“It’s All Up To You”: Nnamdi Oboli Gives Marital Advice

Omoni and Nnamdi Oboli

Nnamdi Oboli, the husband of Nollywood actress cum producer, Omoni Oboli on Saturday shared some marital advice via his Instagram handle.

Oboli, who is the author of the book, “Marriage For Better For Us”, in his poetic piece titled “Its’s All Up To You”, said:

Today, it’s anger towards the husband for putting up the toilet sit

But a little stretch of the hand to put it down would stop the dissension brewing in hell’s pit

The toothpaste tube conversation stretches through, to usurp valuable quality time

But a little shutting of the mouth would have stopped the irretrievable hateful words like the mouth that has just tasted bitter lime

The love we profess to one another suffers under the tyranny of our quest for selfish dominance

But the nurture and realization of our professed love must always be given the utmost importance

The individuality of each of the couple must lose its meaning from what it was before marriage

But not entirely at the expense of losing your valuable attributes that once were the attraction, thereby suppressing unexpressed rage.

Marriage is not a do or die affair, so don’t go into it hurriedly just because

But marriage is a do or die affair that couples must fight for within godly reason to achieve a worthy cause

Many people hurriedly open their mouths to aggravate situations which often only serve to entertain a third party’s musings

But learn to control and guard your God-given territory, knowing that love covers a multitude of sins

It may seem like a simple advice cannot solve the complicated web of problems we’ve wielded for ourselves

But complications are our way of displaying our prideful ways to God so that mankind can feel they have total control of themselves.

Photo Credit: Instagram/@nnamdioboli