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Don’t Be Lazy. Pastors’ Wives Should Equip Themselves With “New Skills”



???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????The wife of a General Overseer of a Ghanaian church, Diamond Ackon called on pastors’ wives to learn new tricks in bed, Ghana Web reports.

“Speaking at a dinner organized by Gospel Truth Events for Christian religious leaders in Takoradi, Mrs. Diamond Ackon warned women against laziness during sexual intercourse, and encouraged wives of pastors to regularly learn and equip themselves with new skills which will enable them to serve their husbands better in bed.

She said sex should not be viewed as a taboo topic in churches since it is vital to the survival of all marriages.”

Story Source: Ghana Web

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  1. dara

    January 19, 2015 at 11:17 pm

    OMG!!!Feel like pulling out my hair!!!!why wont they have such enormous egos??????have women become doormats or what????can my husband too not try to satisfy me?must it only be my job????women….hmmm….lemme just keep quiet.#angrymuch!

    • jcsgrl

      January 20, 2015 at 12:23 am

      I’m joining you to pull my hair too. BN you decieved us with that title. Here I was thinking she meant other skills like coaching, counseling, child education or something. Dear God where do I start with this? I was having an irritable day now I’m livid!!!!! *screams into pillow

    • Mohammad

      January 20, 2015 at 8:20 am

      And how does she suggest women of virtue learn these new tricks? Off the internet on porn sites that are run by the “condemned”? Or from the more experienced? Sex symposiums for married pastor’s wives? Is it not odd to expect a “sexpert” who likely gained their experience from doing it with just one man to be a sexpert as all men are different? And if their experience has been gleaned from being with more than one man, is it not then hypocritical?

    • O.O.

      January 20, 2015 at 1:50 am

      Men and women are called to serve in different ways…men like sex and food, women like intimacy and flowers. Men crave respect…women crave love. If it is against your views to research new ways to please your man in bed, it should equally be against your views to expect him to randomly hold you tight and make you feel like the only girl in the world.

    • C'est moi

      January 20, 2015 at 2:08 pm

      What a good argument for same sex coupling ha.

    • Smh

      January 20, 2015 at 2:30 pm

      Very stupid comment . very stupid. You just generalized a WHOLE gender by “love, flowers and intimacy”. How irritating. So we women dont want respect ? Pls think before typing

    • O.O.

      January 20, 2015 at 8:30 pm

      There is a reason why Playboy is a multibillion dollar industry and why I had to Google “Playgirl” to ascertain its existence. There is a reason why women get grand, elaborate proposals and thousand dollar engagement rings while all the men get in exchange is a “yes”. I never said women don’t crave respect; I never said men don’t want intimacy. I am saying the hierarchy of these needs is different for each gender. Agree or disagree, it’s okay to share an opinion without throwing “stupid” around.

    • EllesarisEllendil

      January 20, 2015 at 5:42 am

      You realise new tricks can also increase your satisfaction. If your husband isn’t satisfying you, you should probably tell him. Sorry ehn, too much anger isn’t good.

  2. Temidoll

    January 19, 2015 at 11:17 pm

    Serve their husbands in bed! Na wa o!

  3. Self-Sufficient

    January 19, 2015 at 11:19 pm

    I will be waiting for the comments to roll in… LOL!!!

  4. @edDREAMZ

    January 19, 2015 at 11:20 pm

    This is what we are talking about…..

    • Carliforniabawlar

      January 20, 2015 at 4:24 am

      No doubt 😐

  5. Nkay

    January 19, 2015 at 11:23 pm

    “Serve their husbands better in bed”?? That statement alone tho….

  6. alexa

    January 19, 2015 at 11:31 pm

    I hear you ma! Na true you talk, and while i cant speak for anyone else, i will speak for myself. My husband picking up after himself at least is very vital to the survival of this our marriage o! I don tire to look after him exactly as i look after our three children. Yes, he even asks to be spoon-fed sometimes! And we both work o. We women desperately need domesticated men too. Its also a topic that needs to be ‘detaboolized’ in church. They need to know its very important in this day and age too.

    • Queen

      January 20, 2015 at 12:58 pm

      While I like to sympathise with you, and it would be nice to do so , but I rather not and I choose not to cos you knew him well before marriage to know he isn’t a domesticated man! and will not do chores as you will please.
      But in your desperation to become a Mrs. Like a lot of women will do, You blinded sided that side to him only for the scales to drop of your eyes after you had married him?! Please get a grip!!! If he does change, it will be a true miracle so get with your reality as you clearly chose it from the beginning. The earlier you do so the better it will help with harmony in your home. Speak to him nicely about it and don’t even expect sudden change, you have to keep an open mind as to whether or not he will change. Keep your patience stretched and something might change when you least expect it…….but don’t bank on it. Such is marriage! Take this advise from an equally married woman 🙂

    • C'est moi

      January 20, 2015 at 2:11 pm

      The change starts with the mothers – ‘domesticate’ your boys the same way you train your girls.


    January 20, 2015 at 12:08 am

    I get her point but she should also implore the pastors to do the same

  8. Ib

    January 20, 2015 at 1:09 am

    Can everything not be a feminist row? Yes, her choice of words might have been off but some women need to learn a few tricks in the bedroom and that’s the truth. People need to calm down.

    • Nahum

      January 20, 2015 at 11:20 am

      Women are told how to dress, we are told how to raise our kids, we are told we must cook, clean, wash, screw, work, and do whatever it takes to keep our men. Please, can you tell me in this very long list of do’s and dont’s forces women, where the man’d responsibility comes in? Why can’t you men open your eyes and see that the Nigerian woman is tired of doing anything and everything to please you and all we get in return is adultery, abuse and neglect. The Nigerian woman is tired, you’re need to really change.

  9. Ponmo has no rival

    January 20, 2015 at 2:02 am

    Lolololl…I love church.

  10. tunmi

    January 20, 2015 at 2:25 am

    I swear this would have been perfect had she called on the (ahem) parties involved during such activities. I’ll stick to the edited version in my head:

    “Speaking at a dinner organized by Gospel Truth Events for Christian religious leaders in Takoradi, Mrs. Diamond Ackon warned MARRIED COUPLES against laziness during sexual intercourse, and encouraged HUSBANDS AND WIVES of pastors to regularly learn and equip themselves with new skills which will enable them to serve their PARTNER better in bed.”

    Yep, that sounds a lot better. It’s religiously wholesome (no premarital hinky-dinky hence married couples), gender friendly (for male and female pastors), and even more religiously wholesome (partner not partners).

  11. olu

    January 20, 2015 at 3:19 am

    Na woman talk am be man. Deal with yourselves.

  12. Iris

    January 20, 2015 at 4:53 am

    So…your whole marriage is about serving him without reciprocation even in the bedroom where you go to sleep in peace after a long day of servitude. And after you “serve” him, he will fall asleep and you will be forced to serve yourself all the while feeling guilty…then he will wake up and cover his insecurities by calling you a devil woman for touching yourself. LOL. Women please open your eyes. Life is tough enough in many African countries. If you’re going to suffer and bring children into the world to suffer with you – including the ones that came because your husband insisted on trying for a boy – at least make sure it is pleasurable. My generation has no excuse for wallowing in this kind of ignorance and unnecessary suffering.

    • Mohammad

      January 20, 2015 at 8:12 am


  13. jalord

    January 20, 2015 at 5:38 am

    Don’t care it personal. Most religious people( especially women) are not adventurous or are uptight when it come to Sex due to religious reasons. We know this.

  14. mx

    January 20, 2015 at 7:33 am

    i don’t how a pastor will feel when his wife is shouting during sex f*ck me harder bishop….but am sure he is gonna b trilled…everybody luv good sex,if u dont u got issues…Lol

  15. mx

    January 20, 2015 at 7:56 am

    i don’t how a pastor will feel when his wife is shouting during sex give me harder bishop….but am sure he is gonna b trilled…everybody luv good sex,if u dont u got issues…Lol

  16. jalord

    January 20, 2015 at 8:31 am

    Don’t Take it personal*

  17. MK

    January 20, 2015 at 11:04 am

    hmmmmmmm why must it always be the woman

  18. onyii

    January 20, 2015 at 12:05 pm

    how are we sure that its not the pastors who bore their wives in bed, trying to spiritualize everything, Screaming “Get behind me Satan!” whenever she asks him for head.

  19. spoonfullofsugar

    January 20, 2015 at 12:39 pm

    I don’t understand why some people are so angry. married Women should kill it in the bedroom and so should men. She did not say men should not satisfy their wives. Pastors wives may be inclined to be unnecessarily religious about marital sex and not doing enough so she’s encouraging them to put effort and work it! A godly wife is an all rounder. She’s godly, a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets. Why you mad?!

  20. Omotee

    January 20, 2015 at 12:52 pm

    Loooool @ Onyi. Very goodgood point o.
    My issue is where are they to learn this new tricks o? I find it very hard to imagine a women’s christian conference on new sex tricks. Who will teach what and how? Will they encourage head?Will that be a spirit inspired program? Lol.

    While I like to think I get her point, I’m a little disappointed in women being the target. The problem isn’t always the women. Like Onyi said, madam might just be trying to practice some Kamasutra and pastor will think she has back flipped (slide will be too mild).

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