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It’s Not Only about Curves…It’s Not about Child Bearing Hips…Be Mentally Attractive – Ali Baba Tells Ladies

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Ali BabaAce comedian Ali Baba has got a message for the ladies this morning.

He reposted a picture on his Instagram page with the words ‘Be Mentally Attractive’ and her captioned the picture with, ‘God bless who put this up. It’s not only about curves unless it comes with serious LEARNING CURVES. It’s not about lipsticks but whether what you say from your LIP STICKS. It’s not about your breast but also how ABREAST you are on issues that matter. It’s not about how you walk but what’s your WALK OF LIFE. It’s not about your looks alone but your FORESIGHT. It’s not about child bearing hips… But to BEAR CHILDREN that SHOOT FROM THE HIPS. ITE not even about your bum, but what can make someone say YOUR ARE THE BOMB! Its not about your complexion… It’s about your COMPREHENSION, stupid! And for God Sakes!! It not about who you know, ITS ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE KNOWN FOR! And It’s not about your accent sef… Can what you COLOUR, with that accent, make you ASCEND TO RECOGNITION with flying COLOURS… Be mentally attractive… 5 Bs are core!’

Photo Credit: Instagram

28 Comments

  1. Mr Gbajumo

    January 21, 2015 at 11:05 am

    Spot on

  2. ifepe nnennia

    January 21, 2015 at 11:08 am

    Nice write up.in recent times it seems most ladies only think about their outward appearance thus neglecting the inward beauty.outward beauty is good but we should also place priority in developing our inward beauty

  3. Jane Public

    January 21, 2015 at 11:20 am

    Gosh can this tedious obnoxious man just go away please. It is so infuriating how women are his target. Onkoo, do you have a daughter, or daughters, why don’t you save your “words of wisdom” for her/them and get away from people’s timelines. Like just go away. Any woman with her head screwed on tight and may I say raised very well with dedicated parents already knows this. Funny how you will find that it is the people that give out the most advice that end up with children with shitty lives. Not cursing your kids Ali Baba, but direct your energies towards them. I have too many personal examples in my life and from observation. My most churcheous Aunty that can stop anyone on the road to preach about their dressing and behaviour had a teenage daughter who ended up pregnant and a son who dropped out of school. Not to laugh at her misfortune but it was sheer hilarious at the beginning anyway, because no one expected it. Madam was too busy being the advice giver of the world, she neglected what was going on under her nose. If it makes you feel better about yourself Sir to be the admonisher of women, start with your daughters first. Let their lives be exemplary, so much so that people will be the ones to come to you to ask how you did it. We haven’t seen anything directly from you that shows you even know what you are talking about. You know what they say about Empty Barrels. Raise successful brilliant children first, with successful marriages and then you can talk. Until then, sit your a*s down, you have nothing to offer, and while you are at it, talk to your Sons too, and yourself if I might add. Those of us who know, know the shenanigans you are up to that Madam turns a blind eye.

    • Engoz

      January 22, 2015 at 2:00 am

      youtube.com/watch?v=8ewcVt5mR-4

      Look at Alibaba going crazy for big bumbum in the above link and he’s wondering why girls are relying on their curves, lol.

  4. Nkechi

    January 21, 2015 at 11:22 am

    Nice one! waiting to see the write up for the men. Its not about the good looks…….. (fill in the blanks) will be nice that both men and women be on the same page!

  5. thatikwerrebabe

    January 21, 2015 at 11:26 am

    Spot on Alibaba

  6. coco

    January 21, 2015 at 11:28 am

    Blah Blah!!! Enough already. The male dominance is so so overwhelming. Its all about what the Men want! Well its not about your Egos, your chauvinistic ways, your passion for sports and alchohol,your philandering ways and your inability to accept that you are wrong most of the time and just listen because YES we see you are about to fall into that hole and in you go anyways!!

  7. Eyitayo

    January 21, 2015 at 11:37 am

    nice one Alibaba

  8. Babym

    January 21, 2015 at 11:50 am

    Very pot on. BUT some of you bellanaija ppl make me laff o. Have we become sooo disillusioned with male dominace and chauvanism that we cannot simply accept good advise and keep it moving? Iv noticed anytime an article is up about a woman improving herself or becoimng a better person in whatever context, ppl just go up in arms. Maka why now? I dont gerrit. Since when did sound advice become wrong? Women are such complex and wonderfully made beings, there are soo many facets to us I dont think aceppting good advice can be to our detriment. I think if you dont like the advice u dont have to take it. Shikena.

    • Jane Public

      January 21, 2015 at 12:56 pm

      I would like to know how you would feel if at work, you constantly get admonishment just because you are a woman. Your male colleagues are left alone, but every time your superiors, board of directors, heck investors or customers passing by that have no direct influence on your work keep giving you “advice”, unsolicited and unwarranted, and something you already know, yet your male colleagues are left alone. This is outright DISCRIMINATION. Women can still do every thing right and end up in shitty relationships or marriage. You can go to school, end up with a PhD and still attract the wrong man. There are too many factors involved and women should NOT be made to feel guilty or subjected to the onslaught of advice. The other day a Catholic women basically said it is dressing that leads to rape. No single word of admonition for men not to rape women. See where we are coming from? But it is okay if you want to stay on your knees and be receiving admonition every day like you are broken, damaged or something is wrong with you. The ones who want to shake ass, have curves, display all their goods can still go ahead and have good lives and men. Heck Kim Kardashian has been married 3 times and with millions of dollars and famous too if I might add. Doesn’t that contradict his “advice”, even though Kim’s life is not an exemplary one, but I bet thousands of Nigerian women would want to be her. Advice should apply to both sexes or it is just male chauvinism, whether well intended or not. They have been giving advice to women since 1850. We “haff” heard. Biko

    • Jane Public

      January 21, 2015 at 12:58 pm

      *A Catholic women leader*

  9. Babym

    January 21, 2015 at 11:51 am

    *spot*

  10. jessica

    January 21, 2015 at 12:01 pm

    Please say something to men too!!! Its not about the swag but how often you pay the bills!

    Enough of advice for the ladies..men also need alot of advice, if not more than the ladies ppuhleassse!

  11. Corolla

    January 21, 2015 at 12:51 pm

    These men need to stfu! Can they for once address their own gender. Almost one in three naija girl that I know was sexually molested before they were teenagers. Can one of these ITK by force counselors address this and tell Naija men to stop sexually harassing girl– esp young girls who do not even know what sex is. Sick and tired of this stupid a*s advice when their own gender have committed unimaginable atrocities.

  12. Uzzy

    January 21, 2015 at 1:20 pm

    Ok, thanks for the advice but u didn’t need to include “stupid!”

  13. melinda

    January 21, 2015 at 1:25 pm

    must be always women, what about the men?????? past few weeks on BN has always been based on women….. May God help us..

  14. babygiwa

    January 21, 2015 at 1:41 pm

    I like Ali Baba, he is not perfect but that is not a problem cus no one is perfect.
    Dear wonderful ladies, part of ‘we are not taking your advice’ should start from not clicking on his articles. It’s really that simple

    • JesuisAda

      January 21, 2015 at 2:35 pm

      If one doesn’t click on his articles, how will we pass the message across that it is not okay to be one sided in his yeye attention seeking advice. He should face his marriage and his daughters as @janepublic said. He is not perfect yes, can he STHU and work on improving himself and that of his Nigerian men folk. They need a lot of advice from imperfect men like him

  15. *Real* Nice Anon

    January 21, 2015 at 2:25 pm

    Nigerians always over extending themselves. Never minding their own business at all. Women obviously need your help sir. When will Joro Olumofin add his own bit? We await his own too.

  16. Personally

    January 21, 2015 at 3:26 pm

    A lost dog can never hear the whistle(ing) of a hunter!
    It is lost and lost forever
    No matter what the best preacher in the world says, those who are lost and lost forever

  17. Theresa

    January 21, 2015 at 5:00 pm

    To all those angry at him for advising ladies, you’ve missed the point. He’s not claiming to be better, but as an older person who has experienced life, he feels obligated to warn young people about what truly matters in life: relationships. No one on his/her deathbed ever asked to feel their designer bags, shoes, or even trophies, but all desired the company of family and dear friends. Relationships can only be nurtured when we are less vain about our appearances and having stuff, and more concerned about others.

    Sadly the world we live in today has glamorized the “container rather then the contents” with the likes of Kim K, Rihanna, flaunting their curves, wealth, etc. And trust Nigerians to copy blindly. I think he is reminding Nigerian women to be careful of what and who they copy because of the society we live in. We are the ones who seem to suffer most when things go wrong in relationships. We become the Baby Mamas who have to handle irresponsible boyfriends who will not contribute financially as well as be there for the baby. We are the ones who have biological clocks, become easily depressed because of broken relationships, etc

    The thrust of Ali Baba’s message is for Nigerian not to be deceived by the celebrity worship in the media. The Good Life is not about having stuff, but about being good and doing good to others, like Rick Warren said.

    I also want to address Jane Public who feels one must be perfect before one gives advise. I beg to disagree. No one is perfect or will ever be perfect, but we should correct people who are playing fire when we can. Failure to do the right thing, because we are afraid of how they would react is a sin, of cowardice. I addition, the fact that your aunty’s kids made wrong choices does not mean that she was wrong about admonishing and encouraging others, Who knows, perhaps her kids will find God in their brokenness and become better adults as a result. I would also like to encourage you to lighten up a bit about criticisms of this nature, you don’t have to get all defensive about it. If you don’t like it, leave it,
    I mean this from a good heart, by the way.

    • Jane Public

      January 21, 2015 at 5:28 pm

      do baby mama’s impregnate themselves. A lot of the material things women flaunt or are chasing after, who is providing them, aliens? I asked for him to advice the men too, is that bad. I take advice from people who don’t just talk, but by their action, by their lives and by their actions, they have shown that there is something to learn. Talk is cheap. A lot of his male colleagues in the entertainment industry are part of the problem. Why doesn’t he address them. Would you take career advice from your classmate, or would you rather prefer to take one from the best graduating student in your class. I am only getting defensive because I detest the fact that Nigerian women have been made to feel something is wrong with them, or do you constantly admonish someone who is doing so well, No. Talk to the men too please. A lot of problems the women he is advising (sure as heck not me), are because of the way men behave. How about they come out and advise themselves. Biko

  18. Ms

    January 21, 2015 at 6:16 pm

    it’s funny how this man has made himself the omega for women advisory just because he found a fairly desperate middle-aged babymama to marry him. If you knew what this guy was and what he represented you will spit on his face. I hate social media sometimes. Pls keep quiet and advise yourself and your accommodating wife. Women are not stupid.

  19. sika

    January 21, 2015 at 7:40 pm

    Bia, is it this same Ali baba again spitting nonsense? Nwoke’m biko face your marriage/relationship. No one asked for your advice.

  20. Anonymous

    January 21, 2015 at 8:48 pm

    As right as he might be in stating that its more about what’s on the inside than what’s on the outside,I really don’t think he,is in the best position to point these truths out. Unless he can prove that he isn’t guilty of being involved with this same group of women he’s running down. My point being,Ali baba,should remove the log from his eyes before he,sees the speck in others..just saying.

  21. hawttalkwithtosan.blogspot.ca

    January 21, 2015 at 10:58 pm

    The bro ain’t lying but men also have so many issue that should be addressed. These “counselors” act like just being a MAN is enough achievement and compensation and need no fine tuning but a woman must work hard at being a person.

  22. Aisha

    January 22, 2015 at 1:33 am

    @ Jane Public: Please, do not ever give anyone the permission to shut you up. It is so sickening how EVERYONE has become “woman” adviser. Women do this, women do that, don’t do this, etc. How about the men folk, are they all perfect? All the rape cases against women and girls, who are the ones perpetrating them? Spirits? If it is not fathers or brothers or uncles or male doctors fingering/ defiling their wards/ patients, it is that the women are told to be someone other than God created them to be in order to get a husband, be liked by in laws or be a generally accepted docile domesticated commodity. It is funny how hypocrisy has now been labeled “advise”. Females, listen up: There is nothing wrong with you. You are not inferior to the men folk spiritually, mentally, physically, emotionally, etc. GOd is the creator of perfection and as such, you are perfect. Be careful of what you accept from people about yourself. This man-child who cannot be with a woman except she accepts to sacrifice her individuality, sees him as her last chance and is a yes- sir person is here to give advise? Life can be funny sha!

  23. Aisha

    January 22, 2015 at 1:40 am

    @ Jane Public: Please, do not ever give anyone the permission to shut you up. It is so sickening how EVERYONE has become “woman” adviser. Women do this, women do that, don’t do this, etc. How about the men folk, are they all perfect? All the rape cases against women and girls, who are the ones perpetrating them? Spirits? If it is not fathers or brothers or uncles or male doctors fingering/ defiling their wards/ patients, it is that the women are told to be someone other than God created them to be in order to get a husband, be liked by in laws or be a generally accepted docile domesticated commodity. It is funny how hypocrisy has now been labeled “advise”. Females, listen up: There is nothing wrong with you. You are not inferior to the men folk spiritually, mentally, physically, emotionally, etc. GOd is the creator of perfection and as such, you are perfect. Be careful of what you accept from people about yourself. This man-child who cannot be with a woman except she accepts to sacrifice her individuality, sees him as her last chance and is a yes- sir person is here to give advise? Life can be funny sha!

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