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This Young Man was Sexually Abused at 14 by a Benefactor turned Boyfriend | Listen to His Story on The Talk With Vanessa



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The Talk with Vanessa is a podcast hosted by Vanessa Willie, a certified Relationship and a Marriage Coach. The show features counseling on real issues being faced by people in today’s society. Contemporary issues like addiction, abuse, and relationships are understandably given particular focus and listeners are encouraged to talk about their various problems to get counseling, therapy, basic help when needed and a support system to get through life’s challenges.

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After losing his father at a very tender age, today’s guest who is a male, was taken advantage of sexually by another man at age 14.

Here’s the story: Things became tough for him, his mother and his three siblings after his father’s death, then someone introduced him to a “young guy” who was always giving him gifts. Later on, he started asking for sex from today’s guest and he couldn’t resist because he felt it was a way of paying him back for all the gifts he’s been getting.

They continued their sexual relations for years even until when today’s guest gained admission into higher institution. He described his benefactor as his then boyfriend.

When he started listening to The Talk With Vanessa, he knew the life he was living wasn’t his and decided to cut ties with his boyfriend.

Now, he says he feels free and looks forward to a brighter future.

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1 Comment

  1. kike

    July 16, 2018 at 2:38 pm

    Ohhh dear am glad you ended it but thats not the end, you need to accept Jesus christ as your saviour with your mouth,ask for forgiveness and he will forgive you. Read the new testaments that talks about who you are in christ Jesus over and again,keep confessing it to yourself everyday before you leave and believe you are a new creature. Attend a good churfh nearby i would suggest WINNERS chapel or christ embassy,also get books on your new identity in christ jesus. Remember praying to God to keep and uphold you is very important. You are not your feelings rather you are who God through the bible say you are, dont believe the lies of the devil. Welcome to the greatest family in the whole world, we love you.

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