Relationships
BellaNaijarians is “Thou shalt not date a friend’s ex” a Guy/Girl code?
So, this popular Twitter NG user Victor Asemota (@asemota) shared a story of a guy who continuously dated ladies who were either friends, or knew each other from somewhere.
Long story short… NVM. Read the thread and ‘enjoy’ the story:
Dude comes to me literally crying. His girlfriend broke up with him for no reason (as we always claim) and he was miserable. I gave ? & ?
— Victor Asemota (@asemota) December 7, 2016
3 months later, he had moved on but….. with one of her friends. He didn’t plan for the blowback. It was as if Hell released its demons
— Victor Asemota (@asemota) December 7, 2016
He could not understand why this was a problem but I am sure the ladies understood. There was a code. “Thou shalt not date a friend’s ex”
— Victor Asemota (@asemota) December 7, 2016
7 months later, dude proposed to new girlfriend and she did not accept. He was heartbroken again and…. pic.twitter.com/4GX3LjWt9R
— Victor Asemota (@asemota) December 7, 2016
Dude decides to move on once again after some months. He then meets this gorgeous young lady and falls in love again. He is a “lover man” pic.twitter.com/pUHyxddZLG
— Victor Asemota (@asemota) December 7, 2016
2 months into this new relationship, new girlfriend discovers that she went to school with other two former girlfriends…..starts to shift pic.twitter.com/T2qsEaTOzQ
— Victor Asemota (@asemota) December 7, 2016
She bailed! Dude is now branded a “bad guy” #YorubaDemon when all he wanted was to love a woman! Only unlucky that the women knew each other pic.twitter.com/kGJIxMc6Ur
— Victor Asemota (@asemota) December 7, 2016
All 3 girls were Yoruba and lived in Lagos. So he decides not to date any Yoruba girl. Went to Manchester for Masters and met an Igbo girl
— Victor Asemota (@asemota) December 7, 2016
One day he was at Manchester City Center with his new girlfriend, he came across his first ex. She knew his current girlfriend. He gave up! pic.twitter.com/LUwvTI12QC
— Victor Asemota (@asemota) December 7, 2016
Dude is now a full time alcoholic. He has sworn off Nigerian women. He is looking for a Japanese lady to marry when he gets sober. pic.twitter.com/JvIOob5z69
— Victor Asemota (@asemota) December 7, 2016
People wonder why I married a Ghanaian. To avoid the Nigerian Women Mafia! They never forget and are everywhere!! Even my wife has links too
— Victor Asemota (@asemota) December 7, 2016
Asemota claimed that there was a code among ladies – “Thou shalt not date a friend’s ex” – so we just want to hear your thoughts on this.
Ladies, is there a code? Guys do you have such a code? Everyone, have you had a similar experience? Let us know.