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A couple of years ago veteran rapper 2Shotz was accused of physical abuse by ex-girlfriend Beverly Osu (click here).

The rapper got married to Precious John in 2013 (click here) and they have a kid together, welcomed earlier this year (click here).

According to reports and leaked messages between Precious and a friend, 2Shotz also allegedly began abusing her physically in 2014 – a year after they got married and welcomed their first child together.

The messages (first released on SDK) hold strong allegations of domestic violence with Precious stating that she had to run away with her daughter to Ireland (where she studied) to avoid more violence.

So far there has been no comment from 2Shotz camp.

See the messages below.

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113 Comments

  1. me

    December 3, 2015 at 3:03 pm

    grabs kunu and gala, beverly be singing #opelope anointing#

    • o

      December 3, 2015 at 3:39 pm

      …2shotz o ba ba’rawo mi je…

    • Oil

      December 3, 2015 at 5:18 pm

      Opelope jesu la ra mi.. 2shotz oba ti re yin mi

    • Tina

      December 3, 2015 at 3:51 pm

      It’s always the short ones with low self esteem especially if there’s no money. That’s why I stayed far far away in my dating days.

    • KELLYFBABY

      December 3, 2015 at 7:06 pm

      Im sorry o BUT i dont feel any pity for her. When beverly made her accusations, precious supported her husband by insulting beverly. women with foul brain!!! Do not support your husband on issues that happened before your time. MRS MUSTAPHA AUDU, your next!

    • lala

      December 4, 2015 at 8:07 pm

      Really? Is that stereotype true?,I used to date a short handsome dark guy but long distance wouldn’t let our love be great. He never hit me once, but I remember an incident when he got visibly upset because I wouldn’t go down on him. seeing as I was on. And the favor would not be returned. won’t lie that stuff scared the bejeezus outta me. I actually thought he was gonna strangle or slap me. Veins all popping outta his temple n stuff. I told him in the most calm voice to pls take me home. He did and zoomed off with the tires screeching. Came back to beg that he wasn’t thinking straight. I guess these r the signs women like Precious ignore. Sometimes break ups are a blessing in disguise. I suppose

    • PRESS RELEASE

      December 3, 2015 at 7:17 pm

      In view of the baseless,unfounded and utterly false representations made against my person being
      circulated on various blogs and social networks which have prompted a barrage of
      calls, messages from my fans, friends and family urging me to respond to the allegations leveled against me, I consider it imperative to address these highly derogatory and defamatory allegations being leveled against me.

      Whilst i understand that Big Brother is a game where a vast sum of money is on offer on a
      winner takes all basis and housemates deploy several antics and tactics to win, I totally reject
      the ploys of a certain housemate using serious character assassination means which are injurious to my person and hard earned reputation as a musician and a respectable and responsible member of the Nigerian society to evoke sentiments in order to garner votes to succeed in the house.

      I want to state on record that I have never battered any woman and would never do so. I consider acts of battery and assault against women even
      against men as barbaric and puerile and as such will never indulge in such acts. I as a person appreciates the importance of women and appreciate their efforts as home builders, mothers and wives and would never raise my hands on a
      woman contrary to the repulsive and erroneous allegations being leveled against me.

      I therefore urge all my fans, friends and family to discredit the false reports being circulated against me as they are totally untrue, false and baseless. i want to thank those who inundated me with
      calls, text messages and Facebook messages expressing concern on the false allegations.

      God bless you all.
      William Orioha (aKa 2shotz),

    • biebeee

      December 3, 2015 at 9:58 pm

      @ press release lol,try harder, i believe her.

    • cleo

      December 3, 2015 at 11:21 pm

      I laugh in French.

    • Hatsoff

      December 4, 2015 at 6:31 am

      Whollop! Whollop! This looks familiar. Isn’t this the statement he made in 2013? ?

    • Bela

      December 4, 2015 at 7:10 am

      Ehhhh ehhhhh press release abi 2shot make we hear word…oginid. It totally looks like u have anger issues and complex problems. Maybe becos u are short naturally(well blame ur parents) , or u don’t actually have a career( ehmmm don’t really care for it) or maybe all the women u date pay for ur broke self . Mana either ways, be grateful that some even look at ur short ugly self. No matter Wuh u do or how u feel in life beating a woman is just trying to bring her down to the ground. And please let’s not blame precious for siding with 2shot ,u guys would have done same( even if deep down u know it’s true) .its just in our DNA to support who we’re with. Tats all( in my Wendy Williams voice ).

    • Lilly

      December 3, 2015 at 8:08 pm

      Really? You’re going to say that; even if she didn’t sympathise with Beverly at the time, it doesn’t give you the authority to rejoice or mock domestic violence, regardless of what happened. No one ever sympathises or believes an ex; it is a mistake we have all made. So instead of laughing at her, why not encourage her to leave the bloody bastard

  2. mrs chidukane

    December 3, 2015 at 3:06 pm

    As I was reading this I was just smiling. Not from happiness but because it brought back bitter memories. The day my dad hit my mom from behind and she fell on my sister who almost fell into the hot oil they were frying plantain with. The best thing that happened to us was my mom leaving. It gave us freedom to just be happy and be ourselves without the constant fear. I’m happy she left, it’s the best gift she can give her daughter.

    • kadara

      December 3, 2015 at 3:32 pm

      isn’t she the same woman that was bashing Beverly when she spoke out? just like Dino Malaye’s case, these women will bash the exes that speak out and call them bitter and they will enter it then he will do what he always does. women if anyone has ever accused your man of rape or beating women stop defending blindly and investigate . if he did it to another woman, he will do it to you one day!

    • Mayowa

      December 3, 2015 at 4:29 pm

      Kadara, I know right?
      When Beverly narrated her ordeal with 2shorts on Big Brother Africa, she abused Beverly on Twitter, saying her hubby is a gentle guy and the only thing he beat on Beverly, to borrow her words, is her fat ass kpom kpom.
      It’s really hard to sympathize with her after those atrocious and nasty tweets of hers in 2013. Regardless, I don’t support domestic violence so pele, ndo.

    • The way the cookie crumbles

      December 3, 2015 at 6:40 pm

      lindaikejisblog.com/2013/08/2shotz-wife-reacts-to-beverly-osus.html?m=1

      Precious Jones once said:

      1. The thirst for fame is real in dese streets. Deng the only thing he beat was your wideass pumpum. y u mad? gurrrrrrllllll bye

      2. Nothing is hidden under the sun. The truth will eventually unfold.

      3. To whom brain is given… sense is required. A lot of you ou dere lack common sense! You lot believe anything! Dumbfucks

      How can I, moi, feel sorry for a smart, brainy, non Dumbfuck as her?

      Heck no mehn! She too smart for my pity.

    • FasholasLover

      December 3, 2015 at 6:51 pm

      @Kadara, so you sef remember? I just tire for this women. Mrs. Aisha Audu Ilemona Mustapha will soon come and tell us what movies she featured in. Nobody deserves to be abused but, l just cant deal with women who jump to their partners defence when they don’t know what really went down in previous relationships.. Mtscheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew.

    • Obi

      December 3, 2015 at 7:40 pm

      My point exactly. The babe bashed Beverly big time. But I think we should hear both sides of the story tho. I condemn violence in relationships both against the woman and the man also.

    • Surely

      December 4, 2015 at 5:21 am

      Many of you would chop beating so as to cover up for a man you had initially defended. So free her! Don’t you know men pretend??? Na today??? Most of you also called Beverly a fame whore anyway so what are you on about?

      Precious, I applaud you for speaking out. You are brave! Thank you so much! Please move on without him. You will find love if you love yourself. All the best!!!

    • Surely

      December 4, 2015 at 5:23 am

      And @fasholaslover YOU TIRE FOR THESE WOMEN???????????? You no tire for a man whose beating skills have been exposed again! You no tire for Mustafa Audu. Na the victims and survivors you tire for. I see.

    • Vortex

      December 3, 2015 at 7:44 pm

      Mrs. Chidukane, I’m sorry you had to go through that. Thank you for sharing this. It reflects a very important angle in the domestic violence/abuse discussion- that of the child(ren) involved.

      Dear men and women (in particular) who are in toxic relationships and have children in the mix, separation/divorce may not be the ideal but it’s certainly not the worst thing in the world! Before choosing to remain in a very horrible situation in the name of avoiding the “broken home situation” consider the damage being done to innocent kids- lack of peace, warped world views, esteem issues, trust issues, bitterness, unhappiness, depression and so much other shit. Living together doesn’t mean a home isn’t “broken” and being from a broken home is not a death sentence!

      People give the excuse of not wanting their children to grow up without their fathers (or mothers in some cases) but what good are psychos as fathers or mothers? If they were dead would you not raise your children? They say they don’t want their kids to face the stigma that comes with being from a broken home. Well, tough luck because we live in a judgmental world and there’s some kind of stigma attached to most things anyways…There are so many examples of children who despite being raised by single parents, turned out extremely well. If family members, suitors or strangers choose to look down on you or your kids just because you’re from a broken home, then good riddance! Life is too short to be involved in that kind of struggle for validation.

      Lastly, I don’t understand why some people (again, especially women) just decide to use their lives to act out movie scripts. It’s mind boggling how after seeing, hearing or reading about how someone treated a former flame badly, a sane person can confidently walk into the same situation. Is the outcome supposed to be different for you? Or you think you’re the chosen one who has to fix the fragile, damaged one? Please, stop it

  3. Ify

    December 3, 2015 at 3:06 pm

    Na wa oo,i don’t even know what to say,violence against women these days is getting out of hand. by the way,i am waiting for the later part when they would both come out and deny the leaked text messages!

  4. KB

    December 3, 2015 at 3:07 pm

    Women need to learn that there is never an excuse for an abusive husband. In the past few months i have noticed that ladies who stay in abusive relationships do so because they feel the man deserves an excuse. Biko there is a fine line between giving somebody benefit of doubt and dealing with someone who is stark raving mad.

    As a man whether your career has gone to hell or is sinking in high water, unleashing your pent up frustrations on your spouse is simply a show of cowardice. If you are man enough, why not fix your career? Why try to regain self esteem by turning an innocent person into a punching bag?

    2shotz, your wife’s screenshots are being saved right now to be forwarded to a dozen human rights and domestic violence groups. Ewu Gambia.

  5. Bunmi

    December 3, 2015 at 3:07 pm

    So Beverly was telling the truth and we all thought she was lying. women please say no to domestic violence it kills ones self esteem, no matter how you love don’t allow a man to turn you to a punching bag

    • Mayowa

      December 3, 2015 at 4:31 pm

      I never imagined her lying about it, I knew she was honest. The day she was narrating the horrific experiences she had with him to her fellow housemates, I almost cried. Melvin and Elikem were speechless.

  6. Thatgidigirl

    December 3, 2015 at 3:07 pm

    This life na turn by turn Plc, shey she was defending him initially? Even Dino Melaye’s 2nd wife defended him too until her own “leaked” in a text message as well. I’m waiting for mustapha audu’s wife’s testimony soon in an email, since that’s their favourite mode of leaking info..

    • Lilly

      December 3, 2015 at 8:39 pm

      I don’t understand you ladies though; so she didn’t agree that her husband was capable of violence; no one ever knows until they are victims; to her he would have been the best of men, he would have lied to her and told her that Beverly was not the one to be trusted. People do crazy things when they are in love; with words you have all been throwing at her; how do you expect her to gain the strength to resist him and not go back to him. I have suffered domestic violence not once, not twice and trust me you don’t know the half of it

    • Fashionista

      December 3, 2015 at 9:41 pm

      Lilly, the point is to be objective about the situation, especially when it happened before you even knew him. By all means take your husbands side but do it SILENTLY and in the bedroom with him. Don’t come out cursing the person telling her own story because whether or not he is “now” your husband, you simply do not know what happened previously as you weren’t there.

  7. KB

    December 3, 2015 at 3:11 pm

    Bellanaijarians, i believe it is about time we as individuals take decisive steps when we read such reports. If you know a group (NGO, Human Rights etc) that stands against this type of violence, forward the report to them. Let us be our brothers and sisters keeper. The attitude of simply pouring our hearts out on a website is not enough.

    Believe it or not, we may advise this woman from morning till night and she still wont find the courage to leave this gorilla. Sometimes people need a hand to reach out and draw them out of a sinking boat.

  8. GARNI

    December 3, 2015 at 3:14 pm

    precious, please ehn the part where you said he is not a bad person abi he is a good person that is only the part I have issue with. HE IS AN AWFUL PERSON AND YOU HAVE NOT SEEN THE HALPF OF WHAT PEOPLE LIKE THIS ARE CAPABLE OF! STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR HIM!

  9. Ruby

    December 3, 2015 at 3:15 pm

    Bellanaija!!! Kindly tell us where you culled this story from. When did you start this. This story is exclusive to SDKblog

    • chewunski

      December 3, 2015 at 5:25 pm

      ‘m sure you can read, so open your eyes well to see the acknowledgement.

  10. fish

    December 3, 2015 at 3:16 pm

    wow. and beverly said it o! gosh! and to think he said “i respect women” when his wife had the baby. how can you hit the baby i dont care if its by mistake or not! shameless idiot anumpam

  11. Scared homosapien

    December 3, 2015 at 3:16 pm

    I held my breath all through, while reading this. Once a brute, always a brute. You should have listened and believed Beverly’s story when it was in the news. I don’t want to say ‘had you known’, because you knew, but just like Naija Christians, we bind and cast to hell everything, even when it is in black and white.
    Sorry dear, let us continue to ‘pray’ (I kid) for 2shotz (Short man, short temper).

  12. Sparkles

    December 3, 2015 at 3:20 pm

    You see how we women walk gladly into problems by ourselves!! Ngwanu

  13. Nikky

    December 3, 2015 at 3:21 pm

    Unbelievable!!! You need a “furniture wife”, never heard that before, if you are fraustrated, then Chanel your energy into something else! I just can’t deal with this kinda story! Is over bearing

  14. damilola

    December 3, 2015 at 3:21 pm

    so beverly wasnt lying after all… 2shotz needs to work on his angry issues.. God helps his wife and daughter sha.

  15. Jide

    December 3, 2015 at 3:24 pm

    Sad. I remember her saying Beverly Osu was lying against her husband back then. I don’t know why women always blindly support their men in these situations. So desperate to hold on to their “marriage” and “husband” that they convince themselves that anybody who has anything bad to say is an “enemy.” I’m tempted to say this is karma and it serves her right, but the truth is that no one deserves this. Hopefully she and her daughter get out of that situation quickly, for good. I hope she has friends who can get to her because you can bet this story is going to cause the stupid guy to lose his temper again and attack her. I’m hoping you (BellaNaija) took that into consideration before posting this.

  16. dips

    December 3, 2015 at 3:24 pm

    The cane that the husband used on the 1st wife……..he is keeping for the 2nd wife. If you see or hear someone abusing his ex……please run for your life. Your own won’t be different.

  17. ebby

    December 3, 2015 at 3:25 pm

    Na wah o. say no to domestic violence

  18. Gabby

    December 3, 2015 at 3:26 pm

    I was in school with Wiiliam and his brother Goodluck. William was never a good person. My heart breaks for the poor woman and her child. Ladies please do not stay in abusive relationships, it messes you up badly. The guy tried to put her down by telling her no one would want her because she has 2 kids, sadly women believe that. Ladies remember you are not here to get married. You are here to live your best lives, to use your intellect to change lives and build stronger communities.
    William now that the music industry has chewed and spat you out, can you find a day in boxing or karate?

  19. Onyx

    December 3, 2015 at 3:27 pm

    2 shots i am a man and i wish you will try and do this with me instead of your wife and see if i won’t smash your skull in. Why do these wife beaters not fight with men that confront them and see if they wont land in the hospital. COWARDS. I’ve heard gist about the low life thug and for his ex gf to complain and now his wife too then it must be kinda true.

  20. curiousgirl

    December 3, 2015 at 3:28 pm

    this is very sad..bella naija please you need to do more to help victims of domestic violence such as putting out contacts of different NGOS that help or shelter victims of domestic violence..
    precious is lucky that she has access to abroad, I pity women who do not have access to the western country… please what are available for women that are victims of domestic violence..

  21. amaa

    December 3, 2015 at 3:29 pm

    Beverly spoke we called her a whore even whores don’t deserve to be beat up. I am waiting to hear his own side of the story. I am just tired ofhearing of men take out their ffrustrations on women. Please take to the ring and beat up your opponent blue and black if you wish but to beat a woman is the lowest form of low . Mothers it starys with little boys beating little girls in the play ground and at home teach them and raise them well. Dont come saddle our well behaved and well raised girls with badly raised boys. Any man that raise his or her hand a daughter that I pushed into this world I better be with my maker by then or else ife ga emee

  22. i no send

    December 3, 2015 at 3:30 pm

    is this not the same lady that cursed out the ex when she made those allegations??..women!! you always think your own regime will be better than the previous one abi?? you are using your own eyes to see the broom that was used to sweep out the first “wife”..we are our own worst enemy..men are so much more in solidarity than women…however she should cut her losses and run ……*side note* the friend who leaked this without permission is bad o…

  23. Sheri

    December 3, 2015 at 3:31 pm

    I don’t know how to feel sorry for women like this and I won’t. This is your cross, now bear it.

    Reason I say so is because I remember VIVIDLY when former Big Brother contestant Beverly Osu cried out that 2Shotz used to abuse her, and beat her senseless and this same lady now crying of abuse stated her boyfriend 2shotz has not one single violent bone in his body, she even resulted to calling everybody believing the accusations dumb F*** and senseless, she was just ranting all over social media dragging Beverly in the mud, talking about the truth being unfolded etc etc. (I just googled to confirm what she said, I know I don’t forget things! Haha) What type of grown woman speaks in that manner?! I don’t know any of them personally, but I don’t forget things. Ladies when a woman like yourself cries out of abuse you need not drag her down even further than she has been already. Even if you don’t believe her, the last thing you want to do is behave like a raging bull. Wisdom?! Can we learn to apply these in our everyday lives. Even if you don’t believe that your hubby/boyfriend is a wife beater, BE QUIET.
    And another thing, this has been said over and over again…please don’t put your life on hold for any man. I don’t need to say much regarding that. I think we have all seen and heard enough to know that you should fulfil yourself as a person, do not throw away your dreams for a MAN. If that man leaves you, your accomplishments will not, your degrees will not, your success will NOT. Even if he doesn’t leave you, let the man appreciate you for being a hard working woman by his side.

  24. Bolaji

    December 3, 2015 at 3:35 pm

    Ladies this is why you should not enter gutter to find husband. This is what an mgbore badly bred husband looks like. She is obviously an intelligent and articulate woman who has put a lot of effort into making this marriage work. What kind of lout would hit his wife whilst she is carrying their baby. My dear, focus on your child and your career. This night ain’t worth shit

  25. Sonia Paloma

    December 3, 2015 at 3:37 pm

    Wahala dey o!
    Look at this two conjoined battery, short pistle of a half Man has the guts to do all that ni?
    We all know sometimes frustration can lead one to do the unthinkable but you have to be a MAN and put that passion/frustration to reinvent yourself. Instead the otapiapia is busy beating the woman that fends for the family.

    Anyway, lets hope this is not true. even though a great part of me believe it is. sigh!

  26. Ehiwarior

    December 3, 2015 at 3:37 pm

    My dear, thank God you are alive to tell this story, several women never told theirs,
    E.g., my eldest sister, the idiots hit her on her stomach, she had forceful discharge of blood and the kicked caused internal injury, she bled to death on the 27th of July 2012.

    Precious, you are a beautiful woman and 2shot doesn’t deserve you, please take care of your daughter, if he comes begging forgive him but NEVER go back to him again, because he will still hit you and you might never live to tell the story.

    #shalom

    • Corolla

      December 3, 2015 at 11:35 pm

      @Ehiwarior so sorry for your loss. I hope the idiot didn’t go free.

    • thinkaboutit

      December 4, 2015 at 1:41 am

      God bless your heart….

  27. Dolapo

    December 3, 2015 at 3:39 pm

    The painful part is the fact that when stories like this leak after a while it just dies down, the guy should be brought to book. SHORT MAN DEVIL

  28. tamunotonye

    December 3, 2015 at 3:41 pm

    Chei! And Beverly said it o… these people heaped insults on the poor girl. Nne, it is well with u inugo? The best thing u did was to leave with your kid, b4 it turns to story that touch the heart.

  29. @jide

    December 3, 2015 at 3:42 pm

    she is back in Dublin where she is safe..

  30. o

    December 3, 2015 at 3:44 pm

    To think she went into this eyes wide open… na wa! Good thing Bev got out fast. Precious, just take care of your daughter, sorry you had to endure all that. This should be a lesson to us ladies, if the former babe/wife accuses your man of DV, hmm, it’s best you check for signs oh before claiming ‘ride or die’.

  31. RIFF RAFF

    December 3, 2015 at 3:44 pm

    CALL ZAHRA AUDU AND LILIAN UBI FRANKLIN TO READ THIS POST AND TAKE NOTE!!!
    To the first one who is defending her 50 Shades of Grey husband, be careful, it can happen to you, plus,you have daughters! Lililan, with that your pretty face…. i sincerely hope this will not be ur own story with Ubi Franklin.Beverly Osu and Emma Nyra denounced these guys but they got laughed at and even called “bitter, jealous exes”
    And the innocent baby carried her own share of slaps too…..
    Abusers hardly change. And they are usually the most romantic, in the beginning, that’s the irony of it all. You don’t see it coming.
    So no man will marry her cos she has 2 kids???
    This dude thinks this is Naija where women are dying to be Mrs??? The girl lived abroad, they don’t have a crippled marriage mentality there, that is why she found strength to walk away.
    Now he’s blackmailing her with sex-tape. LET HIM RELEASE IT, FOOL!! WAS SHE HAVING SEX ALONE????I’m glad she didn’t wait for him to hurt her more and left with her baby.
    I’m sure some will still come here and advise her “to work on her marriage, at least for the sake of the baby.” The same baby he slapped.
    MY DEAR AS MUCH AS I WANT TO LAUGH AT U FOR HAVING INSULTED BEVERLY, I WON’T.
    TAKE YOUR BABY, GO AND LIKE LOT’S WIFE, DON’T LOOK BACK.
    WOMEN, LEAVE AN ABUSIVE MAN AND DON’T LOOK BACK FOR ANY REASON!!!

    • thinkaboutit

      December 4, 2015 at 1:43 am

      yes ooh!!!

  32. DD

    December 3, 2015 at 3:49 pm

    WHEN beverly Osu , the big brother girl was sayingit, didnt this same wifelady abi lady wife of 2 shotz, deny that he is the sweetest.. The lady that went through it was trying to let her know before entering gbese, but no she’s was too in love with the sweetest guy… Ladies pay close attention, cos in every rumour there is an atom of truth and physical abuse is not one that people should ignore.. All i can say to this lady wife, abi wife lady is EYA!!… SORRY ehn it will be well.. Find a solution ehen.. it will be well with you

  33. BlueEyed

    December 3, 2015 at 3:50 pm

    I remember people doubting Beverly’s story when she opened up, and even the same wife supporting her husband….so I really can’t feel sorry for these women, u hear these things and you still go ahead, my dear he hasn’t started with you yet, you’re still breathing, let’s wait till he uses pliers on your ears

  34. nwa nna

    December 3, 2015 at 3:55 pm

    Unfortunately for her, she thought she was different and he wouldn’t abuse her! Men that are serially abusers are cowards and I detest them with a passion!

  35. iyke

    December 3, 2015 at 3:57 pm

    Hmmmmm…..emotional / verbal abuse, and domestic violence are on the rise, especially among our generation lately. I am not surprised at all. It is a power struggle with lasting consequences.
    One thing I know for sure is that all abusers and victims started out as children…Yes I said it, but this is a discussion for another day.
    I am NOT blaming no one here but I took a moment to quickly analyze the mind of the victim. I have a strong feeling that she had a troubled childhood and I know that if a woman has been mistreated in the past, even in childhood, there’s a good chance that she’ll be mistreated in her next relationship as well.
    In her wasapp message to her friend, it was obvious she put up a subtle barrier for self-protection initially against 2Shotz and perhaps other men. Of course, the gentler, more respectful men that she also attracted recognized and respected those barriers and backed off. Whereas, the resentful, angry, or abusive men (2Shotz et al) who are likely to abuse her will either not recognize her barriers and continue hitting on her, until they break down the protective walls that surround her hungry heart…This explains why 2shotz never gave up even when she wasn’t keen on the relationship initially.
    Now you see why in the course of trying to avoid an abusive man, she fell deeply into the arms of an abusive man who also had a troubled childhood. (The abuser 2shotz et al…..story for another day)
    I have one question for all the ladies here,especially the unmarried ones.
    What are your core values? Seriously, take away the effizys, flash, beach houses, lies and shenanigans, what exactly are your CORE VALUES? No one knows you more than you know yourself. A greater sense of your core values will give you more confidence that you can detect the very early warning signs of abuse. Listen compassionately to the faint messages of your hungry heart. Then it won’t need to make the kind of desperate outcries that suspend your best judgment, scare off appropriate matches, and attract resentful, angry, or abusive partners.
    #knowyourcorevalues

    • Moreplease

      December 3, 2015 at 4:54 pm

      Iyke, you’re on to something. Are you a professional counselor? Please explain your analysis a little bit closer or offer more insights into this. You said something that hit the cord: “the lady/victim had a protective barrier” but still ended up with an abuser. How can one who has a similar sort of protective barrier and trust issues (particularly with men) prevent thyself from attracting or falling into the arms of the wrong person?

    • Mz Socially Awkward...

      December 4, 2015 at 1:19 am

      So, Iyke held the door open and I’m deciding to step in and disclose a little.

      On building protective barriers and still ending up with an abuser – the ex was an emotional manipulator. You know the sort of boyfriend that loses his temper because of some silly little error you make and then you’d send texts and call to apologise and he’d ignore you for days…. That sort of manipulative arsehole.

      However, when he initially wooed me (very sweetly), I truly believed in my spirit that there was no way in heck we could end up together. Protective barriers were up like prison walls and I told him I didn’t consider him to be a serious contender. I think I inadvertently became a challenge so he worked with the script needed to pull the barriers down and I found myself wondering if I’d misjudged him. BUT there would be certain times when the real him would peek through and I clearly remember one of them very early in our relationship when he was taking me home and made a statement and laughed. A voice in my head distinctly said “break up with this man today” but I decided to ignore it.

      Sometimes, we don’t want to believe we’ve been skilfully conned at letting those barriers down, so we may decide to remain with those manipulators to justify the poor decision we made and keep trying to find the good in them. I remember asking him once about some appointment he had at the local university (he wasn’t a student so it seemed, to my mind, a perfectly reasonable query to make) and he retorted by saying that even if he was going there for a menag a trios (his exact words) what concern was that of mine? I was in shock but this was long after he’d made it past all protective barriers, so I didn’t even think of showing the idiot the door. You see, they KNOW when you’ve unlocked the final gates and are now in too deep. That’s when the ignoring of communication (for weeks), laying down of rules and controlling behaviour starts (towards the end, the inglorious bastard even started telling me to stop going to church – imagine!)

      Of course, you’re never in too deep, that’s just a silly excuse your mind latches unto when your heart starts complaining that it can’t face the prospect of being broken again. I’m giving you my own personal experience of what I think Iyke’s alluding to – some people out there are just marauders and love the challenge posed by barriers so be very aware that protecting yourself doesn’t mean that some skilful fraudster won’t stop finding ways to get at you.

      Except that I’ll change Iyke’s advice at the end and say you should listen to what your instinct has to say (always) and not your hungry heart.

    • californiabawlar

      December 4, 2015 at 5:27 am

      Wow!!! So much wisdom right here! You need to write an article about women not making themselves obvious targets for emotional predators mehn!! Young ladies would learn a lot from this! From secondary school/ university bad boys that will ‘change’ for you and start coming to your church…to more mature skilled and subtle manipulators like your ex….we all need to be weary. But like DrN implied, we still have to be casual and positive so even our body language doesn’t let it on.
      I’ve never been able to articulate my own growing caution in letting guys see what I like or don’t like in a man. I just let you be you…If a guy asks me what I like in a man, my generic answer is “someone that likes me” no more no less…Even with the sick ex (the one with heart issues) I never told him my concerns, else he would had hidden these things. I didn’t judge him o. At least not until I realized he was still drinking off and on. I acted like I was cool with it, I let him show all his true colors…then one day I just packed my kaya.
      Would you believe that after he realized I was big on a healthy lifestyle, he started hiding things…but by then it was too late…no amount to marriage promises, or emotional blackmail from his parents or mine was worth the hassle. he said he will change for me…I said, change for yasef…I’ll be here to support you.

      p.s. Mazi Iyke and Nne SA…yall should coauthor the article…both perspectives would be appreciated…and you know…**cough**cough**cupid**cough**BNloveconnect**cough**
      😀

    • californiabawlar

      December 3, 2015 at 5:01 pm

      Mazi Iyke, while I appreciate your efforts to try not to make this another BN man-bashing article, all this your entire five paragraphs should have been towards pschoanalyzing 2Shotz and his likes. This chick did not even stay that long in the abusive relationship, I feel like she hung in there enough to see if things will get better and she bounced when he hit her daughter. She admits he was very sweet, she even broke up with him when she found out he was a ‘star’….so all that talk about her core values doesn’t quite catch here. In my FGGC-educated opinion, her head is very very correct.

      About listening to his ex….hmmn! All I know is that most guys always say their ex is crazy…as I’m getting older, I’m finding there’s always some truth to the story….the exes that is.

    • Dr. N

      December 3, 2015 at 10:06 pm

      Nne, I agree with Iyke. You attract what u dwell on the most. A lot of people who have been abused spend so much time thinking about how to prevent further abuse that they inadvertently send out signals of vulnerability. I admire this lady tho, for walking out. I hope she stays OUT. That will tell me exactly how strong she is.
      Most people who r emotionally whole can spot psychos from afar. E.g. the lady I read about on BN who detected a guy was married tho he had no ring on.
      Ladies, no matter what u have been thru, devote more time to what is going well in your life. Pour your energy and focus into the positives and u will create the future u want

    • californiabawlar

      December 3, 2015 at 10:57 pm

      I guess I didn’t quite disagree with him, making me ‘appreciate his effort’ lol
      I see yalls point of view sha….because now that you have put it quite succinctly, I might want to listen to you guys too o.
      I hope I don’t end up with someone who will kpai at a young age. I’m very paranoid about having my husband pass on early due to the trauma my family of 7 had to pass through after my dad died at barely 40.
      So far so good (?) I seem to have attracted a couple of people with health problems, in fact my two most serious relationships: ‘the one who got away’ is a cancer survivor, and ‘the one I got away from’ has serious cardio-thorax problems (his own fault sha, past or even present drug and alcohol abuse)….and to top all my sicky sicky exes, I have graduated and I’m currently in serious ‘negotiations’ with military dude in active duty.
      Abeg make I check myself before I wreck myself…hehehe…but seriously, hmmnnn **raisedeyebrow**

    • californiabawlar

      December 3, 2015 at 10:59 pm

      I guess I didn’t quite disagree with him, making me ‘appreciate his effort’ lol
      I see yalls point of view sha….because now that you have put it quite succinctly, I might want to listen to you guys too o.
      I hope I don’t end up with someone who will kpai at a young age. I’m very paranoid about having my husband pass on early due to the trauma my family of 7 had to pass through after my dad died at barely 40.
      So far so good (?) I seem to have attracted a couple of people with health problems, in fact my two most serious relationships: ‘the one who got away’ is a cancer survivor, and ‘the one I got away from’ has serious cardio-thorax problems (his own fault sha, past or even present drug and alcohol abuse)….and to top all my sicky sicky exes, I have graduated and I’m currently in serious ‘negotiations’ with military dude in active duty.
      Abeg make I check myself before I wreck myself…hehehe…but seriously, hmmnnn **raisedeyebrow* could I be attracting people that death is chasing…God forbid bad thing!! hahaha.

    • Mz Socially Awkward...

      December 4, 2015 at 1:23 am

      Nwa nne m, I forbid with you. “Tufiakwa!!” on your behalf.

  36. Tish

    December 3, 2015 at 3:57 pm

    Chimooooooooo!!!!! OmG! OmG!! I can’t believe this. So sorry, babes. All is well. God will help you.

  37. passingby

    December 3, 2015 at 3:58 pm

    Dear girl. Pick yourself up and carry on. He is not your blood relation so you can and must make a CLEAN BREAK from the IDIOT. you are lucky you live abroad. If Na naija you dey the BASTARD for collect your children, frustrate your life until you contemplate sucide. Just be thankful that you got your kids. Do not come back ohh!!!!!!!!!!!!. My dear file divorce paper ozibo. You are beautiful. Love will find you don’t ever go looking for it.

  38. Ebere

    December 3, 2015 at 4:13 pm

    We woman enter abuse filled relationships with our eyes opened because he clearly told you before you got married that he wanted a “furniture wife” and I guess you accepted then because you didn’t want the “SATURDAY” bus of marriage to leave you, and now you realized that you are too intelligent to be a “furniture wife”. I don’t condone abuse but sometimes, we are the architect of our own misery.I am happy that you came out alive anyway……

    • FasholasLover

      December 3, 2015 at 7:15 pm

      @Ebere, lmao !!! You will not kii somborrii. Which one is “Saturday marriage bus” again?

      “Furniture wife” is also a new one. I have heard of “Enjoyment wife” sha.

  39. Las

    December 3, 2015 at 4:19 pm

    All the signs were there but were ignored. It is very difficult for people to change, so someone who beats up a partner/spouse would probably beat up another. A person cheating in a relationship would probably cheat in another.
    Women must always tell themselves the truth about any relationship, about any situation. The decision to marry a man known to abuse women is yours and yours alone. Unfortunately, that is something you will always carry with you.

  40. Personal signature

    December 3, 2015 at 4:20 pm

    As a man, I am ashamed for some men, reading all these stuffs in the past 3 days. A whole lot has been said on this site about marriage in the last 48 -72 hours ranging from Rapper 2shots, Tchidi, Anita, Bitter wife-Aunty bella, Girl Spice…

    It is hard to believe people like this exist. I have not even fought or quarreled with a fellow man, is it a lady/woman i will now quarrel/fight with?

    Ladies, a little advice for you. It’s high time you people re-evaluate what you look out for in a man. It seems to me many ladies fall for the rogues and bad boys all in the name of wanting a TDH guy; a man that people “aww” at when you go out together; the ready made rich guy….you all know the things you look out for in this age. It wasn’t this bad during our parent’s time.

    A man (Tchidi) had 3 kids with a woman, divorced and you went to “chuk” your head inside? A lady claimed she was beaten black and blue (Beverly) and you still went to “chuk” your head inside? These two men in question, what do they have? what fame do they have, what is special about them that makes you loose your sense of reasoning?

    Aside all these bad news i read everyday, there are marriages that are heaven on earth. Men celebrating their wives, getting them cars on birthdays, spoiling them silly for staying with them when they didn’t have anything, being a source of joy to their wives, bringing their wives out of nothing to something, taking their wives on trips the women never imagined…..

    Dear Lady, it is left for you to choose rightly. Choose good personality and Godliness above every other thing (in as much as other things are good too). Money may come and go, riches may come and go, but a man/lady with a godly heart stays faithful, good, kind, caring, loving, supportive forever. Not bcos you are pretty, hot or sexy (no), but because he fears God!

  41. Felinda

    December 3, 2015 at 4:26 pm

    The way the poor girl made excuse for him in her statement “OH HE IS NOT A BAD PERSON, ITS JUST THAT HIS CAREER IS NOT GOING WELL, SO HE CHANNELS HIS ANGER blah blah blah

    This statement tells me this girl misses this BRUTE and will take him back.

    I can never understand the mindset of ABUSED WOMEN.

    No big a d- a size in this world – I wish a nigga will touch me. One of us will meet our ancestors

    • californiabawlar

      December 3, 2015 at 5:05 pm

      She was married to him now….hmmn, I can’t imagine falling in love with someone and have them turn on you like this 🙁 …It’s only normal to want to rationalize things. She just needs a support system to keep her away from him.

  42. Kay

    December 3, 2015 at 4:27 pm

    What is it with these men that are on their wives’ payrolls? I’m all for joint ownership but there is something dysfunctional about a man depending on his wife when he is capable. Why do so many women accept and indulge this nonsense? I am so, so heartbroken. Would love to read your opinions.

  43. lc

    December 3, 2015 at 4:31 pm

    women don’t understand that marriage is a different ball game!!! you can’t change a man even if your beyonce!!!! anyways in this situation i always ask myself what will beyonce do?
    and you all know the answer!!! dropsmic lmao!!!

  44. alwayshappy

    December 3, 2015 at 4:33 pm

    Mbok, sorry you had to find out for yourself. The morale of the story any story of abuse you hear or is shared with you must have 1 aorta of truth. Yes men can act differently with different women, but one day you will set off the same “inner broken animal” all the tales by moonlight stories or instincts have been telling you the man suffers from.

    There should be a FREE National directory where victims of abuse can share their story or disclose names, on the back end – professional counsellors, the legal system should use this information to aid and help these victims.

    Imagine if this Free National directory is accessible to the public. Ahhh we shall all sip tea and eat asun daily. #hotstuff

  45. Puzzles

    December 3, 2015 at 4:35 pm

    harbiodinho.wordpress.com/2013/08/10/2shotz-wife-precious-jones-reacts-to-beverly-osus-battery-allegations/

    The truth must come out one day. Beverly has been vindicated.

  46. Ebere

    December 3, 2015 at 4:40 pm

    Ladies, when all your Ex or Exs are getting married on Saturdays, don’t cry, just wish them well because you don’t know what God has done for you!!!

  47. Kay1

    December 3, 2015 at 4:42 pm

    that1960chick.com/2013/08/10/why-is-2shotz-wife-throwing-shots-at-beverly-osu/

    I remember she was defending him then.

  48. Imagine the rubbish

    December 3, 2015 at 4:45 pm

    “Video of us doing stuff… ” Girls make una no dey gree for these things naaa! Becasue when the going is not so good, Men without shame and anything to lose will put your bum bum online for other useless people to ogle! If he brings our camera, tell him no! If he is your husband and brings out camera, bring out your own camera too “in the spirit of the fun” and video even his butt hole , make una dey even! If he ever threatens you, threaten him back!

    • KELLYFBABY

      December 3, 2015 at 7:07 pm

      GIRLS WILL NEVER LEARN!! TUFIA..

  49. some (abusive) men are BIG FOOLS

    December 3, 2015 at 4:49 pm

    but is the same 2shortz that bought one silver rolls royce car…. lol
    please go and sell that car and use that money and start a business. stupid man!!!
    personally i can never marry or date celebrities because all this their show off nah public stunt but in reality most of them are even worse off than the normal, non celebrities!! his a huge ode!!! his wife should please leave that marriage and invest in her and her bundle of joy. when my friend died due to domestic violence in her marriage i always tell anyone going through the same JUST LEAVE!! and the same stupid man has slept with half of lagos girls (no respect)
    you better run from an abusive man cause they are nothing but huge fools.

  50. DD

    December 3, 2015 at 4:51 pm

    Heartbreaking to read her messages. As in, just the horror of discovering that it’s actually happening, that the man you married is lifting his hands to cause you pain. Domestic violence is just evil.

  51. DD

    December 3, 2015 at 4:55 pm

    Thank God she got herself and her child away from him.

  52. midlred taylor

    December 3, 2015 at 4:56 pm

    first of all this messages were not LEAKED but rather orchestrated. first of all who wakes up at 7am to write all of this, when she could have easily called her and said it. This friend is question was the same friend wishing her congrats on her marriage, now she is the one crying on your behalf. now she says that her bride price was not paid! but she was still the one posing in the village with 2shotz and bella naija has the photos to prove that. the choice of words and exquisite english and punctuations show it was well thought out so leaked is not the right word! now deciding to expose him also exposes you. Shows how foolish you are that you did all this before you married him and still went ahead with it. You are meant to be a pastor’s daughter so why didnt your parents advise you otherwise or wait for you to finish your education and get a career before rushing to marry and having a child. Now you have 2 kids with 2 different men. You enjoyed the bellanaija and linda ikeji and several blogs carrying the story, now you come to cry to the public for a shoulder to cry on and the fact is not that many people care. next week there will be another story on the block. in time of sadness there are some people that are not the right shoulders to cry on. They just enjoying gossip.

    • xxx

      December 3, 2015 at 5:47 pm

      if you had any sense you will know that the screenshot was taking at 7am and not when the convo occurred!

    • Justsaying

      December 3, 2015 at 7:59 pm

      Mildred aka 2shuts sista, pls no one is concerned abt how this story was leaked or what vocabulary or English style was used to draft the convo. What we are concerned abt as women who can learn from dis is d content of d text. Instead of you to focus on how ur “broda” is physically and emotionally abusing smone he promised and made a vow to love and protect. Even physically harming ur “niece” in d process. Pls address that madam. Bcos I know you are either his family or side chick.

  53. Olayemi

    December 3, 2015 at 5:16 pm

    Shebi they told this one and she was saying crap the other time. Sorry to find out yourself. Good discovery. Happy for you.

  54. squad

    December 3, 2015 at 5:24 pm

    It’s like these irrelevant musicians vent the frustration of their already dead careers on their wives. Too bad

  55. Iyawo Emeka

    December 3, 2015 at 5:55 pm

    This is what you get when you meet a man on the internet and dont court properly with him.
    This is also what you get when you run down a fellow woman whose confession could have saved you from this situation.
    Just runnnnn and never look back…

  56. Iyun

    December 3, 2015 at 6:03 pm

    @midlred hello 2shortz or 2shortz sibling we see you, @ wife thank God you’ve left him, I wish you the very best.

  57. huh

    December 3, 2015 at 6:59 pm

    Beht how is she his wife in this matter? Shebi she said he hasn’t even paid dowry? They’re dating in my opinion oh. Errmm, madam sorry o and little baby, sorry too o

  58. Vortex

    December 3, 2015 at 7:43 pm

    Mrs. Chidukane, I’m sorry you had to go through that. Thank you for sharing this. It reflects a very important angle in the domestic violence/abuse discussion- that of the child(ren) involved.

    Dear men and women (in particular) who are in toxic relationships and have children in the mix, separation/divorce may not be the ideal but it’s certainly not the worst thing in the world! Before choosing to remain in a very horrible situation in the name of avoiding the “broken home situation” consider the damage being done to innocent kids- lack of peace, warped world views, esteem issues, trust issues, bitterness, unhappiness, depression and so much other shit. Living together doesn’t mean a home isn’t “broken” and being from a broken home is not a death sentence!

    People give the excuse of not wanting their children to grow up without their fathers (or mothers in some cases) but what good are psychos as fathers or mothers? If they were dead would you not raise your children? They say they don’t want their kids to face the stigma that comes with being from a broken home. Well, tough luck because we live in a judgmental world and there’s some kind of stigma attached to most things anyways…There are so many examples of children who despite being raised by single parents, turned out extremely well. If family members, suitors or strangers choose to look down on you or your kids just because you’re from a broken home, then good riddance! Life is too short to be involved in that kind of struggle for validation.

    Lastly, I don’t understand why some people (again, especially women) just decide to use their lives to act out movie scripts. It’s mind boggling how after seeing, hearing or reading about how someone treated a former flame badly, a sane person can confidently walk into the same situation. Is the outcome supposed to be different for you? Or you think you’re the chosen one who has to fix the fragile, damaged one? Please, stop it.

  59. Drknte

    December 3, 2015 at 8:08 pm

    This is so bogus. Who writes text messages like this one? It’s a novel. C’mon BN, you are better than this.

    • chi

      December 4, 2015 at 3:04 am

      She writes however she chooses. Most times very articulately so, just because you don’t or can’t doesn’t give you the basis to assume such.

  60. Lilly

    December 3, 2015 at 8:08 pm

    Really? You’re going to say that; even if she didn’t sympathise with Beverly at the time, it doesn’t give you the authority to rejoice or mock domestic violence, regardless of what happened. No one ever sympathises or believes an ex; it is a mistake we have all made. So instead of laughing at her, why not encourage her to leave the bloody bastard

  61. TobeReal

    December 3, 2015 at 8:38 pm

    Didn’t the same 2shotz only just get his visa to ireland..let’s be careful about our utterances.
    This was posted by Linda in Sept 2015
    lindaikejisblog.com/2015/09/2shotz-meets-his-daughter-6-months.html?m=1

    • Reply

      December 3, 2015 at 9:39 pm

      He was actually bounced twice!!!

  62. Anon

    December 3, 2015 at 11:21 pm

    Loooooooooooooooooooooooooool tbh ,she deserved it . D fact u already had a child before you’re supposed to b me more careful when making decisions on marriage .u were simply happy because yu were in d public eye. for him to feel the need to disrespect yu or your family is simply your own fault .you saw the signs but turned a blind eye .its people like you that will now become born again christians smh . The way you guys met is already enough for you to take your time to know him and not rush into marrying him .u simply had no value for yourself .u met on twitter n u heard he used to beat hs fiancee and u ignore and married him .what happened to taking your time and getting to know him deep enough.so my dear noone needs to feel sorry for you.

    • chi

      December 4, 2015 at 3:07 am

      I’m not surprised at your choice of message because, only fools rejoice in destruction and anguish. I pray karma visits your doorste, someone like you deserves a vacation in torment.

    • Anon

      December 4, 2015 at 12:51 pm

      Lol some truth just really hurts .in life you get what you deserve . Only fools fall in love on twitter and rush to get married after being a single mum . She is clearly the fool here

  63. oladele

    December 4, 2015 at 12:11 am

    well 2shots sef don marry

    visit pages77.wordpress.com if you wish to get served

  64. chi

    December 4, 2015 at 3:02 am

    He never did that’s why she went to Nigeria. You be careful with yours.

  65. chi

    December 4, 2015 at 3:12 am

    To see this breaks my heart. As for those who have made it their life’s journey to assume negativity on someone going through this, I pray your journey bites your feet. We who truly love her will make sure your mean comments and derogatory comments don’t affect her. She deserves better and will get better, falling in love with a demon does not make you one.

  66. ATL's finest

    December 4, 2015 at 7:45 am

    Just imagine this mess she’s got to endure from a dude. If one man which is my dad has never laid a finger on me, there’s no bastard born by a bitch will cuz trust & believe one of us gotta answer God and it wouldn’t be me. Oh run for ya life too cuz pray my FAM don’t get hold of u too. Remember the movie Mob Mafia? Yes, welcome to my world.. God forgive sha cuz I don’t even see myself falling for such dudes. Thanks to d Lord for sending The best my way. He ain’t perfect, but abeg in the mix of a lot of crazy animals called dude, he’s an ANGEL..

  67. Ello Bae

    December 4, 2015 at 7:59 am

    I worry for Lilian Esoro.

    • ATL's finest

      December 4, 2015 at 9:51 am

      Lmao! She came to my mind too NO KIDDING. I pray she doesn’t tho & that shorty Ubi better respect himself.

  68. YUMMY CHICK CUM MUMMY

    December 4, 2015 at 10:55 am

    The guy tried to put her down by telling her no one would want her because she has 2 kids, sadly women believe that. Ladies remember you are not here to get married. You are here to live your best lives, to use your intellect to change lives and build stronger communities….. nicely said…lesson learnt

  69. Laolu

    December 4, 2015 at 12:50 pm

    This tale reminds me of Sugabellys rape allegations and how that guys wife was ranting on twitter about how the poor girl wants to ruin their marriage. It’s only a matter of time before we’ll hear another one. When stuff like this come up it’s only wise we take heed and do the needful.

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