone has the angle from which they are looking at this sad event that unfolded ….or is still unfolding. Hmm….My number one question for Tiwa and Tunji is have they both sat down together with an experienced adult about this issue atall?. Put aside the tantrums,..curse words…what he did or didn’t do and what she did or didn’t do. Did they at any point talk to individuals who are experienced and mature in their years and union, and see how they worked theirs out?? Did they really..really want to work out? Or are both parties just being lazy….Just asking…, cause it would be a shame if they didn’t. Also, i make bold to say that just because this happened, they are still strong individuals……i mean… to even let out their emotions at all., wear it on their sleeves. Looking at it from another angle i think they are brave…and not pretentious like thousands of others who are probably suffering, groaning, grunting and smiling but have no guts to speak out. I mean what is the difference between such ones?? And i am sure they might have commented too. Happiness matters a lot. But its sad their union got to this. To me. i think its quite fearfully brave of them to have spoken up..cause hurts and pain are crazy emotions to bottle up…so whichever way they chose to let out their emotions…i mean bare it all like that???…..it shows they are humans after all .. Hmm…very real ones at that especially in this society where pretense is the order of the day…….and who knows,……. just maybe….maybe……a talk together…..a walk together….with the right people…praying for them….too.. will help them make the best decisions which would not affect either of them. I am hopeful. ‘Goodbyes’ are sad. ‘End of the story’ is sad. ‘Splits’, bad..I mean for goodness sake….only God knows what disgusting and mind bugling things are happening in other marriages. But because people are pretentious…..they act like they are perfect and can mount a podium and preach! …well if they must preach, cause they sure damn well would, cant you preach kind words at least??. You guys…..pray!…..pray! not crucify people for baring their hearts out…. It could be anybody.’s lot…..be kind to people! Every one needs kindness, we all do! Show love if you wish it to come to you!

  32. Sherifa

    April 30, 2016 at 5:21 pm

    Thank you my sister for writing this post. I don’t know why people will want to kick someone when they r down. I don’t know Tiwa from Adam but I cried too my sister when I watched d interview! It is well with her soul!

  33. Hope

    April 30, 2016 at 6:56 pm

    Dear “Big Sis” Please read this to Tiwa.

    Dear Tiwa, I want you to know that you are so loved and cherished. What happened is a prayer answer you have been waiting for. You have carried this pain and saddest for too long for it always shows in your eyes. I wish I could just hold your hand and take you for a walk and then sit and listen to you talk. There is a lesson to learn from every life experience. And that lesson isn’t for you to sit alone on, but to help someone else through their life experiences as well.
    My dear “real love”is waiting to find you. It’s already around the corner; it’s not going to be long. Don’t grieve for too long (Jamal will be sad too). Get up! Dress up ( you can start with jeans ?). Smile! Laugh! Dance!!! My Eminado!!!

  34. lobatan

    April 30, 2016 at 7:09 pm

    Another publicity Hoe. You call yourself big sis, but you let things get to this abi? This story became public when TJ made it public on social media. You can’t run to social media and embrace it when things are good and then ask for privacy when things are on the down side. You are a hypocrite remi for not address them privately but on social media. get a life go shop for someone.

    • someonewhoknows

      April 30, 2016 at 7:43 pm

      I wish I could like this a million times. Very sycophantic of her to feel the need to make this post at this point in time. Friend for money. Ugh. I have met this lady a few times and she literally looms down on her nose on you if you aren’t wearing designers or a fake yeyebrity. Materialism is the order of the day. Let’s see if they will remain big sis if dem TJ can no longer make frivolous expenditures again. BN oya post my comment I double dog dare you…

  35. Ifeoluwa

    April 30, 2016 at 7:50 pm

    God bless you dead for this bitter truth

  36. Ot

    April 30, 2016 at 8:31 pm

    Its really unfortunate how full blown adults are messing up themselves in the media… What kind of example are they portraying. Are they the only ones with issues in their marriage?. Its really childish of them…..need to grow up and need the word of God in their lives.

  37. Mc

    April 30, 2016 at 11:26 pm

    Sorry I meant REMI

  38. Dee

    April 30, 2016 at 11:40 pm

    Utter rubbish! They brought their dirty linen outside. Am I supposed to lose sleep over this publicity stunt? Never. We all have problems. They should bloody deal with theirs.

  39. Oluwatosin

    April 30, 2016 at 11:58 pm

    I don’t know why this lady is blaming the general public as if they are the one that pull up the whole fight

  40. Kay

    May 1, 2016 at 1:26 am

    I wonder why Tiwa and Teebillz issue should attract sympathy from general public?
    Besides wat does Tiwa expect from a man that has billz attached to his name?? Remi abeg abeg abeg……..

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