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Susan Peters shares 20 Tips on how Married Men can be Better Husbands

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Nollywood actress Susan Peters she listed on her social media page 20 tips, with bible references, on how married men can be better husbands to their wives.

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●Don’t shout at your wife when you are talking. It really hurts her. (Proverbs 15:1)
●Do not speak evil of her to anyone. Your wife will become who you call her. (Gen. 2:19)
●Do not share her love or affection with another woman. It is called Adultery. (Matt. 5:28)
●Never compare your wife to another woman. If the other woman was good for you, God would have given her to you. (2 Cor. 10:12)
●Don’t ever allow her to beg you for sex. She owns your body just as you own her body. (1 Cor. 7:5)
●Be gentle and accommodating. She has sacrificed so much to be with you. It hurts her deeply when you are hash and irritating. Be tender. (Eph. 4:2)
●Hide nothing from her. You are now one and she’s your helpmeet. Let there be no secret you are keeping from her. (Gen. 2:25)
●Do not make negative comment about her body. She risked her life and beauty to carry your babies. She is a living soul not just flesh and blood.
●Do not let her body determine her worth. Cherish and appreciate her even till old age. (Eph. 5:29)
●Never shout at her in the public and in private. If you have an issue to sort with her, do it in the privacy of your room. (Matt. 1:19)
●Thank and appreciate her for taking good care of you, the kids and the house. It is a great sacrifice she is making. (1 The 5:18)
●All women cannot cook the same way; appreciate your wife’s food. It is not easy to cook three meals a day, 365 days a year for several years. (Pro. 31:14)
●Never place your siblings before her. She is your wife. She is one with you. She must come before your family. (Gen. 2:24)
●Invest seriously in her spiritual growth. Buy books, tapes and any material that will edify her and strengthen her walk with God. That’s the best thing you can do for her. (Eph. 5:26)
●Spend time with her to do Bible study and pray. (James 5:16)
●Make time to play with her and enjoy her company. Remember when you are dead, she’s gonna be by your grave but your friends may be too busy to attend your funeral. (Ecc. 9:9)
●Never use money to manipulate or control her. All your money belongs to her. She is a joint heir with you of the grace of God. (1 Pet. 3:7)
●Do not expose her weakness. You will be exposing yourself.

23 Comments

  1. Hmmm

    June 16, 2016 at 8:41 am

    Good points,when did Susan get married?less than few years now I suppose?

    Please after your tenth anniversary your advice then will be better due to experience which they say is the best teacher.

    • Rubbish

      June 16, 2016 at 12:33 pm

      When you’re getting treated in the hospital do you only ask for a doctor that has at least 10 years of treatment? Nigerians are just full of it. I wonder what you guys learn in your 5 hour churches when you can’t even apply common respect and sensitivity to your neighbor

    • Loool

      June 16, 2016 at 6:09 pm

      5 hour churches, lmaoooo!! That was funny!

  2. olylicious Baby

    June 16, 2016 at 8:42 am

    Well said! God Bless You! Happy Fathers Day 2 All d Wonderful Fathers/Husbands in d World

  3. B

    June 16, 2016 at 8:47 am

    AMEN. I love the fact that these are based on scripture. I will definitely share with my fiance but i will also use this to advise myself on how to treat him also. Our love and good treatment of each other should be mutually exclusive, even where one slacks the other picks up the slack! Husband and wife are one so no one loses out. Good read!

  4. King Bey

    June 16, 2016 at 9:05 am

    Good points…Susan you are beautiful

  5. Faith

    June 16, 2016 at 9:08 am

    Very thoughtful words for our men.

  6. Spunky

    June 16, 2016 at 9:26 am

    Nice one! If one abides by all, it should be perfect…hard though but doable.

  7. Mr. Egghead

    June 16, 2016 at 10:20 am

    “All your money belongs to her” ???

    “All women cannot cook the same way; appreciate your wife’s food. It is not easy to cook three meals a day, 365 days a year for several years.” ??? Does this mean women are supposed to cook for their husbands? I thought . .nvm

    “Don’t ever allow her to beg you for sex”
    How do y0u even know when a woman wants to have sex? Women show red light, yellow light and even when they give the green light, it is really dim

    • Strit Kredibility

      June 16, 2016 at 12:12 pm

      Egghead you are unwell. don’t come and spoil this beautiful post for our women. Anything to make our women happy i will support the motion. I wholeheartedly subscribe to this, only the part that says…”Never place your siblings before her. She is your wife. She is one with you. She must come before your family. (Gen. 2:24)”. That one is a potential thin line and a known family destroyer. Thread with caution there. Every other one ko s’ohun to baje, nothing spoil.

    • Oma

      June 16, 2016 at 10:32 pm

      LOL, this made me laugh Egghead!

    • AlienSexGod

      April 12, 2017 at 8:34 am

      The moral of this story is get a wife who loves SeX (Spiritual Energy Xchange) and begs for sex A LOT. Then she won’t be “dim” she will be a bright light that is lots of fun and doing any other things (like the rest of the list) for some one you are having great HoT SeXual LOVE with is so easy! 🙂 Wishing us all load of laughs, great sex and L<3VE!

  8. Bee

    June 16, 2016 at 10:23 am

    @hmmm i dont think one needs to be married for long before he /she can give marriage advice. bear in mind some marriage counsellors are not married. if you want to take the advice she is giving please do if not scroll over. Good job susan, will definitely share with my friends

  9. ujay

    June 16, 2016 at 11:42 am

    O di mma…

  10. Queen

    June 16, 2016 at 12:06 pm

    Absolutely spot on! I know some men that have a check mark on all these points. Well said!

  11. OJ

    June 16, 2016 at 12:38 pm

    ”All your money belongs to her”….interesting!!! waiting for the self made hardworking independent women to comment

  12. princevinco

    June 16, 2016 at 12:49 pm

    Well said, but it takes a well committed husband to do most of the things listed above. However, the actions of men are influenced by the actions of their wives, so it is when a woman behaves well towards her husbands that the man could do most of the things said above. In other words, a woman who is not submissive or respect her husband should not expect from her husband most of the things said above

    • molarah

      June 16, 2016 at 1:29 pm

      Nah. Leadership is supposed to come from the man: if a wife is not being submissive or respectful the man should alter his behaviour first and be a good role model. Usually an disrespectful wife is reacting to a behaviour her husband is consciously or unconsciously displaying: women rarely initiate bad behaviour as they are taught from birth and by society that husbands should be respected.

    • dre

      June 19, 2016 at 8:29 am

      So all these points should also be observed by the wife why only talking about what man should do Marriage is about equality so at least say that this is also applicable to the wife

  13. Tosin

    June 16, 2016 at 2:45 pm

    i only made it through the first five. nice effort, speaks for some women, does not match what i want or need or feel though. maybe people are different?

  14. Roma

    June 16, 2016 at 3:46 pm

    Lovely points. I like the idea of following up her points with bible reference.
    I know all my husband money belongs to me and our son, he’s aware of that too. ”SideEye”
    Same rules applies to both husband and wife except that of money.

  15. Adio_Braimoh

    June 16, 2016 at 4:41 pm

    Good write with reference. I appreciate ur kind gesture for sharing this good thoughts to reckon with. God bless you!

  16. DEEDEE

    June 17, 2016 at 5:41 pm

    SPOT ON!…GOD BLESS YOU FOR SPREADING THE WORD

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