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I have trained my son to be a proper husband and father – Aisha Yesufu writes Future Daughter-in-law



Bring Back Our Girls group co-convener Aisha Yesufu shared a message to her future daughter-in-law on Twitter.

She shared a video on the platform, telling her future daughter-in-law she has brought up her son to be a proper husband and father.

She wrote as the video’s caption:

Dear future daughter-in-law I have brought up my son to be a proper husband & father. Don’t go & spoil him by giving him sense of entitlement.

See the video below:

Photo Credit: Twitter – @AishaYesufu


  1. Bolaji

    July 31, 2017 at 10:29 pm

    Omoni part 2. Let me ask the same question so they don’t say i discriminate. What if he likes boys?

    • EE

      July 31, 2017 at 10:31 pm

      Close, but you need to go deeper, why does she assume all women want to get married? Why is she determining her son’s training based on marriage? and so on.

    • Smh

      August 1, 2017 at 2:29 am

      1+1=yam. Whether it’s girls gen likes or cats. He will Shan be a useful and able bodied partner and not an entitled man-child
      @EE I don’t see anywhere where she assumed all women want to get married. She referenced 1 future daughter in-law so your point makes no sense. Try again . If we are constantly training girl for “husbands house” why shouldn’t we also train men for marital home. Go and sit down abeg. Una like any opportunity to go off point

    • Lol

      August 1, 2017 at 3:21 am

      Fake deep stuff y’all are posting. Just keep it moving.

    • akama

      August 1, 2017 at 8:34 am

      @Bolaji What if she knows his sexual orientation?

    • Mama

      August 1, 2017 at 8:57 am

      Lame question! If she had talked about him becoming a doctor or responsible citizen, would you ask “what if he decides to become an armed robber?”

    • Sally

      August 2, 2017 at 5:45 pm

      Bolaji and EE, are you guys okay at all? Your village people have rewired your neurons.


    August 1, 2017 at 10:03 am

    Whattttt? Chief must not see this! ?

    Aisha Yesufu is a QUEEN. If more mothers do this the next generations of Nigerian wives will be the happiest in the history of Nigerian wives. ?

  3. Stellamaris

    August 1, 2017 at 10:07 am

    Please people just have a laugh, do we need to analyse everything mbok?

  4. OJ

    August 1, 2017 at 12:01 pm

    There future daughter in law, i hope you will also be the proper wife and mother he desires…dont go believing you are entitled to what ever you want, whenever you want it and where ever you want it….The advice goes both ways!!!

    • Anon

      August 1, 2017 at 12:10 pm


  5. Bolaji

    August 5, 2017 at 8:37 am

    @sally, yes I am okay 🙂
    @mama yes i would have asked that.

    Parents often project their wishes on to their children. That is why we grow up feeling we must do certain things or act certain ways and feel incomplete if we do not live up to these expectations.

    @akama, what if he is not telling the truth? 🙂

    • Smh

      August 9, 2017 at 11:17 am

      Why not speak for yourself? From your posts, it is easy to tell which part of the fence you sit on but please don’t project it on others.

  6. Theresa Doghor

    August 11, 2017 at 4:05 pm

    I am delighted that she is a feminist Hausa lady
    By the way feminist isn’t an ugly word
    She has trained her son to be useful to his wife

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