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Pretty Mike and his Ladies

Over the weekend, a video surfaced on social media, of a popular lagos club owner, known simply as Pretty Mike, walking into a wedding venue with 2 ladies on a dog leash.

Here’s the video:

Many Nigerians have condemned the act, saying it is demeaning to women and girls. Another group brought the says although it is demeaning, female music stars should also be condemned for doing same in their music videos.

Then there’s a group that thinks since it’s between consenting adults, it’s none of anyone’s business.

Last Saturday was not the first time Mike was doing this as he shared a video on his Instagram Page on December 29, 2016 where he went to another event with the same ladies on a leash.

Nigerian nightclub entrepreneur @prettymikeclubuno is currently trending for attending events alongside 2 young women with collars around their necks with leashes attached held by him. Below is a recent slideshow posted by him. Everyone involved is an adult so we should respect their choices…right? Here is what he had to say on his page; ・・・ No matter how polished your shoes are or how well ironed your clothes are, people will always judge u! For when your clothes are torn, they will laugh in disgust, but when u appear better and more good looking, their eyes stare with accusations wondering what unholy gains u have made to afford the happy life u live. Well, hating is free, that’s why small minded people do it so well… This is 2016, and if the opinion of “JUST ORDINARY DUST” still bothers u, then u are the one with the problem my dear. Remember, they don’t want to see us win (major ?) #ButWeShallWin #ButWeShallBeFine #ButWeShallContinueToDoMakeup #ButWeShallMakeOurSmallMoney #ButWeShallBuildOurDreamHouse #ButWeShallBuyOurDreamCar #ButWeShallContinueToSubThem #TheyShallCatchTheirSub #TheyShallGetTiredOfLife #WeatherMan #TexasKid #HusbandMaterial ?? #sherrysam16

A video posted by BellaNaija (@bellanaijaonline) on

The videos are fuelling discussions on BDSM – Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism – a variety of erotic/sexual practices that involve the above mentioned, and other related activities.

Does this in any way deal a major blow to the feminist movement (as most times the Bottom/Submissive are women)?; is it none of anyone’s business if it is between two consenting adults? Let us know.

66 Comments

  1. Mo

    January 9, 2017 at 9:40 am

    And na mama born these ones now. They are better of as menses

    • A Real Nigerian

      January 9, 2017 at 9:54 am

      Shut up.

    • fleur

      January 9, 2017 at 6:15 pm

      Hmm. that is what he thinks of his mom and sisters and all females. Chained beasts to be covered and leading like horses at the tug of the chain. Aint nothing wrong with that. Let us just acknowledge it is how he sees the world. Those that want to marry him and be chained will do so whether we rip our hair out or not.

    • I tire for my people

      January 9, 2017 at 9:47 pm

      Only GOD can save us. Nigeria and the people in it have all lost their way. Look at the state our country is in and all these idiots can do is conjure up stupid personas so they can stunt at weddings!!! I don’t even know whether this is money miss road or poverty of the mind. I hear one of the girls is a law student/lawyer. It has reached the point where people will do anything for the gram/social media. Everybody looking for fame online. The internet is truly the devil.

  2. keke driver

    January 9, 2017 at 9:40 am

    As much as I condemn this act, I don’t think He forced the girls or put a gun to their heads, they did it willingly and i’m sure He paid them….. What’s your own?

  3. The Real Oma

    January 9, 2017 at 9:40 am

    anu ofia, every one of them.

  4. Toh!

    January 9, 2017 at 9:47 am

    With regards to this and feminism, I’ll just say; Wetin concern tea with fork.

    There have always been and will continue to be “weirdos” in this world. The Internet just makes news travel faster. Let’s just be sure to label them as “weird” so younger people can at least know that this isn’t normal.

    In the end, it’s all about choice. Afterall, you can’t force anyone down a given path. So,every mallam with em kettle

  5. Ngozi

    January 9, 2017 at 9:47 am

    Lost for words. Parents train up your child in the way of the Lord and pray they don’t depart from it or even when they do, they will still have some of your teaching at the back of their mind.
    What’s the position of the law on this? Can our lawyers throw more light on this? Thanks

    • A Real Nigerian

      January 9, 2017 at 9:55 am

      I am a sharia’a loving, sword wielding muslim, should I still train my kids in the way of the Lord?

    • keke driver

      January 9, 2017 at 10:21 am

      @A Real Nigerian To say you’re a sad person would only been understatement,you need help!!! Desperately

    • keke driver

      January 9, 2017 at 10:22 am

      *would only be an understatement

    • Deb

      January 9, 2017 at 12:01 pm

      Check the meaning of the lord before making ignorant foolish comments

  6. Baby gurl

    January 9, 2017 at 9:49 am

    Well I noticed that they are the same women he paraded the last time. First of all no one should cite poverty (talking about the women) as justification for agreeing to this. It’s more deep rooted than that. All three of them are psychologically handicapped on different levels and degrees. I cannot even fathom the thought that this man was allowed to walk into this wedding in this manner. Who are his friends, his family? Is this normal to them or we’re missing something? He even passed the policemen and they were just looking at him morose. Lawyers in the house, is there a crime of this nature and can he be arrested because I honestly think he has something over those women. It’s not normal. I’m really upset about this.

    • Nnechi Spicy

      January 9, 2017 at 10:25 am

      Arrested unto wetin? Are those girls not adults? And BN BDSM can swing either way. The man is not always the ‘dorminant’ or whatever its called.

    • nene+

      January 9, 2017 at 1:13 pm

      Deep breath!! Basket of deplorables!

    • lailatu

      January 9, 2017 at 1:52 pm

      Really?! Who does this in public? At a wedding, where there will be kids? This is wrong on so many levels and they should have been kicked out of the event.

  7. Authentic Sunshine

    January 9, 2017 at 9:51 am

    Somebody had better convince me this is a movie scene otherwise this is [email protected]$king disgusting. Who is he? Scratch that, WTF! !!!! O Chim ooo.

  8. A Real Nigerian

    January 9, 2017 at 9:53 am

    Look at this foolish hypocrite called Reuben Abati trying so desperately to mask the shameless, corrupt and disreputable loser that he actually is by deceiving people with hs faux feminism nonsense.
    We see right through your BS, old fart.
    When you and the Otuoke Drunkard were hoarding government funds meant for the poor, you didn’t say anything o. Now you are going up and down forming enlightened activist.
    Go f#%k yourself.

  9. Mo'Diva

    January 9, 2017 at 9:53 am

    Hmmmm I still can’t believe my eyes. What???

  10. Palesa

    January 9, 2017 at 9:55 am

    The only thing pretty mike is doing is trying really hard to dispel the rumors surrounding his sexual preference. The only thing he has succeeded in doing is making me believe that there is truth to what people say about him

  11. Mrs. F.

    January 9, 2017 at 9:56 am

    Then let it be the reverse, dat the girls are holding the end of the chain, while he is d one strapped with the chain around his neck, dis is just so disgusting.

  12. Palesa

    January 9, 2017 at 9:58 am

    Not that I have any thing against him being gay but he should quit trying too hard to make people believe otherwise. Those that know, know! Nice try mike

  13. desola

    January 9, 2017 at 9:59 am

    Am appalled!!!

  14. Spunky

    January 9, 2017 at 10:01 am

    See wet in hunger cause?

    • Spunky

      January 9, 2017 at 10:06 am

      Scratch that….this is an eye sore.

  15. Aghalibe Jane

    January 9, 2017 at 10:11 am

    Its well sha

  16. Zeeebby

    January 9, 2017 at 10:14 am

    It’s funny that people are now paying attention to this. The first incidence was last year…my mouth dropped when I saw the video. Do I blame the guy? it’s the ladies that allowed themselves be ridiculed i blame. The was foundation of this is money….THEY ARE GETTING PAID FOR THIS…dignity is out the roof in this country, SOME women will do almost anything for money and its very worrisome. worse still it makes life very difficult for decent women in this country. The other day it some lady talking about engaging in bestiality for money…..IT IS WELL

  17. The Real Oma

    January 9, 2017 at 10:16 am

    And did Bisi Alimi actually say it is “bravery and breaking barriers!?” WoW!

    • pheobe

      January 9, 2017 at 11:59 am

      When I saw his comments I was convinced that these people will go to any length to justify their disgusting actions and try to sugar coat it enough to make it seem normal. No surprise though the bible did foretell this time we are living in 2Tim 3:1-5. We can only teach our children that right is right and wrong is always wrong regardless of how ‘open minded’ you want to seem. God does not change and his laws and principles don’t either.

    • LemmeRant

      January 9, 2017 at 6:18 pm

      My own is that he kept on saying – they do it in western societies…, western this… western that…

      As if because its done in western countries ultimately means it’s right

  18. mzkis

    January 9, 2017 at 10:17 am

    End time things. Could this be the thoughts going through the mind of the ladies ‘ if people can steal, prostitute, kill to make money, why can’t i allow someone put a leach on my neck and drag me around. after all we have masks on and no one can identify us’. then again some of my people would say the guy ‘jazzed’ them. But one thing i’m sure of is that these ladies are not as excited as he is. Something is attached to this and i hope the right people would look into it without being blinded by sentiments.

  19. molarah

    January 9, 2017 at 10:36 am

    We sha know how to expend energy on non-issues. Are the women complaining? That’s his own idea of showing eccentricity and making an entrance at events, as long as he’s not breaking any laws I don’t see why we should be concerned. There is no need to attach excess meaning to this: I mean, why wasn’t there any outcry when Charly boy was showing off his two “virgins” in similar fashion? Please let’s return our energies back to the matters that affect our pocket abeg. National Assembly, how far?

    • BlueEyed

      January 9, 2017 at 1:55 pm

      Thank you @molarah, very wasteful issue. If this is his choice and style to make an entrance with then please let him, music artistes show men in chains in their videos and stage performances, women make Egyptian themed entrances with 6 semi nude men carrying them, so what’s the fuss about, the girls aren’t demeaned in any way, because it is different to Nigerians don’t mean it is weird. It happens, get over it and find the answers to the questions that matter.

  20. andtherewasone

    January 9, 2017 at 10:36 am

    I blame the ladies that did this. They just went down the animal chain. The guys in z dog costumes did that cause dey r obsessed with behaving like dogs, its fun to dem. But these ladies did it for money. I’m sure if he had told dem to crawl they would do it. Its just wrong in this part of z world. Its not errthaing we must copy

  21. Nuna

    January 9, 2017 at 10:39 am

    Oh well, the women were willing to be dehumanized. So its their choice. They are not hurting anybody.

  22. Madman

    January 9, 2017 at 10:57 am

    Who cares?.we have more important priorities abeg.

  23. Eki

    January 9, 2017 at 11:00 am

    Someone should please take the mask off the girls faces so the can see their ‘ass’ well.

  24. T-baby

    January 9, 2017 at 11:02 am

    Too bad his just an attention seeker, guess his mother was treated this way!!!

  25. Andrew

    January 9, 2017 at 11:11 am

    All you women fighting for equality and what not. Have you seen the sort of people you are fighting for? These sort of girls will do anything for money including beastility. If they can do this in public imagine what they will do privately..Why are people saying he should be arrested? He hasnt commited any crime. Snoop dogg did the same and wasnt arrested and as for pretty mike. This is so unnecessary. We know you have some change but come on man.

    • Stop bringing in and bashing feminism unnecessarily

      January 9, 2017 at 12:04 pm

      You guys will use any dumb excuses to put down feminism. Say it with your chest that your are misogynist. So because of two girls on a leash we shouldn’t fight for equal pay, better welfare, cheaper sanitary wares, educating the girl child, inheritance rights, better rape laws, women being forced to provide financially and still do all the housework etc. Please get over yourself. As much as you can disagree with them, it doesn’t mean they don’t deserve better rights- because they do

    • #MyPeople

      January 9, 2017 at 1:32 pm

      As we make effort to close the inequality gap, women are expanding the gap with the strength of a Tigress. What do we say to the two women gleefully & wholeheartedly parading under a leash in public? Some men have inordinate desires but women should not be wilful accomplices in response to their desires. Show of maximum cleavage, body parts have become accepted in fashion styles. Today, music videos are replete with scantily dressed women. If women do not accept such roles, men will not trample on their decency. Music lyrics are full of vivid description of the woman anatomy. I have never seen nor hear any complaints by the Gender equality group in that regards. In my opinion, womanhood has been greatly disrespected by the Men with the active support of the Women. No real man will be happy to see his mother, sister or daughter being disrespected by any Man. Women Groups should rise up and provide clear leadership for the girls, otherwise the gender inequality gap will tend to infinity in favour of the menfolk.

    • get your eye test done today

      January 9, 2017 at 3:12 pm

      God bless you!

    • anon

      January 9, 2017 at 6:31 pm

      My people it’s doesn’t matter what they want to do. The equal rights should still be theirs. A woman mustn’t be morally upright to deserve her rights as a human being. Get over yourself and don’t bring up feminism where it’s not concerned. They are adults doing their thing with consent. And here you are, and adult looking for any silly reason to tell us that women don’t deserve equality

    • Arikeagbe

      January 9, 2017 at 12:33 pm

      Should all women be denied decent treatment because a few do not follow the grain of society?

  26. Oshare

    January 9, 2017 at 11:16 am

    Pretty Mike local fowl , Trever Beynon wanna be .

  27. Xoxo

    January 9, 2017 at 11:42 am

    ??? did I just see #husbandmaterial in his post?????.. This life ehn

  28. Make I talk

    January 9, 2017 at 12:36 pm

    Errrrr, I don’t agree to this nonsense, but what’s the difference in this and the girls “Charlie boy” parades? Just asking as I haven’t seen any “internet meltdown” in regards to that. Those are people’s children too. #justsaying

    • The Real Oma

      January 9, 2017 at 1:17 pm

      The difference between a human escort and a canine one. Charlieboy’s at least ‘accompany’ him as human beings (even if their role is questionable). These ones have been totally debased.

  29. Kkay

    January 9, 2017 at 2:10 pm

    B**ch on leash? (B**ches on leashes).
    This guy is sick. The ladies are in critical conditions! MAD MIKE.
    Could their parents see the children they raised? Or did the devil breathe on them?
    My concern is that our children are exposed to all this perversity daily from the internet and music videos. The earlier our government curbs these vile behaviours the saner our society will become.
    Nigeria get ready for hurricane depravity in the coming generation.

    • Kkay

      January 9, 2017 at 2:22 pm

      …….When madness leaves the confines of a house and enters the market place , it is incurable!

  30. Human

    January 9, 2017 at 3:20 pm

    Hian…. where do i begin? Is it Bisi Alimi’s approval, the girls who let themselves be reduced to that? Is he paying them and how much is worth being reduced to puppy status? Or is it the club owner himself who definitely has issues going on several levels. Let me just sit this one out.

  31. Carmen

    January 9, 2017 at 3:25 pm

    When i first saw this online,i told myself it was just another set of mad people. I’m just reading here that he made the entrance at someone’s wedding. Like WTF? Hian…you can’t do that at my wedding,Will walk you out. Let’s all keep our madness to ourselves,please.

  32. Mo'Diva

    January 9, 2017 at 3:51 pm

    This guy needs to be brought to book. Haba! Nigeria isn’t that lawless. This is just sooooo stupid. And for Bisi Alimi to share his take on this makes me……..

  33. Tee

    January 9, 2017 at 4:14 pm

    @MyPeople pls how does this affect fighting for equality for women. Only in Nigeria, you don’t seem to think this is exactly why we need to fight for equality for women from Cultural, political, social and economic subjugation. Trust me if it were two men being held on leashes by a woman you would not look at it in the same way. Women all over the world are denied education, beaten to death, raped, maimed just for the stupid fact that Women are put on a pedestal by society and are judged by different standards from Men. Why should one Stupid man and two weird ladies affect the decades of Women fighting gallantly and sometimes to the death for equality, why should this fight be reduced to this one video of this three odes. I believe the guy is looking for Bobrisky type fame and he secured the services of the ladies to help him achieve it simple and short

  34. Rose

    January 9, 2017 at 6:15 pm

    The problem lies with these women who allow themselves to be treated like animals for MONEY.

    Why the uproar in here guys, after all these women are banking their money. Isn’t that the justification and acceptance of immoral behaviour nowadays??

  35. Nationalsquirrel

    January 9, 2017 at 7:12 pm

    What the actual duck is this?
    I bet he’s ibo

    • Cookie

      January 9, 2017 at 9:24 pm

      And what has being Ibo got to do with this? If you ain’t got something meaningful to contribute it’s best you shut it.

  36. Ejiro

    January 9, 2017 at 7:58 pm

    He just wants publicity and he’s getting it. Isn’t this how Bob faded got this notoriety?

  37. nk

    January 9, 2017 at 8:03 pm

    He has succeeded in announcing himself as gay as is being speculated because no sane man with a genuine girlfriend who has value for his mother and sisters will even think of subjecting women to this level of dehumanization. I totally believe now this guy is a faggot!!!!!

  38. nk

    January 9, 2017 at 8:26 pm

    This guy is actually sick, he is suffering from Masochism or Sadism and does need urgent psychiatric evaluation. I urge his family, friends and bae (Bobrisnky) to check him into a psychiatric hospital ASAP.

  39. Engoz

    January 9, 2017 at 9:32 pm

    Not even our forefathers disrespected womanhood to this extent.

    “is it none of anyone’s business if it is between two consenting adults?”

    I’m not interested in whatever perversion infantile Nigeria adults choose to engage in, in the privacy of their homes. However, it becomes my BUSINESS when such perverted engagements become public. Not only did they bring it to the public, they took their perversion to a wedding ceremony where you could find impressionable children. At the back ground of violence and rape against women, is the mentality of male chauvinism to the female which this picture projects. It does not respect the female humanity. And Bisi Alimi you did not give much thought to your ‘it occurs in the West too’ argument. Do women have the same protections in Nigeria as they do in the West? Even sex workers in the West are protected than a wife in Nigeria. Certain things can fly there because women are protected there. Then we can argue it is a choice because we have eliminated the factors that hinders her from making that choice. Without the needed protection of the female gender in Nigeria, I will not argue that this is borne out of choice. This is borne out of poverty, greed and lack of self respect on the women’s part, and chauvinism on the man’s part. I would like to know how much he paid these girls to disrespect their lineage like this.

  40. Andrew

    January 10, 2017 at 11:19 am

    Well i wont blame the Guy instead the Ladies who serve to be treated that way . i dont know if that is fashion to them as well, they should be ashamed been a lady cos if they didn’t succumb, i believe was not a force thing was their decision except nah Jazz he use, this should cause much online.

  41. bolu

    January 10, 2017 at 5:41 pm

    lol the amount of people condemning them is funny, there are loads of you all that will say this is bad bladiblah, but yet in the bedroom are willing to choke/slap others or are willing to be choked or slapped what is the difference..? Many people get off on different things he could be into domination and the girls into submission or if anything be into humiliation, just because their sexual preference is brought out into the open does not make it weird or bad. there are loads of people out there who like and get off on PDA (kissing, hugging) we dont start calling the name of God now do we ?
    loads of you all will run out to buy the next mills and boons/ 50 shades of grey.
    how you like your tea should not mean others must like it the way you do and does not also mean you force them to drink your tea the way you like it, unless their tea is dangerous to their health what is your own ???

  42. Mrs. AW

    January 10, 2017 at 10:15 pm

    Bella Naija typed:
    “Does this in any way deal a major blow to the feminist movement (as most times the Bottom/Submissive are women)?; is it none of anyone’s business if it is between two consenting adults?

    Please understand I, sadly, know little to nothing about Nigeria, it’s political, social, sexual, fetish NOR kinky perspective – practices. My response ONLY addresses what Bella Naija wrote and some of the posted remarks NOT Nigerian society/culture.

    Apparently Bella Naija believes usually ‘bottoms/submissives’ are female. If there was such a thing as an objective survey, I believe the results would, at worst be 50-50, but I suspect the proportion would be much closer to 60 – 40 (males to females), possibly higher!

    Regarding public behavior I suspect those who object to seeing people (NO MATTER the gender) being on a lead/leash also OBJECT to people kissing &/or ‘making out’/HEAVY petting in public. My concern is focused NOT on what my sensibilities are, but is the behavior (in private OR in public) truly CONSENSUAL? i.e. are all involved knowingly and willingly engaging in the activity? No compulsion, no obligation, ONLY desire – willingness!

    If so the participants HOPEFULLY respect others’ values AND believed their activity was appropriate for the particular venue. Please don’t ‘throw’ children’s sensibilities in, luckily they are less judgemental than most of we adults!

    Mrs. AW

  43. Bezra

    January 11, 2017 at 7:24 am

    FOR MORE ENQUIRIES, ASK DENRELE

  44. tre

    January 11, 2017 at 8:16 pm

    Bisi Alimi, the gay right champion suggested there’s nothing wrong with it because it is practiced in the west!!!!!! Why do some Africans let the west do the thinking for them? So, everything we do should be calibrated based on some cultures from the west? Whatever happens to pan-Africanism? The one good thing about the world is its diversity, loose that and it’ll be one boring place. Sad day to be an African.

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