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Uti Nwachukwu wants a Baby, But No Baby Mama Drama or Wife

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Uti Nwachukwu seems to be in a dilemma – he wants a baby, but no baby mama drama and no wife.

He later added that adoption is not an option.

Hmm… surrogacy maybe? See the tweets below.

We guess he caught baby fever because his friend in Atlanta, Georgia, USA just had a gorgeous baby girl.

Source: Instagram.com and Twitter.com | @SirUti

46 Comments

  1. EE

    October 24, 2016 at 3:07 pm

    Somebody really should him research on prospects of children from a single parent home. Especially being a celebrity, who will raise this fruit of his loins? Given a choice between tending to the child or hitting the red carpet which will he pick???

    Oh well, E no concern me.

    • Amaka

      October 24, 2016 at 3:54 pm

      Honestly, the fact that this world will soon end is no cliché. Responsibility is fast becoming an old word. You want a baby with no wife. It is easy to blame someone else. Both sexes blame each other these days but have you ever looked within yourself to find out why you keep meeting the wrong people. I am directing this question to both men and women. What are your own personal weaknesses, why does the opposite sex get involved with you and run away after a while?Abi you are the one who does the dumping all the time. Don’t say it out if you are uncomfortable. Ask God for help in humility. Instead of just accepting what life throws at you. Why not trust God for a different circumstance. Must you have a baby with no wife or have a baby with no husband. Must that be the solution. All Nigerian men are bad yet your sister married an amazing one and you know it; all Nigerian women are evil yet your brother married a great one which you attest to. Why must your case be different, who do you hang around with? Where do you go? Ponder upon these things. No one is judging you but think about how you really want your life to be. Ponder ,don’t deceive yourself please. Be true to you.

    • Fleur

      October 25, 2016 at 2:57 am

      Uti, who raised you? Did the person or people make a mistake that has caused you to want to go against nature? Women are needed to breastfeed and raise children. Before you all call me kitchen wife, I am a pant wearing corporate woman who flies half the year around the world. My husband knows how to cook dinner. But guess what I found out? Months when I am actively involved in my travels and work, my children start performing below the high standard I set for them. They start missing homework and having Bs on their tests. They also eat out all week even when I have a fridge packed with stew, soup, fried and jollof rice. Things just fall apart. They dont even tell my husband what is going on in school so he misses events and meetings. I tried to understand this and for me I concluded that my husband is a father, and cares about his children but fathering is a very different art from mothering. get over your limitations and either do it the right way or forget about it. People like you are ruining children because you think buying gifts, paying for expensive schools and securing nannies is how to raise a child. No! You must be “PRESENT.” Money wont buy you a well mannered and educated child. Effort will. and that effort is innate to women. …side note – not all women are mothers. ….And I just became a housewife to focus on my teenage kids. This is an age when you can lose them if you dont invest diligently in them. Yes, I quit my job. The job wont give me the satisfaction I get from going to celebrate my kids awards.

  2. AbiSan

    October 24, 2016 at 3:08 pm

    LOL! BN y’all set him up with that headline!
    Let me take a seat while the comments roll in!
    This will be entertaining!

    • tinuola

      October 24, 2016 at 3:19 pm

      Exactly the same thing I told myself. Uti isn’t helping himself either. This is a case of deflecting the “why aren’t you married?” question gone wrong. It will only start the “How you doing?” rumours again.

  3. Didi

    October 24, 2016 at 3:08 pm

    What’s doing this one???

  4. Carina

    October 24, 2016 at 3:20 pm

    I wish him good luck.
    This headline makes him look guilty.
    Is he gay or bisexual?

    ckjacob.com

    • Bella

      October 25, 2016 at 10:53 am

      My thought exactly, how can you want pikin with no baby mama drama or wife? so he wants to be single and get a surrogate? Uti, we have heard!

  5. Aproko

    October 24, 2016 at 3:20 pm

    Christian Ronaldo anyone???? Rumours are, he’s planning on baby number two. For proponents of a child needs a mother, what about babies whose mums die at birth. Whether circumstances dictate, or you intentionally decide, all a child needs is love, and a safe enabling environment. A single mother raised Obama. No more arguments needed. E.O.D

    • EE

      October 24, 2016 at 5:53 pm

      A single Mother raised Obama true, Dangote is also a Nigerian, neither situation changes the fact that the majority of people in the same situation WILL be worse off.

      That some people with AIDS live long fulfilling lives does not mean everybody should get AIDS, that men are less likely to get Breast cancer does not mean everybody should be men. You do not take exceptions and make them the rule.

      BTW, Obama wasn’t raised by a single parent, he spent most of his formative years with his large Indonesian step family and grand-parents. That aside, the general premise holds, children from single parent homes statistically face greater obstacles.

    • Nkechi

      October 24, 2016 at 6:18 pm

      Some people will always be deceived and not look deeper. If you find a man who raised children alone. Please interview his mum, sister or sisters first. If they played no single role in helping him out. Please give me his phone number. Some of them even had girlfriends raise those children and dumped them later. Even mama Michelle is in the white house which is a very good thing. Now that’s a couple who are together. Better not set yourself up for trouble and don’t become a bad mentor to those who have the opportunity to get it right from the beginning.

  6. bruno

    October 24, 2016 at 3:21 pm

    uti I feel ur pain. Nigerian women are nothing to write home about. their wahala is too much.

    men wanting to be single parents is becoming a new trend. men nowadays have started cutting out women and going to have kids on their own.

    I watched a mini documentary about single dads who a raising kids but themselves. they adopted kids or had kids thru surrogacy. these men are doing a great job. the kids look so happy and healthy and well adjusted.

    men are rising up to the task. and lets face it men make better parents that women.

    someone like uti, he would be an amazing parent. watch as women of bellanaija starr getting angry and threatened cause nigerian men will some realise they dont need them to have kids.

    • artklub

      October 24, 2016 at 5:33 pm

      great! u men do all the work then…carry go!

    • Pretty girl

      October 24, 2016 at 11:31 pm

      Uncle burno we have u been all these while

    • largerthanlifealice

      October 25, 2016 at 12:17 pm

      NO MONEY FOR SUBSCRIPTION

  7. bruno

    October 24, 2016 at 3:58 pm

    pardon my typing errors.

  8. oo

    October 24, 2016 at 4:00 pm

    Ask Flavour for tips

    • lino

      October 24, 2016 at 9:25 pm

      He has baby mama drama around him

    • wendypearl

      October 25, 2016 at 11:18 am

      Uti case is different oga??? oga I command you to receive brain.

  9. BlueEyed

    October 24, 2016 at 4:30 pm

    I like how more and more men are willing to single parents and raise kids on their own, the world is moving and this is a welcome development, child raising is not a “woman-thing” and spare us the “mother-child” story, many are children raised without mothers and they turned out great.
    On this topic, surrogacy is a good option Mr Uti

  10. Wanderlust _Trekeffect?

    October 24, 2016 at 4:44 pm

    When I see the word Uti all that comes to mind is Urinary tract infection lol

    • Dr. N

      October 24, 2016 at 7:09 pm

      O no you didnt!
      Lol

    • Deepizzle

      October 25, 2016 at 8:08 am

      Damn!!!U wicked,lol

  11. Sandra

    October 24, 2016 at 5:08 pm

    Hmm que the gay rumours will in 1…2…3…

  12. Bright

    October 24, 2016 at 5:31 pm

    Dear Uti,
    We have noticed you. If you really wanted a baby without a wife or baby mama, you will do the research yourself. Surrogacy is an option but then you can’t afford it.
    Imagine your dad made the exact decision you now consider….: and what makes you think your loins can bear fruit?
    Anu Mpam

  13. JJ

    October 24, 2016 at 5:34 pm

    But Uti that is not hard
    Gays can adopt or find surrogate
    This is not hard at all. You can make it happen just discuss with your gay partner

  14. artklub

    October 24, 2016 at 5:35 pm

    hahaha! i just dey laugh. the universal creator – god – who and whatever he/she/it is – Is a prankster!

  15. Mondela

    October 24, 2016 at 5:50 pm

    This wont even help matters considering the gay rumors trailing him for years…lol

    • jide

      October 24, 2016 at 6:57 pm

      The boy hasn’t been straight in a while. You dey mind am?

  16. Queen Of Sheba

    October 24, 2016 at 6:12 pm

    Errrrrmmmmm,

    I think that’s what surrogacy means ?.

    Not a wife
    Not a baby mama

    And oh! Don’t forget to take your pikin along.

  17. Klan

    October 24, 2016 at 6:47 pm

    Lol…How possible could he do that ? Maybe get pregnant??Lol

  18. jide

    October 24, 2016 at 6:55 pm

    Eh yaaaa. Babies are not accessories? If no be bad man economy, who supposed start petition begging women to marry. This uti that looks like them fan ice bicycle boys from back then. Mschewwwwwwww oshi ati iranu. Women have suffered sha.

  19. Akpeno

    October 24, 2016 at 7:18 pm

    LOL The comments are so funny and ridiculous!

    If it were a woman that said this, all the females will be shouting “Abi O”, “Men are useless girl do your thing” “You will not be the first jor” “What are Sperm banks for?”

    A man now says it and all you bitter hungry females are shouting! “He’s Gay”! “Who does he think he is?” bla bla bla

    Well he’s Uti and he is a man who has thought if his options and does not want to deal with the crap you Nigerian girls come with.
    Nigerian girls want to be feminist but with traditional views… sorry to inform you but it cannot be both… your are either a feminist or a traditional, old view cultural woman.
    Nigerian girls want rich man but don’t want to hustle with their man. Ready made men come with a LOT of “baggage” and the women who were with them during the hustle are the occupants of the “baggage”

    Uti is entitled to want what he wants just like you lot are exercising your right to spew your judgemental bile filled views.

  20. Akpeno

    October 24, 2016 at 7:26 pm

    On another note… the friend kind of looks like “The Weekend”…after his hair cut…
    youtube.com/watch?v=34Na4j8AVgA

  21. hadiza

    October 24, 2016 at 8:05 pm

    Mr Akpeno, I hate ur gender, but u said the right thing. u couldn’t have said it any better.

    • good girl

      October 24, 2016 at 9:36 pm

      awwww..hadiza you softened up on a male specie..hugs..and yes i agree with akpeno ..double standards

    • Akpeno

      October 24, 2016 at 10:32 pm

      My dear most Hadizas I know are women oh… unless you are a male Hadiza we are on the same team oh I be woman! 😀

  22. Gem

    October 24, 2016 at 8:08 pm

    Who says we cannot be both. Akpeno? LOL
    A woman can be anything she wants to be abeg. Yes, a woman can choose to eat her cake and have it…ain’t it what men do all the time?…An independent feminist can give you a run for your money and there’s no stopping her.
    So, don’t be pained over a bunch of women who keep saying “enough is enough with this gender injustice meted to women!”.

    Ok Back to this matter, Uti can do as he pleases…..as long as I and every other woman who wishes to choose this path(if need be), is allowed to peacefully and shamelessly make a choice, without pipo reminding us how we are after-thought creatures who do not deserve to be treated as equals.

    • Akpeno

      October 24, 2016 at 10:29 pm

      My dear the word feminist is the antithesis of a traditional African woman…. you cannot be both… and you most certainly cannot eat your cake and have it…

      Yes you can want what you want… getting it however is not always possible there has to be compromise… and being a feminist and a traditional Nigerian woman is next to impossible

  23. Ada

    October 25, 2016 at 7:05 am

    I feel Uti on this. I also want 2 children, a boy and a girl, with no husband or baby daddy drama. Unfortunately I already got married before I came to this self realisation.

  24. Isi

    October 25, 2016 at 7:37 am

    Sometimes we tend to lose core messages when we turn things into a men vs women discussion. How do we raise great families with war and misunderstanding between the sexes?The family is meant to be a team – a strong, loving unit; and it is the core of every society. The more great families we have, the better our society will be. Regarding the headline, babies and children aren’t “fun”. They are a HUGE responsibility and wanting a child without a wife (or without a husband as the case may be) is rather selfish and irresponsible.

    Shoutout to every single mom and dad out there who has done a great job, but that doesn’t diminish the immense value of a loving family unit. There’s nothing like it and everyone who wants the very best for their kids should strive for it.

  25. Deepizzle

    October 25, 2016 at 8:11 am

    Damn!!U wicked,lol..

  26. Valkyr

    October 25, 2016 at 10:23 am

    No baby mama/wife drama?? Hahaha.? @Uti, I feel ur non-femalism, anti-feminism..male chauvinism will come back from hell to accuse its accusers..Pls wait till I finish my Gender Studies..

  27. NinjaNurse

    October 25, 2016 at 10:31 am

    Obviously a sign of fear of responsibility, if he meant it.
    No baby mama and no wife means surrogacy of adoption.

    And who takes care of the adopted babe? A ghost? Smh

  28. Nawah

    October 28, 2016 at 8:01 am

    Uti is gay so sad he can come out of closet.! Anuofia.

  29. Rhon

    December 17, 2016 at 2:14 pm

    It sounds like the guy wants a mixed baby without coming out and saying so. He wants a white surrogate not a black one….

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