Toke Makinwa: “We Think We Can Change Him”! Watch “Say No to Bad Boys – Mr Sweet Mouth”

Posted on Thursday, November 14th, 2013 at 2:25 PM

By BellaNaija.com

Toke Makinwa Vlog - November 2013 - BellaNaija

“I can change him from his bad way”.

Nigerian media personality Toke Makinwa is out with a new episode of her vlog series.

For this week, she shares her views on the many “Mr Sweet Mouth” out there. Watch why Toke is telling you to “Say No to Bad Boys”.

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    • Hmmm November 14, 2013 at 2:30 PM

      No comment

      • T November 15, 2013 at 2:00 AM

        I remember someone once suggested watching these Toke’s videos on mute. lol. Like Nigerians will say, #facial expressions of life!

        • Blossom November 16, 2013 at 2:12 AM

          Toke, it is ‘reason’ not ‘reasing’ and ‘virgin’ not
          ‘virging’.

    • Famz November 14, 2013 at 2:32 PM

      Like someone told you yesterday, apply that to your life first. Prove to us that you are not a key(ring) holder. Thank you .

      • Hmmmnnnnnnn......... November 14, 2013 at 2:50 PM

        hahahaha……. toke, now i get you the whole blog is about your life ,just describing your man right o.k. ’cause if he is 41 and not thinking of marrying your a** boo boo time to project your feet to where the grass is greener.most guys at that age got their acts together and already have a family(wife and kids) .toks is time for you to take a step back and leave uncle or daddy for the younger generation ehn!! atleast we can give you 1 or 2 advice.

      • Hmmmnnnnnnn......... November 14, 2013 at 2:51 PM

        GBAM!!!

      • slice November 14, 2013 at 2:59 PM

        but maybe she enjoys wearing her “key ring.” Maybe the guy doesn’t want to marry her but he’s providing other things she enjoys like his company, sex, etc.

        • Mrs Dangote (nee Anonymous) November 14, 2013 at 5:02 PM

          :-) You’re mean!!! “Key ring”.

      • nahmeoh November 14, 2013 at 4:27 PM

        pls why does she need to prove anythig to you? give the girl a break abeg

      • whocares November 14, 2013 at 5:41 PM

        looool. you saw the twit from venetia? not sure if that’s her right name.. it was a bit harsh though wasn’t it?

    • jcsgrl November 14, 2013 at 2:36 PM

      Lool omotoke of life! You and these your vlogs shaa. I
      truly hope they don’t set up in life in a bad way…honestly. I
      hope it give you the fame, money, love and happiness you wish for.
      sighs

      • TA November 14, 2013 at 3:26 PM

        Welcome back dear! I missed you :-)

        • jcsgrl November 14, 2013 at 9:22 PM

          Darling TA…I missed you too

    • Robin Hood November 14, 2013 at 2:38 PM

      Famz… u a mean mofo. lol

    • eesha November 14, 2013 at 2:40 PM

      I’ll come back for the comments.

    • Chum chum November 14, 2013 at 2:42 PM

      Hmmmm Toke Toke enough said.

    • J November 14, 2013 at 2:44 PM

      Keep it up Toke… love your sense of humor… God
      bless

    • Swtzee November 14, 2013 at 2:45 PM

      ….I just feel so sorry for her… :D

      • Leah November 14, 2013 at 9:44 PM

        So do I.

    • slice November 14, 2013 at 2:55 PM

      Toke dear. God bless your hustle! the babe is consistent for sure. keep on keeping on.

      • Mz Socially Awkward... November 14, 2013 at 4:41 PM

        Hahahaha!! I actually enjoyed today’s vlog a lot. Toke, you ain’t never lied. Sometimes we get with guys we should never have touched with a 100 foot barge pole and excuse our lapse of common sense with reasons like, “I like the way he makes me feel, I don’t want to endure my relationship, he REALLY gets me, I deserve some excitement in my life, blah-blah-blah”.

        Bad boys are agents of the devil sent to derail women. Although, I disagree on one point, Toke. We’ve lost nothing if he decides to carry his excess baggage to dump upon the chaste laps of some unsuspecting bride because if homeboy hasn’t found Jesus & truly repented, that poor woman’s in for a very rocky ride…

        • jcsgrl November 14, 2013 at 9:25 PM

          Hmnn nne I dont know what ppl see in bad guys honestly. I do not like their type of excitement and leaving on the wild side. Maka why? Imma need you to treat me right with respect, love and admiration. Thats all the excitement I need. I dont care how fine or spontaneous he is but bad boys??? Get theee behind me, my sisters and any female that appreciates themselves

    • Great Portland Street November 14, 2013 at 2:55 PM

      No comment!

    • eve November 14, 2013 at 2:56 PM

      Beautiful and talented young woman keep up… U are doing a very good work dear !!!!

    • whoop! November 14, 2013 at 2:57 PM

      u guys free this girl. she’s doing all this for fun. her relationship(11 years courtship) with beau is enough to explain that.

    • tana November 14, 2013 at 2:59 PM

      lmao!!!! once again she has distributed guns for people to shoot her with.

    • PRIMEPERSONA November 14, 2013 at 3:01 PM

      Why exactly do you feel sorry for her? You know I use to be of the opinion that she shouldn’t do these vlogs seeing that it sensitively creates room for people to criticize her relationship(asking her to practice what she preaches) but on another note, I see consistency in this girl. These vlogs has generated hate, spite and criticism but she remains unwavering and trust me this is a good business/ career strategy. And hopefully, it’ll pay off someday.
      I wish you the best Toke. Methinks, i’m your huge fan now

    • Myturn November 14, 2013 at 3:08 PM

      Nobody should say anything again about her accent o! What we have now, is some sort of diluted or watered down accent , which we have now accepted as normal. Please watch Tafa Balewa on YouTube , I believe that that was the way they spoke then.

    • St. ed November 14, 2013 at 3:18 PM

      My 2cents – The guy she’s currently dating would eventually end up not marrying her. The guy would end up breaking her heart and going for someone else. He is just bidding his time. The earlier someone advises her, the better for her.
      TOKE BE WARNED!
      This message is sponsored by a fellow Mr. Sweetmouth

      • Tincan November 14, 2013 at 4:35 PM

        I disagree o. He has been rubberstamped! Who else will marry him now? When if you google him, half his pics are with Toke. Unless he is completely heartless, how does he want to dump her now? Unless he makes it really big, really fast, she don catch am. The other thing is, if you look at their pictures, he does not look like a guy who does not want to be with her. They look happy together, to me, so why are we worrying about them?

        • MissT November 14, 2013 at 5:00 PM

          It will shock u , Someone will marry him within a month . Toke wont be the first girl in a publicized relationship that lead to nothing . It happens all the time . i am curious why after dating for over 10yrs none of his many nieces or nephew are even her friend on facebook . …………… Toke think abt that .

        • I'm Rick James Bitch! November 14, 2013 at 6:11 PM

          Miss T. U got it bad for Toke tho. You know all her facebook friends. Girl. . . .

        • missT November 14, 2013 at 8:10 PM

          i dont know her facebook friends she has like over a 1,000 but i am related to him so most of his family are my friends and its rather strange that none are her friends . not even one, for a couple who claim to be together for over a decade ……… This her vlog post is directly for her, she needs to take her own advice

      • jcsgrl November 14, 2013 at 9:29 PM

        I hate to agree with you but honestly this is my fear for her. Like I said I truly hope this her vlog works out for her later in life. She is towing the path of the Kardashians slowly but surely. I hope its worth it at the end. I am by no means discouraging her creativity on the vlogs but she better hope to God she knows what she doing

    • L November 14, 2013 at 3:18 PM

      nice make up but one eyebrow is thicker than d other :)

    • Meet9jasinglesHERE November 14, 2013 at 3:55 PM

      She is just trying to share her own little advice. You guys shld let her be.

    • mostbeautifulgirlin9ja November 14, 2013 at 3:58 PM

      Keep it up Toke. Consistency wil prove your critics wrong.

      • Leah November 14, 2013 at 10:04 PM

        Hi Toke,
        you forgot to change the IP number on this device after you wrote as Met9jasinglesHERE like you did on other “consistency” comments (you are usually good at that). Avatars just don’t lie. Also, it is becoming so easy now to figure out your different names because they always show up with FIRE everytime and only when there is a “Toke” in any article. You have to get more creative and be more carefull now. ;)

        • Loves2Laugh November 15, 2013 at 1:36 PM

          Damn! Big Bro (abi na li’l sis) sure is watching you!
          (looking behind me in trepidation) :D

        • lara November 15, 2013 at 3:52 PM

          omg…so how does that prove that it’s her……..mehn some people she….

          toke please keep it up and be CONSISTENT….I truly love your blogs esp the one of the ex factor, you spoke to me in that one and encouraged me to get out of the horrible situation i was in..

          omg Leah, why doesn’t this post have a fire avatar..omg omg something must be wrong…this must be toke abi, but it is showing another avatar type……..hiss…

    • Noms November 14, 2013 at 4:03 PM

      Commentless.

    • Global November 14, 2013 at 4:07 PM

      Laughed so loudly watching this. I like Toke, she is a hoot. My best line is “Sister geh”. loooolllll

    • kim November 14, 2013 at 4:07 PM

      its finally here! luv toke’s vlog. pls keem dem coming. pple r just gonna hate more but the more they hate, pls throw more at their faces. tunde and wunmi dated for 15yrs before they got married, toke hv known him 4 eleven yrs and hv been dating for 8yrs now. so leave her alone afterall, its not ur BIZ! toke pls keep up d gud work.

    • mii November 14, 2013 at 4:14 PM

      LOL!!! no matter wat has been said about TOKE, this makes
      alot of sense to ladies who need it, yes it might b dat its wats
      happening in her relationship, it my b that shes been dating this
      guy for 60yrs, it might b that shes started wearing a rock wifout
      her boo proposing to her, it might b dat she isnt practicing wat
      she preaches, but please d message shared is very very vital, dis
      is wat is happening to alot of ladies out there that y u sii a
      beautiful lady wif gud character, beautiful in nd out almost
      perfect and den u wonder wat d problem is…no matter who TOKE is
      lets leave her and focus on the message…d world will b a better
      place for us ladies!!!

    • Hausa Girl in Texas November 14, 2013 at 4:26 PM

      Deep down.
      All these videos is a cry for help.
      Using these forums to shed light in
      Her own personal struggles, and hanging
      By The thread for 11 years to a man who
      Can’t give her either a “Green Light”
      (Taking The Relationship to another level)
      Or a “Red Light” (CALL it Quits and move on)
      For 11 years their relationship light
      Has been on ;Yellow” (Slowing Down)
      I find her very entertaining, and hilarious
      But all these videos are indeed A DESPERATE
      cry for help.
      Now I understand why someone mentioned
      Earlier “I feel sorry for her”

      • NK November 15, 2013 at 9:16 AM

        Why now? You just finished this babe.

    • nahmeoh November 14, 2013 at 4:32 PM

      people seriously need to stop hating on this girl. You can skip her videos and move on to other BN articles if you don’t like what she has to say! HABA! This hate is too much!!! What does her relationship or lack of marriage or 11 year engagement affect your life or how often you fart? Why not worry about yours? Shame on all una haters.
      Toke..keep hustling jare.

    • Tim November 14, 2013 at 4:35 PM

      I still don’t understand this girl, you need to live by example not by words, her relationship is with her so called fiancé for 10yrs , I guess she is in love with a bad boy too. She is a bad example too. I don’t need to date a girl that long before I will know if she is right for me or not. 10yrs is enough if she is the ONE. Toke need to dump his ass , we men we like to eat our cake and still have it. Her relationship with that her so called fiancé is toxic, she can’t denied that he has side a chicks too. .

    • Que November 14, 2013 at 4:38 PM

      Toks u mentioning the issue of timewasting so many times makes it near impossible for anyone watching not to think “what bout u the adviser?” That said na from outside we dey look, so best wishes.
      Onto the subject at hand….. the bit bout ones dat call u only on fridays……no truer words…. I just discarded one recently, Its not my fault that I look good n love to dance (we met at a party) but thats not all I’m good for abeg, delusional pple… alas yday we found ourselves in d same restaurant, I was on a date wit another more responsible one, I quietly walked on by, as I wasn’t even in d mood to be corteous, na wakapass I give am #no vexing involved. I save my hotness n heels for men who care about me all round period.
      As for continuously digging a guy dat isn’t into me, dat one cant even be my calling, I love my peace of mind too much… #pere.

    • Ada Nnewi November 14, 2013 at 4:40 PM

      ROTFLMAO!!!! I absolutely Love Toke’s Vlog! I really should stop watching these things at work before I get into trouble for giggling stupidly..

      • Mz Socially Awkward... November 14, 2013 at 4:58 PM

        You and me both, sisteh. I had to bite my lips to keep from guffawing in laughter… :-D Off to watch it again.

      • Ada Nnewi November 15, 2013 at 9:22 AM

        MZ SOCIALLY AWKWARD REPLIED MY POST!!!!! *Faints*

    • smooch November 14, 2013 at 4:57 PM

      hmmm

    • idiots be like.... November 14, 2013 at 5:16 PM

      those of you talking about her relationship…..hope you
      are all married….else you will end up like her too.just saying
      sha coz i bet some of you are above 30 and still single.it’s old
      news so,please stop with the relationship talk…it’s not by force
      to watch her vlog…y’all couldn’t even wait for Bellanaija to
      upload lmao.

      • Ronke November 14, 2013 at 5:52 PM

        idiots be like you. Anything wrong with being over 30 and single? Not a Toke fan or hater but come on girl if you wanted to give anyone a parting shot that statement doesn’t do it at all

    • Shee November 14, 2013 at 5:19 PM

      Human beings, all you beings hating, guess she are vlogs address your ‘conditions’ however you do not want to accept it.

    • kim November 14, 2013 at 5:22 PM

      @tim, she”s not a pastor, if u dont like her, DONT WATCH OHHHHHHHHHH! PERIOD!

    • girl November 14, 2013 at 5:35 PM

      yes!!!! this vlog was def needed thanks BN.
      I love how toke explained it !! nothing wrong dating and messing with bad boys at a young age like maybe 20-24… but after that 25 yrs old hit u better be looking for more responsible men!!!! glad i am still in the play with the bad boys age range lmfao!

    • highkey November 14, 2013 at 5:59 PM

      I hope this is Toke’s life story we about watching ooo. Lol

    • Zini November 14, 2013 at 6:23 PM

      Toke needs to stop with this vlog nonsense. Who made her an authority on relationships when she clearly has it all wrong herself? If after 11 years all you have is a ring then she is even more delusional than I thought. She claims not to have time to plan a wedding, hellooooo. The time she spends making these videos with the editting and all, the time she spends on red carpets every weekend, how much more time does it take to plan wedding? What are planners for? December haff reach na, by next year we will be talking 12 yrs. She needs to get her act together and forget this relationship jargons. Or better still pick a different topic like cool hangout spots in lagos. She has more experience in that

    • asgrl November 14, 2013 at 6:33 PM

      Crabs in a bloody bucket! Some of you need to get introspective and question yourself on why care so much and would consistently put out so much vitriol about someone you don’t even know personally.

      There’s a reason why its call an advice vlog. ADVICE. Meaning you don’t have to listen to it if you believe she’s not qualified to give it. Hit the X button.

      People keep bringing up her 10 year relationship to her boyfriend or fiance. How many of you knew you were ready to be married at 18? or 21? or even 24????? She’s not even 30 yet. We as women complain about how there is too much societal pressure to get married. AREN’T WE BEING THE VERY SAME SOCIETY WE COMPLAIN ABOUT HERE?

      Toke shouldn’t get married because you all think she should (Ala oh she’s wasted her time), she should get married because she wants to and this is the right person for her.

      Enough about the accent and her attendance at functions. What do you want her to sound like? A bus conductor? This chick is trying to better her life and improve upon her place and position in life, so yes let her emulate the habits of people that gone ahead and succeeded before her.

      Does Mo Abudu sound like a fishmonger? Does Funmi Iyanda sound like Iya Alata? Even Joke Silva has a polished upper class accent. Broadcasters abroad are often required to take elocution lessons to improve grammar, accent and pronunciation. What is so wrong if she’s able to do that on her own? Let her attend her events, she needs fodder for her show.

      She’s not stealing, she’s not tricking, she hasn’t stolen your man, what the heck else do y’all ..itches want?

      • The Real Madam the Madam November 14, 2013 at 8:07 PM

        A thousand likes. Forget all these repetitive folks. You would think that 1 year later they would hush up and maintain in a corner. Cry about Toke from now till 2020, she’s probably not going anywhere soon so they should all deal with it.

      • Persom November 14, 2013 at 8:20 PM

        I haf tire for BellaNaija readers. Omotoke is a Youtube partner- she makes money from her videos. And haters are here watching and criticizing her while she’s laughing to the bank. :)

      • Iris November 14, 2013 at 11:01 PM

        I don’t know why she inspires such hate and I find it amusing because whatever goals she’s setting out to achieve, she appears to be meeting them. The accent thing though I disagree with, just because I watched a clips of some radio interview she did where she asked if she was supposed to sound like a savage since she lived in England for a year. Lots of people have Nigerian accents that are not overly pronounced (take Genevieve Nnaji for instance or even people you may know). If she wants to say she chose to change her accent because she THINKS it makes her sound sophisticated she should say that and not make it seem like talking like this after one year in England is the norm. However, I digress. If as women we focused more on celebrating our own instead of bashing this girl, we would go much further in life. I don’t think men do this to other men the way we do.

      • Eric November 15, 2013 at 10:23 AM

        Thank you asgrl. Just the exact way to tell all these 30years old virgins ranting here to shut the F- up and mind their business like they are any better.

    • Silvia November 14, 2013 at 7:16 PM

      Asgrl well said….love toke.and thank you for making us laugh.

    • Hope November 14, 2013 at 8:56 PM

      Nonsense vlog this week! Nothing against Toke but how convenient! Easy for girls to ‘follow’ bad boys and leave them for ‘good boys’ when they want..lol…like thats how easy life is eh? Next jo!

    • MoMo November 14, 2013 at 10:19 PM

      @asgrl.. best comment ever! Very well said!!!!

    • Steph November 14, 2013 at 11:18 PM

      NoHating… “Make a change by ur example not by your opinion”….., pple tend to take u seriously if ur advice is working 4u, but then some pple making reference to western world, hen, lotta career women out there Marriage is no biggie only in Africa we make marriage seems like its a must blablabla…oh pls, I believe if u fink Marriage is not al that “it is” then don’t give advice on ao to ve a good relationship, bcos that shuld lead to marriage right? :)..its black nd white…itsh

    • babysco November 15, 2013 at 12:34 AM

      Mary J Blige song came to my mind while watching this video
      Bad boys aint no good
      Good boys aint no fun
      Lord knows that I should
      Run off with the right one

      :)

    • nimavibes November 15, 2013 at 1:09 AM

      toke my dear,i understand there is a time for everything, but please try not to be a stedman,i mean just a tag along to this your lover. yes your man is no oprah, but i have a feeling that just like oprah prefers stedman as her steady handbag when needed,you are that to your man. i know you are faithful woman and even have had other men try to toast you, and i gotta tell you homegirl, its about time you givethose other suitors a hearing ear, cuz even if you pressure this your ten years old steady relationship partner to make you an honest woman, he will make you unhappy and you him. sometimes its better to let go of the things we love. I write this as a close associate of you both, and you already know who this is. smoochies.!!!

    • dlapikin November 15, 2013 at 1:45 AM

      Ok So if he had married her last year would that be a guarantee he would never divorce her? Leave Toke alone, just because your life is not perfect does not mean you cannot give advice to others…

    • Yoga November 15, 2013 at 3:26 AM

      ..i was just staring at her forehead the whole time..

    • voila November 15, 2013 at 3:47 AM

      So I never comment, ever. I’m close with Jess, Juwon, Jen and others. Never met Toke cos I’m abroad and we just have mutual friends. However, come on now, my fellow naijas!
      USE UR BLOOD BRAINS. Toke and Maje have not married because Toke is not ready. You guys dont know babe? Toke’s income is very decent, if its husband that is doing her, she can find one small fine boy with a good degree, and be flaunting him about. Naija men will run after Toke die with her fame, and lets face it, she looks good and has a killer fashion sense. Amongst we babes, we just laugh at you guys. Maje is the one slurping over Toke, he will marry her today if need be. But money no dey for that kind big wedding. Toke is on her hustle so she can have her dream wedding. Please stop the nonsense of no one wan marry Toke. She looks way better than almost all of you commenting, bleaching or not. Your husbands will probably try to screw her and give her your hard earned money. Maje aint leaving Toke at all, so all the bitter babes, please jump off a building. To Toks, I hope we meet when I enter Naija. Love to my girls.

      • Destiny November 15, 2013 at 11:00 AM

        Toke is not ready ………….hahahha , that shows u dont
        know her . She has collected so much shit from Maje over the years
        . he dumps her and then she goes back. She wants to die there by
        force by fire because of the Ayida name . Not ready indeed . Only
        someone that doesnt know Toke can make that statement so i give u a
        pass

      • Jo! November 15, 2013 at 12:24 PM

        11 years?? 11 years kwa

    • nwanyi na aga aga November 15, 2013 at 8:27 AM

      Dear Lord Touch Maje’s heart to do this wedding sharp sharp, let him not know what has struck him, let him just wake up and fix this wedding at least dis dec or touch Toke’s spirit to forget him and find another person biko Amen! I did not say this prayer as a mockery or to evoke laughter, Its just sad to watch ppl bringing up this 11yrs stuff every time. I ve met toke only once I felt she was nice I dont know her too well so I cant say why ppl don’t like her much, I also wish she can deviate from relationship topics, maybe she should talk about hair, make up etc. I don’t know how she holds up with all these negative comments but she is sure a strong girl. i wish ppl will just leave her alone, its enough *smh*

      • Tincan November 15, 2013 at 12:45 PM

        Amen!

    • daiva November 15, 2013 at 9:30 AM

      Hi bellarains, pls stop focusing on the negatives learn

    • Colour Purple November 15, 2013 at 10:28 AM

      Toke!!!!!!! I love you! *No homo* No mind them bad belle people, keep moving forward!

      Signed

      Toke’s Happy Voltron

    • wiklo November 15, 2013 at 7:10 PM

      At this stage Ms. Toke’s family should be questioning the young fella – “what are you plans for our daughter” or are they jaded and weak-kneed to ask such a basic question 10 years later?, even the long suffering Arsenal fans are on the verge of a trophy 8 years later…

    • wiklo November 15, 2013 at 7:38 PM

      **your**

    • Mindblowingme November 17, 2013 at 3:08 AM

      I feel sorry for some Nigerians who are bent on tarnishing
      the image of people making as much as little efforts to keep
      afloat. I sincerely feel so so sorry for them. No one is under any
      sort of compulsion to watch her vlog so what is it? What have you
      achieved with all your catty comments? Being lippy is only giving
      her farther leaps ahead.

    • Rhecks November 17, 2013 at 1:23 PM

      Well, all I can say is more power to your elbows Toke! As for all the naysayers blabbing that she’s not married, please let them be! This babe’s not even 30 yet, what if she has a set target for herself? .una worry o

    • Jermaine in Atlanta November 25, 2013 at 10:34 PM

      Dang! Did you see how she licked that finger? I bet she gives amazing head. Hey Toke, the next time you are in Atlanta you need to look me up. Seriously!

    • Hey December 1, 2013 at 8:40 PM

      I’m totally disgusted by all these hate comments. Haba why so serious it’s her opinion n if u don’t agree move on with your life. A shorter way is to think of it this way …toke doesn’t know y’all exist! Isn’t that hard enough