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“It’s not a do or die affair” – Gbenro Ajibade tells Wife Osas on Instagram



Gbenro Ajibade in a series of posts on his Instagram Stories. called out his wife Osas Ighodaro Ajibade saying she leaves their child and “goes out to party and hang with friends/events from 6pm till 5am”.

“It’s not the first, second, third, or fourth time,” he said, adding: “I see through all the hypocrisy and crocodile tears.”

“It’s not about putting sh** outside, it’s about final warning. I’ve tried every other means and you know it. It’s not a do or die affair.”

“Make up your mind and stop wasting a guy’s time,” he concluded.

We’re sending the love and light to the family as they try to resolve this.


  1. Oyin

    February 17, 2019 at 1:51 pm

    Wow osas you surprise me oooo,thank God d man spoke out about this attitude of yours. If not na gbero people go dey blame. It s well oooo.

    • Jide

      February 17, 2019 at 3:02 pm

      What attitude exactly? Why isn’t Gbenro around to help her take care of the child while Osas parties?

    • Femnazi

      February 17, 2019 at 6:23 pm

      Exactly. At least we still need concrete proof that Osas is actually irresponsible… HIS OWN IS RIGHT THERE IN OUR FACES. FaceTime baby daddy chatting away on SM… asking to come get the kid. Can you imagine? Would he even smell America if not for Osas? See his mouth ugggggh


      February 18, 2019 at 8:34 am

      Don’t judge yet don’t please

  2. Californiabawlar

    February 17, 2019 at 2:15 pm

    Aww! Sucks that BN “HAD” to post this… but such is life.

    Meanwhile Gbenro, send your address, Imma ship you a BluRay, 3-D, Full Ultra HD, 8K resolution limited edition with directors cut copy of War Room.
    We’re here for you sis!
    The fckry is strong on this one ????

    • Udegbunam Chukwudi

      February 17, 2019 at 4:01 pm


    • Re: Californiabawler

      February 18, 2019 at 8:38 am

      I love you!

    • Ify

      February 18, 2019 at 1:32 pm

      I missed you!!!!!

  3. Anonz

    February 17, 2019 at 2:36 pm

    Oh shut up Gbenro! If you’re no longer interested in the marriage, quietly divorce her and stop disgracing the poor girl on social media. Did you not know she was in the entertainment industry and prone to attending events late into the night before you married her? I no blame you nah, you’ve gotten what you wanted from her (green card), now your mouth is sharp. I don’t even know why Osas chose to marry a fu*k boy and lazy ass like you. Mpama. As if they leave Azariah for you, you can buy a tin of milk for her. Instead of you to appreciate all the hard work she’s been putting in to provide for your daughter,you’re here winning like a child. GTFOH biko.

    • Really?

      February 17, 2019 at 3:36 pm

      The standard reply when it’s the man complaining. We have promoted and supported women that have written books and used social media to vilify the men in their lives while gaining financially during the process. We call them strong and inspiring without hearing from the other side, but now it’s a problem because the shoe is on the other foot. The feminist in me says if airing your personal problems in public is good for us, it should be just as fine for the guys too. Equal rights it is, and women can also be the problem in relationships. I knew that this nonsense would back fire and men would take cue from us women and start “inspiring” other men.

  4. Somto

    February 17, 2019 at 3:09 pm

    It takes 3yrs to qualify for an American passport. Got married in June 2015, you got your American citizenship now, you want a quick divorce so can move on. Don’t vilify your child’s mother on the blogs because you want a fast exit. You are supposed to be a parent put your daughter first. Bella don’t eat my comment oo

  5. OJ

    February 17, 2019 at 3:21 pm

    I’ve not been here in a while since BN made a habit of blocking my is well shaaa. I salute Gbenro for voicing out after several attempts to settle issues amicably. Trust me, he would receive a lot of bashing from the feminazis here, that’s he’s a fool, an idiot, lazy ass man, only married her for green card, gay, cheater, etc….all those saying didn’t he know she was in the entertainment industry before marrying her….should that excuse her irresponsible attitudes? Awon New generation working women. Las las na the pikin go suffer am and the same feminazi praising osas will be the same ones to bash her life out

    Btw, has anyone noticed the trend….these women apparently see marriage as a bondage but would love to get married and at the same time want play upandan as single ladies…awon small girl with big God gang

    • whocares

      February 17, 2019 at 3:54 pm

      “irresponsible attitude”.. you have read a series of instagram post, a one sided one btw and have concluded that she must be the irresponsible parent.. wawu, such fantastic analytic abilities you have.

    • Sacha

      February 18, 2019 at 12:47 pm

      exactly, dont mind that poster, he/she believes Osas is irresponsible because Gbenro said so. what about hearing from the other side. however, i pray Osas does not reply. there’s no need. she should just focus on her work and take care of her child. I still recall that Osas was scandal free until she got married to this immature man. nonsense

    • Femnazi

      February 17, 2019 at 6:18 pm

      He’s a fool, an idiot, lazy ass man, only married her for green card, gay, cheater, etc… didn’t he know she was in the entertainment industry before marrying her?

      Thanks for making the job easy for us… easy copy and paste. Why won’t BN block your comments?

      My only observation is that Gbenro is going to use his SM posts as evidence for divorce (and custody? Doubt he wants the kid though)… smh. Osas they have put this boy onto game! You better lawyer up.

    • kikscoks

      February 17, 2019 at 10:28 pm

      How is she irresponsible??? If Gbenro can provide for his family will she be out working? This poor girl works hard to take care of her family while Gbenro sits in the US doing nothing, flashing up and down. Its sad how everyone blames the woman because she tries so hard to cover up his shame. Osas is one of the most hard working women in the industry. I think you should think before you speak especially when you don’t have an in depth knowledge of the truth. All these lazy 21st century men that don’t provide for their families but will still be forming head of the household. What exactly is he voicing out?? Let him go and work and take care of his family instead of dragging her out of jealousy and a lack of control. Now he has his papers he is talking about taking his child ‘ouchea here’ as if he would be able to leave Nigeria if Osas didn’t file for his green card. Irritant!!!

    • Comment

      February 19, 2019 at 12:21 am

      Yes OJ she’s a modern mom and he’s a modern dad chopping and enjoying the money.
      Trust me if he was a baller why would she be hustling?
      Truth is nobody should be coming out to voice their personal grievances on social media both male or female. There are healthier and more sensible outlets out there. The only reason why people go public ( both male and female) is because they want to be spiteful. They want to hurt the other person. It’s cuttjng your nose to spite your face especially when kids are involved.
      I only excuse people who have been victims of domestic violence in a genuine bid to help others.

  6. Seriously

    February 17, 2019 at 3:36 pm

    It takes two to tango. Just the same way it takes two to resolve issues.
    It’s so convenient for men to point fingers at the women, then women are so quick to point fingers at men and play victim role.
    I noticed, Osas looks so tired, and exhausted all the time. Heavy Eye bags, I’m like what exactly is she doing. And Gbenro is distancing himself. He will rather live in the U.S and build his career here.
    We all gravitate towards drama. However, I hate the rate at which marriages are falling apart nowadays. It breaks my heart.

    So, Gbenro and Osas, please remember what made you like each other to get married in the first place. Sort out your issues privately. Don’t play it out on social media.

  7. whocares

    February 17, 2019 at 3:53 pm

    sooooo Osas is not supposed to have a life anymore because she has a child? from 6pm to 5am, so presumably if it’s not a ‘babe in arms’ that child will be asleep all night then. So, either the father is home to take care of his child too!! This is the kind of man that wont understand the wife going on “girl’s night out”, but she should remain at home ll the time. I wonder if he has abandoned having a social life of his own too..
    I hate when men attempt to vilify a woman and the first thing is “she is not a good mother”. When you ask for concrete evidence, there is never any that doesn’t show their own hypocrisy. If there are other issues within the marriage, fine, but this one sided story and nonsense wont work. I was rooting for them also.

  8. Alfreda

    February 17, 2019 at 3:53 pm

    Gbenro is full of CRAP!!! I always knew he didn’t deserve her. You too take care of your child nau abi. I’m sure Osas makes more money that’s why he’s bitter. Attending events comes with the territory of her job. What rubbish!!! If you loved your child at all, you wouldn’t come and embarrass her Mom in public. Rubbish!

  9. Gee

    February 17, 2019 at 4:19 pm

    This is what happens when you decide to marry from the gutters! Every Saturday women choose to marry low. It makes no sense! Poor girl now has to deal with the shitbag! They also say she pregnant too but that’s okay. She can divorce him and continue her life.. working and leaving the kids with her nannies when she needs too. He’s a facetime daddy and has the guts to talk about her parenting. It won’t be well with you fool. Just say what’s really in your chest. Hand her the divorce papers and you go live your life stripping or whatever you are doing in the states.

  10. Baybie

    February 17, 2019 at 4:52 pm

    I think couples need to start signing non-disclosure agreements before marriage. Social media is not a therapist’s office, neither is it the court of law. Under no circumstance should you disgrace the MOTHER OF YOUR CHILD in public. If your families can’t settle the matter, go ahead and file for divorce, stop embarrassing yourselves.

    • Me

      February 18, 2019 at 6:07 pm

      Thank you Baybie for this on-point comment; you are indeed my baby. LOL

  11. Tony

    February 17, 2019 at 5:49 pm

    Quite typical. It’s always the guys fault and this is why marriages get more shattered. Instead of advising both to work on the root cause of their misunderstanding some supposed feminists are building theories. So entertainment business is now justification for negligence? It’s simple… Marriage does not mean children and when the decision to raise children is made, parents sacrifice. No one knows the whole story apart from these scanty call outs. .I feel so many people are in this current era frustrated with their lives and their source of consolation is seeing others in misery and raging insults. Gbenro and Osas u could well be reading comments so sit home and solve ur issues or break up. Don’t let vultures add salt on injury. Same people who hailed your marriage and tapped into the blessings are same ones who will bash you well..

  12. the foodies hive

    February 17, 2019 at 6:15 pm

    Hmmm , i hope they resolve this amicably .

  13. Mrs chidukane

    February 17, 2019 at 6:55 pm

    Interesting. They should settle abeg.

  14. Yomi

    February 17, 2019 at 7:51 pm

    Seest thou a Queen holding it down and all about her goals. If you have nothing to add, continue on your fuckboy journey and leave her the hell alone.

    Dont add the unfortunateness and madness if your family lineage to her life. If you meet a woman doing great in her career don’t expect her to abandon what feeds her spirit, soul and body just so you can feel more of a man. Please marry your no work to do slay queens or get a hoyse wife from the village.

    Manipulative narcisstic men are the worst.

    Nobody ever questions men who go clubbing all night and leave the baby at home but a woman who has to go to work at night and leaves the baby at home with a nanny while you gallivant all over America with a green card she gave you, clubbing with your boyfriends and piercing your nipples is now a problem.

    Surely your mental problems are borderline the Hannibal Lecter kind. Talmbout you know what to do. Motherfucker YOU know what you wanna do is get a divorce now you got that greencard so GTFOH with your marital problems on social media you overgrown spoilt brat.
    Let’s see road abeg. Election is on Saturday, Bobrisky says he might be pregnant.
    There are more important things for us to think about.

    • Flow

      February 19, 2019 at 8:16 am

      ?????I love you so much Yomi, let’s be buddies. Here’s my email [email protected]

  15. Adeola

    February 17, 2019 at 7:58 pm

    It’s very sad. That’s all I can say.

  16. Enny Heart Heart

    February 17, 2019 at 8:14 pm

    Aw Gbenro, I’m here for you baby

  17. Olivia Ruth

    February 17, 2019 at 8:56 pm

    BN – if you are really sending “love and light” – you wouldn’t be posting this.

    If you wanna be a carrier of family troubles like LINDA – do it FULL BLOWN and don’t shy away from what this really is (i.e. peddling family drama) by ending your article with, “we’re sending the love and light to the family as they try to resolve this.”

    Small hisss…

    • Madam Olivia Ruth

      February 18, 2019 at 6:17 pm

      Abeg sit. It is because of people like you that Bella Naija became incredibly boring. If someone puts something out on social media, they are well within their rights to carry it. What would be bad is if they start making up “exclusives” and tarnishing people’s image for no reason. This is a topic worth discussing and one of the participating parties but it out there for all of us to discuss.

  18. Amanda

    February 17, 2019 at 8:57 pm

    Gbenro, now you have gotten your green card we won’t rest. Some of us smelt the bs since 2015.

  19. Cynical

    February 17, 2019 at 10:32 pm

    And someone would have warned Osas before she married this excuse for a husband, but love won’t have allowed her see road that time o.

  20. yes maam

    February 17, 2019 at 11:06 pm

    I Destiny’s child voice. ‘question!’ Where were you Gbenro when the baby was handed over to a stranger?.Why wasn’t she handed over to you? #askingforafriend

  21. Missy J

    February 17, 2019 at 11:27 pm

    I don’t get… There are families where the couple live separately because of work probably and one parent is left to raise the kids because mum/dad is out working. Does the mean the parent in charge wouldn’t take control??
    Las Las as someone said, nah the child go suffer.
    Until we hear her side… I totally condemn parental negligence on the premise of ‘being a working class mum/dad’. What’s the essence of working if it’s not to provide a secured future for your child? Now, what good will it make to acquire all the money but lose your child(not necessarily death).
    Please o… Let’s learn how to balance our lives and career I know it’s far from being easy, Because if your child should lose it in life(because of you), my brothers and sisters… You are a COLOSSAL failure irrespective of your achievements..
    Osas and Gbenro…all the best!!
    I no know who send me type all these? # sigh.

  22. brava 04

    February 18, 2019 at 12:55 am

    I find it very disheartening how women are literally so good, I mean so GREAT at being hypocrites. It is unbelievable. Men have a lot of growing up to do, but my God when did women turn into one sided hypocrites. If you marry an american citizen,(Man or woman), just as your spouse gets benefits from marrying you, are you suppose to then refuse the green card if that comes with the marriage? and are you supposed to remain/be unhappy in a marriage that is no longer working because you got a green card ? These same women praising Tiwa when she came out and exposed her husband in an interview, are the same women bashing this guy for expressing himself in his own way. Lets not forget how much praise and money toke makinwa benefited from her tell all book bashing her ex husband. These were stories that no one was able to authentically verify. Toke became every woman’s hero for exposing all that unverifiable dirt. Do you know how many men get treated like dirt and get cheated on by women in marriages and relationships. This is precisely the reason why men do not come out to share their stories and even end up bottling their feelings and repressing themselves, because idiots will resort to insults, or emasculate and dehumanize the man. Then you all wonder why men are so angry and abusive in relationships (not excusing the behavior)? I have no clue if this man is telling the truth or he is the guilty party, but can a brother have an open space to express himself and whine about his relationship, the same way women feel the need to? Are we really pushing for equality as we claim or is this just the battle of the sexes? Men get cheated on or disrespected in relationships too, but popular belief out there is MEN ARE SCUM! No man wants to be called a p***y when they tell their stories, thats why they end up sorting it out mentally by themselves. We need to make progress and treat each other respectfully.

    • newbie

      February 18, 2019 at 6:07 pm

      Bro you got it wrong. It was Tiwa’s husband that started it by calling her out on social media, so she responded via interview to clarify, maka ndi uta. Who knows, Osas might just grant her own video interview to clarify!

      Seriously though why would couples feel like SM is the best place to put up their relationship issues?

    • Madam Olivia Ruth

      February 18, 2019 at 6:26 pm

      I am a card carrying feminist and I completely agree with you. I honestly expected the conversation to be a bit more balanced. Young man complained of his wife parting all night and all the responses here claim she is working all night. Haba let’s fear God abeg. 5pm to 6am – which kin work be that. As a woman, I won’t take that shit from my husband (except he is a doctor working night shift), why should we expect a man to take it.

      I don’t follow either of them on social media but it seems Gbenro is also party animal, hence the reaction he is getting from people. As people have said, las las it is the child that will suffer. I hope they resolve the issue amicably, but until further evidence I am with Gbenro on this one.

    • Tolu

      February 18, 2019 at 11:27 pm

      @Madam Olivia. I agree with you o. Me too I will not take it of my husband goes partying without me from 6pm to 5am. Haba, what is that. And yes except he is a doctor. Children or no children, we must go together.

  23. Random

    February 18, 2019 at 4:13 am

    Insecure men are the worst. They get very vindictive and childish. This is like a Tiwa Savages ex…Yoruba demons. He shouldn’t have don’t this. For his daughters sake at least. Even if Osas was wrong. This is not honorable at all.

  24. OJ

    February 18, 2019 at 4:13 am

    Awwwww….let the bashing keep coming jare, na who ee epp sed? Anyway just so you know, there are plenty kidnappers and ritualist in town, and of course we don’t know what Nanny too is cooking up in her head… for naija dem dey pull these kind stunts, leaving a baby with a stranger to go droop off at home while she jolly dey go all night long….in the US isn’t that what we call child negligence or abandonment…anyway na naija we dey…. Oya come and bash me again

  25. Nonzzy

    February 18, 2019 at 4:28 am

    This has nothing to do with the well being of their child. He just wants to embarrass her and look like the better person with his face like “this was the plan all along.” What if that plan is not the best plan for the family right now? Please, Oga Gbenro, show me a list of jobs you have done in that Atlanta or wherever you are that does not include your 16th nose piercing or is it nipple piercing?

    The events she attends are seemingly for her job or to support friends. She does not come across as one of those reckless people that party just to be seen and she seems like she has such a positive attitude while Mr. Man is looking like Johnny miss road. And, pray sir do tell me how this your so called last warning is the best way to reconcile with your wife and mother of your child and to get her to listen? Don’t worry (if it was green card that you were looking for), you will soon find out that it is not the answer to all problems in life.

  26. Mama Jay

    February 18, 2019 at 4:55 am

    May God help them. But social media is not the solution to the problem

  27. Jummy

    February 18, 2019 at 7:59 am


    Oh how the tables would have turned if it was Osas who came to cry to social media. You haven’t let the story play out to see who’s lying and who’s not (even though we’ll never truly know)yet you’ve become judge and jury calling him all sorts of names. Smh.

    Not advocating he’s right, in fact I think coming to social media to “vent” is extremely wrong. However, the hypocrisy in the comments is absolutely disgusting.

    I really don’t have anything to say other than that I pray they really fix their issues, and Gbenro: SORT YOUR ISSUES WITH YOUR WIFE IN PRIVATE!

  28. Physio Tinu

    February 18, 2019 at 8:27 am

    BN.. your life must be hard. Having to keep up with the tabloid gists that make us click yet trying to be upscale and paragon of virtue… ” sending love and light your way”
    Hahahahaha. Don’t mind all those sanctimonious bners jare, they love the gossip as much as we do. As for this story, in a few days time, another person’s issue will trend, poor child thats caught in the middle.


    February 18, 2019 at 8:33 am

    look at this stupid boy that got his American papers thru his wife Osas na wao all these stupid childish boys that are not ready for marriage if iam osa I will call ice that I was blackmailed into marrying ajibade and the yeye boy parties like mad in America like kilode. the thunder that will fire you is still doing press up.

  30. Max

    February 18, 2019 at 9:34 am

    Someone is being excited here. This guy must be dodgy on something. Even if your wife is totally off the line, is this how to correct her? I am sorry but this guy is not being a good hubby.

  31. larz

    February 18, 2019 at 10:03 am

    This is the most comments I have seen on a BN post in months within 24 hours of posting.

    For those calling out BN, abeg let the numbers speak for themelves. Demand meets supply.

    • NG

      February 18, 2019 at 2:03 pm

      Surprised at the no of comments…was what actually made me come ‘see’ what its all about

  32. 2shee

    February 18, 2019 at 10:47 am

    If this is the only issue in the marriage and he is already on the internet, then he has some growing up to do. How many events can she probably attend in a month? at most 7. its not like she does a 9 to 5 job to this. so u cannot support or arrange a family member or reliable nanny for 7 instances in a month. so what do you want men that marry bankers like me or worst doctors to do. She needs to attend those events to get jobs. Jobs will not fly to your house without you establishing relationships with well connected people across the globe. You are just a jealous guy. Since you know you are not ready for marriage, then you guys should not have wasted so much money doing wedding in Nigeria and abroad. I watched it , you could not have spent less than 15 million on both weddings. Oga, marriage requires a lot of hard work, respect, trust and commitment from both parties, So improve on this first and stop disturbing everybody. If all of us come online to share our marriage challenges, the online platform would have crashed by now.

  33. 2shee

    February 18, 2019 at 11:01 am

    If this is the only issue in the marriage and he is already on the internet, then he has some growing up to do. How many events can she probably attend in a month? at most 7. it’s not like she does a 9 to 5 job to this. so u cannot support or arrange a family member or reliable nanny for 7 instances in a month. so, what do you want men that marry bankers like me or worst doctors to do. She needs to attend those events to get jobs. Jobs will not fly to your house without you establishing relationships with well-connected people across the globe. You are just a jealous guy. Since you know you are not ready for marriage, then you guys should not have wasted so much money doing wedding in Nigeria and abroad. I watched it, you could not have spent less than 15 million on both weddings. Oga, marriage requires a lot of hard work, respect, trust, compromise, perseverance, patience and commitment from both parties. And yes, I intentionally skipped love because I have found out overtime that the word love has been abused, I will rather mention and focus people’s attention on the ingredients that constitute love. So improve on this first and stop disturbing everybody. If all of us come online to share our marriage challenges, the online platform would have crashed by now.

  34. hmm

    February 18, 2019 at 1:00 pm

    Why are the both families intervention futile? – There must be more to this story. There is more to life than a green card and what message are they sending to their daughter??.

  35. meelikey

    February 18, 2019 at 1:19 pm

    ……so much for stooping ,Osas in the next world (that’s if there is) Do Not, i repeat DO NOT repeat this sorry of a mistake !!!!!

    • Where the desirable is unavailable...

      February 18, 2019 at 3:48 pm

      she should’nt have married Gbenro, who should she have married?? If she saw a high class, american hard working citizen in the US, will she have left him to come marry Gbenro?

    • Tolu

      February 18, 2019 at 11:29 pm

      Nothing like high class there. Even Washington DC medical doctor will not take it, and how many women can stand it. Your husband going to party vigils leaving you with the children.

  36. Passingby

    February 18, 2019 at 3:14 pm

    Hello Daddy,
    I’m not sure it will be cool for your child to see this post in future…. you just opened your doors to “Village People”. trust me not one marriage is what it looks like from the outside… if you cannot settle your marital issues outside the social media space, then you guys had no business getting married…This right here is LOW!…. let me be come and be going…. WhatDoIEvenKnow.

  37. olajumoke

    February 18, 2019 at 4:21 pm

    Most of you saying “give the baby to a nanny”..and the nanny happens to be a serial killer, you are the same people who would bash osas for being a nasty mother! No matter how busy a man or woman is, they need to take care of their children and watch them grow.. if he is saying the truth, 6pm to 5am is not too good enough to leave a child with a stranger! And Gbenro, would you just come back and face your famiily? What are you doing in USA? Chasing shadows? A child needs both parents!

  38. Girl please

    February 18, 2019 at 8:02 pm

    Gbenro needs to shut his scamming mouth and stop putting his family business out there! You mean to tell me that you did not know that her job would involve late nights when you met her? Aren’t both of you in the entertainment industry? Now you want to act brand new. Please just go sit down quietly somewhere with your green card chasing ass!
    I envisioned this happening from the moment they got engaged.

  39. Jade edo babe

    February 18, 2019 at 8:23 pm

    Chai, I was rooting for both of them from day one. Osas is obviously the breadwinner, she’s working her ass off. There’s not one movie, she’s not connected to. From photoshoots to endorsements. She looks so tired.
    Gbenro, you are in Georgia flexing your dreads and muscles. What are you doing to provide for your family. Very disappointing.


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