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Toke Makinwa: “You’re either Married, in a Relationship or Single” | Watch Media Personality speak on “Let’s See how it Goes” Relationships




With Toke Makinwa, the conversation keeps getting interesting.

On this episode of her vlog, the Nigerian media personality is going after men who are not committed to their partners. Such relationships are tagged “Let’s just see how it goes”.

It’s interesting to see that she only went against the gents, but hey Toke what about the ladies who aren’t ready to commit?

Check it out!


  1. YGB

    July 4, 2013 at 11:15 am


  2. Kenny

    July 4, 2013 at 11:17 am

    Nice talk, I think that also applies to you also. Please tell us where your own relationship is going. We understand you have been with this guy for well over 10 years or so and he has not put a ring on it.

    • Tola

      July 4, 2013 at 11:31 am

      @ Kenny….
      Why not mind your business? Or did her boo tell you that they are just seeing how it goes? Free Toke pls, and let’s focus on her vlog, not her personal life. Bad belle.

    • Oaken

      July 4, 2013 at 3:59 pm

      How is this not our business? Toke make this the worlds business the day she made herself a relationship expert dishing advice she has a hard time taking

    • BIG BOY

      July 4, 2013 at 4:50 pm

      TOKE dead sure this is you,HABA it is the real truth when u get told something u quickly defend yourself, btw why cant u just post practical things that you’ve been through or done rather than giving us text book advice that you haven’t xperienced.A WORD FOR THE WISE

    • BIG BOY

      July 4, 2013 at 5:06 pm

      @ Tola
      TOKE dead sure this is you,HABA it is the real truth when u get told something u quickly defend yourself, btw why cant u just post practical things that you’ve been through or done rather than giving us text book advice that you haven’t xperienced.A WORD FOR THE WISE

    • Bliss

      July 5, 2013 at 4:20 am

      @ Big Boy
      Hahaha… You guys are so funny. I don’t work in the entertainment industry, but I barely have enough time to do all the stuff I want to do. Toke is hustling to break through in the industry. She always seems super busy working on the next best thing. What makes you think she will have the time/interest in chasing all the stories that are posted online about her and defending herself? After that what? Maybe a satellite to pick up radio signals whenever anyone says those two words “Toke Makinwa.” LOL!

    • Mary

      July 4, 2013 at 11:41 am

      You are so ON POINT …… Toke, It so easy to give advice to others when you do exactly the same thing . Do what i say not what i do

    • miss bliss

      July 4, 2013 at 11:44 am

      is her case a ‘lets see how it goes’ one? abi u wan put a ring on it ni?

  3. Bella

    July 4, 2013 at 11:17 am

    ON POINT! laughed my ass off!

  4. Jlo

    July 4, 2013 at 11:31 am

    Love it.

  5. Dare to be beautiful

    July 4, 2013 at 11:37 am

    while it was funny , her speaking voice and most especially her ACCENT WAS VERY IRRITATING

  6. naana

    July 4, 2013 at 11:42 am

    observers are worried.

  7. Two's

    July 4, 2013 at 11:49 am

    Kai! Kenny ya wikid o!

  8. Alero

    July 4, 2013 at 12:03 pm

    LOL. I like Toke’s VLOG.

  9. Yup

    July 4, 2013 at 12:07 pm

    Lmfao..Toke Makinwa is a joker..hahaahahhahaahahhah ‘ I love you !

  10. Tim

    July 4, 2013 at 12:14 pm

    She is so full of shit , you have been with a guy for over 10yrs and never put the ring on your finger. you are just fake Toke, has your man committed yet. Fake!!’

    • ok

      July 5, 2013 at 1:07 am

      bella why didn’t you censor this ones shit?? when I used it yesterday you censored mine… punks

  11. Simisola

    July 4, 2013 at 12:15 pm

    OK this has actually been the first of her videos i literally laughed.
    I like the way she switches…. makes it more intriguing

    • Idak

      July 4, 2013 at 12:56 pm

      switches what?

  12. mama mia!!!

    July 4, 2013 at 12:22 pm

    And she gets it wrong once again, Toke, you are either married or single there’s no such thing as in a relationship when filling forms if you wanna play that card. Be true to yourself girl…

    • BIG BOY

      July 4, 2013 at 5:01 pm

      @ MAMA MIA u are so right she’s basically trying to fit her status into the mix Of things, u either single or married and TOKE here’s a piece of advice from a brother who loves you think before u act.I BET U AND YOUR VOLTRONS WOULD START DISSING US FOR BEING HONEST AND TRUTHFUL WITH OUR COMMENTS

  13. I Loooove Toke!

  14. hmm

    July 4, 2013 at 12:49 pm

    LOL…i loved this one because i have been in that situation, it was a learning experience though…never again!….go on Toke

  15. Babym

    July 4, 2013 at 12:51 pm

    LoooL love you Toke Makinwa always look forward to ur vlogs, tool funny

  16. Miss Bee

    July 4, 2013 at 12:54 pm

    Why does she make those stupid facial expressions, and that mouth twisting and rolling na wah, and arm flapping all over the place, distracting. Anyway, unless the status of her relationship is known, she should take several seats. Walking away.

  17. teennaa

    July 4, 2013 at 1:26 pm

    Buhahahhahahhhahahahah!!!! lmfao. lol @ do u nid deliverance? did dey tie ur spirit and his spirit togeda? hahahahhhhaha! Toke has made my afternoon!

  18. listening

    July 4, 2013 at 1:30 pm

    I think she’s right.
    Personally, I don’t think her relationship status is important, take good advice if you need it, because if you discard sound reasoning just because of the “messenger” you are not doing yourself any favours…

    • Charlotte (Charlie)

      July 4, 2013 at 3:01 pm

      EXACTLY!!! Some people on this blog just want to join the already dwindling ‘Toke hate’ train. They are looking past the sometimes good advice she gives. I loved these vlogs. This by far is the funniest yet!!

    • Cat on a hot tin roof

      July 4, 2013 at 7:29 pm

      True talk. Thought it was a funny vid. Think the hatefulness needs to stop. It doesn’t say much about the individuals that do it.

    • Kiz

      July 5, 2013 at 3:30 am

      Ahhh,thank u oh! Tell them. Who knows if she’s also speaking to herself??

  19. linda

    July 4, 2013 at 1:41 pm

    toks ure so on point i will a sharp babe oo no time for a dulling moment. love ur vlog

  20. Dora the explorer

    July 4, 2013 at 1:43 pm

    why did BN put the picture of Toke and her boyfriend? isn’t supposed to be a shot from the video or something? lol

  21. nich

    July 4, 2013 at 1:48 pm

    i do not think it works out the way she thinks. What if the girl is being sustained by the guys money so she should leave. As a guy it is better to when it comes naturally and it pumps out, i want to marry you……

  22. Masked

    July 4, 2013 at 1:49 pm

    Bad investment big time if i hear say lets see how it goes….na real bad market be that. All of you worried for her, did she tell you her boo isn’t committed to her and just incase he wants to see how it goes too, well she just told him subtly to sharpen up-hoping that he watches her vlog too.

  23. funshe!

    July 4, 2013 at 2:10 pm

    there is another line those useless boys use “I AM NO SURE” abegi when someone tells you that please run 200m/ min he is a freaking TIME WASTER . Boys are always sure ! when a boy says “IT’S COMPLICATED” = he is IN A RELATIONSHIP. when a girl says “IT’S COMPLICATED”= she is NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP . STOP WASTING YOUR TIME LADIES!

  24. funshe!

    July 4, 2013 at 2:11 pm


  25. yea

    July 4, 2013 at 2:26 pm

    You are either single or married. “in a relationship” is not a legally recognisd status. Don’t be a learner.

    • Oaken

      July 4, 2013 at 3:56 pm

      Don’t mind the girl….I guess she still thinks in her pea brain that she is in a relationship with maje…the same maje that denies her all the time

  26. Ify

    July 4, 2013 at 3:16 pm

    practice what you preach. tell us where is your own relationship heading

  27. Kenny

    July 4, 2013 at 3:48 pm

    Personally, I enjoy her razzmatazz, but not her sense of dressing lately, that’s another topic for another day. Moving on, I believe in a balanced argument and not one-sided particularly when the issue in question also affects you. That is my point.

  28. comment awaiting moderation

    July 4, 2013 at 3:51 pm

    Toke has done her introduction jare…

    • Oaken

      July 5, 2013 at 12:39 am

      Didn’t this same maje slap toke in public? Lmao…this is the most shameful relationship and that’s why toke needs to remove the spec in her eyes first…she ain’t married yet so for now she is single

    • Sandra

      July 5, 2013 at 2:51 pm

      Where you there when he slapped her?? Some of you just enjoy spreading false information. I guess you are one of those people that waits till someone passes away before you see any good in them (even if it’s just little). Similar treatment was given to the Late Goldie. She was never understood. She was cursed at by folks like you for everything she tried to do. It wasn’t till after she passed away before all the fake “Oh my God I shouldn’t have said this and that” “oh I wish I had taken the time to understand who she was”.
      No human being on this planet is 100% all bad. Once in a while take the time to see the good in people no matter how minute it is.

  29. Oaken

    July 4, 2013 at 3:55 pm

    Does toke realize she is neither married, nor in a relationship …she is simply maje’s permanent girlfriend. She has given the guy her youth I’m not even sure what else is keeping her there besides the fact that no other Lagos boy wants to eat maje s left over.

    • Gone with The Wind Fabulous

      July 4, 2013 at 4:45 pm

      Hiaan this babe go and sit down joor, ur own is too much abeg lool, why is tokes personal life ‘shhoooking’ you so much. as somebody said the toke hate train is seriously dwindling so i suggest u get of that train and join the grown women that see humor in her videos and take advice where u feel it is good shikena!!

      Gone with the wind fabulous

    • Oaken

      July 5, 2013 at 12:35 am

      Ode….if maje is denying her thn she is single. Gone with the wind lonely chic..lmao. E am tan ara yin

  30. Kenny

    July 4, 2013 at 4:11 pm

    To the commentator “Toke has done her introduction jare…” , luv you sense of humour here. Please share the wedding details to encourage others.

  31. teetee

    July 4, 2013 at 4:33 pm

    Toke as i began to watch this vlog,i was like why did this chick choose to talk about such a topic when she knows her relationship will be the reference point…my dear toke if you have truly been with that ya bf for 10yrs youre the learner,not the babe that cooks for her boyfriend but the one that has given a decade of her life to a guy that hasnt officially committed,will uou say you have never cooked for maje in the whole 10yrs?stop lieing babe! I really hope for your sake that this your bf marries you..and No, youre either single or a relationship status is nothing!!

  32. Kenny

    July 4, 2013 at 4:47 pm

    See gobe, see me see gbege. I guess Toke doesn’t see this coming. She has opened up a pandora box here. How does she put the lead back on?

  33. Joan

    July 4, 2013 at 4:59 pm

    OMG for the first time, I’m loving Toke’s video… 🙂 loooooool

  34. adurayomi

    July 4, 2013 at 5:10 pm

    what of if the guy makes the commitment and later reneges what then happens?

  35. Kenny

    July 4, 2013 at 6:02 pm

    “what of if the guy makes the commitment and later reneges what then happens?” then show him the way, as stated in her Vlog.

    • adurayomi

      July 5, 2013 at 8:08 am

      then i guess she had wasted her time…so commitment doesnt pay afterall

  36. The Original Beebee

    July 4, 2013 at 6:07 pm

    I looove this vlog…laughed my whole head and heart out!!! I knew y’all were going to attack her based on her own relationship status…but truth be told, she made a lot of sense and if you like, throw away the baby with the bath water, thats your business…but i definitely agree with her!!

    Go Tokstarr…

    • Kiz

      July 5, 2013 at 3:33 am

      Ahhh,thank u oh! Tell them. Who knows if she’s also speaking to herself??

  37. nwanyi na aga aga

    July 4, 2013 at 6:09 pm

    How did Toke not feel people will reference her relationship? Even before i opened the page i was like ” Why will Toke talk about an issue that she is suffering from?” Anyway na she sabi. I must say she lives for the negative comments.

  38. Kenny

    July 4, 2013 at 6:18 pm

    To the commentator @ Gone with The Wind Fabulous. Has the brain also gone with the wind also?. I pray I never go with the wind. Can’t believe the FABULOUS stupid comment you made. Hate when people talk and not engage their brain. How old are you to start with?

  39. Browngyrl

    July 4, 2013 at 6:42 pm

    I don’t get why people are rambling on and on about the status of her relationship. The simple truth is that if a guy is saying to you let’s see how it goes…Back your bags and leave; cos honey He is just not that into you. It’s just a case of smash and dash or smash till a better one comes along. You have no claim, no get mouth. You are just a sa re wa (easy come , easy go) chic to him. The point of her saying that you are either single, married or in a relationship is that when you were in a committed relationship, even if it ends….you are an ex…way better than the guy referring to you as some chic he smashed and dashed. I have friends that have learned this lesson the hard way. Carry on Toke!!!

  40. Bibi.e

    July 4, 2013 at 6:48 pm

    Girls are hangered ooo(angry). I am sure u are a friend of toke disguised aka frienenmy #takeseveralseats

  41. hadey

    July 4, 2013 at 6:59 pm

    i think Toke is indirectly reminding her bobo that she’s tired of hearing “let’s see how it goes”

  42. hadey

    July 4, 2013 at 7:02 pm

    I think Toke is indirectly telling her bobo she’s tired of hearing “let’s see how it goes”. Please note that you are either married or single and no one considers if you’re in a relationship or not.

  43. Anon

    July 4, 2013 at 9:12 pm

    This was hilarious. nice one Toks

  44. Concerned9ja

    July 4, 2013 at 9:40 pm

    Nothing personal about her and believe me happens to guys as well…truly you either single or married..forget the in-betweens..Relationships you kidding me?? and a pal were talking about this the other day…no matter how many matter the fact that you might even be living together…and talking from experience here there’s nothing and just being brutally honest..nothing can stop those in “relationships” from walking out..brush you off their shoulders..worst thing is give it a year or would find out your so called Relationship buddy has gotten married!!…
    Remember that endearing term..Friends with Benefits..isn’t that the rubbish stop-gap..people are doing today!!

  45. harve Dent

    July 4, 2013 at 10:32 pm

    Whats all the empahsis on sex and cooking…

    Guys cook these days and research shows that, girls enjoy sex more than guys, so who is helping who?

    Abeg she should keep getting the good sex, cook if she can for him and keep her options open.

    Ladies need to get off this whole cook and sex thingy, like they doing the guy a favor, its all mutual business. Do you know how many calories a guy burns after sex, the average is equal to running 5miles.

    Thats alot of exercise.

    Drops Mic

  46. Ngozi

    July 5, 2013 at 12:26 am

    LOOOOL Loved it!! I look forward to her videos 🙂

  47. Ms.B

    July 5, 2013 at 9:16 am

    hahahahahha. do whatever floats your boat.some gals enjoy cooking,wether for boyfriend or family or girlfriends.

  48. GIG

    July 5, 2013 at 10:52 am

    i disagree, you are either divorced, married, or single…when you are filling out forms “official forms” (e.g. passport) not fb or social networking profiles you do not have the option of stating i am in a relationship…maybe common law partner for the countries that recognize that…me i’m single until i’m married! end of story…yes when i’m in a relationship, as mature adults, we make a commitment to each other to be exclusive and not see anyone else…that doesn’t mean I have to cook for you, you leave your clothes/things at my place for next visit, i join your family members for picnics, etc…it’ll be a matter of choice, something i’ll do if it seems reasonable or I just feel like…end of story!

  49. Eve

    July 5, 2013 at 11:34 am

    I actually laughed a lot watching this video. Good luck and best wishes!

  50. T-gurl

    July 5, 2013 at 12:52 pm

    Walahi! I haff taya for you people. Abeg give the girl a break jo! it is her opinion. You either take or leave it. And let’s not deny it: Toke’s vlog is getting better and better.
    Is there anything she will say and not get abuses from you people? It haff do jo!
    Toke, weldone o! More Grace, more inspiration!

  51. Phatgirlsbwinning

    July 6, 2013 at 2:27 am

    Y do people not like Toke again? I think she is a sweetheart and her vlog is a breath of fresh air.

  52. A-z

    July 6, 2013 at 6:41 am

    Me i don’t care about all her other ramblings I’m just particular about one thing cooking. Biko why is it bad for a woman to cook for her bf abi the guy that’s spending money on you is he a learner yet u refuse to cook for him? Women better dont be fooled by listening to toke, for your own good cooking is very important so refuse at your own risk lol

  53. Jaydyte

    July 6, 2013 at 7:25 pm

    Toke, this is crazy. Are you indirectly preaching that it is okay for couples that are dating to have premarital sexual intercourse, to fornicate? Really, are you indeed carrying you conversation on this silly vlog like it’s okay? My goodness, this is downright crazy and wicked. Do you know you’re literally trying to tell the whole world that you and your boyfriend “do it” all the time and it is normal, when he has not married you? You are a disease to the society. Shut your mouth, because you are corrupting the youth with your nastiness. Please show some fear of God.

  54. Mogar

    July 6, 2013 at 9:06 pm

    Yes, Toke and Maje are engaged and have done their introduction so please give it a rest. All this hate-Toke games are boring. Grow up already or just not click on any Toke-related article on the www. And no, I am not Toke, I am miss Ogar!

  55. Funke

    July 7, 2013 at 4:52 pm

    Haaaa!!! True talk!

  56. S.Dot

    August 6, 2013 at 4:22 am

    Saw D Video, Laughed So Hard….People It’s Not That Serious O!

  57. maje

    September 12, 2013 at 4:53 pm

    Dear all,
    I love Toke and in due time, we”ll make it official

  58. t.u

    September 19, 2013 at 3:21 am

    Leave her personal life out of dis pple!…. Take d advice dat is useful 4 yu… I enjoyed d video $ alwyswill, 4m D facial expressions, accent,hairdo…kip up d work! You rock! . Maje you dint av to rply or prove a point.. I jst hope you do by doin wats neccess. $ soon.. She deserves it, 10yrs? Dat aint a joke!

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