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Regina Askia Williams: Do African Men Believe It is Okay to Have Another Woman after Fulfilling Responsibilities at Home?

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A few minutes ago, former Nigerian actress Regina Askia Williams threw out a question to her fans on her Facebook page.

She asked if African men believe they can have another woman or two after they have fulfilled all responsibilities at home.

The responsibilities include school fees, a comfortable home, the wife’s needs, and basically all the comforts of life.
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Do African men believe because they have done all these, they can take another lady love or wife?
Let’s Talk About It!

27 Comments

  1. Choice

    August 11, 2014 at 9:21 pm

    This goes out to Guys/men

  2. nnek

    August 11, 2014 at 9:47 pm

    A beg my dear Regina, you dey for America where there is no ebola, our people have so much to think about now, boko haram and ebola not to talk of their hustle and bustle for money! Make una thank God say you dey America we will discuss later

    • frankliet

      August 12, 2014 at 7:21 am

      Hahahahahhaha

    • Bella

      August 12, 2014 at 1:53 pm

      Nne… I dey hear you

  3. frenchnaira

    August 11, 2014 at 10:05 pm

    Why is she asking? Any idees for us R.A?

  4. Amh

    August 11, 2014 at 10:18 pm

    Please sit your registered nurse arse down. Has been.mtcheew.

    • John Bosco

      August 12, 2014 at 3:57 am

      all she did was ask a question,

    • SpeakTheTruth

      August 12, 2014 at 10:52 am

      Why all the hate?

  5. NNENNE

    August 11, 2014 at 11:07 pm

    And after wasting their time and resources doing that they will turn to those who utilized their time well , demanding for help, medicine, vaccines as if it is their right. Make your own Zmapp people!!

  6. nene

    August 11, 2014 at 11:45 pm

    wasn’t she a side kick back in nigeria? she should answer the question or give us her opinion too. but this is of course a serious question too.

    • ade

      August 12, 2014 at 5:12 am

      Nene thanks for pointing it out,,,she was a side chick to a man in the 90’s in the medical field form a very wealthy family, although he is late now. shes such a hypocrite…..at his death bed, she was thrown out because she wont leave so he could give her some inheritance, they had to bring his real wife into the room, to hold his hand while he lost his battle to cancer.. shes so silly for writing all this stories, someone needs to shut her mouth up!

    • Bella

      August 12, 2014 at 1:54 pm

      Hahahahahahahaha.. dis life sef, there is always somebody who knows something, chai BN you wan kill me today o. Nne take em easy o.

  7. Jewel

    August 12, 2014 at 1:53 am

    The sad thing is our Nigerian men really do think it’s ok to do this.. I’ve heard inane things like “what more does she want, I provide everything for her? she lacks for nothing.” Many of our men believe that if they are affluent and good providers, then their wives should shut up and put up with their infidelity. The worse part is that many women put up with this.

  8. Afrocatalyst

    August 12, 2014 at 6:08 am

    But I don’t! Even though am young, provide for my family, take care of wifey and kids, do all my responsibilities but don’t do any side chick. So wat’s d fuss all about? Guess she’s with the wrong man. Like attracts like!

    • CZ

      August 14, 2014 at 5:19 pm

      hmmmm…all men cheat!. No pretence!. whether they take care of their needs or not. am certainly a married woman. Painful my husband cheats even with my stylist.. hehehe, but he thinks I don’t know. You men are not worth it!!!

  9. Ada

    August 12, 2014 at 7:51 am

    Regina abeg go siddon, you want to tell us that “in your days” you were no side kick? How sanctimonious of you!

  10. yourstrulyblogposts.blogspot.com

    August 12, 2014 at 9:46 am

    Lol, ah ah some people are so harsh. Well, it depends on the man!

  11. lee

    August 12, 2014 at 10:04 am

    I am a side chick! i love it

    • MsBlossom

      August 12, 2014 at 12:03 pm

      A side chick/kick always a side chick, didn’t you see the word ” side” attached, so apparently you will always be on the side, and I know it hurts you. You can do better than just an ordinary “side” nau. How much do u value urself?………Less?

    • magh

      August 12, 2014 at 4:59 pm

      Maybe she’s at a phase in her life where she does not mind being a side piece… maybe the perks are great..i don’t know.. but I do believe in karma..so ms side chick.. be kiafull.

    • bishop

      August 12, 2014 at 6:07 pm

      Tym go come wey person go side kick u..u go tire black headcap run go d do fallamd die 4mountain of fire..agbaye

    • ziny

      August 14, 2014 at 5:23 pm

      What goes around must surely come around. Get ready for another lady to torment u when u get married except if u want to stay single to u die. have it in mind that d prayers/tears of those wives your hurting must surely start working against you some day. take caution

  12. dolly

    August 12, 2014 at 11:32 am

    Its true some think that way.They would even brag that they provide everything the wife needs so she has no reason at all to complain.Even if she reports him to elders thats the first question she will be asked if the husband provides for his family.Once she says yes she gets dismissed.

  13. oj

    August 12, 2014 at 12:20 pm

    na question the woman ask o? so because she’s no longer famous, she’s a nobody? na wa for una o

  14. Que

    August 12, 2014 at 10:47 pm

    ?….if you ask meeee….na who I go ask???…*in omawunmi’s voice…*

  15. Jamce

    August 13, 2014 at 1:32 am

    Why blame only the men. What of the women who agree to be side chick/kick/piece. Some even crave and hustle to be side chicks. Regina Askia should actually have a Column called “Being A Side Chick” to share her experiences. The advantages and disadvantages, the do’s and don’ts, entry and exit strategies of the side chick business, etc. Mschweeew. Perhaps, the tables have turned…

  16. newbie

    August 13, 2014 at 11:25 am

    It’s not just Nigerian men, please. It cuts across all cultures and the common denominator is usually wealth and power. Once a man is relatively wealthy and powerful and is inclined to stray, he will stray, and justify it by any means necessary, including that he has adequately provided for his family. It’s perhaps more blatant in African culture because for the most part, polygamy is accepted and is not illegal. If a man can marry many wives, then he can as well stray afterall no be from girlfriend dem dey take become wife? If you question him he’ll simply tell you he’s courting his next wife lol…

    Secondly, we have to keep it real, online sistas. Side pieces will never go away. We can’t ‘faith’ them away. We can’t curse them into nonexistence. Some people actually prefer to be side pieces than anything else – it may be hard for some of us to wrap our heads round it but dude, that’s how the cookie crumbles! Sometimes it’s the money, sometimes it’s the company, sometimes it’s the sex, sometimes it’s the knowing you don’t have the demands of his family on you or indeed the demands of him on you 24-7, sometimes it’s just a je ne sais quoi! In a christian religious sense it’s not right, but let’s not forget that there are so many people out there who do not subscribe to christianity in any form at all. I know that people change, yet the interesting thing is that for most men that will eventually stray, the signs are there right from the start, but we choose to ignore them for reasons best known to us and start to cry foul later.

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