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OAP Sensei Uche makes Toke Makinwa his #WCW with a Marriage Proposal | Says “A woman, no matter how successful, needs to be loved and cared for”



sensei-uche-toke-makinwaThis is so sweet.

OAP Sensei Uche is reaching out to make Toke Makinwa his Woman Crush Wednesday as well as make a marriage proposal (a serious one?). He explained that she has all the features he wants in a woman and he also admired her strength.

Read his post below.

#WCW #SenseiStyle

Being a woman, whatever society she finds herself in, is hard. It’s not bad enough she has to deal with that time of the month every month or scream to the edge of death while bearing a child, she has to deal with cat calls (if she’s a hottie) or snide remarks (if otherwise).

And these difficulties are prevalent in Nigeria, especially in the media or entertainment industry.

Buy or build a plush house in a choice area and you’re called a prostitute who was done a favour by one big businessman or top government official. Put your life story in a book and sell, they will say you only did so just to make money.

You are almost never given a chance to air your views or live and enjoy your life without someone having something negative to say about you.

As I contemplated on writing this, I looked at all the qualities that I personally like in a woman: ambitious, intelligent, adventurous, focused, independent minded, beautiful, respectful; these are just a few. And I see all these traits in Toke Makinwa, who has been constantly vilified by people.

Despite being through so much adversity she has always found a way to turn it around for good, and that tenacity of her will is what many people do not see and appreciate. Even those who are close to her sometimes criticize her for being who she is: an ambitious woman with a strong drive to write her name in the sands of time.

However, no matter how much she has been hurt, Toke has always found a way to forgive and let go. That is another remarkable trait. A woman, no matter how successful, needs to be loved and cared for. And no matter her shortcomings, needs to be loved and cared for too. We all have flaws, but learning to love a person in spite of their flaws is a quality of those who truly love others, and it helps to fan the embers of any relationship.

Therefore, I have chosen to love the imperfections of a successful woman like Toke Makinwa, because she possesses qualities any reasonable man desires.

So Toke (@tokemakinwa) will you marry me? ☺


  1. Marie Antoinette

    December 14, 2016 at 2:18 pm

    Nice try bro ??. But ermm…I think she’s taken

    • Loki

      December 14, 2016 at 5:40 pm

      Are you sure? Isn’t the Nigerian position “so far say you never go stand for church…”?

  2. Chic

    December 14, 2016 at 2:24 pm

    Most men like good things, but when they get it they begin to feel the opposite way, maybe due to the “see-finish syndrome”. They like the idea of you but cannot handle the reality of you.

    • Seriously

      December 14, 2016 at 10:08 pm

      @chic 100% true.
      I finally read Toke’s book. I expected worst with the way people kept saying oh, It’s one sided, Maje will sue her. People should read it before making judgement. It was a good read. She didn’t put anything that isn’t already a known fact or shocking possibility. Or anything that will jeopardize Maje’s fitness business. she just shared her experience in her love life. She didn’t share deep personal secrets about Maje or Anita. I sympathize with her losing losing her parent & family, house helps in such a traumatizing way at a young age.

      I don’t understand why she gets so much hate. She’s just a regular woman like most people who go through different experiences in life that shapes their perception. You make mistakes, as long as you are open to learn and grow along the way.
      Lesson learned, when a man shows he doesn’t value you, respect and committed to you. Let him go. Stop forcing it.
      He didn’t love her but used her for his own pleasure but loved Anita more. However, he’s probably cheating in Anita too. Women, stop being stupid.

  3. Peace

    December 14, 2016 at 2:24 pm

    Taken by who?

  4. Rrrrrrr

    December 14, 2016 at 2:47 pm

    She isn’t married yet so………….( IK on the beat)

    • hollybaby

      December 14, 2016 at 2:56 pm

      hahahaha! I see what you did there.

    • Oloye

      December 14, 2016 at 3:10 pm

      I see you you oo! lol

    • "changing moniker"

      December 14, 2016 at 3:35 pm

      i see what you did, but i’m not sure i want to…

  5. Marlvina

    December 14, 2016 at 2:57 pm

    Lol ? End-time proposal. When people start proposing on social media without the person in sight, you know the hustle is real too. What a bold move ? Anyways, I actually like his write-up. Some truth in it though.

  6. @edDREAMZ

    December 14, 2016 at 3:08 pm

    That woman is a vampire…. No let her release part two for your head o…

  7. ab

    December 14, 2016 at 3:15 pm

    Anything to get in the news, use Toke Maks! ~YAWNS!!! and no there’s no hate here just saying before all the Toke people come out!!. I bet this dude has other women around him just as good , if not even better than Toke but we have to stay relevant and need to be seen on Blogs and TV!! Move over biko

  8. Amh

    December 14, 2016 at 3:27 pm

    In his dream. He looks dirty and unwashed. He should not dirty tokes skin abeg. Am sure its a joke. When he’s not mad. Toke was gracious to reply him in a civilized manner.

    • The Real Oma

      December 14, 2016 at 3:35 pm

      Erm, he looks dirty and unwashed? Where did that come from????

    • Darius

      December 14, 2016 at 4:41 pm

      Are you the Real Oma of Dream FM Enugu? Just curious.

    • The Real Oma

      December 14, 2016 at 10:48 pm

      @Darius, lol, no… though i have been told many times i have a great voice for radio…. lol.

    • Atreides

      December 14, 2016 at 3:40 pm

      He should not stain Toke natural fair skin abi?
      I agree.

    • Atreides

      December 14, 2016 at 3:47 pm

      He should not stain Toke’s very natural fair skin abi?
      I agree…

  9. Tee

    December 14, 2016 at 3:40 pm

    Rere run#In Brymo’s voice

  10. king Bey

    December 14, 2016 at 3:42 pm

    U want to becom another Maje for Toke? Mr no way..all these broke men that like hanging around successful women..where were u when she was still struggling? Gold digging naija men


    December 14, 2016 at 3:50 pm

    I bow oh! He looks good and while this is pretty sweet, he shld go ahead and chase her and don’t do social media love biko! He’s single, she’s single.

  12. Fed up

    December 14, 2016 at 3:53 pm

    Guy I swear u don’t Luv her,
    Where have u being all the while
    When she suffered “pain””negelate”
    “Thinking trauma” This is just a sign of pure infatuation” cuz if u have real Luv for her real self,u won’t put up this write up I call piece of trash..u want to eat the cake u have not baked…All this OAP guys u beinging to get on my nerves in search for fame,u come online and say absolutely trash..lives of yaw and the rest…be sensitive and don’t be an O.P on issues…Sensei Uche pls pls I beg of u, don’t add to the pain of a woman, who doesn’t still know what she want….

  13. Bellanaijarian

    December 14, 2016 at 3:56 pm

    No reputation got on that..Sensei Uche.

  14. Rahama

    December 14, 2016 at 4:12 pm

    How sweet. Wish all nigerian men are and think like him. Yes every woman deserves to be loved and cared for. Toke if you’re not serious with the new guy, give Sensei a chance na…..

  15. Lucinda

    December 14, 2016 at 4:28 pm

    Playing to the gallery to stay relevant. Same thing Drake did with Rihanna. Even if he is serious, he’s not Toke’s type; Black and crispy like sooth with ashy lips.

    • Loki

      December 14, 2016 at 5:45 pm

      Your very description of him as “Black and crispy like sooth with ashy lips.” is the very reason people like Toke and the millions of other clients of the skin bleaching industry feel the need to lighten their skin. What’s wrong with his complexion that you have to diss him about it?
      Black skin is not an insult. I wish more black people understood that.

    • Lucinda

      December 15, 2016 at 2:21 pm

      It’s not that serious, I’m dark myself. Besides, men don’t really send that societal pressure thing on physical appearance.

    • Loki

      December 15, 2016 at 2:50 pm

      @Lucinda, tell that to Bobrisky, Pela Okiemute, Fmr Gov Akala and the MANY men lightening their skin these days.
      Apparently, tall, DARK and handsome is no longer a thing with black people.
      Still think it’s not serious?

  16. Toluwalope

    December 14, 2016 at 4:41 pm

    Awon onijibiti tunti de o

  17. Def

    December 14, 2016 at 7:19 pm


  18. Toyin

    December 14, 2016 at 8:00 pm

    UCHE, Toke is still married o! The court has not dissolved the marriage yet. lf you are serious you won’t toast her on social media. You are trying to use her to gain popularity. Besides l think she already might have someone.

  19. Letty

    December 15, 2016 at 4:36 am

    Has she forgiven?

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