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Don’t Complain About Anything Else if You Don’t Fight to Make Sure Mike Apologises for Walking with Ladies on a Leash – Ruggedman tells Women

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Rapper Ruggedman has reacted to the trending video of Club Owner, Mike walking into a wedding venue with two ladies on a dog leash.

Ruggedman, who expressed anger over what the “degrading act” on women, said that if ladies do not gang up tomake sure Mike apologises, he does not want to see any lady complain on his timeline about anything else.

He wrote on Instagram

Who do you blame for this?
1.The guy who thinks it’s cool to walk women on leashes like dogs?
2. The women who agreed to be lead on leashes like dogs?
3. The celebrant who allowed him enter the venue? IF I DON’T SEE ALL WOMEN GANGING UP TO MAKE SURE THIS DEGRADING ACT ON YOUR GENDER IS APOLOGISED FOR, I DO NOT WANT TO SEE ANY OF YOU COMPLAIN ON MY TL ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE ????

While many people have comdemned the act, others have said it is a sexual practice (BDSM), and since it’s between consenting adults, it’s none of anyone’s business.

40 Comments

  1. Cindy

    January 10, 2017 at 6:37 am

    Ruggedman, why don’t you speak to your brother yourself?

    Am I the only one who saw this pic differently? I didn’t even see it from a man-wan dynamic until people started mentioning it. The first thing that came to my mind was BLACKS!! Can we at least have some little respect for our ancestors who didn’t have any choice other than to have those chains round their necks?? Something that triggers so much pain from the past should not be used for fun or our entertainment. Pretty Mike needs to visit a slave trade center in Badagri to see the shackles of old with his own eyes. BDSM or not, this shouldn’t be done in the public!! Very distasteful action.

  2. Pissedofffemale

    January 10, 2017 at 6:46 am

    Nigerians and Nigeria will never move forward if this despicable man and his appalling act isn’t condemned publicly. All celebrities and citizens with a voice should rise up and should speak against this act.

  3. EC

    January 10, 2017 at 6:57 am

    This issue I don’t even blame the pretty mike or whatever. Those girls made a chose to disrespect themselves. There parents must be proud.

  4. R

    January 10, 2017 at 7:28 am

    Honestly, I would have liked for all women at that reception and its environs to form a straight line and take turns in giving him a slap or two each. I wouldn’t have minded being the last on the queue, even if there were 5,000 women on it. Absolutely foolishness on his part & the ladies on the leash as well.

    • R

      January 10, 2017 at 7:29 am

      What is the name of the his club sef? Lets start there…silly somebori

    • Aluemu

      January 10, 2017 at 9:34 am

      Actually you make a good point, same here, I wish all the women at that event stood up , formed a line and not allow him inside that wedding. The couple that allowed him in, would be embarrassed. I won’t be surprised if he paid for their wedding, that’s why he wasn’t sent out of that wedding. It’s just appalling how some things are allowed in this country. I don’t see it as just physical, there’s definitely a spiritual attachment to this. Did he just want fame by doing this? When he already has a club? I don’t think so…

  5. Sevenade

    January 10, 2017 at 7:45 am

    Ruggedman, I don’t get your drift oh! This is not a Mike Vs female thing. Every rational human being should be appalled by Mike’s action. The guy clearly has issues. Maybe a woman jilted him some years back becoz he was broke. Now that he’s made a little money, he wants to get back at every woman, and he has devised a perfect means to debase and demean women. If he tried this in America, he’d go from a big boy to a broke ass overnight. Coz celebrities and others who patronize his club would stop. The people who have the power to make Mike apologize are those who invite him to shows and patronize his club. That’s how he makes his money right? And from the look of things, they don’t have see anything wrong with what Mike his doing.

    • Sevenade

      January 10, 2017 at 10:20 am

      …….they don’t see….. with what Mike is doing.

  6. Alexandria

    January 10, 2017 at 8:08 am

    My brother, what annoys me most about the issue is that majority of the people saying “he didn’t force the girls” or “the girls are adults” are women. You are all embarrassments to womanhood. Are you people trying to tell me that if these girls had better jobs, they’ll still go ahead in doing such nonsense? Or are you people now saying it is okay for the rich to oppress the poor, because that is what it sure looks like. Sometimes I wonder why God decided to put me in a country with majority idiots. You lots are stupid as hell. From people falling for Ponzi schemes, to girls buying human hair that cost as much as a plot of land in Ogun state (yes, you could’ve owned several plots of land by now, you morons), to the mumus that are buying expensive natural hair products made from ingredients in their grandmother’s farms, to the women fighting for equality (which doesn’t exist by the way) who haven’t even started by fighting for women to be seen as humans, not as animals or objects. I’m done with y’all and this blog owned by the proud Uche Pedro who felt too big to come for a seminar she was invited to in Unilag, because we’re students. She didn’t even call to say she was no longer coming, we all waited for her till the very end.

    • Nuna

      January 10, 2017 at 9:14 am

      Calm down, you are all over the place

    • Nnechi Spicy.

      January 10, 2017 at 9:34 am

      awww Alexandria no vex you hear? So the ‘koko’ of the whole issue is ‘proud Uche Pedro’ right?
      A lady decides to do something meaningful with her life to earn the respect of both male and female folks and another decides to be on a leash and somehow the former is to be blamed for the latter’s choices. So for you the lack of ‘better jobs’ is these girls’ excuse for doing what they do? I know what it means to live in WANT and LACK (do you know that if you soak the dregs of garri it wont swell cos its very light?) yet, my sisters and i decided to never leave the narrow path and stay hustling honestly to make something out of our lives. You even ‘stoop low’ to abuse people whose stories you know nada. why will Uche now attend a gathering that has your likes in attendance?
      I repeat, they CHOSE this path, I chose my path so no lele!

    • Mz_Danielz

      January 10, 2017 at 10:54 am

      Calm down it’s a big issue but not enough to call all of us idiots oh.

      Some pple who fixed these expensive hair also have plots of land.

      To the issue at hand. Poverty and a lack of moral fibre is the cause. Who am I kidding, there’s no excuse for such madness.

      Uche, please if you kept these Unilag students waiting, try and apologize, seems it really offended them

  7. keke driver

    January 10, 2017 at 8:28 am

    For Mike to have conceived that kinda idea, it certainly means He has NO regards whatsoever for ladies…But come to think of it:

    1.These ladies had a choice to say YES or NO
    2. These ladies did it willingly
    3.They were paid for the job.

    So who do you blame?
    Blame the women who agreed to be lead on leashes like dogs and not Mike.

    • Apple

      January 10, 2017 at 11:52 am

      I am appalled by all the people trying to find some kind of validation for this, this is absolutely wrong even if they are willing. Human beings will seize to exist if we all act like animals and without reason. Nothing justifies this, and I don’t care if this is 2017 and we are suppose to be thinking forward. This looks like we are going back to medieval times and it puts a bad taste in my mouth.

  8. Okuko ocha

    January 10, 2017 at 8:29 am

    As long as the girls were not forced/coerced/hypnotized into wearing the lease, everybody should paddle their own canoe.

  9. Benny

    January 10, 2017 at 8:51 am

    “Don’t complain about anything…” first of all F*ck you, you random mountain goat.
    1. You acknowledge that women complain because they have REAL issues patriarchy (which you enjoy by the way) plagues them with. What have you done to help? Have we seen you at the forefront of anything?
    2. You have ABSOLUTELY NO RIGHT to give women terms and conditions for complaining; frigging emotional blackmailer.
    3. If you see something you are not comfortable with; take up the fight. Isn’t he your fellow man? Why are you delegating?
    Please don’t piss me off this morning.
    When these hedgehogs see women fighting for genuine causes, they stay in one corner and laugh…pointing fingers at “these feminists” and then return to dictate what we should fight for.
    Screw you. Nonsense

    • john

      January 10, 2017 at 9:12 am

      @benny calm ur tities down ,dearie

    • Benny

      January 10, 2017 at 9:55 am

      Your mum should calm her tities down.

    • Le coco

      January 10, 2017 at 10:52 am

      @John.. why shld Benny calm down.. maybe YOU are too calm

    • john

      January 10, 2017 at 4:00 pm

      Benny .. ure just a typical online retarded feminist who only shouts online..so my comment offended you and u decide to retaliate by offending another fellow woman not me ..so much for sisterhood and women power

    • Engoz

      January 10, 2017 at 2:54 pm

      Absolutely. Deep down these men really HATE that we are more vocal on our issues. They really dunno how to appropriate that feeling. So they use sly tactics like this to take a dig at feminism. Ruggedman if you are not going to help in beating the monster created by patriarchy, go away.

    • nwanyi na aga aga

      January 11, 2017 at 10:57 am

      Benny you see why Nigerian men dont take Nigerian women serious? A man ‘insults’ you then you retaliate by insulting his mother, a woman like you, who has done absolutely nothing wrong to you…Ngwanu so much for female power and togetherness..A na eme nu..

  10. Dadivascorner

    January 10, 2017 at 8:57 am

    I am sure Mike has sisters and a Mother. He has practically lead them too on a leach. Pls Ruggedman relax, mike just told the world he doesn’t have respect for himself and his female family relatives.

  11. Mo'Diva

    January 10, 2017 at 8:59 am

    Gawd!!!!! I’m vexed

  12. Ethio

    January 10, 2017 at 9:14 am

    My own is, how much does he pay them?

  13. o

    January 10, 2017 at 9:53 am

    Me I sha know that poverty is a bastard, if not the ladies won’t agree to this nonsense

  14. Sonia Paloma

    January 10, 2017 at 9:54 am

    All of them needs to go to rehab. Who da heck lets someone like into their party? I for one will not let such public disgrace into an organised party of mine, I don’t care who you are or how much you have just let the for slam your behind. Rubbis! I don’t even have the time or energy to be vexed because they are alll bunch of foolssssss

  15. Sonia Paloma

    January 10, 2017 at 9:54 am

    Just let the door*

  16. nene

    January 10, 2017 at 10:06 am

    how is this different from porn? some humans will degrade themselves just to get money, and some people are so messed up they will always degrade themselves for free. it’s not a man vs woman issue, it is a personal issue.

  17. Chinma Eke

    January 10, 2017 at 10:17 am

    All I see is the women who allowed themselves to be led on a leash! For what?

    • o

      January 10, 2017 at 12:05 pm

      For money sadly….

  18. Madd at Mainstream

    January 10, 2017 at 10:28 am

    All parties are consenting adults, abi isn’t that the same argument used for other issues that are equally disturbing?

  19. aisha

    January 10, 2017 at 10:48 am

    It just a stupid way of getting popularity…. I nt blame d foolish mike but the fools who call themselves ladies,and if they are DAT proud of themselves let them remove the marks on their faces…wat a shame,and we ladies we said we need equality.

    • Tee

      January 10, 2017 at 3:08 pm

      Pls what has this non issue got to do with the fight for equality by women. Why would any straight thinking human being reduce the fight against the social, economical, political and cultural subjugation of Women to a stupid 3 min video by 3 consenting adults. There will always be idiots be it men or women, trust that a man would allow himself to be leashed and led around by a woman if the price was right. Pleas don’t let the moral pedestal women are placed by society affect the genuine fight for equality by Women because if a man did this you wouldn’t use his actions to label menfolk. Please treat us all as individuals. Women all over the world are denied education, raped, maimed and you want us to carry this one on our heads as if this is the problem. In fact it is people who think like you that are the problem of womenfolk because you perpetuate the myth that women are angelic creatures that should do no evil this in fact is what fuels the discrimination and subjugation of women.

  20. FinchleysFinest

    January 10, 2017 at 11:33 am

    Just the same way I ignored all bobriskys post. This will be my first and last comment about Mike.

    And to be honest I have no words to describe this act. Its distasteful, dirty and irritating . Its not even classy.. The best way to end this is… no one should go to his club… Starting from all the ladies…..

    Guys should follow as well and lets wait and see how this idiot will remain in business..

    He’s just an attention seeker….. a wannabe …….

    And shame on the organisers of the party he went to…(I bet there are children at this party..)
    Shame on the Nigerian Police as well… I saw a video where the police were just looking at him as though its all good.

  21. cath.

    January 10, 2017 at 12:55 pm

    But were those ladies forced/manipulated to be chained?

  22. Engoz

    January 10, 2017 at 2:36 pm

    “While many people have condemned the act, others have said it is a sexual practice (BDSM), and since it’s between consenting adults, it’s none of anyone’s business.”

    Can these people hear themselves? You say it’s a sexual practice, and you brought your sexual practice to the PUBLIC. When did it become OK to leave your bedrooms and disturb the PUBLIC’s sensibilities with your sexual proclivities? God knows I don’t have time to be typing. I’m just going to paste what I’ve written before

    Not even our forefathers disrespected womanhood to this extent.
    I’m not interested in whatever perversion infantile Nigeria adults choose to engage in, in the privacy of their homes. However, it becomes my BUSINESS when such perverted engagements become public. Not only did they bring it to the public, they took their perversion to a wedding ceremony where you could find impressionable children. At the back ground of violence and rape against women, is the mentality of male chauvinism to the female which this picture projects. It does not respect the female humanity. And Bisi Alimi you did not give much thought to your ‘it occurs in the West too’ argument. Do women have the same protections in Nigeria as they do in the West? Even sex workers in the West are aware of their rights and make use of them than a wife in Nigeria. Certain things can fly there because women are protected there. Then we can argue it is a choice for the West because they are ways ahead in eliminating the factors that hinders the female from making that choice. Without the needed protection of the female gender in Nigeria, I will not argue that this is borne out of choice. This is borne out of poverty, greed, idiocy and lack of self respect on the women’s part, and male chauvinism and wickedness on the man’s part.

    I’m even going to remove poverty as a reason for this, because I know poor people who have maintained their DIGNITY against all odds. For me to believe a Nigerian woman does this based on mere ‘choice’ to be a rascal and dehumanize herself, we would have to remove the money incentive and other socioeconomic factors like level of education, mental state and the environment she grew up in. Would she do this without being paid? Would she do that if she grew up in a loving environment? Does it gives her pleasure to walk on the streets with a leash on her neck without being paid for it? Eliminate these factors and I’ll accept the argument of choice. The rights of two ‘consenting adults’ stops where it begins to disturb the sensibilities of other adults and children who did not ask to be disturbed by it. Majority are against this picture. We condemn it wholeheartedly! Practice your BDSM in your damn house or whatever prostitute parlour you visit. We won’t disturb you there. Don’t disturb us by bringing your sadism to the public.

  23. Mawi

    January 10, 2017 at 6:30 pm

    And somewhere close by, is another female praying that this thing called mike wee marry her. she will even be doing night vigil & fighting other ‘babes’ for him. A bit off point, but it’s a fact.

  24. pita

    January 10, 2017 at 8:10 pm

    he!he!he!….. gender equality…..!!odiegwu

  25. daphne_647

    January 10, 2017 at 8:19 pm

    It’s not even about equality or BDSM or consenting adults.
    This is about morality in our society.
    We condemn people having sex in public (even with consenting adults) because it is indecent and immoral
    So those saying this is okay in public, it is not. I dont want my kids to see this sort of debauchery. Save whatever BDSM practice for the bedroom

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