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“She is Asking Me Out Now” – Harrysong puts Ex-Girlfriend on Blast



Some ladies stay through the thick and thin, while others just can’t handle the trying times.

Music star Harrysong opens up about a relationship with a former flame who he really loved. According to the “Kolombo” act, she couldn’t handle the distance as he pursued his career in Lagos, while she stayed in Warri because she was in a hurry to tie the knot.

Harrysong is basically saying every woman should wait for their man.

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“Oh yes, I remember when I came to Lagos, I was in a relationship back in Warri, and at that time she gave me the option of coming back to Warri to get married to her because she wasn’t comfortable with the distance or I should face my career and forget about her.

So I thought about it, and I begged her to be patient because I had no money, but she said she couldn’t wait because she has other interested guys on her case and her parents wanted her to get married quickly too.

So I wished her luck and kept on hustling with my career in Lagos. just yesterday, the same girl called me asking for asking for a date, apparently she’s still not married.”


  1. Observer

    August 28, 2014 at 10:49 am

    And this is news because?

    • Eyitayo

      August 28, 2014 at 10:54 am

      because you read it!

    • ade

      August 28, 2014 at 11:42 am

      @eyitayo odte

    • Savannah

      September 3, 2014 at 1:59 am

      Well, like me — maybe he/she was expecting a real story!

    • Koenigin

      August 28, 2014 at 11:00 am

      you betta ask dem o! mcheew

  2. bruno

    August 28, 2014 at 10:52 am

    This issue of marriage in nigeria is out of hand oh, what is the big deal about marriage, if u ask me,I think marriage is so over rated. Every nigerian girl can’t wait to be another man’s property. Many nigerian couples are not happy in their marriages but would never get a divorce.

    • i no send

      August 28, 2014 at 11:23 am

      @bruno..the words always used by lonely people to console themselves..when the get a soulmate mouth begins to change…..”he is my best friend”bla bla bla

    • nene

      August 28, 2014 at 7:05 pm

      you speak the truth. or they become “born again” by force.

    • slice

      August 28, 2014 at 8:49 pm

      just to say marriage is not the way to keep from being bored/lonely. marriage can actually make you bored and lonely as others depart and leave u with one source of company. best thing is to dedicate your life to something. I’m always shocked at the number of lonely people in New York (for example) when there are so many places to volunteer to help others


      August 29, 2014 at 12:48 am


  3. MrsHappy

    August 28, 2014 at 10:56 am

    He is trying to tell us that he has arrived na…lol

    • SA_chic

      August 28, 2014 at 11:08 am


    • Di

      August 28, 2014 at 3:41 pm

      New money syndrome. Many Naija guys with this same disease, few months into it they start calling women gold diggers smh.

  4. Nina

    August 28, 2014 at 11:05 am

    Really confused here “confused face” Because he has perhaps 10 million Naira in his account hez now an eligible bachelor????????? his ex girlfriend must be hungry, and he, an immature moron for disrespecting her!

    • i no send

      August 28, 2014 at 11:25 am

      i think he is just recalling how hurt he must hv been at that time……we hv all had episodes like that when an ex whom u really loved stages a come back

  5. kechi

    August 28, 2014 at 11:09 am

    lol has he arrived i don’t think so oooooo still struggling #just saying#

  6. christabel

    August 28, 2014 at 11:16 am

    Hey,whatever your name is,so what should we do with this information?

  7. Belios

    August 28, 2014 at 11:19 am

    Bellanaija.. seriously you put this up???


    August 28, 2014 at 11:31 am

    Sorry for the gf, life goes on though

  9. lynara

    August 28, 2014 at 11:40 am

    Just hold on…errm is he saying that he never changed his number? #justasking

    • Fashionista

      August 28, 2014 at 9:03 pm

      Lmao! The way your mind works ehn.

  10. Grown Woman

    August 28, 2014 at 11:40 am

    Lmao sorry to laugh but see what us women put ourselves into now…girls, please learn to be patient and don’t be going around chasing every Tom Dick and Harry to marry you lol

    • slice

      August 28, 2014 at 12:26 pm

      i respect ladies that reach out to men they like. it has worked many times and if it doesn’t, what’s the worse that can happen. now she knows he’s a blabla mouth and won’t make a good husband (if he can’t keep your confidence and protect you, he’s not worth it) and she can move on. better than wondering what might have been

    • A-de-le not adele

      August 28, 2014 at 5:28 pm

      Your take: “Now she knows he’s a blabla mouth and won’t make a good husband (if he can’t keep your confidence and protect you, he’s not worth it)
      Why brand the gentleman the villain? Not his fault dear, She knew the hustle(Performing art) before they started the said relationship. Moreover he begged her;Remember??? She no gree, apparantly plenty suitor dey backyard. But now wey level don change, she won show face, pitch tent…… if i hear! After stating her condition???
      My take dear; No man wants to know his a contingent with A, B, And C or more, that’s were he washed his hands off her matter

    • slice

      August 28, 2014 at 8:51 pm

      well mi love just make sure you don’t marry a guy like that. many guys have forgiven ladies who did worse. I’m not saying take her back but a gentleman will never put a lady from his past or present in bad light. some other chick will marry him now and be like i got the goods. no baby you’ve got a man who doesn’t know how to protect a woman.

    • Fre

      August 28, 2014 at 3:58 pm

      Tom, Dick and Harrysong 😀

  11. Bella

    August 28, 2014 at 11:48 am

    Marriage is a serious brainwash disease in Nigeria. Kilode? Marriage is not the beginning nor end of a life. Please the sooner we teach and advise every female out there that its not a death sentence to be unmarried is when we can set an example of a good fulfilled life. Please enough already. We seriously do not need the pressure as females to get hitched with even the last lepricorn all because of marriage, what of happiness? is that no longer an issue, so people would rather die of High Blood pressure in a useless marriage. Mtchew

  12. nihinlola

    August 28, 2014 at 12:41 pm

    lmao. yall can like to kill sumone with ur comments.

  13. Jenni

    August 28, 2014 at 12:48 pm

    Lol, he makes me lol. Just the picture is enough.

  14. Olusesan

    August 28, 2014 at 1:06 pm

    Lol, so funny. THE desperation for marriage amongst Nigerian women is so Interesting.

  15. Ephi

    August 28, 2014 at 1:17 pm

    Preach it sis!

  16. Single Shalewa, Bitter Bintu!

    August 28, 2014 at 1:43 pm

    Dear Harrysong, I won’t be shocked if you wake up tomorrow and deny this interview. Yes, you’re that silly. Remember how you denied the incest story? Talented dude for real but his foot is usually in his mouth.

  17. IFY J

    August 28, 2014 at 1:55 pm

    All of you condemning Harrysong shld take a chill pill. If you have not experienced wht he went through,it will be so easy to call him names. He has not arrived,but he is far better than you. Yes! You

    • nnenne

      August 28, 2014 at 2:38 pm

      he is far better than you. speak for yourself

  18. papermoon

    August 28, 2014 at 2:12 pm

    no its his desperation to be popular thats so obvious. what matured man would tell such a story to the public. who knows if he is not making it up for attention?

  19. ATL's finest

    August 28, 2014 at 2:17 pm

    First, I do not know this Harrysong of a guy so I wish him all the best in his career. Second, @ Bruno you are right. Nigerians need to calm down a little bit with this marriage tingly! Yea, a lot of people want to get married, but you can’t force a man to propose or tie the knot in a jiffy when he’s not ready. He doesn’t have the $$$$ , let him be & if you have been with him for a minute, you’ve a choice to leave amicably. It doesn’t have to be a do or die affair. ” the moment where you attend a wedding; & they say oh when is yours? Or you are next?” etc moments like that, I want to slap a dawg on piece of sh!t out of someone”..Nigerian mentality.. After school, is marriage & when you finally do, they are gazing at your stomach if a baby is growing smh.. ” it’s called freedom of living & let everyone make their choice”.

  20. kweenliz

    August 28, 2014 at 2:44 pm

    experience I don’t want to talk about,I believe the fault could be for both side

  21. SpeakTheTruth

    August 28, 2014 at 3:02 pm

    bella naija be steady posting Linda Ikeji type gists… #WhatHappenedToBN?


    August 28, 2014 at 3:35 pm


  23. Ruky

    August 28, 2014 at 3:53 pm

    I think both were at fault. She asked for marriage, and he said no. Did he expect the girl to wait for him when he was being inconsistent now.I am guessing she did not ask for marriage after dating him for two months. I know of someone that was talking to a guy close to 2 years, but he kept using his career as an excuse on not to commit. I agree with her for dumping him. After meeting my husband, I have come to the conclusion that once a guy wants you, nothing will hold him back except the girl he is courting refuses him. If he was not willing to see her parents to know his intention of the future. There was no point going any further. However, since she came back, you can politely decline, not embarrass her on a public platform.

    • Di

      August 28, 2014 at 5:03 pm

      Best comment here.
      If he really loved her, would have married her anyways and continue with his hustling, most of our parents did it. Any girl ready to marry you at your poor state does love you. Today’s Naija man wants to build an empire b4 settling down.

  24. Fre

    August 28, 2014 at 3:57 pm

    This guy needs to shut up. So immature!
    Who cares?
    That might not have been her only reason there’s a lot more that goes on behind the scenes in relationships and she probably considered other things. Maybe your attitude? Might have been her only reason, bt just saying…
    Guys are quick to have self imposed amnesia

  25. Ruky

    August 28, 2014 at 3:59 pm

    I believe there is double standard in Nigeria. The guys want the girl to stay with him through thick and thin, but does that apply to the girl. If your girl say she has cancer, would you stay with her or cut loose before she start asking you for financial support for her treatment?.

  26. j4judith

    August 28, 2014 at 4:09 pm

    All this male 9ja celebrities with their story story, u will not tell us the stories of the ones u broke their hearts

  27. benny

    August 28, 2014 at 4:26 pm

    First off, we are only getting Harry’s side of the gist ( we didn’t ask for it but it is in our faces so here goes…)
    It is one thing to wait for ur partner to make it and it is another to put up with their shenanigans while you wait. This lady may not have been in an actual rush to marry, she probably wanted that commitment; the reassurance that her wait was not in vain. Given the way this Harry fella goes about his hunt for fame, wait or no wait, she for lose.
    Many women wait for men who disappoint them in the end. Same with the men. that waiting of a thing can be tricky.
    Ur man moves to lagos. U go from lovey dovey to long distance relationship. no one knows if communication became strained in the process.
    If oga Kcee really loved her and was not anticipating the juiciness of Lagos Omoges, he could have made some form of commitment. He didn’t have to marry immediately. People de engage for 5 years.
    Marriage is not everything but a commitment even for reassurance in a REAL loving relationship is a good move.
    heaven knows how many times babes tell their men that they have other people on their case just to shake him up. E de happen.

    • Mama mia!!!

      August 28, 2014 at 5:36 pm

      Abi o, if he really wanted marrying her money or no money he would have done all it took to make it happen. Men and their nonsense! wasn’t it his brother in Christ kcee that denied his own wife having made “all the money” in the world? Abegi, not a “garri and tea”. Sister, wherever you are move on jare forget this one he had no intention of ever marrying you now trynna play the victim.

    • L

      August 29, 2014 at 8:38 am

      True, however, you guys conveniently missed the part where she said ‘other guys are on her case’. If that statement is true, most guys will back out no matter the level of love. meaning she has side boyfriends while they were dating. That being said, he was not supposed to mention this relationship in public. This guy na real amebo.

  28. kate

    August 28, 2014 at 4:41 pm

    Pls harry go slip jor u dey lie

  29. nene

    August 28, 2014 at 7:04 pm

    why won’t he put he ron blast? he clearly loved her, she broke his heart, and she loved money. i think he still likes her, though i don’t think the girl wants him back for the right reasons. patience is important in everything we do.

    • slice

      August 28, 2014 at 8:52 pm

      she didn’t love money. it wasn’t about money. it was about getting married. remember she wanted him to marry her even though he had nothing then. she just wanted to be married to him or to someone not necessarily a rich person.

  30. Mabel

    August 28, 2014 at 8:46 pm

    Why did he choose to publicly humiliate her like this? I am sure many people in Warri knows who she is now, and that she has called him asking for a date. If he loved her has he said, he would not have brought this up. Immature guy

  31. Here dee

    August 28, 2014 at 9:26 pm


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